Chit Chat Grwm + Girl Talk Ft. Hairvivi Lace Front Wig | Yt Advice + More Kids + Selfcare Motivation

Hey you guys, what's up welcome back to another video on my Channel today we are doing a little q. A chit chat, get ready with me, and I'm also going to give you guys the details on this hair, because I know you know this. So, if you're interested on here, what we talk about and getting into some tea and also checking out this hair stay tuned, hey y'all, you're, doing a cute little q, a today or Chit Chat q. A! I don't really know what I'm gon na tell this video. You guys, I did ask you guys to leave me some questions and some topics over on Instagram. So if you miss that opportunity do not worry, this is not gon na be the last one. I love having my dialogue with y'all and I feel like this is a really good way for us to interact. So if you enjoyed this video, do not forget to leave me a comment if you want to see more of these, so I just want to give Hair beauty a huge shout out for being such an amazing company to work with you guys from a customer service Perspective literally a 12 out of 10., they have been amazing to work with the sweetest people. Just I love having such a good experience with companies from a creative standpoint. Now, let's get into the actual wig everything he has probably the best quality, wigs that I've ever experienced thus far, and you already know that I'd be wearing wigs and most of my wigs are just not giving, but this wig. I can definitely see me having for such a long time the packaging was so cute. I wish I would have showed you guys how cute it came, packaged just giving such a Luxe experience and, for me, packaging is a huge deal. So hair Disney really is on a on a stuff with a packaging. They also send you a ton and I need a ton of care instructions directions with pictures. So if you're, just someone who's completely brand spanking new to wigs, I highly recommend them, because not only are they sending you like such a good quality wig. That is honestly ready to wear so at the beginning. You want to do much to it, but they're also sending you so many like directions and pictures and instructions so yeah with the wig. They also send some scalp tape. So if you're somebody who prefers taping your wigs down to glue in them do send some, so I'm not going to use these today, but I love that they send it with the wig. So, like honestly, I have just been shook by this whole like wig experience, because I've never like, I feel like this - is a designer bag or something like how they sent it and everything they sent it with like. If there was a such thing as designer wigs hair, maybe would be one so the wig itself comes in the super nice satin bag. I love bags when it comes to hair and wigs, because I like having something to put it back into because storage is super important with these high quality wigs if you're buying such a nice wig, you want to take care of it as well. So I love that they said this super nice and aesthetic cute wig bag to hold the wig when I'm not wearing it. So let's actually see what it's giving a plot twist. I'Ve already looked at it. I'M obsessed - and I cannot wait to see how it looks on my head, but you guys here she is, oh, my God, it's probably not even about to do it justice, but that is perfectly okay. I got the Victoria romantic wave and it is just every bit of like a bouncy just romantic sexy hairdo. I cannot wait to see what it is giving, so it is in the natural color. So if you're, not a fan of that, you can dye and I just wanted to point out. I know I see a lot of people talk about wigs that come stinky and have weird smells. This wig smells so good. It smells freshly washed. I don't know what shampoo they use on it, but it smells amazing like good like good okay, so you do not have to worry about no weird smells. I haven't got any shedding while running my fingers through it. You can just tell it's a nice way. I'M super excited to apply to see how it looks like a usual. I will have all of the information in the description box down below. I will have the link to this specific wig and literally anything that you could wonder about this wig in this company. I will have it in the description box down below y'all. The knots are already bleached. The hairline is honestly unreal, like it looks like it's growing out of y'all y'all got to wait and see. Wig also comes with the band already sewn onto the inside. I know a lot of times: people have to sew in their own bands, but it's already got you girl. You really don't need to do that. Just cut the legs off of here like so I'm about to go ahead and start applying this wig, and then we will kind of see how it looks foreign, so y'all. I don't know if y'all are picking up what I'm putting down, but look at this wig do not ever play my hair is empty y'all get this wig okay! Now I am about to style it up a little bit, and I also want to say that I am not somebody who knows how to lay lay a wig, but the fact that it looks this good with somebody of my skill level tells y'all that y'all need To get this wig because you don't got ta, have all of that skill and know what you're doing all the way, because the way that they send the wig to you. If I can do it, you for sure can do it and because I'm telling you right now, I I watch so many people put on wigs and I'm just like. I could never do that so hair Vivi is going to hook you up they're, going to send you a good quality. Wig they're gon na see you good packaging and they're also going to send you a wig that you really could just put on your head and go. If I wanted to wear this hair like this, I so could like. Obviously, you wanna, you know, decrease some of the volume in the middle, but the hair itself is just so stunning, so I do have my curler heating up and now we're gon na finally start getting into some of the questions and we're gon na style. The hair, as we discuss some of the questions and topics that y'all sent in so let me pull up these questions on Instagram, so the first question is: do you ever feel self-conscious filming? I have videos, but don't have the courage to post them. So I would honestly say: yes, I feel like everybody has felt self-conscious at one point or or another in their YouTube career, and I feel like, as you progress through YouTube. You feel self-conscious in different ways like if you're posting a new type of video that you've never posted before. That'S personally when I feel the most self-conscious, because I'm just like I don't know if I look stupid doing this - I don't know if they are gon na like it. You know I'm just not sure of the overall General, like idea of how it's going to go. So in that aspect I do I'm trying to think back to when I very first started. I feel like I didn't feel that self-conscious, because I didn't really have that many people watching me like. I was just kind of posting stuff and not expecting anyone to ever really see it, and I know that kind of is dumb, because that's kind of the point of YouTube is for other people to see it. But I just felt like you know, I didn't have like a huge following, so there was nothing for me for me really to feel self-conscious about, so I I would advise you to kind of go the same way if you don't have a large following now. Is the time to really explore how you how to do stuff like how to Vlog and how to you know how to not be awkward on camera? Because, as you start, you know gaining a following. That'S kind of when you know stuff starts to matter more so of like your angles and your lighting and all of that, like not to say none of that matters in the beginning. But you know what I mean like you have more room to experiment. So don't let you know you know, don't get too in your head about it in the beginning. It should be more fun than anything because, like I said you don't really have a following. So that's the time to experiment play around with your content play around with different styles different thumbnails. All of the things that's the time to really experiment, because then, as you start, gaining more traction, you're gon na have to kind of guarantee a certain quality in a certain. You know, I guess aesthetic. So the next question is: what is your favorite online store to shop? Y'All can't talk, so the next question is: what is your favorite online store to shop from and honestly y'all like, I feel like. I don't really have a favorite these days because I really haven't been doing as much online shopping like I've been doing a lot of my shopping more so in person and stuff like that y'all know, I love Sheen um. So I am quick to get something from Sheen in a minute, because I know what to expect. I know the sizing. I guess if I have to say it would be she in. I really also do love pretty little thing. I love their selection and just their variety of styles that they offer to plus size women. I'Ve only ordered from pretty little thing twice, but I love everything that I've gotten. I will say that their sizing can be a little bit wonky like it's, not very consistent, but I really enjoy pretty little thing. They have. They do a really good job of including plus size women on like what is happening in the trends as of now. The next question is, would you ever have another child P.S? I love your content. Thank you so much and I absolutely would have another child um. If you are not familiar with my channel me and my boyfriend um are together and my daughters I have two daughters is, neither of them are his. So with that said, we for sure are going to have more children at least one more um. You know we've considered more than one more, but for right now I think we're both okay with having one more just so we can continue quality of life um. Of course things can change and I'm not like holding myself to that because I mean I love kids and I love being a mom. So if I decide after we have our next win that I just want just one more um we will, but I cannot foresee us having more than like four kids in total, because yeah me and my boyfriend already said if our next one is a boy. We very well may just call it call it a rap and be done because I mean we already have two girls and he loves and treats them right there his own. So he sees them as his kids, so um yeah. If we have a little boy for our next child, that's that might be all we do so yeah. So this hair curls! So well, oh my gosh off camera. I went ahead and curled it some more because I have to let y'all charge up a little bit, but do not worry about the Hops right back into the questions. The next question is: how do you manage to be a single mom of two? So for me personally, that is like a good question, but that's also like a a tricky question, because there's not a handbook there's not a rule book. I just kind of take it day by day. I think overall, what I personally live by as a single mom. No technically I'm not single, like I have a boyfriend, but legally like it's not married. I am single overall. What I live by is I try to Envision what I want my kids to think about when they look back on their childhood, using my own childhood as an example and how I look back and have certain memories of me and my mom. I try to Envision what I want those memories to look like, and I actively do those things with them and actively build those memories here and now, so that when they do look back on those things, they have those fond memories that I recall having with my Own mom, I feel like that within itself, if I have to give one thing, is very heavily what I kind of live by day today. The next question slash topic just as YouTube motivation, so I'm assuming you kind of want to know how I stay motivated with YouTube or give you YouTube. Motivation and honestly motivation is solely up to you, so you have to figure out what motivates you so me personally? What motivates me as a pertain to YouTube is seeing the finished product of something that I did so. That gives me great satisfaction. That makes me feel happy that gives me a sense of fulfillment is seeing me take an idea from infancy in my head to actually flushing it out on pen and paper, filming it and putting it together until it's going into video and posting it. Everyone is different. There'S not any one thing: that's going to motivate everybody, and with that said, you also have to realize that motivation is not always going to be there. So as much as I would like to say, like I'll, you know look to other people, you can for sure do that skin motivation, but at the end of the day the motivation has to come from something. That means something to you. Motivation is not necessarily always going to be there, so sometimes you're going to need a little bit more than motivation, you're going to have to reconnect with the goals that you've set for yourself and with the why you want to do it in the first place. So yeah, I feel, like the motivation itself, is going to stem from your reasoning for wanting to do YouTube. If you don't have like a more deeply rooted reason, and then your motivation, of course, is always going to be lacking, especially in the beginning, when you're not getting paid for anything you're, not getting many views. You know when stuff is kind of just starting off. The motivation to post is not going to be very high if your goal is not more deeply rooted than making money because you're not going to make money in the beginning. If you get what I'm saying so, you really have to look at your own goals, holistically and figure out. Why do I even want to do this? So if you have a good, why a good reason and like what makes you want to do it, then the motivation comes easy. This one is so sweet. It says thank you for being so real and transparent on your Vlogs. It definitely sets you apart from the rest. Thank you so much I feel, like my Vlogs, sometimes are just kind of all over the place, a hot mess, but I really do want to be as authentic with y'all as I possibly can. Obviously I don't share every part of my life, but that's a huge compliment, because I know that it's hard to come across as authentic through a lens say this one says: how do you juggle being a mom and being a girl? Okay, so with this question, I'm just assuming you mean like how do I have time to be a full-time mom, but also like get my nails done and my hair done and stuff like that is what I'm, assuming you meant by being a girl. I don't know because I'm like a girl by my anatomy, but I'm assuming that's what you mean. Okay, but honestly, I feel like it just takes practice of you actively prioritizing yourself, which is something that you guys honestly know that I'm a huge proponent of here on my Channel with all the self-care we do and everything like that, it's not just for the Aesthetics. I actually do that stuff, because I have to prioritize me as Mom, because I am a full-time mom that I have to carve out moments for myself. It'S a juggling process like you use the right word. It is a Juggle, so you just have to find your balance. What are the times of the day that you have less to do and start making those your pocket of you time so whatever that looks like for you, if you're not into like the skin care and all of that type of stuff, do some something else get A book go to the bookstore, go, get yourself a coffee, go for a walk, go, walk around Target and look at stuff. I don't know whatever is something that is authentic to who you are as a person pre-kids that make you happy make time for that. The next question is actually super similar and it says how do you juggle everything being a mom YouTuber girlfriend? I I'm still struggling with that. If I can just be honest with you guys, I feel very much so struggle to wear all the hats that I currently wear and I feel like me, being transparent with y'all saying that would kind of just give y'all some perspective that not everybody has their together. Like I don't know, if I come across like I do, but I don't and half the people y'all watch, probably don't either at least not all the times. There'S a lot of times that I do have it all together, but there's also a lot of times where I'm like. I don't know what the hell I'm doing, who allowed me to be an adult and do all this we'll say certain things that I've put in place do significantly help me feel like I'm more on top of everything. But again I am still very much so learning. I'M still trying to figure out the perfect balance, the perfect ebb and flow of how I can be a good girlfriend to my boyfriend, be a great mom to my kids and also still be present and show up for me and my passion, which is YouTube. For me personally, what I'm doing right now is just kind of making sacrifices in other areas that don't pertain to those three things like so right now it is midnight and my kids are in bed. My boyfriend is playing his game, and this is my me time. So, instead of me kind of sitting on the couch scrolling, Tick Tock, I'm making a video, so you kind of just have to realize that you're gon na have to sacrifice in some area. You can't have your cake and eat it too. You'Re not always going to be rested; sometimes you just have to do it tired, and I kind of take that myself with anything is that sometimes you're, just gon na have to do it. Tired, sometimes you're gon na have to do it. Sad sometimes you're gon na have to do it when you don't feel like it, and that is speaking to all aspects of my life. My kids have so many things going on at school and some days I just wish I could lay down and not go, but I know what kind of mom I want to be, and I want to be that Mom. That shows up. So I go and I do it and I just try to structure everything like that. Thank you so much to everyone that sent in a question that was actually our last one, so we're gon na go ahead and I'll wrap. This video, on up, like I mentioned earlier in this video, if you're interested on this video Temple unit, make sure you check out the description box down below if you like, this video be sure to give it a thumbs up. Also, let me know what you guys want to see if you guys want another one of these in the comments down below and yeah. I love you guys so much and I will catch you in to the next video y'all cannot tell me nothing about this hair. Okay,