Your Hair Isn'T Curly Enough...
- Posted on 14 July, 2022
- Heatless Hairstyles
- By Anonymous
DO WHAT IS BEST FOR YOUR HAIR LADIES AND GENTLEMEN!
The curly community is truly magical and I’m so grateful. I think it’s a very kind and loving space BUT sometimes all of the direction becomes a little much. What works for someone’s waves, might not work for mine. What works for someone curls, might not work for yours. and that’s ok!! Or maybe you are well aware bleaching your hair is damaging but you want to do it anyways or you straighten your hair from time to time for fun even though it isn’t amazing for your hair. The rules and guides of this community are amazing and so helpful !! I’ve literally learned so much from from others. But at end of the day it’s just hair and you just gotta do what’s best for YOU what’s the biggest curly hair community tule you break ???
Mine is definitely using silicones sometimes. I find my hair likes silicones and it works for me. But maybe not someone else share yours below !! Also I used Curlsmith fragrance free products for these results and really loved it ✨
Inspired by: @wavycurly her content is so awesome! Check her out
Out of my head under my bed me
Comments
Emily Rose: “Do what’s best for your hair” … and your mental health —sometimes that means doing your hair. Sometimes it means not!!! Fr I’m with India when she says ITS JUST HAIR YALL. If there’s one thing I’ve learned in the past couple of years it’s that there’s a lot of things more important than perfect hair
Judith App: Girl! The "I like you better blonde" one!! For a time, I stopped highlighting my hair because I wanted to have super healthy hair... But, for me, I realised my waves looked better with highlights... !!! It's like... Ok, I love waves and curls... but I also love hair colors and highlights! The point is to have beautiful hair! No matter how hahaha
elizabeth: the “your hair isn’t curly enough to _____” gatekeeping is REAL girl, it’s crazy
petite daisy: Thank u for standing up,even for the coily hair community!! It's not easy to have tight curls when most pipo want u to have a loser curl pattern. When I watched ur video I felt better coz my hair is just beautiful just as it is. ❤️
Cali Rose: I can relate! I've had people tell me my hair is wavy.. others say it's curly and some have said it's a combo of both, you know what?? They're all right that's the beauty of embracing texture hair! My hair almost never looks the same twice! Your hair looks awesome and it's because of you that I embraced my own natural wavy, curly whatever you call my hair. Thank you
solitaire smith: Your videos helped me to care for my hair better. And yes I straighten my hair. My hair is much more healthy now. But I will do what makes feel better. And I will continue to straighten. LOVE THIS CHANNEL AND LOVE YOU FOR STANDING UP FOR ALL OF US!!!
80islandia: As a person with wavy/curly hair whose hair looks drastically different from day to day, I thank you for this! ⭐️
Boops: Do what makes you smile, like laughing at being told what you should do as a grown a$$ adult
Camilla Bersellini: Thank you soo much I really needed to hear this! Btw your hair is beautiful as always, just like you are obviously
J: Great message! Do what makes you feel happy and beautiful!
Pennu Suozzi: Thank you for this video, India! I love your content and humor. You are so right. The whole idea of any community should be to help everyone be the best they can be. Not to be what someone else thinks their "best" should be. I have been using the Mixed Chicks line. {I am not affiliated with them in any way} I love their products and prices, and their message. Accept what you were born with and go from there. Enjoy your unique beauty whatever it is and be happy!
Anne Riley: SO TRUE! And the people who argue with you about YOUR hair like I don’t live with this head of hair every day of my life. I think I understand my own hair a little better than you do, Brenda.
Ani Leon: Thank you so much for posting this and your last video on this subject. I get so down and frustrated at times because I feel like my hair isn’t defined enough or has enough volume. I live in Florida where it is unbearably humid and the only way I can get my hair to look good is by using a super strong hold gel and not scrunching out the crunch. But then I look at pictures of gorgeous voluminous curly hair and feel sad because my hair doesn’t look like that. So thank you again for this! also, your hair is absolutely stunning!
PedanticSkeptic: I agree!!! All the curly hair content just made me hate my hair. I use to love my hair, but when I used the products that were giving such great results the content creators all I got was empty bank and horrible flat uncurled hair. I went back to my old routine now I have curls and volume and I am in love with my hair
Katherine Black: You are the reason I went curly. I love love love your hair and your attitude. You do you!
heyitsme: YESSSSSS!!!!!! I have had so much fun with dying my hair!! and guess what?? it still has texture!! Make you own decision and HAVE FUN!!! IT'S JUST HAIR AND IT'S YOURS!!
Yeehaw: HIII! I have the same curl pattern as you and my hair is SUPER thick… no curl creams, or curl lotions work to enhance my curls. They always end up looking frizzy and big like the way your hair looked at the beginning of the video. What can I do and what are some hydrating hair products you use? Also, what can I do for heat damage? Thank you!!
AV-VA: Wavy s hair is just part of the curly hair spectrum. Wavy is a blended curl type. Sometimes if not often, we will get perfect coils in our hair. In the end, each hair type has their struggles but beauty as well. Just enjoy your hair and admire others ✨ Not put them down.
Tracey Lafontaine: Only you know what is best for your curly locks
Panacea(*: The fact people say someone's hair isn't curly bc it gets frizzy, like what? That's just curly hair without definition. Smfh. You do you, that's the right attitude for sure!!
Loving Life: What does it matter if your hair is curly or wavy or straight.. I don’t understand what the big deal is. Don’t try and change who you are just to fit into a community. That makes no sense. Nobody cares how you wear your hair.
ymn: When you’re that pretty you make your own rules
McKenzie Bartshe: Beauty queen!
love you: Sooo pretty!
C.A. Jayasooriya: Your hair soo beautiful
chi chi: Would you post your skin care routine and your everyday makeup tutorial please
Erin Smith: I found out I have curly/wavy hair kinda like yours how can I make it look good!!! I’m struggling to find the right products that work!?
𝙉𝙀𝙍𝙈𝙀𝙀𝙉🥀: But what's wrong if some girl told you I wish I had your curls ?
splashofcolor: Still perfect.
Ervin's Movie Corner: Cute!❤️
de pictura: And I really can't n't understand the need of some people to classify their hair into a group The 1 type the 2a 3b 4c Take a chill pill The most important thing is to figure out how to take care of your hair and to wear it healthy and proudly
filmsbynix: Your tiktok bio says wavy hair so I don't know why you're making a big issue about not feeling a part of the curly hair community when you clearly know there's a difference. I don't go crying about being excluded from the coily hair girls and trying to fit in
The Food Project: What's this song
Mozzarella stick: That’s wavy not curly