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Hey you guys all right so in this video I'm gon na show you number one how I did this install and how you can't see that lace. Okay, number, two, I'm gon na, show you the easiest way to do a butterfly braid. So you can try this trend at home, let's get into it. What is going on YouTube? It'S your girl, easy breezy and I'm back with another hair sponsor. Thank you so much herrella. They sent me this, like reddish brown, it's giving kind of Auburn lace front unit modeling. Today we have our girl crystal in the building and if y'all are an OG to this channel, you know Crystal used to be in my chair. Often she's been gone for a while, but she's back today, so y'all say hey Crystal and besides the wig y'all get some other treats too y'all got some lashes, a stocking cap and an elastic band that you can put on your hairline that'll help out with maintenance. At home all right y'all, I got something to tell y'all about this wig, okay, so I'll be seeing some comments around YouTube about. You know people being concerned that companies actually send content creators better wigs than they send their own clients. Now, I'm not a consumer. So I can't say that for sure, but one thing that I will say is a hair: stylist can make a wig look amazing on camera and especially if they're experienced in hair, they can make their hairline look amazing and they can even make the wig look. Fuller on camera, but this wig right here is super dense. I don't know if it's like 200 percent, but listen - I am not lying when I say y'all will not be disappointed in the fullness in this wig, all right, y'all. So about customization right when this wig came in the mail, it came pre-customized but y'all know I got ta, do my own plucking and bleaching right. So I plucked the wig and it wasn't that hard. So that was good. Now, as far as the bleaching, I tried to bleach the knots and they didn't really turn like that, like I think they got a little bit lighter, but they didn't really like turn brown or blonde, but the crazy thing about it is. I really wasn't even worried about it from day one because the nuts are super tiny, so the hairline looks really really natural right, like sometimes you'll get wigs where the knots are so big. It'S like you, don't even have no choice but to bleach the knots. But that's not how this wig was. The knots were super small. So when you get this wig in the mail, all you have to do is pluck it. I don't think you really even have to worry about bleaching it all right y'all. So as I do this install, I want to go ahead and get into the shop talk for today right, so I want to talk about how long does it take to realize that people around you are not really for you, you know how old do you have To be like, how long does it take for you to build the discernment and the maturity to realize? Who is your soul, tribe and who is just simply not now? The reason I want to get into this is because, because I want to save people years, okay, I want to say people a lot of time and energy because listen we end up spending so much on people that don't reciprocate that energy back to us. So much time so much energy, so much support that we don't even get back. So these are a few signs that people are not really for you and you don't need years to figure this out alright. So the first sign really should be obvious, but I remember growing up this used to happen to me and I didn't really take into consideration for whatever reason until it started to really hurt my feelings so number one is: when people exclude you from events from sleepovers From outings from them celebrating their accomplishments, when they just don't really think to call you that is one Telltale sign that that is not your soul, tribe y'all. I used to be friends with this girl in high school and we were like the weirdest friends ever because at school we didn't really speak, but after school I would be over her house. She would be over my house, I would do her hair, and it was just like a weird dynamic to me that for some reason I never even questioned like I knew it felt weird in my spirit, but for some reason like I feel like at that time. I didn't have the self-love and respect for myself and the self-esteem to not accept a friendship like that. So one day we were in class right and I used to carry around like a person with me with my lip gloss and my little makeup in there and in middle school and high school, like I was having trouble with my skin, I had acne and I Was a little bit insecure about my skin right, so I used to carry this like Foundation that I used to like dab on my on my blemishes and stuff, and one day she took my purse because I guess she was like getting some lip gloss and she Found the tube of foundation that I had in there and when she squeezed it a little bit, you know, Brown Foundation came out because I'm a brown skin girl and she was like ew. What is this and she deliberately made a scene and walked in front of the classroom and was squeezing my Foundation out in the trash like you know, it looks like doo doo and then everyone in the class started looking to the front of the classroom and was Like what is that like? What is that and y'all? I was so embarrassed like I was just shook. I couldn't say nothing because at that time I really did not defend myself like. I was not used to that. I never like made a scene and I just tried to not say anything like and pretend like it wasn't happening, so I want to draw more attention to the situation but y'all. I was so embarrassed, like I never forgot that moment, because I'm like girl all what the so after that whole incident. You know I never confronted her about it. I never distance myself from her. I just kind of kept that inside and I still wanted to be her friend, because she was one of the only people that like talked to me like every now and then or showed any type of interest and y'all. I just did not have the self-esteem and the self-respect to walk away, so on top of that, I felt like the way she treated me was damaging me subconsciously, like my self-esteem, because, even though I thought that we were quote unquote best friends, because we would always Hang out with each other after school, like I knew her mom her brother, like her whole family, but she would always champion this other girl, like this other girl, that she started calling her best friend and she met this girl after me, like this girl, didn't add, No value to her life, but I feel like she admired her for the way she looked like she was really pretty. She was kind of thick a little bit. She was light skinned and she had really long straight hair, and I just felt like like that, was like my first, like colorism experience with a close friend like it was so weird and confusing you guys, like I don't even know so long story short me, and This girl are absolutely not friends anymore. I ended up just having to walk away from that situation in totality and guess how we fell out. So basically, one of our quote-unquote mutual messy ass friends ended up telling her that I was trying to talk to her boyfriend and I'm like girl that big nose ass, like I'm, not even attracted to him, so I was so shocked. I'M like. First of all, I didn't know who told her at first that went on for months without me, knowing but the whole time I was thinking who has an opinion this strong for her to actually believe them. Knowing what type of person I am and what type of friend I am to her okay so fast forward, maybe like three months went by and we still did not speak on it. But there was something at the pit of my chest that needed to know who told her this like. It literally did not leave my mind that whole time, so I called her up and I was like you know we need to have a talk about this. I miss you blah blah blah, so we ended up linking up right and she was not trying to tell me who told her so that just showed me that obviously she had more loyalty to this other random person and I'm just like girl. This girl don't got. No mind of her own for nothing, but I'm, like you know what whatever so. I ended up using reverse psychology on her and I told her that I already knew who said it and when I asked her you know was it this person? She said yes, so after she told me who spread this lie about me, you know I was like whatever I'm over. It I'ma just sweep it under the rug but y'all the thing about me and my anger is at first. I don't really be mad at stuff, but it will fester in my spirit for weeks and weeks and weeks, and I won't even react to a situation until like a month later so y'all. I waited and I plotted okay and the reason. Why is because it didn't sit right with me that she believed a lot about me knowing who I am and what type of friend I was to her. So it was just hurting my feelings. Every time I thought about it, I felt like she wasn't. My real friend I felt, like our whole, like friendship, was a lie, so it's like I had to confront this girl so, like I said before, I plotted and I waited patiently for all of us to be in the same room all right so one day we All hung out as expected, and we all went to like this guy's house. I think we were smoking or whatever, but they were sitting on the back of his bed and I was sitting on the side of the bed and I'm thinking to myself right. I want to confront this girl so bad, and I said you know what it's time so I turned around and I said, did you tell so and so that I tried to talk to her boyfriend y'all? She was looking so shocked. She was like, oh my God. I never said that I would never say that who told you. I said that, and I looked straight at my friend sitting right next to her and what did she do? Y'All? She couldn't even look me in the eye. She acted like nothing was happening like her face was just dug in her phone like she was so busy, and I looked at the both of them, and I said: okay, okay, so these two be talking about me behind my back now. My friend quote unquote is now too embarrassed to admit that the girl sitting right beside her is actually the one that she believed. So I said you know what, after today, I'm done and y'all sure enough me and that girl ain't talked again A Day In Our Lives. Okay and what's funny, is, I feel like I was the one that was most affected by that quote. Unquote, friendship breakup because I actually felt like we were real friends, but this girl ain't never reached out to me she never apologized for the whole miscommunication and really turning her back on me like I just felt like she just didn't really care about me since day. One - and that was one of the hardest lessons I ever had to learn about fake friendships and being around people that that don't really care about you. So I was about maybe like 18 or 19 when all that happened and when I finally had the strength to walk away from that friendship. So honestly, I can't even really say if there's a specific time or age, or you know like a time in your life, where you just should have all this discernment and experience with friends, because some things you just don't even learn until it just happens to you And it could happen to you at any time in life and listen trust me. I'Ve learned plenty other lessons about fake friends between the ages of 19 and 29.. All right, so I'm still learning all right y'all. So that was my shop talk. Let me know what you think about that story and if you have your own personal stories, comment them below and let's talk about it. So, let's get back into this, install real quick, so I'm finally combing out the pink curls and sculpting the hair, and it's looking really soft and voluminous, and this wig is super soft. It barely Tangled, if at all and I'm just loving the quality, the color, the fullness, just everything so for the next couple minutes, I'm gon na be using my comb and this holding spray to get this style. Looking exactly how I want it, foreign foreign. So this is the final result and what lace? Okay! So if you guys want your lace, tint Foams head to galaxygirlhair.com now they will be back in stock and available again on Black Friday. So yes, if you want to melt that lace, honey, you need your lace. Tint foam once again. Thank you so much harella for sponsoring this video with this reddish brown Auburn lace front unit. If you guys want this exact wig, I'm gon na put all the information in the description below. If you're not subscribed to my channel already make sure you go ahead and do that turn on your notifications and I'll see y'all later foreign