Why Don'T Black Men Respect Black Women'S Natural Hair??? | Lil Duval'S Problematic T

Your hair looks freakin stupid, like you wonder why white girls win and white girls are winning because they don't got out of that. All that nappy-nap, like I can't run my fingers through, that that looks horrible. Your hair looks horrible and y'all wonder why we don't date. Chuck y'all wonder why we don't rock with y'all it's because you look like that. Your hair look ridiculous and go ahead and walk away. I have an attitude, do what you got to do, but you look horrible, hey everyone, Nicole Carlton here, and I want to talk about this entire situation involving a comedian earlier today. I think his name is little Duval or Duval, or something like that. Honestly, I'm not familiar with his work at all, but did something that was very offensive to the natural hair community, the black community, just like black women in general and what he tweeted was. I hate the big curly bushy hair. Look, I'm not saying stop wearing it. Ladies, I personally just don't like it. I like every other style, though especially the straight hair, look, but that big, afro lion no can do and a lot of people were offended by this. Personally, I was offended by it, but I don't I'm one of those people were like. No man can tell me what to do with my hair, my body, anything like that. So I was offended. I'M like that's pretty messed up for him to say something like that. I'M especially given all the hate that black woman kit to begin with. That'S why I found it to be most offensive, but for me, no matter what anyone says, I'm going to always do me and it went semi viral ended up on the shade room. A lot of people were like bashing him to hello in the comments. Someone even tweeted him on Twitter and said that your 5 to as a response, because he's talking trash about women's hair and what he can't do. But he's like a short man and a lot of times short men are seen as like unattractive, and my entire thing is: if you don't find something to be attractive or a certain race or a certain hair to be attractive, why do you feel the need to Tweet it. Why do you feel the need to spread that type of hate? Why, and as far as like the straight hair thing, it just shows goes to show how much he hates like black women in general, and I say this because the reason that black woman even started straightening their hair perming their hair is because they were trying to Fit white European beauty standards back in the day like right after slavery, and things like that were black woman during slavery and black men during slavery, they were constantly told that their hair is, I believe, everything about them is ugly. That'S why you have black women even out here, pushing your skin black men, bleaching their skin and trying to make their hair as white as possible? And that's why you have that out here because of people like this that are still spreading all that hate involving black women in their hair, and what kills me every single time is that black women cannot exist without being bashed. Like literally, we cannot exist. We will sit here and like if we breathe, someone will say we're breathing the wrong way like we literally can't do anything right and I'm sure you guys have heard that quote what about black women being the most hated on earth or disrespected on earth, and that's Very true, like we are very disrespected in the media the way that we're portrayed the way that we're talked about and how even people in our community black men in our community tell us that they don't want to date. Us because of things like our hair and things like that, and when I, what I really urge black women to do, is to stop listening to these men, because these men have you guys out here. Looking crazy, like you guys, are getting like bigger butts to please these men and then these men don't even end up marrying you. They end up marrying somebody with like not a big butt or like really no, but at all, which I find to be funny, because these women are out here we're getting surgery for them. We'Re doing all these implants enhancements, we're doing all this crazy stuff, their hair and that's to please people and it's a lot of the times just to please specifically like black men. I know that back in the day we were doing it's a you know, kind of kind of I don't know break out into the world, I'm to the white world so that we were, we could become more, accept, accept and seen as less threatening. But right now a lot of beauty stands that we're doing we're doing it because of like people with people in our community or saying about us like as far as like skin things like that. Just like I said just like dark-skinned, women are told that they're not enough for a lot of people and people don't find darks women with dark skin and women to be attractive inside of our community. That'S why a lot of people are bleaching their skin and things like that, and I just find this entire situation to be completely and utterly disgusting. For someone to say something like that, and he actually tried to like, take a step back and try to act like it wasn't just about black women. He posted later on in his Instagram, that that was including white women, which that wasn't, including white. When you say that, after a lie and stuff like that is Pettus specifically about black women and what makes no sense and what's even more disgusting, is that he compared our hair to an animal, a lion which I find lions to be beautiful. But you guys know what I mean like the fact that he compared it to an animal like we're. Just like a lot of times like people try to like describe black woman as animalistic and things like that, and then whenever the funny thing is, whenever we speak up about it, we speak our minds. We'Re told that we have an attitude, we're told to wear this and wear that because we're speaking up - and I I don't know it's just really confusing - that's really frustrating for me to just hear people like that bash us. But that's honestly, all I really had to say for this rant. What are your thoughts down below? Please tell me, please tell me, and if you're not black, tell me what your thoughts are on natural hair, black women, I'd love to hear from you guys, specifically black man, I'd love to hear from you guys, because I know you guys are gon na. Probably try like man, some of you not all of you. Some of you really love our natural hair, but some people are gon na be down below trying to like mansplain it and tell us that we're just being like overly sensitive whatever. But please comment down below be sure to LIKE comment subscribe. If you enjoyed this video, but that's honestly pretty much it for the rant, I I'm just completely disgusted and annoyed by the way that our community talks about us, but peace out. I hope you guys all have a blessed night see you later. You