Grwm ❤️‍ | Outre Julianne 24" Synthetic Wig | Make Monthly Time For Friends? | Who Pays To Eat

There is a party: how are you going to challenge me to come to a party all right y'all, so today we're going to be talking about this beautiful unit on my head and we're going to have a little girl chat as well. Now, first of all, do you pee that i had it on the left, the middle and the right versatility, she's long and all that good stuff? But this is from the ultra perfect hairline julian 24 inch. I have it in a 1b, transparent, hd lace. You get a 13 by 6, so you get a lot of places upon her two combs one on each side, one in the back adjustable straps and an elastic band. Let'S go ahead, get a pop and get this girl chat on. What'S going on welcome back to my channel y'all, what is good, what's up if you're new here make sure you hit that red subscribe button and turn on the post on vacation, so you don't miss anything when i upload, if you ain't new, welcome back we'll just Go ahead and get it popping, i have something on my mind: okay, so this topic that we're gon na be talking about today is making time for your friends, okay, because i don't do that and i know i'm i'm adjusting. I don't even know if i'm going to edit this video. This is. This might be how i get it. This might be exactly how i get it, but um. I i brought that up because there was a a friend of mine or associate. We went to high school and we are still friends on social media and i think, one day on either facebook or instagram. She had put something up in her stories and she was just like um. She put a poll like. Do you make time for your friends or do you think is necessary to make time for your friends? Listen, probably not verbatim, but something like that and i said no and i gave my inputs on why i said no um. So before i jump into the conversation y'all, let me know in the comment section: do you feel like you should make time for your friends? Do you think it's necessary to make time for your friends? Do you think it's necessary to make time for people you feel like you need to make time for okay? My answer is no and i'ma get into that, but this unit is looking really good. Omg. Now i saw a couple of pictures floating around with miss julianne and i didn't think i was gon na like it at first, because i didn't i'm not saying it on the people. I didn't like the wig like how it was looking. I mean i liked it on some people, but i didn't like it for me. Does that make sense, and i thought that she looked kind of like leticia. She is kind of giving me literature vibes a little bit, but i didn't like latisha and i think that's the thing, but this one has a little more curls up top. She juicy now y'all know that the perfect hairline it comes with that frontal all of his partner's face. So i think it's a 13x6 or something so you get to play around with her. Oh, this is going to be fun, so i'm going to get the styling on her, which way should i do my part that way and we're going to talk about it. So i personally don't feel like okay, so i'm gon na put it like this, i'm married first of all and i'm living my life and i'm doing my thing and that's what a lot of people are doing now. I don't know: first of all, the lifestyle in new york city is much faster than the lifestyle. Here i don't live in new york city anymore and when you move out of the city things change um, especially if you move to something slower, you realize, like okay, slow down slow down a little bit, it's not as fast and hustle bustle. So, first of all, you don't feel the pressures to be outside to be out partying to be hanging out and doing all this stuff. You kind of just move at your own pace. If that makes sense - and i since i've been married and stuff and not to say my friends are my priority, they most definitely. I still love my friends. I only have a few first of all, but i think i'm gon na do a side part, but i um, i just don't have time, and i think that some people would say or when i was speaking to her. She said she feels like people make time for who they want to make time for some something to learn. Them lies okay, um and i was like okay cool, but i don't have time you know i just don't have the time and and not saying it like in the bougie way or anything like that. But i really don't i mean i'm home all the time and if i'm not working, which my work at this time is content, i'm a content. Creator um, then i am getting my me time if that makes sense, so it's like i'm always working or i'm just getting my me time and now also that i am married, i mean you guys who are in relationships married, something like that you can get it Like my home is my priority going out for drinks and hanging out with people going to somebody's house, that's definitely not my priority and i don't really care to do it now. Also, on top of that, i personally i'm a homebody. Now i like to do things i like to go out for drinks. I love to go out to eat because i love food, but i like to do it with my husband, because it's like i'm so busy with work if you're busy with work all the time when you're not working. You have free time you kind of want to enjoy yourself and the first person i want to join myself with. Is my husband: that's just off rip now i don't know if some people's like no, i need a break from my husband. I need to hang out with friends, i mean y'all, let me know, but that's just not me. I just don't have a lot of free time him and i don't even do a lot already, because it's just like we're both always so busy doing something. So i do feel like some people are too busy um she did mention something like she felt like. Not one person is that busy that you can't even take like one day out of the month to hang out with your friends and i'm like listen. If i have one all day, free from the month, i'm gon na be watching movies, kicking back doing something for myself. I don't have a lot of relaxation or me time, because i'm constantly on the go constantly busy constantly doing something. So, no that's just not going to be my priority now. If, however um you know my friend or something wanted to do something they reached out to me, and it was like hey i'm doing something. If it's something like a birthday or something important, i will definitely make the time, but on a monthly basis i just i i don't. I don't see the point of that um most of my friends are doing their own thing, so you know they're either really busy. As well working like working their butts off to the point was like whoa. I got my day off girl, i'm about to kick back, relax, go dude, it's it! It'S! Never! I'M not gon na say it's never enough. I don't know what they would do, okay, but they even asked me to go chill. You know what i'm saying so everybody's busy. You know i have married friends with husbands and kids and friends who are who are in very demanding careers and stuff, like that they don't even have time for all that and what makes it even different for me is. I live so far from most of my friends. I do have a few close by um, but most of my friends are pretty far away, i'm using my mac um foundation, y'all in the color nw 45, and i'm just blotting it on this. This space and i'm gon na set it with some setting powder after, but everybody is like so far away. You guys, like i am four hours from my mom and um and i'm four hours from my friends and them. So it's like child, i'm not about to take no no four hour trip every single month to do something. But this is the thing real friends like my friends: they family. You know i've been friends with um, my friends for years. I think that the shortest friendship out of all my friends has to be like. Let me see like eight years and that's long, so the rest of that have been for over 20 years well about to be 20 years. Maybe like 18 19 friends from june high school, like my friends, are long-lasting friends. So when you have friends for that long, y'all, it's family at that point and when your friends are family, they understand because if they need you or you need them, you could pick up the phone yeah on top pick up where you left off, like nothing ever Happened, you know what i'm saying and that's how it is. Nobody ever feels like girl. You ain't call me if we need to talk we'll talk and we need to text we'll text, but when we do - and it's still not often i'm not even gon na lie to you, i'm not a phone person. I don't like speaking on the phone. I rather text or that's it. I don't talking on the phone, that's not my jazz at all. I don't don't call me the only person who calls me who is my mom and my sister like anybody else, will call. I probably won't answer, and my phone is not next to me most of the time anyway, because i really don't be on the phone like that. But what i'm trying to say is we're so close that if you call me you need something i need you or something nobody's feeling like they're neglected, because everybody's living their own life, like i'm, not a child anymore, and i guess, priorities change. When you get older, you guys don't be 30 by the end of this month. So i know most of my followers mostly are watching are in your 30s to 40s um, but i got a few still in my age range, but there are a lot of people. My age, who still make time for their friends who want to hang out with their friends a lot, but i guess that just depends on the lifestyle. You live too because, for instance, like my sister she's one of those people, she gets her hangout time on y'all she's, always with friends, always chilling always going somewhere. Always but that's not me and i'm not a party person, i don't go, i don't you know what i'm saying i'm more chill, so it's kind of hard to do, especially when you're always working, especially when you're always working it's kind of like once i get my Free time, that's the time that i sit there and i take to who do something for myself and it and that's just me but y'all. Let me know: do y'all feel like you should make time for your friends or do something at least once a month meet up with your friends. Do you think that's necessary to keep like a close friendship or do you feel like it's not really necessary and i'm not even going to say that i feel like? I grew apart from my my friends because i led them to death and it's not really a grow apart thing, but for me my mind is focused on my life and my future and a lot of people be like yo. We don't see you and this ain't, even friends, his family, we don't see you, you always say. No, you don't go. No. You stay in the house because my house is what my job is. You know what i'm saying and listen. I don't know if you would consider me a workaholic or not, but i'm always doing something content-wise, but if that's what's going to pay the bills, put some money in my pocket and that's what i got to do. If that's what i like doing, that's going to do because i'm trying to work in nobody else's office again um, but people who know me they don't take offense to it. If that makes sense they just they know they like nah. She ain't coming and even when i was okay, no i'm lying when i was younger like a teenager, and you want to do something you want to come over. I come to your house. I was doing that. You see the powder moving and that's why i set it with the setting spray, but it was running. Low powder was just like, but um this hair line, looking kind of good y'all. Let me zoom in for y'all real quick, look at the hairline that hell are looking kind of good gosh y'all, so i took the wig off to put it back on and you ain't gon na believe what just happened child i ripped the lace, oh and that Damn do y'all see what i just did. Okay, we're gon na have to work with that, because i ain't got no choice. Whatever got ta, keep it pushing wow. I can't believe i just ripped the lace like that. That'S crazy! Why are we on the topic of friends y'all? I wanted to talk my birthday coming up right now, i'm not doing anything like a party or anything this year, because i did not plan it and then covet makes me nervous, like i don't want to do anything. I don't want to be in with it. It just makes everything difficult, y'all know what i'm talking about, but i always thought that my 30th birthday was gon na, be like a um like a party like a dinner party or something right now i have. I have to ask y'all something: now i heard this topic come up before on something else watch there was a podcast or something because i had a difference of opinion too. So i want to know when it comes to like dinner parties and stuff, like that, how do you guys feel about who pays? Okay, because i've heard so much about? Oh, the birthday person should pay or no the birthday person shouldn't pay. The other people should pay because it's the birthday, the birthday person's birthday, so why should they pay stuff like that? Yo this week is easy i feel like. I don't have to do much weight done. You get where i'm going so anyways um, i'm gon na go in with my la colors powder, like usual, and i'm just gon na. Add this to my parting space. Now i'm gon na tell y'all off jump. The lace is off the chain, so i'm gon na zoom this in for y'all really quick. Now this is glueless 100 glueless and look at that. That looks really good you guys and then on top of that the hairline looks really nice too, like mmm come on julie in 24 inch. I didn't get my hands on the original, so i was glad i was able to get this. I was hesitating because that price was a little steep and about. I was 65 something like that child and i was like i'm not buying that wig and then i was like i'm buying wigs. So that's what happened all right so comment below. Who do you think? Should be paying for something like a um like a birthday dinner or you know, like you know, i'm having a birthday dinner, i was going to be on this day such and such and such at this place. Yadda yadda and you come there. Do you pay for the bill? Do you pay for just your bill and the birthday girls bill? Do you pay for everybody bill? Do you just pay for your bill? What do you do or do you respect somebody pay for yours, so i have two opinions on it? Okay, so i look at it like this if you say you're having a birthday a dinner party, once i hear the word party, i look at a party like a party now i've, never in my life, been to a party where i had to pay for something You invite somebody to a party is paid for like if i'm going to a party, i'm just coming in to get my party on like that's, come on we're just being real here and if i have to pay for somebody to party i'll be like unless it's Like a party, you got to pay to get into something you wasn't invited to, but we're invited to a party i feel like everything at a party should be paid for. That'S just how i feel so now when it comes to dinner parties, because i guess people look at it a bit differently. They'Re like oh, no, but a dinner party is different. You get a bill and yada yada, but listen. You also get a bill when you have a regular party when you vent uh, rent out a venue or something like that for your party, and you got such such people coming and you got food and you got gas and you got caterers and you got decor And all this stuff you pay for that too. But you don't say i'm having a party, you invited, bring two hundred dollars, so you could pay for some of this food, decor and catering that i don't got going on djing and stuff. You know what i'm saying it don't work like that. You just show up to the party, you have your fun and that's how i feel a dinner party should be as well. I feel like if you go into a dinner party, you're invited to celebrate someone's birthday and it's still a party, it's a dinner, but it's a party i feel like it should be paid for, like especially listen. How can i put this? A invitation should not be something that someone should pay for. If that makes sense, don't invite me to something and then, when i pump up, i have to pay for something i feel like it's a little weird, because, especially if i'm not expecting to pay for something, if you didn't mention it, especially on top of that, so I'Ve i'm like, when did it become a thing where people have to pay to come to your party? Does that make sense, whether it's food or not? Like that's weird to me, i do, however, feel like there is a difference um, if your friend, if you're rich folk, no, it's not a different, because if you're rich folk, you're, probably going to pay for see friends don't have to listen, i don't think you should Be paying to go to any kind of parties, no dinner parties or anything like that. I feel like. If you can't afford to um pay for your dinner party, then you shouldn't be having it or you shouldn't even call it a dinner party. Maybe you could do something like um. Do you guys want to go out to dinner with me for my birthday? So then, it's like less of a party, it's more like we're all going to a restaurant like relax, that's not a restaurant, and then it's like you have expectations now of okay. When i get there, i'm gon na order, my own food and i'm gon na pay for my food and maybe the birthday girl, you being nice. You know what i'm saying, because you're not even calling it a party at that point, it's more so of we're going out to eat but um, something like a party that something that's planned in advance and you're, calling it a party you done get unpaid for some Tables - and i don't think that uh anyone should be paying for that, but the person who planned the party, if the birthday girl planned the party, then she paid for it unless her friend paid for it or somebody else, do the party for her. But i don't feel like you should be invited to any parties of any sort and paying for anything. That'S just weird to me. You know, but also um. Now i mean that's just my opinion. Y'All. Let me know, that's truly, how i feel about it, because it just don't make sense to me and then you expect people to come and then what? If they can't even pay for their mail, because they didn't think that they had to pay anything. Because you just invited them to a party and when you go to parties, you don't pay nothing. You just come in your party, so um. I think that could cause a lot of. You know, confusion and just like start eyeing at the table who paying for what. I'M paying for they all had one drink. You know everybody talk about. Oh, let's split this bill, but you don't have the cheapest mail on the menu because you knew or thought you was paying for just your food. But now everybody talk about. Oh, let's not let her pay for it, it's her birthday and now, instead of paying twenty dollars for the little one, a little cheat meal now you got ta end up paying like 40 because the bills skyrocket high. No, i don't think that's right. I don't think. That'S fair, however. I do feel like let's say like you're someone like me: i don't make that much money. I ain't, no billionaire, i'm not bowling, but um. I want to have a dinner party like i'm being hypocritical a little bit, but i well. I wouldn't do this, i'm just using me as an example, but i know that i'm not balling and i'm not gon na be able to pay for everybody's meal, and so what i would do in that sense, i would say: hey i'm having a dinner party, but The dinner party, i would like to invite you to, of course, such and such and such so that way everybody could eat and get their meal. Something like that. You know so it's kind of like um, i'm inviting to something that you would have to put money in for money for your plate or something like that because i know sometimes, when you do dinner parties, you can do it in a way where um you can Kind of pay ahead of time, and then everybody can just go and eat like you know what i'm saying. So you can even do something like that and then it also gives the people an option to say yes or no, because now they know that they have to pay. So if they want to come - and they have the money to do so - they can pay ahead of time or if they don't want to come, they believe they don't really get the money for that, they can say no, but at least they don't have to get To the restaurant and then be upset because you, like yo, you gon na pay for your food, because i've heard people get attitudes like why are making a birthday girl, pay or listen, listen and then that goes back to the first one. Do you make time for your friends? No, because i don't got those kind of pride. I don't need those problems now, i'm playing y'all and i also feel like um people do feel entitled. Sometimes because it's their birthday like it's my birthday, i don't have to pay for nothing. What if none of your friends got no money, yo, that that would be a sick bill to be stuck with like, but people do sometimes be under the impression of going to dinner parties not having to pay for anything. But that would be me but see. I'M the type of person to be like do i have to pay for anything how much it costs like i'm searching for information, i wouldn't even say like do. I have to pay for my own bill because i don't want to sound cheap, but i would say how much it costs to come to your dinner party and then you should be able to get the answer. I don't know girl how much you spend how much you whatever you bought. Whatever you decide, or you know you should get an answer or something at that point, but anyways um as far as styling this wig y'all um, it was really easy. I i think i stretched, i think i talked so much. I think i was kind of over the place with that, but yeah i get my point. This is how my conversations be it'd, be messy it'd, be messy, but we go and get better with it, but this julienne 24 inch wig, is absolutely gorgeous. I love it so freaking much um. The texture is so kinky and beautiful, and i got this in a 1b and you guys know i never do one bees. I never do one bees like how often do i do them. It'S not that often at all y'all um, but it's gorgeous. I absolutely love it now. I know it's lifting or whatever, but this is glueless and i didn't put anything down um. If i was to do this style, i would definitely spray that piece down, so it wouldn't be lifting. But overall it looks really good to be a clueless unit like what this is. This is a was it worth the money at this point i don't i don't know so it is big head friendly. The texture is kinky um. I do have space in it. The hairline looks decent it, it is plucked, it could be a little bit better um. I do feel like it is a pretty style. I like the curls, i like the volume and i'm not really getting tangles soft is a lot of um here. One thing that does bother me a little bit, though, is how, like you, have all these curls up top and then it just gets like real skinny at the bottom, it's kind of like real long and curly, and then it gets like straight and long at the Bottom and that's one little thing: that's bothering me a little bit so honestly. I might end up cutting it, which will probably be just the regular julienne and that's 24 inch at that point. But yeah i don't i don't like that so much. I don't like that. So much but i'll stand up, so you guys can see how long it comes on me and then this is where it is like mid-back and you know i'm short um. You want to see the back guys. So this is the back yeah. So that's julienne25! This is a nice freaking, wig y'all. This is um, go get it. I like this wig. This is gorgeous. The texture is beautiful, she's, so soft she's curly, oh my gosh, speak about holiday. This is some great holiday here now tomorrow. I'M going to take some outside pictures with her. I will be melting down the sides tomorrow, though, because i don't want to do it tonight. It'S real late, y'all, it's like midnight and i was like. Am i really going to do all of that? Just go to sleep, but you get the picture like she could be glueless. But if i were to wear it like 100 glutes, then i would just hide that lace and i would probably put some makeup on it to make it darker, and i would just kind of do something like you know, put the hair, don't put it behind my Ear something like that: that's what i would do so that way, you don't see it, but the hair is beautiful. I absolutely love this wig. I don't have any complaints, and i do love that you can part it anywhere like that's a super plus like od super plus. This is a gorgeous freaking unit. I really did not expect to like it this much. I really didn't out of all the wigs this week that i'm reviewing that you'll see dropping this week. This is my favorite. What'S that oh snap, that's my computer bluetooth, but y'all y'all. Let me know what you think about julianne. Tell me about it: i'm hyped y'all! I'M hype but y'all. Let me know what you think about this unit in the comment section also um listen. This is the first little girl chat, video that we got going on right now. So i don't know if it seems a little messy to you not put together, but do you get my point? You know we'll i'll get it together, i'll get it together. You guys and it's really late and i was sipping on a little bit of vodka but i'll get myself together next time. I promise, but i think i got the point. Hopefully this video was entertaining and we could shout it up in the comment section because i do want to know what you guys think like. Do you think that when you go to a dinner party, we should pay for that or do you think the birthday girl is or whoever's throwing is responsible? Because you know where i stand with that a party's a party? Okay, i don't care if it's called a dinner party. I don't care, what's called a surprise party, i don't care, it's called a slumber party. You go to a party, you ready to party you're, not ready to pay for anything. That'S just how i feel about parties. You throw a party like at a club or something like that you could pay for the drinks. You know because some you about you're not about to buy out the club, if you ain't only like that, but you know like let's say you threw up, but this is not really a party. Okay, i don't know different places are different, but, like you threw a party or you had a section at a club or something okay and it was like a bar. Sometimes you can't afford for the bar to be an open bar, so having people just come and pay blue five eight dollars for the drinks. I think that's, okay. I think that's fine, especially if everything else was taken care of you know what i mean um, because they want tips, but that's that y'all. That'S that i'ma wrap this video on up y'all comment down below and let me know what you think. I don't know if this video was a lengthy or not, but i'ma wrap it up. It'S pretty late, it's beyond midnight, but i was really excited to do julianne and i was really excited to do a chit chatting video with you. Ladies. I love you guys so much. I do appreciate all the comments that you guys put down here. There are a few of y'all who are constantly constantly commenting on all of my videos every time i comment something y'all, you know what i have to show y'all. Some love, so i'm gon na drop something up here in the video, so you can see. Okay, i love y'all. Y'All are super supportive um. This has been a tough tough year a tough year. Okay, crazy one and um y'all got y'all cool with me. I, like y'all y'all, keep me going a little bit. It makes me feel good and i'm not just saying that, because a lot of people just want to sound thankful on youtube. But i really appreciate it because sometimes i really be in my emotions and i'll, be in my feelings. Due to life and a little bit of youtube - and i don't be wanting to film - i don't really want to be on camera - i don't be want to put anything out and then once i see you guys comment, you guys are so supportive, so sweet so nice. I'M like oh, my gosh you're, my ladies, i got ta put some out from and you guys actually encouraged me and inspired me to keep going and putting out more stuff and trying to give y'all quality content because i love y'all y'all y'all. It'S a few of y'all y'all know who y'all because y'all always commenting, we always going back and forth. So thank y'all. So much okay, this video, probably lengthy, but it's all good. I am tripping if you want to see the latisha review. This is, i mean this ain't even leticia. It looks like you'll see that out, but i'll see you on another video y'all i'll holla, bye,