Asmr Hair Brushing + Story Time! (The Infamous Slap + How Life Mirrors The Movie Invaders From Mars)

So in today's video i'm going to be telling you another story, a story time video so said about cuckoo cuckoo and relax, relax, relax and enjoy the show a slap hurt around the world. Yes, even i am going to briefly - and i mean briefly talk about this - i always have to psychoanalyze the crap out of everything, but i'm not going in-depth about. Will smith's behavior his marriage, alopecia orlan academy in this video, because i don't care about gossip. The only thing i wanted to say about will is that he has always come across me as a people pleaser. I recognize that part of him because it exists in me as well and sensitive people, assuming that he's one of them too, tend to have a hard time owning their sense of self there's. A quote unquote need for external validation and he even touched upon that in his acceptance speech. The whole situation was so hard to watch because things are way deeper than what you see on the surface. With that being said, the memes i was sent memes after memes of the situation. I have a tall coffee for jada, keep my wife's name out of your mouth. When i rub my cat's belly slap where's the day, i'm new to memes, so they are ridiculously funny to me. People can be so damn funny, and you know what i realized that other popular meme. Why so serious bro? I finally understand it not what it means. Literally, but why does everything in life have to be taken so seriously? Why does everything have to end up with a shocking response? We make things so much harder for ourselves a lot of times and i'm speaking for myself, not about well myself being highly reactive, is detrimental and toxic to the mind and body. There really is no need for a cycle of irrational behaviors or outbursts, but some people operate like that. It'S normalized behavior. I didn't recognize this for a while, but every time i'd have a meltdown each month. It was actually a cry for help. I didn't recognize it as such. It was just a normal behavior to me. It was only when this behavior was challenged, as well as witnessing the fallout of these meltdowns. Did i realize that this isn't normal? It'S not normal to have a debilitating meltdown each month. It just clicked in my head that i need to address this with a professional and i've begun the process of that, and let me tell you it is not easy to do that. Being vulnerable physically feels wrong, as if it's going against your survival instinct, but once i was able to step past that initial resistance, it honestly felt like a huge relief in retrospect. It actually wasn't so bad at all. It occurred to me that feeling all of my feelings is okay. I don't need to fight them or shut the bad feelings away. All emotions are important, not just the ones that feel good. Each emotion serves a purpose, and i realize that it is important to accept that this is part of being human to encompass a range of emotions to feel happy. Sad angry disappointed all of it. So i am trying to accept myself and others as being human. A person that is subjected to all emotions, a person who is subjected to making mistakes and it's okay to make mistakes. Revelations were made left, and rightly this got me thinking about why my favorite movie of all time was invaders from mars. The 1986 version that movie scared me so much as a kid. The scene, with the twirling thick long needle being injected behind even the scene when the brain creature was introduced, gave me goosebumps. I'Ve never seen anything like that before and even though it was just a movie, it sparked a level of fear inside of me, was it just a creature that gave me the creeps or was it something deeper? I was an old soul. When i was a kid, i had many questions about life when all the other kids mindlessly chased each other. I just wanted to know the meaning of life so badly. I wanted to know why there was so much suffering in life. Why was everything so painful? Little did i know, but that movie really symbolizes the programming that is done from childhood even way before birth, of our conditioned reactions, behaviors and thought processes. Our previous experiences often dictate our reactions in the moment, especially if we don't have a proper understanding of them. I often felt trapped by my own mind as a kid i was always told. I wasn't good enough, even though i was the best child any parent could ever wish for. It was like everyone had been probed by that needle everyone. I once to turn on me. People weren't, who they seemed to be it was all just a disguise, and this movie mirrored back to me how i felt about life. This movie proved to me that people were just like that too faced. They could turn on you in an instant, but of course, as i got older, and i took the time to understand the human brain, how the mind functioned only then that i unlock a little bit of the truth. I had to unlearn a lot of negative behaviors, but something to learn better responses, better coping skills, and it is very hard to do that by yourself. But you can change the brain patterns if you are willing to put a lot of effort into improving yourself and you'll probably make significant changes in a short amount of time. If you seek guidance with a professional, that's how i currently feel anyways bringing it back to the movie. I was drawn to element of fear and distrust because of those were familiar feelings to me and subconsciously. We seek out what is familiar, often replay the narrative of victimization of someone doing us wrong. I think it's similar to a dopamine kick a rush, i'm gravitated towards scary movies, because it triggers the condition programming in my brain and body, and it gives me that same feeling as it did when i experienced traumatic situations in my childhood. I know that sounds really deep, but it actually makes sense. I used to [ __ ] scroll through the whole list of horror movies on netflix for hours, just to get that dopey kick, and i realized that something stressful must be happening in my life. For me to trigger this behavior, so for me this was more than just about watching scary movies, but rather a psychological response to stress and honesty. It'S such a waste of time. If i'm going to watch a scary movie, it's got ta have substance to it. No more f rated movies, i'm taking my time back with that being said now. I can actually appreciate the horror movies that i love as a matter of fact watching my favorite horror movies, all over again as an adult, it's different, the cgfs i like to call it cjx, because cgi don't do it like they used to anymore. Technology is far advanced for my simple mind. What one scared the living crap out of me, for example, that brain creature, making its debut and invaders and mars made me laugh so hard as an adult i mean a five-year-old, would have laughed at that, but not innocent literina. Even the humor of the movie was on point the scene where the teacher went into the underground pod was unforgettable for me when the needle activated in her neck, she started to chant that was stupidly. Hilarious, nothing beats some old school horror movies. I love campy or humor and i usually hate humor. I don't like comedy or funny lines in movies, but comedy horror gets passed but evil dead 1981. Anything with bruce campbell will always be uncle's favorite. This is a perfect example of comedy or done right. I laughed. I got scared, i loved all the ridiculous score and it held my attention to rolling credits, loved it nightmare on elm street and all the series, i think, the third one or fourth one was my favorite. The dream warriors without the fourth one. I love how each character imagine themselves to have superior strength powers which help them fight against freddie. I mean, if you believe it to be real. Your subconscious can't decipher conscious reality and dream world. As an adult. You can appreciate the little things you may have missed. As a child you'll catch on to innuendos or whatever verbal mumble jumble, an older person would more likely understand, or even just the not too seriousness of it all when it comes to the core factor. The youtube channel dead deadmeat is so awesome instead of scrolling through crap movies. I get the summarized version without the drama. That is a channel done right. I love james's humor and he always has good energy. You see, scary movies, don't have to be all of that. Psychological warfare - it can just be a damn movie, i'm bringing it back to the beginning about not taking things so seriously find the joy in everything i mean it's so easy to point out the negatives, but how about we focus on the joy in life? Joy comes in many forms, creating movies, creating a youtube channel painting. We all have an innate desire to create something from our mind, our inner being desires to manifest and show itself self-expression in many forms, and life will mirror exactly how you feel if you're feeling crap well, then life is crap too, but if you can find the Joy and shift perspective amongst the graph, maybe you'll, be able to appreciate life or scary movies from what they are. It'S just another form of expression, someone envisioned it and a team of individuals actualized it and there's something really cool about that on a quick tangent. Maybe we are living in a simulated universe. Maybe there are other beings watching how we live like sims. We are just pawns of the original creator. I mean down to a cellular level, even cells create and proliferate. Perhaps that's just part of programming yeah. Our cognition is a result of time, evolution and progression when we access the deeper parts of the brain. Our perspective broadens and the external world begins to change. So really, if we choose joy and do our best to gravitate towards it, then perhaps the world won't seem so bleak anymore, as we allow ourselves to experience things differently and that's a start. Little things that we usually glance over. Like someone letting you pass in front of them when paying for your groceries, that's a really nice gesture. When you can feel the hot water hitting your back, you feel grateful to have hot water when you walk past a stranger carrying their baby and the little bip squeak smiles at you making. You smile back, that's joy, it's everywhere as long as you're receptive to it. If something brings you joy absorb it, take it in and do what brings you joy? Why so serious bro i like that meme! Well, that is the end of my thought process tonight. I hope you all are gravitating towards joy on a daily basis and it's okay to feel like [ __ ] too get some rest. You guys sleep tight sleep, tight, sleep, tight and i'll talk to you very, very soon. Good night uh, you