Ever Wonder Why It Can Be So Difficult To Find A Hairdresser For Your Natural Hair?

One day I was walking down a popular shopping avenue, and found myself in a strange position. I had just taken down a protective style, and was proudly rocking my fluffy fro, while I ran a few errands.

As I walked past a beauty salon, I was approached by a hair stylist.

“You want a PERM?!” she asked, loudly. I turned to looked at her, but did not respond. I kept walking, my ‘fro waving in the breeze….

For a split second, I found myself asking, ‘Why is it so difficult to find a hairdresser who understands natural hair?’

I noticed her salon chair was empty, perhaps she was low on referrals? I will never know for sure. From her initial statement, I knew she did not share my curly vision, and because of that, she could not be my hairdresser.

In cosmetology, it would seem that the best lessons about natural hair are learned outside the classroom. I find that each time I have had an epic fail at a hair salon, one of these issues played a role.

I sum it up to three main reasons why finding a natural hairdressers can be so difficult; the hairdresser is not experienced with kinky textured hair, the hairdresser wasn’t a referral, or there was a breakdown in communication.

1. Inexperienced Hairdressers – The average cosmetology school does not train hairdressers to deal with naturally curly and kinky* hair. With over 1000 hours spent learning about hair in school, very little of that time is spent on curly hair.

There is some instruction on blowing out hair, and relaxing curly, textured hair but by and large cosmetology school teaches just the general theory behind hair, and how to care for it.

After cosmetology, it is up to the individual to apply those lessons to their client. It is only through experience that hairdressers can really learn about what works for different hair types and textures. Only go to experienced hairdressers who have worked with and who understand the needs of naturally curly and kinky* hair.

2. Ask around, word of mouth! Referrals Only – When searching for a natural hairdresser beware! Go to someone who specializes in your desired look.

If you have locks, hunt down recommendations for a someone with a reputation for styling and maintaining locks. Be sure to only go to a recommended hair dresser.

If you have a twa, or massive fro, go to someone who is experienced in natural textures and be sure that your hairdresser understands the needs of your hair.

Understand that not all hairdressers are created equal. If a stylist is recommending a ‘perm’, in the midst of doing your hair, that hairdresser is not for you, walk away and don’t look back.

This may be a tall order depending on where you live, so if you see a fierce natural with a gorgeous hairstyle on the street don’t be shy, ask which stylist she recommends! Most curly girls are thrilled to share their curly findings.

3. Lack of Communication Speak Up! – So, you’ve done all your research, you spy the prefect style and you set the appointment with a recommended hairdresser.

Now you’re in the chair, this is the important part! Set clear guidelines while in the chair and before you begin, make sure to communicate your needs. No hairstyle should hurt, if you are uncomfortable in the chair, you will be uncomfortable at home.

Be sure to speak up! Tight hairstyles can lead to headaches, hair breakage, and even hair loss by traction alopecia. If you practice the ‘no poo’ method, be sure to let your hairdresser know before she dashes shampoo on your strands. Many curly girls even bring their preferred products to the salon and a good hairdresser will be fine with that.

Some styles require the stylist to straighten or stretch your hair before styling so ensure that the hairdresser is treating your hair with love. Ensure that heat protectants, and wide tooth combs are used to tackle your curls.

Communication is key to achieving the hairstyle you want while maintaining the health of your hair. Be sure to communicate your long term goals to your hairdresser, so they can help you along the way. If your hairdresser does not share your curly visions, you may want to find a new one.

Keep these tips in mind when searching for a natural hairdresser, and you will be on your way to finding someone who can assist you in taking care of your curls.

Do you go to a hairdresser or do you do all your hair care at home now?