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So you're getting married, are you going to live full time with your partner, or would you prefer to have your own separate space where you can go to retreat to decompress to collect yourself and your thoughts to center yourself and in today's video, this little segment called Hot comb and key where you know i do my hair and this unit is from omg her hair and i have links in the description box, but we're going to do my hair and then we're going to have a little kinky, so hot comb and key. What do y'all think about that? If you want a new name, let me know if you're new here definitely subscribe. I'D love to give you a welcome, so let me know down in the comments, but this really had me thinking. I talked about this in my instagram stories and got so many different responses, but i felt seen by so many of you because we all identify. Sometimes you want to have your own separate space away from your partner because it boosts productivity. You can do more. You know what i'm saying you have better clarity, especially if you're someone who's running a business. If you're looking into adventures girl with everything going on in the panoramic, a lot of people got a wake-up call. A reality check that, maybe you don't like your partner, but you love them and perhaps giving you your own separate space can make all the difference, but definitely stay tuned. We'Re going to get all the way into it again. All the details on the hair will be linked in the description box, but let's get into it because girl some of y'all were frying me up for no reason, but okay, let's get into it. So, instead of just doing like your average hair review, i wanted to incorporate more like real raw uncut topics. I'Ve been doing this more on my instagram and y'all have been enjoying it so today we're talking about getting married but living in separate residences. But you know what it's so important to just like, open your mind to different perspectives, different ways in which people live. You just start to look through a different lens as you get older, especially if you're in your late 20s 30s girl. I did not have the same mindset that i have when i was doing. Crochet tutorials in my dorm room life changes people change, but for the wig this is from omg her hair. This is their 16 inch deep wave unit, 150 percent density. The curls on this are delicious. They are popping when i tell you get into it. I can already see the big voluminous curls that i'm going to have and i'm also going to go in and do my customization, because you guys know i like to do customization on the canvas block head. I encourage beginners to do the same, so i went and of course used some water to saturate the hair. So i can see what i'm working with, and this has pre-bleached knots. It is pre-plucked. It looks really good. You don't have to do a lot, but you know i do the most. That'S just my specialty, so i went in to go in and pluck the hairline just to get it right. You know this is when i started noticing this unit has like a widow's peak. So to the boys and girls who have widows peaks, you have options get into it and once i you know plucked everything to my liking, i also went in and did you know the little slit down with the wax and the hot comb? Okay and speaking of hot comb, i think i want this new hair segment to be like the hot comb key. You know what i'm saying, because you know i'm always using a hot comb, but like what do you think about that? Like? Let'S talk about a name for this little segment, i think i'm gon na go a little bit old school today. I think i'm gon na go ahead and go in with the guys to be glued styling spiking glue. I just want to remind myself what is giving, because you know - and this is the water resistant version so perfect for spring and summer, as the temperatures start to increase. When i put this on, i noticed that the widow's peak is very pronounced. It is particularly low and the hairline goes far back, so i don't have coverage of my natural hairline, so i'm going to have to finesse a little bit like i said i am nowhere near the same type of person who i was in college. You know i wanted the big wedding. I wanted a whole bunch of people there. I wanted my mother to make my wedding dress. I had all of that in my mind, but you know what people evolve and what i've learned is that you can love someone, but your you know idea of love of a successful union partnership. It changes. I don't need to be all up under you. I have been living on my own for so long since i got accustomed to it, and i, like that tranquility i like that solitude and that's not to say that it can't be achieved with the partner. It'S just the way i'm set up. I want us to be able to have a house to live together, but i also want us to be able to. You know, have an apartment where we can go and do our own thing. We'Re not always going to be in the same frame of mind. We'Re not always going to be on the same wavelength, we could have different vibrations and frequencies, and i want to be realistic about that, because i don't always want to wake up and look at you. Some of the responses that i got like really helped me to put things into perspective, because i felt like i'm not alone. Someone said, if i didn't have to i: wouldn't we would visit each other at night. Okay, someone said they would live with their partner. Yes, live with partner, someone also said: yes, i need some time from our children, our future children, and he needs to be there to take care of them again. That could definitely be viable and feasible within the framework or the sort of living arrangement that i have in my mind, so i don't know i just kind of try to understand why people didn't believe that multiple things could be true at a time you can be A completely you know, present parent who participates in your child's life, but you can also have a living. You can have a living arrangement where it's conducive to meeting everyone's needs, even the children's needs, because oftentimes, i don't believe that we take into account children's feelings and emotions and the space they may need all the time. But someone said nah. I'Ve realized so much before getting married that it's important to have your space. Now what a lot of people were talking about was you could have your own little like man cave your diva din, and i didn't like that. The diva din sounds cute, but the way i'm set up says you can give me the house, and you could give me my separate space, like my own separate apartment, condo, beautiful vibes and based on some of the comments. I also got to see that some of you, the reason or the rationale behind you wanting to live with your partner is partially, maybe even subconsciously because of you wanting to have a degree of surveillance over your partner. It'S not always what you are saying. It'S the subtext of what you are saying some of you may have, and we all have them naturally, but some of you to a degree based on your experiences, your personal fears. You have a bit of insecurity about how successful or the longevity of your relationship can be if you are within a different space than your spouse, and i think what it all boils down to is great communication. I think we take for granted how successful two individuals can be when they can communicate exactly what their needs are at any given time, because they are subject to change at any given time. So it's just interesting, for you know some people to believe that the relationship will suffer, because if you have an argument, things that are unsaid, you know you have a whole space where that void can just like thrive. But again it goes back to communication and how much do you trust your partner to trust their and trust their ability to communicate with you? I mean it's all about just like opening up your mind and like being real about who you are actually in a partnership with and their actual abilities and their capacity to operate in a way that doesn't jeopardize the health of the relationship, whether it be mentally physically. Emotionally, spiritually, we also have resources that we can tap into in the event that you know. We need that additional assistance, because, again, what goes on in our life can change and how we respond to that stimuli. Those occurrences it can also change you get me, i'm always going to be the person who's trying to challenge you to see a viewpoint that may be different than yours, but again we're respectful of everyone, but it also made me realize in reading many of these responses, I believe that we as a people sometimes succumb to the pressures, but we subscribe to societal ideas and norms of what we believe to be the ideal marriage. You know we start to subscribe to these ideologies and we believe that if we are deviating from what has become the normative culture surrounding marriage, it's that we're at fault - or maybe marriage isn't for us. But it's about changing the dynamics, changing the framework being open to how you know, there's an evolution of of the sort and it can apply to your marriage. It doesn't have to be conventional and i think sometimes conventional is about playing it safe and some people. Typically. Don'T want to challenge, you know what has been mainstream. Do you know how many of my followers have actually talked to me about the fact that a lot has changed about the perception of marriage and their partner while dealing with the whole panoramic and what another young lady disclosed, which i thought was so eloquently and just Beautifully stated, i love how she summed everything up. You could be with someone for eight years, but they're not the same person, and when i prefaced this discussion i told you guys. I am not the person that i was when i was in college. Doing crochet braid tutorials now, to give you a little bit more on the responses i received, someone said i am married and i right now could do with separate living lol. Someone said yes, but have a man cave in my special room? That'S fluffy, pink and always clean with a fridge. I thought that was very cute. Someone also said separate spaces in the same home. Sure because time for me is important very much so, and the next person said i couldn't imagine living apart from the old man. Yes, i have to live with my man, otherwise we're just besties, not a couple whoa. Okay, so on to one of my favorite parts, you know the adult swoops. Okay, i mean if your team baby hairs, that's cute! That'S fine! I'M going to be using the guy to be ultra glued invincible, styling gel again. The spray that you guys saw me using this was the bed head mini hardhead spray. You could use this to install your wig it all in itself, but i used you know. This is a combo just to install, and then i'm gon na use this to do my adult swoops, because you know we're grown and sexy. But if you got this far, definitely let me know i would love to know if you are currently married. Are you living in an apartment or are you living in a house? I think that can definitely you know change your outlook. It can shape how you view living spaces, and you believe that you have sufficient space for yourself, your partner and if you have children um because again having that space to retreat and decompress is so so so important. So i would love to hear from you guys. I know for myself: i would love to have a family and us have us live in a house. That is something that i did not have growing up. We did a lot of apartment living. You know moving a lot, so that's just something that i would love to speak into existence for my life. Now i'm trying something new. I wanted to give this a try to see how it is. This is the tresemme flawless curls extra hold mousse, and you know i love a good mousse, so i'm just gon na pack it on the hair. Okay, the verdict is out. I love this mousse. I love what it's doing thus far. It smells so good. I'M using a huge amount of mousse because girl this is like hydrating, but it's also going to give you that hold and bomb curl definition. And it's giving me some shine. I see it y'all see it because it looks it looks so good and if you haven't already definitely check the description box for all of the products i've used, especially the felicia leatherwood brush. Let me tell you this detangler brush. Is everything go support? A black woman? I love this brush for curly units. Okay, so the hair looks very different towards the end. I realized i did not like the curls being so close to my face, so i went in and just with a paddle brush. I fluff them out to make them just super full and a little bit more distressed, get a little bit more of that friendly phrase that i like, but i'm feeling this look so much more. You guys could definitely let me know in the comments section what you think begin check out: omg her hair. This is their deep wave unit, 150 density, 16 inches again all of the details and the links will be in the description box. Make sure you check them out and if you shop with them, let me know your experience. I love hearing from you guys, but thank you so much for watching. Thank you for the conversation. I look forward to the responses and i will see you in the next one:
Comments
Amora Hill: Side note... a lot of you guys’ grand daddy’s had separate households and no one knew until 18 years later . Let me stop....
SimplyJamee: My limit is a man cave or a woman’s nest…within the SAME house…the whole idea of marriage to is oneness…one marriage, one house…
Shauna El: Married for 19 years. We lived in the same house we built 20 years ago. I wouldn’t have it any other way. We have enough space for each of us to have our alone time. We only have 2 kids 15 &20, our 20yr is away at school, we practically empty nesters! The key for us is to still be an individual while in a relationship
Kellie: I'm married and I cant see myself living in a separate home but girl a different bedroom hell yess. I need something to myself sometimes. My grandparents had different bedrooms growing up and it worked well.
MrsLegalDiva: Marriage is not one size fits all. It’s an ongoing negotiation. Do what works for you.
Qt_Mz P: I totally understand! My husband, and I have our separate spaces, within the house. Separate homes can invite infidelity. Marriage isn’t about testing one’s self-control. However, I do believe marriage should be defined by the individuals involved.
Kellionta' Mason: I've been married 10 years and I'm not gonna lie it would be nice to have my own place I do think couples shouldn't work AND live together. I need that separation
Sonja WaJoBoAt: Living Apart Together Trust me it's a thing & I love it!
Red_ Delphino: I get this. I think it depends on your financial situation also. I have a "Diva Den" but I feel blessed though I not only love my husband but I like him so I don't use it that much. I also respect that marriage is based on the couple, everyone is different. For context, my husband and I live in a large home with no children so when the pandemic hit we retreated to our sides of the house to work. I think that helps.
Nikki Harrison: See the thing about this subject is that before the pandemic me and my husband were closer than close and spend all of our time together and we love that til this day! We’re the BEST of friends and partners! Don’t get me wrong I have my queendom space aka bedroom, and he enjoys the living room until bedtime and then he comes to bed excited to be with his baby! We are much too close to live separately! Our bond is amazing and we can’t see life without each other which is a true blessing! We are definitely a praying couple and I mean EVERY morning and EVERY night and in between, so we definitely have a special kind of love that we are so thankful for! But I’m not judging anyone else relationship, but that living separate but married thing is DEFINITELY not for us! Blessings! 12 years strong and 4 years married btw
IsThatYourHairrr: I think it's totally fine to want space and acknowledge it. Some people aren't even aware they need space, and hunny, it shows smh. I love living with my partner, but I can respect people who choose not to. I also look forward to us having a 3+ bedroom one day, because ya girl loves a good "diva den" as you said lol. When it comes to marriage, I think people hold on to what they think it is "supposed to be" due to very outdated ideas vs. creating the marriage that truly works for them.
Mrs.Taylored Made12: Anything is possible with an agreement between two people. While I do miss my husband when he’s out of town which is 80% of the time, I am myself I feel when he’s not here. I don’t have to do as much when he’s here. My opinion though.
diamondsanglitz1: I know two yoga instructors that are married & live across the street from each other. Been going strong for 7 years. The kids think it’s totally normal. Its the second marriage for the man and he said he learned in his first marriage he needs his own space.
Lee Swank: “i’ve been living on my own for so long” THAT PART SIS! i’d love to have my own lil house or condo away from him, because what i refuuuse is to be subject to AAANY of my partners knuckle-head, rowdy ass homeboys & his misc. company. you know how disruptive “aLpH4 MaL3z” can be when they’re 3+ deep ♀️
rosa parks: Thank you so much for addressing this. Glad to know I'm not the only one who wants to have their cake and eat it too!! Like... love you but your Uber is ready haha
K Elaine: I had an older cousin who was in her 80s. Her and her husband lived in separate homes. He would come over and take care of things atound the house for her. She would cook dinner for them. And then he would go home. I'm sure when they were younger they got together and bounced arounce the bed. But they were happy.
Robbie Hilt: I have been married I have been in long-term relationships this is the first time I’ve ever been with a partner and staying in separate household and I love it I have a peace of mind and I need my space girl thank you so much for your time and listening and sharing keep it coming sis
changed woman: I've been married for 11 years and things are getting worse in my life with my partner. My first 2 years unknowingly to me was being controlled by his family . I left in the 3rd year , but returned after the passing of his mom and then 3 months later my father. Looking back I've been noticing a lot of the things he says he had a problem with me doing he now does if not more! I've been wanting to leave for so long but I'm lost, confused and frustrated! I really appreciate and respect you as a woman for stepping out and finding what suits best for you.i pray I can do the same really soon.
Tacha's Society: Girlll!! I truly feel u baby living with a man can be mentally draining.. Some people are scared to be alone or die alone sometimes they need that extra security.. I believe some people have great spouse and they complete each other. But I always feel this after this relationship I am in I would never want to live with a man .. I just low key enjoy being alone
Pamela Farrar: Your skin is looking so gorgeous, and glowing sugafoot!
Lannie Thomas: I think Communication is key, without it there’s no relationship.....
Avi G: I definitely feel if when I’m married, i need the space to have my own. We don’t have to have separate residents, but we need to have enough space not to be on top of each other.
Ariean Wallace: When I first got with my husband I would rent a hotel room maybe once every two weeks just to get away from him and we were okay with it married in the game for 12 years and he's a travel nurse which is truly a blessing because we'll get a week apart and 2 weeks together
Tierra Sardine: I’m married but military, so the time away is always a hidden gem. it’s clarifying and good for the soul.
- 𝗦𝗮𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗩𝗶𝗿𝗮𝗹 𝗧𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗱𝘀 -: Oddly enough I've been thinking about this lately. Older I get the more I enjoy my alone time just not all the time. I also like things done my way. A lot that you said made sense though. To each their own for sure. I don't knock anything. I agree with a lot of folks conforming to what they believe life should look like. I've learned this along the way. It's ok to create your own rules and lifestyle. I do what makes me happy regardless to what others think. I've heard of people that are married living seperately and thriving... Good chat sis
Dante Velasquez: Definitely need to live with my partner full time and in the same bed and bedroom. But also definitely would want to have common space AND private spaces that we could retreat to when needed.
jazz hill: I love living separate from my partner. I have my own place, he has his. It just works, he doesn't tell me how to run my household and I don't tell him how to run his. He is a really intense guy, so I need to just be free lol. I love this. People have their own traditions and the beauty of it is you can create a life that makes you happy and mentally healthy.
simply.mo88: I didn't know it was a thing actually. I don't know if I can live with anybody. I love my own space. I'm also incredibly introverted so too many people around in space irritates me.
Sammie: As an introvert who loves solitude, my biggest concern when it comes to getting married is personal space I've always thought I'd have an extra room outside reserved as my own space
Melanie Rice: Marriage is about communication, understanding and empathy! Keeping an open mind is realistic because we as women change over time( we are not the same person we were when we were 20!!)
Creators Child: Great conversation I love my time with and without my man. Having separation is good. I enjoy seeing him more with time apart.
Blackberry- Rose: Hot Comb and KI ❤️ it. Loving the curl pattern of this unit you look Gorgeous. I’ve been married for many years and we don’t have separate spaces at the moment and I don’t think nothing is wrong with separate spaces within our home.
JustStarrQuality: That goes back to KNOWING WHO U MARRY. Space/living in separate homes can definitely allow infidelity to seep in. If I need that much space from my husband…. I don’t need to be married. Coming together in UNITY is everything! It’s so beautiful. Do we all need personal time, of course… but enjoy it at home, a night out with the girls, or a mini vacation with the consideration of your husbands feelings…. But a whole different home/apartment…. Naw . Lol but. To each it’s own
Rhoda Blair: Girl I can’t with you!!! Every wig, crotchet style, every makeup product you post I want the day before yesterday (and I don’t go in for short pixie wigs but youuuu kill it ALL so I’ve got short wigs on my list of to buys) I’m over here like Santa making my list and checking it twice to get all the wigs and makeup in your videos! Thank you so much, you encourage sistas like me for whom makeup is tinted lipgloss and cleopatra liner to get excited about makeup! Thank you so much!
Jamaican Beauty: Been married for 17 yrs and I couldn't see myself living in a different space than my husband but I'm so for having your own space/alone time b/c everyone needs that time to recoup. Love the discussions
Alice: I love the look and you really work your magic with beauty. The hair is beautiful.
Sir Nathan Store (RN, BSN): Love the look...GORGEOUS!! Living arrangements are definitely a personal choice between couples. For me, I wanna be in the same house as my husband...personally, I feel like living in separate houses, invites infidelity ( on both parts). There can be infidelity either way, but this will make it too easy to give in to temptation....just my thoughts ♀️
Cheryl Girl: Love this look! ☀️
Aunty MO: No way I LOVE living with my Husband!!!! But I am a Flight Attendant so I'm not home all of the time either....
Rayne: If its boyfriend/girlfriend stage, living separately, I agree with 100%. But if we're engaged and planning a future then we should live together.. If I'm going to live separate from my husband then I would perf us to be polyamorous. I agree with needing space (I'm an Aquarius lol) but thats why we would have a diva/ man den. Or just let your partner know you need some you time, thats achievable living in the same house hold.
Bri Moore: I am old-fashioned. I think that if you are married, that you should live together. You can still have your own space, living together... I agree that having your own space and time is important. If you don't trust the person that you are marrying, that is a major concern. If you don't want to live together, then maybe you should forget about marriage and keep dating. Not everyone needs to be married with kids. You can still have a fulfilling life if marriage isn't for you.
Janell Harrison: Its refreshing to have someone with a similar mindset of my own. The only way i will ever get married is if we have separate houses. We can sleep in the same bed every other night. And can come and go in each house as we please.
Hope: I don't live with my husband either love it's great!!
shelly Ford: Love the hair! I am a little old fashion yes everyone needs their own space but when people are separate 90% to 50% even you get use to all that separation, your first thought is to go to your space to get away. But to each their own on their marriage.
Elle B Plans: My husband thought I was crazy when I said I wanted my own room. We all need our own space. So he has the second owner suite upstairs and I have main one downstairs suite.
Alesia R: I’ve been married 17 years and my husband and I have always worked opposite schedules so it’s basically like we don’t live together. We see each other about an hour and then he’s out the door to work and we share weekends together and it works very well...I get wanting your space and couples should discuss what they want prior to marriage so there’s no shock or surprise.
Kcstacks: I agree about the separate living spaces, I have 2 adult children and a 16 year old and I’m about to leave the husband here and get me an apartment for me and my 16 year old. I love my husband but I need my own space right now
Shanace Foreshaw: My husband and I sleep in the same room but on separate beds lol I thought we were strange, I guess we’re normal
Lakeisha Smith: Y'all new kids this generation wow. Well good luck on finding a man and a husband that share those ideal marriage goals with and it actually working out to bring a healthy yet committing marriage.
AM's Life Health Success Now: If you're able to afford a large enough house where you each have the space to do your own thing, and store your stuff, while doing your business, then that's what's working out very well for me. Great topic!
Tarasa Jackson: This is a topic! I love being married to my husband. We don't have any kids together. However, I have two step daughters, but they are grown and doing their own thang! I love living with my current husband, we live in a condo and trying to move in a house. We give each other space and this helps a lot. Living in separate homes is something I should have done with my first husband. That might've saved me a lot of headaches! Lol, well I'm very happy now
Marlene Leviner: I am a firm believer that separate bedrooms can save a relationship!! ( on some role play your place or mine type of thing)
Teena Taylor: Happily married 14 years and going. When people ask us how we made it, our #1 reason is always HONEST COMMUNICATION. We don't argue and fight, we simply have discussions, no matter how tough. Now we are also old school, in the same house but we still make time for our own space when needed. I trust him enough to go out with his friends, and he the same with me. Like Pink said, people do change over time, so it took us at least the first 5 years of our marriage to find what works lol
mrsjpick4: Guuurrrrlll, lol, I think you can be a great spouse and parent with having your own space, away or in the same house. I've been with my hubby 22 yrs, and we have 3 children, the last being a baby. My honey has moved to the basement, and baby sleeps with me. It works for us he enjoys the time alone down there doing whatever, and I enjoy my time upstairs, we have intimate and bonding time with each other and the kids. We good! It can definitely work. We got married really young and didnt have that space from each other or knowledge. Whats important is to have a sense of identity and time to yourself
TrulySaid: I love it my husband and I bought houses before we met. Because we’re down the street from each other it works out fine. I think it’s time to come out of the westernized culture and live.
Alice: I was already 32 when I got married and I found that you do not need anyone to help you do bad. You can do that all by yourself. I was doing great and advancing in my life. All of that stopped. No I would not do it again. You really do not know a person until you marry them.
Julia Strozier: I've been married for 20yrs and I got a job in Boston and my husband lives in Atlanta. I love it. I am my own woman and I love my space and my own place to myself. We still fly out to see one another and our encounters are intense. It works for us and yes... You have to have your own identity separate from your spouse. This helps you to grow and go within. I agree with you 100%. If you don't agree, it's ok. Not everyone is on the same level in their relationship.
Shaundra Bennett: New subscriber here (we met in the comments of your most recent vid ). I was dating/married during what I call “the best years of my life.” Now in my 40s (the next best years of my life), I enjoy my independence with the occasional intimate moments and quality time. I can certainly appreciate the concept of you, me, and us...just not altogether. SN: I love my Felicia Leatherwood brush ❤️
DESIRE YOUNG: I have been married for 26 years in July and I am old school, love living together with my husband and I have always been my own person. ( but if you want different spaces then don't get married or live together. but sis always do what works for you.
Holla At The KI D: Married 22 yrs. Anyone not living with you is an outsider. You may associate with them but living with someone is a whole other level of intimate. You are even closer if you share a bedroom. I have had both worlds sharing a bedroom with my husband AND having separate rooms. We are not as close in separate rooms as when we did sharing one. Living in separate residence would bring in another level of separation. Yes you can have your own space but giving someone an escape route out when things are not as easy is a way to not grow together. I trust my husband I dont have to watch over this man , he has proven his trustworthiness. He is my immediate family. I dont feel anyone outside of your home is your immediate family.
Andrea Johnson: New to your channel, love the content!
Danielle Starr: I just started back dating a guy I've dated before. He bought me a .25 ct diamond promise ring he's talking about proposal to me later. But I'm so scared to get out my single comfort zone.
Naja Hamilton: I'm a gurl-cave kinda Gal. I'm an only child, so I've always needed my space. My husband comes from a large family. We've been together 24yrs this past April. I love having him close but he understands and always respected my need to be completely alone sometimes.
loirin lancaster: Every relationship is different and I truly believe that there should be some compromise. Both parties should do what’s conducive for them. Dolly Parton’s marriage was the same. She’s been married for decades, Dolly and her husband share different houses on the same acre of land and she’ll tell you in a minute that it’s worked for her. I really do believe that different residents makes a marriage last longer but that’s me. If you have trust issues with your partner then TRUST your always gonna have them, then maybe he or she is not for you.
Nurse Raqki Joie: I mean.... Man-Cave and She-Shed’s have always been a thing. People blow me being narrow-minded; like their brains will open but will close back up if something doesn’t align with their ideals.
ASTERIA HAIR: Yes, it's necessary to have own space.
Kenya Alexander: I love separate space sis, the way I'm set up.
Truth Like Venom: Marriage is what you make it. I was married for 16 years before my husband passed away. We live together for the entire marriage except two years when his job relocated him four hours away. Trust and communication is key! He hit that highway to come home at least three times a week. God, I miss that man. During that space, I did notice we loved and listened to each other more. The space didn't break us, we appreciated each other's time and space more. So do you. I would recommend separate rooms before apartments because of the cost, but if you can afford two of everything and you both are mature to handle it...go for it.
Leave Me Alone: You have to marry someone who believes in separate spaces too. When I brought it up to my ex, it made him feel like I didn't want to be with him. Even after I explained my views on it, it wasn't his definition of marriage and how it's supposed to look. For him it was a big red flag. For me it means providing a place of peace.
N B: I've been separated from my husband since April because I'm the trailing spouse .. moving for his new great job. While I love not sharing the bed (I need a king size bed), not& cooking everyday (I love cooking for him but I'm tide sometimes. )... aint no way I'm doing this on the regular. I want him near me.
Marilu Glenn: Hi beautiful, being a much older woman than you girls, to me having my own space is a must, but not in a separate home, it is exactly how was said, I don't want to see his face every morning, sometimes I need to go to bed early, I am organized, he is not. There are so many reasons to lovingly be in our own space, there is not enough time girl to tell you........ Thank you for bringing this great theme up, it is a great conversation starter....................Oh Taste Pink.....You,,,,,You smattie pants!
Carolyn Dye: Yes Huni Yes that hair Is everything!!!!
CallMeSoap: Hey sis. My husband and I have been married for 5 years and we live together in a house. We're looking to move outside the city and have some land. I most definitely want my own room however my husband is not liking that. Being 5 years in I can tell it may not reach 10 unless I get my own space. I have a garden in our current backyard and that's my escape from everything. My little piece of peace, but it's not enough anymore. I really need my own room to reflect, meditate, walk around naked and not be concerned with being touched. Together we have a daughter who is autistic and I stay home with her. I also have 2 other children so it's a little draining running around all day and then having to being a lover at night. Man I really just want ME back and I'll start with just my own room.
Lillian Love: I love living together but I want to have a house big enough to have my own little oasis within our house to just get away lol! My own little beauty room, office, gorgeous bathroom and fantasy closet! Kinda like a mancave but for women. He can have his mancave too but same house. I feel like having one home, one family unit especially with children is important. I love our unity and our bond. The closeness is a blessing. I love us working as a team!
Thirteen Hales: Beautiful unit!
Anna Watson: I thought I was the only one who could live in a home separate from my husband.
Emeth: Sweetie, I am an older woman, and let me tell you I, would love love love to have a place of my own to go to. When these men get older, they can be worst than babies to take care of. They can drive you crazy especially if you were out there with them, and then you no longer want to hang in the streets with them partying, because you have turned your life over to the sweet Creator, and they are not about that life. I have to pray a lot and do a lot of repenting. Please don't let them have a sexual problem and can't perform anymore. They don't trust you at the beginning of their problem, or maybe never again. I must have been crazy to do this a second time. I do look forward to the times when he goes out of town with his buddies. That"s when I really get my peace to praise the Lord like I like to do and not have to cook for anyone if I don't want to, which after getting older I hate more than I did when I was a young woman. Living in an apartment, although I have my computer room, which saves my sanity, it's not like having a house with more rooms. Don't get me wrong I love my husband, and he is very quiet, but when he gets on your last nerve during an argument, although they are few, and you just can't stand looking at him, so yes a place of your own sounds like a piece of heaven although I would probably miss him after a few hours of being alone. We have been together for over 25 years.
LucyofLouisiana: Ooooomgggggg this is me ! I swear I want to live separate!
kimberry2010: Never married, thank GOD! I need to be able to get out a mess quickly. LOL!
Toni Chapman: Just beautiful! I think to be a power couple you need to live together. But, I also feel like you need some me time. A women retreat or anything where you can just think. I call it "Me Time".
Patrece Williams: As always another awesome video. Do you do hair? I would love to book an appointment for a crochet style or something lol. Your videos always make me want to get dressed and find something to do.
Dee Cannon: I know SEVERAL married couples of varying ages who live separately, but are happy. They have children and come together for family functions, travel, etc. Everyone doesn't want to constantly share space.
amoryll36: ♀️Pink when you wear that lipstick girrrrrrrl Takes me back to wearing Rimmel Black cherries when I was doing my A levels
Tiffa Kang: Hi key...... I've been trying to set this up recently. I'm ready to homestead and he has just received a big job opportunity..... we both want our kids out the city.... the beeeeeeest of both worlds!
Michele: Hi taste pink, No shade or disrespect, I'm not gonna respond to the topic but you nicely styling those wigs. Thanks for sharing your knowledge and talent.
Flamboyant Touches: I been married for 8 yrs and with my partner for 21 yrs.. yes we live in an apartment and we are looking for our first home.. Not to mention we are on our 4th kid and last lol.. but I listened to you and I hear this from some of my friends.. I feel like if you don't get to the point that your best friends that's where those thoughts come in.. I can't imagine living separate but a lil break room smoke room or prayer room is definitely needed once you get a home.. great topic by the way.
nnaturalheaven *: I'm celibate of many years, I could expound much on the blessings, growth and beauty to the Soul of having "self space", but I'm not married, so due to the Wisdom gained thru this Journey... this is where I've learned to keep my 2 cents to myself.. So I sipped my Strawberry Margaritaand kept it moving listening and watchin you slay this wig and of course I'm gonna read y'all comments.
tiffanyjackson521: Currently married for 20 years Been together for 23 just recently in the past 2 years we decided that it would be beneficial that he could could get a second house we still stay in the same house with our 2 younger children when we need a breather he’ll go stay at the other house for a night or two I think it makes us come together stronger we have the time to miss one another we’re extremely happy to see each other o and the love making it’s like next level the communication is definitely there you also have to trust each other as well
Demitrice Bailey: Simply beautiful!
Adrienne Hicks: My Husband and I have our own separate bedrooms. He would prefer us to share the same bedroom, but I need my own space. There is no way he would accept us living in separate homes!
Mocha Saidit: We will have our separate homes or a house with separate wings. He likes his space and I definitely need mine! I get so much done when he's not on my space all the time. And he has to be financially stable enough to cover the expenses
patricia burnett: I was married for 10 years, I didnt like it. Now I'm single & enjoy dating or having a companion who has their own place & own life. We spend time with each other ..& thats good enough for me. I like it.
teri t: I would not want to live in separate homes. But, I am not opposed to separate rooms. I am engaged and I said this to my fiancé and I don't think he liked that lol. We are "all up under each other" but we definitely do our own thing.
France Rhodes: Why get married? Just stay single. Seems to be a waste. Of everyone's time. But to each his own.
Carolyn Dye: I love hot comb &Ke. Works for me
Lexi G: WOW...if all of the "separate" space is needed then there is no need to get married just stay in a long term relationship or single with dating.
Donyel Foster: It must have been meant for me to stop here and watch this video and listen to the GW. Because it was like you was all in my head cause I need myspace and I'm at this point where I want my own space too. I mean so much that I want to move to another state.
Tiffany Jackson: Heyyyyyyy Pink! I'm married with 3 children It's been 15yrs. .... and a lot of change/growth has occurred!! We live in a 5bdrm. apt. So one room is his man cave!! It is imperative to get space in our home!!! However we wouldn't/couldn't be in separate homes... we're both pretty needy!! ... #respectiskey SB.. my grandparents slept in separate beds for 40 plus years... whatever flats your ... is awesomeness
Jennifer Readoux: Omg. I've been engaged for 2 years because I do NOT want to live together. Love him to the core BUT I've also been a single mom getting my daughter to her senior year and Im just at a point were I like quiet and peace. Again I'll visit but I don't wanna stay lol. Maybe it's not for me
E Money Honey: Widow's Peak Crew and new subbie; married for 6 years (together 11) with no kids in a house. The panorama taught us that we need more space for WFH offices and caves/personal space, BECAUSE SANITY!