Natural Hair On A Bih

And we are live: hey concrete uh, hey, hey, hey hi um, i'm selling a good move from the last string. Oh my energy. My energy will probably wane after this craziness but um yeah. What what's t are we jumping right into it? Do we have anything else to discuss? What'S what's good? Well, you know, um, there have been some lady content creators i'mma call them, ladies, that have had a lot to say about our content. What we talk about, how we feel about some things and they've been very, very focused on us, and so i want to give the ladies what they want. I want to give them what they've been campaigning for a little attention, a lot of attention just a little bit. You know you know hello, sweet life of atari. Oh i'm glad you're, here glad you're yourself, glad um, because this one's for you um you. We invited her to come on to the last show and uh. I guess she declined or whatever, but um. We did invite her um because we did one. We think it's very important for uh women to have a voice and to be able to come on, and you know be able to have their say in in things, and we wanted to get her thoughts on some stuff. So we did invite her to come on earlier and everything, but whatever yeah um. So i don't want it to look like it's us just trying to come after atari or not after anybody else, but but really and truly uh. You know it's no beef. Unless it's the lessons, beef but um, you know, of course, we've seen several streams being made regarding us and what we permitted, and you know our talking points, and you know people not agreeing with the way we run our show and run our interviews and yada yada Yada, so it's only fair for us to address it and that's why we're here? That'S why we're here yeah, that's fair! Um shout out to hair talk! 101 podcast my hair care, boo, okay, okay with the products with her own product line, a successful product line check her out hair luxury because we like good products, but let's talk about hair care, hair care routines. Let me explain this. For the umpteenth time i wear weaves, i don't always wear weaves. I go to the hair salon. Quite frequently. I went to the hair salon friday. Today, saturday sunday, i went to the hair salon friday. I got my hair washed. I got some weave put in it. I look good, i look good without the weave i go to the hair salon. I get my hair washed and trimmed and pressed out oh natural, i'm still natural, i'm still natural. I get my hair pressed out. She throws some curls in it. They'D be soft and luscious, because i got that thick thick, thickened hair thick, pretty hair like oh, like thick bouncy, though thick bouncy, pretty hair. I love it thick bouncy, pretty hair and uh whatever texture is in. It'S always healthy. If it's um, because i wouldn't necessarily have to find myself as a 4c - but if it's a 4c it's going to always be healthy, hair, healthy hair should be stressed in our community. It'S not concrete. Hair is freaking, gorgeous concrete has locks. Concrete is also natural. Absolutely have been for eight years, i've been natural for eight years um. In addition, um i don't wear weaves like typically when we say the word weave as a black woman in the black community. Weave is synonymous with like tracks or wigs. So when i say i don't wear weaves, that doesn't mean that i don't wear braids. Typically, when we're talking about braids as black women, we say braids that don't mean that i don't wear braids. I do on occasion. In the last five years, i've had braids in my hair twice so a a total of one and a half months and five years, but i have locks and prior to the locks, you saw my natural dresses. I have videos up on my channel with my natural hair um. Most of our streams, don't even include pictures of us. So, however, on my own personal uh, instagram page or social media pages, you will see nothing but pictures of my natural hair because i rarely put any kind of extensions, but i don't mind: braids braids are ethnic, so yeah, you will see me rock braids and i Ain'T knocking nobody who wear a weave dude. That'S your hair! Do what you want to do with your hair, but that doesn't mean that that's going to change my opinion and my preference for me and or what i like to see how i like to see black women's hairstyle. Now, let's talk about the length of time that we keep weaves and [ __ ] braids in our hair, i don't wear braids in my hair over a month that is my preference um i like to feel my scalp, but my and then to tell y'all even More so my husband loves to feel my scalp. He loves to rub in my hair. That'S all that's one of my love language. Babies touch this head touch this hair, massage this guy. So i don't keep certain styles in my head for too long i like to have my hair washed and conditioned - and i am a strong believer of healthy hair care, strong believer of healthy hair care. I endorse healthy hair care. That being said, pricing i'm a natural woman and if i go and get my hair done, every two weeks which i go about every two weeks or every 10 days, really really really and truly um, i'm paying about 85 to 100 dollars. Depending on what i get to maintain my natural hair, now i don't wear my hair in its original state, because i got a haircut and i actually hate the haircut right now, but i refuse cut it all off, so i'm doing [ __ ] to grow my Hair back out, if you want to see pictures of my natural hair, since you ain't got to search for pictures up and down baby, all you got to do is ask when we first came to this platform over here. The picture that you see in the thumbnail was the pictures that we used for ourselves for a year. That was our that was our uh profile picture for a year like we ain't ashamed of our natural hair at all whatsoever. Like my natural hair, literally and personally, like i maintain my own lots, but literally in the last five years, i've spent a total of what 200 on my hair, but no maybe 400 because 200. Each time i got my hair braided like nobody's, knocking what you choose to do with your hair, but don't create a false narrative regarding our hair as if we are afraid to and don't love ourselves. So we don't show our natural hair based off the fact that you didn't like something that we had to say about black women wearing weave, like i don't even see how that was like why? Why of all the things we said on, that topic. Is that such a sore spot for black women? That'S what i need to know like literally, we spent less than five minutes that, like the last time on that specific point, that seems to be a sticking point for black women. Black women creating content surrounding we hags mammies everything, but a child of god, because we had a brief discussion with somebody whose daddy is black. Who, if you look on her page, you will see her hair in this natural state and her hair is not silky. She has uh, you know a textured curly hair like her hair is thick because she has a black father, but because that uh came up in the course of the conversation. Why is that the focal point for everybody regarding everything we talked about on that interview? Black women are mad at that girl upset honey, shout out to andrew wilkins. He says natural hair make y'all look younger on your picks, even uh, even though i know y'all do for those a a or andy. You go to hell andy you're right behind us, though you right behind us they're going one of you, discounts, listen and you can't uh shout out to mr radeau. He says the idea that bad hair is the hair that can't be manipulated. Easily is an oxymoron as in going natural um. Mr riddle, i think that's an actual. Actually that's a good point. That'S a that's a good point. I think that's a really good point. Um but, like i said like we said, neither of us have an issue with rocking our natural hair. You couldn't tell me [ __ ], about a fro. I was the fro uh baby would be people stopping me from miles and miles around, because maybe that fro was thick, it was luscious, it's beautiful. I love it. I love to see it on other women. Every time i see a woman rocking her natural hair. I love to encourage that because i don't think that we're we see it enough not like and to be completely honest, i had an issue with atari's um stream because of the fact that literally, she posted up a chopped and screwed stream, where she was like literally Um, you know, mixing our words and and making it seem like, instead of posting, the entire context of what was said. You post the chopped and screwed version of what was said, and even you played in your stream me defending black women in their hair. In your chopped in school version, but wouldn't allow the full context of what i was saying to be heard, that was completely unfair. Like i mean i get, you know everybody want to do things for entertainment and this that and the other, but i defended black women. You played me talking about the crown act and why i don't believe in policing black women's hair, yet, and still you talking like, had a problem with my commentary. Talking about you know all my pictures are showing weed. That'S so not true, like how i most of my profile pictures usually highlight my locs. I enjoy my natural hair that don't mean that i have a problem with people who wear weave but, like you know, keep it a book. If you go, if you're going to dissect someone's house, don't keep it a book, keep it a book yeah, let's keep it a book. Let'S talk about the pricing of hair, so um and i'll tell y'all the main reason that i stopped wearing lace fronts which, outside of them looking ridiculous to me. I can have that opinion. They look ridiculous to me right um. I stopped wearing lace fronts because i was natural under my weaves wigs or whatever the girl braided, my hair, so tight under that wig um and sewed it down. It pulled a patch of hair out of my [ __ ] and i said never again. Never again. Look at another hater, a hater, and this [ __ ] is constantly hating. We don't even know what's wrong with this [ __ ]. This is crazy. We know you're crazy. Every time she comes she's coming with somebody. Maybe she can't stop [ __ ] with like i'd, be like. If you don't like us and you don't like our content baby, you have a sickness. Why are you consuming it baby? I i don't know, don't pull up on me. [ __ ]! I carry. I carry, i carry sis watch yourself, boo, all right, so she didn't. She didn't talk about my husband, [ __ ], don't do it uh see i didn't put down the church fan and i didn't picked up this goddamn uh remy. Let'S go shout out to my boo hair talk 101, she said, love the topic. Love love, love, what's up babe, but let's get back on pricing. So then, when it comes down to pricing, if you are buying quality hair, meaning that you don't order your [ __ ] from overseas and you ain't ordering your [ __ ] from aliexpress and you're, supporting other black businesses and you're going to purchase good virgin here. As always, we like to talk about uh, that east malaysian and all this old type of yeah brazilian malaysia matter of fact that damn brazilian played the [ __ ] out yeah. I hear everybody talk about the malaysian bundles. Now! Listen! So if you go and purchase you some hair, that hair is going to run you if you get in good quality hair, that [ __ ], that you can reuse over and over again that [ __ ] is going to cause cost you about a good three To six seven hundred dollars and it gets more expensive than that yeah it gets more expensive than that. Then, if you go to a reputable hair stylist, meaning that the woman actually washes your hair blows, it out gives you a treatment. If you need it, trim them. Raggedy ass ends, then that is going to be a good 200 right. So if you do this - and so let's say you get your weave this friday, you wait two weeks because i don't believe in not washing my hair. I like to look if i'm a weird weave, i'ma rock this [ __ ] and i'm gon na look fly and i'm gon na make sure they should fly right. So i would go even to get my [ __ ] redone in the process. So while i got this oh a bump, oh you was going back for them to maintain it. Yes, baby. I thought i was fly. I had to be hot with it. So then that would cost me another good hundred dollars because she gone curly. She gon na reapply the lace this 73rd, whatever um she's gon na, make sure i look good that cost about a good hundred or so dollars in itself. So you're going to pay about a good 650 to um about 800 dollars to maintain that hair for a good month. If, if you ain't going to these kitchen, beauticians um we're sis telling you to come with your damn hair braided down, you got to come with your hair, washed and braided down. She don't know how to do a trim. The [, __ ] ain't even got her. Goddamn um uh license to do hair, but she doing your hair and she got you out here, looking raggedy and then let's talk about these ratchet ass laces, so y'all talk about oh well, you don't need to say nothing about black women's lace fronts. If you can't afford to get it done, no, i could say whatever the [ __ ] i want to. If i see that [ __ ], if i see that [ __ ] and every time i'm looking at your ass, it looks like you got a goddamn screen, though, on your head, i'm gon na stare, i'm gon na stare because i'm like baby ain't, nobody took The time to pluck that out, they ain't bleach them goddamn, nuts, [ __, ] right. None of this and i'm gon na tell you something like my daughter, my oldest daughter, wears weave and she does her own hair from eye tip extensions to 360 part wigs like everything under the sun and maybe she's flawless with it. If i wanted it done - and i tell her, she knows how my stance on weave and her hair is literally down the middle of her back, that she was the first person and first person in my immediate family to go natural with her hair. She knows how to maintain her hair. She knows how to take care of her hair. I saw that um atari was saying, like you know, dookie braids or something or she was talking about box braids and how they look ratchet and they can pull out your hair. Any if you're, not taking care of your hair or going to someone who doesn't um hair care, is not their specialty and is not part of any treatment plan that you're getting absolutely your hair can be pulled out. But if you are making sure that you maintaining your hair, i don't even let africans braid my hair because i have had my hair pulled up like i go to someone who does a treatment on my hair who's, not braiding. Every follicle, who is leaving out the very fine, thin perimeter of my hair so as not to braid that up in the hair as well. But yes, anything can take your hair out, like any kind of over manipulation of the hair. Can pull your hair up by the root bulb and you literally it will never grow back so it can be damaging to the hair. But why is that an assault or an affront to black women? For us to say that weave is not favorable or you know? We think that you know like there's a better um, and you know we. We can't control how you spend your money, but there's better uses of your money than you know: spending 600 on weave every other month. And what what's wrong with saying that like? Why is the truth harmful or offensive to black women uh, because a lot of them are tied to that look and tied to certain things about themselves when it comes down to that hair, um i'ma tell you some when, when a [ __ ] get a fresh Weave honey when she get that fresh weave and she didn't actually went to a kitchen beautician that was able to do that. [ __ ] right. You can't tell them hoes, not the kitchen beautician baby, not the kitchen, beautiful, they say, mama, baby cousin look. She said got them sitting in the kitchen chair, putting the hot comb on it to blend the hair and everything girl baby they using a hot comb. The damn uh wax sticks, uh the edge control. You got your baby hairs popping you looking like every other [ __ ], that's walking around, don't grab me well, no, we didn't got started shout out to andrew wilkins. He says the problem. Is the fake hair trends have gotten cartoonish? Oh, that's a word just like i'm, seeing even young black men getting lip fillers bbl's and black men are attracted to that transformer look wing. Don'T even get started on that because um, a lot of the culture was taken from gay men who gave me and uh do a drag, show, drag queens a lot of the makeup tips and [ __ ] that you're, seeing now the exaggerated makeup were actually taken From drag queens, that is true, that is very true, drag queens now so you're competing with them for a look that they came up with because they had to be exaggerated because they were men, but we've taken this um culture on even with the makeup. Every time you go to a damn stylist or somebody who does makeup, not a stylist, but somebody um, somebody who does makeup they are putting the same. Look on you as everybody else. You got the ombre eyebrows. You have the exaggerated, um colorful eyelash extensions. You seen that colors in the house baby. Listen, you got the exaggerated, um eye shadow. You have the heavy lip. You got the thin nose. Everything is starting to look the same. So now. If we talk about it, if we talk about it, don't get mad because we talking about this [ __ ]. That'S the thing, though, like i ain't mad at you for wearing it like nobody is beating you over the head. Regarding your choice, to you, know, wear weave and invest your or put spend your money the way you want to spend it, but why are you beating us over the head about our opinions like? Why is that even content worthy that literally, we don't prefer? We even you know like they don't like their dogs, they don't like our hair, so they hate black women. They don't love black women because they don't like the way we wear these uh screen doors. On top of our head and that's just wrong [ __ ] out of here uh shout out to andrew wilkins. He says my bad. I mean black women getting body augmentation and black men don't find it attractive. Nah! That'S a lot too! That'S a lot to win. We know y'all, we know y'all know, but you know what, though, like the thing is: if we point out the perils like a and you know, um atari literally not nobody's making this, so you can literally go to your explorer page and you see see woman after Woman, like some of these women they're making a killing off of these women who've cr caused traction alopecia in their scalp, and the hair will never grow back they're charging a thousand dollars when they come to your city to do a hair, piece or hair unit. For you, or like literally, you are like it's to your own detriment, so cautioning women about wearing weaves and or having improperly applied weaves that pull out the hair in your hair by the follicle. Like that's problematic, yeah yeah braids can cause absolutely it ain't. Just the um weave tracks, it's braids too. It is braids too you like, but like you want to keep focusing on that, because you see that both of us have worn braids we're not up here. Advocating telling women don't get weaves get braids that wasn't the message at all: shout outs to platinum elite. He says i like the cooked up beer, sorry, but they give my dick mmm. We know i'm so confused. Listen. He won't a church mar that ain't had sex with nobody, but him that's a whole virgin, but he wanted to have on a face full of makeup and a stripper outfit. So a shout out to danielle she says: could it be that some women have abused their hair so badly that they don't even have the option to wear their own hair or lashes, tragic honey and it's tragic as hell? It is tragic as hell why why then? That'S her question: you know taking that question into account. Is it problematic for us speaking about it because we may be stopping someone or making somebody second guess like wearing weave and nothing, but wigs every day of the year, every day and a week like we could be, you know influencing someone to stop and think. Like. Okay, i need to wear my natural hair out and you know like stop claiming it as a protective style and say it's protecting my natural hair. What'S the sense in protecting your natural hair 365 days a week i mean a year well concrete when they take off the weaves and wigs they be having long hair. They be having a lot of long luxurious hair, but those [ __ ] ain't got no edges. Oh look, the bitch's edges be in the back of that goddamn baby. I'M trying to tell you the edges be in the middle of the damn head baby. That'S where the edge is. That'S not it! That'S not it. So we're going to play atari's, video and dissect. This [ __ ] that she decided to come up with and you know i got i get so pissy with y'all because they feel it seems like we can sit here and explain. [ __ ] to wear blue in the face and then, when y'all go and do y'all, damn videos, y'all wan na uh, pick out whatever little post y'all wan na pick out and be like that's what they meant when they say. I always said in the third. But now i'm gon na tell you something. I said what the [ __ ], i said, concrete said what the [ __ ] she said and that's what it is y'all will be all right, but we're going to dissect it. We'Re going to jen definitely said what the [ __ ]. She said, um and but but then let me just address this real quick. Let me just adjust this real quick when jen over there cussing them [ __ ] out when she over there going in on black men y'all be sitting over there. Cheering y'all humping, the air and y'all rubbing titties together, y'all excited as hell. I'D have seen a lot of you hoes in her chat. I have. I have. I have um, but now we asked jen about um the hair thing jen didn't bring that up. Jen was here for an interview, but as soon as jen said something y'all didn't like. Oh, she a white supremacist now but oh well. She don't like black men or black women, but it was cool as long as you thought she ain't like black men, so y'all can rub y'all titties together again. That'S what i'm saying, though, like literally she said. One thing based off of a question that she was asked and now is: oh, she don't have no right to speak on the black community and the black uh black folks, despite the fact that her dad is black, she considers herself a latina woman. Her dad is a black man. If you look at her hair, she has black textured hair, maybe a different grade of black texture hair than my hair, but you see her hair before it's straightened. She has pictures on her social media pages and you can tell she has black hair but she's not, but you don't want her. You want her to refrain from giving her input as it relates to black women's hair, but she can talk about black men all day long and you ain't offended baby. They ain't offended by [ __ ]. Until she we asked her about that weaving. Oh hell broke loose, um jen, they never called me a clown. She never called concrete a clown. Um we're good. We ain't got no issues. Jen is entitled to her opinion about [ __ ], just like you, [ __ ] are entitled to y'all opinion about [ __ ], but when y'all, when y'all try to uh break our [ __ ] down and then try to misrepresent what we said, i don't Have a problem with what i said, i said what i said, and i say it again: this [ __ ] looks ratchet. It looks ratchet we tired, we tied, we tied a and it's not all the time that it looks ratchet, but most women, most women, most most don't have the monies to afford to go. Get the [ __ ] properly done. I have to say in atlanta. I don't see a lot of raggedy weaves, like you know. In my travels, i'm sure if you go on the west end or whatever you'll see like raggedy weeds, like i don't see a lot of raggedy weaves that look like they have this just unkempt. I have seen them before in my life, i'm just saying like there's so much of a people are so focused on image here, they'll, probably spin, they last or you know, uh. You know flip flip something or do whatever they got to do to ensure they can get that hair done. So i don't see a ton of raggedy weaves, but nonetheless it is still um. You know it. There is still some concerns surrounding leave, yeah and um. I'M not gon na say in the area that i currently live in. No, it's not it, but but but um when you've seen the [ __ ] that when it's properly done and sheen got to have on a ton of makeup to cover up the goddamn lace or the baby hairs all the way down to her damn nose to Cover up the lace, then you know it's it's a different story. The women in atl are uh; they they they different out here, and i say that they have the money. A lot of them do have the monies. However, they get it to do it, but a lot of the times. If you do go to certain areas and it's the majority, it's the majority, it's the majority, the weaves are not up to par, and i'm talking about specifically with the lace, i think most women have worn a weave. The most have want to weave. Some point of time in a life and there's nothing wrong with wearing weave, but there's definitely a problem when you have an addiction to that weave, like i've told bomb. If you can't even walk out your goddamn house without you, if you ain't got no weaving, you can't leave the house baby. That'S a [, __, ] problem. The thing is, though too atari, like you are you advocating like a mofo for weaves like is that the hill that you willing to die on above every other hill in the entire world, black men being killed black women? Being assaulted black? This that, like it's, what you need really that's it right there baby you willing to die on that hill. Like she fighting she like i'm fighting for weave like her money. She could buy what she want to buy, she can buy, she can buy what she want to buy. She y'alls are making it y'all, making it a problem, listen how obsidian like the whole, we need our weave and two buffaloes going around the outside. Like literally, we got black men creating nursery rhymes based off of us crying and fighting and doing all of these things for a freaking hair weave, if like. If, if somebody said either i'm taking all the weave away and you'll never be able to wear another weave in your life or you'll, never ever be able to mate with a black man again in your life like what would you choose these? That'S what they're gon na choose every [ __ ] time. I already know that's sad though bro that's sad wow. They we are the community that fight to do the most ghetto [ __ ]. We gon na fight for them goddamn bunnies, and we gon na fight for this goddamn ratchet ass weave and, like i said i wear weave, i do i wear weave, it's not a thing, it's not a thing. If i that i can't wear my natural hair, i can't wear my real hair when i go outside of the house, though, so, do you think you're a hypocrite, then nah girl? I think i'm a realist. I will even i also wear my real hair. I wear my real hair more than i wear the weave. The weave is sometimes an enhancement. It'S a fun thing to do. If it's done right, it's sexy when my man look at it and he'd be like. Oh, you look different hey come on. You know that's my husband now um, it's a difference, i'm not saying not to wear it's not my thing. It'S not even not too weird, but you're, we're to a point that everybody is hiding under the guise of a protective style with this [ __ ]. When you know the [ __ ] ain't got no edges and it's a lot of them. They ain't got no goddamn edges and y'all be sitting atari. You be sitting over here, fun, boo um, but whatever shout out to platinum elite, he says black men are going. You know they will slaw out slaw anyone that will bring the muffin to the home. Oh my god, that's part of the problem. Y'All need to start calling out chicks with bad weeds yeah, but you know they'll [, __, ] them five dollar hoes and keep it right shout out to andrew wilkins. He says i have funny stories of going to two strip clubs in white hoods with black women working there and the black women think white men are prejudiced if they don't tip white men. Don'T like that fake hair, tatted up bbl and cake makeup either. You can't tell them [ __ ], though you can't tell tori said as long as her husband like her weave. That'S all that matters um. What do you say rose the tacky fake hairstyles usually be in florida. Alabama mississippi louisiana southern girls take ratchet stretcher tree to another level. I'Ve seen some raggedy weeds on the northeast too. I ain't, even gon na lie. I'Ve seen raggedy, but i didn't grow up like i grew up in the midwest like literally an hour outside of chicago. Like women wore doobie wraps, like people wasn't wearing weaves, like that, like we, i mean chicks, wore their hair in a wrap that was the literally the style for everybody. So i didn't grow up seeing a whole bunch of weaves yeah. Somebody might rock braids every once in a while, but the most common style you was gon na see was a wrap girl. What about the children? I ain't even gon na get started. I i'm not even gon na get started but um like i said it was something that we thought was, like god, damn y'all still on this show still man y'all mad. We got mad yeah. I don't want to fight y'all, but i will fight you. Hoes they'll fight you too, over they win baby. Don'T you think they won't? You need to bring a weapon shot before child cause. I was sitting there like atari, no ma'am. Don'T do that. Um and, like i said, y'all, be having uh so many problems with jen until she going in on somebody and that [ __ ] just played the [ __ ] out too honey. That'S played all the way out. I don't like that either. Oh look at sorry. Now she's talking about relaxer slower, have mercy everything except uh, being accountable and saying that weaves can be problematic like she refused she gon na she gon na uh continue gaslighting and continue straw manning until until she came strong man no mo. Why are you still watching? Jen, if you don't [, __ ] with you and why you come and watch a whole damn interview with her um or why are you still here if y'all don't like what we talking about or what jen has to say, you know like i said we asked Jen her opinion on something and true you know: what's the what's the deal like, why would you come watch uh shout out to platinum elite? He says imma smash out a five dollar hoe and keep it pushing and slow out. The next, though, banging out the black bush black baby, like that memphis. That memphis is a whole other thing. Oh, my gosh, usa, are you ready, concrete yeah? Let'S do this? Let'S do this, i think they look like clowns. I think they look like clowns. I think they look like clowns. My daughter has worn weaves and talk about some [ __ ] lace from who the [ __ ]. I think y'all talking to and then talk about. Some [ __ ] lace front, i think y'all talking to and then talk about some [ __ ]. Ladies, i think y'all talking to you, that's the conversation you have for your [ __ ] woman, uh behind closed doors, y'all feel like y'all, can constantly disrespect black women get the [ __ ] out of here. I love this and to the men that get on and laugh about black women, because you mad because some black girl broke your [ __ ] ugly, ass heart, like the podcast uh clown, the the podcast clown. I wish you would have tried that with me. [ __ ]. Let me ask you a quick question: do you think that, like the ig model, aesthetic is taking over um yeah, i think it absolutely has. I would say that it has um. I know people i saw atari say it, and then i saw um bj say it like regarding a a purr like, i think, perm is just as detrimental if not more a relaxer is just as detrimental like. There have been studies that show that um black women who wear perms that they're they don't know what the chemicals do to the brain. But during an autopsy there are black spots like questionable black spots on the brain. So i know i'm not advocating for perms over weaves. They are perms relaxers, i'm used to saying herbs, but relaxes are problematic as well absolutely um. But i wanted to know what your thoughts were on this ig culture because yeah i'm looking at this ig culture and i'm like everybody, is starting to look the exact same. So you got all these chicks, getting the same. Bbls um, the asses. Look, the same. The hair is starting to look the same, so you got the lace fronts and you got the baby hairs and you got the same fashion. Nova outfits, you uh, it's it looks the same. There'S not the individuality that black women were known, for we are the [ __ ] trendsetters we've been the trendsetters, but now we're starting to look aesthetically the same and it's crazy as hell's. Very true. If you go out to a miami club, damn near everybody looks alike. If you go to some of these atlanta clubs, everybody looks alike, and i don't know why people don't really see an issue with that or or why that thought process isn't something to be worried about. But we are the most creative race of people in the world. Listen, i grew up where we have french rolls like we wore relaxers, but baby like you was gon na, have a hair full of pumping up spray and updo. You know what i mean like that was like you know something to behold, or you know it was either that or you wore wraps like typically those type of hairstyles were reserved for like special occasions but um. I agree like we have typically been the trendsetters and you are seeing a more uniform look amongst young women. Now, yes - and i i don't know um, you know, even if they chose to look alike and it wasn't doing any damage that would be a different story but um women on cold atari. That'S the [ __ ] problem women being on cold. What cold is there to be on? Listen, it's not bring it's not. What is that doing? What is the cold doing for you? If the code is bringing you more money and more happiness, then you know all all the more. Are you getting what you want from being on cold because black women, you want to tell you something black women are the queens of um smiling in the face of adversity. Black women are not going to admit like that. They'Re unhappy that they're not getting the results that they want, black women will cover it up. By saying i get to take vacations when i want, i can you know: um have my little rendezvous with men that i meet on vacation, i'm able to shop the way i want i'm able to do all of these things, but go home and cry at night On her pillow to herself black women ain't ever going to admit defeat, i can tell you that yeah um, but the the uncold is very, very, very interesting um because it's like we be on code about the wrong [ __ ] we on cold. When it comes down to being in um opposition to our men, we on cold, when we ever uh um, that's the word, i'm looking for honey when we fighting to wear bonnets and [ __ ] outside bunnies and pajamas, we don't cold with that type of [. __ ], but are we on cold when it comes to treating each other right being? If, if you have a difference of opinion than mine, can we still be on code as we'll still be cool with each other? It ain't, no beef or anything. Can we be on cold, like that, can we be on cold and not being disrespectful to each other? Can that be a cold? Can we be on cold about some [ __, ], self-awareness and healing? Can we be on code about that kind of [ __ ]? You [ __ ] want to be on code about the wrong [ __ ], that's the that's! The biggest [ __ ] part uh problem in the black community. Y'All fighting for the wrong [ __ ] stay on code with some [ __ ]. That'S worthwhile stay on cold with raising these [ __ ], kids and teaching these [ __ ] boys how to read get on cold with that [ __ ], that person stay on cold with uh. Maintaining healthy relationships be on cold with that [ __ ], absolutely ensuring our children have more than a fifth grade. Reading level be on cold with all getting together and go to pta meetings be on code with ensuring that our children, don't don't uh, aren't fault, don't fall victim to the school-to-prison pipeline, be on code with ensuring that we are checking our children's homework and giving them Extra assignments and ensuring that they can excel in school. You know what about being on code with something positive that inspires our children that will ensure that they have a better life like that. You know come on. If we gon na be on cold with some, we need to be on cold with something that benefits the masses that benefits the black community and atari. You keep asking about my daughter, i've already explained to you. My daughter knows about health uh hair care. Now i never once said that this is something that impacts all black women, nor did i even insinuate it. So my daughter's hair is good boo. I wish i had a current picture of her. I would actually post it for you to see. I assure you you don't have to worry about anything relating to my daughter's hair, however, being that she does continue to wear weaves if her hair was pulled out by its follicles. That'S her own doing, and i would ensure that i would. I can assure you that i would tell her the same thing like i'm, not i'm not telling saying something to you know, uh, on on my stream that i wouldn't and haven't already said to my daughters. My daughters know they probably watch and they watch the show baby like i said they on code with every [ __ ] thing, but the right thing y'all only on cold when it comes down to tearing down black men, that's the only [ __ ] y'all, be On cold about that's the only time [ __ ] really show up over here cause when they think we tearing down black men and we got some type of hate toward black men. That'S the only [ __ ] y'all be on code about and that's some [ __ ] too um shout out to andrew again. He says nikki sounding like a hypocritical white person. Nikki is a natural tomboy within eyebrows. Look up her pics when she was a mixtape rapper when she was a lesbian, you mean like, then you know what's interesting about that. Did you see the rest of her podcast with joe button nikki literally blamed black men for her falling victim to some of the enhancements she's had done with her body? She said that weighing them and like all the rappers that she was around was telling her. She needed more, you know like what would always be oogling girls that had big, butts and stuff like that, and they encouraged her to enhance her body. So she was kind of you know putting it on black men. That'S exactly what it is exactly what it is be on cold with taking some goddamn accountability, be on cold with that [ __ ]! That'S what y'all do hold on. I would the [ __ ] you. Would they wouldn't have tried it with you and, and you wouldn't have been there - never yeah, but we ain't even gon na get that no light. But my point is you know it's not. This is not embarrassed black woman season. That'S not what this is, who the [ __ ], i think y'all talking to or about feel the dick eat, a dick get a dick eat, a dick eat, a dick anyway. So joe, my daughter has worn weaves and unfortunately, black women are vulnerable. They'Ve been hearing they're, not good enough they're, not attractive, you know most of their entire lives, and i don't mean just directly. I mean via media and via who they put on magazine covers. My daughter has worn weaves if you go into a supermarket and you see the majority of black women, at least in my community um, the majority that i've seen all have like the lace wigs on um. If i'll turn on the television to watch a reality, show i'm seeing the lace wigs, the ridiculous eyelashes, my daughter has worn weaves and we were shying so much away from our the crazy thing that she highlighted and i don't even think she realized she highlighted. Was they all looked the [ __ ] thing? You know the other thing that she highlighted and, and that wasn't acknowledged - is that um literally, if you listen to jen she's sympathizing with black black women. The reason like we're talking about the reasoning why black women might fall victim to you know deciding to wear weaves and not not understanding and recognizing their own beauty. And you know you also were sympathizing with black women, but like that's not good enough, because if, if we're not going to um, essentially push the narrative that they want us to push tell the story they want us to tell which essentially includes not holding black women Accountable for anything under the sun, because how could you, how dare you, why would you um, then we're wrong? Our messaging is wrong, girl and and the fact that jyn was empathizing um with the way black women have been treated and especially for their aesthetics. I that's why i didn't understand what all the hoopla was surrounding um, because she acknowledged the [ __ ] that black women have gone through for their looks. She acknowledged that and the thing is as women like and i don't know if atari don't realize this, but as women when i bring up my children, i'm literally saying i don't view them any different. I'Ve i've told them how silly it looks like jen did the same thing when you think, as a woman, especially in this space, we gon na get up here and put our kids on blast about how we've held them accountable and how we told them. They need to do better, like that, is our acknowledgement that it's a serious problem and we're addressing it within those who directly that we directly impact. What more could you do to empathize with what black women are doing or or are enduring than talk about? Your own experiences with your children, so she you she hurt your feelings when she said y'all, look like clowns with them, goddamn what you call them lace fronts on well baby. I i hope to hurt y'all goddamn feelings too. Y'All do look like clowns. We looked like clowns because i was a participant in that [ __ ] too. I looked like a clown when i had that [ __ ] on and it wasn't properly done too. I look like a clown for abusing one's children, but i'll tell my kids. They look silly that look that looks stupid. That looks silly like you know we black mamas, like we will tell our children, ah that ain't it that that's the [ __ ] that i'd be talking about. But you know if she, if she has an opinion on how something look, the whole problem - and this is this - is where we be [ __ ] up at you, can't have a negative opinion on these hoes without these hoes over here, crying and whining - and she Said that we look like clowns and no, she was asked what she thought about something that she can have a negative opinion on some [ __ ] that she views negatively. You have a negative opinion about [ __ ]. What she can't have an opinion about. She just said i don't see a problem with women. Like literally, we know, we know no she's, not being just disingenuous. That'S her thought process. So this is the thing it's never about holding women accountable for any of their ills. As long as you have a man to point to and when you have a certain logic like that, there is not any arguing with you. You, okay, sis, if you don't see women as a problem, what at all you're part of the problem, if you don't see the [ __ ], that women do, and all you want to do - is point the finger to these men baby. You are also part of the problem and there is no reasoning with that thought process. None whatsoever, um honey. We are definitely about accountability over here, boo we're about accountability over here we are um it it's just. You do get to have an opinion too, but why you be rating us for ours? You literally went and created a stream that you chopped the screw about our opinion, but now you're making an argument that you get to have an opinion. Why you ain't? Keep that same energy with us. Why you ain't saying: oh, that you know that's therapy, because we ain't over here be ready, [, __ ]! Today we ain't talking about these [ __ ]. So if we talk about black women um, we ain't on cold and we we look like y'all, but we don't sound like y'all and we need to talk about these men. It'S these men sponsored your [ __ ] wider than the goddamn grand canyon. It'S these men's fault that your ass ain't got no edges. Looking like [ __, ] clowns. If they didn't like white women and white women hair, then i wouldn't have put weave in my hair, and i would have edges that that is the type of stuff that they they push. Baby, no accountability whatsoever and that's the [ __ ] problem with the black community. That'S one of the biggest problems with the black community shout out to no cupcake zone. He says that bbl's weaves bonnets, twerking eating hot cheek toe baby snails. Yes, boo, yes period. Oh, he said the baby daddies is worth fighting for. Listen, they're, gon na beat our ass after this stream. Concrete we're gon na have to go in the hide girl, yo. They you know they coming baby. They coming for our necks, listen shout out to dain c. He says the hate train for tyrese started when he talked about weaves hey. This is the gnsc. You can't say nothing about no weed baby. You can't not say nothing about no weed they're gon na whip out our ass today. We'Re gon na have to uh baby. I'M gon na have to go in the hide and i ain't gon na be able to run around in you. Listen i'm gon na tell y'all i fight back though goddamn, but i'm tired, i'm tired, listen! I did want a bbl. I ain't gon na lie girl for what what are you gon na put? I don't want the ass part. I wanted the the the little waist, but then this is the funny thing. That'S the funny thing. So when i grew up, i didn't feel like i was as attractive as my friends, because i was sticking bones right. I was sticking bones and i felt like they got up more attention to me when i was younger, and so then i ended up being like fine as [ __ ] right at one point and then i felt like i caught up to them right. So then, so now i was fine as [ __ ], without without no surgery it was working out eating good. You know right, so i had a body i now you know i may have been a little butter here but baby. I had that. Oh, i had that body right, oh my god! No i did. I did i ain't gon na lie. I ain't gon na lie to you. I had that body. I did what right then, you [ __ ] around and it's like. I went to sleep one day and i woke up and every [ __ ] instagram model i saw had like the same shape, so you got a little small waist and you got the hips and [ __ ] and then i was like these [ __ ]. Then stole my shape and it was something that i felt like i had that i could rely on. I was like you know, um, maybe maybe you know i may not be able to they ain't gon na say i'm the prettiest, but i was one of the finest [ __ ]. I knew right and so then, when you woke up and everybody had the same goddamn body, i was like damn look, but theirs didn't move, that's the thing they had no jiggle stiff as hell hard as a rock like come on now like who want that. Now i'm just saying i'm just saying i'm cool with where i am now i'm cool. I ain't i'm not like, like overly joy, i'm cool, but at one point i felt like i had. I really had a i have a very nice shape. I was really proud of my shape. I felt like it was something that was distinctive about me and then you wake up one day and everybody walking around just hanging out there and shave you like well what the [ __ ] my real, though people don't give a [ __ ] about that. I just thought i thought that in i thought, listen, listen, listen supreme clientele! I really did thought. I thought i had that [ __ ], cornered yeah. I thought i had a corner. It was a mile so, like i think your shape is nice. Now because all your weight go to one place like in a and you in the south, i mean you're in the south, so it's still cute and you still like you know smaller up top girl just saying, but it was just funny as hell like. I woke up one day and it was like my shape was the thing that i felt like separated me or gave me the edge right and i'm like damn [ __ ], you really gon na have to be a nice person now cause. I'M really gon na. Have to rely on my personality: everybody got one of them. Yeah everybody got a fat ass in a small way. It'S a wrap, so i'm really gon na have to work on my inner self, and so i'm like. Ladies um, you know if you like, if you still like me and cause you know, i get it a lot of you. Hoes may not like me, but if you still like me, you really gon na have to do something with yourself to get ahead because look the booty ain't, the booty ain't, just that enough! No, no, no baby! It'S it's not uh! They can take a chick look. They could take a chick, that's like tiny and take her to you know, get a booty like you. Ain'T got to be hit, no nothing they can buy one of them. You know literally, like you, if you, if a man today met a woman with a bumpy personality like he could take her and buy her the body that he want her to have. If you know what i mean, because it seems the way that men make it seem it's harder to find a chick that has the dope personality. That'S feminine! That'S sweet! That'S kind! You know you're gon na have to really be that one day um and i thought that was funny as [ __ ] uh jen shout out to you love bug. Thank you so much for uh stopping by oh, my gosh. Listen, look! Look shout out to jessica x. She stole my [ __ ]. Listen, that's how she said it too. She stole my [ __ ] um! That'S how i be trolling. Atari controlling baby ass need a nap uh, but let's continue child cause. Yeah sorry ran baby. She ran off, i mean it's a lot of the same. She just chopped and screwed and played natural beauty, hey y'all, it's a tired. I had to insert a clip here. If you look at the profile pictures on sister george and on concrete rows, you will see both of them have braids in their hair box. Braids have been pulling black women's hair out since the beginning of time, and there is nothing natural about weave braids in your hair. That is not your natural hair. I think black women are the prettiest women. Are you trying to say something? No go ahead. Sorry, all right: a planet, i'm seeing the the goddamn screen door on top of sister's head. I think that's a problem. My daughter has worn weaves many of the lace, wigs that i'm exposed to look like they are coming straight out of a woman's scalp. A lot of box braids with the knot at the end, don't look like they're coming out of a woman's scalp. They know that black women don't grow brazilian hair and they know black women don't grow uh micro, braids all the way down to their butt, maybe she's making fun of the poor girls who can't really afford to get the best lace or to um. Have someone install it properly but who, when you have it done right, it can look like it's coming straight out of your scalp. I think i got. I think i figured it out. I think i figured it out.