Dusty Men & Youtube Streets Moms

You i can tell you crazy, so please take it good job, please take it easy. Okay, welcome to love, live and lace fronts, where we do reactions, reviews and commentary on the youtube channels. You love to watch, don't forget to hit the subscribe button and the notifications. So you can be notified every time. I go live oops good morning good morning, good morning, good morning, guys. How is everybody doing? Is this good, hey, guys, hey good morning, good morning, good morning, good morning, guys? Yes, we are in a we're in my bedroom. There'S a meeting in my bedroom: i don't want to get copy written but girl, okay, good morning good morning, guys. How are you i wanted to keep an eye on my babies uh my my four-legged bebbas, so i am in the bedroom this morning, okay, okay, i just i didn't feel like sitting at my desk. Okay. Can i get them? Can i get a thumbs up just for the change in location, um? Okay? Can i can i get a thumbs up just on gp guys we have a poll um, it's thursday, we're going to do a throwback. It'S not much of a throwback. It'S a video! I did not react to, but i will we're going to talk about it because um, because that's what i do here, i i talks about what i want to talks about right and um and that's what it is. That'S what it's going to always be right. Good morning, good morning, good morning, everybody, how are you how's everybody doing? I got to figure out how to put this on the dark version, because i, like i, like my screen in a flip mode. I, like it dark um. How do i fix this it'll? Why would i try to fix it now when i've already gone live um, i don't know, don't ask i'll fix it later. It'S fine um good morning, everyone bougie gang. How are you bougie gang bougie gang bougie gang, hey, okay, good morning, guys uh. Let me see. Okay, let me because i got to this is like the new thing for me um. This is um. Okay, uh we've got two bougie gang good morning, honey. Good morning, oh sip! Yes, we can't not have a oh stip, um and bougie gang guys. Bougie gang is in the house um, whether you're in the in the bushes um on the lawn in the trees on top of a building in the car at the job, with your headphones girl. Welcome, welcome. Welcome, thank you for coming through um. I appreciate you coming, and i also appreciate you hitting that like button okay, because it's so important, it lets youtube know that this is not just a silent watch party over here that we are not just um trying to get some time that we are talking about. Real issues girl, it's just that's just the way it is right. We need to make sure that the algorithm scoops me up um, because at the end of the day, there's some people out here that need to know that dusty life is not good. If you, this is, what's gon na there's bad things that happen when you deal with dusty's and i've talked to you guys about this over and over and over again, i know a lot of you know: hey, hey, hey you, two, you too, hey, portia and mommy. Are going at it guys, porsche mommy are about that canine life and they are doing the most um, but yeah guys the wages of um of dealing with a dusty um are going to be a couple of things. Okay, mark my words: if you deal with a dusty, your pockets will be empty. Your pockets will be impacted. Your hold on a second, these girls. You too stop it! Ah, stop! Oh, my goodness guys! Okay, i don't even know if you guys can even hear this, but i'm gon na try to ignore them. Um, okay, your pockets are gon na, be impacted. Your family life is going to be impacted, um because things you know things start to happen. Your family will distance themselves from you or your family has to come. See about you, because uh homie can't you came home and homie took all your furniture. Homie cleared out your bank account homie's, got you doing things, you're, not paying your bills, you're, not doing a whole lot of things. Y'All, i'm gon na have to pick up this computer go in the dining room hold on. Oh, these dogs, okay, anyway guys i'm on my other computer too. So if you see me looking kind of in a different direction, i'm trying to make sure i stay focused on the camera um so anyway. Yes, the impact of dealing with the dusty is, is crazy. Okay, but we're going to talk about that and we are going to react to a video that i hadn't had a chance to react to. I think i talked about it, but i didn't react to it, not for any reason, but at the end of the day, it's it's time. Good morning, good morning, did i see someone say: hey yanni, hey yani, pineapples, yanni, bonnie b good morning, hon good morning, pineapples good morning, caramel good morning, bbg bbg. Every time i hear i see your name, it makes me think of bbd okay, so i think bbg. Okay, um bell biv devoe. Now you know okay um shea good morning, honey ashanti is yourself bonjour bougie gang. In this thing, it's thirsty thursday. Look! If you are a woman who is thirsty for a man, it's highly likely that you could end up with a dusty and what's a dusty, there's lots of different dusties, but a lot of them are going to empty your pockets. They are not up to par with their earning potential, or at least your earning potential, and you are basically like you're selling yourself out. You are going for less than you know that you deserve, because you're thirsty thirsty for what thirsty for companionship thirsty for someone in your bed, someone thirsty for someone in your face thirsty for someone between your legs. You are thirsty. You are thirsty for um a show. You are thirsty to fill a spot. You are thirsty to uh, make someone jelly. You are thirsty for what it is only you know if you are dating a dusty and you are thirsty. If you are thirsty, you are highly likely to end up with a dusty. Do not waste your time trying to make a dollar out of 15 cents? Ladies, because he's going to be a bum, the entire duration that you date him now are all dusty's bums for life. No, some people go through a dusty phase and some people just are okay. So there is the itis and there's the osis. Okay, look it up in medical. There is the condition, and there is the disorder. Okay, so there's the itis and the otis. So you might be dustyitis or you might be dustyosus okay, so it just depends at what point you find a dusty because you could have a guy. That is a bum. He comes up off of you girl. He gets nunu and finds himself a wonderful woman and who makes him step up and decides to start working hold on a second, these dogs, okay, y'all. Let me finish saying hello to everyone. These. These girls are on something new. Today, uh mommy got her medicine. She got her good arthritis, medicine and she is not playing with everybody. Okay, um. Let me see. Okay, let me say hi to everybody there's, so you guys follow where i'm going today. Okay, because, at the end of the day, you guys know that i love to talk about relationships, marriage, leveling up and all that, but of course, on these youtube streets. There are plenty of people out here, but where is louie, though? Okay, we will do. We need to talk about the youtube streets dogs because you know where mine are mine are right. Here: okay, my dogs are acting up and showing out okay, okay, they're acting cute. Oh yes, thank you! They are a mess. Okay, i would show you guys: portia of a girl mommy was like not today, sis mommy came through like looking at me like. Let me have her. Let me just get her for about five minutes: okay, um! You cannot tell these chicks, nothing, okay and it's not just about them so guys. I did get this in my messages. One of you guys did send me the video about. I am china and we're not gon na, go through her complete and total video, but i was watching it last night. Actually, my husband was watching something else and i did finally watch her video. I saw her video, so it was sent to me over the weekend right and i looked at it and i saw i saw the thumbnail and i was shocked. Okay and i think um i was shocked so much. Let me show you guys. I was shocked so much that i could not process it completely that i just kind of um. I can't even tell you i just basically um, i just uh, i looked at it and i was not interested in looking anymore just to be honest, um. It kind of it was it was awful um. Just to be honest, i i think it was absolutely just terrible to see and she's such a pretty lady. It bothered me obviously right um, so this picture right here you can see um, so i was watching this last night, so the video starts out she's, very beautiful, really quick, we're going to we'll talk about this for a few minutes, really quick, um, this beautiful woman Right here um she got drug basically by her ex-old man. He is the guy who is the father to her kids and in this first part um. This part right here. She is talking about what happened and um he's. I think he's father to three of the kids and you may not be able to see it, but she has a shiner under her eye and it's quite disturbing and i honestly i'm gon na tell you on a stack of bibles. I know a lot of people have suffered with domestic um violence, and i know sometimes people feel like more people have been affected by certain things than actually than actually have. I have never had a man hit on me. Slapped me punch me drag me, nothing and i am shocked. I'M just shocked guys. I cannot for the life of me. I had to ask my husband, i said: do you think he actually punched her in the face, and i know this kind of stuff happens, and i know that there are people out here who do this type of thing good morning tmr. I know that there are people out here that do this type of thing, that there are men who assault women. You know people get attacked strangers all this stuff. I just i'm sorry, and i know this might sound extremely naive. I cannot imagine for the life of me that someone who says that they love you would do such a thing like this and i know it exists. So please don't take this like um, don't you know what i mean like? I don't believe it because i do, but this is absolutely the craziest i just could not believe it. I just uh my eyes had to really soak it in um that somebody, you have three children and this man he either he had to have either punched her in the face or pushed her into something to damage her face like that. It was shocking to me. So if you watch this video guys - and i highly encourage you to watch it so we're not going to react to the whole thing, i just want you to see and then later so she starts out with this and she tells us that something happened and that She wasn't going to show it because she didn't she's embarrassed. Like literally, she said, i'm embarrassed, i'm embarrassed. I didn't want to show it, but then i said well. I need to like this is my truth and i'm going to show it so then she gets to this part of the video. You can see that the bruise is starting to heal, but she's doing a sit down and she's telling us. You know what happened and i just honestly, i found myself sitting there and still kind of like oh, my god. She talked about keeping the door open that she allowed him to come through and have sex with her and still have relations with him. And you know um, even knowing what type of person he was and all the things. So if you have not watched this go ahead and watch it and if you guys want me to do a full reaction to it, i will um. I just really still need to digest this and um i got through i'm up to about. Maybe i was right here. I was right before 20 minutes. The video is roughly about 30 minutes, but i want to do it some uh, some justice. I want to watch it and really have a conversation around it versus um, just cold, reacting to it, because i don't want to be insensitive to this woman at all um. I don't know her. I haven't followed her channel like that, and i want to really understand and make sure that i'm hearing everything so i'm gon na go back and watch it. Maybe we'll react to it tomorrow or saturday um. You can see her kids are on this on the scene. So all of those things so for that reason i want to watch the video and then have my thoughts and opinions on it, but guys i'm telling you i don't know if her man was a dusty or not i'm just gon na be honest, but the fact That this man is a whole entire um wife, abuser, woman, abuser, girlfriend abuser, abusive man that would damage her face to this point, not even just her face her body uh, maybe probably punched her in the face: okay, um scratched her neck bruised her body. All of these things, and then she has, she gets up to show it to all of us. Um yeah. This is really tough, but i'm going to say this. Her courage would give other people courage, but at the end of the day, i don't care if this guy wears a three-piece suit and works downtown and works for um solomon smith barney. I don't care if he works at apple. I don't care. If he's an engineer, i don't care, if he's a garbage man he's a dusty, any man that would put his hands on the mother of his children a woman period and do this to them. Disfigure them punch them in the eye like they're, a man um her scratch. Her beat her all of those things. Yeah he's trash he's trash he's trash and i'm glad that she came forward because this is going to give someone energy to know that number one stop hiding number two um it's time to do something about it and i'm happy for her that she's coming forward, because Maybe she thinks you know, i don't know, but i'm gon na watch the rest of the video and i'm saying maybe maybe it's possible that she needs someone else to hold her accountable. Maybe she wants her audience to hold her accountable. So we know that this is the kid's dad i don't know, but at the end of the day um she came forward for a reason and she wanted people to know: okay, um, so we're here and um off the gate. Homie needs to be um handled, but i think she from what i'm hearing in the first part of the video. I don't think that she reported him to the police. I'M just gon na be honest, that's my first impression now i haven't made it to the end. So i'm not sure what she's done or not yet, but um, okay, um next topic: okay, um! Look! I want to react to a video and i'm sorry. This is more so about dusty's than it is about domestic violence, but at the end of the day we know that there is a situation going on somewhere on the youtube streets. So we are going to talk a little bit about it today, um and and that's that on that okay uh hold on just a second. Let me show my screen and um. I heard i've watched this two times, so i already know because if this ends up coming down, so be it because i already, i don't - need your video okay um, let's see good morning to everyone, i know i didn't get a chance to say good morning to Everyone how's everybody doing: hey, miss pam, hi, olivia, pope hi, coco, marie mastermind and yellow hi baboo. What'S the name of the channel, it's called, i am china, c-h-y-n-a um, i am china. I will hold on one. Second, let me let me get the link and i will share it with y'all hold on all right now. Go there after don't leave, don't leave now, because it's it's posted and give her yeah give her her views, guys absolutely go. Watch it give the lady her views um because uh we don't know what's going on if the man is even supporting her or not, but um, definitely i'm sure, look at the end of the day. We know that these these views pay money so give her. Her views go ahead and watch it, so we can all talk about it. Um have a conversation and uh. Do i even see this in the chat? Yet? Is this it girl where's my comment? Oh there. It is, let me pin it guys if you have not voted yet. Please vote in the poll guys you guys always say my my polls are shady and and and they might be uh worst type of dusty man, a liar, a cheater, a thief and an abuser. Um, an abuser could be a physical abuser, a abuser could be mental abuse, it could be uh financial abuse. It could be not paying bills, not being a good steward of the household. All of those things so abuser period we're not just talking about hands and mouth and we're just talking about someone whose actions, um and words are um less than a gentleman okay, less than what a someone who is trusted with your heart should have right: okay, marissa Good morning, good morning, yes, yes, yes, absolutely um! Look. She is uh, displaying a lot of courage by standing up and um and uh advancing the conversation and maybe even silently asking her community to hold her accountable good morning. Is it miss layla good morning, han uh good morning, miss moore good morning good morning, yanni uh carmel queen this might be where i left off miss mabes uh jenny good morning, uh victoria love good morning um. We can also call a dusty a guy who just makes you look like a fool out in public period, right someone who doesn't care about your reputation. They come up to your good job. They make you look stupid, they're out here on social media being displaying and acting and uh being a whole bum. They they just don't have any respect. Okay, any anyone who disrespects you mentally physically emotionally and, let's just even say, professionally, that's a dusty because most men with some character, most men who are about their business would never. They would just would never right um. Now, it's not to say that men of a certain stature do not abuse their women, because we know that that is. That is true, but most men who have respect for the hustle. They have respect period um, but the mental, the physical, emotional and professional yeah. If you don't give a about those four things and your lady, your trash, your trash, and if you have a guy who is awesome and all these things, but he is constantly sabotaging your job, he is constantly sabotaging your bag. I remember once when i was in college. This was in houston. There was a woman who worked in the lab. I worked for a laboratory. I went to university of houston and um. There was a lady who worked in the lab and her husband on two occasions. Came up to the job and was cussing her out and i think even was roughing her up. Um roughing her up, i don't know what he did. I was in the i was in the lab, but we heard about it. Security had to come. They had to escort him off the property. He was told to not come back um all of the things i mean she had to get the job in her business because something happened there right now. This is someone who doesn't value your profession, not to say he should beat her ass at home, but at the end of the day, he's he's so flagrant with it he's coming up to the job. Okay, he doesn't he now. He does not care about your money. He doesn't care about your future. He doesn't care about your profession. He doesn't care about how you support the family. He doesn't care about any of that anymore. Okay, if they don't like how many different signs do you need? How many different places must someone violate for you to realize that someone either isn't and also doesn't give a about you? Like i'm sorry, you know um and i know it takes a lot of strength to walk away from certain situations. Absolutely it takes a lot of strength. Okay, it takes an absolute ton of strength to do that and um understand the signs and respect the signs. Okay, um, because when someone no longer respects your safe places like your job, your mama and them house all of the things guys mommy's allergies, so we found out kind of what it was uh mommy has been heavy breathing and all of that um. Some dogs do have heart problems. Mommy'S heart is fine, there's no fluid, no worries, uh mommy does and has always had severe allergies, and the trees are blooming out here. The dogwoods all of that stuff and mommy, is having some asthma and the doctor prescribed um her regular medicine and three benadryl and the benadryl is coming. I did an amazon delivery and it's coming like any minute. So um no worries. So if you hear some heavy breathing mommy is not choking. Mommy is um clearing her throat and she's having uh she's having an allergy moment; okay, guys all right, guys, um, let's go and let's move on. I want to react to this video we're talking about dusty's. Today, we're talking about deadbeats we're talking about um. Some of these no account men that show up on the youtube streets and um. Yes, we're going to talk about it. Okay, um hold on good morning to everyone. If i missed you misting cakes good morning good morning, good morning, mary blue, good morning, good morning, good morning, look um. Let me see, let me share my screen. Look guys. This is what i'm going to say too um two weeks ago, almost two weeks ago, i had a situation. I did a story um, i did a update on strong, mommy chrissy and what was going on over there to her house right now. I took the video down the video was up for about three four hours and um. You know the more that has happened over the past two weeks. It is just telling me you know, when i've gotten severe scrutiny over videos that i've done. It'S not really so much of what i said. That was wrong. It'S what i said that was right: okay, um over the past two weeks more, you know, i speculated a lot in that video and i didn't really know what was going on. I know what the neighbor was saying in the comments. I know what the pictures were telling me from what i saw um. I know we've seen additional pictures this week and um. Do we need to say more about that situation? You know, look, kids can be nasty and kids do gross stuff um how those mattresses got to be those mattresses girl. I have no idea only thing that i can think of is if that woman moved into a house of brand new mattresses and nine months later those mattresses came out. Looking like that, then those were not new mattresses, those had to be secondhand mattresses. I cannot imagine on god's green earth how mattresses got to be in such a sorry state in nine months. I just i can't even imagine i i don't even have words to tell you, but at the end of the day, um girl, i'm so that was disgusting and i'm talking about the mattresses that are sitting in the dumpster that strong mommy chrissy said she rented in Front of the house that she went out into her driveway and identified as a rental property that she was renting. Okay, that's that's what i'm talking about? Okay, okay, that's what i'm talking about! She identified a location as a location that she rents and in that bin. There are some very ratchet stale over over soiled materials that appear to be mattresses, that actual people would sleep on. My dog's mattress doesn't look that bad okay. Now, maybe it's rained, maybe girl - i don't even know, but it was nasty. So i don't really need to go on and drag anybody for that stuff at the end of the day, um just putting them out on front street when you know that people are passing by this place now and like it's a tourist attraction and would put that Out there, like nobody, was gon na snap, a picture girl, i'm sorry, okay, y'all! Can we talk about this? Can we talk about this? Look at the end of the day, y'all think what you want. At the end of the day, i've had a certain message out here on youtube and the bottom line is this: if you're dealing with a dusty, that's your business um! If i, if i'm, if i'm reviewing your channel, we gon na talk about it: okay, okay, okay, um, i don't understand why a woman who has nine children is dealing with a man who has one child that he does not see that he does not live close To i don't know if he is financially responsible for this child or not, but at the end of the day, um this. These are two people with 10 kids between them who are actually sitting here in all seriousness and jokes aside, who are trying to tell us that they are trying to have another baby? He just gave her what appeared to be a yellow diamond and um. Now we have seen what has unfolded so today we're going to be talking to you guys about some things. We have been m.i.a on both of our channels really, both my channel and bae's channel for a lot of things been going on yeah for a minute. We'Ve been just having a life hit us and um. It'S been a lot, you know it's been a lot going on, and so we kind of just been taking time for us which has been you know, taking our time to get back to social media, but other than that you know going through some things. Ain'T. Nobody understands man girl. This guy is a complete like if this is my opinion, um girl, yeah, seriously um, but true, true story, though i know i told you guys in my last video that we've been going through some things and i didn't know if we were gon na. I was gon na talk about it on social media or not, and i think ultimately i mean bay is very private. We'Re we like to say to ourselves when it comes to what happens inside of our relationship in our personal life, our personal life, exactly we don't want to yeah, and that kind of leads me to the next point of that's why we decided. We didn't want to tell you guys anything or speak on anything, because we didn't want children was comfortable enough to do it right. We didn't want anybody. This is that look once one thing that gets me with this whole conversation is that um, i guess they've gotten to a point in their relationship now where homie feels like he has to finish her sentences. That would aggravate the out of me. I'M the type of person that when i'm talking sometimes i am thinking i actually think before i speak or think, while i'm speaking, i just don't, engage in diarrhea of the mouth and when someone interrupts me, while i'm talking um it bothers me like it it this Kind of would bother me this would bother me, which i don't know if this probably weren't about to probably take care of something ain't. No pressure, but, like you know, just not speaking too much loose, lipstick, uh, okay, loose lip sync ships um. They decided that they were not gon na talk about this, but they did. They decided at a certain point: okay, yeah: let's go ahead, let's go ahead. Let'S go ahead. Let'S talk about it! Let'S talk about it. Let'S tell everybody that we're engaged, but we decided to put the wedding back and go ahead and have a baby first make baby number 11.. Meanwhile, behind the scenes you guys are going through some things what they were going through, who knows according to them, maybe what they were going through is the trying to conceive uh, maybe that's what it is. Maybe this is better: okay, uh, maybe they're trying to conceive. Okay, is that what it was you guys have not? You know you guys realize that in your 30s, it's harder to have babies in your 20s and in your 40s, it's hard to have babies in your 30s and your 20s like what? What what was the we're going through some stuff right? So, but now we are talking about it because, mostly because of me now we're talking about it mostly because of me, can we talk about that for a second guys? Oh okay, we're talking about it mostly because of so you wanted to talk about it. That is that what it is? Oh, okay! Yes, okay! Yes, yes! This was four months ago or, however, many girl trying to conceive okay, girl. Okay, guys, i did a lot of speculating in that video on uh on saturday two weeks ago, and i think my personal opinion is chrissy lost her because she um based on these videos based on everything she puts out um. Maybe some of my speculations were hitting a little bit too close to home and homie was mad mad okay. She was mad mad. Whatever reason why that's that's her business, she can be mad if she wants to um and that's okay. You know what i'm saying um. Don'T be mad at me, sis, okay, i didn't do i didn't do nothing to you all right, i'm not doing anything different from what i do out here on these youtube streets, which is reactions, reviews commentary and giving my opinion okay, but we are. We are doing this she's doing this video right now with homie because of her going through it we've been going through it and it's it's nothing to be ashamed of, because you know when we sat down and talked about it. There are a lot of couples that go through what what we're going through right now and um. It'S not it's! It'S it's not to be embarrassed about exactly because it. This is just it's life, it's like what right so so y'all remember bae's, been you know weighing on my ovaries. Right he's been trying to get. This is the most crass display for a woman ever so homie. Your boyfriend has been weighing in on your ovaries. Okay, okay, girl, he's been he's been um he's been beating up that puddy cat is that what you're trying to tell me to go in and say, let's go half on a baby. Only a dusty man in his 30s would try to get a woman in her 30s, who already has nine children and he's got one that he lives. A thousand miles away from would try to get you to have a baby before he actually wipes you up. Only a dusty man, a honorable man, would see that you already have a full plate and he would come in here and try to help you and he would not try to burden you with another infant to take care of it's not about just having another child. Guys it's about the delay in career, it's about the uh, the also additional ad to the finances. It'S about! Taking up more of your time, it's about giving you less freedom, it's about so many different things as a woman having another child does to delay you in maybe fulfilling other dreams in your profession in your life, in your hopes, in your aspirations, all of those things. Okay, that is why women in underdeveloped countries that are limited with contraception have been fighting and fighting and fighting to be able to get adequate birth control because oftentimes in some of these underdeveloped countries, men are in a position where they, just they don't even want you Coming and entering into their workforce, they want to keep you home with babies and don't want you to experience outside life. They want you in the house taking care of babies until you can't do it anymore and now, in your mind, you are too old to do anything, but now come take care of these grandchildren. And what does it do? It limits your income. It limits your uh possibilities, it limits so many different things. Okay, that's why i always say in 2022. If you want to have a big family, that's your business, but a single woman. A lot of people say: oh, if this was a white family or whatever. No, there are women who have large families this. This is what their desire is. This is what they're planning, but what do they have? They have a partner. They have a mate or they've, got deep pockets if rihanna's out here and has seven kids with asap rocky. No one's gon na care, she's a billionaire if she's running around here with seven kids and crying people are gon na be mad because she chose to make her life more difficult by having a ton of kids and not have a husband or a steady partner. If things go south for her right, but we have, there are people like diana ross. Diana ross has what five six kids, you would never know. She'S, a rich woman, the men that she was involved with took care of their children and we don't know what she went through, but i'm sure even diana ross, even women, even kiki wyatt look at kiki, wyatt kiki wyatt has been married numerous times. Kiki wyatt is about to have what 10 or 11 kids kiki wyatt is one of the greatest singers of all times, but why is kiki wyatt, not mariah carey? Why is kiki wyatt? Not this? Why is kiki wyatt not that kiki wyatt is not at the top at the tippy top of the tippy top? Why? Maybe, because whether she was married or not, she is a mother and she is limited in what she can do. Okay, she's limited she's got kids to take care of her she's got babies to breastfeed she's got children to tend to right right. I don't care what any of you say. Having a large family can impede your pockets even temporarily. At the end of the day, it is the mother's responsibility primarily to care and rear the children. Most men will be out the house making as much money as possible and supporting their wife financially as much as they possibly can or their woman right. Okay, guys i'm not in the chat as much. I'M checking some messages right now, but let me get back to the video so we can get through it um really quickly. Okay, with my sperm period. Okay, so you know my ovaries right he's been trying to get me to go in and say: let's go half on a baby, i'm trying to talk to that edge with my sperm period. I'M sorry a dusty like you're in your 30s, he says, he's been trying to talk to your ovaries with his sperm. This is one of the most crass unladylike nasty displays. I don't care how much i cuss, and also i have a husband. I don't have a crass ass boyfriend who's got a hands problem at the end of the day. My husband would never talk about my anatomy in such a nasty disgusting way and clearly we're talking about two different people, but at the end of the day, this is absolutely just one of the most disgusting videos and for someone to get up here and be mad Because people are talking about you a certain type of way, my thing is: this: girl be quiet: okay, so yeah, honestly long long story, short y'all, we've been ttc or trying to concede trying to have a baby for one of these, a while now and um um, A while now i won't say i'm not gon na sit up here and act like it's been a super long time. It hasn't been that long actively trying um what supplements vitamins. Yes, we've been um doing. We'Ve been upping the vitamins we've started, taking supplements changing our diet, trying to work out yes trying to work out um, trying to either you're working out or you're, not um. So you're doing all of these things. What happened to the wedding planning according to her in a later video - and i don't have everything all lined up - he convinced her to get pregnant sooner than she wanted to that's, just the classic sign of someone who is extremely selfish. Somebody who doesn't care see the reason why marriages work over marriages, that don't work is because you have someone who has decided that your happiness is more important than their own. That'S why marriages work marriages that fail they fail because of a couple of reasons. Okay, they fail because people are selfish and they fail, because someone is not looking at you in the way of a better half that their happiness is greater than yours, okay um it. So let me take this situation. For example, this man wants to have a baby with you, but he knows you're a mother of nine children and he needs to make you an honest woman out here and make good on his promises. Instead of doing that, he wants to impregnate you and give you more financial responsibility and more time burden to take care of a small child rather than legally make you his husband to where, if, god forbid something happens to him, you have a chance of making decisions. You can get to the um the social security your children are covered. Maybe you can take insurance policies which you can take insurance policy. I guess on a live-in, boyfriend or whatever, but um, it's just more of a financial burden, and it's also not recognized by the law. A lot of you who want to get the law involved in certain things get the law involved in your relationship in a positive way, go down to the courthouse and make it legit make it legal, especially when you have a um. You know a a uh girl, a huge family, like our supplements, have been like, specifically geared towards fertility and conception to help aid in that and i've been drinking yes, yeah we've been doing um all kinds of teas, and things like that me particularly i've, been drinking Like a fertility tea to kind of help promote healthy fertility, you know you know homie, it's like almost like. You got to put some headphones on and hear what he's saying. Homie is trash, i'm sorry, baby baby, making him what vagina oh cervix, yeah yeah did. She almost really try. Did she put her? She flagged him like boy, stop? Okay, it's vagina! It'S it's! Not! Oh girl. We'Ve been really trying to focus on. What'S gon na help, us um conceive because you know actually real man yeah. I love. I love the process, though i love it. I love the process of trying to make a baby is a beautiful thing. You know what i'm saying. What girl this is a mess. It'S a mess. Look man's rejection is god's protection. Do you do you ever think that maybe the reason why you're not getting pregnant is because you just don't need to at this time, okay is: is there any? Is there a thought that maybe um it's time to go ahead and make sure that you're divorced make sure that you are able to get married? I mean i don't even understand i don't understand, i i don't get it me personally. What really kind of hit us harder than expected was last cycle again, we've been doing all these different changes and things like that and then you know hey. Maybe we get a we. We get a positive, a few positive pregnancy tests so last cycle she had a positive pregnancy test and we're okay. So let's talk about that last cycle, this is in december. When was this video posted? Why can i never see when these damn videos are posted? It was during vlogmas, okay, um. We don't know it's it's on here: okay, um, we're struggling. Why we've been missing in action? Okay, that's the video um, so last cycle, so this is obviously sometime in december last cycle. So whenever she had her period last - let's say sometime in november or maybe sometime in december - she had a positive pregnancy test. Okay, let's listen. Okay, so strong mommy chrissy was pregnant. Guys! Okay, are we hearing that? Are we hearing that she was? She was pregnant. Let'S finish the story, though, like excited you're thinking, you know it's it's going to happen. We didn't did it in this thing. You know we we in the game, you know he's just trying to be so funny and cute uh x marks the spot. You know uh yeah, we did it. Okay, pregnancy did not continue and it ended. So you don't leave that right. There yeah i'll, fill in the blanks um with that, and i think it just kind of like devastated the both of us. So you see it says chemical, pregnancy, so she's not saying miscarriage. Can you guys see that under here? I don't know if you guys can see it uh, it says chemical pregnancy, we weren't hold on unable to really process it, because we both have y'all know. I got nine kids with that and i think it just kind of like devastated the both of us yeah. We weren't able to really process it because we both have y'all know. I got nine kids, okay, so chemical pregnancy, you guys know if you are out here doing the most taking pregnancy tests every five minutes. You know your body can sometimes you know you could be pregnant, but it is it's just not meant to be it's not it's. Not even considered a real miscarriage because there is no real forming of a baby at the time. Your body is in the very it's like the beginning of the beginning stages of pregnancy, so they don't even call it a miscarriage at that point they call it a chemical pregnancy. So this is what she's saying and specifically i guess when she watched it. Maybe she wanted to make sure she cleaned it up to make sure that she didn't tell people like give leave the impression it was a miscarriage more so than it was a chemical pregnancy um like okay, like you're, coming from telling nothing to telling error thing: okay, Um, i wonder if she consults with her children, because i know girl, huh, okay, uh can someone speak mattresses? I miss something scroll back honey scroll back. We talked about that okay, but we'll we're on to the next topic. Um. We may talk about that tomorrow because i am going to revisit and i am going to react to my video from two weeks ago, so much information. So much has come out. Chrissy has doxed herself, chrissy no longer resides in that home and i will take the necessary precautions to cover up the offensive images. The the images that offended chrissy um, but we are going to react to the original video, either tomorrow or the following day, and it will be um a members and mods only chat. So if you are interested in participating in that chat come on through and make sure that you are at least level one bougie gang chat, gang okay, um, but we're going to react to the original video. Okay, i'm not even going to replay the original video we're going to react to the original video and we are going to cover up the offensive images. But i think that what i talked about in that video girl it got it got. Cis hot sis got hot uh. She damn near tried to send feds to my spot. Okay period like at the end of the day. Uh i mean girl, it just seems like a lot has come, has changed in the past two weeks. Girl people were coming for me like coming from my neck two weeks ago. Now it's just kind of like old news. Okay, now we talk about mattresses, okay, he has a son um, and so we know we can conceive and it just was kind of like it's something. I'Ve never been through before babe's, never been through it before it's like new uncharted territory. Like i said, i've never had something like that happen to me before i didn't know how to process it. Look if you got to tr look this man is not your husband see. This is what i talk about guys and it's not just strong mommy chrissy. This is anything y'all at the end of the day. Why is it becoming accessible? Why is it becoming acceptable? Why are we giving this type of access to boyfriends and i'm not just talking specific about rob? What i'm talking about is: why are we giving husband benefits to a boyfriend? Why why? Why are people out here giving why? Why are you having, if you have to try this hard with this man, doesn't that become a sign at a certain point? Maybe i need to pump my break slow. My row be a little bit. Why don't i go with my plan? Why do we have to follow his plan when his plan is not even in the order? If you want to talk from a christian perspective, religious perspective, biblical perspective, decent man perspective as a woman with a pack of children already, you got a bunch of children. Why is this man trying to come into your life and add to it with another child rather than adding to it by giving you a husband and his last name? Why, and why do you have to try so hard doing all of these things, the ashwagandha, the tea, the this, the that and like i kind of sent us into like sucking place, yeah kind of like we were a little bit sad. You know um and unfortunately, especially around the holidays, yeah and kind of neutral right as a woman, so at the holidays is when they got the news that um, i guess the chemical pregnancy happened and they were back to trying to conceive again. I can tell you guys: who's never had a problem conceiving, not saying that we're having trouble but we're just hitting a couple robots. It'S not coming as fast. You know in a time where it seems like literally everybody. I think these two were trying to be cute and trying to have a very sexy conversation and it's it's tired. It'S just a tired conversation um. I think that it was whack. I think that it was a mistake. I think, in light of the fact that this man has a hands problem, that it was ill-advised to even bring this man on here to talk about how you two are trying harder to conceive another baby, another hit to the bottom line. Another situation where you're going to have to stop what you're doing to raise another baby with a man who is only promising you that he's going to be there and whether you're married or not. It'S a chance that your husband may not be there. So we we know this by her being married to demarcus. Demarcus is gone, but at the end of the day the bottom line is this, at least in a legal way. You are covered, at least in a legal way. You are not a middle-aged woman with 10 11 kids with a man who is still promising you that he's going to marry you and has not. I mean i just it's just not a great move in your 20s okay. We see it happen, but it seems like you are just doing the same thing different time and at the end of the day, this guy is doing same thing like how do you know that he's going to have a baby with you and stick around just like How does jasmine know that chris is gon na stick around chris? Has three children out here with two other women and he's not with them? Okay, guys, if you want to watch this whole video we're gon na skip around this a little bit, because i'm not she don't want to be outshined by anybody else. So she's going to come when least expected okay right, exactly girl, they're talking about the baby's name, is going to be penelope. Okay, important, maybe yeah, give us some guidance and um things like that, and we can. Okay, i'm sorry, i'm done this. Video is ridiculous. Okay, i think hold on. Let me let me clear this deck real, quick girl. In my opinion, i think this whole video was like a troll. I almost don't even believe the video. Just to be honest, i just don't even believe that they bel that they believe that we would believe this. I just think it's it's stupid and um homie is a dusty and uh. We know hips is a dusty we've seen olivia with random dusties. Let me tell you this: her and gerard grew up together. Gerard and olivia and jarrod got himself to a place when he escaped the clutches of olivia and got himself to a place where the man works. The man has a better than good job, and i know some might say: he'll he's always worked. Okay, gerard always took care of his family, but gerard is working. He is getting attorneys he's going to the gym. He is on dates. He is someone that there's a woman out there that would not mind playing cleanup if anything ever happened with him in antonia. Look what happened with olivia and zolo. Okay, zolo got himself up and out of there to the point where he got himself to another woman that there are women in his inbox. Okay brandon probably got some women in his inbox. Okay, there are men that get with olivia that when they get away from her, they finally realize how low they were digging and make themselves come up. So some of these former dusty's, maybe they're, not someone that you would date but there's someone that someone will date and that they that sometimes you have a dusty as a as a woman who is doing something and for whatever reason, whatever's in you whatever's making you Deal with a guy that is beneath you, you know not on your standard, not on your level, someone that you pick up as like a science project or um. You know, make a dollar out of 15 cents guys. Let me tell you something: there's someone right around the corner that when he figures out that you're not and he's feeling himself he's been to the gym, he gets some muscles or he just really starts to look at you at the reason why you were with him. Was because he wasn't and you're not either, but now he figured out. You know what i might not be, but i can do better than you trust and believe you don't even qualify for that man anymore. Okay, i mean the worst revenge. Is that when you deal with a dusty, your dusty comes up and your dusty comes up over you, i told you yesterday about kelly clarkson's uh husband, who uh what's his name black stuff. His last name is black stock? That'S reba, mcintyre's son! Now i don't know what the problem is with him, but homie is getting paid off kelly clarkson. Not only did he get a lump sum payment over a million dollars, but he is getting over a hundred thousand dollars in spousal support and 45 000 a month in child support over a hundred in spousal support. Now he's still staying on the property and he has to cut her a check for two thousand dollars like what the really what in the whole. I don't know what this guy was doing other than the fact that he was reba mcintyre's son, but at the end of the day he got himself a country, music girl with some money and now because she decided to date, reba mcintyre's, i'm assuming dusty, ass son. Guess what this chick is: writing him a check for over a million dollars, giving him over a million dollars a year and having to give him what damn near over half a million dollars in child support and he's only handing her back two thousand dollars a month. Rent and her million dollar palatial spread okay in in, i think, tennessee, okay, this is what happens when you're with a dusty mary, j blige. This is what happens when you are with a dusty okay. We we've seen it we've seen it it's celebrities. You know some people are calling asap rocky a dusty. You know, i think, rihanna's having fun, we already know rihanna likes a bad boy, maybe asap rocky's, a good guy, maybe maybe not. Who knows who knows? Okay, all i know is this: we see it up and down the youtube streets at the end of the day. As far as i'm concerned, a lot of these women are dealing with dusty's. They are dealing with men who are trash. They are dealing with men who are not worthy. There are women up and down the youtube streets, giving out wife benefits, giving out all kinds of goodies to men that do not deserve it. Sex is a privilege and having a baby are you kidding. Me is an honor that should only be bestowed upon someone that you truly love and truly loves you, okay, um fran, you do know his daddy. Did we dirty too okay? Well, girl we gon na have to talk about that. I'M gon na have to really look into that, because i was shocked at the amount of money that this woman is having to come out on. Okay, reba, uh loaded him alone, okay, so yeah. So, like father, like son, okay, bum, okay, bum, daddy and bum bum, daddy son, okay, uh, i'm gon na slide somebody little 10k and take your girl. Okay, a mess, a mess, a mess; okay anyway. Oh so her, it's her stepson, okay, yeah jarrod is gone. Olivia. Can'T get jerrod back okay, she wouldn't be able to get him back even if she lost 100 pounds, because he knows she's an ain't, okay and um. Some of these guys, i get look strong mommy chrissy when she got pregnant girl is that amazon hold on. Let me check the front door: okay, amazon, so funny normally like when i'm in my office. Sometimes i have the cameras up on my uh on my tv and it's just like when the uh, when the cars go by and stuff porsha goes crazy anyway, guys um, yeah, i'm sorry, look guys um. I did a whole entire video on mercy. Go no mercy! Gono is um a registered nurse she's on youtube um. I will share her video it's over on real talk, bougie um, porsha's gon na do this for 20 minutes. You guys hear her. I'M sure you guys hear her barking anyway mercy um, i'm gon na tell you very quickly. Mercy. Has a hair oil business right and promote natural hair growth hold on so mercy um, her man so mercy. Let me tell you this so mercy. Go no g-o-n-o! Go! Look her up she's engaged now to a whole nother man. She was talking to someone on the internet as she was breaking up with homie in ohio, so she had this hair business right. She had a baby with a dusty. This guy was not working. He was actually helping her run her business. She put this dusty in charge of her social media insur in charge of her spotify account girl. Let me tell you something when they broke up and it was over between them, how about he changed all the passwords on everything she could not even get into her business. So when they broke up, he changed all the passwords she couldn't get into her business. She couldn't fulfill orders and she couldn't get a hold of her money. He was managing her paypal and her cash app: okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, so when heard her daughter left ohio to go to atlanta to go be with the man that she had been talking to on the internet, who she's now engaged to girl a hot mess?