Watch This Before Your "Big Day" || Is Cheating Enough To Leave?? | Headband Wig Ft. Elfin

In my mind, there is only one reason for divorce: there's always a payback time shower. That'S what I know hi guys, welcome back again to the channel, guess what I have here: Mumsy hi, guys anyways in today's video we're just going to be having a little chat session talking about um. What are we talking about? What are we talking about anything? Bring it anything anything she's just going to ask me questions that, come to my mind as we go on and yeah, this wig is really really nice. It was um sponsored by Elfin hair and I'm so glad that I can. Finally, you know give my mom a nice wig because she's not really a weak person, but I think she really likes this one because it really does the most it does the most without like touching her neck. That'S why I went for something short, but they definitely have longer lengths if you want that, but she doesn't like hair. That rests too much on her neck and this one is really lightweight. Isn'T it very light and it's so soft, very, very good quality as well? I really like it: it's really really doing the most, so we're going to be transforming her today and chatting alongside. Oh, I forgot to wear her jewelry. The bracelet is not necessary because we're not going anywhere but we're going to be using the necklace. I like this one, it's like the flat prints as I wanted to show you, this lovely hair and it's from Elfin hair. I wanted to show you how I'm going to be installing this 16 inch kinky curly hair, it's 250 density, and it comes with all these accessories that I'm showing you. It also comes with like Combs and hair brushes, but I didn't show that in this clip and just look at how full and fluffy the hair is, you can definitely combat the curls if you want, but my mom didn't really want the clothes to be combed out. That'S why we left them that way, but it definitely has combs in It Fade to secure the wig just so that you're sure that your wig stays a put is absolutely breathtakingly beautiful. Now I'm going to go and install the hair on my mom, and I'm super excited about this, really because this is the first time in recent times that she's going to be installing her hair, and I asked her to take out these brush. She'S literally had them. Since she came for, I asked her to take them off and she was like. Oh I'm, gon na, take it back when I I'm gon na take them off when I go back to Africa. So I'm just really glad that, now that we have the elephant hair, she can wear it anytime. They were going out, especially because it's really really lightweight really really fluffy, and it is so beautiful and gorgeous. I'M going to show you how we eventually do it with the headband that we choose and if you guys want to get your hair from offering hair all the details are going to be in my description box, so you guys can definitely check them out. It'S super affordable. I believe that this wig was about a hundred dollars which isn't bad at all, considering um the prices of things nowadays. But again, if you want all the details, it's going to be down in the description box, I really like it just because of how it looks on hand. I also think it's really age-appropriate as well. Just look at how cute she looks with this is absolutely breathtaking. Before we get into the gist of this video, I really wanted ask you guys to please subscribe to the channel. If you guys end up enjoying the video and to give the video a massive thumbs up, it really does help the channel do better and without further Ado, let's jump right into the video excited to invest in some high-end makeup products and I'm going to be testing Them on her, so I have the nas um. What'S this one called, I don't even know light reflecting Foundation this one one of my friends Cassie. She I really like the way she does her makeup and she told me that this was what she used. So I decided to buy it then I also bought the Mac mineralized um skin finish in dark, deep me and my mom are almost the same complexion. This is my personal makeup kit, so I'm just going to be using it on her as well, because I think it will work and I also bought the nice creamy concealer and this shade is Walnut and finally, I bought the Charlotte Tilbury spray. I bought the Charlotte still resetting spray again because of my friend who uses these nails reflecting Foundation. She told me that both of them are like the real deal, so let's jump right into the video Little disclaimer guys. This is not a makeup tutorial, I'm still wearing my bonnet. This is not a makeup tutorial, I'm just doing makeup on my mom while I adjusted so please don't be asking me too many questions and don't criticize. Okay, okay, bye, so Mommy tell us about your dating. Yes, when you were younger, how old were you when you heard your first boyfriend, don't lie, say the truth. Awesome don't lie, say the truth. You may you may want to say. Oh no, I was I was 25.. No. I was 22. really. Yes, I belonged to the school of thoughts of a purity, so who was your first boyfriend? There'S this person? Well, I was he was my friend, but they called it boyfriend dencha. What do you mean? It was your friend, but they called his boyfriend because there was nothing intimate well. That does not mean that you were no boyfriend Abby, it just means you are not intimate. There are two different things, so why did you people now break up? I went, we went to our separate ways, not only he went to UK and he went to UK. Yes, why for University I I get no, no, no! No! No! He was, he was already in the uni, so he finished and went to the UK, and that was it and that's how the relationships and it fizzled out, because the letters became fire. It'S true even ways to write letters to each other while trying things those who are trying moments, because now it's just it seems like such a privilege that I've taken for granted being able to talk to somebody, real-time online, where you want you just like message: the Person and talk to them and then you get angry if the person does not responding in like 30 seconds. In my time you had to wait for the postmaster to knock on your door, to ask you if you have any letters? Yes, I'm joking, but you go to the post office to collect your letter. What is your take on sex before marriage, because you know that now that you mentioned that your relationship when you were younger was not eating it? What'S that your take on sex before marriage, I I belong to that old school sex before marriage is a no because it's um because of what, because it's a sin: okay, let's assume that it's not the same. If it's not a sin, then it's okay, but if it's a sin then it's not it's not okay, but you know that it's not a sin in every religion. I don't think it's a sin in every religion, but I belong to the Christian religion and it is so apart from it being a sin, apart from the fact that you don't like it, because it's a scene is there any other reason, you think it's not ideal. Okay, at least that reason is good enough. I know what I'm saying no apart from that, especially probably, if you know - and you know, and you know, and you know now, that is the person you are going to marry and it won't just be testron, but I think I don't know, I think some like You know these Yoruba movies, that you say, oh, so I I don't know if it's like customary or tradition or something no, it's not traditional. It'S not customary either it's just by choice, because if you are now in that family, let's say you want to marry into that family. The Bible says I should not be on it with an unbeliever. So me I'll not marry the person yes and you're 29.. God will bring my own, I think, there's more to marriage than sex and all so, if you have an understanding partner - and you know Yoruba tradition, we have this thing that we say. Ah, oh banilly. That means that the man met the girl at home. That means that a virtue has not been broken, she's a virgin, that's it! So! Yes, why? Why do people place a lot of emphasis on female virginity? Why not male virginity? I think it's just a Patrick Kell, so I said that everybody's saying: oh banilla. What about the man? Why can't we meet him at home too? What'S his leg doing outside I'd, be it's unfortunate that we live in a Patricia Society? The man is okay to do things and then the woman is not because he's just giving double standards but teach your child really, whether man or woman. There is a standard that should be taught and in my mind it's the standard of God, and God did not say that fornication is exclusive. True to all you, women, it's only women that can fornicate no, I have brothers and they all had girlfriend a lot of girlfriends a lot yeah a lot multiple. Yes before they got married multiple. There were some that had that would have like two at once. Two girlfriends meeting in the house ah and the two girlfriends will know each other. You know the house was big, so they would probably one would be in one room. The other will be in another. Those were days, that's crazy in the guest house. So let's say that because I am of the school of thought, so I know that you're a generation people say divorce is such a terrible thing. Oh I'd rather die there. Well I mean honestly, I don't think it's that deep. If you are unhappy - or why should you continue continue to be in an unhappy situation, so my question is like what is your take on divorce related issues? Divorce related issues are like in my mind. There is only one reason for divorce violence. Spousal abuse your spouse is abusing you. Ah, please run before you before he or she will. You know, there's female spouse that abuse and there's male spousal abuse. So if you are in any abusive relationship, please my dear raw, because the dead don't talk but aside from abuse, maybe a relationship based on a life too. That could be reason for divorce. Let'S say that demand is a chronic treat he's, always cheating on you. Every time, every time you know some people will say: oh, it was the work of the devil once once and you are fortunate enough not to catch them again. The second time it may be the work of the Devil's Angels, but some people they cheat in your face and they're like what do you want to do? Do you want to do your voice like if you do, if you don't like it too bad? So, if you're in that type of situation, in my mind, there's really nothing um, nothing sudden in relationships. If your partner is a chronic cheater ABI, is it cheats you people call it if your partner is a chronic cheat, he has had that trait before you even got married. Is it that decided to turn another eye because you don't just you, don't just discover that act of cheating one day it's been in, you and you've been doing it to my face and I've decided to tolerate it. So if I tolerate it until I get married, what makes me think? That'S you no, but you know that some people hide some people are good at pretending through that through that, and then then, that relationship is also based on a line. So in that kind of situation now you can say that divorce is you're, not valid. You know, um, there are thresholds for for things you can accommodate. If it's within your threshold. Well, you cannot accommodate it, but especially if you have children, my generation will say. Ah, let me stay because of my children. I don't believe in that, and you say because of the children and eventually you try to leave you and go no. They make you happy eventually mummy mummy Funke. I did you more. She had one illustration that I loved she said if you treat your wife well during the during your youthful days of marriage when it's time to start doing normal and all that's so funny. What? If you don't make it to Omega, because I'm only people that don't make it wrong, they die and now people die. Now I even in happy relationships, people exactly so why? Why can't you just wait? I'M not there for you! There'S a paper. Wait till yeah! There'S a payback time when the woman goes for umugu, for example, and she's supposed to go back to her home she'll, be looking for excuses not to return home and Daddy will be eaten from the house, helps cooking hey. But if, if you, if you and your husband have been good to it, if your husband has been good to you well, you won't even want to stay a day. Longer like like me now, my all my body, Soul and Spirit, is in asaba. I need to see my husband yes, so my the husband, the husband will be watching now and his head will be swelling the husband of my youth at sunba ayola obvious. So you know, there's always a payback time shot. That'S what I know whether you do good or you do bad, but for the basis of um on the basis of divorce to each his own. What you can tolerate that really! There'S no reason for you being unhappy for the bulk of your life. Yes, I feel like people, they both told you that you'll be happy single, I mean, but at least your happiness is now dependent on. You is now optional. You can intentionally do things to make you happy. If you know the thing with relationships is it requires a lot of accountability and if you're not accountable, then or if your partner is not accountable, then you start feeling cheated through that. So if you don't have to deal with accountability, it already takes away one layer of stress of stress from you. That'S the way, I think about it, your school, your school of thoughts, it's okay, but for me I think what goes up must come down every man with his libido. You can't have that strong, a libido until you have that's old and when it's time to come back home the kitchen, the chickens come home to roast, but the home might not be sweet again. That'S just it. Cheating is both ways. If you cheat on me, you'll have a miserable relationship when you when, when the love gravity sets in what goes up must come down, the libido is not there again at all, and then you know with a woman, she can be beautiful all through her life. If she chooses to be thank God for makeup, thank God for makeup all right guys. So we've come back with the eyes. The eye makeup is done and that's my Auntie. At the background. Sorry, my cousin second question causing the third up: yeah anyways um, so yeah we're talking about marriage, and I was not saying if you now marry a broke man. Let'S say you are in love. Love is not enough. She said hello Mommy. What do you think? I think if you marry somebody that is broke when you married him, both of you are broke together. At that point, like you are 20, I'm 21., I'm just how many 24 years old, it's still okay, as long as he has to qualify that statement as long as it has Prospect. Okay, so I'm 21., okay - and I found somebody that I like at that time and the guy is what 25 okay uh he just finished from school: okay, um yeah! So that's the quantification! So far! Okay, that's fine! I think you guys can build together. It has ambition. Yes, let them see you she's, so beautiful. This is how we are in my mommy's family, cousin hi. Her name is dummy, hello and what'd. You do for work. Do you want to introduce yourself? Oh gosh um. I uh I work in a bank. I work in a bank, so I'm just we're just managing and she's like yeah. I just want to manage. She loves to travel so now that is, for your young for young for young people. So now, let's talk that you are at 29, I'm 29.! Oh I'm! 30 and the boy is 35. and he's telling me he has a dream, is he Martin Luther King, something God has blessed me women with his intuition? Yes - and I think you know you need to listen to your intuition and unfollow - it and red flags are always there um. One thing I have learned is the red flags you ignore magnify, and the red flags you've known will be the reason. If why you leave? That'S why I think so um it's! I don't think it's a one size, fits-off um. What more do you think 29 and 35 35 for the boy 29 for the girl and the boys broke at 35.? We need to assess the situation. Why are you broke? Well, I in for me, Sha broke, means that you need to ask for money to pay your rent. I know you say no because even deeper life that I started with, if you want to marry, you still have to be able to pay your rent and a roof over your head. So you have no business. Okay, you can stop. You can pay your rents, but in a place that I might not like okay, so maybe at that point, you're staying in a basement maybe not face me, but studio apartments in barriga or somewhere. That is not very nice. That'S the meaning of broke! You can't afford to say this to you by yourself in a not very nice area, but me I'm working as an investment banker with the proctor. Yes, it is not the story where. Okay, sorry, I said UBS, I'm an investment banker with JP Morgan. I make a decent amount of money. I mean my friend thought it might be a good idea because my friend thinks he has prospects and I've said: okay, fine, I'm 29.! Okay! Let me just I can't do it. So, let's, let's no don't! Please do follow your heart. Y'All have to make you hungry, you won't be hungry, you'll, be what thirsty? No, you won't be thirsty, you have a salary and then the boy he's not alone. No, this is the real you'll. Now, move to bariga or he'll move to lekki yeah. Don'T do it, don't don't mind them, don't mind them that women uh men are the only people that love unconditionally. That is why a man can love a woman that is a nobody and he'll be happy to elevate the woman, but a woman will hardly ever put herself in that position to love the guy. That is nobody we're not elevating men, please, no we're not anyone's new tickets. No, no, no, no woman should be any man's yellow ticket. That wasn't for sure, true that, but if, if it's to help your partner come up on the ladder of success, do you know that this is clear? It'S a clear representation of different Generations, really because this is what my mom's generation things. Yes, it's the same thing. Please spell yourself: do you have cake that is that purpose this is, God did not bring me to that purpose. That'S not my proposition. What is the purpose by force, but you are not the alone projects. Building my project build a man is not my project, so at the end of the day, we're not building. No man we're not wiping our butts, we're, not cleaning our noses baby. Literal baby, the one I burped, not some dusty, not baby, baby baby. But really you know there are some it's it's a hard life for men. That'S what I think it's a hard life! It'S not easy! Yes, and maybe the the 35 year old man has prospects, and he has. He has everything he should have accept money like. What'S the meaning of everything he should have right, he has. He has a good he. He has good qualifications, he knows the rules, but he just needs, maybe a connection to put him well and assess the situation. Ah, my own advice: don't do it hey what? If what if the girl has the expression, so if I live in Ebola, she's like hello, I love our Sims and eels. Please bear with me I'm listening. I think if, during the course of the relationship the girl can link him up to, I don't think the guy should drink dinner. I think the guy should you know, don't do it either, don't do it for his own for his own method. You accidentally, I said, every everything on my mind. The man will be so frustrated in that relationship, because that is when men will not start feeling like if, oh, if only I was making enough money. If you won't talk to me, you won't look at me like that, because the money in aquival are crazy. It was in that movie. I think it was my fault for watching it issue the second time I watched it three times. I am angry. I am angry and I can't even conclude the film. I can't conclude it. Okay, so did the boy die, we don't know they didn't tell us. The new wife inherit everything she probably did. Ah, no, no, no! No! No! No! No! The Tyler Perry! You didn't do this one well at all you for conclude them you for conclude them. He said it's your fault for watching it are. You now watch the extra mile by watching that's nice. That night, when you went to sleep, I watched it again. Closure is overrated. You find your enclosure you're, always looking for closure. You look for validation, sorrow falling in place yeah. I don't know that song, it's not it's for it's for the young guy! Okay, in my time we'll say it hasn't been Cinderella. Um, that's a very nice thing. You turned it back because you've got so many crayfish eyes now you know with the eyelashes. I love the way you might as well say cockroach cockroach, because cockroaches, because they also have that answer. They just call them the centipede, that's so horrible. So for the marriage man thing: please do you do you do you know that this thing that you said reminds me of that money movie too, because I feel like that lady in the movie would have been willing to just wait a little bit longer in that Marriage, if her sisters didn't In-laws in marriage, push her too much have minimal in-law interference in your marriage. I think that's it yeah, so that when you are making yourself, yes, third party success. So now, when you're making your decision, it will be a decision that you are very very informed about you thought about it. You meditated on it and it's not an externally um generated influence because sometimes, when you have externally generated influences, you want to start thinking. I'M using my thoughts, but you will not know that it has eaten deep into your mind to the point that it has replaced your own actual thoughts, and then you think that those thoughts are yours. In conclusion: don't do it do it? Do you do you? In conclusion, please do what your mind tells you do you? Yes, God pray for them, pray for them. No so let's say you're already married you're already married and the guy was doing well before, but then he says stumbling block along the line and then you're having to be the breadwinner. What do you think in that type of situation? Because you know that yeah, if you leave the man because of money because he already had before and then because there are some women that will say. Oh no me I can't tell okay. Ah I can't go, I'm sorry, not very horrible. That'S that's because they'll say I did not come into this life to suffer. So if yes, if the money has finished so have I ah wow, please advise that. I would advise that man to Let Her Go. Please and she's not worthy money in front in Jesus name in the name of Jesus. You know that the funny thing is that the way the mummies are sharing the same opinion is a bit perplexing to me, because it's just it's just a reflection of generational things, because that's the way they are talking from us. That'S what happens now. You must learn you people think life is Nollywood, that's the problem. It'S not all the time people meet. Other people meet people that are better and they are happy because they're actually like you, leave your spouse because he became then you will now go and meet a dangote. What do you think will happen if you live? I did 35 40 degree a rich man because he knows he's a divorce Sinner and you left your husband. You might not know that you left your family. No, you left your husband me. I will ask why the kids, because we have irreconcilable nowadays? Yes, we weren't ready, yes, so guys that is it for this video. Thank you so much for watching Beauty who is breathing. The first truck is open because the respiration anyways guys thank you so much for watching the details for this hair is going to be down in the description box. Special shout out to my auntie, Danny, okay, sorry from to my cousin for coming to join us in this video, I'm adding a bit of spice okay, because it gives everything that he needed to give it period. Anyways like share, subscribe and all that good stuff. And I will see you in the next one: