White Mom Natural Hair Care Routine For Black Child (Type 4A/4B/4C) *Reaction*
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Hey guys welcome back to my channel, so i'm doing another reaction vid because you guys love them so so so so much also shout out to my sweater. This is my dad's and i just i love it anyway. So today's video is gon na be a little bit different. We are heading over to youtube and today i'm going to be reacting to a white woman doing a black child's hair. This is actually christy, giore, christy ghior or chris christie gior. I'M not sure how to uh pronounce her name. I'M sorry! This is actually her. I did a little digging because y'all saw this my dm's and told me to react to this. It turns out this is actually her adopted, daughter, so um. I think it's really cool. All right we're just gon na watch her latest video, which is kids protective twists for natural hair, for a 4b 4c tips for foster and adoptive parents. So yes, is this: her adopted child or her foster child. This is her adopted child. So if you guys are excited for this video make sure to give this video a thumbs up and if you're not already subscribed. I i feel, like you, keep coming back. I feel like you keep coming back here, so i just urge you to subscribe. It'S free. It'S free all right, let's get into the video okay. So first of all, i want to say i just kind of just switched it through her content a little bit and she has like so many kids. She has so many kids and she is. Is she a single mom? I think it's dope that she adopted black children and i think you know you can adopt whoever you want to adopt. It'S just. You need to be sensitive to their background into their culture and, if you're gon na adopt a black child, i'm gon na need you to know how to do their hair or i'm gon na. Need you to go, find out and learn how to do their hair. So, let's get into it, let's see what it's hidden for all right. Let'S watch two-strand twist hairstyle on my daughter. I am always looking for new styles and i saw something similar, but i changed things up and i added my own flavor a little bit of my own style to make it unique to my daughter. My girls are growing up fast and i'm slowly transitioning to hairstyles that are a little bit more age, appropriate. Okay. First of all, let me just start off by saying all right: miss mam, we're off to a very good start. First off this girl is beautiful. She has glorious gorgeous hair, and i love that the mother put 4a 4b and 4c in the title. It'S just one of those things where it's like there there's a large discrepancy and a lot of things, tips that can work for 4c hair for be hair is more likely than not going to work before a hair too so type just putting type 4. Honestly, i might start putting type 4 on my videos truthfully, like i just feel like i don't know it just encompasses just the broad range of hair types. So i love that she did that i mean i can't tell her daughter's hair, but it is definitely tightly coiled. So i love that she did that um. So i want to just note that she started her hair off damp, which is - and she says, she's about to split her hair into four sections. All right. Let'S continue leave in conditioner from roots to ends all the way to just put back that moisture automatically, because when you shampoo hair, we didn't shampoo today, but when you shampoo hair it automatically strips. Let me do this and then i'm going to show you the kind of style i'm going to do, and the tools like that brush that i use and the bands that i use and all that [ Applause, ] foundation, make is doing her thing with her daughter's Hair okay, she's doing her back, miss christy knows how to take care of hair some of some black waters. I have to say she is handling this hair beautifully and i love that - and i said this before and i just feel like if you're gon na adopt a black child, if you're gon na date a black man and have kids with a black man and have Biracial kids, i'm gon na need you to learn how to deal with african american hair [ Applause ]. Now we're ready to start styling okay. So this is the game plan to put it into two different parts. Come on rat tail call nah, chrissy chrissy doing today. I'M going to start at the top of her ear here. You can do any type of part that you like part. It all the way to the other side, just a rough part, and then i'll go back and clean it up afterwards and make sure it's even this girl's hair is detangled. She is putting that rat tail comb through her root and it is effortlessly parting through. That'S how you know this woman went through and meticulously detangled just part super easily, because you've done all that detangling work, deep condition. Just oh my gosh. It helps manage and okay, i'm gon na move you around in a second okay, so we're just gon na part. It all the way across i'm gon na start at the top of the ear. You can start wherever you like, just kind of eyeball. It making sure it gets as even as possible and when you pull it apart, be gentle. This is really speaking to my young spirit, like i just this is so beautiful, because how like a parent deals with a child's hair that child is gon na internalize this, like she's handling it with care, she's saying be gentle like yes, we have this. You know almost kind of negative relationship with their hair, sometimes not all of us. You know us that are woke, there's so much information on the internet about you know natural hair care that i just feel like at this point, whether you're black white, like there's. No reason to be ripping through your child's hair, not okay, okay, there's information! Let me continue that's good enough. Let me just clean it up a little bit, then i'm gon na go ahead and put this section up, because this is the last section that i'm going to style and then i'm going to create some rose. I am the type of person who just eyeballs everything. I don't really think this is hey, so it's coming from inside of your spirits, christine you're, the one i'm gon na, make three rows. I'M just gon na eyeball it and separate it with my rat tail comb here and um. Pin each section up and we'll go from there a little bit. I wish i had more of those clips, but we've lost all of our clips. That is, that is that is life. Does anyone know where their bobby pins go? It'S like the air just be just it just disappears. Clips scrunchies, like all of them, really just be disappearing. I'M feeling device from this one. So all her hair is moisturized with the leave-in conditioner. Now i'm going to go through it with oil. I ran out of my favorite one, which is the carol's daughter, goddess strength, castor oil. I use a lot of oil, that's just how i am on her hair because i feel like that's. One of the main reasons why her hair is grown so beautifully is because oil again starting from the ends working our way up, everything is correct. Okay, everything is called right. Sis got the tangle teaser. First of all, if you haven't seen my tangle teaser review and i've done a few of them, you would definitely need a tangle teaser in your life like for real. Like i mean it depends on your hair, okay, some people really don't like it, but generally try the tangle teaser. It really be getting your hair together, pretty colors in her hair. I won't you want to use these colors. Do you like those okay? So i've got this like lavender purple and i've got orange because i like loud colors and i think it's super fun for little girls and i'm going to take advantage of my little girls being young for as long as i can and liking me do. That kind of stuff - i think this is so cute and even just her asking her daughter, like you, know, getting her involved and asking her, which colors do you like and letting the daughter choose like yes, girl, i'm taking you know little notes for when i have My little chizzy running around my little knucklehead - oh this, it's cute now i'm gon na go ahead and take some eco gel. This is probably one of my favorite gels. Ever okay, i'm gon na go ahead and just do two here. I'M gon na take a little bit of that eco gel. So as soon as i smooth it out, and i like using a little bit of gel on the actual hair as well because um it helps it hold. I mean i would have went without the gel, but you know this is her daughter's hair at the end of the day, so she's going to do what works for her daughter's hair. If she feels like it holds in the moisture, i please like. Can i come on contest, it's good and then i'm going to take my band and i'm just gon na put it um firmly, but not super tight to the scalp, and i can be a little bit tighter with these hair ties because they are so gentle on The hair go ahead and do a two strand twist by separating it and twisting it together. The gel helps me smooth down all the baby hairs and it really looks nice. I see why she's using the gel it's making sense. In fact, how could i even contest? I can't even believe i questioned it. How could i ever question you remove if the hair gets dry have a spray bottle with water handy? The beauty of you know, christie's channel, which i can see when it comes to the internet right. Everyone likes to see themselves in other people right, so she she's gon na have because she's, a white woman she's going to have a very large white audience and i'm sure there are a lot of white mothers out there that you know probably have black children, whether They'Re foster or adopted so i'm sure and i'm sure that's what she said. She has a very big audience of that. So you know they're gon na go to her channel channel and i'm happy that she's actually spreading great information because they don't listen to her. They just are like it's human nature, to gravitate towards people that look like you. I love how she talks to her daughter. I i really i i just. I noticed it and i it's it's. It'S really nice to see because, like as kids internalize everything like their parents and how their parents interact with them really does shape them so like this is just really it's really nice to see, but it's also kind of like. I don't know it's interesting because it's really making me like compared to just the normal black experience. I'M really excited to see how you know my generation ends up bringing up their kids and, although i'm excited, i also know there are a lot of women that are still not educated, with their natural hair and they're going to they're just gon na. Ah, i just i see what can possibly happen. You know how black mom, you know how some black moms can be when it comes to our hair and how they treat us and, like just the whole thing, the experience i know i won't be like that. I in fact i pray i can't i just know some others won't have that experience or luxury, and it's just anyway. I'M just happy to see this. So what i'm gon na do is i'm gon na do the top. I just love the way this feels it feels so good. I'M gon na do the top i'm gon na see. If i can get you all the way up here and show you i'm gon na start out by parting it, as even as i can, using nose as a guide all the way down to the first row. Okay, after i part it, i'm going to work on one section at a time she is really teaching the girls like. I can really see someone that's struggling with doing their daughter's hair or son's hair and just really like she is really spelling it out for y'all. Okay, mama needs a drink. You wan na drink here, okay, snack break. I know she needs a drink, listen doing, hair is not it's not! It'S not easy and this girl got a head of hair on her and she is - and i was something i was gon na uh just mention like she's, really taking her time and doing like an actual style on this little girl's hair. I'M like i would put that hair up in two pigtails. You better wait for a week, so the fact that she's taking her time to do this is what i just really needed. Elia'S um style to last me two weeks because we have a super super busy couple weeks coming up and um with four little girls and lots of work to be done around the house and in our backyard and four girls, one two three four little girls christy You'Ve tried: hey, i'm tired for her. Oh, my god, i like switching up styles, braids twists big sections, small sections. I alternate to give her parts and her scalp a break and put her in a different style. I think that's what contributes to her hair being so nice is me putting in different styles, taking the time to alternate the different styles and partings to give her scalp a break. Let'S, let's let that, let's, let's marinate on that for a second, because even me right here, it's tired doing the same part, you'll notice! If you tend to do middle parts or you tend to do side parts on the same side, you will notice a decrease in hair there, because you're pulling on that same area every time, christy gior dior, you are doing great sweetie, okay, and this is just wow. It'S it's a learning lesson, because what is everyone else's excuse? There'S! No excuse there really isn't. There is enough information on the internet to figure out how to do black hair, yeah, they're they're, just there's no excuse. That was amazing. That was great shout out to christy, for you know doing her thing putting her foot in her daughter's hair. It looks superb and i will be taking notes for whenever my future daughter wants to come to me. Okay, all right guys! Well, that's it for this video. If you enjoyed it, make sure to give this a thumbs up, if you're not already subscribed come on, you know what to do at this point. 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Esther: Not only has this lady adopted these children but she’s clearly done her research on how to care for them properly, and that, that is respectable.
Maia chambers: I was adopted by my white family as a baby and the respect I have for my mom bc she learned and WANTED to learn how to do hair that was very different from hers— I’m so proud of my mom for learning something like this my mother has three adopted black children and it means the world to me update: I cried bc of how amazing you and this women are
Angel Barbacena: me, an asian woman with no intensions of having any child: ah yes some good content
Curly Proverbz: First off.... how is this my first time seeing your channel? I loved this review and your personality. And yes Mrs Christy did her thang!
CT Sims: You got Karens You got Beckies And then you have Christy's Here for the Christy's
Penny Underbust: Legit my biological mother never learned how to brush my straight hair because it was a different texture to the one she was born with and that was more work than she was willing to put in. XD this mum is amazing.
Dennis H: I’m a white American grandpa with a Ghanaian family in Cape Coast Ghana. I adopted my sons 15 years ago. I have three granddaughters and I’m blessed that my daughter in law Gifty owns her own beauty shop. I’m surrounded by aunties and sisters who train me so I can help out with the girls. Great job, Christy. ❤️
voidmanagment: As a biracial girl with a white mum who raised me solo for a long time, I'm so so so thankful that she learned how to look after my curls. She never scraped my hair back or damaged my hairline, she never relaxed it to make it easier to 'deal with'. She discouraged me from straightening and taught me to love my blackness, she used protective bobbles and products made for me.
Nadia Galactica: I love how she treats her daughter as a person and with respect. I feel like our community would benefit from moving more in this direction with our children.
NeRethil Wolfsson: Two things that really made my heart beat with glee: -The mention of age-appropriate hairstyles (because so many parents will not let their children grow up and keep them in "cute" things in teenage years, or suddenly say "you're not a kid any more" and put them in too serious styles) -Asking the kid if they're okay with the style/accessories (Because, once again, not enough parents taking into account what styles and what colours their kids actually like)
Rebecca Cohen: My adoptive mom and dad learned Spanish when adopting my brothers and I. They bring us back to Guatemala every year to see the country. My mom learned how to cook Guatemalan food and learned how to do my hair. I am forever thankful for her. Because I will always be in touch with my culture now Edit: I didn’t expect so many people was going to read my story. Thank you for all the kind comments ❤️
The Messy Bun Mafia: I love the circle of women supporting women in this video - the care, the love, the respect, the encouragement... recognizing the roles and value in each woman - especially her daughter. Carry on and carry it forward! You are so right - the resources are there - such beautiful hair all around, and hearts being nurtured. ❤️
Chelsea Raybuck: Having my first baby next year. I'm white, my partner is from the Caribbean. I have been cramming with information so my baby will never have to compromise their natural beauty. Ever. This video gave me tons of hope that I can do this right! I cannot wait to give my child the greatest life. Knowledge is so powerful
Gamer Named Darvit: I am SOOOOO thankful when I went through cosmetology school, that I decided to attend a multiracial school!!! We all worked on each other and patrons. As a post graduate study, I stayed in the shop 24/7 and immediately started working on actual people under my wonderful instructor's tutelage. I was a little nervous but now I can work on any hair or skin type and I'm not shy to jump in and help someone anymore. :) This is such a sweet video, too. I really enjoyed watching it. To me, I just see people... and everyone can be beautiful! ^_^ Thank you for the smiles today!
Leah Primo: I don't know why, but this video made me cry a little bit, a couple times. I am a white mother of biracial girls who are now thirteen and fifteen. Educating myself about black hair care was always a priority for me. And since their birth, I have strived to teach them how beautiful and special their hair is. And to do that, I had to ensure that after six to eight hours of braiding some days, the end result was worth it. They are in predominantly white schools so it is CRUCIAL that their self-esteem is high. I wish more mothers of black or mixed children put this effort into caring for their hair
Ascent: She’s a mother who simply took the time to understand her child’s needs. It’s really that simple. Black/white or whatever. She’s a parent who wanted to meet her child’s needs. I honestly don’t see much evidence that many parents do that so I’m impressed.
Angua Von Ubervald: This came up randomly as a suggestion but this was so pure, and kind, and joyful and sweet both from Chizi's joy to the momma being so prepared to help her girl care for her hair just the way it is in a world that insists on trying to police something that is natural to her. I happy sobbed. This is marvelous, and Chizi's joy and kindness just shows through so much :D
•Strawberry •: Videos like these make me so proud of my mother. As I mixed kid (Afro-Latina) most of my Hispanic family saw my hair as negative but my mom took the patience to learn how to do my 4a hair and educate herself on the best way to maintain the length,health and still be cute while I see others who’s moms don’t even try and give up♀️or straighten it to fit the beauty standard which made them highly inseure about there hair. Main point is hair is important and having a negative view on ur childs hair effects than in them long term❤️
MrsMelons: I was afraid this was going to be a disaster, like the mom wouldn't know what she's doing. I love her with her kid, and I love your reaction! And props to your dad's sweater--it looks great on you!
Krystal: I came across this womans channel a while ago and I was really impressed by how she dealt with the children's hair and how she related to them overall. She seemed so involved, they had full wake up, get ready , meal times and bedtime routines. If I remember correctly shes a stay at home mother
SA Geary: What a beautiful baby. As a daughter of a white teenage mother, it was an absolute God send that my mom worked, researched and learned how to properly care for my combination hair. I commend anyone, no matter that background, that takes on the complexity of black hair. Great video.
Patricia Sinclair: They didn't just "allow differences" and "get along" they genuinely encouraged eachother, and joyed in the uniqueness, through something as simple as hair! You girls rock.
Pickle Cat: This is how a mum shows love to her daughter. The care, time and effort she puts in is so sweet.
allana rausheck: Your positive comments on this moms video are amazing. Thank you for being supportive of mothers with bi racial/adopted/fostered babies. With a bi racial son, ive spent hours in the tub with him as a baby doing his hair.. it was the only way he would let me. It grew so long and beautiful, tight little curls. Now he's 10 and prefers to keep it in a Mohawk. Miss the baby days of mommy and son time doing his hair. But It means alot for you to grasp her and praise her. With So much negativity out there your video is a breath of fresh air. Praise, teach and love each other regardless of race! Beautiful supportive video maam!!!
I S L A N D B A B Y: Christy is not single. She has an amazing and supportive husband. He’s Filipino. They adopted 5 children through foster care. 3 black kids and 2 Asian mixed kids.
Samantha Granville: I almost never leave youtube comments but the love this mom showed her daughter and the love you showed her for it just warmed my heart. I know my experience with my hair as a white woman is a lot different than the experience black women have and I don't want to try and compare. But in a small way I felt this, my mom has pin-straight fine blonde hair and I have big curly/wavy dark brown hair. I was in my twenties when I learned that you can't brush curly hair (unless you're putting it up in some way). I grew up hating my hair so much and straightening it and bleaching it within an inch of its life. I finally learned how to care for my natural hair and stopped colouring, straightening, or blowdrying and I get more compliments about my hair than I ever did before. I'm so happy this little girl will grow up internalizing all this love for her natural hair!
Kattie Martin: This is amazing, I have a friend who’s biracial and she said it was a huge struggle having different hair from her mom but they figured it out together. And now she and her son (who has three different types mixed throughout his hair) are trying to figure out the journey of his hair together. It’s simply beautiful.
Divinely Blessed: I have watched 3 of her videos before. And the care and love she puts into her daughter’s hair literally makes me cry. She is teaching her daughter to love everything about her hair
Alonna Altman: Yes I love how positive language she uses when talking about her daughters and their hair. My mom would be hitting me in the head with the comb and saying "DAMN your hair is soo nappy, quit crying!" love this mama
Viva_ Salem: I’m fully black and this white lady loved her hair more than my African mom loved me. She literally combed my hair like I caught her cheating or something. Respect to her
Ashley H80005: The love and care she’s instilling in her daughter about embracing and loving her natural hair makes me tear up. I know so often when white parents adopt Black children they do not do the work to help keep them connected to culture, and try to essentially give them a white upbringing without acknowledging or honoring who they are. You can tell with this mom that she knows it’s really important that her daughter maintains that connection, and I’m here for it. So much deeper than just doing a hairstyle ❤️
Chaos Swa-ee-ty: This young girl deserves all of this. Not going over and beyond at all. This is just how it's done.
Sophie: don't know how i ended up here, i'm a white single woman with the thinnest straight hair ever and i have no plans for children but your energy is so great and i have watched a ton of your videos now
SilverHairSimmer: I loved watching this reaction video. ♥️ This was the watching women support women I needed today. You supporting Christy, Christy supporting her daughter HERE FOR THIS ENERGY!
rose: The best thing is how positive the mother talkes about the hair. The girls will internalize it and grow up loving how they look.
Kay: I want Christy to do my hair next. Omg she really learned and wanted to and treats her child so wonderfully. Kudos to you Ms. Christy!!!
Ren B: I LOVE the time this lady has taken to educate herself about her kids’ hair. That’s true devotion to, & respect for, her kids’ Black heritage. Christy is doing a great job! Her kids will remember, all the time & effort she took, to understand their hair. That sort of effort, forges deep bonds that will last a lifetime! Great vid.
Janeen Landry: I love this so much! I can feel the love this mother has for her children just from this hair video with her daughter❤️
veronnie: i’ve been trying to learn how to care for “black” hair (i dont mean to be offensive, yalls hair is so beautiful and unique). not only do i want to adopt, i want to become a hairstylist thats open to poc and whites :)
Jalex Ones Chanel: The way she looks at that little girl, the way she handles her hair, the way she talks to her, the love is so visible. She adores this little girl.
Unicorn: I'm just learning, in my mid 20s, how to not rip though my hair. You're so right kids take that shit in.
Ariana John: This is my first time seeing your channel and I just love your energy! You have a new subscriber for sure!! :) Cant wait to see the rest of your content. Also, I am loving that Christy took the time to research and learn how to do natural black hair and not throw her daughter into a salon chair to straighten it! You are doing a bomb job Christy! Kuddos to you!
Mel G: I was recently learning that my straight hair is actually wavy. When I treat it right it certainly is super wavy! I think that's why this was recommended to me. I love this. My little one has similar hair to me, but I definitely got some great tips from this video on how to teach my daughter about hair and how to treat her hair well. Thank you for this video
BKaker Productions: I also love how she never rushes through wash day. She does EVERY girls hair and know they have different processes.
j slack: Y'all this lady out here tackling racism one tangle at a time and I am here for it! God bless this baby and her mom.
EMT2146: As someone considering becoming a foster parent I find these videos highly educational. And I’m glad to have a resource if I need it.
Genesis White-Pigford: I (the mother of the beautiful little girl you see) watched that video under my own channel and I was very impressed and a little shame because I felt like she was doing a better job than myself with my own daughter. I even ended up buying the hair ties she used and I still use them on my daughter today...Also, Love your video too and your review. Very positive and great insight as to how you broke it down all the things she was doing that is important to black hair
Sherrie Asbury: God bless this lady for adopting children no matter what race they are and learning how to take care of them the right way. There needs to be more people like her!
Anonymous: This woman really loves her daughter and took the time to learn how to do her daughter’s hair. Kudos to her
Natasha Campbell: My bio mom is white and she struggled in the 70s and 80s because there weren’t a lot of resources. Our hair didn’t always look awesome but it was always clean and healthy and for that I’m grateful.
Laurie Burnside: Heh, watched this thinking it would be a trainwreck. HT to Christy - nice to see the love and care taken with this child!
Flavia Roque: I’ve struggled with my own hair until I was about 20+ years, I’m the only one with curly hair (big coils) in my family and it was a struggle to figure out what works for my own hair and have my family stop saying that “but that’s not how it should be done”. It’s amazing to see how she understands her kids hair is different and does her best to take care of it.
BRJ Creates: This is beautiful! I love your review and love Christy for being a great Mom and making the”getting your hair done process” a treat for her daughter with snacks! I love it! Lord knows I prayed for a boy! And He gave me a man child! Thanks be to God!
Starlight and Dreams: I love this so much. I was a little fair skinned child and my mom cut my hair because it was too much for her. My 1st grade picture is my "boy in a dress " phase. I could not have long hair until I could take care of it myself. Im so grateful to Mom's like this. I still remember being called a boy all the time when I was a child. I have dealt with my feelings but I still remember the hurt of my 6 year old self. Mom's and Dad's who have patience and respect for their children is awesome. Thank you for sharing your feelings on this. Women supporting women is what we need more of! I also suffered with 2 types of alopecia as an adult which can be caused by stress. Physically styling repeatedly in the same style and mental stress. So that part at the end about different styles. Wow I share that excitement.
Elena Bašić: Wow, I feel great after watching this video. It's that feeling you have when you find out the results of a test you did in school/college and for wich you've been studying for for a long time...and you're told you did everything right. I'm a white mom of a mixed 7 year old girl ( my mother in law is from Guinea, West Africa) and I started learning about how to deal with her hair since she was a baby.. and I'm still learning I never saw this white mom's channel before, but I do all the same things she does and it was really good to hear that it's all correct I'm from Croatia and it was pretty difficult to find the right hair products here, but it's getting better now.
Amanda Williams: This was such a fun and uplifting reaction video ♡ Love to see support and enthusiasm and this video was full to the brim. Beautiful.
Ms Michaelle 🥰👍: I'm for it! First, let me say that I loved how she continued to call the little girl her daughter and calling her baby. She researched what it took to care for her daughter's hair and the products needed for her daughter's hair. She had a rat tail BRUSH! I want one of those!!! Do your thing Mama!!! I decided to subscribe to your channel. I feel your love!!!
Belkys Flores: Man I love your energy!!! God bless you!!! This was amazing to see a mom do the right thing ❤️ to have learned and do right by her daughter
little miss rock n roll: When I was little and my hair was still curly my mom had no idea how to handle it, it was always a mess and i don't know if I'll ever recover from the low self esteem I had This mom is awesome for doing her daughters' hair with so much care and love
treebles: much respect to this mother! beautiful relationship with her young daughter!
Brandi B: Everything about this is beautiful! The original video being commented on, the review of the video. All of this is love and respect. Thank you to all the beautiful people that were a part of this and thanks for sharing!!!
Laura Allen: I just ran across this video & it really is just so beautiful the way she interacted with her child and took the time to learn how to handle black hair and make her babies proud and probably boosting their self-esteem as well.
Cooper: I’m a balding white dude and youtube has been recommending me a lot of these black hair videos, and you know what? I’m down with it.
Ace: I would genuinely love to learn how to style Afro-Caribbean hair types. I'm a single, white female with no mixed baby buns in the oven or immediate plans to adopt, but it would be so interesting to learn!
Belinda Goodwin: I love that you gave her compliments, on her knowledge and treatment of this little beauties hair. I really appreciate the respect that you lo her Your hair is beautiful, by the way, and you are a beautiful woman, with beautiful soul.
Sandra Lloyd: This video is so much more than a reaction to a hair video. This is modeling how to treat others who are different from us--in order to achieve the kind of society we all want to live in. Care, respect, love, and LISTENING to and believing others who are different from us in any way -- particularly when we've never experienced what they experience. This is demonstrated by both Christy and Chizi. What is so moving to me are two things: 1) the love, care and respect Christy shows her daughter, 2) the joy it brings Chizi to see this love and respect toward Black women manifested. This is the basis of friendships and bonds. This is what's possible when we treat others the way we would want to be treated. Thank you for sharing this!
Ne-Ne Arnold: I love the baby's hair her mom did a wonderful job she's a lucky little girl to have such a loving and caring mom
Stef M: She stroked her daughters hair and said “I love the way this feels” and her daughter quickly went to stroke her own hair and give it a flip
Rosanna Trevino: I love this adopted mom. That sweet little princess looks so happy. God bless them♥️
Nina Fofang: This woman is amazing! I love watching her do her daughters’ hairs. It makes me cry!
Dania A. Oliva-Peña: Awe!!!! She did such an amazing job with the care of her daughters hair . I love Christy ! God bless her and her family .
Airee T.: I absolutely LOVED this. You popped up and I thought it was going to controversial, but I ended up smiling the entire video! More of thisssss! And yes Christy did her thing. “Mama needs a drink” yes, so do I after a full head of hair.
Daffine Baskin: Miss ma’am I love that she has taken the time to learn what care her daughter needed for her hair. Her daughter is gorgeous . she loves her daughter I can tell ❤️
LostReality: I'm thankful there's videos like this. My niece just blessed us with a beautiful boy and I need to learn how to care for his hair. I'll be watching these and learning how to maintain during his visits when he's older.
Jolene Escobar: Girl! She rocked her hair. I can't even care for my own hair. I just started using shampoo for curly hair in the Las 3 years and a few months ago started using leave in conditioner. And I can not style hair at all. So mad props.
Magnolia RoSay: This was such an awesome video. Loved the fully supportive reactions to something so beautiful! ☺️
Kiki Cogger: I love the fact she also compliments her daughter's hair. It seems like such a small thing, but it is giving that little girl confidence, especially in a society where white hair is considered the "standard of beauty"
Siberius Wolf: I love that so much. Her natural hair looks so nice, I love that natural look. It's already so obvious that she knows what she's doing, based on the hair and also how easy it was to do the parts and stuff. Also really love that the girl is involved with what she also wants, rather than her hair like, belonging to the mother, kinda thing. Also knowing how to do all these styles and stuff is another level. Also really like that it definitely doesn't seem like this girl is going to have traction alopecia issues with overly tight braids and stressing the same areas, including the outside perimeter. Really good stuff. White parents will definitely generally gravitate towards those videos, rather than looking at what black people do with their own hair, so I'm glad the video is so good! and that can then serve as a great entry point for them to find out more by then watching videos of black people with similar hair types and what they do with their hair. Hopefully avoiding certain unnecessary things with their own children's hair, like... relaxers, tight as heck braids, weaves and whatnot. It would be such a shame to hide this girl's natural hair with a weave or wig or especially using relaxer on it. Or, and straightening it and stuff with heat. If the girl wants to do that later on, then that's her decision of course. Oh, and the obsession with baby hair control... probably don't need to take in any of that lol (not that I have anything against laying edges and the such, in and of itself).
M. M. SCOTT: I have such fond memories of the times my Mother and I spent together when she was doing my hair! I had my own little chair, and my Mother used tea to add moisture and then oil my scalp, she would gently comb and brush my hair and tie it with a silk scarf. I'm telling my hair would look the same when she picked me up from school the next day as it did when she did it (My Mom was from Jamaica)! Good for this Mom, she gets and A plus for doing her research to know how to treat her beautiful daughters hair correctly! Bravo, building great memories for the both of them.
Mia Cole: The positivity in this video is amazing
Dear Meecha: Great video! I show these types of videos to my young daughter (we are white). She loves the different styles. I want her to be aware and educated about the maintenance it takes to create these beautiful looks and keep different hair types healthy. It’s important to expose our little ones to our differences in positive ways. Such a beautiful little girl and mother. Great content and so uplifting!
Marie Antoinette: to see a little girl who will never know the pain of having your soul slowly dragged out of you with a paddle brush is a breath of fresh air
Shanea Lattimore: I love your supportive, loving, encouraging and positive tone towards christy. You both touched my heart this morning. This is extremely important content! So deep! Love your accent btw!
LNGG's Channel: This woman is so dope. I loved how knowledgeable and gentle she is with her daughter.
stardustgirl: What a beautiful daughter, and Mother! Sweet spending time together as well! ❤️❤️
Grey Blue: 1st time seeing you. Love this mother for educating other foster parents. Love you for praising her and the love you gave. I honestly would have been scared to put up this video if I were the mother as I would be terrified of being misinterpreted or offending so to see a glowing review and your beautiful accent. Thank you
Delta S: Any mom that can do her daughter's hair without them crying... is a great Mom.
julianna b: Oh my god I love her hair!! It’s so cute! This reminds me a little bit on my little sister, we are both Italian American (originating from the Mediterranean, we have the thick and curly hair!) and my sister definitely shows that! I think that so many girl’s are insecure with their hair. My sister is only 9 years old and she’s being made fun of the hair on her arms and legs… it’s just so sad. I think people in general need to understand that everyone is different and that’s okay!! (This is not meant to take away from the people who has faced persecution in the past and currently do to the way we look, it’s simply an observation of how I saw it.)
julianna b: Oh my god I love her hair!! It’s so cute! This reminds me a little bit on my little sister, we are both Italian American (originating from the Mediterranean, we have the thick and curly hair!) and my sister definitely shows that! I think that so many girl’s are insecure with their hair. My sister is only 9 years old and she’s being made fun of the hair on her arms and legs… it’s just so sad. I think people in general need to understand that everyone is different and that’s okay!! (This is not meant to take away from the people who has faced persecution in the past and currently do to the way we look, it’s simply an observation of how I saw it.)
Tosh Po: I love this. I'm honestly envious of this. I was adopted into a white family too, but my mom either didn't have the time, patience, or capability (health-wise) to deal with my natural hair. Once I was "old enough" for braids, my hair was braided constantly. Taking a break from braids was basically having my hair natural for a few days, maybe even a week. My hair is so damaged now that I keep it short and basically buzzed. Thank you to all the people who were able to put in the work!!
Rose Solo: Love her and thank you for giving these children a loving home. ❤
carmeld45 101: The way she uplifts and talks positively about her child's hair is the lesson many of us need to embrace.
ElektraRaven: Chiz your love and positivity made me smile genuinely for the first time today. Thank you!
Audriano Hines: I follow Christy on Instagram because she is so loving to her 5 children and understands the assignment. I love her and I loved your open mindedness in this review. Awesome review all around! 2
Aisha Evans: Let’s let it all sink in. She has patience! Cuz I’m like you @Chizi Duru, I would’ve thrown all that hair in 2 puffs, like I actually did my daughter, and been done with that thick head of hair ! Good job mom, she did great , and I absolutely LOVE your commentary ❤️
Shayla: This is awesome to see. I love it. Any parent should know how to do their child's hair. I have two step-sons and a man who all have long coily hair of varying density and I made sure to learn how to care for and style their hair. I deal with all of the hair in the house from washing to moisturizing to braiding. People often look at me strangely when they ask where we go to get their hair done and find out that i do it myself.
Cindy Cyanide: Me, a non-black, childless 20 yo woman with no plan of having kids: yes, yes, yes, very important information, i gotta save this in my brain
Ness Batista: I wasn't allowed any agency over my hair until I was 18, so it was permed from 8 (when my mom decided it was too hard to manage) up through 18, when I left town for my birthday and got it chopped off. I'm still learning how to handle it, and I learned my mom was also just sent to a salon to have her 4c hair wrangled while her own mom worked all day. Now, we're all figuring out how to do our own natural hair together. I'm glad this mom is equipping this baby with knowledge and confidence
Maclovia Padilla: Love this video so much! Everything about it was just wonderful.
Shawntae Burleson: I give you so much love and respect for what you did here. There is always so much hate in the world that i can just appreciate the person that you are, Miss Christy you did your thang too boo.