Embracing My Natural 4B/4C Hair ✨Self Care Day (Pamper Routine)

Before making any decision to embrace a new journey or face a daunting obstacle, i like to hold space for myself. I sink into a practice and clear out the negative mindset. I invited my higher self and she whispered to me. Words of encouragement or it's like you're divine, and what are you so afraid of? I was 26 years old. The first time i decided i'd, wear my natural hair outside the house. That day is today. I would excuse myself of having to wear it by saying i don't want to deal with it or i'm just protecting it by keeping it in a protective style, but truthfully i just wasn't familiar with it. I didn't discover my true texture until about 2020, when i grew my relaxer out, we've always been told that mixed hair was more desirable, that your hair should be soft and bouncy and have these shiny, curls kinks oils. I was scared to leave my house with my natural hair out, because i was conditioned to think that it wasn't presentable or that my hair would look. Undone, every single female in my family just so happens to be biracial, which meant that in my mind they had good hair, and i didn't my texture was different from all of theirs. It just made me feel more self-conscious about myself, but it's so exhausting being so self-conscious all the time. I never realized how much energy it took to lack confidence in something that's mine. I didn't think that it would take me so long for my hair to formally meet the world, but my hair defines gravity. My hair beautifully replicates the african molula train. I really love that, as i learned to fall in love with my natural hair. Here are 10 things that i choose to remember on the daily, and you should too one remembering that choosing to wear wigs and knees is optional. It'S no different than accessorizing and i will not feel guilty for it two. If black men choose not to date black women because of our hair texture, that is not up to us to convince them to rise or heal the damage that has been done to them. Three, our kinks coils and curls can be elegant and professional, regardless of what society says. Four, if our hair wasn't uniquely beautiful, then why do people want to touch it all the time? Five, despite what people may say, our hair can in fact grow long. Six oftentimes, our hair is not short, it has shrinkage and that's not something to hate. In fact, that's magical who else's hair can do seven. The reason why our hair resembles trees, bushes and everything nature is because we are the boyfriend eight. I will no longer call my hair and i will only use adjectives with the utmost tenderness and love to describe my hair nine. My hair is versatile and 10. hair is good.