I Wanted Her To Get Bangs But Her Boyfriend Voted No!
My client has breakage due to leave outs. Watch as I give her clip in extensions to help blend them with the rest of her hair.
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Hey guys today, I have a claim for his breakage all along the front of her hair. Now I'm trying to get her to cut a vein but she's not here for it, so she wants to wear her part in the middle, but she doesn't. What is to look broken, but what we're going to do is add a few little close to the front to fill it in. You are new to my channel. This is the second shield serum and today the serum is going to be used as a heat protectant. You can use it for a whole lot of things, but today it's for the service, a heat protectant. All you need is about a nickel size amount, and I know that doesn't seem like a lot, but you take it. Rub it in your hands and put it all throughout the hair, and then the heat from the blow-dryer is going to evenly distribute it all throughout. This is the 9ro Denman brush. I love using this brush, especially from my Naturals, because it allows me to get all up in all the nitty-gritty areas where the hair is is tight and the curls just don't want to stretch this brush is for you. Now. I'M gon na go around the edges with my small EAP heat iron. I love this iron. It worked so well for edges and then I'm gon na go through the rest of her hair with my coolness iron by basalis. Now I know we talked about this. In almost all the videos, but remember while pressing the hair, all you have to use is one pass. You do not have to go over the hair I'll run over again. You don't have to hit the roots first, you don't have to hit the end twice. One pass so, as you can see, she has breakage all in the front of her hair. Now, like I said in the intro, I really wanted her to cut a bang, but she was a little apprehensive and so with her man, okay. So what we're gon na do is we're gon na take some clips and we are just wan na fill in the front just so it's the same length as the back next once you decide where you want to add your first track, you want to take a Thin piece of hair and you're going to braid it into a small cornrow. If the hair is very soft, you want to make sure that you do the cornrow a little fuller just so the clip can have a little more to clip onto to help reduce the risk of breakage. So what I usually do is I just fold the end of the cornrow towards disk out, so that the combs of the clips can go through the braid and it can go through the ending. So when I clamp it down, it basically will be holding it into place. Now, I'm just going to do the same thing on the other side of her head. So in total we did two clips on the left and two clips on the right. Now I'm just going to go in and I am going to cut her clips to match the back of her hair. As you know, there are no clips in the back, so we're just literally going to even it off with her real hair she's off. With a blunt look all one length but feel free, if you do your own, if you want to do some layers, feel free to go ahead and do so now. All you need is glad we're gon na shine for that extra kick and she is done now. It also looks way better on day two, because once you wrap it every night with a silk or satin scarf, the short pieces will lay really well into the clips and she's free to go.
Comments
Moon Child: I dare my boyfriend to tell me I can't do something with my body! I DARE HIM!!
Una Karen Guðmundsdóttir: How this should have played out: She wanted bangs but her boyfriend said no so she dumped him and got bangs.
søftt_ aesthetiic: The fact that she can do small cornrows with those nails, and I can’t even open a _bottle_ —
Kiya B.: I hoped this was a “Watch me give her bangs because that’s what she wants” type of video...
Gabrielle Bayaua: OK but she looks stunning ✨
Cierra F: I wish my boyfriend would say i can’t get something done to my hair. I’d be laughing my way to the salon to get exactly wtf i want
JaniyahAshli: Y’all must’ve missed the part where she said “she was a little apprehensive” on getting bangs not just her man
Heavenleigh: 3:48 Did y’all miss the part where the hair stylist mentioned that the client was apprehensive ? She made her own decision and her man agreed. It’s only bad if he felt that way first and she felt persuaded by his judgment. I feel like the title of the vid was good bait to bring in views. At the end of the day, I’m glad we ALL know no man makes decisions for us ✨
Martina: The hair stylist said, "she was a little apprehensive and so was her man." It doesn't sound like he told her not to get them; sounds like they both agreed! I can understand her hesitation, bangs are a lot of work. Your man is allowed to have an opinion, as long as he doesn't tell you what to do.
Hannah Holley: I'm married and my husband rarely tells me "no" especially when it comes to my choice of style (hair etc.) From time to time I ask his opinion cause I like to get what he likes but he usually just says "I don't care get what you want it's all pretty on you" I legit be looking for feedback and he says "I don't care" ♀️
Chioma: We can’t be normalising the fact that people’s boyfriends are making style choices for women... horrific
Lauren Greb: Y’all...despite the text on the thumbnail she says in the video “she was apprehensive about it...and so was her man”. It doesn’t say she said “I want bangs, but my boyfriend won’t let me”. Don’t people usually ask the people close to them “do you think this would look good?” Someone giving their opinion “eh, I don’t know” is not the same as saying “you can’t do that”.
Catrina Garcia: as soon as i saw the title i said, “this woman better get some damn bangs” edit: man she would have looked so good with bangs :( she’s beautiful though
Tiffany Geary: When I told my friends I was going to shave my head this one girl kept telling me no and that I'd look ugly, and that id never get a bf with short hair and id look like a lesbian. So guess what I cut my hair even sooner than I was supposed to, dont let people control your happiness
Anayris Matias: Today I cut my hair kinda short without telling my boyfriend and he say: “Oh baby, you look different but gorgeous as always” That’s the correct behavior of a good boyfriend for me, no telling that you can’t do anything to you hair or body.
Unknown2Yoo: People keep commenting about the boyfriend, but the stylist said the client AND the boyfriend didn't want bangs. It's not your relationship. If she values his opinion on her opinion, then that's fine. We don't know if she asked him and he was flattered that she even wanted his opinion. Sheesh.
DeDe Hodo: I love your “One Pass” standard. I watched other stylists pass the roots 3 times before going down the shaft. You are such a standard bearer in the hair industry. Waiting for you to arrive in Detroit.
Caracal Lover12: I love the way you make your clients so happy and they never flinch
osakasweetie19: I want to try to start spreading more complements and positivity, so here goes: All the women in this video are very beautiful!
Emily: Meanwhile I’m upset this didn’t immediately start off with “so watch me give her bangs”
I AM CHAKA: I'm sort of happy she didn't get bangs. Her eyes are beautiful, bangs would hide them.
Nandana Nambiar: You know she is amazing at doing what she does ,when she can do all that in such long ass nails❤❤
Himariya Belayneh: My God your talent ...first time I went to a salon to get my hair straightened ...my roots wouldn't stay down despite them burning my hair by doing more than 3 passes ....they didn't use heat protection ....I was sad bc it was for prom ...I look crazy ...my natural curls were better .....I love how your all about protecting the hair What you do is deeper than hair ...n I hope you keep making content
Ayyooomy S: I love how gentle you are with your clients now I wish I had natural hair
Faith Buckmire-Phillips: Last time I checked her hair isn’t growing out of her man’s scalp
Alberto x Luca: She looks absolutely stunning, I wanna get my hair done by you now
Lee48Lee: I mistook the title to read: she wanted to bang but her boyfriend said no. I was very disappointed
Ohla María: I'm totally amazed by your work. And doing all that with those nails it's even more impressive. Also, she looks absolutely beautiful. I'm sure your work really helps to gain confidence but she has a shine on her. So cool.
Cynthi Star: Ok but GIRL- I love how she still hearts comments and replies after 2 years i- Also AMAZING JOB! STUNNING PERIODT
Akosua Fire: Im MARRIED, and let me tell you, even my HUSBAND cant tell ME “no”. Not when it comes to MY hair. About 9 months after we started living together, i cut my hair down to 1.5 inches. (It was almost to my waist when we met). And when he came home from work that day, his jaw dropped. He didnt like it. But too bad. Afterall, no one tells HIM how he can and cannot wear HIS hair.♀️ A few years later its long again. Its HAIR for GODS sake. Itll grow back.
Beebos stale Cheeto: My moms boyfriend said no more tattoos- she said it’s my body I do what I want. Let’s says she has gotten more since
Nicole Royalty: I'm scared to get my hair flat iron. I've had some hating ass stylist in my head. So, a straight wig it is.. Beautiful work
Tia: Gosh! I would love to get my hair done by you one day!
Anelia Milanova: I love how all your clients in your videos are just so gorgeous and you give them amazing results later, also I feel like she used to have bangs and she's growing them out, so maybe that's why she doesn't want any right now
dangokingg: hope that “man” of hers was the one who paid for her to get her hair done
theOnlysiham: Omg you can see her natural glow she’s so beautiful and her hair looks amazing.
Katheryn Breimon: I’ve never walked out of a salon that happy with my hair
M L: She's gorgeous, she could so rock a bang honestly but either way she looks amazing! Love your videos. I don't have curly natural hair but your videos are educational and really cool to watch. All hair is good hair ❤
Kami Koils: Dang! I was really hoping she was go change her mind at the end and let you give her some bangs for a nice and healthy fresh start! You ALWAYS hook them up tho!!! I be screaming in my head, “LET IT GO SIS! It’s ok!”
Samoore BP.!: You made her feel beautiful just like she already is. Great Job ♡♡♡
Nez Tanizaki: If anybody ever tells me what I cant do with my hair you better believe I'm gonna go out and do exactly what they told me not to.
whale: I WANT MY HAIR TO BE DONE BY HER
Shy campre: Whenever I get a client and they tell me they don’t want there hair short because it would make there husbands mad/upset, I always ask “are they wearing your hair? It shouldn’t matter what they think because they don’t have to worry about maintaining it.” Makes me sick to think men have that much control over someone’s hair
Cedrica Daniels: But she already has a bang because of the way the breakage occurred... She should have just let you shape it up
queenie melody: Wow! That's a beauty right there! She is damn gorgeous and you did an amazing job on her hair
Ai: I’m going through the same thing right now. I have bangs and had them for over 5 years. This is the first time the very front of my hair has broken up. I’m doing protein treatments, etc. What else can fix the damage and make my hair grow fast?
Fernando Mata: I have a girlfriend and in the 7 months we’ve been together her hair has gone through dozens of changes while my hair has practically been the same for 4 years there’s been styles that I’ve loved and like 2 that were questionable. One of them I outright hated and was waiting till she changed it but I’ve never told her to not do something. It’s 2020 guys, we don’t run shit other than ourselves and if you think it’s your decision to pick and choose what your gf does with her body then you need a break from relationships until you get it together
K W: Her boyfriend told her noooo???? Chile I guess this why I ain’t got no man cause couldn’t be me
K Stephens: 1. Her hands are magical that’s the tiniest braid I’ve seen! 2. She already has a bang just trimming it up would have looked great 3. Her mans prob the reason it broke off to begin with
Kemesha Manago: I love how you give the client what SHE wants ❤️❤️
🐮: Bf: No u can't have bangs!!! Me: New hairstyle new bf
aantraa: I've had boyfriends that tell me they prefer my hair how it is but never had one that specifically told me not to get a haircut or die it
BooDotBoo: Last time a guy tried to tell me what to do with something on my body, he was told to hit the door, lol. Yeah, that ain't a keeper. But, if he's supporting something you want to do or don't want to do, and tries to talk you through it, that's a keeper.
d bzennie: Let me ask this question? How long will her man be her man if she lost her hair to sickness. Love your self first honey. Those bangs or whatever amount of hair that's taken off will grow back. That's if you are taking care of your hair first rather than your man. Yes, I have one. He complained about one hairstyle after I got it. You know what that means. I continue to get it because I liked it. Thirty five years of marriage. I have never asked him how I should wear my hair or color it. Time!
DØRA hönëy: She's so pretty & you did awesome on her hair!
Acapelllah: Im so impressed by your blowdrying skills like i can’t even do my bangs with a blowdryer
Someone: Everyone talking about the man Me thinking what about when her hair goes curly again
lexilaurelbeauty: honestly this video is sooooooo satisfying to me...i watch her vids whenever i am stressed
TheyCallMe Stoosh: Does she get a vote in his hair, clothes etc? Wake up young lady.
DKING9: this is why I love my guy. I cut my hair real short and grew it back. he knew it would grow back so he crack a few harmless jokes and loved me all the same. but these videos give me hope for my hair
Jasmine Nguyen: It is truly so satisfying to watch the hair smoothen out
herovids119: She is doing all of that with no bangs! Empower her please!
BROTHERCHICKENLICKINGOODNESSS: Girl you do you. Don’t let anyone tell you what you can do with your hair you GO girl! If you want bangs YOU GET BANGS
J E: My boyfriend don’t want me to have bang SERIOUSLY When a boyfriend controls your own hair l don’t know
Gabuun Papaschikova: you're doing wonders! I'm a white woman with straight hair so i could only guess how hard and precise the things you're doing are! i enjoy your videos so much
Ahaza91: God these videos are so satisfying to watch. And I’m with the others, IDK how you did that small cornrow with nails. I can’t do a thing with nails. Great vid!
Cyn_ M: Okay but did y’all witness that talent and skill for her to braid that tiny braid w her long nails??? I could never
nikita rose: Can I just say........she braids amazingly with those nails on....wow... respect gurl
G Strathmore: Why is she letting her boyfriend decide how she wears her hair? Insanity.
Roxanne Orellana: I’ve been told NOT to do something with my body before and I laughed my happy ass to wherever I was going and got exactly what I wanted . And he has the nerve to not even pay for it
Raizing Caiza: Love her energy
rossovertigo: She looks so pretty omg And I love her natural hair
liane_right_now: Love how happy she is at the end
trinity jackson: She would have been so cute with bangs :(
Métisse du Monde: If my bf had asked me not to cut my hair a certain way to avoid dealing with damage to my hair, he would have to buy me all the necessary things for it to look good otherwise/the way he wants it to look. Opinions on things I can't change under a minute aren't and shouldn't cheap IMO
Babybats23: I'm grateful my boyfriend is loving and supportive, & doesn't give a crap what I do to my hair. Lol I mean even when I said I wanted to dye my hair blue, he even offered to by me the Artic Fox hair dye.
jiji102: I really liked how it turned out! Very cute! And maybe she was just over the bangs and wanting to grow them out!
Iliana Dough: My boyfriend prefers me with long hair but I like medium to long bobs. Always have. He’s definitely smart enough to hit me with the “you’re gorgeous either way, baby. I love you no matter what you do” I hope this guys gets a clue soon
Mrs. FancyFitz: Her man corny lol but you slayed it anyways
digital brain: Oh boo first thing I’d do when my boyfriend CONTROLS what I do to my hair, we’re over.
Alexis M.: If my man saw how bad my hair was in the front from breakage he for 1 wuld tell me I need it cut, and for 2 he wuld agree with my stylist because my stylist knows what's best for me. Furthermore he knows it will grow back.
No Ty: If my girl told me I couldn’t do something to MY HAIR drop the whole woman. Lmao. My ex got mad when I permed my curls. Oh well,. An ex Is an ex. ♂️
Thomas Zuleta: These videos remind me of when i was growing up and i had to sit throughout my moms shift at the salon. You should make an asmr style video compilation of you just ironing hair.
DestinyMay: Was anyone else triggered by the “but her boyfriend said no”? Child, BYE she mixed it on a cute lil bang.
blah blah shut up: If your boyfriend says NO to your choices, you should be saying NO to the relationship. Its my hair and I'm going to have it styled as per my wishes, not yours. Period.
CAtotheRINA: Awww how happy she is she looks stunning ♥️
Shara Nichole: I'm married and my husband could NEVER tell me what to do to my hair. He can state what he likes and I may or may not do that. Based of the title. I haven't finished watching.
Dee G: Props to the woman who wants to please her man. Yall "I would have dumped him" chicks be the same one with a man who is no good in a terrible relationship until you're forced to make the "bad all by myself" decision. SHOUT OUT TO THIS WOMAN!
originalmings1991: God forbid he cheats on her with a chick who has bangs...at the end of the day do what makes you happy, these guys aren’t going anywhere
Karyn Sue Pohlmeier: Oh Wow, she has beautiful hair! Great job!
SharpieDayz: Im thirteen but one thing I'm never doing when I grow up is to let some low life tell me what to do with myself to meet their so called "beauty standards."
Olivia Soul: Nobody gon talk bout how gorgeous and beautiful she is ❤️
tutorials by koi: So no one's going to talk about how absolutely STUNNING the client is? Okay.
T.J. Johnson: Her man was apprehensive! ♀️
Jacquelyn T: I am rewatching this video during quarantine and see all of the comments about the hair. I would encourage you all to check out this beautiful young ladies ig and see what a beautiful journey she is on in her life. She is vibrating way higher than the bangs yall. Shout out to love and self discovery!
Natalie Mavilia: I love your work!! I think bangs would have looked cute on her too tho❤️
Monica Gaitor: Enjoyed watching because she preserved natural healthy hair that did NOT need to be butchered. The final result was nothing short of royal...she respected the wishes of her man. Let there be peace in our relationships. Fight battles that are important.
Froggie cansler: my ex boyfriend always asked me how he should get his hair cut before he went to the shop. and i always let him give his input if i wanted to cut my hair or dye it. your partner is the one who has to look at you everyday. we do all kinds of stuff to please our mates, how is hair any different? i didn’t see a problem with it. it didn’t take a lot from me to accommodate him, so i was more than willing to do this for him, and vice versa. now, i chose the color options from him to pick from, but i let him pick between what i already decided upon. so we made a joint decision. i wanted him to like my hair and he wanted me to like his. we want to be attractive for each other so i really don’t see why everyone thinks hair is off limits. am i missing the point, or???
Fay Samuel: The bangs would have looked really nice but girl, you did so good with those clip-ins! Blessings and continued success x
Lauren Thornton: My bf told me not to cut my hair, so I respected his wishes and cut my hair he grew to like it