Styling My Super Short Relaxed Hair | Hair Update

Hi lovelies. What do you guys think of my new cut? Definitely will take some getting used to. Let me know down below how you short hair ladies wrap your hair at night!

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Hey guys so, as you can see, I have cut to my hair yeah, just because for no reason at all, just because I'm very impulsive, so I'm just going to be talking about why I did that and just showing you how I style it and everything like That so, if you would like to see all that, then just keep watching so starting out the night before. Basically, I've just been kind of experimenting with different ways to wrap my hair, and this time it didn't work out that way. I wrapped it kind of crazy. So not to fix everything if you guys have any suggestions on how to rap really really short hair. Just let me know so. I don't have to apply heat on it, but I just got just cut like a couple days ago, so I'm still getting used to it, but basically I'm going through with a small straightener and then a big straightener just to get the little pieces but yeah, I'm Not going to lie, I'm not really feeling this cut that much it wasn't what I wanted. I actually wants to go a bit shorter. I show my stylist these pictures and she pretty much did whatever she wanted. I wanted it to be a little more sleek and sexy like a little shorter edgy look, but she kind of did whatever she wanted and then, when I told her that I wanted it to be shorter, she was like well we're just gon na have to wait Until you get a perm, so I wasn't too happy about that, especially because she had my back turned the whole time. So I couldn't really put my input in on how I wanted to cut, but it's okay, it's just cut hair will grow back. I don't want to cut it anymore, even though I did want it shorter. I don't want to cut it anymore. I think I'm just going to let it grow out. I'M honestly thinking about just putting my hair into sewing for like the next year and just letting it grow out and whatever I don't know, it's not ugly cut. It'S not ugly, and I mean you just have to be confident in whatever you rock it's not ugly. It'S just not really what I wanted, and it just feels so different. I'Ve never had my hair sure I've always pretty much had long hair but yeah. This is just a really quick video on how I'm dyeing my hair as late and yeah, like I said, just leave suggestions if you know how to sleep with super short hair at night, and I will see you guys next time -

Taylor Rogers: my hair is the same length and I can't wait for it to grow out(I hate the in between stage of not a pixie but not a bob either) and honestly the best thing to do is about 10-12 pin curls or wrap it in a circle wrapping it in the direction of the shorter side if that makes sense

Lauryn.C: I love this style on you. When I cut my hair that short I was not able to wrap it so I would tuck the longer pieces behind my ears and put my silk bonnet on. I never experienced any dents or bad hair days. I hope this works for you too.

Adrianne Munroe: I had this same exact cut last summer and it was as so frustrating trying to rap it up at night but all you need to do is brush it back and tie it down with a satin scarf and you're good!!! No dents and the bump/curl still stays. Hope this helped

hayhay hatesyou: she can literally slay every hair style

Erin Phillips: Your hair looks sooo cute. Makes me want to cut my own.

DEmpress88: Your hair is really cute! I love it! Also, you ladies inspired me to give a another chance to try and have healthy relaxed hair again, after being a fed up natural for 7 years. After relaxing my hair and looking back at pics from when I first relaxed my hair to now a year later, and documenting my hair health along the way, I just went ahead and cut off all my relaxed hair to go back natural. My hair was not thriving at all it was breaking and it was shorter and thinner and by the looks of it I would have to trim all the time just to try and get the fullness back (which I did into a bob) I couldn't even lay down on my bed and get up without losing like 10 strands just from that sudden movement. Plus, I haven't seen so much hair on the floor for since been relaxed compared to my 7 years of being natural and honestly I was done trying to fool myself. Big chopped and I have never been so happy to be natural now! I literally wash n go and I'm so looking forward to every step of my journey and all the growth stages inbetween!! Some people hair can thrive with relaxers and mines is just not one of them.

Erika W: I love it. I've had the same exact style before. Chopped all of my hair before as well. Do what you feel like best for you. I had a stylist who did that to me once. I hate when that happens.

FqChic: So happy to have found your channel. My hair is up to my ears relaxed and you're really helping me through my journey bc I didn't know what I was doing but I wanted my hair relaxed!!! Thanks so much!!

Kamri Pinkney: My hair is short and relaxed too and I "classic" wrap it. I take the wrap brush and wrap it around in a circle. It works soooo good! I only have to put heat on 1-2 times a week!

Danielle DeFreitas: I love this cut. I'm obsessed with deep bangs with the other side tucked behind the ear. So Im biased. My hair is tucked behind one ear right now lol.

10 Ways To Wear It: It's gorgeous. Your hair always looks great because it's nice and healthy.

takiyah Sirmons: I think the cut looks great on you! You might as well cut it into the style that you want before you grow it back... that way you get it out of your system. Atlanta is like the holy land for black stylists. I'm sure u can find someone that'll give you the perfect cut.

ESSNTL: Thank you all for all the love and suggestions! They're so helpful!

Kendra Brevard: I just got my hair relaxed colored and cut in this style, so now i am just going to rewatch these videos and follow what she did when she was relaxed

snoopybabii93: Your hair cut looks amazing on you girl

Amanda’s Family: I know this video is kinda old but i love your hair cut. I got my hair cut like this a few months ago, but since I’m natural the style only last a day or two. I’m definitely going to relax it so that i can get the same effects as you!

K A N N E: When my bob was shorter, instead of the flatiron, I used a 2 in barrel curling iron and put curls in my hair after a fresh wash, moisturized the curls, wrapped and went to bed. Everyone has always asked have I gone to get my hair blown out. I still use that method today for my long bob. The curls, form to your head in the right direction as you are combing in the cone to wrap, leaving little to no flyaways or straight ends

mooncupid: Honestly, that happened to me too!! My hair is literally the length of yours in this video. The lady who did my hair was basically saying "oh I don't want to cut it that short because you have such long hair and that's a big transition." and i'm like ".....but that's not what I asked you." I legit wanted mine cut like Megan Good in Intruder. But apparently I have "Long hair" and it's a "Big transition." =/

Raederle Lemoine: This cut is nice but I know the feeling of wanting what to want. When my hair was short like that I would pin curl my hair with my fingers and secure it with bobby pins. You basically roll in the direction you want the curls to fall. Works wonders.

Jordanna Scott: I cut my hair in April and I love it. It's a lot to keep it looking good but it's worth it. When it grows longer I'll get a sew in for the colder weather but now I just want it short

dangerouslyloved16: This is how I normally get my hair cut so I'm in love with this hairstyle lol it's cute on you though

PrttyBrwnEyez13: I always love 'the swoop' in the front, lol, but I feel what you're saying about the stylist though. I've been contemplating if I want to relax my hair and cut it or get some protective style for the summer.

Rica O: My hair is this length I was natural once I dyed it and it fell out so I had to cut it all off I was so frustrated with it so coming to your channel helped me out a lot thank u

Elize Cristian: Nossa! Maravilhosa! Amei parabéns!

K. Morton: i like it. it looks sophisticated!

MinSweetSuga: I admire you so much, whenever u want your hair short u just go and cut it,no hesitation. love your hair cut, it looks awesome.

Kaci Lee: This cut is beautiful ❤️

Karen Marie Music: I HAAAAAAAAATE when stylist do that ish man. I sent mine pictures of what I wanted. She said, "Yeah! That's super cute. We can do that!!" Then when I got there....(***closes eyes tightly), she said, "Don't do that cut. I think you need a layered bob." She got me like that twice with my hair. I never went back because I realized she's not up to date on styling and can't actually do what I want.

Chris M: Mine is short like this. I love your bans. Looking forward to growing mine out.

Live2LoveJ: Cut my hair today this exact length. My stylist did the exact same thing yours did she didn't follow the picture I showed her.i wanted shorter on the side. I'm looking for ways to maintain and came across this video

Let's Get-it: Your hair is beautiful! It frames your face nicely.

goldmouth100: When you wrap it just comb it straight back and tie it up...It looks good on you ♡

loc'd&deeplyrooted: Beautiful either way short or long your relaxed hair is gorgeous

Cherie W.: My bob is slightly longer than yours. I don't do the usual wrap as I always have to use heat. Instead - I pin curl my side bang, then comb my hair behind my ears (right side goes right and left side goes left) and around the back of my head..fix both sides with a long clip. I then use a Velcro hair wrapping scarf, once in place I slip the clips out! In the morning I just comb and go!' ....

Jennifer Effinger: It looks nice! !! healthy! ! you should rock it. It's not that short it's still a nice length.

Ambrià Hughes: This is so beautiful on you

UndeniablyDesirableThings: I would say to try foam rollers wrapped in satin!! They're easy to sleep in, come in all different sizes and it's a really easy and quick to apply them!

xoxo: OMG THIS IS MY LIFE RIGHT NOW. LIKE EVERY SINGLE WORD IN THIS VIDEO. so crazy! and so thankful for this thank you. :)

Jillian Wade: It's really cute honestly . But I know how it feels not getting hair how you wanted

Haley Anderson: This is so cute on you!!! My stylist did the same thing to me!!!

Mrs D: looks gorgeous on you

Aye Gal: I have this same cut, it’s two months old. Like you I always had long hair, and I get how u feel but it’s one of those hairstyles that grows on you because I love mines now

Jasmine: My hair is cut just like this and what I usually do is comb all of my hair to the back and put it in a low ponytail with a rubber band then tie it down with a scarf and when I wake up I take the scarf and rubber band off. And if there are any marks from the rubber band I sometimes will go over that area with the flat iron or blow my my hair downwards on cool and it'll knock the bumps right out.

Mercedes Mariee: Omg I love this cut

Fluffy flo: Love it!

Z Beauty: This haircut is GORGEOUS on you! But, I wouldn't go back to that stylist. She sounds like a salon horror story waiting to happen.

Brianna Rashay: Love the cut!!

dnspence10: Love the cut!

LS: Cute cut Can we get more videos of all of you ladies!

beautxpain: The cut looks nice on you. How do you keep the swoop in the front? The front of mine kinda stays flat. I had mine cut this short from shoulder length about 3 months ago. I had no idea how to wrap it cos I was used to cross-wrapping. The only thing that kept it semidecent was coming it all back and wrapping the scarf over it keeping the ends bent down and to keep a bit of bump when I woke up. But still found myself having to apply a bit of heat almost everyday which I hate. I'm used to only applying heat every other week! Now its grown a teeny bit more enough for me to do a regular wrap round the head which gives me nice volume. As much as I loved the cut when I first had it I would avoid going that short again because of the nightly wrapping situation and high-maintenance.

sweetfm2008: Your hair looks great!!! Wrap it with a rake tooth comb. Question: where did you purchase that pretty silk/satin robe?

Krissy James: I actually love the cut on you

Cheyenne: So pretty and elegant!

Shanice McBride: It's cute I ended up cutting my hair similar to this

BetterLengthHair: It looks nice:)

YA NERE: Beautiful so happy to see relaxed hair ❤️‼️

JazzyMB7: Omg I really like it it's cute on you ❤️

miss sunshine: I wish I could achieve these look u make it look so easy

Tajonay: I have a similar cut to this and I have such a difficult time styling it. At first I hated the cut and I tried it for 3 weeks. Got some box braids and haven’t looked back. Lol now I wanna let my hair breathe a little and still don’t know how to style

Shelby Steele: When that happens at the salon its because they dont know how to do the style you want but they just cant admit it...and they dont want to lose that money.

Jan Moore: I think it's cute! I going to get mine cut like that.

Rasheika Atkins: Looks good though. To wrap I would say pin curl the front piece that you want feathered. For the sides wrap them both toward the middle of your head. Essentially a variation of cross wrapping for short hair.

MarlzB: Hi. I always enjoy watching ur videos. My hair is about the same length as yours and no matter how much i try to follow your tutorials it NEVER comes out like yours. Im begging you could you please tell me what products you use in your hair? How do you get it so bouncy?? What relaxers do you use?

Michelle's Daughter: I think it's super cute!

Chloe Easley: Your hair is gorgeous! And I love the leng th. Mines about like thst but so thin. I had short hair on me. Id be happy eith medium. I love it.

Kalisha J: I think it's cute!! I get what you're saying though, when you have something specific in mind then that's what you want.

Yolanda McGill: Love your hair❤

JayAndrelle: I like your new hair cute. You could try satin rollers to curl your hair to avoid heat.

iiLizzie W: I LOVE IT❤❤

Pure Radiance: Gorgeous!!!

Kimmy Brann: I would just comb it all back and loosely tie it up so it doesn't lose its bounce and pin curl the bang

Sophie mckenn: I have this exact cut , I pin curl it because wrapping it makes it flat .

Stacey George: My beautician did what she wanted to mine now it's growing and I love ur hair so I think I'll be doing like urs. Thx it's pretty rock it

sashlav04: I do big pin curls on my short hair most night. I have the same length of hair.

Ne_nenyc: Love this cut

SQueen_ Rob: I'm actually going in for a consult today to get a similar cut to what you have here. Yeah it is a bit disappointing when you don't walk out with the style you want.

Ashley Ashley: Love it! Looks good on u

Vantrice Gates: I LOVE short hair on you. It makes you look like Maya Campbell. 90's Maya Campbell lol.

tiona: Omg I HATE when stylists have your back turned the whole time like bitch I wanna see wtf you doin?? Then they don't even do what you showed them ‍♀️

thahighestpriestess: I love it!

Britt Falker: Can we please get an update on the bob?!

alwayslovehere: Beautiful hair cut...

Candy WorldTV: OMG, so I screenshot your pic for inspo to get my hair cut. Going tomorrow actually. Love this

CuTe AnGRY BiRD: Hi mam. ur haircut looking superb on u..

Shenelle Taylor: You make me want to cut my hair lol

Kim D.: I feel like i have an idea of the cut you wanted. The one I've seen was on Pinterest. But I think its cute anyways but I would also love to see you grow it out on your own timing

Tiyana Jarvis: I have the same cut . I don't wrap my hair. I brush it all straight back and put my scarf on try that

Alexis G: Keep the same part, comb the side part to the side and tie it or pin curl the sides, the back should be good for a few days

A: I have what you're wearing!! Got it in Hong Kong but it's getting old, where did you buy yours? I think the hair is gorgeous hair btw!

ieeshamack: I love this cut.

Bebellz Fortuné: So Cute!!

Khia Marshall: even though you didn't get the hair to your liking you still look beautiful girl.

Jasmine Barrett: you look beautiful with is cut!

Tasha Jeffery: I got the same length cut as you and I just is Bobby pins to keep my wrap in place!!!!

Breanna Carey: You're definetely rockin that cut sis, but a bit of advice? GO TO A DIFFERENT STYLIST BABES!❤ Edit: ILY <3

XandriasApt21: When I decided to relax and cut my natural hair I showed my stylist a picture of the cut I wanted and this heffa says " I can't do that because I don know the cut she got to achieve that look" I was like bitch whet? I had never heard of such bs

Courtney Michelle: I love that style omg

Stephanie Lyons: U could just comb to the back, and put scarf on, but the best way is to wet it, add setting lotion, on natural or relaxed hair, then its much easier to wrap. Also if u have a side part the best way to start your wrap would be to go the direction were the most hair is, that way when u come around to the front, not so thick. Also small tooth comb, finish with a hard brissle brush.Thanks Stef Jones/Barber/Hairstylist/Bellingham, Wa.

Deianeira: This is super short? Looks great on you though ❤️

Bertha Woods: luv it u make me wanna to cut mines

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