Relaxing My Hair After 10 Years Natural Fail|Relaxer Fail
- Posted on 04 March, 2022
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I just wanted to be able to manage my hair with the little time I do have...i was simply tired of waking up with a matted ponytail..painful to detangle...walking around with a scarf..I just wanted to fix myself up...but nope I'm baldhead instead lol.
after 10 years natural the relaxer just snatched all my hair out!
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This is from scalp, hey guys, welcome back to my channel if you're new here, i'm lisa, i honestly don't even have any time to make like a proper intro. Hence the reason why i'm doing this in the first place, if you saw the title, you would know that i'm part of my hair, i'm doing it right now, literally, don't even have time to like really i'll talk to you. While i'm doing it, i guess but um yeah, i have no choice. I have no choice. I have no time to maintain. I have no time to manage it. I have no time to do anything to my hair. My hair is breaking off. My hair is brittle. My hair is a mess kind of now. I'M always amazed. This is how i look most days see no, i have i have girls. I have a boy too, but i'm saying i have oh, i have girls they're one's going to high school one's going to middle school, okay, and it is no reason for this to be a representation of how a woman carries herself like yes, they're old enough to Understand that okay mommy got this baby, it's hard, but no, i want to show them strength. You know, even when it's hard, you can carry yourself better. That is not what i've been showing them. I'Ve been looking hot mess and i'm in the room actually because they have a mirror. I don't have a mirror in my room and they have a mirror right here. So i came in here because i want to sit down because i'm tired with that being said. I don't have time to do my hair. I don't ever have time to do my hair. This used to be a hair channel. If you remember, i've hit some of the videos, but some videos are still here. I used to do my hair every week like i was that girl. I have no time to braid my hair and it's not it's not i'm not exaggerating braiding. My hair takes hours like it takes a while. I don't have that anymore and i deserve to feel cute. I deserve to feel beautiful. I deserve to not walk around. Looking like this, that's not that's not fair to myself for the sake of keeping my natural hair that doesn't make sense to me. I'Ve been over 10 years, it's been over 10 years of being natural, it's okay to change, dead and raggedy. Looking back. This is why i shouldn't have burned my hair and i'm actually really excited i'm excited and nervous at the same time, because my hair is so damaged right now i don't want it to like. I don't want to lose a lot of it. I don't have my gloves they're downstairs in the basement with the baby. I just realized it. If i go down there with him he's not going to. Let me do this, so i don't know why i just got like really overwhelmed like okay, i'm ex i'm in a good. I'M excited! Okay! If i'm doing this wrong, keep your comments to yourself, okay, like because if you look better, you feel better and i have not been feeling good and after a year of struggling with postpartum depression, i refuse re. I refuse for my hair to take me back down the dark road. No hi um we're here now at this point, i've got it all in my hair like in conclusion. I just want to feel my best self, so y'all do what y'all have to do to feel your best self like i want to feel better. I miss the confidence i had. You know when i used to do my hair and keep myself up. Where is that you know, i want to be a good example to my girls. I want to get up and go to the store and my hair not be a mess. This is for medium to normal, hair. 15. 18 minutes. It definitely had not been um. 18 minutes, but i'm scared, so i want to go rinse it out. It'S giving thin processed hair, but it's there to do this ph balance and conditioner first for reek. Bro. Is this a joke? Is this a joke? Is this a joke? Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh, oh my gosh, i literally just want to feel better about myself. I just wanted to make sure that i kept my hair done so my girls can know to keep themselves up. I want to stop looking crazy in public. I just want to feel my best self and that's i didn't even leave it in the whole time and that's how life gon na do me. That'S how life gon na do me that's how life's gon na do me. People are going to say it's because i put my hair, i just googled my life away and a lot of people experience hair loss. After a baby, i ran into this forum of girls. It was um white girls, but they had died and bleached their hair. After having a baby and all their hair, fell off fell out and stuff, so i'm assuming i'm assuming that my hair texture is not the same anymore. Well, the strength of my hair is not the same anymore since pregnancy and i'm experiencing hair loss, because my hair wasn't strong enough and i'm not experiencing a little hair loss. Y'All i'm talking about all of my hair is coming out. This is from scalp everything gone and it's still coming out. I don't know what kind of luck or what kind of i've washed it out like a total of 12 times now, no exaggeration, and it's still what is happening, i suffered for a year y'all depressed a year with postpartum depression a year, probably over a year. I was depressed in my pregnancy and i was planning on. I was playing. I was trying so hard, but a year of crying every single night for a year, no exaggeration, looking a mess. My kids seeing me look crazy. I literally just wanted to burn my hair. So that i could have time to get myself together, so my kids could see: dump their mom confidence come back and come back. Why would this happen? I can't break because they're out there watching the baby. If i have a full-blown meltdown in front of my kids over here, then, if they ever have hair issues, anything can happen to her. I want them to know that hair is not everything it grows back, so i have to remain calm. I am i am. I am broken down inside, but i have to stay calm and regular. So when i go out there to them they we can laugh about it. You know wow, look at my hair. I don't think you're understanding how much hair. Do you see? That'S everything, that's everything! So it's the next morning. Look i got no sleep. I was crying. I was boo-hooing, but look, okay, look! Oh it's not funny. I put it in a ponytail like what is this so we're here? I'M just going to be rocking this like shirt on my head because um yeah, i don't know what to do. I was gon na wait to post this until i came up with a solution, so i got my hair done so i came back looking wonderful, but let me just be real on my social media platform. This is real life. I made a mistake. I honestly still don't feel like it was a perm. I really think something was on my hair. If you watch like while editing the videos, my hair, looks so damaged and like brittle and just like messed up, i didn't even realize like watching like seeing it every day. I didn't even realize, like how damaged and how messed up it was getting. So i really think my hair just couldn't couldn't take it i should have did i should do the patch test. I did not, i should have. Did it? That'S my fault, that's my mistake. I don't know what happened. I really don't know what happened, but it is what it is. Maybe it was time maybe i needed to change. Maybe it was time to move on. Maybe my hair was holding me back because i put so much emphasis on my hair when my hair is done. I feel ugly, i feel i feel like i look stained i feel depressed. Sometimes maybe my hair was holding me back, you know. Maybe it was time for me to stand hold my head held high, even without my hair done. You know what i'm saying: that's how i'm looking at it was time new change, new journey. You know self-love journey, how how better else to love on yourself more when you bald head. You know what i'm saying so, i'm supposed to get all of this like right here at the top had it probably in may, and i feel like with a short haircut with this headed and my sleeve finished, and when i put all my earrings in, do my Makeup i feel like we might be, it might be a look, it might be a vibe and, what's crazy, what's crazy. What'S so crazy is literally all like all my 20s. I used to always say man when i turn 30 i'ma cut my hair, i'm gon na cut my hair, i'm gon na give me a little shortcut. I said that for so long i accidentally put that into the universe. I manifested it. I wasn't trying to do it this way. I wasn't trying to do it this way, but i think you got ta watch your words even at the beginning of this video i was like. Oh, i hope my hair don't fall out. Why was i saying it? Why was i claiming it? We got ta watch our words. We got ta watch our words, so yeah guys thanks for watching. I hope you enjoyed this tragic video. Um don't come on here with all your negative thoughts about me putting my hair, because it is what it is. I don't need that, but um we're here, we're happy we're. Okay, you got ta change, your energy, we got ta just stay positive and positive results will come hey. Let me just knock this off my head, but um sit down he's trying to jump off the stairs yeah thanks for watching, don't forget to like comment subscribe, and i will see you in my next video: do not jump
Comments
Lisajstyles: 1:my hair is still currently falling off the bone... 2:I didn't realize how weak my hair was before relaxing 3:I DIDNT even leave it in 10mins 4:I'm sad so don't fry me lol 5:if your in Atlanta recommend hair stylist that can cut hair
Mia Moore: Babe what??? When u said u had children i was thinking little babies… then you said high school and middle school. My jaw dropped to the floor. You look like you could be in your teens!! Black don’t crack fr fr
Coco Tyler: I actually cried when your hair started coming out because the story behind why you even wanted to relax in the first place was so powerful and relatable I hope your in a better place mentally now
whatsguccimaaa: It’s crazy to me that you said you felt ugly, because from the outside looking in, you’re SO naturally beautiful! Goes to show that when you look at others you can’t be sure how they feel inside. Your feelings are all so valid but the good thing is, hair grows back.
bambam254: I've watched this video 3x over the last month or two. I didn't know what to comment back during the first watch, but this is what I've come to. This is absolutely one of my favorite videos. Hearing you discuss your "why" and what you were hoping to achieve and how it included a lesson for your children and just not having time to care for you, the transparency about your postpartum depression, THE RESULT...this whole video was FELT. It's always amazing to me how we process through our personal struggles and give different solutions a shot, even with considering the different possible outcomes. We work soooooooo hard to be our best selves and this video is just so revealing to what being a human, and moreover a woman, is. I salute you Gorgeous and I love you
Autumn R.: Hey girl, it's okay. It's going to be okay. I've been natural for 10 years too, and in that time I've cut my natural hair down to the scalp (multiple times) cuz I was tired. Just tired. You are still beautiful and strong no matter what your hair looks like. I'm praying for continued strength and comfort, in the name of Jesus.
Kitty Giavonni: As an empath I could feel the deeper pain beyond the hair. It’s refreshing to you see you laughing and smiling about it. Often we are not given our flowers. I’m not a mother but I commend mothers for finding their inner strength for the sake of their offsprings. You are beautiful and strong and will be blessed. Your cries have been heard. Peace and love to you beautiful plus your skin Gon drop that tutorial sis !!!!
Celestial Queen: This happened to me when I had my LAST relaxer when I was 16. It was the WORST feeling ever and I vowed to NEVER relax again. 13 years later…I now have dreadlocks down to my behind and I love them! Low maintenance, natural, free to style ❤️
Pineapples_noo: To my natural queens about to relax please be sure to use "beautiful beginnings " or a kid relaxer for the first time. It's less harsh on "virgin" hair. Sis I am so sorry this happened to you! I wish you all the best in your regrowth journey. ❤
Madameo8: Definitely cried with you. This is so relatable, vulnerable and honest. Just had my son a few months ago and I felt every word you mentioned. Love from
Jasmine Price: Girl I was crying with you when you were just racking your hair out. I had that happen to me. Relaxed my hair after my baby it came out and I just cut it and grew it back out I was living my best life with the short hair but through the journey I just learned to love myself. It’s ok baby you are still beautiful and everything will get back on track soon just take it one day at a time love. Sending love and prayers your way!
Katlego Buys: I am glad you shared this, i am about 20 months postpartum and i was about to relax my hair because i was experiencing the same emotions you mentioned:not feeling pretty and messy,my hair is brittle and weak. Your video just saved my hair i am glad you shared this.
damani!🦖: As devastating and heartbreaking as it is to experience this, especially as a black woman because our hair needs more care and maintaining, i admire,adore,and love the way you handled the situation with a calm and patient manner you’re a queen
Truly Ty: Your courage to fight through your internal meltdown to protect and be a great example for your kids - an inspiration! From the outside looking in, this is what I saw: you lost your hair but regained your confidence. I say regained because it never left, it was hiding. You can tell in the way you speak over who you want to present to yourself, your kids, and then the world. Your hair departing was the forced realization YOU are the source of your confidence. Not your hair, outfit, nails, anything - all of YOU. You can rock a sweatsuit, sneakers and be bald-headed and TILT THE ROOM with your presence. The secret sauce is always you, what you put on is your accessory. I'm so proud of you for keeping it real with this video and choosing your joy in chaos. This is only the beginning of reclaiming the Queen energy you always possessed. Sending so much love and light your way!!
Odigie Great: This brought tears to my eyes, women go through a lot and I can't imagine what you are going through right now. I hope you are doing okay.
Ebie B: You are so strong! As you speak I feel every word. I too had postpartum depression after childbirth and my confidence was shot too. I lost all my edges and my hair did grow so much during childbirth, but after it just wasn’t right. So I know exactly how you wanted to feel. Stay strong Sis! You are being true to yourself and your life, being authentic will always be a good example for your kids❣️
Bre anna: This video was so much more than relaxing natural hair. I actually shed some tears . Postpartum depression is sooo hard. Praying for you ♥️
Kima Parks: I almost thought this was a joke because you were so calm. I’m so sorry that on top of the other stuff this happened. I just so happened to see a thumbnail of your hair cut and you look GORGEOUS!!
Ann Jones: I understand what you meant when my hair is done I feel better, and the fact you want your daughters to carry themselves like ladies and put forth an effort in their appearance . You look Fabulous and Youthful!!
Ashb: Omg the way you handled this was amazing! Your kids should be happy and proud to have you as their mom regardless
Shakita: I absolutely love youu!! I love your energy, your mentality, your mindset! This could have been a spiraling situation but you didn't let it! You're a great example for your children. I keep hearing that postpartum shedding is too real!! It will grow back thicker healthier and longer!! You got this mama!!
Love Everyone: Oh my goodness, I went from devastation, to crying, to busting out laughing with you! You are so freaking brave and beautiful
R_N_C _: I was natural for 5 years and got a perm at the hair salon and this happened to me a few days later. My hair was literally just falling out in clumps. Never again
Porshia W.: After having postpartum for a year and then trying to make yourself feel better and then this. I could tell you were defeated... but only for a second. I love how you still smiled and gave us motivation and then even laughed at yourself after crying all night! Your amazing and congratulations on the new baby. I had a baby in 2020 and my hair is so disappointing to me too but we are okaylol!
Shay Mack: I was literally crying for you, but love how positive you were at the end!! They do say that hair holds on to energy and if you’ve been going through a depression, it may have just been time for a new start.. P.s. T-shirt and all, you’re beautiful❤️
Always b Cherry: Love how you handled a scary situation by adding humor. My heart dropped when I saw the hair falling out because you had such good hair prior to the relaxer. Love you positive spirit. Now you get to rock short hair and you look beautiful either way. It's just hair is what I say. Tfs
PeaceBwithU: I can’t imagine you looking “ a mess” you’re so pretty!! I know how traumatic it is to loose hair. I’ve had 3 babies. I finally cut it down to a cute natural curly pixie. My youngest is now 4 and my hair is almost bsl it will grow back….hang in there and take care of yourself.
Andrea Rideout: I cried so hard because I felt this. This happened to me after I had my last child and I didn’t even relax it. Literally all my hair fell out. I’ve been wanting to relax my hair after 7 years of natural hair and you saved me from experiencing heartbreak again.
Haley Alexis: You just saved me from getting a relaxer. My heart sank for you when your hair started to come out. You are so incredibly strong.
Timmesha Curtis: As somebody that’s fought breast cancer & lost all my hair i can definitely relate it’ll be back before you know it just take you some vitamins & drink plenty of water you’re still pretty
Doja Villager: When all your hair started coming out I immediately felt my heart sinking. I’ve been on this natural hair journey for a few years and it’s been a struggle and I recently decided to cut it all off and try again. I’m currently in the awkward length stage where it’s too short to really do too much with and I feel so insecure about it as well. I 100% feel like this is the universes way of telling you it’s time to start fresh & get back to loving you.
Tasha G: This happened to me in high school omg I cried like every day and it took a while for it to grow back. I had literal bald spots that had to grow in. You really handled that sis
Busisiwe Zamisa: First of all, thank you so much for your vulnerability. I went through the exact same thing when I was 13 and have had multiple crying sessions over my hair throughout my teenage years. When I was 21 my mom recommended afro crochet hair and I have never looked back! It looks sooo incredibly natural and I've received attention from other races which has never happened lol. I highly recommend giving afro crochet a try! It's so easy and low maintenance. You can keep it on up to a month if you take good care of it and look soooo effortlessly fly. Personally I consider it a "your hair but better" style for black women. Ugh I wish I could show you pictures but definitely look it up! Plus you already sooo beautiful, I literally thought you were a teenager until you mentioned your kids! All will be well dear, there are plenty of options. The hair will grow back, it always does. In the meantime just take your vitamins, indulge in yourself to keep the stress low and remember again that you have P L E N T Y of options. You are not stuck, I promise. Much love <3
Blessings Yt: I can tell you’re an amazing mum. You’re so thoughtful and considerate of your girls, wonderful to see
Fiyadara: I honestly feel for you. I remember my first perm at 13, kept it touched up it for years while on a SWIM TEAM, no one taught me nothing about hair damage, so I would flat iron or curl it before school EVERY DAY. Then for an upcoming event, went to get it straightened and the next time i washed it, the entire bottom left quadrant of my head lost hair. I was traumatized as a little girl. Haven't put heat or chemicals in since, and struggle to trust certain products aside from regular oils/water/homemade conditioners & treatments to this day. My heart goes out to you. You will find your confidence back <3
Simply MEnique: I experienced the same thing after having my 3rd baby. My hair came out from the roots and was very thin so I went natural. As I was watching your hair prior to you relaxing it I was saying Nooo!!! I knew your hair was too weak for a relaxer. I nourished my hair back to life and now it’s back down my back. It’s just hair and it will grow back sis!! You’re beautiful!!!
Cookie Mama: I feel your pain mamas! I was natural for 5+ years, then locked my hair for 2 years. A few months before i had my 3rd child I took my dreads out and enjoyed the longest my hair had ever been. Had our baby and I suffered postpartum, so then decided to use a texturizer to feel better and it messed my hair up so bad. I had to decide if I wanted to grow the perm out for 4 years or chop it...so I chopped it. You're not alone sista!
Linda: This was a learning experience for me. Thank you for sharing this. I pray you're mentally in a better place and gained strength from this life lesson.
Monica Branch: Girl love the energy at the end. Yes girl. ♥️♥️♥️ That’s depression was in your hair and it was time to go. And new great things are coming your way.
Amanda Day: Girl, I felt for you in this one. You handled this with such grace and composure. Such a testament to you and your love for your kids. You'd look really cute with short hair btw!
Alley Jay: I wish more you tubers would be this HONEST ❤
Wise Weirdo: Hey I just wanted to say that your hair doesn’t define you. You literally look so beautiful and your hair doesn’t define who you are as a person. You can always just cut and grow your hair back, and do weave styles. Im wishing you the best queen✨
Moonchild. Cr: You know what…. Watching this from being recommended on my tl and going to her channel to see she cut it all off and has short hair…. I’m like WHAT, the short hair suits her SO FREAKING MUCH?!?!! You look absolutely stunning regardless gurl , don’t belittle yourself over the hair on your head because after all, the character and everything… it’s givingggg ✨✨✨ face card NOT declined!!
BSweetDarling *: I tried to keep a straight face when you were in the car and pulled your sides down and gave it a little 'bump' at the end, but I laughed right along with you. LOL! While losing your hair is no laughing matter, sometimes we have to laugh to keep from continuing to cry.
TeSm: First of all I LOVE you’re personality. I cracked up but if it was me I would be bawling and I know you said you were but you are so energetic! At least you’re making some good money from this video! Your hair will grow back and you helped a lot of people with this!
Assata Pyatt: Yo I thought my excessive shedding after my baby was bad. I literally would cry over my hair. Ended up getting two bald spots on my temples. They grew back though . I feel your pain sis. Glad you posted because this is inspiring me to just leave my hair alone. I installed micro interlocks for the SECOND time in January and they were long the first time. I blame pregnancy hormones for choosing to cut them off and comb them out. I'ma just leave it be and let it grow. It's only up from here sis
kay mo: I have only been natural going on 4 years & I was not considering on perming it but now I wouldn’t even think about it….I’m sorry this happened to you because I understand where you’re coming from. Natural hair does take time to up-keep. Praying for you sis
DKB: Thank you for sharing this! I feel for you!! I appreciate your humor throughout the video, but I also feel your pain. You will overcome this and get through it! This is a good opportunity for new healthy hair growth!! Keep your head up. Hugs
Ms88keys1: My dear, you saved my hair. I been natural for several years. I now know that my protein free hair is way to weak to handle a relaxer. After watching this video, the thought of a relaxer is null and void. I’m sorry this happened to you but I thank you for posting it to make us other natural beware of relaxers and learn from you.
Shayla alyahS: You know what? You are so brave and strong and I applaud you for even posting this video Queen. God bless you and your new hair journey
Araya: the end of this video was beautiful! the positivity, the advice, i’m loving it. ✨
Taylor Young: Your a GREAT mom taking every single moment to process how it will effect your kids is literally the sweetest thing I have ever seen your still beautiful ❤️
Jaquette: Life happens! Thanks for sharing your post partum experience. I laughed with you though Your skin is flawless and you’re beautiful. You are definitely right about power in our words. All the best on your new journey ✨✨✨
Dessiree McBean: I've been natural for 13 years and I've had so so so many set backs and I have to say the way you handled that was phenomenal. Going through postpartum depression is so real and it makes you do things and feel ways you wouldn't normally do or feel. You are a beautiful young lady inside and out. And you are stronger then you realize. The storm doesn't last forever. 1 day at a time focus on 1 thing at a time to not overwhelm yourself. I know that feeling. I am routing for you sister. ❤
Willa Lareche: I’m so sorry you went through this. Watching that my heart ache for you, seeing all that progress gone I know was devastating. Just remember it is hair, it’ll grow back and you look flawless no matter how it’s styled. Rock a pixie or a weave if you want but embrace the versatility our hair can do!! Blessings to you! ♥️
She codes: I love how you really realized you wouldn’t break down in front of them because of knowing your little ones are watching you. I love the big chop you did!!!
Rocki Mara: Girl I’ve done this to my hair with bleach so many times lol. You a trooper and your beautiful!
Diana Prince: You saved me from getting a relaxer after not having one for over 15 years. You are brave for doing a relaxer yourself. I’m so scared to anything by myself. Your hair looks fine and it’s still long.❤️
Vida Con Izzy: You’re an excellent mother.. I’ve decided this based on how you speak about your babies, and how you want to set good examples for them. Your hair will grown back Queen ❤️
Icy Rock: I'm glad LaToya Ebony recommended this video. I LOOOOVE your long and beautiful 2 stranded twists! And I loved the black wrap at the end. Thank you for being transparent. I'm going through the whole, "I'm tired of doing my hair. I'm tired of my hair looking raggedy and unkempt." So what helped me was getting some else to do my hair. Also, I'm down to just 2 styles: a half-fro where I pull all my hair up in an afro puff or a headwrap. I had hoped my daughter would eventually take after me and go natural once she got to be grown. She had been having her hair professionally done- cornrows with extensions, heat straightened hair, then relaxers. For hs graduation, I got her do'd up and had her makeup and hair professionally done with a straight phony pony. That seemed like her introduction to wearing wigs for years. One day, I looked up and all her hair was cut down to a natural twa. She's found something in-between. She does small bantu knots with her natural hair in the front and curly half wigs in the back over her natural hair. Works for her, so it works for me.
N A: Girl I feel so bad for you. But you handled this like a queen. If it was me I wouldn't have posted the video. But even by doing that and showing us that life happens .. you were so brave and I admire that. You are beautiful and I don't know if you've cut the hair and fixed it up already but you can absolutely get a really cute style and come out looking even more bomb than you would have before. And it would still teach your girls the lesson that you can take care of yourself and keep yourself beautiful
Monique 009: Love the video and the strength you show even in your moment of weakness. In this society, we were put in the position of not appreciating our natural features and being suppressed because of them, while European features were modeled as beautiful. I have 4 daughters (and 5 sons). The oldest daughter 29 and the youngest is 15. None have ever permed their hair. I made a concerted effort to teach them to love everything about their natural hair. When they don’t want to deal with it, they wear a protective style under a wig or weave. Not my preference, but I’ll take it over them perming. My youngest asked for locs at 5. I had small traditional liocs and two of her sisters had Sisterlocks. I happily did her install. Today: Her 10 year old locs are thriving! Her micro locs are giving her a thick, healthy head of hair that she is proud of. I pray that we, as black women, can continue to thrive and love our natural, authentic selves no matter what hairstyle we rock. Thank for the video! And you are a wonderful example to your children.
JustThatGirl: This really hurt to watch. You stayed so much more calm than I would have. Love your positivity and that you were thinking about the impact on your babies. Hope you get a cute new style and that your hair grows back soon.
Karee Chase: I love the intro of you opening up to us and sharing your reasons I felt you 100%…I feel like I never have time or energy to look nice / pretty. hair grows back mama! sending you much love and the best of wishes too.
Brooklyn Love: Sometimes I think of relaxing my hair again, but after seeing videos like this, I’ll stick to my natural hair. Thank you!
gronkeat: you're amazing, you're strong, you're a great mother clearly, and in the end you still look so good!!!!! Hope ur feeling better now and pouring love into yourself because you deserve it
CTC006: Taking care of 3 toddlers and finding out my husband cheated on me, I totally understand. I decided this week that I have to start doing the things I use to do before kids to keep myself up. I probably won't perm my 9 year natural hair but it doesn't look any different than ur natural hair...it will grow back. Just keep going for u to show ur daughters better.
Kierra Drayton: You look like a teen yourself lol. Hard to believe you have older children. I can’t imagine how you felt because I haven’t had a baby yet but the fact that you got this far is amazing. I hope you get your life back the way you want it, even better actually.
Joyah and Abir’Yah: “You gotta watch your words” I felt that Sis. Such an empowering woman!!! Your beauty glowed from inside out. Like when you came back with the headwrap on!!! I no longer looked at you. I saw your spirit. Peace and Blessings to you❤️
SiiN CiiTY: I love how real this video was - it just came across my feed. I reali felt ur pain ❤ and loved how calm you remained about it. Even coming back the next day to laugh through it when in the car. You defo can pull off a cute Pixie style/ low cut baldy & I see ur vision for wen ur tattooed up girl!! ✨️❤️
Vic Williams: I've had so many fails with my hair I've lost count! So I'm feeling you, and my youngest two boys are children with zero fear, so the end of the video, I felt that too lol
Infinite1: I'm so sorry you experienced this. I can see how strong of a woman you are. My hair had been extremely brittle as well no matter what I did to it and I recently found out I was sufferring from anemia or low iron. They said my red blood cell count was dangerously low to the point where I may need a blood transfusion or could die. I was completely unaware. I am supplementing with iron. I found out iron deficiency causes brittle hair and exhaustion. I also started taking liquid chlorophyll drops in water to boost my rbc count and in just a couple of days I feel great and my hair is no longer brittle. Chlorophyll gives you good energy. There are also many options for your hair. I keep mine natural, but I love to wear different styles of wigs too. They are so convenient. Do remember tho, that u are not your hair. The hair can't give you anything. Love yourself from inside out not outside in. Stay positive, love your attitude. Everything given to us that seems like an obstacle always has something on the other side that's even better. Don't despair, u will see the positive in this. Stay blessed
jackie russell: I know what you're going through. Happened to me several years ago. My beautician gave me a relaxer and a color at the same time. Within in two weeks I was almost bald. Start getting crochet braids in my hair and eventually it grew back. By the way you look great. Thought you were only in your twenties
Joanne St. Victor: the SAME exact thing happened to me after both of my children who were born via c-section. I had bags of hair that came out just like that. Hang in there, it eventually gets better.
finallyanaccount: You had me going through a bunch of different emotions watching you. I laughed and felt mortified and sorry for you all in one video. I also laugh when I want to cry… it’s an easier emotion.
A TAURUS QUEEN OF ZION!: Aww I can totally relate, stress and unbalanced hormones caused my hair to fallout. Especially my edges, I just got fed up 2 months ago and shaved it all off and started wearing a wig. I been taking biotin, natural hormonal tablets for women and using rosemary oil, now my edges are filling out and hair is 3 inches long and fuller,stronger.
MJ: Literally fell in love with you as a person, watching this video. Definitely subscribed. You are so resilient and vulnerable at the same time. I love how quickly you turned a terrible experience into an inspiration to grow as a person. You got some significant spiritual growth in that bathroom. The kind of personal growth that a lot of people can't even achieve in a lifetime.
✨Sami the Beautiful Goddess✨: My jaw dropped for you. I hope you were able to turn things around and get your confidence back!!
0kitten00: I came across your video quite by accident. I applaud your honesty. I’ve had my hair fall out a couple of times, so I understand the anxious laughter. You will be OK. You are a beautiful girl. Just find something that you like and roll with it!
La-Toya: This is my 1st time seeing you, Boo, & I am SO SORRY you had this experience. I went natural in 2009 & I struggle with this decision every day, whether I should return to perms or not.
hermence civil: I normally don’t comment but this! You are so brave for sharing sis! I see you, I feel you and I am praying for you! There’s a bigger lesson and you got it. Peace be still
Genevia Laine : I was in the same boat sis long story shot I ended up with a bald spot in the center of my hair and could not stop crying! I’m wishing you the best of luck on your recovery sis❤️
pizzabandit: Just here to say that you're an amazing mother & your children are lucky to have you
iamtorichanel: “that’s how life gone do me…” felt this one ♀️ I’m so sorry this happened to you love!!!!!!
Alicia Jones: I felt every moment of this video. I laughed and cried with you. Absolutely no judgment here. ❤️
Misty Norman: Things happen and we make mistakes but guess what...you're still beautiful, especially with the rap on your hair you're face and skin is glowing. Your hair will grow back so don't feel too bad.
Shivon Shiloh: I love it . When you said you'd see your beauty ballheaded I fell out laughing. Your gorgeous girl. It's inside n out you exude it!
L.D. Shaw: I looove your energy! I was so moved and inspired by your video! Insightful, intriguing, & heartfelt! Thank you for sharing a piece of your hair journey with us! May you be blessed!
deniel J: The way you handled this situation but you are correct, as a cosmetologist I could tell from the beginning that your hair was extremely damaged . Keep that energy the same though, you’re an amazing mom and I’ll follow to see the journey
cookie22100: You're still pretty even after the fact. It's just hair at the end of the day, your beauty shines beyond that.
naturalbeauty615: Girl I felt the same way you did 2 days ago!Everything you said is how I felt!! I literally use the relaxer after being natural for so long, I only left it in my hair did 15 minutes!!! And my hair did the exact same thing!!!! I cried!!!!!!
Niyah Aile: I needed to see this before the weekend! I been natural for 11 years since I was 13 I’m 24 and sick of it but ima just deal with it
roar danyielle: Girl, I went through the same thing, so I stopped doing my hair and just cried a lot... That was a year ago and my hair still comes out by the hand full even after a year of protein treatments, which really did help with the strength but there are a few other problems that I can see, and I have to address them one by one. So, I started with a haircut as close as I could to my head and started over. That is what brought me to my natural hair JOURNEY... I just refused to put any time into my hair and thought going natural would be easierit is when I put on a wig, but my hair is doing way better now. Just wanted you to know I feel you. As a mommy we hold on to some of the little things that makes us feel happy on the inside and beautiful on the outside these little things are important to us, when there gone, we can get even more depressed. I was going through a lot when I permed my hair and it all fell out in the sink 5 minutes later.
T T: This was pretty horrific to watch. I'm so sorry this happened to you. But having a quick look at the short hairstyle you're later rocking, you look absolutely stunning. This disappointment turned into a beautiful blessing.
Liah Knows Best: You were already ok with the process before you even put that relaxer In your hair. What I keep hearing you say is, "You just want to feel better". I'm praying for you and your healing. Your hair will grow out so much better
ethereal: Aw I'm sorry about your hair :( back in middle school, my mom permed and relaxed my hair, and after that it was an awful mess of dry scalp, uneven split ends, and breakage. I'm doing a lot better now, but I really just try to keep my hair in protective and low manipulative styles. It'll get better tho, keep your head up love!
E W: Oh my heart breaks for you! Relaxer did the exact same to my hair (which was down to my waist) and I didn't even have a new baby. Postpartum hair loss is completely normal though, the drop in estrogen and increased stress hormones were probably at work here! Taking biotin might help to strengthen your hair and might I add, with a stunning face like yours, even a shirt on your head is a masterpiece ✨️
STL Mussington: Happy for you, hun. Sometimes it's the old weight that keeps us down. Your hair needed that freedom
Angela Wilson: Just now seeing your video and I applaud you for how you handled your hair situation. I understand the pain you must have felt, but you chose to be optimistic and see the good in a bad situation. You are a beautiful and intelligent women and mother. I love how you said we have to watch our words. I definitely live by that saying. With our words we can speak life or death into existence. I choose to speak life. Thanks for sharing. Take care and stay positive! ❤
Kori-Jeanné: Honestly your short cut and tat combo… is about to be a WHOLE VIBE!! You’re a baddie periodt. And you’re a bomb mom.