Literally Every Husband Can Relate! #Shorts #Relationship #Longhair #Shorthair

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sharuk98: He has a story for every question

BenignAndaHalf: It’s completely valid to be vocal in what you want from your partner, be mindful of their feelings but always stay truthful.

Tuomas: "Im gonna hit the gym, youre gonna grow your hair back"

JustATotalNerd: Damn it's almost as if people want to be physically attracted to their partner.

Floating Peaks: Who thought asking a bald man a question about hair was a good idea

Stacy McGee: Long hair is hard to take care of . Mine is down to my butt and most of the time I bun it because it gets in everything but my husband likes it so I deal. He on the other hand doesn't like his beard but I love it so he deals with it lol that's love for you Wow 100 likes never had so many before.

Derek A: While ultimately an individual’s choice, I try to cater to my girlfriend’s preferences. I met her while rocking a trimmed beard and mustache. From a few side comments she made I discovered she preferred clean shaven. So I’ve been shaving ever since. On the flip side, she knows I like long hair, so she’s grown out her already shoulder length hair and it’s now nearing her lower back. We do other things to cater to each other’s aesthetic preferences, and it keeps things hot and steamy. I think people SHOULD cater to their significant other like that. If not all the time, then most of it. Required? No, of course not. But shows you value their opinion and they’re meaningful in your life.

L.L Lullaby: Okay I've been through this so many painful times with my bf and I was almost convinced he was batshit crazy because literally no other man I know gave a rats ass about hair...then it made sense to me when he found out I don't find baldness and long beards attractive at all. I then realized it wasn't "just hair."

The Force: Wise words right there. Regardless of looks we still have eachother. In ny relationship we talk about what we'd like from eachother. I've described how I'd like my wife to look when it comes to body and she respects that. Same goes for me, she's told me she really likes back muscle and shoulders and I make sure to target those muscles more when at the gym.

fausti00: I think what she needs to understand is that he's not telling you, you can't cut your hair short, what he's telling her is, I really think long hair looks great on you.

Electro Duck: Its a lot easier to not cut your hair too short than it is to get ripped..

Jrock Davis: As a married man myself I understand we all have preferences... Most of the time the reality is we can't have them all the time because we are different people therefore with naturally have different attractions and preferences from time to time. There are some things you will learn to bear with a smile.. If it happens too often then yes you need to say something respectfully but never over the top. Just something to think about.. just sharing.

Raldor S: Yeah, great comparison. The constant and ongoing discipline of keeping up good diet and exercise vs. the exhausting work of....not getting a short haircut

satya deep: Moral: Even hair plays an important role in married life

Garett Bond: Idk who needs to hear this but when you go through your next crisis, do not cut off all your hair. Don’t do aggressive bangs, don’t dye it. Just leave it the way it is… the longer the better

Nunzio Combattelli: Honestly it’s about shock value. When I was dating my now wife in college I had really long hair. Went the full school year without cutting it out of laziness. Summer hits and I got it buzzed really short. Didn’t mention it to her. She was pissed for a little while. Perfectly normal reaction tbh. I shoulda said “hey I’m gonna get a buzz, it’s hot out”.

Indie Leigh: My boyfriend met me when I had long hair, since, I have cut it from it being at the middle of my back to a pixie cut (self done) and he loves it no matter what and even said he preferred it shorter BUT my hair doesn't matter in the opinion of looks and personality

kelsteg 11: For my husband, I will do my own thing with my hair, but I ask him bc I want him to still be ATTRACTED to me, I feel that's important. Same goes for him with his hair and facial hair.

Lance Dowdell: He gives you the value you laid out so your counter value is your beauty. Do what he says because that’s your role in the relationship just like it’s his to give you the things you said he does.

Jim M: Every married guy that sits in my barber chair has "orders" from the wife on what his hair needs to look like and whether or not he's allowed to keep the beard lol

DigestiveWarrior: If that’s the greatest problem you have in yr marriage to the point that you feel called to be this vocal about it, I’d say that’s a pretty damn good marriage. If my partner loved my hair long, I’d happily keep it long to keep the magnetism as strong as possible. Whatever it takes ✨✨

Ken Foland: I love my wife of 33 years. I admire her more than any other being on this Earth. I couldn't care less if she even has hair! I know what a woman is, and she is the very definition of a woman; strong, compassionate, and loving.

ACP: Love that woman’s face. And that smile, wow! Darling, leave that unappreciative loser. I’m 59, from Texas, and Steve is mostly wrong on this one. Sometimes he just says things to get an applause. I know very few men who place as much importance on hair as this woman’s husband. He needs to wake up and smell the damn coffee.

iAmKelex: If the relationship is new or if y'all are just dating, then yes, wanting to be physically attracted to your partner is, "important". However, if you been together for years and are MARRIED, what they do with their hair or beard shouldn't be any of your business. You should already love them for who they are so if they change something up with something so small and trivial and it bothers you, you never loved them for them in the first place. You'd think this would be common sense but a lot y'all wouldn't know common sense if it hit you in the face. I love long hair on women and I think my girlfriend of 4 years looks stunning with her long dirty blonde hair. She recently cut it short (nothing crazy but definitely noticable) and i couldn't give a rats ass. I tell her she's hot as fuck even if i think she looks a million times better with longer hair. Her hair changed but her head game is still on point. Idgaf. Listen to me, aka the guy with common sense. Or don't, whatever floats your boat. Keep in mind that y'all ain't gonna be hot shit when you're in your 70s 80s, a shriveled up prune, shitting yourselves in your adult diapers. So let's not stress the small stuff

Mark Berman: This is hilarious and what a great lesson inside a story.

DLC Daniel: I'd say there's a slight difference in comparing a haircut that can grow back in a few weeks to body mass that would take months, if not years, to change and *may* even be caused by medical issues. I don't think there's many full grown women out there self conscious about their hair being long rather than short. But I can assure you there are plenty of men and women who are extreemly self conscious about their weight or lack of muscle. I'd never come at my girl for her physical body like that if she came at me for my hair that can be easily changed. I'd circle back around and say something like "well, I like it when you don't have on as much makeup" or "I like it when you wear ____ instead of _____" not "well, I like this body type that you don't have and can't achieve in a short amount of time with minimal effort"

Peter Marreck: I like her hair long too I too have this “problem” where short hair is a huge turnoff somehow. I wish I could explain it.

Luciana Romulus: I mean we're allowed to be attracted to what we want, and its not wrong to please your partner, but I tell my man to do whatever he likes. I'm so attracted to him that I don't care what he does. My hair was short for years and I met my bf and he wanted it long so I grew it out, not much of an ask and not a hard thing to do. He's more open to me cutting it short again though.

cartoons: Sometimes, you get bored of having long hair or short hair, regardless of gender or sex. Ive met many men who love my short hair, and actually a lot of womn have been cutting their hair short, so I think men are adults and can get used to it. But if they (man, woman, etc.) don't love you and only your body, they'll make a haircut the rock your relationship and their love for you stands on.

Joy Lastname: I've had all kinds of hairstyles and colours you can think of. The one my husband has picked out as his all time favorite was when I had a bleach blonde buzz cut. Unless i ask his opinion, he doesn't weigh in and isn't attached to my hair.

Jesse Baker: Whenever my wife goes to get a haircut,sometimes she will joke about getting her hair cut short,I always come back with “you know wig world stays open till 8:00 right “ I’m just joking,they actually close at 9:00

RP: After our first baby, I had no time to do my hair and maintain it so I went and got a long bob (previously had hair below my collar bone). My husband came home from work, hours went by, he never noticed until I asked him how my hair looked. He was like whaaaaattttt….!!!!!???? Lady, you are lucky that your husband notices your hair. .

Emmitagarcia: After years of having long hair, I chopped it off and stopped dying it. One day my husband said "when we met you had long black hair" And I answered "when we met, you had hair!" (He's half bald now) That was the last time he ever said anything. Hahahaha

darkmagnum10: I like my wife’s hair curly. Every time it’s curly, women are mean to her for no reason. I keep telling her that jealousy tells her all she needs to know

Mari Mendoza: I’ve been telling my husband I want a short hair cut. He’s like, No! I love your long hair

Cat Daddy Meow: There’s no right or wrong in a relationship. Compromise, love and match are the three elements of it!

Dante Sparda: That lady's laugh is just so wholesome. She got the point haha

Billy Yank: I keep my hair short. Very little or shaved clean. I grow a beard sometimes, other times I shave my face regularly. I'm not Changing that for anyone. When you start doing things for others to please them it never ends. Just do you!

Bo L: What I heard from this is, people settle for less than their ideal, because of lack of better options and they don't want to be alone.

Peter Tersteeg: 2 years in and out of lockdown, my wife didn't cut her hair as much. It's developed into a lovely long thick maine and I love it! Her choice to do with it what she wants, but I've made my perference very clear.

webguy943: I swear SH just makes stories up for every question.

ivan: It’s not just hair there’s power in it

Megan Modricker: I mean personally yes I wanna be physically attracted to my s/o but hair does grow back. My boyfriend has hair like Johnny cash, and then got a buzz cut.. I had hair down to my back and got it cut to my shoulders.. shocker, we’re still together and both our hair grew back. Still love each other , because he was still kind to me and loving and compassionate. Yes it was hard to get used to, but I’d rather the man that I fell in love with to cut his hair, then a really attractive man who I don’t love who doesn’t treat me right. Sometimes love and kindness and history. is more attractive then looks

Chris Cook: That's when the husband says, " I didn't have muscles when we got together, but you had long hair. Let's keep the consistency."

Michael Varble: Every day I left for work I would look at my wife's hair so when I got home and it was different I would say oh sweetheart you had your hair done today it looks really nice. It's the little things that matter and I had a thing about going to bed angry after an argument so I would ALWAYS kiss her usually on the shoulder or back of her head and say I love you, you would be surprised how much that little kiss and three words made. No matter who was right and who was wrong that little gesture made all the difference the next day

João Luca: Biggest lesson: “If get into a fight, make sure you don’t have “loose ends””

Eric Marin: I'm definitely for long hair. Very few women can pull off the short hair thing ..

Aein ♡: “Well I like muscles.”

FreeWorldSpirit313: It just takes us a long time to get use to the length difference. Idk why it matters but it's just one of those things where at first you're like nope nope nope i hate it. Then 2 weeks later you forget you didn't like it and start liking it. Humans aren't good with change.

abc: I had the same problem and my husband always used to say don't change it, length style or colour because he loves it that way. One day I got it cut and coloured and didn't say anything and he responded the exact same way, telling me to never change it! I didn't intend to hide it from him, but he didn't notice. Many women might be offended by this, but I found my hairstyle freedom!

digital/vibes: This guy deserves a Nobel for literature. He's been cooking up stories on the fly for so many years now.

Kayla Bell: "wonderful, loving, supportive man..." Who is only controlling over this one facet of my life? Doubtful

Sam Van Gelder: I'm one of those guys that can't grow a full beard, it's kind of patchy. I can't be bothered either way, I don't feel better or worse with or without. But I ended up having a patchy beard most of the time, because my ex prefered the look. She didn't demand it or make a fuss when I changed it up sometimes, she was just open that found me even more attractive with. And knowing what your partner wants and catering to it is important.

MadBlob: You want to find your partner attractive, but your partner should also want to be attractive to you. That's an important negotiation that people often avoid in relationships.

Corvidae: I had an ex girlfriend tell me a particular way she wanted her hair done. I told her it's her hair and she can do whatever she wants with it, but I will be less attracted to her if she gets it done in that way. She ended up deciding against it; sometimes you just need to be honest.

The Modest Goddess: Thank You, Steve! I'dda said something smart back too! I'm a Proud Plain Jane and "Barber Shop Babe" myself. Trips me out when a Man complain about a $25 trim/cut, yet STILL complains about $100+ hair salon visit! Real Talk: I figure so long as the Barber Shop keeps me LOOKING GOOD, Hush Yo Mouf! ✅️

Kitsuyuutsu R: My hair used to be down to my waist for YEARS, now it’s between my shoulder blades. The shortest I’ve ever gone was a long bob at my shoulders. The only thing my husband has ever said to me when I got sick of my long hair and wanted to chop it over the years was that he didn’t want to hear me cry because it was what I wanted. I used to cry with every haircut because of the shock, I think. I was cutting off at least a foot of hair or more each time I’d go drastic and the initial shock would make me cry. I think it’s because for the first 8 years of my life I was never allowed to have long hair. My father liked mine and my sister’s hair very short and boyish. She didn’t mind but I swore when he left that I’d grow mine long and never cut it. So when I did, I’d cry. I’ve finally gotten over that because I’m much older now and tired of caring for such long hair. Now my husband says nothing except to complain about the cost of what I do to it

Jeremy: My wife does her hair the way I want. I do my hair the way she wants. 50/50, fairness leads to happy relationship.

Lynne: My husband wants me to where my hair the way it makes me feel best. Rocking short hair for decades and he rocks a Sam elliott mustache. Support your partner in what makes them feel good.

Rose: She should be happy he's man enough to tell her! Some men/boys would stay quiet, spare her feelings, then just cheat with a long haired woman. If only all men & women spoke up about what they liked in a partner! There'd be a lot less cheating & a higher level of satisfaction(in everyday life & in the bedroom)! Listen, you're attracted to what you're attracted to. At least he's being honest!

Terry Easton: It's called sacrifice it's a give and take in a relationship , always speak of what you want no one is mind reader... Make a deal I'll do this but you gotta do this for me... It's that simple. ..

Allyson K: Personally my fav is 5x07 but nobody ever talks about it. Jeff and Duncan, Britta, Abed and Professor Hickey… I just love it! My second has got to be Modern Espionage, for some reason I love it so much but it gets hated on all the time. People compare it too much to the other paintball episodes, but it’s not really supposed to be just like those. Also Vicky and Garrett’s show is the hardest I’ve ever laughed.

Jon H: Its called compromise, my ex hated my beard when we first started dating, so I shaved it for her

psychopetica hermetico: I personally like being with someone that isn't locked on a preference and has some diversity in their general taste, so that I don't feel too limited when it comes to how I look. I am also the same and my taste is more general and not too fixated on specifics that change easily.

EmP2022: The long hair thing creeps me out! If a husband demanded his wife always wear lingerie we would agree it’s too much, but long hair is just a socially acceptable demand.

Angel Bulldog4: In the late 70s, I had a boyfriend who had long hair. My hair was not quite as long as his. He was coming in the door as I was going out to get my hair cut and he asked where I was headed. I told him. He said, "Dont". I said, "I won't if you will." Not another word about it. I didn't want him to get his hair cut. But my hair is MY hair and he didn't have to deal with it everyday.

John Hazlett: What's a more important issue? Freedom of course. But what is even more important than that? Love. He loves her enough to give her the freedom to cut her hair if she wishes. But she doesn't, not because he wants her hair long, but she loves him so much, she keeps her hair long to make him happy because she wants him to be happy.

Nadia Coffey: When my husband and I got married, we both had nothing, but also both had very little debt. We built everything we have together. Neither of our families are wealthy. As far as assets if we ever got divorced it would make sense to split assets. I hope I never have to worry about it obviously. I do think women have higher standards than men, without a doubt. Also, in a marriage 9 out of 10 times it’s a higher risk for a man to get married because the courts at least in the US are skewed in favor of women.

Clara Gresham Chitheka: My husband loves hair alot and I respect that, he plays with my hair million tyms and I make sure I mentain it for his own happiness❤️

Umm Abdullah: This is so true. Last time i said " I want to chop my hair short" he said okay, It's your head, your hair!” so i cut them short! Then he is like- oh my goodness, you had such long hair, now what have you done!”

Infinite Media: "What we gonea do?". Choose. Everybody has a choice. Stay the same or change. Or many other possible choices...

Yuuup: I understand wanting to be physically attracted to your partner. I personally don't really understand not being able to see hairstyle as a fashion choice and not really caring how they dress or do their hair. That being said, a septum piercing turns me off instantly. So i'm basically a hypocrite.

CaUgHt_ThE_dRaGoN: Thank you Steve for holding the line!!!!

Captain Obvious: I think it depends on how she actually looks with short hair? My wife went through a pixie cut phase, and when she really pressed me about it I told her I didn't think it suited her well, but like, it didn't affect our marriage. She eventually grew it out to like chin length and found a style we both really think looks good.

Franklin Chin Quee: This girl was my first love. I loved seeing her in a particular attire. When she wasn't in it; it was like a clouded day. However I said nothing as it wasn't permanent. After many years; it strange that this minor matter irked me. But I now know it was the first impression that hit me, and hard.

Lieselot Mauroo: My husband likes my hair no matter what I do with it. I ask his opinion before I go, out of interest, but usually I end up doing what the hairdresser recommends and both my husband and I are happy with it. It's just hair,nit grows back. No big deal.

Krista: As a woman I have to say that long hair always looks a million times better on a woman unless you are a lesbian or non-binary.

Jamie Camille: I can absolutely identify with this lady. I’m a very petite woman. 4’10”. My hair is below my waist. I would love to cut my hair up to my shoulders. I don’t even think he wants me to trim it. If I ask him he says no. So when I get it trimmed and he doesn’t even notice.

V J: So basically, you have to compromise with your partner.

Excalibur of Gacha games: Personally, I also like long hair on women. Hair going down to the butt long hair. I know most women don't like long hair cause of how difficult it is to take care of but ladies, you do look a lot better with the long hair and I know looks are important to a lot of you. So if you are looking to improve your looks, just remember hair isn't just hair.

Mia Moore: I’ve dyed my hair and kept it blonde for twenty five years just for my husband. If there’s something that you know they really like why wouldn’t you do it? You want them to be extremely attracted to you so why would you change something that does that makes no sense.

Gnomezonbacon: My dad had a mustache and my mom's hair was turning grey. They made a deal that my dad would shave his mustache and my mom would keep her hair dyed. They're both old and dying and they've stayed faithful to that deal literally my entire life. I've never seen my mom with gray hair. I've never seen my dad with a mustache outside of old photographs around the house.

Maddy Wadsworth: Idk I kind of disagree on this one. For example: If my husband came home with no beard I would be VERY unhappy

Jim Brown: and she'll do a series of things to make herself unattractive to her husband, then she'll complain that there's no romance and she'll leave him and take his kids, house, and money.

Sybil Hale: This reminds me of one of my sisters. She and her husband have been married for 49 years and for a good amount of those years, he absolutely didn’t want her to get her hair cut as she wanted to many times. They met and married in their early 20’s and her hair was black and touched the top of her booty. Because my sisters husband loved her long black hair she kept it. Finally, she got it cut, to this day it’s still a little below her shoulders. In the long run it’s all good!

Rudi Nightwood: This is seriously concerning for me that someone can be turned off by short hair as long hair is just a nightmare to maintain and wash. After 40 min in the shower only washing my thigh length hair, I got a pixie cut because I couldn’t take it anymore. But the fact that just because someone has short hair people get turned off is distressing to me

claudia fahey: It's a thing... I can see their pov...even my friends who are male were shocked when I chopped my hair off...I said relax guys it's hair it grows back.....let's face it we all have things we find attractive let's cut the guy's some slack

RM: I think it's valid for couples to have certain standards for each other. If it goes both way, I don't see the problem.

Flow Rebaz: I don’t care what my wife does with her hair, I love her all the same.

Username Not Available: Her: How can I get him to see it's still me? Steve: No......

Strong Bad: A good couple will find compromises. For example, I’d like to grow a beard, but because my facial hair scratches my wife, I stay clean shaven. She will change her hair on occasion, but I’m perfectly fine with it, I’m in love with her. The hair is ancillary

Qwerty: I got really lucky. After covid my hair started falling out and I did a big chop, it was half way down my back and ended up almost chin length. My bf was very supportive and said how beautiful I was very often. He knew it hurt to cut it but it’s gotten so much better now

JAdly: I told my wife long ago that if she got a short haircut, I will leave her. She agreed to this. If she comes home with short hair one day, I guess she's trying to tell me something.

David Benner: No way my wife would cut her hair! What's an Alpha-male to do with his wife, a homeschooling mom of his nine (9) children? Over 44 years later, it is still long. And I'm still an Alpha-male. Some things don't change until death do us part.

Issenor: To a man, a woman with long hair is young and feminine. So the message you sent to him when you cut it short is that I am no longer young I am no longer feminine and I have no interest in making you happy, I only have an interest in making myself happy. I’m not saying it makes sense I’m just saying that it is what it is do with that information what you will

Raiyu3169: What's crazy is he asked for ONE THING and she's fighting him on it. Women want men to compromise, but they don't want to do the same in return

Pif’s Gifts: I keep my hair at least shoulder length (I get an undercut during the warm weather) and my husband keeps his beard trimmed nicely and close and definitely no beard neck!!! It’s just what we both like and since we are who we are and love each other we let it ride like that. It’s just our thing and it works for us. 22+ years married and 25+ years together. Become a united unit and you will be great. Always take in to consideration what your other half would do/want/expect/fear/love. And a marriage is a 100%/100% type of relationship. You both have to give all.

David Graham: Men use their eyes... Regardless on anyone's feelings, your rolling the dice. If you wanna keep your man happy, then keep him happy. If she doesn't care how he feels about it then he should return the favor, in full. I assure you he doesn't care about much, but if he cares about your hair, there is a reason he mentioned it. Go ahead and HOPE it's not as big of a deal as your hoping....

Gallakai Lancer: Long hair is feminine, and gets our southern blood pumping on a genetic level...short hair is a great strategy for being less attractive if you want less attention. Though as with all things human this isn't going to be true 100% of the time, just probably more often than not.