Color Damage To Pixie Hair Cut || Transformation W/ Photos
Not my typical video, but so many of you asked me about why I cut my hair...here is the whole sad story!
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Well, this video is a little awkward. I didn't feel like setting up my camera. To be honest, she headed to it by the way hi everybody. I am filming this video because I'm about to go get my hair cut and I wanted to talk just for a moment about it. So, over the last six months, 7 months, maybe I've had a series of hair mishaps mostly having to do with color. I'M gon na insert some pictures here of the disaster I've been through in the last few months. So I'm going to pause right now and let you guys take a look. You normally watch my channel or looking at my hair right now I'll try to figure out what color it is and why it looks shorter and more strange, and it is much more strange today. I'Ve decided I'm going to cut my hair short. Okay. I always said I was not going to cut my hair short again after the age of um. Many of you know how old I am, but whatever it doesn't matter, I'm 42. I always said that it wasn't going to cut my hair short after the age of 40, but what has happened is number one. My hair has become destroyed and also this is not fashionable people I mean this is not good. It'S a little bit wet right now, but I don't it's not it's not what I want to do. I'M gon na cut my hair off. I have been researching a million-in-one, beautiful women on YouTube and I'm so struck by their amazing courage and grace. These are women who cut their hair into Pixies they're women who shave their hair completely off either for charity or for medical reasons or just because they wanted to. I wasn't really expecting to be impacted as much as I was by the beautiful videos and beautiful thoughts of these women. That really made me question my attachment to my hair and really made me question why I was living my life in fear of looking a certain way. After a certain age, I kept looking for videos of women making drastic changes to their hair after a certain age and couldn't find any so I decided I would be that person, so I'm making this video now, since you can see my hair is kind of destroyed At this point, it's wavy on top and it's like banana Carl's underneath - and I did have my hair under a hat this morning - so you're not getting the full idea, I'm just gon na. Do it okay and I'm not gon na think about what beauty is after the age of 40, and I'm not going to think about whether or not I am beautiful war. If I am at all socially acceptable in a new way, I don't care and here's why, on my channel, I constantly talk about going against going against negative ideas and trying to accept yourself for what you are and who you are, and so what I realized is That I'm hanging on to certain aspects about my appearance, because I'm not sure if I'm capable deeply to not fear, looking or being something else. I happen to think that I'm beautiful on the inside and it shouldn't matter what I've clicked on the outside and if I cut all my damn hair off, it's gon na go back anyway and it's gon na go back healthier and besides maybe I love it short. I'M gon na keep it that way. So listen, I'm gon na do something I'm terrified of again on this channel today and my husband is actually going to film it. Oops, did I say husband: why did my husband is going to film it today and I think it's gon na be very interesting and yes, I am 42. I am going to be 43. I don't have a full face of makeup on right now. Okay, I love you, but I'm not contouring and I'm also like we're all right but okay, Kakinada and because they are myself how to fulfill our self-identity. Possibly 19 Ebola. Okay, you
Comments
theFitty: *Omg, dramatic hair story time! I'm actually glad you went through all that because your hairstyle now is BOMB.*
The Italian Wine Girl: You are gorgeous in any haircut! I think you have been so brave to take this decision!
SunMoonStars 1983: Girl I LOVE YOU! And everything you stand for. I fried my hair right before Covid hit. I cut all my hair off and died it brown. I live in So Cal and people including my clients, HATE my brown hair. I’ve learned to embrace the beauty I have within, and know that I’m more than just blonde hair ♀️
Josefina Blanquet: Jill this video is so powerful!!! I'm so glad I had "known" you on our community. Thank you for sharing it with me!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Sarah Parker: I did the exact same thing!! My hair went orange after a disaster with bleach so I cut it all off with the view to grow it back....3 years later and is still short. You look lovely! Xx
Susan Zumback: My 12 year old just said”wow she looks great”!after your cut ❤️
Antonia D: You are just beautiful ! And even if this isnt important at all, tjis haircut suits you very very well! Youre shining
Rachel W: It is so adorable on you and suits you well! I love it, but more importantly YOU seem to be loving it.
Anne Turner: Wooooo! Congratulations on your marriage!! (and your hair - super cute xx )
Amanda Czerwieniec: Congrats on the wedding! And your hair is adorbs!
Susan Zumback: I’m late to the party,I’m a stylist by trade (and by passion..))and I have to say,I absolutely love the thumbnails with you in a deep brown fauhawk,I mean talk about on point!you look adorable in shorthair and frankly it suits your spunk
Mc Hobbit: I just gotta say, your hair grew back to be so so gorgeous. The difference between your most recent video and this one before the cut is crazy. It's like a whole different head of hair. I don't think that the whole cutting the new growth every month, pampering your hair methods really work. I did try for years. I'd get trims, try all kinds of hair masks and styling products but really, nothing actually worked. In middle and high school, especially middle school, I was already bullied and called "masculine" and told that I would never get a boyfriend for not wearing make-up, doing my nails or wearing my hair down (plus I had strange hobbies and preferences compared to them) so I thought short hair would make me beyond hideous. The mental scars did kind of subconsciously follow me into my 20s. Anyway, last summer, at the age of 28, I was like screw that, you're not in high school anymore and what do you want a man who only likes you for having long hair for anyway? My hair already looked like crap so what was there to lose? I got it cut into that really adorable Amélie style barely below my ears which really looked great with my wavy hair. I got more compliments than ever before which duh, it was a cute haircut rather than damaged hair thrown into a bun or ponytail. It kinda feels like I cut myself off from the bullying and judgement and let myself be me without somehow, deep inside, feeling like the way I am isn't "right". I really feel like I became less shy and more confident. I should have just chopped it off years ago, as I never felt good with my damaged long hair anyway and the idiots were already teasing me. Looking back at pictures from high school up until I cut it now? Ew. That was some nasty hair and nothing I tried to "disguise" it made it look much better. I'd hang upside down, pop vitamins and whatnot to make my hair grow faster from age 12/13 to 28. This is the first time I didn't do anything to make my hair grow and I turn around and it's shoulder length because you didn't want to get a haircut in winter and we're in confinement. If my 15 year old self could see me excitedly waiting for salons to drop the mask requirement so I can get all of the new growth chopped right off again she'd faint. I think I'll feel much better once it's cut again (the whole corona stuff is getting to me). Honestly I'd recommend it to any woman, whether she's 18 or 85. Now that I could have that long, healthy hair I always wanted in a year or two, I don't even want it anymore. Takes forever to wash, dry and style and you have to work much harder to keep it healthy when it's long.
TheChristamistine: Congrats on getting married. I like the inner beauty thing you said, that is the best kind of beauty worth on eating on because it will last forever.
Maggie O'Connor: You really suit a pixie cut, just saying
Josefina Blanquet: PS: YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL!!! ❤️
La Divina Sophia: Che forza, stai proprio bene, molto stiloso, sembri una francesina molto chic, sbarazzina ma anche molto intrigante, lavoro superbo, risultato davvero di classe e assolutamente non banale✨top
Susan Zumback: Watched again and yep Your still Gorgeous
Susan Zumback: Just like the movie Sabrina❤️❤️
Lpg 8: Oh honey I think you are too worried about your age and where and how you should look for this little number (40's). But I get society's pressures. But, paying $400 at a salon and not getting what you want is sooooo unacceptable. They either give you your money back or perform a miracle to get you what you want, either or because it's not even up for a debate. That being said, LOVE the pixie with dark hair, it is YOUR look 100%.