Do I Have To Have A Relaxer To Wear A Pixie/ Finger Wave Hair Style

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You know I really want to get my hair cut short, but that's ro and I have a 4c curl and you know it lays it still be wavy, but we put it kind of waiver or do I have to have a relaxed because I wan na finger Waves down - and I know like the other hairstylist said you know she could do it or whatever the case is was but she's not here, but she on Instagram. She says she can do it with the pixie or whatever saw the question is the question is: do you have to have a relaxer to wear a pixie or big white hair style best? Today'S topic: do you have to have a relaxer to wear a pixie hairstyle or finger wave hairstyle, and I mean soft waves. Only do you have to have a relaxer I'll give a couple? My my opinion is a professional. How I feel about it and then we just go for it so um. In my opinion. Yes, you need a relaxer. It'S just like my hair. My hair be out funny side I'll put on relaxed funny. When I swear, if swells they just get real ugly, you guys you need to relax. So what happens? Is you guys come in? You know you're looking at Instagram you on Pinterest young internet, you see these cute soft blonde hair styles and in your natural, and even if you can like let your hair down it's just one of those things like you guys. You do need a relaxing. So the one of the reasons why I said you need to relax so the straighter the hair is the better the hair style ace. So when you want that cuteness, because what you're looking at is the cuteness in the sleep this to the face the culet waves going around the face and I'll let like in order to achieve that, you need a relaxer, that's just straight up! You need to relax if you don't have a relaxer and then you get it like yeah. We can straighten your hair out and some people go through and straighten the hair out and some people go through and straighten the hair out. But you know what it still don't look the same. It really doesn't now. If you have a texture hair that lays down when you put the foam on it, then you can kind of get away with not having a relaxer, but the extra ality is still like. The hair isn't gon na last as good. The hair yes it'll lay down, but sometimes it's just not as sleep. Then there are a few exceptions. There are a few exceptions with a few exceptions, though, like it's just one of those things you guys. Oh thank you. Yes, so it's just a few sections, Thank You Kirsten Kirsten you guys, like you, have to have a relaxer like, especially if you have like okay, you have straight hair. You have wipe your hair and you have curly hair if your hair is really really really curly. You need a relaxer, it's just it's not ins, ifs or buts about it, and the thing is like some stylists, because I can do it, but it takes too much time and if you know when it's coming time and you come on the extra charge - and you Heard me out cute for one day I walk outside and it's and we got sexes. The humidity is a hot mess brain the women too, sometimes the spring time your head on fire. So, in my opinion, as a professional, yes, you need a relaxer to wear a pixie or, if anyway, hairstyle - and my first reason for that is that the hairstyle will it's a better style and has a better look now. My second reason for saying yes, is that the style will last longer and it'll be more sleeker, so you like what bridge is what you mean? So if your hair is natural and you get your hair style and you get your pixie go finger wave or whatever the case is, and you got siding and you sweat a little and your hair kind of like follows: you could go home, you could comb their Hair, you could put some lip product on it and tie a scarf on or your satin scarf or your satin pillowcase. You know you tie your hair down your silk scarf and once you tie their hair down and put some product on it, the hairs. Don'T let back down now what happens is if you don't like, if you don't have a relaxing in here, get the Puffin in prison. There'S really nothing! You could do about it. Nothing they're, saying the hairstylist can't do anything. You really can't get you at home, you're. Trying to flatter under here you're burning yourself and then you know, you're frying your hair and then it's like. Oh my god. What did i do? Why I do this and I cut my hair off. You just came there's like there's no in-between it, especially if you hit like I just don't like like. I have probably like two people that really can get away without having a relaxer and even then we hit the relaxer like a couple times a year. You don't have to relax down, I'm very big I'll, never like sand over relax in the hair. Anybody tell you I'm very like Oh for six weeks, no six thing: no, no we're gon na relax they're! Here. When we see the new girl, then we will do some spots and I'm not even going spy relaxes every other week. So I'm very big on healthy hair. But the reality is you need. You need a relaxer, some relaxed, insulator, damn and if you don't have a relaxing later here there, then it's not gon na last long, the style, it's not gon na do sleeker and then you somewhere, looking like I just paid seventy five sixty five dollars in how Would I and that's the other thing if you're working out and things like that, it's it's not easy to maintain, hey Brenda, it's not! Usually the money train, you guys, if you, if you don't, have a relaxer you if you work out, if you walk anything you take showers and me myself, I have to be careful with what I'm doing with my hair. When I take a shower and take my baths and all that stuff, like my hair, like it'd, be all shiny and Q by time I get out to shower. If I have a relaxer and I'm wearing a relaxer right now and my hair still excellent. So could you imagine just being like natural and when I don't relax my hair, let me say you guys: don't relax my hair better, have like puffs it'd, be like I swear yeah, it's just one of those things like I get it like. It'S like it's. The thing like this is what I tell people are coming to my slow brother relaxer or be natural, and it's nothing wrong with either. If you have issues in your scalp and the relaxer like I, you know some people can relax. I'M to the point to where I almost can we're relaxing. If you have issues and you can relax, then a pixie style or penguin hairstyle, it's just not for you. If you have issues, if you don't have issues - and you just found this - I just want to be natural and I'm just being natural, but I really want something different. I want it's just one of those things like you guys. You got ta put some relax on here, creamy Craig, just supposed to bring the crack in and and don't be natural and try to relax your hair at home. The first go-round really should be relaxing here at Home Office. That'S a whole nother conversation. That'S neither here! Nor there, but don't it's just one of those things like you, need a relaxer like I have natural clients like my clientele, is like have my short clients. My plan is to have longer my clients, 80 % of my clients, 90 % of my clients for long hairs. They don't have relaxers or even their Bob's. They don't have relaxers. So it's not a thing about like you have to have a relaxer or I don't know how to do it. It'S just it's time-consuming, and I especially when I got back in 2016, I really got back into doing short, hair yeah mm-hmm. This thing for me. So for me, for me, you got ta, have relaxer and even if you try it like, go, try it if you try it and it works cool, but for the most part, that's just my opinion. So when you call me to look everyone be like, oh, you need a relaxer and dude again, you don't have to over relax your hair, like it's nothing wrong with it. Your October election here, I'm very, very funny like cuz as we get older and our body changes our hormones, change and different things go on like you can't relax your hair and in your hair, don't need to be bone bone straight either. The hair doesn't need to be bone straight. You just want the hair relaxed enough, so you can maneuver and manipulate the hair. If you came when you flip the hair, that's when all the problems come in. It'S a video I posted on Facebook, this lady. She did a whole roller sit on natural, hair, a whole Rosie and her hair. She needs trim, it was just it's funny. My facebook go go yeah and she did all this stuff and when all that stuff, she did, she wrote her and, and it was a hot terrible mess uh-huh if I know how doing videos like so be like. Since what you doing, I would do that because it was a hot, terrible mess. She needs a flat iron. She needs it soon, something she need on relax it, but it just was one of those things like you have to know what you can and can't do, and I know you guys you know especially on YouTube. You see people they're rolling in here and they're. Doing are some people here, it's manageable enough to do those things and if your stuff is not manageable enough to do that, then just know what you can and can't do. Yes, you need to relaxer. No, you don't need a relaxer, it's just one of those things, but you have to know, and you can't force if a stylist tell you. I do not do short hair without a relaxer, and you be like what my all sounds used to do it go to your own status and whatever the case is cuz. If she's telling you he that she's telling you I do not do short hair without a relaxer, you know you can't push it on them. You can't push establish. If you don't do it, if you do do it, don't make a person intimidate you to do something that she do not normally do, because what happens is this is what they say almost like you or look at how my hair look or is it like? Just don't even put yourself in this situation. I know some of us especially younger, sounds so some of us is just intimidated, I'm just a person like it took me a while I've been doing here since I was 18, so I was easily intimidating when I was younger. Like okay. I don't want discussing my quick coming to me y'all, let these customers kind of Punk you into doing stuff. You don't want to do, especially if you know it's not gon na, be the best quality of your work, and I just tell people like hey you're gon na be good like it ain't gon na look good and I'm saying well my money cuz. I need my time so they didn't gon na look good and you still want it. Then that's your problem at that point, but just to alleviate I like just like now, I'm not gon na. Do it and it's a way, it's a way to say it's a waste. You know well, you know miss Tina. I do understand that you do not want to relax her and I understand you have a cute pixie cut. I understand your stylist that you go to was going to or normally go to. She does that, but I guess when it unfortunately not guess what. But of course, when you know there's just something, I don't do and that's sometimes it's best not sometimes when people. Okay, simple issues message me: when people call like go online in a book, hair, stylist or even clients, when you're looking to book with a stylist and you've never met them. You should never talk to them. Make sure you call and do a console like Colin. Do a consult and do a consultation in either way and if the stylist don't call you, you call them so then it's not no time waste and ask you know it's not. It doesn't put any hairstyle Carlinville consultation, especially your first time going. So there won't be. No miss under there won't be no misunderstandings, you know so it's like hey. This is what's going on. This is what I do and before I went got my lashes done. I drop the people. I asked him what they also questions. I love my natural for see here, but I got see that's what I'm saying he he's just like. She got it. Okay, I'm not sure previous Isaac yeah, exactly I'm Lakeisha. What a comments go? How don't you see? Okay, look. Keisha Pritchard said she loved her 4c curls, but she loved her relaxing pixie. It'S just it's one of those things. Now what I'm wearing extensions when I grow my hair, I don't wear relax. It doesn't make sense for me to relax it. So you guys, you know the whole thing. The whole conversation is just stand your ground. What you doing don't do, but also clients, make sure you're researching, make sure you're asking the right questions when you're booking those appointments and don't be scared to just be like what is this? What is this? What is this and how does this work, even when I got to my lash, even when I got to my last appointment today before we started, they did leak um so and I was like um, I'm still indecisive. I need to talk to the technician and before the technician, starting thank you very either, but for the technician even started. I sat down with her answer questions. Then I went in my phone. It was like this is what I don't want, so it's always good to have a consultation prior to and there's nothing wrong with having a console or conversation prior to say, like what you do done and which what you do want and what you don't want. And it's always good to have some pictures she's, I'm trying not to go back to the cream in the room to cream Krakow, hey creamy crack goes wherever it likes us, but Elbe it's not wrong. It just depends on what you got going about your lifestyle, how you want your hair now, like I said when I wear my hair and I started wearing my extensions, I've got to grow my hair and wear my braids. The goal is to have some cornrows itself as a hand. Unless I'm I cannot, then I would not say don't relax you're here you weren't braids, you weren't extensions and things of that nature do not relax your hair. Your hair gon na be like fine and then and borrow we don't want about this. That'S what we don't want so just know when and where to break, win and win and how, where to where you're, relaxing and just have a good conversation with your salads like just, have a good conversation with your salads. If you want to go natural, it's always good with communication. Communication is the key. If you communicate everything, everybody be happy okay, so I pretty much I'm over my list filled with the answers and how I feel about this. Anybody have any questions or anything. I will be dropping a new video this Thursday, so if you haven't subscribe to my channel, make sure you subscribe, I'm dropping videos, Sunday and Thursdays. Yes, my name is my first admission about Mike's rock from what, if you're a super, coarse texture, hair that starts to break oh well, joy, um, you got a you in your salads have to figure that out cuz. I have clients like they'd, like the hair like, if you don't relax, it'll start to and break, but that's something you and your stylist have to figure out and they make sure that you're hydrating moisture out to your hair, really good in between your salon, business and Make sure the shampoo and you're using also is hydrating in here as well, and I moisturize make sure you have some all my favorite oil is Moroccan oil like make sure you have oil in the things that you're doing around make sure you're not drying your hair Out your satin scarf different things of that nature that helps as well but oh yeah, Thursday's to say no to seas. I'D be like every Tuesday and knock him and lift something change up. I'Ve been here any live and YouTube studios and I'll be dropping videos every Sunday, yes, Sunday and I'll be dropping videos every Thursday new videos, like I said you guys, have any questions. How do you think raised if you guys have any questions? Just email me at questions and Bridget H, comm, if you have any questions you black for me to discuss openly, if you have a questions that you want me. Thank you girl. If you have any questions that you would like for me just to discuss amongst you without or whatever the case is, but don't have no issues with messaging me emailing me asking me: questions clients, potential clients, not in clients. Ladies, if you're going to a new stylist like just make sure you consultation, you guys just make sure you're calling and make sure you communicate with the people that you're about to send a check and don't assume that you know don't assume that the stylist knows everything Or you know just like I say I always have some pictures, like I'm a very, very, very visual person, so when people come in, I like to have pictures the best way to work out. What'S the best way to work out whatever likes their um pins on hairstyle, just tied in yes, I tell my clients, some people. It depends on how you swing your hair. Some people sweating in here like something swimming here. They don't try to hair down. They pull it up in a ponytail. If you have a pixie, you know just tie your hair down or if you do sweat a lot, you do your workout once you finish sweating, you know, put you some pomade humming. When I say Palma, it's like a grease. Like a cream press or wax products, rub it in your hands, you know put it around the head: okay put it around the head and it also tied down. So I don't know if you're working out prior to want to work if you're working at the work. If you're working at after work - it's just the pants, so that's that's! You know I work out whatever I do. I slowly be. I don't sweat a lot. So I have to do this, but it's just depends on what you do and you like use make sure you drinking a lot a lot. A lot a lot of water drink, a lot of water to make sure your your urn and everything is your vitamin D and all those things and want to start working out aside. Okay, so I don't know if you want to work right after, if not or just tie your hair down, like you just kind of got to play with, what's going on with your hair, like tie down, see how that works? If that don't work, work out tied down after you work out, while you're getting ready for work, you jump in the shower with you, my sweating and just don't turn the shower up, it's hot. So it's just different things. You got to kind of play with yourself and once you play with those things, you'll kind of get an understanding. What really really works? Well for you! Yes, yeah! I really want to be silly, it's like being on here without any music, like I'm gon na make. I'M gon na go to producer and we're gon na make some music and we're gon na have some music playing because maybe on these slides without music, this is like you know. I need my music. I haven't eaten anything all day. I'Ve been out ripping and running running my errands, so do have any more questions, we're almost at 30 minutes to God with 30 minutes it becomes longer cool, if not cool, make sure I just drop the video yesterday how to mold make sure you check that video Out leave some comments. 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