The Audacity Of This Red-Hair Feminist W/@Sa Ra Garvey
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Will tell you, as a father, I know from raising my son that he needs both me and his mother in his life. So I so when someone who hasn't had children is telling me, Oh no kids don't need they're, both their parents. I find it laughable because, because I tell you something most parents will tell you that they know that their child needs both parents in their life. For you to say something like that makes no sense to me as a parent, it doesn't make any sense. I have kids in my family that will raise single parents and whatever or some kids in care and stuff like that, I feel like it's laughable that you just said. Oh my my life is this so you're wrong, he's saying my life: is this and stats back? It up my statistics about what the results are at the end of this, because the way you're going it's just like, I believe what I believe, regardless of any stats. So you could see whatever stat and you're still gon na think what you think yeah, because I think you can't generalize anything in the world. I don't think anything can be generalized like unless you're a therapist, giving specific advice like I think people are too individual to even you said you can't. Generally you can't say women are this, you can't say so-and-so is out, you can't say children prefer milk. You know you can't say anything, what do you mean you can't generate? I never I don't say anything. I don't say women of this or dogs of that, or whatever is this. I just say that thing: there is this and that's it and I don't feel I don't. I don't have a life. Do dogs bark some, don't know this is a thing that so now you would just argue just to be right in in a conversation because you know dogs bark, but for you to say: oh some, don't it's like you know that. That'S what, then, you can't argue anything, you can't argue yeah, so you get like. If you don't, if you can't generalize at all, then you can't argue anything yeah I'll. Take that back and I will just say you can't generalize men and women and families. I also think there's a difference between ideal and realism like the reality of people's situation. Exactly, I think a lot of women would love to be married, but they're real realistically, but they made four choices. Maybe they did get married and maybe it was a bad time. You know you never know the situation, but being a single mum is a lot of work, especially if you have like three kids yeah. So I'm saying like, don't so don't pick it so don't pick it that's a choice. Yeah! You don't end up as a single month by accident like and you choose who you sleep with with. I don't know I think. Well, maybe if that husband was better, she wouldn't have left. Why is it okay? Maybe if she was ready - maybe maybe if she was better, she wouldn't have left, I think if they both worked on it then yeah. I think we can both agree. People should work on their relationships before Calling it Quits, but there's you know, there's reality, there's a reality and idea. Listen. I think women should get should be more Discerning when deciding which one is okay, but women have only recently earned like over the last like 20 30 years right, which isn't a long time period in the grand scheme is being especially generation. It'S two generations: I'm a woman. What does that have to do with me today, woman had to rely on men for, like you, said, financial support to be able to work to be able to live essentially and, as we've come out of that. Yes, it's been what like 40 50 years right as we've, come probably a bit longer, no about 50 60 years to say that and and they had to rely on settling to be able to get a man to be able to support them. So we are still shifting out of that mindset where you you settle for something that maybe isn't that great, because you have to be supported. You have to have this nuclear family situation. I grew up with two parents in the house. I grew up with a relative. You know two parents who were incredibly functioning Society, but I was suicidal by the time I was 12., so it doesn't having two parents doesn't blank at least assume that you're going to be happy. Like those statistics that you read off, it's not necessarily because the kid had a single mother there's so many different specific issues that go into that poverty. You know where you live like different aspects. It'S not just about having a single mother. I'Ve got a question for you: yes, all the girls on the panel um, so I learned this a couple weeks ago that women are very picky when it comes to men. My question is: if you were given the choice, would you marry a guy you're not attracted to knowing that he's going to stay in the relationship and Paul feel free to rephrase my question if you feel I'm saying it wrong or so, would you marry a guy That you're not attracted to, but you know, he's going to stay there he's going to provide and everything. Oh would you marry the guy? That'S cheated multiple times, but you are madly in love with him. Who would you be with that's a boundary I'll go first, uh. Personally, I would say neither and because I've been in both of those situations where I've had someone who would be a perfect option, but I wasn't attracted to them, and I've had someone that I've been madly in love with who [ __ ] around with me. Essentially, I've been in both those situations and I think the issue is people have to think they have to settle for those situations so which one, neither neither I'm sorry. I don't know if it's a cop-out, but I wouldn't choose either I'm not doing. I would. I would rather be on my own all right. If those are my two options, you could give me one if a life on the line, one, I would choose the one - I'm not attracted to cool me too. Okay, yep. I think I also have to say neither I'm not somebody who's ever necessarily if your life is on the line. If your life is on the line pick, one I'd rather die honestly, like the way you guys are answering like that's. Why 50 of women over 30 are single and childless right yeah because they want to be it's a decision? It'S it's not necessarily because they're also the least happy group when they hit like 45 or 50. correct because, like the party runs out someday someday no one's lining up to date, you at a certain age yeah, and it's not really a decision, because the guys are The ones who control who gets relationships I mean from what I can see it seems like the Crux: is you need to understand it? Just because you don't, like your options, doesn't mean you should Gaslight yourself, but you're, believing you don't have any. You know like right. Yeah and your options are just that's your level so like if you, if you don't like the guys, you can date then like you should probably try to improve yourself but yeah, and I completely agree with that. I believe you should work onto yourself until you're ready to be in a relationship that you want and that's why I would rather be alone until I'm ready for a relationship. That'S going to be reciprocal in all ways and I think that's the mindset it shouldn't be about whether people can a self-relationship or anything like this. People should be open to working on themselves, be open to like not being judgmental. Do you think, do you think about love? Do you think at a certain age, though, it's kind of just like okay, like like let's say 32., you only really have till 35. If you want to have kids - and you don't have because geriatric pregnancy is like 20 000 a year, so the average person can't afford that if you want a family - and you want kids, you think there's a certain age where you kind of look around and be Like you know what I don't think my options are going to get better than this, because I'm just getting older. I think yes, and no because I A lot of times like when we say subtle, like maybe he's settling for her like how can we just say women are settling when that's your level, I think that's like saying a guy saying: oh, I didn't get a Victoria's Secret model, so I settled yeah. I think I think I think okay, but that's I think settling for appearance is different in terms of selling for the way someone behaves so the way someone treats you if you're settling for someone who doesn't treat you the way you deserve to be treated, who isn't Present, who doesn't show up or treats you the way you want to be treated then you're settling for yourself, and I think every I think the idea is that we have limited options which we don't so if everyone is attracted to different things yeah. So if women, if women hate um men that don't treat them right right, then why do we all seem to date them correct? Uh trauma generational trauma, a whole bunch of stuff a whole, so many different things? No, it's not an excuse me! It'S genuinely! What'S going on, women are attracted to Bad Boys. Generally. Women are attracted to bad boys, so women see red flags in men um. They see a certain type of man. Generally, I'm not so we know it's not all women yeah and they still go for that type of man. Do you know that attachment Theory by any chance how we pursue relationships, find us of our earliest? It'S like anxious, anxious attached like that sort of thing right so, especially in terms of like anxious attachment and that sort of thing you tend to seek relationships where, even if someone's treating you negatively, you think you're the problem. So you do anything you can to change yourself to match that behavior and that's why women stay in relationships because they have this self-deprecating view of themselves in security I wouldn't say broken. I don't like the word broken. Well, because that's what position, I would say no, but I would make that point. I don't think Society is broken. I don't, I think, unhealed and broken are very different things. You don't think if you keep dating bad partner after bad partner, like maybe it's you maybe do you know how? Maybe the trauma goes for someone to constantly put themselves in that situation, where they constantly make the wrong choice so deep and that can be so subconscious. It'S so difficult to consciously bring to mind if you don't have the right people talking about it right there or you could just make better like yeah like an excuse, even if it is an excuse. It'S a genuine excuse that people deal with people not really at the end. I have an anxious, even anxious attachment style, but I'm not I'm not going to blame that on my poor choices like, but I'm just gon na I'm just gon na say that was a poor choice and I'm gon na learn from it. I'M not gon na say on your childhood, but yeah like no. I mean I could I could. I could do a whole sob story behind ten siblings. You can acknowledge the poor choice and still like see that you can make better to some people. Just can't see that or you could just say: oh, this is a poor choice. This is on me. This is my fault. I'M gon na move on some people, don't have the ability to be able to do everything. Everyone has the ability so deeply. I'M gon na say yes, but I don't like the word broken. I see on here. Broken women broken Society, but it's not just broken woman. It'S broken man, it's broken people! No, but it's not just broken woman. Okay, so you're talking about anxious attachment attachment style, yeah we're talking about uh women who choose men, yeah right when women choose men, men, women have babies by these men right so like. Well, generally, women are having babies right. So, if they're choosing these men having babies by these men, what are these children going to be? That'S what I'm saying what are these children going to be like, because the next Generation that is going to be raising this Society, the Next Generation that matters in the society is the children, okay and so, like? I said if the women aren't, if the women are broken, you are going to raise a broken Society. The men are involved in that too yeah hang on, but you were telling me that it's okay to raise a child without a man, yeah old men are involved, but you don't want the man involved. No, I'm not saying so. Then what we do in here, what we doing are we are we raising nuclear families or are we do? Are we doing a whole single mother thing? Are we? Are we being broken I'll, be raising broken children? What are we doing? I don't understand how women are broken because they choose bad men, so that means broken Society. But women are bad men they're just being chosen. The bad men. Are there that's the subject, but the majority of men are are good men? Oh, it's a very it's a very no it's a very small percentage of men that are sleeping with all the women like it's a very like. If you want a guy, that's over six foot, that's fifteen percent of a man! You want to be cute cut that in half you want to make money cut that in half it's a very small percentage of men that are sleeping with all the girls like every girl has a guy in their friend zone. That would treat them well and they know would treat them well and they know likes them and it's like we don't pick them and then we're gon na cry, because the guy we picked is bad to us. But you could have picked the guy in the friend zone.
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Bruce Hill: Never underestimate a woman's ability to rationalize bad decisions to aviod being accountable for her actions...
Weithley Leonord: "Every woman has a guy in the friend zone who they know would treat them right, but they choose the other guy" that was on the money right there.
Carnel Randolph: Being in a marriage for 20 years I just think it's hilarious hearing single children talk about what it takes to make a relationship work
S. Jones: Here’s a true generalization: Women who have bright colored hair, meaningless dumb tattoos in random places and dress like their on a anime, all think a certain way and I could never date one! These women all fit that “generalization”
thedemoninside666: The red hair girl pulls the generational trauma card in every conversation she has like this. You know she repeats stupid mistakes by her tattoos and hair
Ant Banks: She says she doesn't generalize but then says women are oppressed. Isn't that a generalization?
poopy denis: The girl with the dyed hair was pissing me off big time. I have both parents, but both of them are separated. I know situations are all different, but growing up and realizing that my mother was treating my father horribly. I didn’t see my dad for a while and i didn’t have a good relationship bc of the toxic things my own mother would tell me. I felt terrible knowing that my mother used me to hurt my dad all bc she was jealous and greedy. The absence of my dad and her anger affected me. Now that I see my dad a LOT more, I feel better. Bc of him, I became smarter and stronger. I love my dad so much, and it still kills me to see how badly my mother treats him even though he tried his best for 10 years
misha negro: My father died when I was 2 years old. My mother did a phenomenal job raising my twin sister and me on her own, for which I’m very grateful. The point is that children NEED a masculine role model in their life’s, no matter how great of a job the single mother did. This debate wasn’t about if a single mother can do a great job raising children on her own, single mothers most certainly can! My mother and the mothers of 2 of my close friends who suffered the same fate are living proof of that! The children need to learn certain things from their father and in the absence of one they are likely to develop all kinds of problems. That’s what they meant to show with all the statistics.
Proud Gary: "It's about love" "Generational trauma " "Unhealed" "My truth" It's always this obscure fairytale language. Avoiding absolutes. There's never the truth, it's always my truth. They thrive on grey area. It permits them to whore around and yet avoid any accountability. It's always fairytale language and shifting goal posts, gaslighting and shaming language. They loathe truth like they loathe wrinkles. They know the only way they can have power, is men give it to them. It's gotta be Hell inside their minds.
Alex Salazar: This woman with red hair is beyond helping. I can’t wait to see her in her 40’s sad and depressed that she never had kids.
runz a: The mental gymnastics these feminists will go through to avoid responsibility is ABSOLUTELY ASTOUNDING!
threemoo: Man that friendzone statement that Pearly made at the end cuts real frickin deep... If you're a man reading this comment you know you felt that!
Zeke Gaeta: I genuinely feel bad for these women. They are so broken and don’t even know it. They honestly believe that society and men have done such horrible disservice to them and can’t recognize they are chasing away people who are trying to help them. Honestly it breaks my heart They are basically caging themselves in and attacking anyone that tries to get them out.
Jordon Le Brun: Red hair is the definition of "indecisive". Every answer she gives is either not an answer or a two-sided answer.
Elizabeth Cartagena: I'll be 28 in October. I am JUST now piecing myself together. I'm truly healing, but TRUST ME, being an orphan was deeply traumatic. And I've had all the various issues one can imagine. Not having a (consistent) father is DEEPLY painful, let alone both parents.
jchief: I love how Pearl doesn’t buy the bulls**t “nothing is ever a woman’s fault” arguments!
Jessica Geraci: So I was raised by a single Father. Not only did he save me from a physically and sexually abusive situation with my mom and her “husband” at the time when I was 4, he also gave me an amazing male figure to look up to for my future husband and father of my children. I do have a son by a man I am not with but I’m extremely supportive of my sons relationship with his father. Kids need both parents. It doesn’t matter if the parents like each other or not…. The child is half you and half them. Respect that for the sake of the child.
ponsoke: "Well, settling for appearance is different so it doesn't count as settling when men settle." From the same woman that was saying she'd choose neither when asked if she'd go for the guy that will stay and be loyal and provide and treat her right but that she isn't attracted to or a different guy that would cheat on her but she is attracted to.
Topher Barbee: Her arguing about the word broken and unhealed is just telling of her lack of accountability. Kintsugi is the practice of fixing broken things as a sign of healing. But if you can't even acknowledge that broken and unhealed are the same then there are some areas you need to give more healing awareness to.
Carlos Tommy Baggs: Their ability to avoid answering simple questions is exhausting. Their assertion that they will wait until they are finally old enough and ready to get married and have children on their terms, totally ignores the reality that men will typically have far less reason to choose them by then. Their idea that they have unlimited options, as she said, is stupid. No woman gets unlimited men.
Comp3630: I could only imagine the hell she's putting her parents through.
Dekkan_07: It’s kinda sad that today people doesn’t take relationships serious anymore, I just had this conversation with my mom telling her how I’m losing the interest in finding someone just because how girls are today. She obviously doesn’t like the idea because she wants me to find someone worth it, get married and all this stuff, but even she agrees that is really difficult to find someone like that right know. At this point I don’t even care anymore, ai used to get depressed because I always wanted to have a girlfriend, someone I can spend time with, have fun and all those things but as how it is right know, I’ll probably stay single the rest of my life.
ChrisO: Damn, she nailed it when she explained the Friend Zone...I like Pearly.....everything she says makes me go OOoooooo.....on point....
Nitrus17: Pearl is so smart but also cool and calm. I'd be losing my mind trying to talk to these girls.
TheJWRB: as a person that had his dad leave at the age of 2, I had to grow up with my mum who had to fill the roles of both a mother and father. After growing up and realising how hard that was for her showed me how much effort and stress it was for her. I graduated with the highest class in the UK for my undergrad and I am currently doing my master's due to hard work but also because of her. I did NEED my dad, but honestly, it probably would have been easier for her and me with him around to help out, so i see the validity of the statement. that's just my experience. just a side note, I have been contacted by my dad and on top of that he even admitted that it was his fault for what happened and that he made his mistakes but owned up to them and frankly i can understand that side too because i can learn from it.
Andrew Bayram: I think the red haired woman has had some kind of therapy and her therapist has pandered to her. Always an excuse, always rationalise the reasons away, always deflecting, always someone elses fault.
LIQUID TOTEM: CORRECTION: She only believes in generalizations and stats if they benefit her.
Fuhgeddaboutit: Having done a lot of "self healing" and now considering myself as fully functioning as I can ever be...the more serious I got about actually improving myself, the more I realized that self healing is not about talking about self healing, or going to different workshops, seeing therapists, or reading different books about how damaged you are. Healing is about acknowledging we're all fucked and choosing the difficult road of building your own integrity and character. When it comes to your own mental health, a hundred good deeds or actions can be totally clouded over by one wrong action, especially if you know it's a bad decision. At the end of the day, nobody cares about your trauma, and why should they? You are the only one that will ever care enough about yourself enough to find a way to get over it. At the end of the day, a huge part of getting over trauma is knowing how to not RE-traumatize yourself. Bad decisions just re-traumatize you, making you part of your own illness.
loose4bet: I always say that generalization is one of the best cognitive tools you have. It lets you navigate through the ocean of information without going insane. It lets you recognize the patterns in human behavior and much more. It lets you sniff out bullshit from mile away. That's precisely why bullshiters, gaslighters and other manipulators hate it so much.
Rob C: I feel sorry for the red hair girls parents - I think it was her school, peer experiences and probably social media that messed her up.
Orion Malley: It’s all about feeling never logic with these broken women/feminist.
KayC Chirw: Watched a few of your videos since coming across the “red pilling” videos and gotta say it’s mad refreshing to see an objective,articulate and well considered argument about men and women, being lead by a woman and including women with alternative (but common in society) views. It’s brilliant
666peanutbutter: Wow what a great series of videos...and AMAZING how finally people are realizing how ‘batshit crazy’ most women truly are...
Kenric Romel: My 59 year old mother told me two days ago, I had to be your mom and your dad. I told her; " you were never even close to a father figure" she was so passed. She probably gloated for years to people about being a mom and a dad. And I shut her shut down finally as a 33 year old man.
xCarnage3: We're all in a sense "broken", but in the end we still make our own choices, and when we make bad choices, we gotta own up to it like an adult. "I'm healed", she says. I guarantee she's still making poor choices
Dave Danger: When you see the red hair, the tattoos, and their age, you know what mentality you’re gonna get.
Wanton Boyz: How am I just discovering this woman now? Gosh! I'm so in love with her way of thinking
tapiwakay: "You can't have an honest conversation with a dishonest woman"
Geralb 4u: I’m binging these clips. Love the videos . Having open discussion with people show a lot about them and where society is going.
Blessed&Favored32: This is absolutely true. A woman has the womb. Women have the choice to let a man go all the way w/o protection. We all know the consequences of that. I would never put myself in that situation to have an abortion or to be a single mother. I believe we all have made bad choices, but we all have the ability to take accountability. And I believe it’s harder for certain people to do just that.
Sageyy XP: It’s always the people without children that have the most opinions about children♂️
terah101: “Accountability is kryptonite to the modern woman” - Kevin Samuels
Interested Bystander: "I was suicidal when I was 12". Sorry to hear that, as a fellow human being. However, I'm not surprised to hear it. The red hair and tattoos and outspoken certainty about everything tells us you have issues and baggage.
courtney burton: I love how pearl keeps her composure when talking to these women who are clearly, lying, deflecting and Deceiving, knowing exactly what their doing. Men, we need to learn to not lose our cool when we talk to our female friends, family, wives and girlfriends on these very same topics. Use educational fact's & basic common sense to combat, instead of going off our emotions.
Jack Williams: Truth bomb by Pearl at the end there. So refreshing hearing from a woman too
Maggie May: sometimes wearing a bra can improve so much about a person.
Kevin Mckinley: Anyone ever notice how every time these “feminist” are asked a question they are ALWAYS the exception to the rule? Isn’t that wild how much of a coincidence that is♂️
White FRESH: I love how the women make excuses for everything and the men just have to live with it
SHADOW THOUGHTS: I would love to see a debate on having kids vs adoption. We see the natural argument, so why not apply animalistic values? If we are above this, then why not apply more logic to kids and remove the argument from the equation; despite age you can have kids through other means than pregnancy. The women argue against men for wanting bio-kids and using it as an argument, yet they simultaneously defend bio-birth as an absolute preference. I think it'd make for an interesting debate.
Michelle Cousino Hettrick: My parents stayed together even though there was a lot of fighting and my father told me there were many times he wanted to leave. He stayed for us kids. With life experience, their marriage did improve. I married and had four children and wound up a single parent. Looking back over all these years, it’s better to stay with a spouse as long as there’s no physical abuse going on or major addictions. Whether parents stay together or not, the children could end up with emotional problems. No matter what, it’s better to have both parents together than do it alone. My life was very difficult as a single parent. In my case I couldn’t stay with him, But with all the help that I had, my children fared better than most others that I’ve seen. They’re all hard workers and yet each has their own emotional scars.
Deadbeat Media: you should do a video on cheating I had the experiance where my gf was looking for another guy on the internet turned out it was a catfish, she told me and I forgave her like a fool, we then had an argument which came to the conclusion from her POV if I as a man cheated its my fault and im an asshole and thats unacceptable and if she cheated on me thats my fault also as my actions made her do it... lets just say that was the last argument we ever had.
james Videos: I was raised by my mother. Sure I was raised, and sure I was raised “right” or at least what I believe to be. But even though I was raised by one parent, does NOT mean you only need one to be raised. I was blessed enough to have amazing uncles to help take up that missing father role, and not just family but friends dads as well. Because as then being parents and having kids of their own they know damn well, you NEED a father figure. Especially for males! THEY NEED A FATHER FIGURE! The amount of hardship my mother had to go through because my dad wasn’t there is unspeakable. I wouldn’t even wish something like that on the worst of my enemies. It’s truly sicking knowing that these people exist. There is also a reason why stats show that these single parent families tend to raise troubled children. I got 0:46 into this video and already lost my shit. These people truly need a very very rude awakening to reality.
SofronPolitis: 4:35 Take notes: "He was the perfect option but I wasn't attracted to him" aka "not ready for a beta bucks yet"
Cindy Allison: As a 59 yr old, I am amazed how younger women are so delusional today.
Dylan Hornsby: You can feel the seething hatred in the room of everything that accounts to female accountability
Juan Koen: Its crazy how when its time for women to take accountability she mentions "well men are involved too"
Isabella Skoczek: Grown up without my father, I wished I had a good father. My brother wished he grew up with a father. My mother wished she had a man by her side raising us and with 22 years now, I see and feel the scars that it has done to us and how it has effected all our lives. Even though I don't even know how It'd be with a father, my heart silently still gets broken every I see families with both parents loving each other and raising their children together and being a great, lovable family, because from the bottom of my heart I wish I had this, too.
GMADGEN GARAGE LLC: The level of intensity and audacity it takes for some women to make convenient exceptions for notable double standards is beyond reality itself.
Brian: I have to say.... Pearl has grown on me since i started watching her videos... always thought you had a beautiful mind... but watching the way you carry yourself, the poise you always have.. the dresses, the pearls :D, the leggggsssss Jesus Christ your legs are like Sharon stone in basic instinct... ughh physically you're gorgeous... but add the incredible person you are too that equation... and jeeeeeeeez you're a 12/10 absolute femininity perfected
Ibrahim Janneh: I love your shows. Keep up with the good job, cause the world needs your therapy. YOU ARE GOING PLACES MY DEAR.
Subvertus in real life: Many of the women, like the redhead, have the idea that you stay single to work on themselves to the point of being able to find a guy on that level, but then mess it all up when they take it to what she says they are every single thing that she needs. It's an impossible standard for anyone. My best guess is they feel like compromising anything, is compromising everything. She is going to sabotage every relationship and die alone.
Z- em: Here's a generalisation: the fastest someone talk, the craziest and biaised mind they have. Other people need to use most of their brain to follow the flow of speech, preventing them to counter a solid answer. Also it's more exhausting to listen to them, so people end up with "meh whatever", leaving them thinking they were right but in reality are just too stubborn to argue with them. Talking fast is just a trick so nobody expose the stupidness of your arguments.
Nick Richards: Conversations like this makes me think as a man we are doomed. Why even talk to women? There are so few girls like pearl that it’s almost impossible.
War Draven: I have been in this situation i was the nicest guy you would ever meet. I treated females with respect and I treated gfs right however they always treated me like shit and leave me for a guy that treated them like shit. So i decided to treat women like shit and girls came out the woodwork and treated me like a king and stayed.
Emmanuel Ayim-Adomi: The lady to the right is down right talking about her life. I hope she "heals" - as she likes to put it.
Manny Rayoo: We need more women like pearly
Charles Sands: If a panel of men were asked that question by a woman, I'm sure she wouldn't accept his opting out of choosing.
Hafiz Ibrahim: I'm in my 20s and this is literally our generation for you, everything is sentimental.
Steve: Pearl, you are my hero! For those other women, go back to school!
Joel Marchan: That final statement explained it all so perfectly.... "why not choose the guy in the friend zone"
Father's Tribe: As my asian cheek slaying brother once said: "if it bleeds for five days in the row and didn't die, everything that comes out of its mouth is a goddamn lie!"
steve bolton: I've had women turn me down for dates, but come back to me after they've made tons of horrible choices or have 3 kids with 3 different men. Good men are not here as a safety net.
SuperFuzz: The need to be right is so strong I can smell it through the screen…
Kooberto Humperdink: "They had to rely on settling to get a man to be able to support them." 3:20 That says it all.
Will: Im glad I got married to my high school sweetheart. I feel bad for anyone in the dating game in 2022.
Solomon Ben Israel: I would never subject myself to a conversation like this.
Charles Green: The way he proved that she is making a circular argument from men aren’t needed in the household to ending with men are at fault for the brokenness was great
James Taylor: It's like talking to a brick wall with people these days. Always exceptions and never looking at the rule. I'm a market researcher and in business we always search for the patterns and rule in everything, and in very special cases exceptions if it brings added value for fairness and inclusion.
Kefle Yohannes: @JustPearlyThings and @SaraGarvey, conversations like this are one of the last hopes for the generation.
Darren Chesson: The ability to make poor choices and acknowledge it, yet continue to carry on, is the difinition of stupidity. Own it and learn.
Bushviper: Anyone who throws out the fact that they are/were "suicidal" for shock value or to win sympathy points in an argument, I automatically assume you are lying or embellishing. Something as traumatic as that is not so conveniently or easily interjected when it best suits your narrative.
Enter Text: these women have no idea they support abusing children for their comfort and self-esteem. Keep telling them
Jimmy Vela: I am really concerned for my son when he grows up and enters the dating world.
BenignAndaHalf: The exact reason I call them “overgrown children”, no sense of rational or logical thought. Single moms are in unfortunate positions because of their own decisions, whether they repel the guy who wants to be there or chooses to have a kid with an unworthy guy. These children are so caught up with their own selfish immaturity that they’ll vomit out whatever pathetic and flimsy excuses they can to validate it.
Kam: Lol the delusions we have to see these days. Pearl is legit.
Elizar Ortiz: These women are saying you can't generalize men, women, and relationships then continue to generalize the next sentence.
Sam N: Red hair mentioned poverty as an example of a negative factor regarding dysfunctional children. Yet refuses to admit that 2 parents are better than 1. It simply doesn’t make sense. The greatest thing about this podcast is that, you actually let people speak. And then you figure out very quickly that they contradict themselves often.
Freethinker McJones: "I would rather be on my own." Good, go be on your own. None of us want to keep you.
Grundell: "I don't generalise, but children don't need both parents." good on ya
SacrificialVoid: I was raised by a single mother and I would have fucking loved for my dad to be in the picture so it is absolutely infuriating that these women are saying it isn’t necessary at all. My mom did a great job but I know she wanted help raising me and my siblings.
Mr GJS: Sorry just to add... Again with this red hair! When she said "I've been in both situations - cheater and stable relationships"... Sorry but how, you look early 20s, so you were dating these different types as a teenager... Being a teenager doesn't count as you are going out with other teenagers who are not interested in the future at that point...
Mark Saint-John Kerr: " you cant generalize men and women" sure you can. We call it Sociology.
Christopher Wolf: 0:51 damn she almost made me throw up. These women wanted a voice and they come out saying stuff like this. Well done now go back to the playground and let the adults speak
tapiwakay: I know 2 single moms who bragged about parental alienation. I can't look at them the same now.
none: i am a single father. i make a sincere effort to keep my daughter in communication with her mom. not because i like her mom but because its for the best for my daughter to have her mom and dad both in her life. anyone that thinks kids dont do better with both parents is in total denial. of course kids can survive without two parents but they definitely thrive more with two parents and all of the statistics agree with this.
Whitney: I loved the woman with red hair, I thought she had some great points!
tombotzero: "If women don't like men that don't treat them right then why do we all seem to date them?" "BECAUSE OF XYZ REASON THAT I HAVE NO CONTROL OVER!" "Women are attracted to bad boys, right?" "NOOOOOOOOOO!!!" It's like watching a walking, talking, breathing oxymoron at full volume.
Koyán Patt: Every time this red head chick talked, I wanted to jump in rush hour traffic. The points she made and the accountability is mind blowing. It's always scenarios or excuses.
nduaguba steven: Sometimes we the way we want to be treated can also be out of entitlement.
Mav _: Thank god we have people like Pearl combatting this woke bs being pushed.