Black Women Are Cursed!? That’S Why Our Hair Won’T Grow? Don’T Watch If You’Re Sensitive!!!

I'M going live on amazon, so um, i'm cleaning up, so my husband is looking at me like a hater as he gets in the shower because he's being hated okay, you guys. So if you are watching this on replay, we are in here today. As you know, whenever i run over on my regular schedule, i like to come on here and give you guys a little sample of something tomorrow. There is hey, hey girl, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey girl, hey, hey, hey girl, babe, go get a shower hello. So, as you come in all of my guru, 101 members, there is a new video on guru, 101 tv. Just for you, okay, it is um me doing crochet box braids on my daughter's hair me doing her braid down and after i like the stream. As you come in so yeah um, that's what we are we have going on over on the guru 101 and then the guru 101. You guys have your own personal life tomorrow, okay, but today we're going to come on here and talk. So if you guys have questions for me, let them go, let's go, let's shoot, let's talk, yes, go ahead and watch it after this. You love me. I love you, hello. What up lady babe shut up? Sorry, y'all and like this looks dusty, because we literally, i literally just got done going live on amazon. So if you're on the google guru one-on-one, you got ta, my husband got issues. If you're on the google 101, you can go ahead and um watch, you actually have two videos to watch. If you want to grow one or one you're gon na group 101, you got to go watch that video and then you also have to go watch the live broadcast that i just did over on amazon. I'Ll put the link in the description box. Don'T go now. Go when we get done, but you guys do you have any questions, any issues that you're dealing with okay, miss young. Are you the one who said that to me on instagram, rubbing alcohol on the scalp and braids to moisturize? Listen to me so is it? Was that you? Yes, i knew it. Was you listen to me so, okay, oh, i wish i had my phone. Do i got my laptop. I would i don't i'm on my phone, so this woman here she sent me this video yeah, miss young, the wonders. So this morning, i'm outside minding my business with the heavenly grass, and she sends me this video this little, this little woman, this woman, she was grown as hell and she the caption, said. Oh, let me uh. Basically, you know how people have all of those white flakes, everybody thinks white flags is dandruff and everything is not dandruff right. So anyway it she had a whole bunch of white flakes on her scalp and she's like oh. If you got white flakes on your scalp, if you got dandruff, it's cool just get a cotton ball, it's a rubbing, alcohol and then she took the cotton balls and the rubbing alcohol and rubbed it all on her edges and and then the video viral girls, like. Oh yeah just use alcohol to get rid of dandruff. It'S like bro. You stress me out, stop sending me crazy stuff and then can we talk about something really quick and then we're gon na get into questions. I promise i promise to lord. I promise to lord. I promise the lord give me a tool if i could be real. Give me a tool if i could be real. Give me a two. If i could be real. I promise to the lord. I got the space cause, i'm waiting all right, so listen, listen, jack! So and if you won't hear i'm not mad at you, i love you. I do if you don't hear i'm not talking bad about you. I love you. I do and i appreciate you in my life i do i do. I appreciate you in my life. I do listen, so somebody sent me something, and it was basically a asian woman. She was either asian or white - i don't know - or both i'm not sure whatever, and she the video basically says that black women, the reason that black women cannot grow long hair is because black women are cursed. Give me a three if you've ever seen that or if you've seen that video she said black women are cursed, and that is why black women will not grow long hair, and so the woman sent me the video and she's like oh sam react to this. This is this, is this is the thing this is the thing. This is the thing, cheese and crackers. This is the thing see if we did not put ourselves out there as insecure as uneducated as confused about ourselves our bodies, our hair. Then people would not be able to make comments like this. If, if it was not so easy to sell black women hair products, then people wouldn't say the the the type of stuff that they say. They wouldn't feel warranted to say the type of stuff that they say, because black women would have such a strong knowledge about themselves on where they come from that whenever somebody say something like that, we wouldn't even have to respond to it and the reason that i'm Bringing it up is because, when i tell y'all to send me videos - and for me to do reactions, could y'all, please send me some positive stuff. Can y'all. Please send me some some some uplifting stuff, because at the end of the day, i'm not doing a reaction. Video to the video of the asian woman saying that black women are cursed and that's why we can't grow our hair, because my daddy taught me that you can get a lot more flies with sugar than you can with [ __ ]. So i know for a fact that i can show you better than i can tell you, so it will do more for our community for us to build on our knowledge and for us to actually grow our hair, because it's easy then for it, then it would Be for me to engage on an ignorant conversation like that. That'S some ignorant stuff. How can the woman that has more be the one? That'S the most cursed? It doesn't make any sense. Yes, our hair is the least difficult of all. Absolutely so that's that's the the the basis of what i wanted to say. Like let's start, i have no problem answering questions. I have no problem killing myths if it makes sense right, but to me that's not even killing a myth. That'S just some ignorant stuff. That'S that's just ignorance, so there's a difference between me giving my opinion and and reacting to something and then me just feeding into stupidity. You know give me a tool if you understand where i'm coming from i've been using rice, water collection, deep conditioner for about two months now, and my hair is still dry and it's hard for me to comb my hair. That'S because you have protein overload. Rice, water and rice is never supposed to be in a product. They just gave y'all what y'all wanted. I need you to understand as a black woman how powerful you are so we want to constantly give our power to corporations and to these hair companies and stuff, like that, not saying: oh, don't use hair companies, i'm not saying that! I'M not saying don't use products. That'S not what i'm saying i'm saying understand: who's in control. The hair companies are not in control, they're, not the ones to blame, because the hair companies are only making products based on who you make viral. Don'T you realize you're in control? If, if rose water goes viral and everybody falls in love with rose water, and if every video on youtube about rose water has millions of views, guess what every product line out is going to make a rose water collection, that's how the game goes so understand how Powerful you are and understand that you're, the one that is in control, not these companies, it's you they paying attention to what you paying attention to. So imagine this instead of me like. Oh, no black women aren't cursed peep game. If, if we know that we're the ones that are in control of the market, if black women learned the science of their hair and black women started um obsessing over products that were actually good for our hair, then we would have the type of products that we Wanted the only reason that rice water products are out is because y'all went crazy over rice water, so they gave you all rice, water, apple, cider, vinegar went viral, so they gave y'all apple, cider, vinegar. Imagine what would happen shut up. Imagine what would happen. Imagine what would happen if y'all took the science of hair viral? Imagine because when y'all take rice, water viral, they make a product, he got issues when y'all take rice, water viral. They make a product when y'all take apple, cider, vinegar viral they make a product. So imagine what would happen if you made the science of hair viral they're going to make products? What you mean you finally call me live hey girl is your name, jordan. I can't remind my glasses. I can only see the bottom. The bottom white is brighter than the top light he get off. He is, he watches something because he bougie he watches tv while hannah shower okay and he just entered just being random. Oh, oh lord! I'M breaking! I don't know where my bill, oh here. It is so thank you so much for the donation - oh my god, so anything 20 in a box get the cowbell and then you know anything below 20 you're still ringing for a smile. Thank you so much, oh, my god. Only freaking college - oh my god, whoa - that brings the pals home my ear drums. Oh my god shut up. You better! Keep your head in the bathtub. That'S the only thing you go live when you live with other people shut up. Oh we'll just wait until he finishes because anyway, let me see but listen. 4C4B shampoo is already out it's already out here in these streets. It'S been out here don't over, but actually people are starting to take it off of um the market because they're starting to see how it's busted so they're like dang, it was made up nevermind. Take that off the bottom, we'll take it off the bottom near mine, nevermind. Take it off never mind! Oh somebody became a member when you become a member, we're we're just gon na bring both bells at the same time boom because you ain't just you ain't just give me a donation today, every month until you cancel hello girl. Thank you girl. So hey girl, hello. How are you most of our stops? Issues are surely have something to do with what you're eating internally absolutely you are so right. They want you to do something strange for a little piece of change. Don'T that's something to remember: i'm alive you because i'm so bad, like bro before i go on live, i said time: i'm going on, live just shut up, get in the shower, don't say nothing again, you throwing it down. Ah i'm sorry y'all, okay! Well, how am i oh, when i didn't do nothing, he is my husband. Is i didn't do anything? What are you talking about? Okay, i started coming and brushing my hair every night and oiling my ends. My hair is getting thicker as the weeks go on and yes, listen. What'S so funny when i had a coaching call the other day, the one um thing that i told her that i'm gon na share with you a lot of times. We think that not combing our hair is the best option right like okay, i'm not gon na call my hair that much i'm gon na use as little manipulation as possible, and then you wonder why your hair breaks off when you actually comb it. So let me give you a metaphor right: a person who gets up and works out and has a pattern. Their body has a pattern on a weekly to daily basis, their body and their bones are way more stronger or way stronger than a person who sits on the couch all day. So you you not manipulating your body, you not touching your hair, it's not making it stronger, it's actually making it weaker, because your hair has no pattern. It has no routine. So the first thing that you do to it to manipulate it when it's weaker, which is when it's wet, because most people with natural hair, they don't comb their hair with they only comb their hair when it's wet and they barely comb it. So your your hair is weaker than a person who's combing their hair. Every day when, when a person, who's natural compares their self to a woman that is relaxed or a woman who wears their hair in a silk press. Your hair is not healthier than hers, because a woman who is relaxed right - and this is just an example - a woman who is relaxed. She is most likely wearing her hair in a so press on a regular basis, so she wearing her hair wrapped. She wraps she combs her hair at least twice a day because she got ta unwrap it in the morning and then she got ta wrap it back up before she go to bed right and then she's combing through her hair, but she don't just unwrap it. She has to comb through it to style it every single day right, but then you you will not even comb your hair to blow dryer. You think that it's healthier for you to just put your hair in the afro and go like this with a blow dryer. That'S not healthier, you know why, because after you get it dry from up here after you get done getting it dry, then you go back in and you manipulate your hair, you put in creams and butter and you doing there's a layering method. So you taking this hair that is never manipulating it. That is never manipulated, and then you, you just do all of this over manipulation on your hair and then wonder why your hair shaft is weaker. Your hair shaft is weaker because it's never manipulated the yo hair. Shaft, look at if you're a person who never combs your hair, because you think the blow dryer is the devil. You think the comb in the brush is the devil sus. Your hair shaft is equivalent to the the legs of a person who sits down all day. Think about how your legs feel if you sit in a chair in front of the tv all day, if you sit down and don't move your legs for nine hours or even let's say a two three hour movie, a two three hour movie, you just sit there On your legs for the in the same way for a long period of time, and it's just a couple of hours, your legs or your feet, gon na fall asleep. It'S gon na start feeling funny because there's no manipulation, there's no blood flow. Why do you think your hair shaft is anything different? Your hair shaft is the same exact way. Your hair shaft can't take manipulation. That'S why the second that you touch it it breaks. That'S why all of these naturals that taught you are not to comb your hair y'all, follow them for years right and for years the hair looks good. You know why, because everything works until it don't. Your hair is whole into it. Braid, your hair in one piece until it break it's holding until it snap it's one piece until it's in pieces, hey and when everything that i'm saying manifested itself everybody like oh [, __ ], i don't know what i did wrong, but i got to cut it Off what everybody did wrong is you are trying to beat the natural patterns of the human body. The human body is not meant to be manipulated, because the thing is y'all can't keep up with these patterns. That'S why everybody who taught y'all to use rice water? Is they hair falling? Now, that's why everybody who said co-washing their hair is falling out, because co-washing does not follow the natural rhythms of the human body right. So, when you're constantly going against the natural patterns of the human body after a while your hair style gon na, be like you know what you want to do other stuff, forget it, we gon na break. I'M done fighting you because these little quick growth schemes, you're gon na grow the hair, quick yeah, but it's gon na fall out even quicker, and i can promise you that you relaxing you love it girl. I ain't had new what you ain't had. No, our shame was your products good, for i mean it just depends on which product you use it from them. I ain't shame my hair is relaxed. I take the time, money and effort, but your hair being relaxed it. Doesn'T it it's social media that made black women feel away about having relaxed or natural hair? And it's so irritating to me, because black women are the only women who make each other feel away for changing a natural curl pattern because black we, everybody pays so much attention to black women, going from curly hair to straight hair and a black woman who get A relaxer don't love herself, but sis you got perms and you got relaxers. A perm is what a woman with naturally straight hair gets to make her hair curly. So an asian woman or a caucasian woman, whoever anybody with naturally straight hair right. They get a perm. So you know the little perm rods that all the youtubers are doing. Ride sets with no those are not for curls. No, no, those are not for a regular roller set. The perm rod sets that you see are for perms. So what why women do, or women, with naturally straight hair asian women guy tang, has a perm. Excuse me what they do. They take those perm rods and they set a new curl pattern. So you get a perm if you have naturally straight hair and you want to have curly hair. But then, if you have naturally curly hair and you want to go straight, you get a relaxer and that's what black women do, or people with. Naturally, curly hair people with naturally curly hair, get relaxers to make their curls go straight, and the people with naturally straight hair, get perms to make their straight hair go. Curly know that, okay, but for whatever reason, we only pay attention to a black women when the last time y'all seen a video of of an asian woman like other asian women, you're not proud to be asian, because you get perms you're, not a natural asian. If you have a perm you've, never seen it, you've, never seen it, and you won't you won't. We only do that to each other. They do not do that to each other. When have you you've, never give me a two if you've ever seen a video about somebody attacking guy tang for having a perm, give me a tool if you've seen it you've, never seen it you've never seen a video, never you've, never seen a video of one Asian woman attacking another asian woman and telling her she not happy to be asian because she got a perm. No, you don't black women do it to each other, though, when i was a when you go into a salon, i did not work in predominantly black salons. I worked in predominantly white salons and in a predominantly white salon, there is not one day of your life that does not go by that. You don't smell the smell of rotten eggs. Aka, a perm women with cur straight hair, get perms just as much as black women get relaxers. That is a fact, but for whatever reason, we only focus on black women getting getting relaxers to take their curls away, but we don't tell white women that they not proud or asian women, that they not proud to be white or asian because they getting a perm. We don't tell them that their hair, not natural, because they got a perm. No, we nobody does that. Only black people do it to each other, and that is a fact a definite fact. I'Ve been trying to tell people manipulation, doesn't equal damage man. What i'm starting to get concerned about their products, almost relax, my curls listen, don't get don't get mad at me. I said: don't watch this. If you sensitive don't start getting concerned about aussie products, they are not for you do not get mad at them. Don'T call them messed up, that's like that's like you being a person who don't like sweet stuff, you don't like popcorn, that's sweet and salty it's gross, but you go buy kettle corn and then complain about it being salty and sweet. Aussie hair products are not for you. You have never seen a black person in the aussie commercial, never in life ever in life, nor that this kangaroos aren't even around places where black people from like no, you should be concerned about it, don't buy it. You shouldn't have bought it, you shouldn't have bought it. If you black, you shouldn't, have bought it, we're not attacking them who's. Guy tang, just one of the dopest colorists that ever lived society started. We were saying black women with natural hair are not beautiful, listen society say a whole bunch of [ __ ]. Okay society told me that i was stupid for walking away from behind the chair two years ago. Society told me that i have to do hair and stand behind the chair until i'm in my late 50s early 60s. That'S what society told me it's all about your own mentality and the choices that you make. We make choices to follow people who don't know nothing about us. We do that period. Slavery been over for a very long time. We are we decide who to go, spend our money with period. I'M sorry yeah, it's kangaroos on the thing wait a minute. My mom used rc since the 80s. Okay. This is the thing my this is the thing and i'm not talking about your mom, i'm talking about mine. Why do y'all like to be like mama? Not you i'm, just speaking in general people like my mama used to use, listen my mama used to do stupid. Stuff too, like just it's a whole bunch of stuff that my mama used to do to my hair. Just because my mama used to do it, don't mean that it was right like they made do with the type of stuff that they had. Just because your mama been using the product girl, don't make it good just cause your mama been using it or your grandma been doing it that don't make it good it. Don'T it really don't everything that they was doing in that generation was not okay, it really was not, and we could talk about it if y'all want to go there, but can we not act like everything that they did in the generations that came before us? Was everything can we not because it was not? Can we stop doing that? Yes, yes, my grandma used to use lard and crisco, so i'm just trying to figure out why y'all liked it, but oh my grandma used to use it. What does that mean your grandma used to use bacon grease in your hair? What does that mean? What does that mean? Yes, that's all she knew they made do with what they had, but let's not act like that's the the end or be all cause. It'S not and for everybody, okay, this is all i'ma say and i'm not trying to attack your mama, but everybody just like. Oh my mama used to use rc on my hair. Do you do you? Have your hair regimen in your hair journey in your pocket, or are you still searching trying to figure out how to master your hair, like i'm just asking i'm not being i'm just take a look. It'S in a book reading rainbow i had a scholars who changed my horizon. When i was 18. what she did girl my grandma used grease. That'S all she knew and it's not even necessarily that's all. She knew that's all they had access to, i'm pretty sure that they were extremely intelligent and way smarter than that. I'M sure our grandmothers knew not to put bacon grease on our hair, but what else did they have they made do with what they had? It'S not like they could go into cosmoprof or go on amazon in order they may do with what they have, but you have more. They fought for you to have more, so why are y'all still using the products that they use when they couldn't even use? The same waterfall as a white person, it makes no sense. I know for a fact if y'all grandma's was still living, they would pop y'all in the face. That'S so dumb as hard as they fought for you to be able to develop your own and you still doing what they did when they didn't have any other option it. That is so dumb. I'M sorry and if you feel away about me saying that i told you not to come in here if you were sensitive, i'm sorry, it's a high puff bath for your hair. Yes, it is, it causes too much tension and then you eventually, when you straighten your hair, you're gon na see you got that triangle breakage my mom sucks at hair. She does her hair at best, but it's no yeah, my mom took so how i like having my hair done. She got amazing good for you all right, putting mayo and eggs and everything else in the kitchen literally mama ran out of conditioners, like give me that give me the goddamn mayonnaise give me them eggs, not olive oil. Bring me that olive oil bring me that crisco. It is this good [, __, ], all right, put your head down shut up, hold your shut up, [ __ ] through that stuff. Like that's what happened? Can you all stop? Acting like mama's was in there like, oh, my god, which one is going to help with the follicle like come on. Man come on dog, not people acting like us. He wasn't cheap cheap in the 80s. Exactly yo mama used it because it was a dollar some. It'S even that not because it was one of the best products out. That'S the equivalent to using v05 laundry detergent. Some ajax dishwashing liquid come on man come on dog is moisture and seal real hair thing or youtube thing. It is definitely a youtube thing. Your cuticle does not want to be sealed, just like the skin on your face doesn't want to be sealed. What will happen if you seal all the cuticles and the pores on your face? That'S where you get whiteheads and blackheads when your follicles are sealed, you get inflammation and then pus forms. When you clog the cuticle and block and seal the cuticle oxygen flow is cut off and then the hair shaft gets weaker and weaker and weaker, and then it ends up. Breaking no layering. Locking in moisture is the worst thing you can do. It is the youtube thing that needs to poot and die hey. What are your thoughts on products that you can wash or leave in um? I think that those are products marketed to people that want to leave products in. I think those are products that are marketed to lazy people that they feel like their job is so intense that just washing their hair alone is a really really hard job. So they're like whoa, you can stop here. You don't even have to rinse this conditioner out wash and go yeah. You see how easy it was for me to market that to you. Do you see how easy it was for me to market that product to you as a wash and go product? A shampoo and conditioner that you can leave in it's easy just wash and go because you can leave the conditioner in wash and go know when you're being played. That'S what i think about it now, when you only had a shampoo, you pulled out that bar of ivory and it ain't the best thing in the world. That'S why a lot of our aunties boil ahead, skittle dinners with no hair in the middle or hump the fronts when the humpty dumps, with no hair in the front, don't act like everybody, auntie got hair. Why am i the only one who got a couple? Ball? Hair aunties, why are y'all acting like y'all? Don'T get blown hair, i'm teased. Some people got boy, hair, aunties and boy hair grandmas we're not about to sit up here and act. Like everybody grab. My guy here, some of y'all grandma's bar head, some of y'all aunties, bought it and you know it and it's about the same patterns that you following now, but for whatever reason, when somebody like me get on youtube, it's like oh, my gosh, she being rude. My mom and i bought a hair. My icing apple here, yes, there is cause. I was standing behind the chair doing their hair for 14 years. I know for them to show some of y'all on jesus grandma's boy and his hair, i'm known for it definitely fact because they was booking apartments with me goddammit, so y'all could play that nice nasty, [, __ ] with somebody else who wants to talk about hey, Go play that nice nasty stuff with somebody else cause y'all boy had aunties was coming and booking me so and they was like. Oh, i used to chris call when i used to like don't be doing it. Y'All know some of y'all. I see supposed to be your grandma's bar here, so i'm lying, you ain't got to say it, i'm not going to ask you to vote, because i don't what if your grandma in the room aren't going to ask you to say nothing, but you know it nakia. I just said: don't say your grandma's boyhead. You had a whole, but your grandma don't know how to use the computer she's here. Yeah my grandma boy. That'S what i'm saying is my grandma boy. I don't think no, my grandma she, but my grandma wasn't putting bacon grease and stuff. My grandma was getting her hair done or getting braids. Because my look, i got two grandmas well one of my grandma pads when i was 16 but my other one. I got two grandmas i had one that was like take me to the king, like that's one grandma right and then my other grandma's, like [, __, ] i'll, beat your mother. You know i'll up. Your ass come over here, bring it over here and ipad back with her look, so i got both sides of the spectrum, my other grandma, wouldn't boy, no grandma where's, my boy, but neither one of them was using bacon grease. I didn't mean to tell y'all that about my business with my grandma, my grandma's gon na be on youtube. If any of my cousins watching this, my bad, you all know our grandma. Like look look my grandma, my grandma scrap with all your, oh god, my grandma scrap where oil today, i'm not saying she would win, but she will square up with oil. My mom now swears a scrunchy real truth is she has a many minutes, i'm telling all y'all mamas that y'all just air talking, [ __ ], i'm telling all y'all y'all all just here talking about y'all, mamas and grandmas. How often should you use olaplex, i'm not ignoring you, but there is a full-fledged olaplex series that i'm doing over on the guru one on one. So it is unfair to my paying members that are paying nine dollars a month. If i tell y'all on here so i'm sorry, i can't answer that on heather until i give them that video over there, what can you use as a substitute if you ran out of leave in condition or nothing wait until you get you smoke? Nothing! It'S! No! You, unless you go to school to be a chemist, says nothing when i nothing uh some some hemp seed oil. But if you could go buy the hemp seed oil, you could get some leave-in conditioner. If you asked me what, in your kitchen, you can use for leave-in, i do not have a solution boy. I love you, but i don't have a solution in the kitchen if, if, if what the solution that i'm gon na give you just going and buying another leave-in conditioner is cheaper. So so that's my answer now, don't get mad at me medea all the way! Listen! Let me tell you something: let me, let me tell you a little something: medea ain't got nothing on my grandma okay, because media will start preaching a bible scripture. I swear to god, i'm about to be 31 years old. I have never heard my grandma pray. I swear to god. Never it's never happened. I'Ve never heard it. I'Ve seen her bow her head for prayer, but i've never seen her actually pray. The closest i've heard my grandmother to praying is i swear to god. I [ __ ]. Yes, that's the closest i've heard my grandmother to pray. Okay, so if, on a scale from one to ten, medea is maybe like uh six and my grandma's a ten telling you dog, it's crazy as hell dog. What option is good for a daily hair, routine regimen? That'S not something that i can answer here without knowing you. I don't know anything about you. I don't know your porosity. I don't know your density, i don't know your daily habits. I don't know the products that you've used in the past um one good option for you could be to join my free group if you guys join my free group, the there's, a new challenge that is starting tomorrow, so y'all can head over there um. If you go check the description box, when this video is over, then it'll have a link to my free group. You can go over there if you need help with the regiment, but we will be here all day talking about a regiment and i'm not being rude, but that is like one of my jobs, so i can't just boom boom full regimen right here, because people pay For that so they'll be mad at me. If i do that, hem sea oil is amazing to feel so good on your hair. I know it does because it's a zero on the cometogenic scale and it's not going to block your pores or the follicles and it actually calms the hair shaft. A little bit is awesome for high porosity hair too, because normally high porosity hair gets pre-detangled. How hard is it maintaining light-skinned hair? Oh i'm, sorry, lightened, hair girl, my eyes going in and out i got ta find my glasses. So when it's separated instead of it saying lightened, i just saw a light and then skinned it because it blowed broken. Oh, it's blurry right now it broke up. I was about to go off on you. Sorry um wait. What did you say um so for when it comes to light and hair love, i cannot give you any okay. So that's the question don't matter to me, but one question: y'all, not don't ask me is like oh, what do i do if i already colored my own hair? What do i do if i already bleach my own hair? How do i treat it? No because it is so complex, it like you guys, have no idea how complex coloring your hair is so for me to even give you direction on what to do to it. I need to know what level of developer you use. I need to know how long you left it on there. I need to know what color you had in your hair before there are so many different things that i need to know before. I can answer any question whatsoever about color. It. Color is extremely complex, so yeah before don't don't get mad at me, but anybody if you've colored your hair or are you thinking about coloring your hair? Do not wait until your hair is colored to figure out what you should do to moisturize it before you color your hair before you lighten your hair before any product touches it, you need to have a treatment regimen already lined up. I cannot answer that question baby saying my scalp is so dry. I'M not sure why i've increased my water using hemp seed oil on my scalp good regimen, and look you're, see the reason that y'all you putting hip seed oil on your scalp could be the reason why your scalp is dry. Your scalp has natural oil, even though, even though hemp seed oil isn't going to block the follicle, you you're still constantly putting something in there. So, even if it something not blocking the follicle does not necessarily mean that it doesn't have the potential to block it. If you, if you, if you overuse it so, if you're putting in an oil on your scalp every day or a couple of times a day, absolutely your scalp is oily. Your hair is oily because the natural sebum can't get out of the hair follicle. So stop oiling your scalp join my challenge and guaranteed. You will start seeing the natural sebum come out of your skull. You all got ta! Believe me, you can just join the group. It'S free and read people comments over there. I actually love the group because now, when i say like - oh don't do this: if you stop using this, this will happen now. Y'All could just go look inside of my group, and i've done two challenges so far and those challenges it's a the challenge is seven days of it broken down exactly what i tell you guys not to do, and it's the pattern that you actually should follow and By the by the first four to five days, women who have had super duper dry scalps for years are actually being able to visually see oil come out of their scalp, so join the group that could be enough, and it could also be things that you've done Previously to block the follicle there's so many different things liv, i can't like i said, that's not and if you're here in the group, if you're watching this right now and you're in my and you're in the free group and you've, been a part of the challenge Or you're, just a part of the group, give it give me a two and they can vouch for you. I cannot answer that question. There are so many different things that can contribute to why your scalp is not producing oil or why the oil is not coming out. There'S so many different things. So, oh it's a bunch of y'all in there. I love you guys so much. I do we're doing a new challenge, so this is what i need everybody that is already in the group whenever we leave out here, not right now, not right now, but whenever we leave out of here. What i need y'all to do is go over there and be like hey stan. I was in the live, hey sam, because i need to give you guys, badges, please so everyone who is in this live right now, if you, oh, you love me more everybody. That'S here that has already completed the challenge either the first or the second one. Please go in there and comment on the last post that i made, because i need to give everyone their badges. It is going to be so confusing if we don't. So if you already completed the challenge, please go in. There say something just comment, so i can go through tonight and give you your vip badges, okay, because if not it's going to be crazy, mixed up with everybody, who's already completed the challenges and all the new people. So please and then oh hi boo and then we have guru on one in the building. Babe make sure you go watch the new video, that's in the guru, one on one: yes tanya with your badge yeah, so everybody make sure you comment and then, if you want like a a certified guru badge, i just need to know your story. The people that i'm giving the certified guru badges to are the people who are like okay, i finished from i finished the challenge. First, my hair was like this and now my hair is like this or even, if you don't see, changes just talk to me. Yes, for the badges, yes yeah, remember my mom used to pair my hair and my hair would be burning like crazy. I used to tell my mom. I did not want the permit. My hair and my mom will say be quiet and let me do your hair. So, listen, don't i try to talk bad about your mama, but your mama didn't know how to relax hair so because everybody mama didn't know what they was doing when they was relaxing their hair. Now we like all relaxers, is bad, but in reality yo mama probably didn't base your scalp properly and that's why your scalp was burning because the relaxer touched your scalp instead of you know, or maybe you were scribbling and scratching when you was little there are so Many different things that could go into it. You want to start following more yeah trying to grow boo, you combed, ah oh yeah, baby. Oh all, right, headed over to the group after this yeah, it's gon na grow baby. I cannot do the challenge this week. It'S okay, boo and then um. Well, i'm i'll try to do the challenges at least once a month at least once a month. So how can you thicken your naturally thin hair? First, you got to figure out why your hair is thin to begin with, what made it thin out. You can't just you can't just fix a problem without knowing the cost guru one on one. Oh, i love you. I love you, jordan. You said, oh, you said: guru, 101 is next level. The badges make me feel like a school girl. It'S all facts, yes and listen. The reason that i call it the guru one-on-one when i'm speaking of the guru, i'm not talking about myself when i call it the guru 101 - is because i'm trying to transform you into the guru, because the thing is black women. We are into learning the science of our hair and, if it's presented to us the right way, oh baby, what i love and if you don't feel comfortable paying guru 101, is not free. It'S nine dollars a month, just a flat nine dollars a month. So many people joined that i was like. I have to say thank you in a way it was 9.99, but now it's just a flat nine dollars. Okay, you can cancel at any time, but i love it so very much because even before we get there in the free group is so awesome to see. We go through the first challenge right so after the first challenge, most of the women that went through the first challenge joined guru, 101 right, but then, even if they didn't and they stay inside of the free group. Once you get your badge inside of my free group is great because once the second challenge started, everyone that had their vip badges or their certified um hair hair growth, guru, badges everyone that had those badges were the ones that would come to the rescue. To answer certain questions, if i was not able to get to it like right away, so it's so awesome because everybody's just creating this community and as women are struggling like if there is a woman, that's one day three, it's like! Oh, this isn't working for me. There is another woman, that's in there, that's like. Oh, i went through that on day two, but all you got to do. Is this this this and then boom. It'S everything you said it has changed my thoughts ah and taught me how to really take care of my hair. Oh god, i'm so happy to hear that and it's free y'all. So how come relaxers smell like rotten eggs and bubble gum, they don't smell like rotten eggs and bubblegum to me, but it's a chemical. It'S the same reason why gasoline doesn't smell like birthday cake when you put it in your car. It'S a chemical chemicals aren't going to smell good you're. There are a lot of things in life that don't smell, good everything isn't going to smell like bubble, gum, nipples and sparkles. Okay, you learned a lot about her for me great. Can you turn around, so i could see how you braided up your hair. I mean it ain't braided girl. This is a hairbail weird in a bun girl, this ain't about nothing, special girl, this ain't about nothing special girl. This is a headband weird, that's coming on! Coming on, yes, that's what i'm saying i'm turning you into the guru, it ain't! It'S not about me! I already know how to grow here. It'S about you, because people game just imagine, look at how look at how viral rice water went right. So, just imagine how powerful black women would be right if we have a group of black women which we have inside of the growth guru 101, which is my free group. We have a group full of powerful black women who know the truth and the science of hair, to the point that the women like, i said in challenge number one when the women in group two in challenge number two have an issue they like. I asked us because they're gurus now they already know the challenge, taught them how to understand the natural hair growth cycle and how to understand their body on a miniature basic level. So just imagine if we spread that what do i think about keratin treated hair, your hair is keratin. Keratin is not uh a foreign entity. Your hair is keratin. When somebody gives you a keratin treatment, they're, not putting keratin in your hair they're treating the natural keratin, that is your hair. Your hair is keratin. Your hair is made up of a protein called keratin. Google, it clay. You said clay babe. You said you taught me how basic and powerful it is to have a routine with my hair and applying it to my life and i'm growing like crazy and listen to me. Give me a four and be honest: if, if i don't get any fours, then i don't get any fours. It is what it is. Give me a four if you've learned from watching my videos being in my lives being in my groups, that it's not, that your hair won't grow. It'S that you're, using so many things and doing so many tricks and you are preventing your hair from growing, and it is only when you follow the natural pattern of your body and stop using all of these freaking products that your hair will grow. Oh, we have a lot of fours in here baby. Oh, how are you that's? What that's? What i need? Listen, i'm excited to announce your girl. Is the a-list amazon live creator. You figured jimmy, listen it's a big deal. It'S not it's! It'S a big deal dog. It'S a big deal. It'S a big deal dork, you know what i'm saying but like, oh god, don't ever think that i have an issue with you using hair products. I do not have an issue with you using hair products. I have an issue with you using the wrong products. I have an issue with you thinking that you need to have 15 20 different products. I i'm not okay with the fact that you think just to style your hair, you need about five six different products just to style. It forget the shampoo and the conditioner forget that we we not we're not looking into that in 2022, that we're not doing that. In 2022, 2022 black women are gon na know how powerful they are. Black women are gon na understand that they do not need any outside source. How can the head be the tail? It doesn't make sense, you can't be the head in the tail. At the same time, so how'd it go, you know what i'm about to say. The darker your skin is the more melanin you have in your skin. The darker, your eyes are the more melanin you have living in your eyes. The darker your hair, is the more melanin you have living in within the cortex of your hair shaft, the curlier. Your hair is the tighter the cuticle, the tighter the follicle and the more protein you have living within the within the disulfide bond. Everything is more. Nothing is less, i'm not attacking you. The lighter your eyes are the less melanin you have within your eyes. I'M not i'm not saying. Oh you, you ain't, nothing. If your eyes, pretty i'm not saying that, let's just that's what it is, the lighter your hair is the less melanin you have in the hair shaft. That'S why? If i want my hair blonde, i get lightener to take the melanin out. Let get let's get into it. Let'S and let's make it make sense black women. You are not cursed you if, if black women are cursed with anything black, women are cursed with the preconceived notion that they are lacking, something let's get into that. If black women are lacking in any way shape or form, if they're cursed in any way shape or form, it is being cursed with the lack of knowledge of who you are and how powerful you are. Stick that in your pipe and smoke it hey those sprinkles on your lollipops, hey, wrap that bacon around your hot dog whoa! Put that ranch on your chicken strip. Hey put that ham on your burger, hey! Yes, i'm gon na wrestle it on my lips, because i don't know what other stuff here, hey yeah. It is control of the mind, so you got ta determine who's more powerful like are: are black women gon na? Take that power back or are we gon na? Keep letting all of these other brands determine what what healthy hair is or or what makes black hair healthy, or what makes black hair strong. That'S our fault: if black women knew who they were, people would not be able to come up in here and manipulate us if black women knew the history, gina wouldn't be able to come in here and sell nobody, no 1500, jerry curl. If y'all knew, who y'all were people would not be able to play you like that, if you knew who you were even if you want to use rice water, that's fine! If you knew who you were and if you knew the difference between low porosity, hair and high porosity hair and my low porosity girls, you wouldn't never use it if you knew who you were, but you do not know who you are so you let these brands Tell you who you are and what you need. That'S why i got so pissed when i was on the phone with her cause. She said, i know what your people need. I know what your women, i know what your people need. I know what black women need. Do you hey the reason that they say that is because you don't know you don't know what you need, so they make it up for you and they paint it up real cute and then you believe it and you buy it and then, if anybody else comes Say: hey, that's [, __ ], you called him a hater because they gave you instant gratification and i'm saying it's going to take longer sis, because it's going to take time for you to learn yourself. It'S going to take time for you to figure out who you are, and it's going to take effort from you. It'S an action thing. Growth is action, love is action, growth is action, nothing is just oh, no, you have to do period, no, they don't know, but neither do we that's our problem. We don't know who we are exactly but baby. No, no, they do know, they know what you mean. Oh, they know they know, don't look, and this is the thing because most black people don't understand business. They don't understand when they're being played through a business. Please do not think that these brands do not know you. Please do not think that these brands do not study black patterns. Don'T think that why do y'all think every time something goes viral there is a product to match it. They'Re watching you. What are you talking about? Oh they're, watching you send something else viral something else. The first, the very next thing that goes viral - that money, there's gon na, be a product to match. Oh, they know exactly what you want. That'S why there are randomly rice, water products they maybe they know exactly what you want. That'S why coconut oil products are falling out of everybody's ass avocado cardi b, make something about avocado or not. Every product got ta. Have every product line got an avocado in it huh? But you can't say somebody you can't. You can only say somebody selling something for from you when you've taken ownership of it. You, you can't say they steal anything from our culture, because we don't take ownership of who we are because we don't know who we are. We cannot say that they steal from us. We can't. We cannot, for example, i'm not gon na speak on it, but there's this one brand, a asian company stole her stuff. You got your stuff stolen, you got ta know until your patent is pending. Don'T you release? No [ __ ] that nobody can copy, because if they get it patented before you you're screwed, it doesn't matter. I could create something monday and release it. They see it friday and secure a patent before me. It'S theirs. It ain't mine, that's how the game go, but we don't know the game, so we get played. That'S not. They thought that that we don't know the game. Is our fault that we did not do our research before we jumped into the game? Who, whose fault is that, if you play a game, that you don't learn and you lose, is it your fault or the person you were playing against? It'S your fault, sus! You didn't do your research on the game that you was playing, so you lost baby. That'S how we go i've taken some major losses before, but i'm woman enough to say i didn't do my research on the game that i was playing before. I started playing the game, so i lost i'm not like. Oh my god, they played me. No. I didn't learn the game, don't nobody owe me nothing, so i can make it ahead in life, because i know that don't nobody owe me nothing and then everything that i get is gon na be off my own back, so i'm never mad. When somebody says i'm out the way, i'm never mad if somebody say no, because i don't need nothing from nobody and i am and - and i i know my body - i know the science of the human body, i know the science of the hair shaft so can't Nobody sell me [, __ ]. If y'all know the science of the human body, there wouldn't be a woman that could come and say, hey, give me fifteen hundred dollars and i'm gon na give you i'm gon na. Give you this thing and your hair gon na be perfect, but there's a disclaimer. You can never use a blood drive again. You can never use a flat iron again. You can never braid your hair again. You can only wash and go because i know the science of the human body, i'm like whoa something's wrong here, maybe not, and then i can make an educated decision based on just the small, my new facts that i know about the human body. Why do people get upset when people who have long hair cut their hair, hair grows and short hair is a choice too listen. I have to be honest with y'all the reason that i'm not doing lens checks. Every five minutes is because i prefer a pixie cut. Okay, but i'm showing you that you can grow long, hair, easy kind of fast too, but every woman with short hair is, does not have short hair because she wants to have short hair. Every woman with relaxed hair does not have relaxed hair because she's ashamed to be a black woman like. Is it better not to blow dry the hair? Sometimes i don't think so. I blow dry my hair every week and my hair is fine. It'S more damaging to me for y'all to be washing and going that's how that wash washing goes letting your hair air dry. That'S what all your favorite youtubers taught y'all to do and they're all cutting all of their hair off or relaxing it. So you can answer that question for yourself. I wear wigs and praise all day every day, because i don't like my hair because it's too short and it keeps breaking off okay, sasha jackson. Do you this about the okay? I'M sorry, if you're, not spiritual?