Insecure ? Black Women With Blonde Weave
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Come on chocolate with a blondie with the highlight with the cream with the brown band, everybody say: hello, hey guys! Welcome to my channel! Welcome to lala land. So today is going to be a collab video, my first collab video of the year and I'm collaborating with clean she's clean, and this video is gon na be a collab with Queen Chima. I really like her channel. I feel like we be here this. We be. Okay, so she's located in Ohio and I'm here in Brooklyn, so you know we will have to do a virtual collab, but it's all good. Do you guys watch this video? I definitely want you to check out her video subscribe to her channel. If you are not the topic of this video y'all ready now, I'm gon na do a soldier boy, Nigerian style, Pizza Pizza. You know Peter, why are you still talking? Why are you still entering yourself in women's business like this, has been your rapport? Always the females business, always the females business. What was the Simos business and always the females business still have? No male friends. Do you secretly want to be a woman? I know exactly what I'm gon na do: okay, cuz, I'm dark skinned and ain't nobody's gon na tell me that I can't put on a good blonde wait until my own stunts Chucky Chan with hello. What I did this meme in response to Peters video and it says, Blackman - loves to insult darks and women who wear such dye, their hair blonde, as if dark-skinned people can't have blonde hair. Naturally, now a lot of people completely missed the point of the mean, like I need people to really learn. A lot of my schooling was really based and critically reading writing like journalism. Maybe maybe that's why I just find it hard to relate to people who can't read a piece of writing and comprehend it. A lot of people started attacking and saying, oh, you know. Well, you know this little boy is not black he's he's X he's. Why he's E, okay and clearly, okay, he's not black okay, but never did I say that this little boy was black. When I said was dark-skinned: okay, it's like a quest specifically black men, they're on a quest for control over black women they're on a quest for some strange reason: they want to conquer us. They want control, they want and not all. Let me change that because I saw a lot of men saying you know you know: y'all, don't give black men enough credit like we're, not all like this, so I'm not gon na, say: oh okay, there's the 10 % and then there's the 90 % okay. So we're talking about the 90 %, you don't fall in at 90 %. I salute you, I thank you. I you know, encourage you to keep doing what you do, but i'ma talk to 90 % just want to have something to say they just want to have something to complain about cuz. At the end of the day, you really don't give a damn bro like. Let'S just be honest, you really don't care, I'm really not out here, trying to really empower black women and show them like yo. Being you is enough, being you it's just beautiful being you! It'S perfect now, not all you trying to do that. You just really want to complain about something is just something else. We do to just try to bring us down and make us feel bad about, and at this point we're on the game, we don't care what you have to say because it never comes from a good place, seeing all the brothers who are genuine. We know the brothers who who actions actually speak louder than words. We see their lives, we see them on Instagram, shaaka bars for one he's always uplifting, he might say something like damn. You know. I wish black when you wear their natural, beautiful hair, but you see him encouraging women. You see him showing women, how beautiful they are and no matter how their hair texture is. The problem that I had with the first video was the fact that he specifically said dark-skinned: women, women, who are my color or darker, dark-skinned women shouldn't wear blonde hair because it looks like a hat. It looks messed up this or that, when anybody's hair can look bad if the hair looks bad right, we've seen some bad weeds. We'Ve seen some bad natural hairstyles. Anybody can have a bad hair day. The problem is that you specified it to dark-skinned women, as if anybody else to have a bad hair day, except a dark-skinned woman with blonde hair. I'Ve seen naturally blonde women with bad hair days. It'S just crazy, so a white woman with blonde clippings that that's not good, it can't look like she wearing a hat. Anybody can't put bad weave in and it looks like they're wearing a hat. It'S just specifically the dogs like what I just got a question like why you hate us so bad. What do we do to you who broke your heart? Who didn't love? You were you touched. I just want to know like really and truly this day and age within the black community. Why do people dis like dark-skinned, women, so bad? Why are we the most hated and we don't do nothing but sit pretty low chocolate cells down and shake our heads? That'S what we do beep are so late like wait late. What we do to you, what happened come come sit down, come talk to me. You know, then we got video number two blacker than my black ass, all right, you're gon na. Do it do it? Well, then, don't try to put me in the mix because every time they become a virus - oh [, __ ] is fierce. Oh [, __ ] is always fishy blacker than me. She brought you the dark brown skin so when she put on that nice blonde side to it, she's, incredibly marvelous, so don't try to trip us up on that [ __ ]. What I saw today, I should have took a picture of it and then all your [ __ ], would agree with me. Everything is not for everybody. Okay, that's all I'm saying cuz that lady was a hot mess that [ __ ], look like. She just took it out of a bag and put it on top of it. Get the spidey-senses going and shielded we're, not picking up yeah, it's okay, we're not picking that up. We good over here the chocolate community. We good good, good good. Then he trying to say not dark, dark brown. Not luck! Stop it! So I'm trying to kiss Nene's ass cause, you know Nene's dark-skinned and she wears blond hair too. Now I do believe that he possibly did see someone who had a bad we even a bad day. I believe it, but the fact that he brought color into it is what's really pissing me off, as if no one else from any other color from any other race from any other part of the world can't have a bad hair day and just look completely bad. But that's that that's the color rhythm for your urge of says purge. That'S a fact. You never knew what she was going through that day since could've just left a whole abusive relationship. We don't know this could have just really had a regular. You know bad hair day, but you don't know and you being on the outside. Looking in and judging someone and then say: oh you dark skin and you got a bad hair day and it's blonde. That'S a really bad mix. That'S [, __ ] up chill. I bet I want to talk about black women wearing blonde hair. I'M specifically speak from my own perspective, because I don't know why anyone else wears blonde hair, but I want to speak from my perspective and the women that are like me. I do not wear blonde hair to be closer to whiteness or to feel socially accepted. I absolutely do not. I don't think that me putting on a blonde wig will give me any opportunities. I am still a black woman in a blonde wig and that does not help me in any way shape or form climb the social ladder. What I am is a unicorn. Therefore, I like to transform myself. I have a green wig. I have a blue wig. I have a red wig. I have a pink wig. I have a black wig. I have a blonde wig. I have many many wigs cuz. I personally like to change my look. I like to change my hair color, my hair styles, my hair texture. I rock my natural hair, so hot in here come on chocolate with the blondie, with the highlight with the cream, with the brown bandana with it. So be completely honest, I don't even necessarily like blonde, I like more of like the silver coolers home or if I do get a blonde wig nine times out of ten in a couple of days, I'm gon na diet. Assimilation is a real thing. I just feel like it's a look thick. It'S a look. Okay, it's the look. I am don't date who you want? We don't care, you like what you like. We don't care still gon na be on our bodies. We still gon na be out here. Looking fly, he's still gon na do what we want to do. The you guys are watching this video make sure that you are subscribed to my channel following me on Instagram, snapchat and Twitter and I'll see you at the next slide.
Comments
ndearose: Britney Spears wears fucked up extensions in her hair all the time! Color has nothing to do with it. Period!
Mad Cat: There's a perfect shade of blond for literally every skin tone, you just have to match it right
Your Fav Sensei: Why do people care so much about what someone does with their hair ? Damn.
Beautiful Punani Eater: It looks good on dark-skinned women to me personally.
The Tiny Therapist: Woowwww when he said "she's brown skin...when she puts on the blonde hair she looks marvelous", I cringed so hard. That is self-hatred speaking from within the depths of his soul. His lack of self-acceptance is not a black woman's burden to carry, nor should be. His lack of self-love is so heavy to him that he feels compelled to TRY to dump it on black women. Not only is this colorism but also sexism, in attempts to control women and their choices. You see this in a lot of races too, especially mine (North African), where men want to tell us to cover our hair etc. It's funny cause these same men go and marry European women! They don't want us but don't want anyone else to have us either. Not to make this about me, but I just wanted to share I may never understand what it's like to be black because I'm aware of my skin privilege, but as a woman, I empathize with you and admire your strength to rise above.
PrettyMonstarZu M: All facts ... my chocolate behind will wear yellow.. lime green ... white ... silver ... grey ... blue ... green and dare sombody to tell me I ain't dope ... and it they feel away... I could care less... i do why i do b/c i like it and I'm magical AF
Real Vessels: Hell no we are not insecure. We are just not boring!!!!! We are versatile! Period
Jessica.n: At the end of the day , they need to leave us alone. We gonna do whatever we want to regardless. If you don't like it; dont look at it
Allannia: First of all, IT IS A LOOK!!! Love the blonde on you. I also agree with the points you made. It wasn’t just about hair, cause anyone can have a bad hair day, but he made it about skin color.
ht th: "Therefore, I am a unicorn and I like to transform myself!" Periottt
Pisces Sun: Don't know why men bother to complain about us wearing weaves, they're going bald, they're the ones who really NEEDS weaves we just WANT it.
Scarlet: I'm blond and couldn't care less who wears blond hair. I actually think it looks beautiful on dark and/ or tan skin tones. Also, there are lots of shades of blond, not just platinum but golden, etc
Tiff Dawn: At the end of the day, a lot of black men only have a problem with only black women wearing wigs. Of any color. This one guy was saying he dates white women because you can pull their hair when they hittin it from the back not realizing they wear wigs too. And if it comes off during intercourse, they won’t get the same energy we do from them ♀️
Latingurlbc: Eloho you are beautiful inside & out and I love that you mix it up depending on what mood your in, you're a true Unicorn. You've giving me so much insight on colorism and it made me take a hard look at my own culture and recognize how we've participated in it whether it's knowingly or unknowingly. Now when I see it I call it out for what it is. Thank you.
Imani love: I hate how guys would give a “complaint” just to bash right after ... just mind ya business
Love Life: I completely agree.. That was ignorant n out of pocket.. If u gone talk about bad hairstyles then talk about that!! But he made it about skin color..! N that’s hate n pure color discrimination.. As well as talking about someone who is probably just less fortunate right now.. N then.......He just kept going n made it worse n worse each time.. Crazy.. ♀️ N yes.. Ur super hot blonde or nah..! Brown Queen
Samantha Gonzalez: Any person can pull off blonde hair regardless of the skin tone as long as you get the right tone of blonde I’m glad you said you get cooler tones because our undertones matter being lighter skin Mexican I can’t pull off all blondes because I have olive undertones so cooler tones look better on me knowing your undertone will make a difference when choosing any hair color but yes make no mistake regardless of the skin tone as long as you have confidence and understand the undertones baby anyone can pull off any hair color♥️I really hope this man does not discourage any person from rocking whatever they want to rock✨✨✨✨
naturalpn7: I feel like ppl always have 2 express what they donr like about WOMEN...why cant men focus on ONE WOMAN that fits THEIR narrative. If it's not our profession, skin color, it's our natural hair, now it's the weave like wtf...I'm a black woman but blonde is no one flattering on me. My sister can rock all color even pink. Life short. Do u.
Dalemieka Jeter: I’m seeing more and more black men with blonde hair dark skinned women look good with blonde hair
Kala Stephen: Someone clearly just needs to show him a picture of you ♀️
LadiSandi B: But these same men wants a women with blonde hair, smh!! I love my brown skin I’m in, even if I choose to wear my blonde hair or not!!
KENNEDY MEYERS TV: He’s trying to stay relevant chile poor thing
Jenny starre: No matter what we wear on our heads we just gotta make sure it looks good. That's all that matters that looks good.
Ixchel Skyfeather: You look beautiful in that wig. It’s all about the tone of the blonde. I’m very fair skinned Latina, and I look like straight up CRAP with any sort of blond hair, wig, etc. of any tone. And I think it’s because of the olive undertone of my skin. It just doesn’t work. Now, my daughter is half black and has wanted to dye her hair blond FOREVER!!! She has dark skin. In fact, according to my husband, he says the outside world will not and does not consider her “biracial” based on her phenotype. But she has caramel undertones. So when we have tried blond wigs on her, 80% of them don’t look good on her. The tones of the blond don’t complement the caramel of her skin tone. It does seem to compliment a chocolate skin tone more so than others. Peter is a colorist jackass, and my heart breaks for his daughter who has to hear the things that he has said about dark skinned women in the past. Smh... We did end up finding a blond that looks great on my daughter. A beautiful variation of Honey blond. And Peter...also knows not a damn thing, about people in general because my husband (a beautiful black man) and my son were born with blond hair that did not come from my side of the family. My youngest daughter...born with blond streaks in her hair. So it IS possible for black people to be BORN with blond hair. The other two...sorry to say were born with jet black hair like me..which they were pissed about at various points in their lives. Lol Anyway...hair, like nails...clothes, make-up, etc..are a form of expression now. People need to calm the hell down.
Beauty And Brains: To be honest, society will never be pleased with what we do what our hair. If we wear it naturally, it looks unkempt or unprofessional. If we relax our hair, we hate ourselves. If we wear blonde, we are trying to be white. Honestly, we'll never win. So do what you want because there will always be backlash. Stop caring about what other people think.
Ruke o.: Yesss My Nigerian sistersss‼️‼️
D'Aunca James: First of all, I don't appreciate the fact that he started the video with "I love black women but.." why can't we ever just have a complaint dang? Second of all, I don't understand why he needs other people to tell you when you're doing wrong you know when you're wrong your a grown man ACT like it! Third of all, That fact that he said "if I took a picture and shown you guys y'all would agree with me" is disgusting because you're basing your opinion on one dark-skin queen who had a bad hair day or might have been going through something you never know. I need men to STOP looking for a reason to hate and put down black women it's disgusting. STOP searching for our flaws and exploiting them when you find them and then wonder why some of us are not as confident. Your not funny you need to love your self and others around you. God bless his soul.
M Moore: Im black with blonde hair on my hairline, thighs, forearms & bottom lashes. I don't know why lol
Chinwe Aniche-Hall: I love honey blonde highlights on chocolate skin. As you can see from my picture, I have blonde highlights in my braids. I am wearing a blonde wig today and will keep wearing it no matter what anyone thinks. I am just versatile like that especially now during quarantine.
Bobby Flythe: Because natural hair looks prettier.
D’ Buice: Hi I’m a new Subscriber. I enjoy your commentary on topics. Keep it going
Andrew Rocha: 10:41 best part of the whole video. Straight up love you ❤️❤️❤️
posted ghost: Y'all I think it's important to mind our business especially black people that don't have anything good to say. Stop criticizing black women for wearing wigs or having natural hair
Imani C: I love this look on youuuu you look gorgeous!
KatiT420: Yesss, I love Queen Chioma! Queens unite! ✌❤
The GraceFX: You and Chioma are literally twins been subscribed to y'all from time n I know if She speaks on it u must speak on it too❤❤❤❤
Lay Lay: How can u not love someone that looks like a damn chocolate bar like omg from brown to dark brown ❤️
LivingFreedom: You are so adorable! You remind me of KeKe Palmer. And that brown bandana looks cool on you. Thanks for sharing this video:)
Elexis: Aw now that’s a sincere apology. All good love!
Dee Nuland: Its true Blonde wigs on dark skin women looks pathetic, ridiculous and embarrassing. And yes I am a dark skin Black woman.
Janay Roseé: Hey Eloho!♥️ You look gorgeous in this video
Joceleen Howard: I'm late but I'm dark and I live in Minnesota so majority white people and where I work most of the staff is white and I wear PLATINUM BLONDE✨hair and everyone loves it lolbs even on a bad hair day
ChannetteCarleo TV: Ayyyeee I love you on instagram glad I found your channel one day Imma virtual collab with you from London in jesuus name
Babeena_Gt _: Btw girl that colour blonde looks fire with your complexion
Tionna Johnson: Omg I love queen chioma
Elazy Belle Orr: Hey sry late ta tha game here. I'm a new subscriber, I love your vids Eloho, your messages that u spread are very insightful and amazingly well spoken. I feel I always learn so much when I listen to you, and I see things with a new perspective without realizing how much I might've been missing. As for this dude talking about blonde hair on dark skin uhhh... Hello! blonde doesn't belong to any culture & or race and in my opinion looks good on many different skin colors and hair types Soo invalid and jus straight up wrong info.maybe he shld do his research b4 comin online and looking like a.fool. Again sry ik this is a very late reply. I jus saw this n didn't realize stuff like.this.was actually being used as an argument 4 some ppl in this day n age . Im Native American / Mexican wit brwn on brwn on brwn n m proud 4 it, but I love switching it up with cutting n dyeing my hair or with wigs n I have cousins, same exact ethnicity as me who r blonde/ red heads wit fair/ super pale skin n freckles n blue or green eyes n same goes for them. Point is we're all beautiful no matter what style or colors we rock; whether it b punk, preppy, or casual and. Again ✌️love your videos
Michelle Manteete: You lowkey look like Keke Palmer. You really pretty.
Mystic Muslimahs: A lot of men in general want to conquer women I had to learn Instagram theoracleoshun
Data Dots: YOU LOOK SO FUCKING BOMB WITH THE BLONDE ❤️✨im sorry but I feel like darkskin women rock blonde better than white ppl . The white ppl usually need dark roots for it to look good but brown women have darker skin so straight up blonde without dark roots looks well on them. ITS MY OPINION NO INE ATTACK ME .
ᴊᴀᴇʜᴜʙ: honestly, it just hurt my little 14 year old feelings. like why you hate me so much?
simone: i love blonde hair on black girls!! slay
Beautiful Browne Soul: I prefer the blonde hair on you it looks gorgeous
Jenny starre: Of black men want so much control over our appearance then do better yourselves. We all got work to do. Your opinion only matter when you matter
Lemon Tales: I liked just for that cute top! Also, as always you are gorgeous.
Beny Lem: Omg I love both our channels
Jasmine L: Funny thing is that some straight-up Africans come out with blonde or red hair so, Africans and African Americans aren't being fake when we wear blonde or red hair. We're doing what's in our culture and race.
Gina B: Oooo but that blonde tho
Faith E: “Were you touched”
Saraly: that,s dumb the only thing you have to be careful while choosing your hair color is the undertone that has to match with your skin if it's on the warm side or not that's it!! anyone can be blond!! --'
Garnet Queen: 1:15 Guuuuuuuuuuurl, whatchu doiiiiiin. *You brush the wig from bottom to top. Just saying. It helps the wig last longer.
Daphne_488: so it's ok when Beyoncé does it but not when my dark-skinned Queens do it?! excuse me??! to be fair, White men aren't better: White women shouldn't wear too much makeup because it's unattractive, they shouldn't wear flat ballerinas shoes because it makes them having big unattractive feet and I forget the rest. at the end of day, they are on a control quest too. the entitlement. I can't with this people ♀️
T Gedi: males in women's business never gon sit right with me chile...
Bze Bee: It doesn’t suit your skin tone Eloho! It’s not about a “bad hair day”. It does not suit your complexion and darker. END OF!
Paige White: In your color, & you can't Tell My black ass that my Blonde aint poppin'. I don't consider NeNe DARK Skinned though she is Brown. She isn't CHOCOLATEY brown. To me.
Tijuana Humphery: Read'em Loho...Child they be coming for us Sis
Tanisha Spowe: u look good!!
Vintage Rachel: Looooool 1:56. My face and your face looked the exact same!!!!!
foun no: love your videos i just wish you would put the vid you are reacting to on the corner with sounds from the vid not your phone cuz i cant hear it xD
gwan luxir: That man stepping on his toes
Mystic Muslimahs: Low-key wants to be a woman to me.. Like why care and it is self hate cuz how he said black af Instagram theoracleoshun
Halo Mcdonald: I know a few black people born with BLONDE natural hair. ¬ biracial. Alot of folks.
Panache Mutasa: The natural hair movement went to the mixed chicks, and white hair has been praised for decades. Why can’t we just focus on empowering phenotypically black, (type 4 in particular) NATURAL hair? When you wear that Brazilian wavy/ 36” Malaysian frontal etc you’re validating other women and saying “yes, I want to look like YOU.” I’m not saying never wear wigs, but we shouldn’t be fighting to look Eurocentric and constantly defending why we should wear fake hair. IMO
gwan luxir: He might have just wanted a lil sm attention
Chri Gael: Ain't nothing wrong with different hair colours! You guys are PATHETIC!
BoeQuica ProThot II: ION NO WHATZ UP WIT DEZ MF DUDES NOWADAYS FRFR. I PUT WHAT TF I Want ON MY MF HEAD.
Happy Hanna: What about Melanasians and Solomon Islanders they have dark skin and naturally blonde hair so I don’t understand the idea that only white people can have blonde hair.
Kendreya Howell: I agree with peter! Black men are allowed to have oppinions. Just because you dont like it doesnt mean he isnt allowed to have it. Lets be honest here, 90% of these blonde wigs look a mess. It looks crazy and unnatural. You cant force these black men to like it
ttid to cool: Some blacks in foreign countries, a small amount have blond hair,but u onow its not usually
Jade Hicks: I understand where you're coming from but I personally do not really like the black people have blonde hair argument because let's be real that is like barely the majority and not even half of the black population has blonde hair like almost none of us and most of those people aren't even in America to be honest but I do everything else I guess and you look good in blonde
All C.N.I. newz Network: In America theres no natural blonde haired black women on in the islands and that's called colizination frfr it's a misnomer and it's psychologically oppressing!!
Ciara Jones: I gives two fucks what color I wear... I'll wear it.... ESPECIALLY blonde.. I love wearing my fucking blonde n I'm dark!!!!!!
Mr C aS: Do what you like but don't complain when. White women win.
Autumn J: Some black ppl have naturally blonde hair. I live in to Caribbean and in the summer my hair turns blonde when i go to the beach and in the sun it turns my ends blonde.
dezerae jones: Hiiiiii eloho
naomi philistin: I love your channel. Yet as a caramel sister. I personally don't feel platinum Blonde look good on Darker sisters. I wouldn't do platinum myself as well. Though dark golden blonde is ok for me. Or like a color 27 mixed with the color 30. I can do in weave. In the early 2000, I did read a Beauty part in Essence magazine, saying what hair colors look good on black women, of all shades. For the darker toned black women, they said ,red and golden brown. I honestly agree. Just like you would choose what make- up,looks good on you ,for your skin tone. That should be also applied with hair colors too. I'm just being honest. It doesn't look right on darker toned Black women, Platinum blonde. Yet at the end of the day. People wear what they want. Honestly he should be talking about police brutality especially towards black men... that's a topic that's more important, for that man to speak about, instead of how Black women wear their hair...
Fatimah Conteh: Have to disagree us black women need to natural and be us most black women are wearing wear than their natural hair let's be honest
Grey Fox: lets look at economics with yall wearing THEIR HAIR. How many of them you guys paid they college tuition for? Also I don't see asians and everyone else wear afrocentric hair for fasion purposes. Sistas yall need to stop it, stop making them rich and focus on ways to make us better. Yall don't need their hair. you guys are beautiful with your NATURAL GOD GIVEN hair. Don't be ashamed of yourselves
Monica Soyemi: Are you nigerian?
Peka Boo: ROFLMFAO
Bze Bee: It doesn’t suit the dark skinned tone whether it is a good weave or not. It’s looks ridiculous on a dark skin tone. On light complexions/caramel tanned complexions .. “yes”! Dark skinned tones “no”!
Ola Karwowska: Chay maj chear ckat be blond becus i ha darc braw chear and Im whate and l love mi self
Jordan-june Jenkins005: who is that guy talking???
Lacratata: Funny how the man who’s talking have white beard and a dark skin
Destination Destiny!: First!
ht th: I obey what you say gurll, but I have a question that kinda relates to this topic and I respectfully ask this and want only you to answer me.... Why is it allowed for black women to wear blond wigs but kim k isnt when she does braids? Is it the same? If not, why not? I am not a fan of her, but I just want to hear the truth bc im tired of people claiming black fishing doesnt exit and that its just a trend: "tanned skin" and "naturally curly hair" when its not. I applaud you for opening my mind to these issues
Nicole Marie: I'm white and I think black women look better than white women with blonde hair. Jmho
M L4: Blonde hair.. but black eyebrows and eyelashes with the makeup.. look a WHOLE mess
Babeena_Gt _: There is a whole tribe of black people with blonde hair and blue eyes and it had absolutley nothing to DNA mixing. They were around long before slave trading first of all. Secondly there is nothing wrong with women no matter what colour to choose how their hair looks. Pfft I guess I'm insecure because I hated the blonde jokes on me when I was younger that I dye my hair black since 20 years now. I was born with puerto Rican mama and black Arabic father . Idk where I got the blonde hair . But u was the joke of the kids both black and pr as I grew up. Point being if you like it and you wanna wear it, just do it.
Lexy Chaplin: So black women can wear blonde hair but when white women wear corn rows or an Afro it’s offensive.... doesn’t make any sense
IBroLLyI SephirothI: EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW YUK thank god i'm german and i live in germany