Being Intentional About Living Ft. Junoda Hair

Okay, Beautiful People good afternoon, welcome back to our Channel how's everyone doing today. I hope you are doing well. Thank you very much for joining me. Welcome I'm having one of my sit Downs today. I absolutely absolutely love doing the sit Downs because yeah, even though I have Market to sell yeah, I still get to chat with you guys and just relax and have this therapeutic conversation that I don't get to have when we're doing the live streams. So I love the live streams. I enjoy doing them quite a lot, because that is where we it's funny, because only today today is Saturday, and only today I went back to the very first video I posted on YouTube, and I played it again and again and just trying to remind myself five Years ago, why I even joined YouTube in the first place, so I started watching the video all over again and five years. It'S been five years. I can't believe it. It seems like yesterday, but I've actually been on YouTube for five whole years. God is good, but it glad is my heart I feel very, very fulfilled and So Satisfied that what I set out to do on YouTube. Even if I stopped YouTube today, I can boldly say that those conversations that I wanted to have when I started YouTube, I'm so glad that God has given us the enablements, the strengths and the wisdom to create an environment where we can have those conversations. We'Ve had some very hard conversations on this platform, some very very hard conversations. It'S not been easy, but you know what, in all things will give thanks. God has been good God, God has been faithful so today um, while I'm reflecting on even why I started and joined this platform in the first place five years ago and I'm trying to sell markets. I have a week from you know that hair, you guys know they are the brand that I always collaborate with here. On this platform, I have a few brands that I work with, but I think you know that has been the one. That'S been the most consistent when it comes to hair review, and I want to thank all of you that patronize them, because even I know by, therefore no they continue to work with us. So thank you to everybody that patronizes them. Whatever I do a week, you know video or a week review you like it, and you know the ladies are buying and some brothers that might want to buy for their wives or their girlfriends Partners. Thank you. Thank you. Do subscribe, if you haven't done so so I'm going to try and multitask today so I'll be talking about. You know a few things about being intentional about living and, while I'm talking about this week at the same time, all right, let me say, hi how well I'm gon na do because it's not easy to combine things, but I'll do my best to try right. Okay, so this is from genoda hair. You guys know the company. As usual, I've got the pack of the goodies here. They normally send you extra bits for yourself, so you got the wig cap yeah, very nice. I'Ve got one on that is um bonnet. This is the one that you used to. You know like cement the front of your of your wig. If you've got a long straight wig or curly one, you just want it to be flat, there's nothing as unattractive as a wig. That'S puffy! You need your wig to sit well and be flat, so you need this very, very useful and, of course, this brush. They have it always in their pack for the baby hair in front and, of course, the lashes yeah. I hope which you can do without lashes. Not People Like Us, ladies, like us, will leave and work and dream and wake up with our lashes yeah. We love our lashes and there is information pack here from the company just bits and pizzas about the information on their website where to find them and discounts and stuff like that. So I saw a video just a few days ago that was shared with me by one of my subscribers, the amount of videos that people share with me daily. It turns the grace of God to go through them. Some are just not relevant, so I want people to consider before you share a video with me. It'S important people just share all sorts of reels and everything, especially on Instagram. I do get a lot of people that are sharing. Some is just nonsense. Some is linked to Facebook, I'm not on Facebook. I'M never going to watch any video on Facebook, so don't bother anyway. Somebody shared this video with me this lady and she was she was reflecting and she was like advising people to live their life. She said, live your life live your best life. This is me and my sisters, you know I've been married, married, didn't work out or whatnot. You know divorce single parents. I put myself back to college, I got my master's degree, but here I am - and I just realized that I am in my 60s and I haven't lived. I just haven't lived my life and now I have regrets she said she's, a Christian she's, not saying that people should go out there and sing, but she's just saying that if she knew perhaps why she's trying to pursue her life while she's trying to achieve you, Know to work hard to get her education to get her job to pay her bill to raise her child. She would have lived so that now that she's in her sister she's not going to have regrets so she's saying I mean my sisters now and I have health challenges now, I'm not well I'm dealing with doctors and nurses now and looking back, I just realized. I haven't lived wow that was very, very profound, beautiful woman, but you can see by looking ahead that she's been through a lot in her life wow. So what I want to talk to you guys today, mainly about while I'm talking about this genother hair, is being intentional about living your life, your best life every day say life goes like this. Somebody said something in that uh video that I did a while ago. A comment there. I need to screenshot that comment, because it made a whole lot of sense when we're talking about Nigerians who are always thinking about relocating I'm going to live in Nigeria and the person said a lot of Nigerians or Africans who live in it. That'S why I think they have two lives, so I will live one life in the diaspora and I'll go and live one life in Africa. My dear you, don't have two lights. You have only one life, okay and if you don't make up your mind where you are going to live the life, whether you leave it here and in Africa or you're, going to leave it here or you want to pack it up and go to Africa and Leave it you're gon na end up not living at all, because you think you are waiting, you know to walk and are leaving you know, save up and go and live in Africa. It just might not happen and I'm not saying it doesn't happen for some people, but we need to be very, very careful, so we need to be intentional, so I'm just going to share some few tips with you guys on you know things you can do to Be intentional about living your best life every day, but before then, let's see what the hair, I think I'm doing well so far. So this is the Box. I'Ve shown you the box. This is the bag. It comes with this black bag and, let's see what Gorgeous Hair it hurts that uh, I haven't opened it yet so it comes like this. Let'S see, you've got to be intentional about living. You know, you think you have all the time in this world to live. No yeah biological clock is tickling every day and it's not only for women, the one we talk about biological Club people always just assume like women, because our biological clock, in terms of you know having babies, is, is limited to a certain period. Everybody has biological clock. Hmm by the time that you are 60, oh yeah, 65, 70., there are some things that will not even make sense to you to do again. You just want to rest, you want to rest, you don't have the energy anymore. Okay, so this is the hair. Is a combination of colors yeah? I think it's got three tones really really gorgeous. It'S got a little bit of brown and it's got some gold and I think yeah two tones is two tones yeah. The gold color is like two different gold color. You can see it here. This is how it looks on the model, so I'm gon na just it comes with um the inside. As always, have you know this band that you can use to just fix it on your head and if you wan na put the um, it's got this additional uh yeah that you can use to tie it at the back of your head to secure it. So it's double security. You know we, we love us, we're always scared that he's going to fall off. So you have this one, and then you have this one: that's attached to the week right, so I'm going to trim it. I just need to trim this off once I trim it up, then I wear it and then we see how it looks, and then we talk about a few tips that I can share with you guys about how to be intentional, with living your best life every Day, because hmm, what it means is that the days goes very, very quickly and time it. I don't know how to translate it. Somebody that knows how to translate yoga should help me. It just simply means that we are sleeping and waking up every day and this owner of life is just counting the days and we don't. I mean any day that you spend. You don't have it anymore. So, the time that you have you need to make good use of it all right. Let'S trim the wig and wait so I've trimmed it. Now. I'Ve cut the list, I'm just gon na I have my brush. This is my foundation brush who's, one of them anyway. I'M just gon na use it to color the tip so that it doesn't get because the week the less wig is um, it's whitish. So if you wear it, you don't want it to be showing. So you just you just I didn't put any foundation in it. I just use the brush because it always has a bit of remnants of your foundation anyway, so I just dap it like this on the edge to make it brown to blend with my brown skin brown, skin girl, brown, skin girl, right. That is done. Then. I am gon na brush, it is so soft, that's the thing about you know. I know that if you've ever purchased anything from genoda, then you understand how thoroughly soft and beautiful their wigs are. These guys make really good wigs okay, so I have one of the week UPS here, like I said so, let's put the wig on And The Beat Goes On. Just like my love, everlasting. Okay, so this is it you either put it in your fronts or you put it in your side, um When We Were Young, they told us that your beauty as a woman goes straight to your head. It is true, I believe it's it does something about a woman's hair that you know when you have the right hair. Your beauty just shines effortlessly. Look at this. I didn't even do anything to it, though nothing I just wore it and look at that. Just look at that, so this is how it looks. Yeah there are highlights yeah. The gold days highlight is highlights highlights of a bit of gold and um Brown. There yeah, that's it. If you want it in the middle, you can push it also. So now I have it in the middle, you can see you can pack it anywhere. You want, you can pack it this way. That is the look. I prefer it on the side for me because I think this side suits my face small. So that's the beautiful wig is so lovely and I'm gon na be rocking this for this season. This is the season for parties, Christmas party, yay office, Christmas party, Church Christmas party. You know your friends Christmas party, whatever Christmas party this week, you can rock with green and red, green and red is the color, for is the color for Christmas right, so yeah. This is just gon na fit right into your outfit. So a few tips on how to be intentional and living your best life. The first one is to live in the present. That'S the one I've been talking about, and I'm particularly talking about Africans to living. That'S where I that never ever lived their life, because you are busy saving for another life that you are waiting for to happen in Africa. Think about it, my brethren. What if that life does not happen, don't say God forbido, I reject it. I forbid it to. I cast you before you cast me think: are you the owner of your life um, my people? May God give us long life? Oh, but even with the best late plans. This life does not belong to you when you realize that this life does not belong to. You, then, you will learn to be intentional and living in the moment, no matter how expensive it is, whatever food you want to, eat it um the other day I wanted to eat Nigeria. Can you come at me and Nigeria go to me too that there's somewhere that they said Nigeria go to meet somewhere in London? They told me, go to new goats, the gods. They said it is responsible. He says I said, don't worry, tell me how much we will go it, but because the smell is exactly like. You know the kind of good that we have in Nigeria with flesh and everything they say. It'S 350 pounds yeah. I I didn't even buy half. I bought the full one because I said Hey in this life me I'm walking, then I will not eat. But if somebody from home is asking me for something I can give, I say I will eat my goat meat. I bought the whole goats. I called the woman the minute they gave me the connection I say cut it for me: bye, bye, bye, yeah, put in my freezer, I'm using it when I use it to cook the first stew: hey Jesus, this meat is sweet. I won't lie. So that's one of the things I used to eat what you like, wear what you like, do what you enjoy doing you see that thing that makes you happy, do it repeat over and over again this is what it means to live in the moment. Every experience that you have make it memorable some of you, you don't go on holiday. You stay from January to December you'll never take holiday because for the past 10 years, if it's building our house - and it wasn't meant to tell us okay, my dear yeah - that life is not yours - enjoy your life live in the present moment. That'S number one number. Two do the things that you love, the things that you enjoy doing, if you like dancing, go to dancing places where there is music or put music in your house. If you don't like going out, some people have own bodies. They don't like going out, put music in your house, get your partner or your wife or whatever. If it's you, there is a woman getting your partner, whatever start dancing dance put music dance, whatever you like that doing that you love this whole video. You need to talk about health, because health is worse. If you are not healthy, then that's another. That'S another kettle of fish, all together the things that you love. What do you like doing if you like, meeting up with friends, I have this friends in London and they like to entertain they love to entertain when they ask the husband. I say: why is it that you guys are always every that was before the pandemic? They used to every time they're having barbecue. He has this barbecue set, and this man enjoys it. It'S a doctor he's a it's a consultant, so my people live your best life every day. Do the things that you love to do some of you not really forgotten people five years they wear one coat all your shoes. Don'T shop, no green changer! Do they work you'll, be like you know they work because of bukata. I'M not saying don't help your family members, I'm not saying don't build your house though, but this is your life right here where you are in the diaspora. This is where your life is, so you better live your best life. Do the things that you love otherwise Kamari? Okay, number three take care of your health, your mental and physical health. A lot of people in the diaphor are depressed Africans, and that's where a lot of you, you know you are depressed in you know. Some of you is even clinical depression that is undiagnosed, because you are hiding it. You are just covering with a prayers and going to church, and you know pretending our people are very pretentious. We are okay did it, but you know you are not. Okay, you need to look after your health. Please look after your physical health, very, very important, because health is what your mental health, emotional health, very, very important, take care of yourself. If you are struggling you're going through something speak to someone. The secrecy in our community is what is is just killing people secrecy. Everything is a secret. What would they say come on? What would they say they will cost me. They will help. Me come talk about anybody only if anyone so people will always talk. Speak out, though, if you are suffering in silence, you are you want. You are almost at the point of some people will not speak on things. It'S too late. The abroad is very, very lonely. People are suffering from social isolation. All sucks, don't keep quiet, make friends. Some of you don't have friends, you find it difficult to trust people, so you live in your own small world. You need friends, even if you don't have many friends, there's a place of friendship in your life, things that you cannot even tell family. There are some friends that you can trust one or two people that you can talk to. They hold you especially women, my girlfriend's there. Nothing can take the place of your girlfriends in your life without your girlfriends. I don't know about you, people, but Amy monster. Mio. Hmm, my girlfriends yeah, God bless you all. You know yourselves you've been there for me. You supported me, you encouraged me you've heard me up. I can come to you. I will cry I'll knock. I do everything and you're still. Therefore, we will laugh together. We'Ll do everything together and we're still standing so take care of your health. Please go to the doctor, find help, don't keep quiet and be suffering in silence. This is how to live your best life every day, um. If you've got anything that is troubling you. My next point point number four: if you have some relationship issues like you know: exes or parents, children, whatever relationship issues that you have that are meaningful to you, um that are broken, try and repair them. I know I have one that I need to repair now. There'S there's someone that is very close to my heart that you know recently fell out. I miss her every day. I love her very much. I know I don't. I know I didn't think I did. I did anything, but I'm gon na, take that step now to fix that relationship, because I love her very much so if there are meaningful relationships in your life, you know saying sorry does not. It doesn't mean anything. It'S just saying. I love you more and I'm willing to work on this to fix things so repair those relationships. Some of you, you haven't spoken to some people that are very, very important. The thing is hurting you because of unforgiveness, and you don't want to. You know fix those relationships, but you are hurting so take that step today. I'M encouraging you because it will help you to live a good life to be intentional about living your best life every day. Remember we are talking about living your good life, your best life every day, while we are talking about this beautiful hair, if you like the hair yeah get yours from genodahair.com, is the link to the hair is in the comment section? Don'T listen to the message. Without you know, getting the the followers that I'm doing with this hair, the last point I'm going to share with you guys is about setting healthy boundaries held the boundaries with yourself. What are boundaries? This is what I can take. This is what I cannot take. This is what I can take from people. This work I cannot take for set boundaries in our community and people don't understand boundaries, they think because they have access to you. They can do anything, they can walk all over you. They can. You know they can. Every time they've using you, our people are very greedy and selfish. They don't give and they expect you to give everything you need to set boundaries. If somebody, for instance, let me use relationship because I I love talking about relationships and we usually do relationship issues here anyway, so, for instance, you're in a relationship and the person you know, you've been seeing this person for a while, and you are not even sure Where the relationship is going to you know, and they are not treating you well, it is up, don't wait for that person to dictate the next. What is going to happen you can set a healthy boundary means that you have that conversation with the basic bill or by any. Where are we going, and it can be whether you're it's a man or the woman? What'S up what's going on? Are you for me? Are you the one that we are waiting for, or should we wait for another? That conversation is very important, so you set those boundaries. People cannot feel like. They can just treat you anyhow, they go away and they will come back one more two months later and say: oh, I miss you, I'm here now and then you open your door for them to come into your life, no set boundaries. When people hurt you, you know, let them know this thing. You'Ve helped me I've. Given you strike one strike two. This is strike three. I cut you off. Some people, don't know how to severe relationships. Sometimes it's hard for me to to end relationship because um, a relationship person and I have attachment issues. I can say that I think I said it on this show before I tend to attach you know to to people like when I have people in my life. I don't want, I never want to let them go so when relationship ends like that, whether it's friendship or any kind of relationship it can. It hurts me so, but sometimes you need to look after your mental health, anything that is not healthy for you set boundaries and let people know hey if you do this, that's it. So those are the five things I want to share with you. The year is going to and then we are taking stock of our lives and everything God has done for us. People yeah, I mean just being alive alone and well is enough to thank God. For so I want you to be grateful, but also I want you to be intentional about living your best life every day, if you've never traveled before or the new way, and you can get out of this country go and get your passport and travel. You don't even need to go far. If you live in in in Europe within Europe, you can go somewhere, you don't need to go to Nigeria, Africa, all the time. If you live in America, how many states are in America again? Is it 40 or 50. that you have that you can go to other places? You can go to Mexico, you can go to other people, you can come to the UK and welcome you. If you come travel enjoy life. Explore live your best life. Be intentional. Please do not be like that, lady. That said, I'm in my 60s now and I'm facing health challenges, because I wasn't leaving be intentional about living, you get wild. You know why. I don't want you to live a life of regrets me. I Dey check my life daily. Every day I check my life okay, I eat what I like. I wear what I like, I I do. What makes me happy, I do what I as much as I'm, not hunting anybody as I'm as much as I have family. I have children, I have husband. I have people that I want to take care of. I take care of myself as well, because if I break down, if anything happens to me, they will carry on leave. You know so me, I'm Not Jesus Christ. I'M going to sacrifice my life for anybody. No, they know it's not selfishness, it's self-care. So, ladies and gentlemen, um I removed these glasses to tell you that I'm in business, please, look after yourself. The intentional live your best life every day. Okay, life goes very quickly. Thank you very much for watching. So this is the hair it's from genoda. If you've been following me, then you know. Definitely not you know that hey they make very, very good human hair. You know boots less wigs and you know extensions different colors, different style. If you don't like this one, if this is not your style, and you don't like this one, you can always check their website. It'S on the screen right now. You can check it and Order yours they have black uh hair, they have brown, they have different. Colors of hair and extensions, but trust me, their hair is made from very, very good quality and they have like a 30 day. No excuse return, you can return and say I don't want it anymore and you'll get a full refund, use the link in the description box to get discounts. If you want to purchase this hair or any other hair, how did I do with the multitasking? Was I able to combine was able to combine marketing the hair talking about the hair as well as talking about living your best life if you're best life, your life, you know the rest of this world. We are just. Thank you. So much for watching I'll, see you in my next one have a lovely day. God bless you! Please give this video a thumbs up share it. If you enjoy it - and please remember your another hair for all your hair extensions and wigs different colors different styles, and if you want this particular one, the link is here and any other one that you want just check the description box under this video click on It and you will see the link to their website. Thank you guys for watching. I love you bye, guys.