Trash Mother Cuts Her Daughters Hair Off Because She Felt Pretty

Some viewers may find this disturbing. Your discretion is advised hi, my loves it's Destin Choice, you're watching Choice, TV. So in today's video I feel like it was very appropriate for me to get on here and talk about the disgusting monstrosity that I saw on Tick Tock. Recently now, if you guys, haven't heard that this viral video on Tick Tock going on right now, where this woman basically is so damn jealous and narcissistic to the point where she decided to get on camera and embarrass her daughter on Tick, Tock physical discipline, mom, don't Mom me: no, you had your word in you had your chance. I told you to listen. I told you stop disobeying my rules. I told you being cute ain't, [, __ ]. If you have no education, I told you stop disobeying me. I told you to listen and do as you're supposed to. I told you to do good in school. I told you to do your daily routine and you yet to even do any of it, and you thought you were disobeying me today and I was not coming to cut this hair off. You'Re, sadly mistaken because you thought being pretty was so much better than being educated or listening to your mom right you, yes, this is what happens when you don't listen to your mom. The crazy thing is today. I had to do something that, like I really didn't, want to do, but I had now. Apparently, this was a threat that was already made to her and her daughter apparently knew better, but she decided to basically record her daughter and embarrass her daughter because she wanted to make sure her daughter didn't disobey her again now. This video has pretty much gone viral. All across social media to the point before making response videos, it's on Twitter, trending and people have even trended it all over Instagram to the point. People are actually dragging this woman doxing her and exposing her for how jealous and bitter and nasty she is towards her daughter. Now the woman in the video goes by the name of Bella bosselina on Tick Tock and when people managed to find out who she was and managed to find her name and stuff. She managed to go on a series of rants trying to justify her actions and clearly showing her guilt and jealousy. I feel like. I owe you guys some explanation. I could care less about the comments. I could care less about the likes. I could care less about the views. Never did this for comments likes or views. I did it because I stood on my word as a parent for a whole year. I'Ve been telling her. I was going to do this if she didn't stop doing the stuff. She was doing she didn't believe me. I didn't believe myself, I didn't think I'd. Do it either, but God's grace yes ma'am. I stood on my word for once and I made sure I stood on it. I don't care for the likes. I don't care for the comments. I don't care for the tick tocks. I didn't do this to embarrass my daughter. I wanted to embarrass my daughter. I would tell you guys what she actually did, but I'm not gon na. Do that, because I'm not here to embarrass my daughter, she is my kid and that is between me and my kids. I see some weird comments, like oh she's, jealous of her kid, how the hell can you be jealous of someone who's, your twin she's, literally identical to me. Eyebrows ears, nose mouth and teeth who's, literally my identical twin. Do you feel like this form of discipline? Was a lot better than any other form of discipline like physical abuse that I could have used? Yes, yes, no, why? Why is Tick? Tock say that you hate me: is that your traumatized yo, you guys, don't know the ban me in this kid Abby you guys. Don'T know so understand that my kid knows, I love her. I did it out of love. I stood on my word as a parent cool girl, cooler girl. When your mom's, a personal hair stylist, her hair will be fixed. Whoa is tic-tock; okay, they think they think you're some type of like victim or something like they don't understand that it's really this easy to put a wig on like it's. So pretty you learned your lesson like the lesson was learned no yeah, and I warned you before. I even put it on Tick Tock that if you continued with this Behavior, because you like the app so much that I'm gon na cut your hair off record it and post it. I told you this from three months ago and I've been telling you every week right yeah, so this didn't come as a real shock to you. You were just shocked that I actually finally did it right. Yeah you're not hurt you're, not I'm not hurt what the hell is wrong with these people, like you guys, this is my baby. This is me this is me right here. So, yes, she had to learn a hard lesson today, because being pretty is not [. __ ] education comes first because you can be pretty all you want in life. Nobody is gon na sit here and and love you just because you're pretty and want to be with you just because you're pretty no, you need the education and own my own business, and this kid is gon na have to be able to take part of that Business, you can't do that with no education, so what I'm doing two for a two and for my child is definitely for her better and it is installing strength into my child. My child is not a victim. She doesn't have a victim mentality, she's, not a suicidal child, so y'all need to ignore it with that [ __ ], my kid is good. Are you not spoiled? Is that not part of the big problem, because I spoils you so much? I had to take away shoes, clothes everything. No grommets are going to be real from that one. This is some real [, __ ]. I love you kid nah and she decided to get on camera numerous times the other night and basically tell people at the end of the day. Her child is her child. She don't care, she meant it with love, she meant it with peace and she mentally trying to teach her daughter a lesson it's funny, because most of the comments underneath my posts are commending me on being such a great parent. Then you have these one. Two weirdos like these females, who have only fans who are out here being Tick-Tock holes who are out here doing it for the ground that are here posting or commenting on my post, like they had some type of say, honey. You sell your chocha, you could never give me advice as a parent, I'm raising a girl child. Yes, I did what I did out of so much love for my kid and it broke my heart to even do it. But if you think I'm gon na be taking advice from a stripper, a prostitute and only fans show girl or an Instagram or tick tock. Tarantula you're, sadly mistaken yeah. I use filters to cover my eyes because I'm very spiritual other aspect, I don't need a filter, I'm beautiful in person. Now. Let me start by saying that I don't understand how the [ __ ]. This is still the trend. How this is still a thing now, I'm sure most people have been on the internet for many years. Know that embarrassing your child on the Internet is nothing new. This has been a common thing for the past honestly 15 years. For the past 15 years. People are constantly posting their child, embarrassing their child, showing their child doing salacious and disrespectful things and then beating the hell out of them, embarrassing them much more to spend her vacation since she grown, and she want to pop her ass. Put your hands down for I'll punch you in this [ __ ], video yeah. I thought so put your hands down! Put your hands down before you get your eyes beat on this [ __ ] video in front of your friends. Now you want to embarrass me. I'M gon na embarrass the [ __ ] out of you so grown, don't even know how to wipe your [ __ ] ass, but you popping your ass on videos, show them what your ass really look like, Julian's haircut now he doesn't have a shag anymore say It, what are you? Are you a gangbanger? No, why are you not a gang banger you're, a wannabe right, say: I'm a wannabe tell Snapchat on gang bang. I don't gangbang Snapchat. I don't get anything. I don't gangbang Snapchat louder. Say it louder. I don't care, I don't gangbang Snapchat, I don't gangbang. Are you [ __ ] little [, __ ] that think this kid gang bangs? He wants to drop Forks on Facebook. He doesn't he's [ __ ], you, you don't sit at home with a bra on you. Don'T wear makeup, you don't take pictures like that. You don't have no lace panties! You barely know how to wipe your ass good. Don'T you right! Yep! Am I talking yeah, you barely know how to wipe your ass good but you're a freak right. You still wear panties and say Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, but you go go on Facebook and find a picture that says that you, you are freaking you, you wearing panties, it's lace and all that, but to sit up here record the whole thing and to have everybody in Your business to the point where you tell people to mind their business is so disgusting and so distasteful and in my genuine opinion, this [ __ ] is jealous as [ __ ] of her child. This [ __ ] look like her [ __ ] wig was throwing the damn air fryer her wig, like it was dipped in Bleach Ajax. She looked crazy as [ __ ], but her daughter's hair looks very pretty and her daughter is the more youthful version of her and I feel like we oftentimes do not talk about how jealous and bitter a lot of moms are towards their daughters. A lot of times when mothers are going around calling their daughters hoes they calling their daughters fast and turn their daughters, that, oh, that don't look good on you or when their daughter talk about opportunities or accomplishments a lot of times. Y'All don't realize it. But some of your mothers are genuinely jealous of you, regardless of your age or how old you are. If you really think about it, if your mom was very brutal to you or always dismiss any good thing, that you did, she was more than likely to colors of you and oftentimes. This is common because if you grew up with narcissistic parents, self-absorbed parents are always this mystery emotions or maybe seem like you were crazy or gaslit you a lot of times. We grow up with parents that oftentimes will try to make our accomplishments their accomplishments. So if you're, a girl who just got a great job, a great opportunity, your mom brags about it like she's, the one that did the [ __ ] and if she can't benefit from it, she'll try to find somebody to make sure you don't either because her Dirty big buck ass couldn't find her peace. Her dirty big buck ass was ran through didn't, have her peace didn't have her sanity, couldn't keep him? Man didn't know how to keep her mental health in check, and now, when you are elevating becoming a better version of her, it bothers her. On top of that, I feel like a lot of times. Mothers who are oftentimes jealous of their daughters were usually the Mean Girls in high school. They were the caddy nasty, stink attitude, roll your eyes, look at you up and down. You can't sit with me type of energy because a lot of times these mothers that have children end up having a daughter that looks better than them when they were younger and it ends up being their karma. So it ends up being their karma when their daughters are putting them a better version of them and way more successful than they are because notice. How the mother constantly keeps saying you think pretty will get you this. You think pretty will get you that, hey you think pretty was this, you think pretty. Is that what does her being pretty and having nice hair have to do with anything? My guest says her crusty coochie Mama, probably got so upset that she saw a gray hair in her head and got so jealous one day that she saw her daughter looking pretty and was like. You know what I should try to punish this girl, because she thinks she looks better than me. She thinks she's better than me. You know her mom is very much giving like that. Bully like that girl that bullied you when you was in Middle School bullied you when you was in high school because you was cute or because you got more attention or because you was more developed. You know I feel like when this little girl develops her mother's gon na start, calling her all types of hoes all types of [, __ ] when her when this girl blossoms into puberty and starts developing physically, and I do notice that I didn't see a father In any of these IG post or a father in these Tick Tock post. So that leads me to believe that she may even be a single mom, or it's probably co-parenting and doing everything by herself. Because if she feel like she had to take the wheel and do all this on her own, that showed that she's doing things by herself and many people will oftentimes ask well. How can you get through to your child who's, disobeying you or making bad choices? And, honestly speaking, I may never be able to understand until I'm in that predicament. All I will will say is this: most of us can generally say that when we were younger and we acted out, a lot of our parents did not talk to us now. If you didn't have that negative aspect with your parents, great good for you - that is a blessing and you should cherish it every single day. But most of us who acted out or made bad choices or needed guidance. Most of us didn't have a parent that we convince or talk to, because anytime we invented open up or talked to our parents. It always turned into a well. This is your fault? Okay? Well, you did this and you did that it always turned into anytime. You tried to have a conversation as a young child. It turned into them gaslighting, you like, they would hear you, but they would never listen and there's a difference between hearing and listening. So they would hear you and they would instantly think that you're attacking them or being disrespected respectful, just because you're speaking your mind, and it's really pathetic inside that a lot of us have to deal with this. Where we deal with parents who are emotionally immature or dealt with parents who are emotionally immature so having to having that same space, to talk just doesn't work and most parents will often say to me well, so what what do we do well try to listen, because The best way to get through to somebody or get through to somebody's heart or ego is to actually listen to them. Give yourself an opportunity to listen to Somebody instead of gaslighting them or trying to Simply throw away or toss away their feelings. Listen to somebody! Don'T turn it into a well, you did this see where they're coming from and if you don't agree respectfully, agree, disagree and come to a conclusion and agree to change or agree to make come out, come up with a better outcome. A lot of parents may say they've done everything, but most of them can't say that they've genuinely listened and I get it. People always say that if you're, not a parent, you will never truly understand how it's like and how draining it is to be a parent [. __ ] grow the [ __ ] up. You chose to have a kid, so you need to deal with the responsibility that comes with it. Everyone in school probably thinks that she's, so pretty is so popular and now here's her mom who's, also pretty [ __ ] on her confidence and tearing up her hair and ruin her confidence. I also find it very distasteful how, when her mom was getting backlashed, her mom decides to get on camera and say see: y'all see I put a wig on it, see I fixed it. [ __ ], your ugly ass feels guilty for why the [ __ ] you did that to your daughter, you feel guilty. That'S the reason why you want to turn back and backpedal and say, oh well, see see it could easily be fixed with a wig, see her mama's, a hair stylist. I could fix this but see at the end of the day. She'S fine you're not being abused right and then her daughter got this little fake ass smile. This little grin on her face, which, let's be honest, with y'all, let's be honest, y'all. We all know when somebody's truly sad, crying or happy, because you can always see it in somebody's eyes. Her daughter got that little retail seller smile, it's like when you go into like a Forever 21 or you go into a restaurant. You give that big little smile when it's not even really genuine at all. You can really see somebody struggling or dealing with some [ __ ] on the inside through their eyes, and I get why she's so self-absorbed and she wants to punish her daughter because she herself probably used to be very attractive when she grew up back in the 1940S, she herself was probably very attractive when she grew up in the 1920s. She herself was probably very attractive and young and at one point had all the guys all over her, but then, as she got older and had a child and her body changed and her face changed, her value went down and these dudes were always looking at her. When she was younger and the validation she got when she was younger, started to dwindle down, because now she has age marks. Now she has gray hair. Now her hair is thinning so now she's taking out her daughter. You know it's a sad tell that we often hear, but the reason why a lot of parents are sometimes jealous of their children is because they're jealous of the time that you have the issue. Is this the one thing that young people have that older people? Sometimes don't have, especially when it comes to a parental relationship, is usually the time on your hands and a lot of times. Your parental figure can get very bitter and sad that they're feeding into you and giving you all of their life because, as we all know, most of your life is over. When you have a kid, they hate the fact that you have all this time and energy on your hands and it makes them bitter and it's not just limited to mothers. Sometimes they can be fathers too. Sometimes they can be jealous and resentment towards father and son, or it could be your aunts or your grandmother or the women in your life that you often see when you go to holidays or get-togethers, and you feel the jealousy or the animosity because you're a young Woman coming into yourself - and I saw a tick tock recently - that pretty much summed up a lot of what I've been thinking for the past couple of years, when I think about parents really being jealous of their children, mainly the women in my family, my mom, my Aunt, all of them just have some sort of Vendetta against me like when I was younger. I used to take it personal, but now that I'm older and I'm able to observe like the situations they put themselves in, I'm like damn like. I would okay be jealous of me too, because I remember when I was younger and I would like live with them. Sometimes they would always talk to me about marriage and getting married and teaching me how to do things. For the sake of like my family and my husband when I get older and now that I'm 21 I'm looking at them - and it's like you know how to do all these things and your husband still leaves in the middle of the night, to get a hotel To stay by himself, probably [ __ ], some chick he just met on Tinder, obviously me being the first born girl in America. I have the opportunity to not make those same mistakes after saying that that my aunts can't spoil themselves because they have to take care of their kids is the main reason why I don't want to have any kids. And when I do get married, I'm going to get married for the right reasons. They literally see me get my hair done, get my lashes done, get my nails done. Wear makeup: go shopping, go to the club with my friends and they hate it and I feel really sorry for them. Because, honestly, it's not my problem. I'M young, I'm in my youth, I'm here to turn up. I'M not here to struggle like you know what I mean so now. It kind of makes sense why they were so resentful towards me as a kid like they saw how bright I was and how bright my future was, and they just wanted to let out their anger on me because they know at some point they won't be able To and that point is now a lot of them completely gave up on their dreams for the sake of getting married and having kids and starting a family, and to me it's never that serious, for example, Precious mom in that movie Precious. She hated her daughter because her daughter apparently took her man while her, while her daughter was a whole child. She hated the fact that her daughter got molested and she was getting all the attention from her man AKA her stepfather, and that's why there was so much bitterness and resentment, and there was so much violence and Chaos in that household. She knew deep down inside that. She was 40 50 years old, ruined her life. Had this baby and now she's stuck on welfare and doesn't know what she wants to do with her life. She pretty much got rid of her her goals, her dreams, her aspirations for this child and her man, and she thought that was the way of life. So oftentimes a jealous and narcissistic parent sees himself in you, so they demonize you and the reason they do. That is because deep down inside they need a scapegoat, they need a punching bag to let all this pain out, because they feel like somebody else, is the issue instead of themselves a lot of people who are jealous - and this is just jealousy period - people who are Jealous of other people have an accountability issue. They don't know how to hold a mirror up in front of themselves, so, instead of channeling it towards being a better person, they Channel it towards being being a bully, an emotional bully drain, the energy of someone who did nothing to them and punishing them them. That'S what jealous and bitter people do they need a scapegoat to validate why they feel the way they feel so mentally. On the inside. It'S see it's your fault. Why I'm like this? It'S your fault! Why for insecurity, your fault for existing, so that way they won't have to look in front of the in front of the mirror and hold themselves accountable, and I'm glad this is being shown and people are having this very strict discussion. I'M glad people are dragging her ass because she deserves every bit of it. So something in my gut tells me that this woman feels very, very bad, and I think all this in general is her karma and the world is forcing her to hold the mirror up up in front of herself. As you get older, as you block someone as you go through puberty and your body develops and changes, your parents are constantly reminded that their breasts are gon na [, __, ] sag and their hair is going to turn gray and fall out and thin out and Before you know it they're in a hospital bed - and you will probably likely forget all about them all while you're young - and this this, my this, my loves - is how generational curses start: the jealous distasteful, bitter parent mistreats, their son or mistreats their daughter. So they make you feel like [ __ ]. So that way you you will Elevate and become more than them because they themselves waste all this time procrastinating, doing dumb, [, __, ], wasting time and energy. You know what I'm saying like: I'm not gon na lie. Like growing up, I noticed that my father was also very jealous of me because I remember growing up as a kid. My father used to literally go out of his way and like try to like start rucking like he would, like. Bang open the room, my room door, like literally not close down from the closet, throw [ __ ] on the floor and he'll be like. I want all this stuff organized and I want it coordinated. I want to look to look neat because she can like what my closet looked. I remember him trying to wake up me. My brother yanking the covers off or like trying to hit us to wake us up because he didn't like the fact that he had to take his ugly ass, his big buck ass to work. While we got to stay at home all day because we were children on the weekend, you know he didn't like the fact that you know when the summer when the summer came, and we were sleeping in until like 12 p.m. In the afternoon he didn't like the fact that we were sleeping in sometimes I remember I even had memories of my father, sometimes even like popping the [ __ ] out of me, hitting the [ __ ] out of me when I was like in the car And I would like fall asleep and doze off and him saying [ __ ] like why you asleep you don't even work, you don't have a job. What were you doing last night, why were usually was it a TV? Well, I'm going to remove the TV out of your room and much more like that, because my father, he himself never got any sleep. So you try to punish me my brother for us getting sleep and us getting rest and much more and a lot of times jealous parents and jealous adults and jealous Guardians they feel like they could pick on you and bull you because they see that as well. You'Re a child, I could pick on you and bully you all. I want because I know I can get away with it and I know I could hide behind the fact that I'm the authoritarian figure and if you try to respond to it and talk back to me and say some slick, [ __ ] to me now, I'm Gon na make it even worse and now I have a valid reason to mistreat you and abuse you, because you know you pissed me off. You responded to me. You responded to me being toxic. So now I'm gon na pick on you and bully you like. I did all those girls when I was in high school or, like all those girls did me because you know you're wanting you're one-upping me. You know your mere existence is making me insecure, so you have to suffer from making me insecure. It'S the same thing where I always hear the horror story of the the the the lighter skin mom, picking on her darker skin daughters or the darker skinned mom praising her darker skin daughters, but then ostracizing her lighter skin daughter because she thinks her lighter skin daughter. Already has an ego like you hear it all the time I've heard so many horror stories of so many women who are light-skinned or dark skinned and because they're almost dark skinned. Their mom was insecure. Their mom uplifted her dark-skinned daughters, but then shited on, like the two other little light-skinned girls and made them feel down and insecure, because when she, when the mom was younger, all the light-skinned girls picked on her and made fun of her made. Her feel like she wasn't enough and she wasn't valid enough so now she secretly resents her light-skinned daughters, because she's bitter and jealous of them. You know it's an ongoing cycle and just how generational curses start. So you really got to understand. So we really got ta. Have these conversations and it's crazy because some parents will watch this and they'll, take it personal and they'll say: well, I'm not just my daughter! Well, you don't understand that. Sometimes it's hard being a parent. I get that it's hard being a parent, but when, when when, when, when, when [ __ ] grow the [ __ ] up, I want a lot of young women, especially young men, watching this. If you ever get this weird gut feeling that your dad or your mom is doing something that just seems a little bit too personal and doesn't seem like parenting, take a good look at them and think to yourself. Wait is my mom jealous of me or is my father jealous of me. You know. Sometimes your mom might be jealous of you, because you're interested in your passion, you're interested in arts and crafts and other things that you're passionate about and she's always [ __ ]. On it and completely like acting like it's nothing and it's irrelevant and then in the same breath, pay attention to if you're bitter, jealous or not some nice parent dismisses your passion and directs you to do something that they think that they would like. For example, Apple. You talk about how you have you know a great idea for an invention and they turn it into a no that's dumb. That'S stupid! You should be a doctor. You should do this instead, like they try to guide you because deep down the side, they want something that they themselves can brag about, so they feel like, since they let go of their passions and their hopes and their dreams. You should too, and do something that'll make them happy make them feel fulfilled. Overall. This mother is disgusting as [ __ ] right, along with all the other mothers I mentioned in this video right, along with all the other parents. I mentioned this video and I want everyone watching this to simply just be able to reflect and see where I'm coming from, and just realize that your parents should want you to be better than them. Your parents should want to give you guidance and, if you feel like you, can't tell your parents about good accomplishments coming your way or great things happening in your life, or they always got something negative to say and they're, never ever supportive or they never show love Deep bound inside look at your parents. Look at your mom look at your dad and think to yourself. Do I want to end up just like them, so I hope everyone's able to see where I'm coming from and also self-reflect off of this and see how the situation overall is just a mirror of the [ __ ] that a lot of us go through. Keep your thoughts and peace in the comment section down below and yeah. That'S that twist out this [ __ ]. This is dedicated to all the fat ass people that actually lost the weight. Here we go up, I'm on the way, y'all, you think I'll leave your side baby. You know me better than that think I'm even down I'd even do that I'll tell you you're right where you are and if only you can see into me, oh when you're cold! Oh, why your side to me, oh, when you're cold I'll, be there! Oh, when you're on the outside baby, you can't get in, I will show you you're so much better than you called. I can't get back again. I will find you darling and I won't be you home and if you want to cry, I am here to dry. Your eyes, oh I'll, be there foreign uh when you come I'll, be there