Chit Chat Grwm For Brunch | Hair (Arabella Hair) + Outfit | Living The Soft Girl Life???

Hey girl, hey welcome back to your girl channel. My name is mo. If you are new, i miss y'all. Okay, i've really missed you guys and after filming this video, i literally feel so much better. I got up got ready. Did my hair haven't done my hair? So long like picked out a really really nice outfit, i smell good. You know this just really really made me feel so much better. So i'm filming this get ready with me and just because i am going to brunch with my mommy and i haven't been outside in a minute either. So this was just the perfect time me and my mom are besties and we love to eat the same thing. Actually, we love to eat period, so you know this was just a perfect time to film something to get ready and just feel cute. I know it's been a while, but i will kind of explain throughout this video what's been going on in my life kind of like how i've been feeling a little bit and just a little bit of different topics that i have been seeing on social media that I just feel like it needed to be addressed or just to rant about girls. This video is sponsored by arabella hair. So, thank you guys so much for sponsoring today's video, you guys are going to see this beautiful hair install like i'm telling you guys. I'M obsessed literally upset okay. So if you guys want to see this full get ready with me, then make sure you guys keep on watching what's up y'all so as y'all can tell by the title and that's the beginning of this video, i'm gon na be doing a get ready with me For a brunch i have literally been inside since summer. Actually, since spring and summer i started, i haven't, went anywhere or really done anything. I'Ve kind of just been going on solo dates, but whatever we'll kind of get into that as we get ready. So first i'm going to be starting off with my hair, i'm going to be using arabella hair. I have four bundles 224 and 222 inches and i'm gon na be doing a curly ponytail. I have not done well an extended curly ponytail. I'Ve not done one of these in so long, and i wanted to show y'all the hair before i actually, if i can get it out before, i actually install it. So this is what the bundles look like. I'M excited, i'm probably only going to be using 124 and 122 inch because it is gon na be pretty long. Like my hair, i think my hair is like past the middle of my back now, but i want a long, ponytail. Okay, we'll go. Do some sideburns to make it look real cute? I have been trying so hard to get my life together and social media. Just ain't been helping. You really really really really really do have to be a super strong person to get on here and act fake, but it designed me honey. It is not me, so i've really just been mentally getting myself together. People trying i feel like as not even as a 20 year old, but just in these these times, you know i feel, like it's been really rough for a lot of people, not just me and who wants to get on social media and just listen to all Of the the sad stories and the rants and yes i do know, people go through things and social media loves to hear like the transparency and the real life stuff, but ain't nobody got time to be listening to that people go sometimes well me. I go to social media for an escape from the world, so i don't want to get on social media and hear people going through things most of the time you know. So that's what i decided to do was take me, like a mini, mini, mini, mini break and just kind of get organized. Mostly you guys know from my last little vlog that i have moved out and i have like a different scenery. I moved to my mom's house and stuff like that, so i've just been trying to get like a routine, and you know a change of things is not always easy for me. So that's kind of what i've been doing, but i just have to say that i am here for everyone. If y'all have you know any rants or events, y'all can follow me on instagram and we can talk about a girl. We can definitely talk about it. I know sometimes talking to a stranger someone, you don't know, always helps and i'll be real. Child okay be real real, but i did have. I don't know if i have time to talk about a few things, but i have one topic that i really really want to talk about, so i have been seeing on social media like since i've been absent from posting like i've been tick-tock a lot. I'Ve been on instagram and all that stuff like that and there's this thing going around with a living. The soft girl, life, okay and i feel like you - can live that life. Yes, if you are put in a situation too and hear me out y'all, i want to hear y'all's opinions too and uh in the comments, but i feel like you cannot live the soft girl life if you are not in a situation too, i was talking to My mom the other day, while she was at work and mind you, don't mind the noise in the background y'all. It'S my dogs but mind you. She does not get on social media. Lady! Don'T get on social media okay, so we were sitting there talking about like how you know, as she has gotten older, she has realized like just kind of letting loose and living that soft girl life. She didn't technically use that time, but she did say a soft. You know soft like not so dominant or you know aggressive or whatever and i'm like. Okay, is this a sign or something because she does not? She don't be on social media, so i even know about the south girl life. You know so she was just saying you know, like she's, been in relationships where she has been like super aggressive to where she has had to basically wear pants in the relationship, and that tends to make me very aggressive or dominant of me being that person, like You know i grew up being very independent. My mom was very independent um. She worked for what she wanted, literally at work around the house. Whatever it is, she needed she got done and at the time she wanted to get it done so growing up and just seeing you know how she talked, how she moved a certain way like it literally picked up on me now. Y'All, probably don't know that side of me, like i'm, very sweet, yes, but i am very, very, very, very aggressive, and that is only because you know kind of how i grew up what i've seen. I mean social media kind of plays apart and i just feel like you cannot live that self girl life if you are not in a situation too. So if you are dating someone, for example, talking whatever and you are having to be the one that wears the pants in that relationship, how are you able to be a soft girl, okay, you're, the one that's paying all the bills, you're, the one. That'S doing all of the manly duties um and the list kind of goes on like how can you live that software life? Yes, if you are not in a relationship i feel like. Maybe you can, but i think the whole point of living this all girl life is when you're in a relationship with someone and you're, not so aggressive. Now y'all can tell me if i'm wrong or not, but i just feel like that, is technically what the term of south girl life is and i'm gon na. Just to be honest, if there is no man in my life to change my mind on that and then my aggression correctly, my aggressive side is always going to be there. I mean it is what it is like if i have to be the one that is literally taking my trash out on my own every time i'm going to be aggressive, like i am a man at this point like what are you here for you know what I'M saying so i just really want to know y'all's opinion on that, because it kind of bothers me when i see girls well not bothers me, but i question it when i see it on social media, like don't be a dog, you know i've twisted my ponytail And i'm gon na go ahead and start wrapping the hair around i'm not a professional, but this is how i do it. I basically just mold my hair down, put it in a ponytail and then um, i twist it into my hair. Now, the last time i did this, i think my hair was maybe up to here. So i'm probably not going to add the hair all the way down here, because if i do girl, no so i'll, probably i'll probably end up doing it like maybe halfway. So what i like to do is, if you guys are really do you think you've seen all of my extended ponytail videos that i did back in the day, but i have a rubber band here. I'M going to add it to the piece that is like the wefts are open, see that okay and then i just wrap it around we're going to do it. Maybe like three or four times you look cute yeah, so you wouldn't know black. I figured i'd. Get a little cute, i'm gon na try to do like a side part and check my ponytail out so try to do it. Come on hello out for a little brunch, i know mimosas. She got on black and white and i'm gon na wear black. I played that one. I have the rubber band wrapped around the hair and my hair is like super thick, so i probably won't get too many wraps uh. Let'S see, i think we got like two okay. I do not add any bobby pins in my hair. At all, because nobody has time for that literally at all this hair, i am really really really really really liking. I kind of want to do in to get up to the top. You want to add that bobby pin at the piece that is connected to the whole track. Okay, so you know how it's like split in half y'all know what i'm saying like. I can't explain anything right, but basically that's the whole reason that at the end, you want to add the piece that has the two wefts together and this one you're just going to stick a bobby pin in and there you go. This is not coming out. The girls are so pretty. They look like wand, curls, okay, i'm gon na have to redo my sideburns too, so that they look cuter, but i'm gon na go ahead and grab another bundle. So now i'm gon na bobby pin the piece that is together not the side that is separated, okay and we're basically gon na put it in where that piece is right there and then we're just going to get to wrapping around all right. So that is the ponytail. It is very natural and super cute. My real hair could never. Okay could never honey and i'm just kind of like lightly combing out the curls, i'm not trying to do too much, because i don't want to be frizzy. This is going to be the outfit. This is actually from sheen, so the pants and the top obviously comes as a set. I think i grabbed this one. An extra small and i'll make sure i link it down below for y'all. This bralette is from boohoo. This is actually, i think, like a undershirt type of bralette, but i'm wearing it as a crop top just because this is super high, and then i have these little sandals from sheen. I think i've showed you guys these before, as well like the whole. Outfit is from shane: it's really really cute. It'S a really cute bag. This one's also from shannon - and i feel like it just like this - is kind of what sets the whole outfit off. So i don't know. If i should talk see, i need to get a full body mirror in here y'all should i do both. I think definitely, maybe just one we'll see how that looks, how i'm feeling okay bam and then this hair bracelet is also from sheen, and i have these little rings as well that i'm going to put on and you'll be asleep on shannon i've already told y'all That, if you don't like them, i'm sorry but the outfit is giving really really simple and then i'm going to take this scarf off. I think my hair has like dried enough see. Oh my gosh cute she's cute okay. This makes me feel really good. Today, okay and then i have these shades um. These are also, probably, i think, from sheen or a pretty little thing, not pretty little thing um princess, probably, but i feel like they're from sheen as well. I can't put my name on it, but i'll figure it out for y'all there's just some simple sunny. So i put those i've literally been going on these solo dates by myself and have been looking dusty, i'm going after work or i'll just get out of bed from sweats and a shirt and go so yeah. But i'm using the karolina herrera perfume and i feel like this is perfect for brunch it's kind of like i don't want to say flowery, but it's like going outside during the day type of spring. I don't know, i don't want a lot, because i want you to smell me when i walk in the dough. Okay - and i don't have much to put in here - but wallet keys, lip gloss, and then i think that this is the look. We'Re gon na go vacation. Lookie, look, i feel really really cute. I haven't felt this cute in so long, but i hope you guys enjoyed this video. The link to this hair will be in the description box for sure, like i am obsessed, i really think i'm going to do a full sew in with all those bundles. Just because i really love the wand, curl curls, you know if you guys would like to see more, get ready with me like this. I feel like i'm getting a little bit better with opening up to you guys and just talking about things, because why not? It'S life. I do want to say thank you guys so much for still riding with me watching my videos. I know it's been a little bit rocky this year, but i promise you. The girl is going to get back to normal and start filming a little bit better. I don't know why i still have these on, but i really really do appreciate you guys so much like so so much honestly. It makes me feel so much better when i get on here, and you guys are communicating with me, don't forget to leave in the comments like how you feel about my topics. Let me know what you think, how you react, or whatever whatever, but i will see you guys in my next video, don't forget to come back every sundays and that is when i'll be uploading. I'Ll also be uploading. Some photos on instagram of this little look because you guys feeling herself so go ahead and check that out and i'll see you guys.