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I promise you never uh today we're going to be doing a week review. Okay, i hope everything is okay with you soon hi guys and welcome back. This is about what time is it time? Is it it's about one in the morning? That'S a real class dedication. Baby, i ask you guys, you know to send me in some questions for this video and i love when you do that, because you you really bounce me off like i'm like i love these topics, i need to talk about them. Lots of stuff is happening in the world right now. It'S just can't even put into words. I can't put into words, but we'll go through that today in this video as well. This video is sponsored. Let me get my backs doula hair. They have sent me some fabulous, fabulous, uh coily, i will show you now and you're gon na feel so excited the way i'm excited. Okay, i'm set. Let me show you the works, the julia wigs, we're going to be reviewing these today. I got them to send me a very bouncy coily that we're going to install today. I will leave all the um details in the description bar below for you to purchase, but yes, i will review these and then, as i'm talking, i'm going to answer some of your questions on instagram um. There'S a lot of stuff going on in the world. So hopefully i can try and address that towards the end, so i know every day sadness. Okay, some days, let's just pretend like the world is not falling apart. Let'S pretend like the world is not falling apart. I mean bonkers forbid, but something could come. I'M scared for my life, but you know what, let's just let's just ease into it nicely without touching it just yet. So for those of you that don't know me, i go by the name of grace. Laurie i've been on here a long time. I mean some people, don't know that yeah i make justin video. You know gangster video, love, video advice, video, you know, i'm just i'm just a bundle of joy, i'm a bundle of joy. You know that new baby that you get it's a bouncing baby boy. I'M a bouncing baby grace: okay, big g, mama, okay, so we're gon na be reviewing this wig today, um hd closure i'll show you there very very the wait. Do you know how i've noticed how you can tell the difference between hd is hd see the way. The the top is like jaggedy rigidity, and it comes like that. That'S when you know that it's hd, it's really nice, really clear! Then it has. You know the clips the band everything on inside, so i'm gon na go ahead and put her on because she's been asking for it, she's been gagging. So let's have a look. What this looks like i'm finished, i have to obviously janice acquired this babe because she has to step down a bit. She has potential, don't judge it. Don'T judge her. Okay, so don't be rude. She has been she's got potential. Okay. So then there don't dare her she's she's just taking time to warm up to you, so what i'm gon na do. First, i think let me bring my mirror on so that i don't make a mistake: oh you're, so cute what i would tend to do. I don't know where my clips are so we're gon na have to improvise, because i and then we'll get into this, so i'm gon na just cut away these lays so there's you know when i glue it down. There'S gon na be no problem. I'M really loving! These wigs at the moment, yeah um, these closure wigs i've got. I just said a jet black blonde jumbo, a jet black one, that i've really been feeling and um by the way before you do anything and before you do anything so hastily and before you start getting on all my wig review tips. Yeah make sure you subscribe. Don'T go anywhere, you don't be a buffoon, my social media, i'm on instagram or on you know, facebook be hitting off the older uncles. Love me see how i'm going to transform this week you're looking at it now. You'Re scared, don't be scared, boo, don't be scared. Don'T be scared, okay, so we spray her down. Then i'm gon na just wait for her to like cool off. This looks so weird. I look so good. Okay, so let's keep it soft. Let'S keep it soft to do to start with the man. Where do men lie? I don't know my sister, i don't know, i don't know what was wearing them. You know the advice i would give to every man. That'S listening to this, who so happens to hear this is easier for you to tell the truth. I'M telling you it's so much more easier, you'll, be surprised how many women will still be with you, knowing the truth, but you're so slow, you're, not getting it. You don't even need to bother yourself. Oh need lucky, but bother to start hiding and start romancing. The truth just blow it out, what's the worst that can happen, i'm not gon na. Can i beat you. Can i kill you? No, it's better off for the world when people start to tell the truth out of their lips. If i was a girl just be like yeah, i did that yeah. What what like i can talk about that subject for you every day like. When will you rest, i blended really well. Actually, after i had cut the lace off, so i think i spoke too soon. I definitely feel like you know the way. Sometimes you what you have to wipe your makeup off and stuff um to put down the glue. I feel like that, helped a lot because it's exactly my skin tone. Look. It'S really seamless, definitely gon na use because it's got because this is a five by five. It'S got this on the side um, you can't probably see over there, but i can see it and if i can see that means the world can see it. So you have to close it. You have to close it. Okay, you have to close it because bruh, you, girls, be brazy fam um, not saying that i haven't had like crazy days, but majority of the time i'm actually late period that down a bit. This is so cute already. Don'T don't, dare me, okay, it's gon na start, crazy. Looking, but honestly, where it's heaven. Where is heaven? Where is heaven i'm going to surprise you baby? The blending of this hg is is to my what day, bye crc grace is coming out boy. I don't know who that girl was when i started putting when i put the camera on, but i don't know who she was. This is the real me get to know what are the two things you hate about social media? Oh my days, oh my days. Okay, so i've got to out honestly i can list. I can list a lot one of the things i hate the most is that we're now in a time year, where, like everybody, is so thirsty for cloud like the level of first these days is on this all-time high thing is on the all-time high people are So gagging yeah every day, there's a podcast and there's a podcaster there's a podcast here and um. They don't mind how people are perceived or how they look, they're looked at or whatever, because everyone's so desperate for views. I went onto this recent podcast, so most of you have seen it they try to make out that. I said that all guys in the uk are trash and they don't make sense. You know there's a lot of truth to it, which i'll never take back, but i never actually said the words that all uk guys are trash. The conversation was about, um was about cheating and nobody would address that. Obviously we're talking about guys and as a guy's platform - and you know, men in the uk, they love the moment. A black girl has something to say in the uk. They cannot wait to call her a dirty [ __ ], a black [ __ ], a 0 out of 10 ugly [ __ ] this and that they can't wait for it. They'Re gagging for it they're gagging to make sure that you feel so low and i'm just like for me. If i brought someone on my show yeah, i knew what the conversation was about. I wouldn't put out there that this person tried to say something else because of views, but that's just me and my morals, even though i don't even know like i said to myself. I wouldn't address it, but that's definitely one of the things like two, but that's the first time. I'Ve ever seen people so like thirsty for clout, whether they don't mind like blurring the truth. In order to make like get themselves. Views like, like i said most uk guys, i've seen a video of mine. They see that their girls watch me or whatever they don't generally like me, and it's like i'm cool with that, because it's not your type, i'm looking for in the first place i was talking about in the video, was about cheating, i'm 30 years old and i've Dated guys in the uk why on earth would i want to bring down the men that i live with or that i have you know a certain culture with? What do i stand to gain, instead of them to listen and adhere to what the women black women or women within the uk have to say they would rather bash them and rather call them dirty [, __ ] from the appian court, i've been called sam. Would you i'm your jackson, mother, [, __, ], [, __ ]? Did this look like you're zero out of ten blah blah blah you're ugly, [ __ ]? Okay, thank you. What do you want? Okay? So then? What now? What do you want to do to me? Like what like, why are you so angry? It'S different. If you actually said it, it's cool, that's not what i said, but they were happy to make it out like. I said something that i didn't say just because everybody's nowadays is thirsty for views. What'S the point, people are gon na think what they're gon na think people are gon na assume what they wan na assume and let them whether you think i'm this i'm a dragon. I'M this i'm a dirty [, __ ] like that: okay, okay, that's fine! But he's so hungry, hungry and thirsty for views like it's embarrassing mad as well, because i know that's a man's platform, but it was also so astonishing to me how many men disregarded the fact that you know the same guy is telling me like it's condoning cheating, But that's okay! If a woman tells me that she that that she's been cheating on i'm going to cheat on her again already you're, exactly the type of person i'm talking about men love an opportunity where that black women are being crushed and crucified, they love it. They got for it all the love you see online. A lot of it is fake. They want you to slip up, so they have something to say, but you see what i've been on this social media a long time after a while, it's like. Do i really give a damn? No, you! Don'T! After a while, you get to your normal life, nobody gives a heck. It goes after a day, so i've learned to not care. I'Ve learned to not i've learned to not give a damn your entire life. It'S just instagram always remember that, like i know we're in we're in a time here where instagram - and that is just like like i want you guys to know. Instagram is an app that's been made, but it's brainwashed people, because people literally rely on those likes and which people would focus more on their mental health allowing strangers to dictate. You know you're going on social media and making people dictate your happiness like. I really really try to stay off it as much like, because i think people really take it too far, all just people trying to survive. You know so when i see people going hard that hey i'm just like this girl is just out here, trying to make a living for herself like she's, just trying to live her life like. Why do you hate her so bad? That'S how i feel some the same ways or when people try to like comfort me and stuff, and i'm like i don't understand, is it that i've seen you before in my life like. Why are you so angry? You know, if you don't like something, i'm doing you don't have to follow me. You don't have to talk to me like i might not be everyone's flavor. You don't have to be here. Why are you here? They um? There was a day when my friends was like check if this girl is following you, because she's talking so much [, __ ] on this blog about you and they went to check and all the girls they were following me and i was just speechless. In fact, i think that was the most hurtful thing i genuinely felt like people followed people that follows me always showed me love, so it made me understand that there are people out there that, even though they follow you, they they don't necessarily like you. They follow me just because they want to see gist about my life like and that's a majority of people like never forget that. There'S a lot of people that just follow you just for updates to see to see what you're doing, just so that they can know. You'Re just like just to see, but i try like i said i really try not to get too involved. Okay, so we're gon na go to the next question. Getting back to work with your baby. Oh jesus christ. Getting back to work with zarai has been very interesting and he's he's 21 months at the moment, so he's almost turning two so he's, i'm i'm starting to see the troublesome twos like opening up the cupboard and stuff but, like i don't have time to think about. Like you know, you guys know i'm i'm parenting alone so like for me. I don't have time to like contemplate or to like waste time or think or be sad like if i don't do the rise, not moving, so i have to make it happen, no matter how i do it, i just have to make it happen and think about It later would i want to cry later i wan na learn later when i just make it happen, don't think about it, just just do it and keep it moving very, very, very, like sensitive like you know, he loves mommy's vibes like he just if i'm doing Something and it's not about him i'll spot him so much. My son is like a dream. Come true, could never ever have imagined my son, being my son mom. I meant like what like when i'm in mommy mode. I don't think about all this stuff, like i don't think about filming or whatever, like i am generally in mummy made, because my son will not allow me to do anything else. If filming he was here, he would be trying to get my attention he's an attention. Second, he wants to. He wants me to be everywhere with him would have loved him to come earlier, because he is a vibe like one day i'll bring him on here, because he's never really been on here and someone actually said to me: i've never seen your son moving. I want to see him moving. I have to film at night. If he was about. If he was around when i filmed, then you guys would see him but like because i do this at night. I have to do at night when he's not around me, because i can't film, if he's here, philly, we will be able to film together one day, because i would love for you to just see a glimpse of my son's personality. He'S literally me, people smile like just fun. Goofy behavior, like i live for it. How men desire well put together women only to boost your ego, listen one of the biggest tips. I will tell you in your life as females tips. I'Ve learned god, your life, god, your life, when i tell you, men, are on the prowl, a single girl. You have your job, you have everything popping everything. Life is good, like you're in your prime time yeah, that's when the devil will come in the form of an animal and a lot of people they like to use women who are doing well to balance because their life is not making sense. So they need you to balance, say some guys yeah that you feel like. Oh, the baby wants to be. He wants to be around me. I love him so much he's so cute and they're, just using you for your house, because they don't have anywhere to go. Please keep that in mind. Please keep that in mind. Don'T ever forget that some guys, they don't have anything so they want to use you and all the things you have gathered in your life to be a useful girl. They want to now come in and they want to come and use you and use all your blessing because they don't have [ __ ]. So, instead of you to just be bringing these stray rats, because some of them are definitely definitely definitely rats need to bring straight rats into your house, assess your situation, go and find out where's your house, because you have some girls, oh come on moving. We don't be in a haste. Baby girl don't be in a haste find out where the guy is coming from. Don'T move too fast, i'm telling you don't let your eye be blurred because of you know, i'm in love. Oh my god. He showed me like two things out of the 10 things he's supposed to do. Don'T be a fool pick you just because you're making sense just because you're bouncy, just because your life is, is glorious. They can see that they can see that so all the stuff you are doing it will just be coming down and down and down and down and down when you're supposed to use your both your forces are supposed to rise up. It'S only you rising it up before you know it. Your pocket is empty because you're too busy looking after somebody else's son. That'S not your business. If you have time for that lovely don't take, it don't take my advice, but if you have my time today, listen sister, i got your back. I'M no lie to you. These people are animal. They just look for you to bounce off to clench to so that they can see their life down to the ground. So that's all from me, i'm going to give you my soup. If you don't want to take it, don't take it if you want to take it, god be with you. I'Ve got your back a lot of guys. I'M not gon na lie yet a lot of guys yeah. They don't even really like you like that. I'M not gon na lie to you a lot of guys that are in relationships who have the audacity to cheat. They never really liked you like that. It makes me believe that people are in relationships and they don't want to be there. If you want to go out there and bring out your penis everywhere go and do that [, __ ] there's been a lot of friendship that people have done me wrong and i found it difficult to leave those friendships alone, but this was like when i was Younger now i have the best friends on earth. Like i've really simplified, my friends and the friends i have right now, honestly, i love them to death. Like my holiday friends, i have like, i have a very good balance of you. You know you don't all have to be in the same. You know circle like you, don't all have to be blending together. You don't have to be doing the same things like you know. I respect my friends, friendships as well as my friends. They respect mine as well. Not everybody needs to mix, so i don't have anyone in my circle that's jealous, like there's. God forbid that i didn't really gain those friendships like from when i was in school or college, and then something happened in my friendship group. Where that, like someone hurt me, and then i decided that i no longer wanted to be friends with that person, but that was the turning point for me because that's when my whole brand changed and i had to be on my own and where i was on My own is where i met all of my friends within the industry. Everything is a downwards. No, don't take everything, that's pure at the time. It'S painful. You know, especially the friendship, friendship, friendship pain is mad. Friendship pain, yeah is deteriorating like, but you just have to pick yourself up there body image in your 20s negative comments from your family and body, and your body on your body and pregnancy body changes, okay, so pregnancy body changes for me has been very interesting because If i'm going to answer truthfully, i never expected my body to change much and it didn't, but like nobody prepares you for when you lose weight on this, i'm the perky breast minister and when i lost the weight like it, it was crazy. It was. It was so crazy, the way they check and it wasn't to say that they changed badly. I just feel like like the way that the the the this because look, you can even see it now. The way the skin changed was a very big eye. Opener. I never expected that honestly, i'm not gon na lie all this stuff like it's not bothering me, that's the funny thing. It'S not, and i don't know whether it's because i'm not in a relationship or anything, but i don't imagine this to be a bothering to any man. I don't i don't. I don't see it being about like men, they don't have. I'M not gon na lie like they're, not like i used to say when i was younger. The guy is gon na pick. It no matter the shape size, but i've like i don't think they have standards like that. If i want to do like something i might but like it's not to the point where i'm like - oh my god and it's ah, i need to change my belly. I need to change my breath. Pregnancy, i don't know body, but your your um negative comments. I heard anything negative about my body people just like what is there to say, fam, there's a lot of sensible people who don't want to get blocked on my instagram, which is why everybody's on their best behavior, well i'll block you i'll block you and block your Ass and block your life and that's really on period like i'm unblocking every person like instagram, don't move me that seriously like i just want to come on there post. My little, you know give my little advice and mind my business like in this life. You go to mind your business and this hair goodbye get back now, this hair women who voice their opinion, women, who have something to say women who are not going to stand up for rubbish women who have their own backbone, we're now manly. Let me be a man and i feel like everything afterwards about how i've dealt with my situation. I'M doing i do things a little bit more masculinely in terms of like my emotions, like i'm not about to sit here, begging. Anyone like i'll tell you that for fun i mean i'm a queen, i'm not gon na be out here, begging you and i'm not gon na, be out here crying and i'm not gon na be out here miserable and i'm not gon na be out here. Sad and i'm not gon na be out here gloomy, i'm just i'm just not gon na do it and i think women tend to do that, which is why they expect it, which is why they expect you to be that way when you're, not that way. You'Re, a man, okay, that's fine! I'Ll! Take the man claim me. I it's fine, so i feel like women. They'Re scared to be alone, they're scared to be on their own they're scared to go outside and hear some in my situation as well. Like you know, you have this stuff like stuff going on, you know. You'Ve got a partner, you have a baby, it's hard for someone to come out like and be like, i'm single, but who cares like who actually cares? You'Re not going to allow strangers to dictate what you do with your life. Are you insane? I will leave you so fast. I'M furious, like i, don't know why women do it, but i hope that at some point women, like just you know you can't you can't just sit in rubbish. I'M like it's long. Why don't you just want to enjoy like enjoyment is the best way to go. Like why? Because i want to say face that what i'm in a relationship, people maintaining an image um of a good relationship - and it's not good - i mean it's just a lot to me ready it's like the same people, you're lying to you, you're gon na, have to address It at some point, if you ain't together so are really out here enjoying their life. I'M not gon na talk about me now because if i talk about me, people say oh she's, just pretending whatever. But, let's just say, people are really out here enjoying their lives. Like, rather than sitting down in sorrow sitting down in sadness, sitting down in gloominess sitting down in eggshell for words for what why do you want to sit there? There'S so much enjoyment to be had and this life is so short, you can see everything that's going on in ukraine, everything that's going on in the world, people dying people losing their lives. You want to spend the rest of your life in unhappiness for what you couldn't pay me enough and going back to that comment about. Why do we may forgive me, like? I don't understand why you want to forget the boy wants to bring his penis everywhere. You want to drag your penis all through the uk, all through america. You want to brag your penis everywhere and i'm supposed to sorry go to hellfire and smoke. Me