He Guilt Trips Me Into Sleeping With Him, Is Showing Cleavage A Sin?, What Would Amina Do? | Ccgrwm

There must be one man that can be on the same page as you, hey guys, what's popping what's cracking liking, hope you guys are good. Welcome back to my channel hi. If you are new, my name is amina. Welcome. Welcome! Welcome! It'S been a minute since i've done a sit down, chitchatting video, because i've just been doing so. Many travel vlogs and i never explained it. Okay, 2022 has really been a year of catch flights and i'm just like girl what is going on, but um, i'm not complaining. I actually had travel more on my um vision board, but i wasn't expecting it to be like this. Do you know what i mean so yeah, i'm just like girl i'll be catching flights. I know that saying of catch flights, not feelings. I know some people like to say catch flights and feelings, i'm doing the catching flights part. But where is the catching feelings point? When'S that gon na kick in okay, somebody, let me know god when i asked you guys on my instagram, to send me any questions you might have or if you have a dilemma, you want to know what would amina do or if you need advice whatever the Case may be so that i can respond to them into this video if you're not following me on instagram and make sure you do so. You can take part in videos like this. So in today's little sit-down chit chat, video, i'm gon na be doing my hair. While i answer your questions and give you my opinions, as you can see, i've got myself a new wig, i'm actually going away again literally tomorrow with esther and a swimwear brand called paper london we're off to corfu. I believe kofu in greece. I kind of just wanted to switch up my hair before this trip. I really wanted to do like a curly vibe a longer curly vibe, so yeah i've got this wig from ally, pearl hair. It came with all of these goodies in here this i actually need, because the one i have is so dusty and crusty ali powell hair. If any of my subscribers get this this wig here, i need you to fill up their box like this as well. Okay fill up their box like this, give them all of these goodies as well. Okay, thank you. Thank you very much. I'Ve actually had hair from ali power hair before and i do like their hair. This one is a hd lace, so i'm reading it off the bag. So i don't forget anything: hd lace, 26 inches. It comes up really really long. Like literally past my waist to my bum, that's how long it comes down to the density is 200 percent. I feel like i could have done a 180 because it's really really thick like she is thick honey. I did wash it so that's why it looks extra poofy by the time i put product and everything else in it. It should. You know tame down a bit. If you wanted to rock it like this, you could, if you want that big hair, don't care kind of vibe, then you can definitely rock this as a look as it is. This is what the lace is giving okay. I need to do my sideburns here. My side edges, i've done these ones. I actually bleached the lace myself. It actually bleached really really quickly. I feel like i might have left the bleach on for a little bit too long, because i didn't realize that it was gon na take to the bleach so quickly. I didn't need to pluck the lace or anything that literally. This is how the lace came, and i also tinted the lace with a lace tinting spray which i'll put in the description box. The details of this hair will also be in the description box, the link and everything else. Honestly, this wig was really really quick and easy to just fling on and also with it being a hd lace. It does melt into your scalp really really well. Also, i want to show you guys what i use to lay my wigs. I do get that question. Sometimes when i lay my wig, the first thing i do is i apply. This got to be gel on the perimeter of where i'm gon na lay the lace frontal, let that dry a little bit and then i go in with my bed head hold spray. This is basically the equivalent to the yellow got to be spray, but i don't use the yellow got to be spraying. Well, i've not used it for ages because i just feel like this. One is better: the yellow got to be spray. I think there's a chemical inside it that actually irritates my skin once tick top put me on to this one i made that switch, and i ain't going back. Okay, this one does the job it holds. Well, you guys see me going to the gym with my wig on and everything it holds. Okay after i've applied this then i go in and i spray this on top and then i let this dry a little bit before. I then apply my lace frontal. So i have a barrier between my skin, this glue, the spray and then the lace, and obviously, if you have a good wig with a good lace, it's gon na lay okay and it's gon na stay there. Okay, so while i style my hair, let's get into these questions that you guys have sent me on instagram, this person says, is wearing cleavage, a sin, go what uh i've not read anywhere in the bible that i've been reading for very very long time. I'Ve not read anywhere in the bible where it says cleavage is a sin and also the fact that the person said is wearing cleavage. A sin you can't wear cleavage cleavage is something that just naturally happens when you have breasts. Do you know what i mean like if you have breasts you're gon na have cleavage whether you like it or not, whether you want to wear it or not? Wear it. It'S going to be there like, when you have breasts you're going to have cleavage. It'S just a natural thing that occurs when you put a bra on and you have boobs. I don't think that god will say: oh you're committing a sin because of the natural thing that happens when you put a bra on i'm gon na. Do my sideburn edges, because i haven't done that yet i've just put some mousse to kind of like just wet it a little bit and then i'm just gon na cut it a little bit well, i need to cut this whole piece off before i slick it Down so yeah cleavage is definitely not a sin um. I don't know whether this person is trying to imply that showing cleavage is a sin or they're asking if showing cleavage is a sin and again no like. Why would showing your cleavage be a sin like what is the issue? Why would that even be a sin? Your cleavage, showing is not a sin, god's not going to send you to hell, because your cleavage is showing and if it's a thing where you don't want to sexualize yourself or you don't want to come across sexual by showing your cleavage. I think that that's more down to how other people might receive seeing your cleavage, i think it's more so about them than you, because there are muslim women who are covered from head to toe and you can't even see any of their skin and they are still Sexualized they're literally still sexualized something being sexualized or you being sexualized. A lot of the times is literally down to the person that is sexualizing you and not. You yourself, the top i'm wearing right now, i'm wearing a bra and my cleavage is showing, but i'm not necessarily saying oh yeah come and have sex with me, because my cleavage is showing i'm literally just wearing a top and a bra, and i have breasts like What do you want me to do? Should i be wearing turtleneck every day, even in the summer, i should be wearing turtleneck bring my my my clothes all the way up to here every day, every day every day, just because someone else doesn't know how to control themselves doesn't know how to behave when They see cleavage like have you not seen woman before, like that's, not my business, i'm wearing my top jedi with my bra, i'm just putting on clothes and going about my day minding my business. So if you happen to look at my chest area and see my cleavage, what you decide to do that information is literally on you not me. Do you know what i mean, so why would it? Why is there a sin for me? That'S just wearing clothes and going about my day and minding my business. Why is that supposed to be a sin for me when it's the other person, that's actually taking my cleavage out of the context that it's in and creating a whole sexual thing about it when that was not ever my intention in any way, shape or form so Yeah, i think, there's just there's this misconception that you know women are the ones that have to hold all of the responsibility when it comes to. You know lust and men lusting after you, and not we're not really dealing with the fact that it's down to a man to be able to understand how to control himself and have self-control and how to not give in to lust or not create lustful thoughts. In his own mind, because you can be covered from head to toe and a man is still going to lust after you, so it's like what is my own. Do i keep switching between these two brushes, i'm just picking up whatever my hand, goes to okay. Next one: will you go on holiday with natanya anytime, soon, really, love your holiday vlogs. Ah, thank you, i'm so glad that you guys are enjoying my holiday vlogs. I really wasn't planning to be doing so much holiday, vlog content this year, but, as i said you know this year has really been a year of catch flight so far, but yeah i definitely will be doing a holiday with natanya. You guys probably already know. Natanya is currently doing her a levels so she's not in a position to be going on holiday or doing anything like that, because obviously she has exams at school, but definitely after her exams are over. I am planning for us to go on a holiday together. I have my friend's wedding in greece, so i'll be going back to greece again in july, and natan is coming to that. She'S also got a holiday booked with her dad as well, and then we'll probably try and do another holiday before she starts university in september. I'M honestly still trying to mentally and emotionally prepare myself for this whole transition of natalia going off to university, but girl sideburn, edges complete. I don't know if i want to like keep the hair like just free like this or if i should do a parting somewhere. I don't know if i should do a middle parting or a side party could do a middle parting, or do i want to do a side parting? I don't know side or middle guys, which one should i do okay. So this is what the middle part in will kind of look like. Let'S see what the side part looks like i'm, lowkey, leaning towards doing a side, you know what i think. I think i might do a side parting. How was traveling solo and would you recommend it definitely recommend traveling solo? If you watch my birthday solo trip, you would have seen on there that i was saying 10 out of 10 definitely recommend. I feel like, as long as you are just you know, safe and just cautious of your surroundings, where you're going the hotel, you're staying at and just doing your research, all the safety tips and advice that people give when going on solo trips, you'll be fine. Like honestly, everyone should try and do at least one solo trip experience, because i think it's actually a really really good thing to do. I really enjoyed my solo trip and, to be honest, i was nervous guys. I'M not gon na lie like i was actually very nervous and a little bit anxious going away on my own for the first time, but it actually wasn't as scary as i thought it was going to be, and i really really enjoyed myself like i enjoyed my Own company yeah - i really really enjoyed myself like it - was actually such a great trip, and it was something that i feel like. I definitely needed so yeah, definitely highly highly highly recommend solo trips just be safe and just have a good time. You know what i'm saying, and i just feel like. Sometimes it's so hard, especially as we get older and everyone's adulting, your friends or family, might not have the time to be able to go on holiday with you at the same time that you want to go so you know, i feel like more and more people Are being more open to solo traveling? Because you don't want to hold your life back and stop yourself from doing the things that you want to do and experiencing the things that you want to experience because other people are not available. So i feel like. Sometimes you just have to like just go it alone and just do your own thing. If you're able to go - and you want to go - then girl book - the trip - okay enjoy yourself, get yourself a bluetooth phone tripod i'll put the link for the ones that i use to take my own pictures in description box, for you guys get your pictures and Have a great solo trip: oh this is a good one. Okay, do you ever feel like you support people more than they support you? I feel that way, girl all the time like honestly guys, i'm not even gon na lie to you. I'M gon na keep it 100 with you, okay, one thing that i've learned in this lifetime: i've learned many things. I'Ve definitely learned many things, but this something that i've learned is that people are not always going to be there for you in the way that you might want them to be there for you, including your friends and family okay, and that's just life. There are things that you might do for other people and they may not necessarily think to do that for you, because one they're, not you, you are you and they are them, and sometimes you as a person, the things that you would do for someone because you Love them and you care about them, you want to support them, might not be the same thing that that person would do back for you, and it doesn't necessarily mean that that person is being malicious in any way or purposely. Just not wanting to support you. It could just be that the way that their mindset is and the way that they are as a person, they might show their love and support in a different way or in different circumstances. I'M using this morphe um concealer to just go over my parting to kind of just brighten up a bit more, it's already kind of bright, but i want it to give extra extra brightness. So the parting is more prominent. Sometimes, in this life, what you expect from people is not always what you're going to get, and it is what it is. You know it really is, and i think that there's no harm it may be expressing to people that you might expect support from and letting them know that if there's people in your life that you genuinely care about, and you feel that you're not getting the support From them that you maybe expect or wanted it's okay to have that conversation with them, and let them know that i feel unsupported from you. There could just be a misunderstanding between you and that person in the expectations of each other when it comes to showing support. Have the conversation you know, pull them to one side, give them a call. Let them know how you're feeling and see what their response is, because you might be surprised that they genuinely just didn't know that that's what you expected of them. There'S some people that you literally have to tell them how to support you. You have to be able to communicate what you expect from them. If they love you and they care about you and how you feel then they'll respond accordingly. You know they'll respond accordingly and obviously they don't act accordingly. Then clearly they have issues. Communication is key, guys, okay, keep it moving. You know focus on the people that do support. You guys look at this hair. I am loving this hair guys like even just this small small water that i've sprayed on it. You can really get to see the curl pattern. Now it is so nice and it doesn't tangle, like i've literally, been able to just run my fingers through through the hair, and it's not tangling in terms of shedding. This is literally how much hair has come out. Barely anything and the curls are getting. The curls are giving honey - okay, i'm probably gon na - do a midi pine at some point to be fair, i don't know why i was debating over a middle part. You know cypriot when i know for well, i'm going to be doing both i've got this um curl, defining mousse from living proof help define the curls a bit more, not that it actually needs it. I mean i feel, like the clothes are very much defined, but i'm just gon na put a little bit of this on here. To just make it look a bit more sleek. How do you feel about being celibate and still wearing bikinis? I feel like this might be the same person that asked the cleavage question, because what has been celebrate got to do with wearing a bikini. That'S my question: let's start there where's the correlation. Where? Where is the correlation? I don't understand so because i'm celibate, i shouldn't be allowed to wear a bikini, or i don't understand like actually think about the question that you're asking like. Does it actually make sense? Zero correlation baby, zero correlation, i'm just gon na - do one more, which is a dilemma. So me and my man have been together for a year plus i am celibate and he is ready to have sex and his point is: he has waited a whole year, which is not normal for him. So i should have sex with him because he has had to adjust to my lifestyle for a year and he's basically trying to guilt-trip me by saying, if i loved him, i would and how i'm seeing someone else. That'S why i won't have sex with him. Any advice: wait: oh okay, so he's saying to you he's trying to guilt-trip you and say that the reason why you won't do it with him is because you're probably seeing someone else, okay got it. This guy is not the guy for you. Clearly, you guys are not on the same page, you're, literally not on the same page, one of the key things when you are on your celibacy journey, if your weight, if you're waiting till marriage, it's very key that whoever you end up in a relationship with also Has the mindset and the desire to want to wait till marriage? You have to be with someone that is on the same page as you getting into a relationship with someone who doesn't want to wait till marriage and is just doing it for a period of time to see. If you might change your mind or to see if they can change your mind, it's not gon na work. It'S really not gon na work. It'S now up to you to decide. Are you going to give up your lifestyle and stop doing what you're doing in order to please him, or are you gon na stick to your decision that you've made for yourself, because this is your desire, and this is what you want to do with your life And let him go, let him go off and be doing what he wants to do with somebody else. That'S on the same page as him, and you wait on the person. That'S gon na come into your life. That'S gon na be on the same page as you. That'S the choice that you need to make for yourself if your waiting is important to you and you're doing it for a genuine purpose. You understand why you're doing what you're doing nothing should be able to come in between that. No man, no woman, if you're a guy, nothing at all. I feel like. Sometimes, when people ask me these type of questions, they already know the answer i feel like you already know the answer, and i think that probably the reason why you're battling with it is because you're not quite ready to go with what you know is the right Thing to do, and i know that it can be hard to make that decision, but you have to think of the bigger picture. You have to think of why you're doing what you're doing is it worth it and, to be honest, a guy that is going to be guilt, tripping you to try and like manipulate you to do something that you, and he knows you don't want to do. That'S a red flag that one is a red flag: it's a red flag! Okay, because honey! That'S not sitting right with me! Why is he trying to manipulate you into sleeping with him? Why, personally, if you want my advice, what would amina do he's got? Ta go he's got to go okay, you can do so much better. Honestly, there are men out there that are willing to wait. Okay, they exist. Don'T let anyone try and tell you that what you desire in this life doesn't exist. It really does he's not the only guy on the planet. There are so many people on this planet, seven billion of us there must be one man that can be on the same page as you. I think you can definitely definitely do better a little bit of this mousse to just properly finish this off. Yes, honey. Okay, all right, i am holiday ready, okay, okay, y'all! My hair is done. I am absolutely loving it. I think it looks really cute. Let me know what you guys think look at these curls y'all, so nice. As i said, the link to this wig will be in the description box. Thank you so much guys for watching this video. If you haven't already subscribed, please hit the subscribe button like this video. If you enjoyed it, leave a comment and yeah, i will catch you guys in my next video bye, guys