I Walked In On My Ex Cheating: Story Time | Get Into Curly Hair

Your guy's friends are not your friend i wake up and, like he's not beside me and i'm like, where is this guy? Okay? Sweet sweet? I need to say this password. I walked into the room. I opened the door and guess what i saw hey besties. Welcome back to my youtube channel today i have a very exciting story: time for you i'll, be telling you how i walked in on my ex cheating on me. That was really crazy and also i'm going to show you how i saw this very perfect, gorgeous hair. I got from ali pearl. Look at that. You know. Life is so funny because, like things that i would cry about, is what i'm laughing and telling you guys about now, like everything really just happens for a reason, this video is sponsored by ali pearl hair. You guys go check it out. Everything will be down in the description box and i'm going to show you how the package came in. So this is how the hair came in such a cute bag. Okay, wow. Let'S take that out. So this is a very long curly hair whoa. I am in love. I can't wait to install this, but let me show you guys what was in the bag. It came with. Oh wow, this is super cute. I don't know what this is, but let's find out. Okay, this is so cute, i'm in love with the print. I think, if this is to hold the head down i'll, definitely be using this tonight. Oh, we also have lashes, we're definitely trying that and a cute brush. We have a cute wig cap, which matches my skin color. Thank you, ali pearl and last, but not the least. First of all, i love the color. I don't know. What'S in this spot, let's see okay, this is so cute. This is longer yeah. I prefer this one: okay, let's get right into the story time, so the interesting part i'm actually going to get my hairstylist to take off my current wig and install the other one. So while i tell you guys all the story and all the tea on my story on my gist he's going to be installing my hair, so i don't get distracted, let's get right into it, wow wow! Do you guys still love me? Okay? So i'm going to tell you of this person we literally were dating for like a few months, also a few months and like we, it was good. It was i my head. I already like pulled my mind. Okay, yeah, you know we were dating, but i don't own him like you could do stuff, but, like just don't disrespect me so this particular day when i think about it now it feels like i saw the i saw the signs but ignore them and which is What always happens and that's why people say that whatever problem you have in your relationship at the end, you've always seen it from the beginning. You just ignored it. Then it's always come back. So this person we met. It was great energy, it was cool. He was cool and i could i felt like i could be myself around him. This is awkward talking about my hair is getting pulled, so you guys i'm going to be breaking the story down so at every point, there's going to be like a break of shame. What'S going on in the hair and then we'll go back to the story, this particular person usually only saw on during the weekends which is kind of weird, because how are you seeing the guy you're dating only on the weekends, so we literally always only would spend Time on the weekends, because you know weekdays like oh he's, working and everything and i'm like okay, you know that's cool. I was so understanding. I was like yeah. Okay, that's fine! That'S! Okay! Anyway! This was like. After maybe three months, i've been together or something yeah. Three months i've been together this particular day so guys. Let me tell you about this very, very glorious day. What day was it? I think it was a sunday. Yes was this? No, no. Was it saturday, okay, so this glorious day it was a saturday. I literally had work. I had a shoot, then i came back usually would probably we stayed in a particular place whenever i came, but i was like oh no, let's like get shortly so i got him in charlotte actually and i was like let's stay here. Sorry, i'm so scared. So let's keep going on this girl. I had his shoes. So after my shoot, i i went to charlotte so like i said i got him shortly, so i left him into it. It was his friend him and his friend so, okay cool. That'S fine and he was saying we should go out and i was like okay i'll. Let i like i'll. Let'S see, let's see if i want to go out later on down there, we're chilling and everything so we're trying to like make out you get and like he was like you know when you start kissing, you start getting down that then i was like oh yeah. I'M actually on my period, then he was like. Oh okay, that's cool! So, first off, let me tell you something like if i start seeing you. I would like, if i'm on my period, i'll, probably not be around you, except if i feel like you you're, like my friend, do you understand like someone? That'S not just always with me like? Oh, let's have sex. You know. There'S some like yeah, of course, come through like you're. My baby girl like i want to still spend time with you. It must have to be sex. You know well, maybe because we're always seeing during the weekends he had that mentality. But you know that's really his business, then we kept making out that his friends came in and his friends were coming back, so we had to stop and everything she was like. Okay, let's go to the club. Let'S go to the club, i was like cool. I called out, i called one of my girls, let's go so when i went to the club the car stopped, like literally it was so funny the car like just stopped on the road. It wasn't working anymore for like two hours we tried fixing it. We tried getting a mechanic which i get in the tow truck. It was like what time was it. It was already like 2 a.m, so it was by time we're going back. It was like 4 00 a.m. It was so stressful, so we got back. Obviously, we didn't end up going out because the car stopped on the road we didn't end up, having fun or getting too drunk when we got back to the apartment it was already like morning. I saw it was like 4 5 or maybe even like five six and we started to make out again. It was really cool because i was really attracted to him then and, like we just started to make out, everything was fine. Everything was good. I was like ah like i wish. I was not my period, but now here's the t between you me and you right like i was almost done my period i was like on the last day, but i don't want to say that because if i say that you'll probably feel like okay, you know Maybe tonight should be done and we could just like you know, have sex and i'm like, i didn't want to keep his hopes high and then ask me my period and you know how that should go. So i was like okay cool, but i was like. Ah, i really want you know to do something with this part of my n word yeah, we just kept going going going. You know we did other things that aren't sex. It was the next day was a sunday morning, so this is when it got tricky. This is when it got very, very, very, very tricky, so this is sunday morning right. I wake up and he's not beside me anymore and i'm like: where did you go? So this is an apartment. This is charlotte's apartment of three rooms. He had his friends over like there were so many okay, no there weren't, so many at the like, maybe four or five friends, which is weird because me personally, i don't feel like having people around me. So if you're, my man they'll be having people around you, but i don't know what i was saying. But i was like: okay, like you know, when you just like you're, just doing things that you don't usually do, which is bad because you're, who you are so you shouldn't like lower your, i won't say just yeah: don't lower your standards to fit anybody's lifestyle, like Just don't do it just like okay, you know, i don't like father you're hungry too many people. That'S some period, that's a red flag for me, so yeah anyway. Moving on i wake up and like he's not beside me and i'm like, where is this guy? Do you get it it was? It was really early. So where did you actually go to and then i i just like you know what robe then i went to the palo and i saw he was pressing his phone, which he did a lot. Ah, he used to press his phone every time and, to be honest, if i think about it like even when we met like this guy was having bad messages and then his arms are called. What should i call it? His sound was always on on his phone. So, whenever snapchat's in two three am eleven, am waking up from sleep next thing. One girl is calling you next and the girls. They always have red roses on their distance on their names, so it was like when i first met him. So i wasn't like. I wasn't trying to like pick it. I was just like you know. Like i said i was like giving him his okay. Just do your thing. Obviously you know you like be free. You just don't disrespect me. I didn't want to be that person that, just like all of like who is this twist down he's, i was just like calm and then, oh, my god. I skipped something interesting. Ah, remember when i said when the card at the car stopped working on our way to the club, he was in the front seat. I was right behind him in the backseat i saw he was texting someone and he has been texting this babe since we saw - i don't say her name, but she had the red rules on her name and he's been texting. That text, i know someone is like constantly texting, someone i'm like. Ah, who is this babe? So when i woke up the next morning on sunday, when i went down meeting apollo, i just went, he didn't know like i, so i just like came up behind him. I wasn't trying to check this one, i'm not going to type to look at your phone when you're typing like it's, not, i don't like giving myself headache. It wasn't my it was in my hindsight. Basically so i just come, and i see the same girl he's texting early in the morning on sunday that same girl texting late at night. Yesterday i bet then i sat down beside him. I was like okay cool. He was very distracted, he's a very distracted person, so we're still spending the day together and he now said something he was like: okay, babes since you're, you know a creator and you have this apartment. How about you use today invite your girls over and you guys create content here, so i'm looking at him like, i know you care about my work, but you don't care about my work that much like commonwealth. You understand, like obviously i'm here spending time with you, like, i said today before i was already shooting, so why would i want to stop spending time with you i'll be shooting again when i know i can shoot anytime. So i was like no that's like. Let'S not do that. Let'S do games that he's like yeah, i'm like yeah we've had my girls, we'll do games like this. You have your guys around. It should be fun. I like playing games. I love playing games. No. It was hard, though, that came out wrong, but like yeah he was like. Are you sure that he's he's thinking he just like leaves us like now and then like goes away, then i call my friend i will cry. I was like nah, you don't have to. Don'T worry, don't worry, i can get chilled anytime. I can create any time, that's fine, but then he gave me a vibe that, like does this guy, want to go somewhere. Do you get because like? Why? Wouldn'T you want to be there? How will i explain this? It'S like for him to be around that location. It'S really in the weekend. You get basically like this. It was only on weekends that would be around that location, so if he leaves he won't like it soon be as easy for him to come back there. Basically, i don't know how to explain that, but that's the best explanation i got so i'm like. Does he want to go? Is he like trying to find a way to deep? Should i leave so you can have solutions like see, i'm sort of i don't know, i'm such an easy person. I don't even like doing oh yeah. What are you up to? I just like i've been that's it. My life is gone so boy, if you don't want me around, if you're trying to do just be smart about it, i'll actually go like. I would know okay you're being stupid, but i'll definitely give you a space to be stupid, so i was like. Should i go, but it didn't seem like you wanted me to go because we're still chilling before you know, from six friends to 11 from 11 to 15. bro. There are so many guys in the apartment like when i looked it was evening so, and i called my girls but like only one of my girl was like yeah, because it was very impromptu, so she was like yeah, let's, like sure, she'll come too um. I now invited my girl over so she comes over and we start playing games and we like they were drinking games, so we got drunk even the the guys they were doing like dices. They were playing dice or whatever um. My friend and i were playing our own games and then some guys came to journals like some of his friends came to journal, so it was cool. I literally the only girls there i was like okay, let me go um. I can't remember. My first issue is to buy something from one of them: supermarkets. I think it was like daytona or something one of them, supermarkets on admiralty. So i was like okay cool. Let'S go so his friend was like okay he's gon na um. He will take us there and everything and we're like. Oh, i don't think. Okay, i'm gon na come back soon and everybody's like yeah. That'S fine, you know go out like do whatever then i went. This was like. I was already like 11. It just was actually quite late. It was actually already like 11., but somebody was telling me like not to go. I don't know why, but i just didn't feel at peace going like, but i was like. I was going to tell her that okay, just go and i'll be here. Did you get a brother? Let me just join her. Do you guys see she doesn't know my you know my ex-his friend then, and i was like okay. I didn't plan to compromise the situation, so we went there and my ex's friend was just like telling her that oh i'm telling her stuff about, like my ex, like trying to make my edge, seem very serious, not kind of this so me, so i was blushing Like, oh no at least he tells his friends about us. I got back to the apartment, i couldn't see him. There were three rooms right. I looked at the room wearing because you know his friends. Is he cool his friends were around so i didn't want to enter the other rooms because i'm like okay, i don't know what's going on so i was like okay cool. I checked there. I didn't see him. I like texted him or snapped like yo. What'S up like where you are just like still chilling, but i was still out by the way i was quite drunk, i'm never gon na lie. I was really drunk so i was like you know when you're you're, drunk and like everything is just going back because we're taking shots like so i was already in that euphoric vibe next thing. I just see him coming out of one of the rooms, the room close to the door. I didn't check that room at all. Like i said his friends were there, so i didn't want him to know where his friends are or something, and i saw him coming out of that door and he came out in a like. It'S like what were you doing there like i've been looking for. You even his friend said that you know where he was. Let me tell you something guys. Your man's friends are not your friends. I hope you know that anyway, so he comes out of the room, very hasty kind of weird. I was like okay what's going on here, then he comes to me. Pecks me, like oh, hey, babe, uh, that i was like. Where have you been he's like because i was, i was sure he was drunk too. I mean where everyone was drunk, so i'm not sure what he says. I do not remember what he said when i asked like: where have you been, but i just let it go yeah, so my friend was, i think she switched his restroom or take some picture. I can't remember what she said, so i took her to the room me and him were staying like one of the rooms, the pasta room that him and i were staying. So i took her down we're just there for a bit like watching uh youtube. Just you know that kind of chill with your girl now we're just chilling all of that we left the guys in the parlor we're just being drunk and like having fun and everything. Then i think my friend now goes to the palo. Then, when she went to paulo i was like and i'm called um - i don't call him to come to the room so when i'm like making out in the room and everything, but everything was cool. I felt like okay, i was down my period then because remember it was the day before that i was like. Okay, that's the last day. So this day i was like. Okay, i'm definitely done so. I didn't want to tell him yeah. I just wanted to like you know, make her and then, like you know, then you know everything starts to happen. He'S like okay, you're, not actually period again i'll, be like yeah, so it was just like all like okay, fine and then we started to make her everything he's like okay, he's coming, that's what he said he was like it's coming like. We already went deep into the omega when i say make out: that's like an understatement: honey all right, so he was like he's gon na come back that. Let me just give him some time that he wants to go. Do something i'm like okay! So me i'm over here like getting ready to like you know, like you know next thing i think it was like 15 minutes. He wasn't back still. I was like. Ah, this is fishy. You get like what's going on and i went out of the room right now. I was not asking his friends like people said i was like. Oh have you seen him? Have you seen everything they're like? Oh? No, they haven't seen him that you don't know where he is. I was like okay cool. Let me check the room where i saw him come out from hey my god. This is when it happened. I walked into the room, hey sweet, sweet. I need to see this password. I walked into the room, i opened the door and guess what i saw this was between them. Thighs baby, like on top of her like her legs, were up, and i was like and really i just opened it and i just like walked in he turned and he looked. We looked at each other straight in the eye. Look at your straight in the eye, and i was just like and i closed the door and i just walked away just literally my my reactions, anything i don't like to shout or whatever i was just like keep cards and i was just like go. I just closed the door i just walked in. I went to the room. I was sitting for some time because usually you think that when you're walking on someone they're running after you right and i'm like you guys, this is the crazy part, because i was in shock. I i kid you not. I was in actual shock, like i went to the room with her for, like maybe three to five minutes. I didn't really wait. I was just like what's going on like i was just thinking. What should i? What should i do, and i just him run after me, so i was like - is this: the person that claims to love me and like and now like, leave the room go back to the room, open the door. Then i'm seeing this girl she's quite thick and like she's by the bathroom, though i think she was, she was yeah. She was trying to wear her panties. The backing door was open, the room light was off, but the bathroom light was on so she's trying to wear her panties. The guy was still like on the bed and i was like we had. I caught me and you looked at each other. I just looked at her first off this girl was like, then i was even like skinnier, because now i like i have some body fat. Then i was actually quite so i'm looking at him like do you have a speak, because this girl doesn't look anything like me. Do you care if it was that she was looking something it's like close to me? Okay, he saw someone like me and nothing. So i'm just thinking like what's going on, was she here all the time like? Oh, like wow, oh wow, like was she here throughout when i was there, because i i didn't open the room like i didn't check it throughout when i was in the apartment. I was like just being like okay yeah, why this is our room, your friend's in the other room. I never checked it so was she here throughout was she? I was thinking about every single meal i just opened like when i saw it open the door. Second time i closed it then i walked away. I went to my friend i thought she was in palo alto. I was like babe, let's go she's like i was good. I was like babies just come with me. We entered the room, i now locked the door. So i'm thinking this is my girl, like we're, really cool, but we're not that close. So i'm thinking that, like oh we're, not that close, we we're not that close somebody like, should i tell her like it's, not something you tell with pride. So i'm like how do i tell that without me feeling humiliated, and then i locked the door and she's like what's going on so then i start hearing banging like he's banging on the door like open the door, babe open the door baby, so i'm like in My head, i'm like, but i had to walk in twice for you to come up to me, so i'm thinking like and then he stops banging and okay. Just wait. I'M gon na cause history. Then i was like okay stop knocking right, so i just packed my things and i like came out of the room. I told my girl we're leaving. So i packed my things and then i looked at the balcony because we're on the top floor. I looked at the balcony downstairs and saw that he was putting this girl in a car to go and it was the same car that took us to the supermarket. So basically, his friend was dropping his girl off. That'S why i say your guys. Friends are not your friends brother; they will help you look at your wifey you'll, see our eh yeah eh. You say like this all of lies, so i was like this same guy that was hyping me up to my friend the same guy going to drop the up. I bet anyway. I now start to carry my suitcase. You know in a hurry and i'm just like leaving i'm like. I don't, because i didn't want him to beg me. I don't want him. I just wanted to be quiet. You know because the only one elevator that goes on our like on the seventh floor, he now comes up like from the elevator, because i'm waiting for anybody to come up, then i start to drag my back. That babe, please be pleased. So here's the thing: if your initial reaction to me seeing you was that you ran after me, i would have been like okay, maybe you can you double? Well, maybe you care, but the fact that, like i had to walk in again - and i see her the other lady dressing up this thing you still knocked at the door, you still had time to go downstairs put her in the car. That means she wasn't just an up like you weren't paying, for you know. You probably know her personally, like she probably doesn't even know about me, he's pulling my suitcase like. Please don't do this, please don't go! I'M sorry. I up. Please don't go it's. This is that i'm like leave me leave me alone inside the elevator enters with me. Then that's what pissed me of this dude that was begging. He was sitting on his snapchats. Next thing i knew was, i was strong. I just grabbed the phone and i was about to do it he was like. Can i help my hand? I was going to smile, because you must be crazy, you're literally begging, and you still have the chance to keep tapping the way you always. Why are you always typing? You see that girl with the rules, i'm just like i'm like confused, because um like i always felt that this guy, because he was so consistent, he would always show like i'm sorry. I love you, but your actions are never really aligning. Ah, he kept when i came up the elevator, thank god my friend has um my friend stays in the same block of apartments boy like the next gates so and i'll go into that other gate, and i'm like and now to the security. Oh i'm going to see my friend and everybody. Let me in he's not trying to steal your grab. My suitcase i'm like, please don't let this guy in, like don't let this guy in so anytime, with my friend to the other, like um block of apartment, where my friend is because it was so late. It was now it was like past one or two or something it was really late. So i'm like confused, i didn't know what to do. I don't know how to id. My friend was also confused because, like i didn't tell her so she was like what's going on then i started i know like. I went to the staircase area and i started to cry because i was so confused like i was trying to block him. I was like, if i block him, i don't end up unblocking him. So what's the point i was just like, you know like i always i usually block people when i'm done like for me to block you, i'm done no, no. I won't block you just so block it next time. That'S not how i move so i was like if i block him now and i'll block him. He'Ll be like this girl has a middle of her mind, bro. It was so hard today. I remember i was now text and i told my friend my friend this one thing i remember so well because she was such a good person. She literally like she's like francis, you need a hug and i was like babe no she's like just come and hug calm me down that hug calm me down and i'm texting my girl, my main girl, i'm like babes movie, what happens, but i'm crying, i'm saying. Hi voices she's like calm down, i'm coming to pick you up. She literally came through when she would not enter the car, we're not driving out of the street. She was like wait. Did you say that you walked in on this guy chasing on you and what you did was to leave and you're crying? He said nah she stole the driver turned on tonton turn returned. We went back to your apartment. I said nah that you're good to him up you break everything, you break bottles, you break his you and she was like you can't do that, like you, can't just be quiet all the time and i'm like yeah like so she was pumping me like nah yeah. You don't cry, you go back and you take your revenge like. Are you crazy? Let'S go back there and show this like because she's the crazy one she'll be like ah nah nah nah. He can't play with you. So i'm like we go back to the apartments. You know, i said you were driving down to the street right and you know i already spent time with my friends and block of apartment day like crying so sometime already went by and then we go back to the apartment and went upstairs and opened the door And the place was literally empty, so he has already fled. Like him, his friend everybody gone, there was nothing left and i entered the room where i saw him and that girl and i saw like condoms on the floor. I saw like they finished um, like um joints like like they were smoking and everything - and i was like wow like these - were really on the vibe, like they really enjoyed themselves like him, and i was like it was crazy. Anyway, he kept apologizing. I thought yeah. I said i apologize and i possessed an appointment. Yes, my friend told me: don't give him a chance, don't let him do that this guy's going to do it again? It'S not like he was great. He was not amazing. He wasn't like an amazing boyfriend. He was not, he was just i and i felt like i was settling for less. I was so sad that doing anything else didn't make sense to me until i got back to the gym and i was like like actually when i'm working out. I don't feel sad that much like i'm literally like expelling all the bad energy. It'S when i learned something, because my friend told me that yo never cry for a dude get over it, give yourself three days and you're over it. So i was like yeah. I'Ve had 30 actually started feeling so much better. I was getting out of bed. I was in, i could literally ignore him. I wasn't like he was texting, apologize and everything. I remember. I sent him a video of like you know when you have a breakable plate, like you know the ceramic plate or whatever, and you throw it on the floor and it breaks. If i put it back together, glue it tape it whatever. How, however, i tried to put it back together. It can never be the same way, it was and he was like he understands it, but i'm like. I don't think you really understand that if you do, then you understand, like the repercussion of what you do when you hurt someone, especially when you heard someone that way like disrespect is something that is ah don't disrespect me or after some time he was obviously texting. A lot so i now like took him off my snap. I blocked him. Actually i blocked him on snap. That'S the thing about guys. Guys know that girls love consistency. They know that if they're consistent enough you're going to feel like oh yeah, he likes me he's saying to me girl be smart. Even if he's consistent he's be keep your guard up, don't i'm not saying don't fall. You know, obviously, trust your instincts go for the right person, but, like don't think because he's consistent with you, that means that he loves you and she will do anything and they also come back and read it text you at the same time and tell you good Night i'd say i love you, but you never know what they're doing girl the advice on this story is that like, when someone show you who they are, do not paint them a different color, because i promise you they're going to do something like the same. They will just know how to cover it up now. They know that you know their tactics so they're going to do a different way. So don't let anyone hurt you twice? Don'T let anyone show you that they don't like? They don't deserve you twice, because they will do that. They'Ll show you in different ways and you keep going back to someone. That'S hurting you, that's making. You feel less than yourself, like imagine how you would feel or how i felt when i walked into that it was hurtful, don't let anyone make you feel less than yourself you're like such an important person, no matter how much you see yourself, you're an important person, Because you're, like the ceo of your own life, that's important enough stay away from toxic people. Try as hard when someone hurts you darling, darling, keep looking forward, don't say: oh yeah, i'm giving you a second chance, the third chance or fourth chance, because by then you start losing yourself to this person. Then you get addicted to this person. Then it becomes a very very what toxic situation, but regardless that's the end of my story time. Let me know if you loved it. Let me know if you want more very spicy spicy life i have like. I said this: beautiful beautiful hair is from ali pearl. This is a 26 inches deep wave, hd lace, frontal wig, look at that. It'S gorgeous it's beautiful! I love it. 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