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hey y'all what's up welcome back to my
channel and welcome if you are new i'm
your girl julissa chave and today's
video is going to be a little different
than how i usually do it i've done a
couple of these videos before and on my
own channel i used to do them a lot and
i was like you know what i feel like i
need to do these videos again because i
really connected to other women who are
feeling the same way that i was so of
course as you can tell by the title i'm
gonna be giving you tips on how to
become
that girl not even just being that girl
because that is like something that's
trending but that girl to me means
confidence someone who really loves
themself and nobody can tell them
anything and it's a journey it doesn't
happen overnight i used to not be that
girl
and now that i am that girl i'm able to
uplift and motivate other women who are
just feeling down and out about
themselves who need to be picked up
because you are truly worthy of being
someone that feels and knows that they
are beautiful and i mean that from the
bottom of my heart i have not always
been this confident and i have people
ask me all the time like how did you get
so confident like you know where did
this attitude come from and it really
came from
a lot of
self-development personal development
and just learning who i was as a person
and what made me happy
and that's more than how i look that's
more than you know my makeup and my hair
like it literally comes from within i
had to go within and what my soul was
lacking as well so i wrote down my 10
tips just so that i wouldn't forget
anything
and i really hope that this helps any
woman out there who was feeling just
like blah a lot of self-doubt lack of
confidence lack of motivation
these things are what helps me
come out of that place and really
deep
dive into what i love to do and if
you're not waking up happy
and you know loving yourself you're not
going to love anyone around you even the
closest people you love it's going to be
hard to love others because you're not
loving yourself you're not happy with
yourself and what you're doing and how
your life is going you know so that
radiates and it comes off as negative
energy it comes off like don't nobody
want to be around that you know and you
really just
dig yourself like this hole
of self-pity and self-doubt so the first
tip that i have is find your look find
what makes you feel best for me i love
doing my hair i love doing my makeup and
i love making sure that my nails are
done for you that could be putting on a
t-shirt and some sweats and you feel
your best you feel comfortable so you
want to find what your best is like what
makes you feel best
i went through that in high school when
i was going through like just a
transformation or transition or
leveling up into my womanhood what made
me feel best was dressing up and
doing my hair and people were asking me
all the time like who you dressing up
for what you looking good for and it was
literally for myself it was to make
myself feel good because when i woke up
and i i looked good i felt good and i
went to school with that good attitude
you know so
find what fits you best find what helps
you feel your best
the second one would be daily
affirmations and i know this is so
cliche you guys with daily affirmations
you're literally training your brain to
believe the things that you are saying
to yourself it's just like a bible
scripture i tell myself all the time no
weapon formed against me shall prosper
like literally not one weapon formed
against me shall prosper and i believe
that in my heart so it's just like
telling yourself i am beautiful i have
that on my mirrors i have it all over my
vanity like anywhere i look i see that
it says i am beautiful and i believe
that and i'm beautiful not because of
what i'm seeing but because of what i'm
feeling i have a good heart i'm
compassionate i love you know what i'm
saying so affirm your
self every day that you are beautiful
you are worthy you are
worthy of this love you do deserve this
and that you know
affirm that every day so that your heart
can truly believe it number three is
change what you can i struggled with
this for a while i would always complain
about my weight
and complain about things that i could
change i had the ability to get up and
change it if i could we are so stuck in
a mind frame that
it's like impossible but it's not
impossible like if you can get up and
change something whether it's your hair
color if you can change
like
how small your lips are to get bigger
lips if you can do that change it
whether that means getting enhancement
surgery if that would make you happy i
say go for it because at the end of the
day it's going to make you feel your
best it's going to make you feel better
so if you can change it then do it if
you can't change it for example my
height i can't change that i'm 5 11.
so what i'm going to do instead is
embrace it and learn how to love it now
when i walk in a room i know people are
going to look at me because i'm the
tallest in the room at first i used to
shrink myself and make myself feel
shorter but no i was created to be 5-11
so i'm going to walk around knowing that
i'm beautiful as a 511 woman the things
that you cannot control
you have to learn how to love them and
accept them and make them something a
part of you that is beautiful don't give
it a negative connotation all right
number four would be to treat yourself
now y'all know when y'all bought a new
pair of shoes y'all bought a new outfit
it just gives you like this high and
you're so excited to put it on when you
put it on you like yes like you look
good you feel good that is how you
should do
like very often now i'm not saying
splurge and go spend all your money on
brand new things if you don't need
anything but it is very important that
you do treat yourself and go get things
a couple of times a month that you know
is going to make you feel good something
that you really been wanting and you
know it's going to make you happy that's
what things do if they spark joy
that gives you such a natural high and
that's why people get addicted honestly
to shopping and stuff but if it sparks
joy then do that and pamper yourself get
your nails done get your hair done
buy you an outfit like do that very
often now i
personally love doing this and i have so
many pictures in my phone because of it
but i love to take selfies
taking selfies you just remind yourself
of how beautiful you are like i look at
myself all the time on my phone i'm like
wow i'm really pretty i'm really
beautiful and that's not a conceited
thing like you literally have to tell
yourself because
the world will try to tell you different
like there's so much on social media
that will beat you up and make you
compare yourself to other girls and
you're not the skinny and you not this
and that
that's unhealthy so it's okay to fall in
love with yourself it's okay to tell
yourself you are pretty dang i look good
today like
that's okay so you have to take a lot of
pictures and selfies even if you don't
post them take them for yourself so that
one day you can look back and be like oh
i looked good this day let me do my hair
like that again you know having pictures
is just a reminder to me it's like a
memory of
my evolution of beauty
i'm going to be like 45 50 years old
looking back at myself he's like dang i
looked good when i was 25 you know what
i'm saying so pictures and selfies are
just something to remind you
next we have it's actually a quote and i
seen this on facebook it says
no one is you and that is your power
that is the definition of unique to me
unique
is
everyone everyone is unique we all have
our own feelings our own emotions
nobody else in this world has the exact
dna that we have or it looks exactly
like us like i'm not talking about no
twin stuff like i'm literally talking
about
you are you i'm the only jelisa chauvet
like there is no other jaleesa chauvet
that is me like there's no replica of me
so that's my power that is a super power
like i'm able to be
myself because i'm the only one that can
be me
so you have to learn how to be yourself
and walk in
in that knowing that you are unique and
there's no one else like you i tell my
boyfriend all the time there is no one
else like me like you can find another
good girl you can find another girl
who's confident another girl who
do makeup you know who model but you're
not gonna find another me and that's
literally like there's only one me and i
believe that so because i know that i'm
able to use that as my power like i'm
myself and i don't want to be anyone
else
so stop comparing yourself to what you
are seeing
and really learn how to love yourself
and know that there's nobody else like
you which makes you very unique
all right number seven we have
another quote and this has been in my
mind so often lately walk in the room
like god sent you
i
like i said in the beginning used to
walk
in a room and belittle myself i would
shrink myself to fit the room
and
you don't stand out when you do that the
way i'm able to meet so many people
and do so many amazing things with
others is because i walk in the room in
my confidence i walk in that room like
god sent me in the room and when i go to
events in la people literally come up to
me and they're like you're just so tall
and you just like i had this one girl
tell me like i just see you like
swifting through the room you know i'm
saying because i walked in there with
grace i walked in there knowing that god
sent me in that room and you have to
walk in your confidence i learned this
on thick house if you haven't seen by
the way it's on facebook watch produced
by the shade room i have a link down
below for you to watch
ej told me on that episode one time roll
your shoulders back push your girls up
and walk tall walk high with your with
your head held high
and ever since then that is literally
how i walk around and do the things that
i do on a daily basis that's how i model
that's how i do makeup like i walk in
that room
knowing that god sent me here i'm
supposed to be here in this room i am
worthy to be in this room so you really
have to lift your head up you got to
pull your shoulders back and you have to
work on your posture and you have to
walk
knowing who you are
if you're walking around slump down your
head down and you can't really make eye
contact with people that shows the lack
of confidence so work on walking tall
roll those shoulder bla
roll your shoulder back and relax and
walk in that room with confidence
um this is
not to offend anyone or to make anyone
feel bad but i
suggest that if you don't wear makeup i
would suggest trying makeup
makeup for me specifically really boosts
my confidence i feel beautiful with
without it but when i put makeup on i
literally
can see the enhancement of my beauty
like my lips look more plump and my eyes
look more bigger you know so try makeup
if you don't wear makeup i suggest going
to sephora ulta somewhere where they do
makeup in your city and have them try
some different things you never know
like having a little mascara or some lip
gloss will change your attitude will
change how you feel about yourself
makeup is really just an enhancement
it's not to change anything about how
you look it is to enhance your natural
beauty so makeup is definitely something
that i would suggest to any woman
because it is really life changing and i
know that personally because how i feel
when i put it on this is not a walk in
the park it's not something that happens
overnight and it's something that you
really have to work on daily
you have to work on believing in
yourself
believing in yourself that gives you the
control and power to do anything that
you want to do in this world and when i
say anything
anything nothing is impossible when you
believe in yourself i have the most
wildest craziest things that i want to
do in this world and i know that i'm
going to achieve every single one of
them because i believe in myself so you
have to work on believing in yourself
and that ties into everything that i've
really already told you to help you
boost your confidence when you believe
in yourself you believe in everything
good around you all right and number 10
this is my biggest one i saved it for
last because it is so important do not
seek validation from anyone we go around
day to day
hoping that someone will give us
permission to be who we are and
literally
you are self-sabotaging
some people feel like they have to
change their self when they walk into a
room and
that's not how it should be like you
should walk in there being who you are
authentically you and not worry about
what anybody else have to say you really
gotta mute out the haters you gotta
mute out the no sayers or naysayers and
you really have to
walk
in your truth and you have to be
authentically you genuinely you what
anybody else feel or think about me is
not my problem it's theirs
i can't control how people feel and
think about me and i guarantee you they
don't feel the way
i do about myself so when you learn
yourself and you grow within yourself
you really don't have to seek validation
or permission from anybody because
you're you and you do as you please you
are who you are because you want to be
so that's my biggest thing like stop
waiting for someone to tell you who to
be
well you guys that is it for this video
i hope that these tips help you if you
want to see more like this i definitely
will make more videos because there is
so much to learn my personal development
did not happen overnight i have worked
on it for years and now i'm confidently
able to
do everything that i love to do in
confidence because of my journey and my
experience of being low and now that i'm
out of that place i'm able to
shine bright and people see it and it's
attractive it's fun to be around and it
makes you feel good at the end of the
day and that's what really matters is
making yourself happy putting yourself
first and doing everything that you love
to do as always you guys don't forget to
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thank you so much for coming to watch
and i'll see you in my next one peace
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