The Harsh Truth About Taking Breaks From Social Media | Ft. Julia Hair

I can't believe people don't give a about you. What did you about is what you're offering them for learn if they find a replacement for you, you are going to be replaced, whether you like it or not. What'S up my babies welcome back to my channel. First of all, bye you're absolutely welcome in today's video. Obviously, as you can see, i'm looking ready to go. I'M going to be making sleek i'm looking set, i'm ready to go for somebody's wedding. Okay in this video, i'm obviously bringing you this gorgeous gorgeous hair from julia hair, and while i'm doing that, i'm going to obviously do my baby hairs, i'm not doing like a full hair store or anything. So don't worry about that! It'S now going to be just me, styling, my hair, and obviously i styled this way to match my outfit, because this is like a get ready. Video i'll show you guys everything in the outfits, everything at the end of the video. So don't worry about that, but yeah during this video we're going to be doing a little chit chat, because obviously this is my g-central. You know advice so anyways during the video i'm going to be updating that lot of things so definitely stick to the end. But anyways i'll definitely see you my next video. I really hope you enjoyed this video and every single detail about the hair. It'S going to be linked down below so definitely check it out. If you're interested, i love it. I have a new fresh week installed. I didn't want this to be an installation video because i just felt like yeah i've done too many installation videos for you guys at this point, so i don't want it to repetitive. So i'm going to talk about a few things, not anything gossipy or opinionated. No, i feel, like i've, been talking so much about things that don't make sense things that are not revolving around my channel, so we'll hop right into that i'll show you guys how my baby does, which i told you guys. I was going to show you in my previous video, so that's what i wanted to already install this week, which is from julia here. This is so beautiful. I think we are going to come on like this. I kind of like but mind you i had to do some talking bleaching to the knots so um. You might need to do that by yourself. If you're a perfectionist like me when it comes to hair so yeah, this is the review. I look bald, obviously, because i don't have any baby hairs and obviously because of color as well. The color is really lovely. I'Ve never worn a wig in this color. Before so i mean this particular colorway. I haven't worn a video before i'm going to show you guys my outfit i'll rock, with this hair on. I have a few things i need to discuss in this video with you guys just to clear the air on some things that i kind of feel like need to be talked about. Okay, let's go before it fades, it's too hot. Sorry. I have to leave this door open like. I cannot not leave the door open in this video. I have to it's going to get too hot inside here. Okay, so, first of all, i'm going to bring out the baby hairs with my rat tail comb. So when i'm doing baby hairs, i go in like a triangle this way and down, because people usually have that very like deep cave inside the head and it kind of makes you look more natural. If you ask me, i mean that's what i think so yeah. This is what i'm going to use for my baby hairs on this side, also, because this hair is literally almost blended into my skin. I have to use a lot of baby hairs for it to stand out. So that's why there's this much baby hairs out, you can always go in and pluck. I don't like to overclock um, because they've institutions, where i've overclocked and you can go back when you block it except you - have that stuff to you know, put the hair back, which i do, but in this video, no, that's not what we're teaching. So you have to make sure that everything is symmetrical so the other day i was having a chat with my cousin and you know, analyzing each other's lives and all that - and i asked my questions like personally. I feel that my channel is everywhere. So i was like what does she think that the my channel is everywhere as well like everywhere, meaning like i, don't really have a focus at the moment. If you can't, if you come to my channel, you won't really know what exactly i do you doing about the makeup today, hair tomorrow fashion, i guess it's a fashion, beauty, lifestyle channel, but to be honest with you, i'm not happy doing beauty as much as i Am doing fashion stuff, so on instagram i mean, if you follow me on instagram at tik tok. You 100 know that i am 80 fashion based and then the remaining 20, like beauty and lifestyle base, but like i really do want to make my youtube channel more fashion, focused where i teach you guys how to style. But, first of all, why do you think my channel is everywhere? Why does my cousin think my channels are real because, like just like, i said, there's a lot going on when you come in, you don't know what exactly you're subscribing to me for and it's just everywhere. I can't keep up with everything and that's why i feel like i've been burnt out a lot, because i don't know what content i'm creating to deal tomorrow for you guys and yeah. What i really enjoyed doing on my channel, to be honest, like when i started youtube right. I started with beauty gaming jokes, one of these days. I react to my previous videos, my old videos, maybe one or two of them they actually flipping hilarious, but yeah like when i started youtube. I was doing a lot of beauty, makeup videos and all that and the beauty era has died off if i'm being, if we're all being honest with each other, like the beauty era, has really really died off. So many beauty youtubers have gone to sleep like they change their channels to um vlog channels, and all of that i mean i do vlogs but, like i do more like me, more vlogs, compared to like the kind of vlogs that other youtubers in niche i'm in. I was in are doing down the line. I was not consistent. I'Ve not been consistent for the past three years of being on. You actually sincerely like being very inconsistent with my youtube, because i just had so many issues down the line like i had so many things going on my life. I had so many things i wasn't. I was insecure about. There are so many things. I was not happy about in my life that i kind of had to deal with so um. I was not consistent. I was barely putting out content, especially in the last two years. The last two years of my life have been really really messy and i feel, like i've just had a very terrible time being on social media in general, and i don't think i've really enjoyed my stay on social media. So and because of that, i had to like reconsider what i was doing on socials and if you know, if you follow me on instagram, you obviously knew that i was doing a lot of makeup makeup, makeup, makeup, stuff and then the moment i switched to fashion It was like people just realized. Yo youtube has a nice sense of style like i actually do. I see if there's anything i can proudly see. I have is a nice sense of style. I i can i'm that kind of person that i have imposter syndrome and it's so bad that if someone says oh you're so good at this, i i'm just like yeah. Maybe i just try, try you know those humble smith vibes? No, no! No, but the probability is like when it comes to fashion. I know my stuff like i know what i do. I know i'm good at that. So, if you tell me your your style is good at my yeah. Thank you. I'M very appreciative, because i'm very good at that - that's why that's all i'm passionate about! I love beauty, but i'm not passionate about doing makeup. That being said, where's this channel going towards just so i can clear up this topic. This channel is going towards fashion and vlogs right, and i said to you guys before that my vlogs are going to be more um. I have to speak in them, but i have to have a few sections in the vlogs where i'm talking about. What'S going on. In the vlog, so it's not just like an empty vlog, where you just see that on watch. I kind of appreciate that you guys, like the no chit chatting during the vlogs kind of thing. I really love those vlogs, because i i honestly hate talking to your videos. I don't like talking videos at all, so those kind of vlogs where i don't speak even much better for me, but i feel, like it kind of makes sense to at least like build a sense of connection with you guys to be able to speak during my Videos, i think it should just make more sense that way so yeah. I think that's where this my channel has been towards i'm gon na make vlogs where i actually have like the whole thing minimal, but portions of it, where i speak about. What'S going on in the vlog, so you guys don't feel it would be lost. You know what i mean so yeah anyways. Those are the only two things i'm narrowing my channel down to fashion and vlogs. If i do chit chat videos where i sit down like this, it's just be maybe get ready with me where i didn't. You know socially fashion stuff, so everything will be revolving around fashion and just my vlogs, you know what i mean so yeah anyways long story short. That'S what i wanted to clarify on that pieces. So next thing to do my hair is that's not where my juice has ended. Do i have more juice, just in case you guys are wondering so yeah i like to use. Actually, i prefer to use this, but let me show you what i use instead to cut my baby hairs, so i always use this my um sephora razor. It'S like a face razor. I used to cut your shave your face rather so yeah, and this is not all i'm doing for my baby hairs, like i said, make sure you have a triangle in the corners because it just makes it look more natural because it gives you that cupid's bow Vibe and then i have a mirror down here, just in case you're wondering when i'm on the sides, i don't just bring out hair from the side. I go in at an angle down this way like step at angle downwards, right, that's what i do in the corners and look at how much you have brought out. You don't have to bring out too much hair. Like i said i already plucked this week, i'm gon na do the same thing on this side as well. I was thinking i don't want to. I didn't want to wear this. We go like this week, but it's looking like i'm gon na wear this week out. I just don't like wearing over. Like my, i don't like my hair being too full when i'm outside, i don't like wearing hair. That'S too full um for lack of better words to see so yeah, i'm just going to use my whole comb. Everything you do when you do baby hairs, try to work with your hot comb because it actually makes the process so much easier. Okay, so um, now that i've talked about my baby hairs, we're going to go into the next discussion. I wrote down all the things i want to talk about, okay, so in my last video right i did talk about a few things that were very touchy topics that, to be honest, one of my friends came to me and she was like she kind of like Called me out on something that i said, which i appreciate, but at the same time like, i was also mentioning that i didn't have bad intentions when i said what i said. So if you remember, if you've not seen my last video um, you probably don't know what i'm talking about, but let me just explain our expat sheets, okay. So in my last video i mentioned oh, i was talking about like different topics and i at some point brought up. You know how black women are not really represented in all these reality. Tv shows in the uk, especially in love island. It was love island. I was talking about in particular. Sorry. Let me just cut this back to teaching you guys how to begin. When you cut your baby hairs, you don't cut it too short, because once you cut it, it kind of go back so make sure you're cutting it. It'S shut about not too short, just make sure that when you soap it like, if you can hold it and try to sweep it and see what it looks like when you suit. So you want to make sure that when you swoop it like it goes from being cut from here all the way to the end. So when i'm cutting it, i cut here and then i cut it as i keep going, i keep cutting, so the back should be longer than the front. That'S what i'm trying to explain. I don't know why. I cannot just use that same english. I just use now, so the back should basically be shorter than the front so that when you're swooping it everything is going in that direction. Okay, so yeah back to my discussion about like how seeing women black women are not really represented. That was in my last video right, so apparently during the video, not apparently, i actually said this during the video. I was talking about how the black guys that they bring on the shoes as well they're, more interested in white girls than they are in black girls, and this was just a random statement that made because, like based off, i was looking based off what i had Seen on the show, so it wasn't like me being insensitive in the way i'm just seeing this randomly. This actually happened on the show so um, because of that. I also mentioned something where i made statements, which i'll always repeat, because i feel like they actually got full statements. So during the video i said something about one of the girls that um was on the show and i as she's a white girl. I just made a random statement about her. You know features which, apparently i didn't know it was a sensitive topic that in my head, i wasn't thinking in that way, because what i was discussing about was black women and being on the like on the loved on the express during all those tv shows. So in my mind i wasn't thinking about what was saying. I was just saying it randomly as a statement just to support the fact of what i was saying. So i said something really hurtful and i'm not proud of that. So today i'm just rethinking juice and drinks. I don't really enjoy sitting down juicing, i'm concerned about people, because it's not really my type of things too. So anyways um, i'm doing the same thing here. But if you see i'm crossing the back forward, so you cut the back forward because you want the front to be longer than the back. You want the front longer than the back. So when you swoop everything goes backwards. Okay to go so yeah anyways, i've got the babies on the front here and i'm going to cut on the sides as well. Also, i made statements about like people losing weight. I know that being bigger on the bigger side and how we should stop like um. Promoting people being overweight that is not nice to them is unfair to them. I don't know if some people took it personal, but i just want to explain that in my like in my statements, what i was trying to say. Actually no, nobody really commented on this. Nobody really said anything wrong about what i said in that direction, but, like i'm just trying to reiterate so it doesn't look like. I said it on intensively so basically like when i said that i did not say go ahead and you saw people that that on bigger side, because you don't know what people are passing through, you don't know what they're going through if they're thinking, if they're on Meds, if june was happening, is making them on the bigger side. What i just said is: let's stop celebrating people looking over weights like they're people that are cleaning over with and you can see. This is not like all these people that are on the bigger side. Never seen on plus size models, i'm talking about people are about weeds. Then you can place your weights. Like you know, when you see somebody, that's overweight, you know, let's be honest, so the thing is, i'm not saying we should go ahead and bash these people that are overweight, but we love like correct them and even being skinny is not something that people enjoy. I know people that are skinny and they don't they wish they had more, but more fat on their bodies, so either way, whether big or small. The point i'm trying to make is that, let's stop supporting over being overweight. I have no right to talk about this topic. I have never talked about anorexia or about being overweight, but all i can say is like let's stop um supporting the act of people over eating and telling them. Oh, you look great in that body size when you clearly know that that's not nice, because i didn't really use their health that is degrading and they're going to get into like have more health issues than they would have if they were living a healthy lifestyle. If you know what i mean, i don't need to live terribly, so that's just that and that's the last thing i'm going to be doing any gossiping chit chat, video and just just let you guys know so. You know that when you're coming on jason draws you're expecting something about to hear okay, the problem here is not even about like not knowing what to call decentralized anymore. The problem now is: how can i infuse what i love doing or what i love teaching or what i love talking about into my decent trials without making you boring, because nobody wants to hear me talk about fashion like not, everybody is crazy, crazy into fashion, but, Like i can definitely like include fashion, which is like a big part of my life into my videos, which i would love absolutely love to so if, at any point you see a g central which will not be often anymore. If, at any point you see the g central video just know, that is a video that includes something else with fashion or just you know, updating your my current life. Maybe if you guys ask me questions on instagram i'll come on here and answer, because i won't stick my instagram more on the professional side, when you are a brand when you as a person, you become your brand there's certain things you can't just randomly say to The public, because, to be honest with you when i, when instagram disabled my account for a whole month right um, i realized people, don't give a about you just in case you don't know people don't give a about you. What did you about is what you're offering them so from for me, for example, like i offer people fashion styling on instagram right, so i'm basically like someone that's in people. I even look at my own videos when i want to get ready and go out, so i can look at my outfits. I'Ve worn before and get inspiration from that. So, like i'm that person that i'm one of the people, i'm not that person, i'm one of the people that people come to and say, oh, let me see what she want. Let me see how what i'm buying next and how i'm going to style. What i'm buying so nothing, i'm offering them is a sense of style right. So the thing is: when i'm no longer there to offer it guess what people do, they will look for somebody else to replace me and it is a fact of life, because you cannot. You can't live, you can't be doing something as a job and then you know you leave your work which, which uh all of the business is going to allow you to do that. You leave your work for one more month and then you've not done anything in regards to your work and you expect to come back and you know everybody will see you at face value. It'S not the same. It doesn't work that way. So that's the thing we created like you, want to take a break from creating just know in your head that so many people are going to forget you. Some people unfollow you so many people like them, she's not here, to give me content anymore, so whatever amount so the more that came back from you know the disabling break. That instagram gave me that i didn't ask for by the way, and i actually started creating content again. I realized my photo was still dropping like crazy and i was like damn like i'm even trying to post, while people aren't following me - and i just did to my friend so many my friends said yeah because, like you've been absent so like you should kind of Understand that people are subscribed to you, people don't give a about you except your friends. Right, like your friends, are checking on you. They will say: oh where's, the toy where, like what you're up to like, what's going on in my life, but anybody doesn't know you personally, they don't don't give two shits about whether you're passing through depression or not like the highest. Oh sorry, like i'm, not everybody reads your your captions. If, i'm being honest so i my cousin was telling me and she was like to be honest with you, people don't give to about you as a person. What they give i mean some people do don't get me wrong. Somebody would have actually built a connection with you give a about you as a person but like more of what they give the about is what you offer, because if you dip this well me i mean i'm i'm on youtube as well, so i've been on youtube For a while, as well all the times i take breaks the moment i come back, i realize my views dropped a lot right and that's because when you're not there consistently to offer what people are there for um yeah they're gon na forget about you because you're Just one out of the many people, many billions of people that they are coming across on youtube and instantly youtube. Has this way of like bringing up new people. You see on your plat on your screen. You know to still suggest, maybe for you to see check out their stuff the moment somebody checks out another person's channel and sees that yo. This person's channel is actually giving me what i want to see and they start watching that person's videos and you guys create the same style of thing or the same similar thing. Yes, you pronouncing, but guess what you're creating the same style of content. So the point is, if you find a replacement for you, you are going to be replaced, whether you like it or not, that's the point of trying to make so whenever you're taking breaks on social media. This is something you need to be careful about. Whenever i didn't break some social media always realize that the people don't care about you, they care about what you're giving them. So if you don't always be there to give them that content just know that you're going to be forgotten or when you come back, you'll lose so many followers. Okay and that's okay. For me, i was stressing about about city beats before initially, but i was like you know what damn like if people if people are on following they did not genuinely follow me for anything like. I guess it's like if you've seen that i'm back and i'm genuinely posted now, what's your point of unfollowing no reason so anyways like i can let them go because i don't care really like people that are actually there to see the new content i'm putting out. Will be there anyways? This is what i'm using my small travel size. This thing. I'Ve always had this before this whole coiling thing started, so you go in with your uh. What'S this thing called again flat iron, you go with your fat iron and you just basically curl up your baby hairs. It just makes it so much easier when it comes to soaping them to be able to sweep them down. So let me just do it. Okay, so now that everything is here and intact, wow, looking very gingery with this hair as well, i think i prefer this hair color to that ginger, one that i had on before. I don't know if you guys saw me in my ginger hair color, that hair was beautiful, it's beautiful, i still haven't bought. The thing is, i don't think that's a daily hair. This one is more like something that you can wear out on a daily basis. I think that's what i think i don't know about you guys, that's what i think so yeah in my baby, because i like to use my hands and before i start using hairs because i was just like. I think i look like that kind of stress too much stress put him: it's not my dad putting head gel but to be honest, hair mousse is very oh. This thing just helped me it's very, very important, because when you want to frame your baby hair, some people just using hair muscle, because you don't like the baby hairs looking glued down. So this helps you frame your baby hairs properly. Just for those people that are wondering how people do babies, so this really does frame your baby hairs and make sure you get one that has no alcohol in it, because the alcohol is going to dissolve your big blue glue that used to glue down your head. If you don't know how to install your wigs by the way, i know so many hair installation videos that i think at this point you guys are probably going to kill me if i drop a light instruction for you, because it's it's a bit too much now, But anyways and after having a conversation on my cousin, i really opened my eyes. So you just realized that you i'm here for a short time, um and i have to make use of my time so i'm using my hair most by the way to brush it down, brushing baby hands down. I always start from the front and then brush the wrists to the back. You can start from the back and brush the front always, but i like plenty plenty of baby hairs. What i just demonstrated now is for you. If they're, like pencility baby hairs, you might want to just reduce how much quantity your baby has you put it in front yeah. I don't feel like there's many baby, there's a camera there, but um that's what the hair is giving, but i don't know if you guys have other topics you want me to talk about, especially when it comes to fashion like i want to really know what i Can do to impact people fashion wise, because i really love fashion, and i know how to style people so too. So if i can, if you guys, want something in particular that you want me to teach on how to style, for example, this one is like how i'm styling my hair to match my outfits, which you see in a bit but yeah um. If you guys have like particular things, you would like me to teach you fashion wise. I already have a bunch of things written down which i'm going to be. You know introducing a little bit like on my channel to teach you guys, because if you're here and i'm not giving you content, what's the point of being here just what i explained earlier on, there's no point being here, you can always give content, so i might As well give you contents the kind of content that enjoy creative, so i enjoy creating fashion content and that's what i'm going to give you and i'll do it wholeheartedly, because i know that it's something i enjoy doing. If i don't enjoy something, i would find it so difficult, creating content in that direction, so yeah um, updates on my life. Before i finish up with this video wrap up this video updates on my life, i have been mentally um. What'S what i've been mentally fluctuating? A lot has been happening in my life. I'Ve had like good times. I'Ve had bad times, mostly bad times mentally. Oh no, actually i'll see mostly good times. Recently. I'Ve been riding bikes a lot lately and let me tell you it helps my mental health, like it's literally a drug for my mental health. If, i'm being honest, just writing, i'm feeling free in the wind feeling like nobody is touching. You, like you, don't want anybody like you're, just riding taking in nature. Oh, my gosh, i cannot express how much riding bicycles have really like improved my mental health legally um, i'm kind of sad because so much this comes an end soon and i will not have that privilege of riding bicycles outside anymore, because during winter ain't nobody ride. A bike with you baby, it's gon na, be so freaking cold. You, you would ever take a bicycle. Actually, there are no bicycles like for rent in winter because, like they only come back in april and leave in like november, so yeah there'll be no bicycles. For us, except you, have your own bicycle and we need to ride in the snow which nobody is because it's snow here. It'S not there's nothing to write home about it's not to be so anyways yeah. I am really enjoying my bike rides and since i moved into my apartment, the reason why people have not seen more apartment videos for me as well is because, since i moved into my apartment, i have not got any new like furniture pieces like i'm such ca. I'M very into interior decor right, but i am such an undecided person like. I feel like that's why this field of work is not. It might not really be for me because i'm very undecided like i, i can't really want something. I want to style my apartment certain way, but i'll see something else i'll be like. This will actually look so much better, and i already like have designed the whole thing in my head. What to look like, but then i'm gon na start deconstructing and reconstructing different ideas in my head from there. It should take like five years to do so. Bear with me, as i start like getting things together slowly, you know for my apartment and fixing stuff. I mean i'll, keep you guys in the loop for sure between like moving videos, which is crazy because i'm not moving anymore, but you know i'm packing and all those little knick-knacks bits and bobs. But yeah that's what's been happening in my life. That'S why i'm not showing you guys so many vlogs really recently and i'm trying to upgrade my camera, i'm trying to operate upgrade my analysis, i'm trying to upgrade different things so that my quality can actually stand out again because, to be honest, the quality of my Camera currently is absolutely shitty and i cannot even lie. I absolutely hate it. It makes me not want to create content like it really does discourage me so much from creating content. So some of these times, when you see i'm not crazy comments because i've actually shot content, but i just don't like how it's come out. I really don't like it. So for me, i'm such a perfectionist, which i don't know if some of you know already, i'm such a person - and it's just a lot to you - know edit and post something i'm not comfortable watching re-watching, because right now, the most recent videos i've shot i've. I can go go but comfortably go back and watch them. I feel comfortable about watching them. I don't feel like i'm forcing myself to watch it because i actually do enjoy watching them. See i'm going to tie down my baby hairs because i want them to stay in place before i oh yeah, before i put any hair glue on it, i should that's where it's been with me lately and my chanaks of your lifestyle. I love you guys how you guys have been doing. I hope you guys are doing okay. I know it's almost back to school season. So just know that there's going to be a few style videos for back to school, so get yourself like ready for those, because i'm going to be showing you guys outfit, you can wear it to school this season. You know what i mean so yeah um. While these baby hairs are sitting in place, they shouldn't take long to be honest, while they're setting in place i'm going to charge my battery and come back when it's done setting me please i'll, come back and wrap up this video for you guys: okay, okay, we Still got ta. Do my baby hairs, i'm gon na just do a review right now, let's see oh, it actually came out so much better than i thought. Am i looking a bit bold in the middle of my head, anyways yeah. I remember what was talking about and yes, the baby hairs were part of it, but i want to wrap up this section of the video by saying actually what i'm doing packing my hair and styling it. I want to figure out how to study, because either i do inside a center part, or i pack this part up. I think either way it will look really nice even packing it up is actually nice as well. You know just thinking about this hair again, i don't know you're going to wear out tomorrow when i wake up with my face, because i don't like wearing makeup every day. I don't like wearing makeup with the first piece so um when i write my makeup off i'll see. If i want to wear this hair tomorrow, i don't want to wear out then i'll pull back the other hair that i had on until i do my next hair review, because i really don't like wearing hair that would be so stressful to wear in the morning Or to style in the morning, but it seems like this: one is easy to kind of blend into my my brain but yeah the baby has came out. Well, that's what i suggested you guys and actually succeeded. I didn't even end up using any hair gel, so i'm thinking hemos is so much easier to use than hair gel, because it's not sticky, you can wipe it off easily. You can't even brush it off. If you want to, i mean it's not really my thing to brush it off, but i like it stuck down. I don't want to wear wings around so yeah. Like my last thing, i was going to say before i start my hair is in regards to with regards, in regards with the cats regards to my previous g7 drawers, where i was talking a lot about relationships. My cousin said something to me. She basically like made sure i realized this so um. If you know, if you've been following for a while, you know that i say it's low. I'Ve never been in a relationship before like a relationship where it's like they say. Oh my boyfriend, girlfriend. No, i've never been that i've only been in situationships most of my life and it's not fun being in a situation because you don't exactly know where you stand. The thing is yes, you know that you like this person, the person likes you back right, but at every day you guys are not official like people might know, okay they're exclusive, but nobody knows that you are in a relationship. I mean people might think over the relationship, but there's no tag on it. So, there's nothing really like a breakup and for me, if i'm being very honest with you that has worked for me for time, i'm i know that i'm not looking to get my person anytime soon. So what is the point of you know? Not being sure? I'M sorry i'm looking for my hair bubble. Oh, i can't find it. What is the point of basically telling yourself? Oh my god, where is my hair bubble? Okay, so i found my hair bubble. This is it by the way. So, basically, i've had my hair. I'Ve tie like three hair bubbles together and then i use the hair bobby pin to hold it when i'm done packing. So, just in order to give myself a headache, i'm gon na try to release the bits so yeah um, the gist is basically i've been giving you guys. You know my gist about relationships, what not to do how to date, how to shoot your shots. What, in retrospect, i've never been in an actual relationship like have you actually dipped that i have? Am i causing deep to you and she was like dudes come on, like you know that you've not been in a relationship like in a proper relationship so like when you give people advice, like? Obviously people want to get advice from someone. That'S been in a relationship. Someone that has been in the relationship that has worked and or not worked, or you know just - has had experience some accidents and i'm not one of those people. I have not had any experience to any accident. I love how this hair is coming out and actually really cute. Oh my gosh! So cute. I think i'm going to wear this hair for a while yeah but anyways um, yeah she's. Basically, just calling me out on that, and i appreciate that she called me out on it and you know i'm taking the advice and my relationship advice is going to have to stop because i really can't be given a relationship advice when i really have not experienced Being a relationship before or i don't even have an idea if the advice i'm giving walks, i just thought based on what people have said as well, and it's just kind of unfair to people that are listening to me, because it's like you're taking advice from someone That doesn't have the experience, so if it doesn't work for years almost like i'm giving you false advice - and i don't want to be that person that does videos where, oh by the way just putting some animals just to make sure everything lays flat but yeah um. I don't be that person that does videos on how to do something. When did you know how to do it? Just like me teaching how to style clothes when i have no idea how to style clothes like isn't that this is not bonkers, that is so stupid. So i'm gon na be honest and respect myself respect the boundaries i have with what i talk about. My professionality is not my professional profession to give relationship advice, i'm not a relationship expert, i'm not a relationship um, so i'm gon na just respect myself and not give advice in that direction anymore. If you want advice on that, i definitely know bringing me. Does a lot on relationships and i definitely can check out her channel because for me that's not my thing anymore and i really sincerely i'm sorry if i have this derailed anybody in that direction. Um i'm calling myself out now i'm taking full responsibility for my actions. I do not intend to shoot the relationship content except, let's see i'm experiencing it or i've experienced it and i'm like okay cool. This is what i've learned is what i've known but yeah, how single i've been for me. Single life has been honestly speaking this this video has been everywhere, but you know what this is kind of like a catch up single life for me has been a little bit lonely if i may say so myself, it's been quite lonely, but at the same time I'M getting to you know, i mean i've experienced being around my own self for a while. Now, i'm all my life so like i've been in situations where, like you know, obviously i've been around people that i really care about and all that. But for the past three years i've honestly not met somebody that has made me feel i mean i've met a few people, but they just not made me feel safe and or feel like i'm loved. Basically, oh, i mean relationship kind of vibes like i've not seen i've not met someone that i see a potential future within the past three years, like i've not seen talks to or met anyone that i see a potential relationship with the future or anything. So for me right now, i'm still exploring markets and let me just that's it for the last three years: sorry for the past twenty eight, twenty nineteen, twenty twenty, two, twenty one, twenty two for the past four years of my life. Basically, since i moved here, i have not not once met someone that has really like or seen or talked to someone that has really made me feel like okay, i kind of see a future with this person. I have not met that one person. So, for me it's been a lost cause at the moment and my dear i'm 25, like i'm actually 25, i'm feeling sick, i'm 25 years old and i feel so lost in the relationship world. I she feel like a child. I feel, like i, don't know anything about relationships i feel like i'm lost so in that direction, i'm kind of still trying to find myself. Oh my gosh, i love this hair. I wish to wear this hair out tomorrow. I don't even keep two sheets like it's. So pretty oh, my gosh, it's actually so beautiful. I hope it looks this nice tomorrow morning. If i wake up i'm looking human but anyways yeah um, i really have not um experienced the informal relationship and it really sucks because i feel like i could do so much better but mind you kobe, has been a big major major video um effector affector. Is that even a board, a major influence kobe has been a major influence on my situation. I kind of alive because i could have been in a much better situation - relationship wise, but i've just not had i wouldn't call it luck. I don't call relationships. Look relationship. Is not a look? Oh it's not something else. You look. It'S like it's. It'S almost like a blessing, basically generationship, that's functional that is like perfect, or that is working. Basically, don't jeopardize it for see things that will just last you a moment because i don't know it is not worth it so for me, i've just not found that person and to be honest with you, you guys know the last time i talked about like i Think about he would have interested the type of men i'm interested in. Oh, let's actually talk about that. What which i just do for a different video, i think actually for a different video, because i've already finished this um hair and i want to have juice for the next video i don't like. I said i don't think about relationships anymore, but i think i'll just include those like once in a while in my videos. Just so you can spice up your music. You know juicy suits and, to be honest with you, it's just fun kind of connecting people on that level of like you're, a human, i'm, a human being experienced the same thing so yeah um. To be honest with you, i don't know my relationship. Life has been dead. I can't even lie. It can be much better. I mean i'm starting to see more people because i'm going out more now. Oh this, my city, my city, is such a weird place to be. It'S filled with more people that are more on the homosexual side than the heterosexual side. I mean men wise, i'm telling you you'll be going through a whole street like these few guys and just be like damn. So none of these people are straight here. Are you kidding me for me, i've not found that one person and yeah like i said, oh, my gosh. I keep floating around in so many ways, so i was talking about how like um, you guys know how. I don't remember why you know the video i'm talking about. We are seeing kind of men that i'm into so lately that option has kind of expanded, which i'm going to explain on my next video because sorry, my next g central, because that's not what i want to dive into right now. My options have kind of like increased in that aspect, so yeah pray for me guys, pray for me, pray for me. It'S not easy, but we'll get through it. So yeah, i'm wrapping this video. Thank you so much okay. So this brings us to the end of this video. Like i said, i'm going to talk about anything else i think about in my next decentral video. This is what this hair is looking like, it's so pretty. I love the way i pack it. I love that the front can get flat enough for you to pack it because some of these wigs the front is never like you can't, especially when it's curly hair, it's very hard, sometimes to actually tame it to the point where you can pack it flat, both Firm, like can you see how flat is i didn't put any product? What i did was just put this to kind of like lay down the flyways. I didn't do anything i didn't use any product. I didn't brush it. I didn't comb it. I didn't do anything. Just you just saw me do this. This was all i did. Actually, this is for me, but like this was literally all i did also before you another tip for having your baby hairs, look good or having your hair look good. If you want baby legs on them, or if you put baby hairs with them, is to have put more big hairs like the more baby hairs like the fuller, the volume of baby hairs, the more realistic kind of looks because it hides most of the lace. And that's one thing i realized recently from watching our nose, video and she was explaining. I was like oh, i should actually try this and it did. It does work like every single time that i make my baby hairs more. I add more baby hairs to the size like it actually looks more natural, and this is the style of baby hairs. That fits my hairline, because i have a very meal like hairline that is like this and i also have a square for it. So it kind of like suits it really does suit my hair, my face structure so yeah like do what suits you some people like doing so many swoops. I don't do low soups just soup here superior. I'M good, like i actually do great like that. So yeah um this hair, like i told you guys, if you seen all these dots, it's from my hot pool, you know what i mean. If you have a hot comb, you know exactly what i'm talking about so yeah um. This has from julia here and inside this box. You guys know that towards the end of videos, i always want to talk about the company itself, so i'm going to obviously put bring out, show you guys my outfits, which is the next portion of this video. So let me just quickly give you guys a rundown of what came in the box before we go ahead to do my outfit. If you want to go ahead and watch the outfit, i'm going to obviously put time stamps, so you can see where the outfit i'm wearing for today is so yeah. This is the box. It came in sorry if it's a bit overpowering and the light and all but yeah inside the box. This is from your hair. Obviously inside the box, you have this with some lashes, some like a brush face brush. I probably have like three of these already, and i don't know why they're giving two of these, but these are like elastic bands that you can use to hold down your baby hairs. I'M probably going to give these away to to my hair clients. It came with this recap, and also it came with like a big bag and that bag is like easy to do something else. So perfectly that's why it's not here so yeah, that's pretty much what we came with and then oh yeah. It came with some um big, bold caps. So to be honest, it's a full package because you don't need much. I wish there was like a hairbrush for brushing down with baby hairs, but it doesn't come with that. I'M guessing everybody has that already. I don't think it's necessary for every hair brand to put that in because most people already have it so yeah. That'S pretty much. What came in this box and yeah we're going to hop right into styling my outfit and show you guys what i'm wearing and yeah? I really will be good as well. Deuces i'll see you my next g central okay, so i'm getting ready. Now i'm not going anywhere, it was already like 11 p.m. So i'm definitely aware i'm just showing you my outfits, because i'll show you guys like a montage of the outfit. It'S not going to be with the same hair, but um bear with is basically the outfit. I'M wearing right now, i'm just getting ready. So this is the dress. If you follow me around, you know i've linked it before this is a dress. It'S so beautiful. I think if i'm going anywhere, it's probably for a wedding with this kind of outfit. It'S really adorable suitcase yeah. Thank you for watching um. I really hope you enjoyed this video another facing my next one. Bye, foreign