Blackfishing/Colorism

Just wonder - and I just want to come in and do a talk that talk about black fishing, so I kind of recorder something that's already in my mic kind of died, so it's alright, but black fishing. So black fishing is when a person, typically a Caucasian woman, is posing herself as a black woman. Okay and a lot of people on social media is getting called out on it. As a black woman, it breaks my heart to know that everybody wants to mimic us, but nobody wants to walk in our shoes or be us no one wants to go through the harass or the betrayal or the herd or the deaths or the rapes or whatever. The case may be that women of color, like women downgrading, goes through. Why mimic us when you mock us and hunt us and things like that, like it blows my mind and I yeah I am had, and I didn't talk about this - Oh my other one, but it is what it is. So I was girly on Instagram and this popped up and I've seen maybe one or two of these chicks before on Instagram, never that I once think that they were a full black person. No, maybe one, but at least I thought they were at least mixed with something else. You know maybe a little dash of black and X panic or maybe a little black and white. You know a little bit somewhere in there. I'M thinking this person might have some waffles enough in them. Why? It'S? Because they don't know any better, our black men. She says them over someone that looks like this. You know people say melon is popping and stuff, but it's not really a melon that it's pulpit. But you know if you're a lighter brown skin, a liar black person, it's more acceptable to people and that's what all black men more they'd rather have a lighter black woman than a brown skinned black woman. Oh you real cute! Before let go! Why mimic us why-why-why mimic us, and you know everyone say it is. It was all the trend because of Kim Kardashian and and the the sister, the Jenna or whatever took a tiger given Jenna tips on to some lip kits to us will be really buying it. There I mean we had already not to say I mean I don't buy her stuff, so I don't know, but I just always thought that she was fishing for the younger crowd like the way younger crowd. You know what I'm saying like you know, the ones that want to grow up to be them. You have those women that are not black, that hang around black women, all their lives or black people warrior lives. Do they associate themselves as being the Black Plague person and that's what they do and they grow all their lives like that, like you have that one girl that I'm sorry of you gave my song in the background he's playing and being a bully? And, oh, it's not even midnight yeah. One of these girls was popping off talking about what does she say, cuz that pissed me off on what she said. She says something like us: black bees, you know make us sick. Well, you know if we make you so sick me, why are you you know mimicking us, because it blows my mind how much we ask people let stuff slide and I'm not saying that we were just letting things slide, but we let a lot of stuff slide And we don't know anyone accountable, especially us, especially us, and it's always been colorism in our own community and for other people to do the things they do to us black women when our own black men don't even treat us the way we should be treat it. I feel like I have a booger for that thought. Okay, maybe was a god. My makeup looks flawless today. That primer is no joke. I feel like I'm gon na, have to take this off with a skillet. I'M I'm sorry just going through these in this black fish. You know, people will call it fishing and think about it is they think we're trying to mimic them, because we want to wear the straight hair or long hair? Oh that's what she said. She said that she's, tired of us black bees and that we, you know we want to be like white women, because we don't play what hair, but first of all, it was white people who made us try to fit into that community. So the straightening, the hair, came to be acceptable, straightening the hair, even don't talk like Kings, straightening, the hair, putting swoops in their hair, trying to be like Elvis Presley where ever Elvis Presley's dude his move, something from someone else of color. So we're not trying to mimic anyone who wants to deal with this all day every day, like straight hair, is manageable. Yeah some people do some people don't and don't get me to the blonde, hair and blue eyes, because they're all like people who all black people that are born or born with excuse me with blonde hair and blue eyes. So pure black. It'S just so happen that they're born with blonde hair and blue eyes. We as a community must do we as security must do like. We try to say that the melon is popping, but is it really popping because I do recall and again its color assignment? I'M sorry you're pretty you're you're, pretty girl for a brown-skinned girl. I always had that you're really pretty for brown-skinned girl. Yeah thanks had a guy that I talked to and I get it because I'm like that too, where a majority of my people, my mother side of the family, is light-skinned it because of genetics, so I tend to date. People who all lie to me. Don'T get me wrong, I didn't date brown skin men. I dated white men Danny Boy weekend, Dominican it didn't matter, it was a person was a man, so I did it but yeah. I was really into him and it turned off, but you know I never thought that I would be so into someone like you. What do you mean like? I didn't really date: brown skin girls? What are you trying to say? I don't know it's trying to say you know, maybe you trying to say, and I get it, but I've never said anything like that. I never would make a person feel uncomfortable like that because, like oh, I never got them. I don't normally take from skinny guys, but you know you really cute for dog skin or a dark black skin guy like what the fudge like you know, you don't do that and again I I understand, because people on my side, family, is they just as bright White, so you want to be my cousin's are watching us, I'm so sorry, but but but black, but back to black fishing. It'S wrong! That'S my husband's Noren! I guess I'll be on the couch tonight. Take it man hold these people accountable. That'S what I want you to do, though these people accountable and I'm not trying to make them, say sorry, because they probably it was us who probably thought that they were blind. You know what I'm saying, but it was the bigness leading us to make us believe that they were black. So it was. We were stupid for even thinking not don't think they're wrong yet, but they've got apologize. No because they'll feel that did nothing wrong because they're gon na always they won't always tan they're gon na always want to feel trendy, because you know what trendy it's just gon na always be a problem. I'M sorry I just I didn't know how I was gon na come off. I just never wanted to talk about this situation because I felt some kind of way and I was just hurting my feelings, the more and more, I think about it, especially being a brown skinned black person how our Kings out black Kings treat a lighter skinned black Person and all Kings looking to other, I just like I said i I've never discriminate on who I dated never discriminate over here I hate it, but I just feel some kind of way right now. I think guys feel some kind of way. I could report my daughter, then hitting on this, because she would have other a lot to say so. I'M gon na go ahead and end this talk that talk on black fishing or fishing. Typically, they would say fishing. Why would you say fishing? What'S the fudge black fishing, don't call it fishing like so yeah comment rate subscribe. Tell me if you seen this on Instagram or on Facebook or on Twitter on any social media. Let me know, because I just came across this and I'm gon na pray. I'M gon na try to post this ugly with the quickness, because I really want to know like if y'all been seeing this, because I can't believe it can't believe you can't Eve. Isn'T he bows? I just feel some kind of way now I thought I was gon na be like all sassy and throwing it and the more and more, I think on it and the more and more. I guess because I had to do this over it's hitting me differently and like don't get me wrong, like the first pop wasn't like this. The first take wasn't like this. I mean wasn't sexy or nothing like that, it it was. It was so mellow, but it's just warm was kind of getting to me, so I'm gon na go ahead and end. This talk that talk and thanks for watching Davison, leave those pigs in peace, bye,