Grwm | Outre Annalise Wig | Love Language Part 1 Words Of Affirmation | Girl Talk | Chadneyb

I'M out here looking like shamar more on with tyler perry. Y'All, tell me why tyler don't be invested in these folks, wigs, hey pretty girls, it's jenny b here and i am coming to you with another wig review y'all. Let me be real. I'Ve been sitting here talking this whole time and my mic has been off: i'm ready to fight a little bit, but you know we gon na just do what it takes: we're gon na start over and we're gon na get this show on the road. If it's your first time coming to this channel, welcome subscribe to the pretty girl game, it is totally free just hit that button down below make sure you turn on the notification buttons, because there is a whole lot of videos that i have coming your way before. I get into her. I just want to let you know that my wig reviews are going to be a little different from here on out. I want to turn these wig reviews into kind of like girl, talks and chats, because a lot of the time people are silently battling a lot. So we're going to do these wig reviews, like they girl time girl, chats like you coming into my room with me and we're gon na sit down with each other and we're gon na talk about what's going on for the day in our life. So what i want y'all to do comment down below on these videos. Let me know if you like these videos respond to me if there's anything that you feel like, i said that was helpful. Please comment down below if it's something that you don't necessarily agree with. As long as it's respectful comment it down below, we can have a healthy conversation, or it may be something that you can add onto the topic for the day. That might be helpful to someone else, because we're all different and we're all going through different paths. So as a community on this channel we're here to help each other look think and feel good. That is the point also, if there's any topics that you feel like that, you want to discuss. Um comment it down below i'm going to take one of the comments. We'Re going to shout that person out on the next video and we're going to talk about that topic that they have posted down below or commenting down below. I will make sure that i try to get to everybody that i possibly can, but there's things that we need to talk about. So girl call me call me, so we can talk. The wig that we're going to be reviewing is going to be annalise by outright. Today'S topic is going to be on your love, language and the five love languages. So i'm going to break this down into segments because there are five love languages. There is physical touch, there is gifts, there is words of affirmation, there is um acts of service and there is quality time. That is a lot to cover in one video. So i'm going to separate them and talk about one of those categories per video. For the rest of the week so make sure that you subscribe and make sure you turn on the notification button. So we can have this conversation and you can always reference back to each thing, because you never know when your topic, your topic, is going to come up now stay tuned, okay, because even though we may not be talking about your topic or your type of love, Language, it is still helpful to understand what love languages as a whole, because people you encounter every day have a different love language than you. So it's good to understand it. Even if it's not your love language, if that makes sense. So today we're going to choose where's the affirmation. Why would we review this wig? Okay? Oh, i didn't tell you all about my glasses. I got my glasses on y'all. Don'T see these glasses for the next couple of videos just because i got a busted blood vessel in my left eye, so um yeah, i can't see. I can't put my contacts on. I can put my lashes on. I can't go get my lashes done. I can't put no makeup nowhere around like i'm just this. It'S okay, we gon na make the best for what we have. That'S another lesson make the best with what you got if you're gon na be seeing me in my glasses into this thing, heal up, i apologize in advance if y'all see the uh reflection of my lights, because we have a whole studio now um. But if you see all the lights reflecting in my glasses, i apologize girl, but i got ta be able to see. So here is the stock card. It'S from their perfect hairline collection from outre. It has a 13x6 lace parting. It is in style, annelise. The color is number two: it has high heat resistant fibers. You can put heat on it, that's up to 400 degrees, which i know um, because i don't know about the heat. You don't want to burn it off. It has transparent, hd lace. Baby hair is included. No plucking required um, it has a multitude of colors, which shows on the stock card shows you the ways that it can be styled as well. I got this a few weeks ago, so the lace is already cut off of. Is this because i had to slap it on for an advanced, don't come for my braids y'all, because it's time for them to be re-braided, i'm out here. Looking like shamar more with a tyler perry, y'all tell me why tyler don't be invested in these folks. Wigs! Alright, so i put my wig grip on. If you all are interested in this wig grip, it did come from amazon, so i will link down below the wig grip. This has changed my life. Okay. I ain't put a comb in my head from these wigs ever since i put this ever since i put this thing on it grips like i said, i've already wore her and i already cut the lace off baby. This lace is rolled up. This wig look like it's too far down on my head girl, look at it and let me know since you're on facetime with me girl, y'all on facetime with me. Now you can't be on facetime with me and then not tell me what you see on your side. I chose to do the love languages first, because there's the author, who wrote a book, the five love languages. Now he meant to to do that for married couples, but i felt like every relationship needs to know this. It should not be just limited to married couples because we experience the same stuff that marries married couples. Experience as well is just married. Couples are supposed to be locked in, for life. He'S pretty much just saying um that you need to understand that the way you love somebody else may not be the way that they want to be loved. Now you shouldn't take offense to it. You should learn. How does my partner want to be loved right? A lot of times you may feel as though your partner doesn't love you and your partner may feel, like i'm doing everything in my power to show you that i love you, why aren't you getting it? It'S like there is no bridging, like you are not connecting at all on the love factor. You know that they love you, but sometimes you don't feel that they love you and it's because you may need to hear topic number one words, the affirmation you might love to hear baby. I love your food or your food tastes really really good. Or maybe you look really really good today or i'm so proud of you for the job that you've done. You know i'm so proud of your growth, though i see you've been working out, you've been losing pounds, you look really really good or you look good in that dress, because people don't understand why some women like, but if you think i look fat in this dress, Whatever you think i did, this is this: they want reassurance, it's just another form of reassurance and nothing is wrong with a person that needs to hear it. So, with words of affirmation, the difference is a person would rather hear you give them a compliment that boosts their self-esteem. That makes them feel loved. That way by the words you say, because the words you say can literally break or make somebody's day it can either boost somebody's confidence or it can set off low self-esteem. You know people need words of affirmation, they want to know when you feel like that. They'Re doing a good job, they want to be told that they're beautiful that they look good. They want to know that you notice that they've lost weight. That'S why you hear some people come in and be like: okay, the wife doesn't cleaned all day and cooked or whatever, and you just come in and you just start eating right away or you just come in and you just throw your stuff down and you just Sit down - and you bask in all that nice cleanliness that she just worked hard to do it's better for you to at least just acknowledge the hard work of. Maybe it look real good in here, like it looks really really good in here, or it smells really really good in here. That'S what people that love words, the affirmation, that is what they love to hear now, here's the book! There'S the book and the author is gary chapman and it's called the five love languages. We might even start a book club, but i don't wan na know borah book club now. Don'T give me no books that i ain't gon na be able to finish because it's boring. I fell asleep on the five times. For those who feel me and feel like y'all love. Language is words. The affirmation comment down below like the stuff that you like to hear like what really sets you off with your partner. What do you like your partner to say to you what makes you feel good when your partner, when you're around your partner, like what do you like the most about your partner for these? This is for the girls. The word words for affirmation now. All of us love to hear nice things, but the thing is sometimes words is more important than all the other love languages, which is why i'm breaking it down like this. I want to give each love language its own attention and spotlight, because everyone is just as important and you just have to learn how to figure it out on what you like your partner's love language might be quality time you yeah, i mean you could tell me. I'M nice i'll be all day that i'm beautiful all day. You can tell me this all day, but i really don't care if you ain't spending, no time with me yeah, you can tell me this and you can tell me that. But if you ain't spending, no time with me, i don't feel like you love me, that's what i mean about like words of affirmation being more important than the next. If that makes sense, if you feel like that with your partner, that you're, not where you want to be y'all, keep arguing over the same thing, you're, not feeling loved, because, like he's really not giving you the words that you need he's, not speaking he's not vocalizing. He'S not communicating with you those things that you need to hear explain to your partner. This is why i don't feel loved. I don't feel loved because the way i perceive love is when you tell me this: that's that's what makes me feel loved and if you don't tell a person they not gon na know now a lot of people want to say. Well, i shouldn't have to tell my partner: yes, you should. Yes, you should that person is not your twin, not your mother. They did not raise you, they did not grow up with you. None of that, so a person doesn't automatically know what you need and a lot of times they haven't been exposed to it themselves to be able to just understand, especially if it's not their own love language. Look at me without my glasses. The hair has no combs in the front at all, and then it has one comb in the back and then it also has a band back there as well. Like a wig band, which i was, i was a little impressed about the wig band with my wig grip it is holding on nicely. I don't feel like it's going to slip or fall or slide back as far as the cap goes. It is big head friendly. It feels very comfortable on my head, the lace. I had no problems with laying it down baby hairs, it did come with baby hairs and the baby hairs were kind of like these. It was um, you know sparse, it wasn't long, it wasn't too long. I didn't have to do. No, i really didn't have to do. No cutting the hair was pretty much already kind of plucked to my liking, yeah girl, but, like i feel like it's important for people to know what they love language is because that's the discord between relationships a lot of times. That'S why, when you, you call - and you be like girl, he just ain't, doing it. For me. He ain't telling me that i'm beautiful he don't give me. No compliments. He don't make me feel, like i'm loved. He don't make me feel. Like he's attracted to me. He don't make me feel like he value me. He don't encourage me. He don't say things to me. That makes me feel, like i'm loved bro. Do you know he said this to me or do you know he came in and he didn't even tell me that he liked my food. He tell me he like my outfit like i got this lingerie for him and i did all this stuff. I did. I went all the way out for his birthday. I spent my whole check on his birthday and he didn't even tell me. Thank you. He didn't tell me if i did a good job. He didn't tell me nothing like like it's not cool to me. It made me feel, like i'm not valued in this relationship when i do something that i feel like i'm doing out of my heart yeah. So it's because you, like words of affirmation - and you know he may have enjoyed it. He may have thought man. This is the greatest thing in the world ain't. Nobody ever done this for me, but he didn't express it to you verbally to let you know that he appreciated it. So you took that and you ran with us and it's just the worst thing in the world. Now because you felt like he should have told you that he like it, you want him to not necessarily scream to the rooftop, but you want him to show the excitement with his words. I feel you i get it. I understand it's like shot me in my heart. You don't shut my ass down so yeah. That is, that's where's, the affirmation, if you need that assurance, if you need that um those words to tell you that you look good, that you feel good, that you're doing well, that they appreciate you um, that they they're on your side. Just things that motivate you, then it's not gon na be received well, and it doesn't make you wrong because that's just the way that you like to be loved the baby hairs, pretty much speak for itself. So my favorite part of this wig y'all is going to be the baby hairs and the the frontal. That'S the reason why i got it because of the hairline. So of course i already put some concealer in my my parting space. So i'm not going to do that. It is tangling, i didn't notice any shedding, but the tingling girl is yeah. It'S tingling like in the nape area. Let me put some here's the lens, so here's my boobs and that's where it comes to here is the back. Can y'all dig it can y'all dig this hair? Tell me yes or no, even with my glasses on, i feel cute so yeah here is the results of this wig and and elise. The baby hairs is a plus. The parting space is a plus the hd, transparent lace is a plus. Let me change my shirt. Okay girl, i've done with my hair, so i had to put my little outfit on so we can get ready to go out. She is very full. The density on this is full here is the side of the hair, so she's, like really kind of like on the wavy, the wavier inn versus curly, the most that i do get from shedding because she is synthetic. She is a curly unit, so i got maybe about this much the texture on. It is more of a yaki type texture. I'Ve been rocking annalise for about two and a half weeks now and she still is holding up on me. This hairline is immaculate. You guys. Let me know how you feel or what your opinion is on the category, one that we're speaking about, which is affirmations of love. If you are the type of person who who needs affirmations of love understand, there is nothing wrong with that. You deserve that, and you deserve your partner to know that. That'S the way that you feel loved, so they can make sure that they always tell you how beautiful you are. Tell you how how great of a job that you've done. Tell you how proud they are of you understand. It is nothing wrong with you if that is the way that you need love expressed to you. Also, if you are hearing your partner speak on some of those things that i've gone over doing this video then sit down and have a talk with them and see like. I think your love language might be words of affirmation and, if so, explain to them. What that is and um see if they agree, allow them to speak back to you, and you may just figure out what the disconnection was. You'Ve been trying to love them the way, a specific type of way and that's not the way that they want to be loved. So it's a it's, not a one-way street. It'S a two-way street. It'S not only for you to figure out how to be loved, but also for you to figure out how to love somebody else if you're, not understanding why y'all are just not connecting that is it for today. Y'All. Let me know girl if y'all like this chat. Talk that we had when you facetimed me, or you came over my house, the second love language that we're going to talk about is quality time, so i know it's going to be a lot of them. That is on that one, because you know girls like to have that. I just want to spend some time i want to. I want to spend some time. Okay, we going to get to y'all we're going to get to y'all, make sure you turn on that notification. Button make sure you subscribe so you're aware of the next wig review in the next conversation that we have when you come over to my house, because next we're going to talk about quality time - and i know you're going to go in, i know y'all going to Go in, i might as well go ahead and get ready for this conversation and i'm so excited about it. So i will talk to you guys soon. I told y'all. I have something to offer, or i have something special for you guys at the end of the video there is a project underway um that i have for you guys who are interested in this type of self help self love self preservation. I really really want to hone in and focus on self self self, because i am a huge believer, especially with things that have gone on in my life and in my relationships and my past that if you are not good yourself, nobody around you is going to Be good, if you don't love yourself, then you won't be able to love anybody else. So i really and take care of yourself. You can't take care of nobody else if you can't take care of yourself. So a lot of this is uh has stemmed from things that i've gone through myself and things that i know that us women go through all the time and sometimes we don't even know how to get through or we don't know our way out of it or We don't have that encouraging, word and stuff like that so like that is really where my heart lies at. I wanted to offer two things for you guys for one. I understand. Sometimes you can't talk to your family. I understand you can't talk to your friends a co-worker, a boyfriend, a girlfriend whatever you don't feel like you. Have anybody to talk to to be your authentic self to say those things that you're scared to say to somebody else, because you feel like they're going to judge you or just won't, listen to you, because you feel like you're going crazy. I want to start offering vulnerability, calls it could be 30 minutes or it could be an hour. I might even do 15 minutes because a lot of times you need somebody advice, who's been through a lot of stuff that you've been through already and come out on. The other end successfully and then a lot of times. You need to just speak to somebody who is not involved to get another opinion, somebody who can assess it from our ways and put themselves in every person's shoes. So you can look at it from all angles. So i want to be able to offer you that um offer you those sessions, offer you that talk time offer you that vulnerable time, because being vulnerable is not always easy. As a matter of fact, it's one of the hard things hardest things to do. So i want to be able to offer you those vulnerability sessions whatever it is that you need, please let me know, comment down below if you want to dm me personally, you can personally dm me at the real underscore chutney b on instagram. Make sure you follow me there, because i'm going to be dropping gems and little videos and stuff there as well. I want to be able to give you that opportunity to release when you need to release to help walk you through things um as well. A lot of y'all don't even know i have a psychology background and degree. I never say any of this so, like i said i am here to help i love you, god loves you y'all know anything. I can do to help. You feel better. Look better! Think. Better, i'm all on it. I will let you know, and i will post it down below. When those sessions become available, it will have a calendar for you to book and all that kind of stuff. So trust me, i'm in i'm in the works it's coming. It'S coming very very soon. It'S 100 private exclusive because of the fact that i feel like love languages is so important. It'S one of the most important basic things in life. I am going to be offering a ebook or a webinar y'all. Let me know if y'all want to ebook y'all. Let me know if y'all want a webinar. I know some people like to read: some people prefer video, but we're going to go in deeper about the five love languages, but with a twist, it's literally going to be the five self self-love languages learning to love your damn self see this conversation we've been. Having has been about loving somebody else and how they've been loving you i want to bring it back to self-care and self-love and self-worth. You have to learn the best ways to love yourself. You have to learn the best ways to take care of yourself and with that being said, that is the point of the webinar. We'Re gon na go deep, we're going to dive in we're going to go down, and i mean we're going to address a lot when it comes down to these love languages and i'm going to be real and i might hit a little. You know a couple of sensitive spots, but i feel like those things that we don't want to address is what we need to address in order to be better people in order to heal properly. Since i don't know what my love language is, we're going to break it down we're going to break it down, you need that webinar so stay tuned for it. I have the webinar coming. I have the vulnerable uh the vulnerability sessions coming to where you know girl call me facetime me call me like the chat line. Y'All remember the chat live back in the day, maybe y'all too young for that. But if you do remember the chat, live comment down below hashtag chat live cause. The chat loud was lit, so we might be bringing that back for the pretty girls y'all. Let me know if there's something y'all interested in, but i don't talk to y'all head off. If y'all the pros the con's only girl, the only kind i see is that it tangles, because it's longer than synthetic if y'all like emily's, i will make sure that i put her in the comments down below to where you can purchase italy. She goes fast y'all. So i'm gon na try to pull i'm gon na try to put down every link that i know is attached to her, but y'all got to just like is thank you so much for coming over here and doing your hair with me girl and talking to me, I feel good, i feel better. We gon na inhale and we're gon na exhale. I look cute, you look cute. We look cute together, i'm about to take some pictures. If you do get this hair, take some pictures and tag me on instagram and say girl. This is the wig we was on facetime talking about this is this is what we was on. The call talking about this girl. When i came over your house remember, i came over your house and you was telling me about annalise girl. I went and got her and she's bombed until next time take care of yourself, because what, if you don't take care of yourself, you can't come back to see me and that is just not fail. It ain't gon na cut it, and i don't like it. Okay, pinky promise. I will do the same. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. Peace going down meet me at the trap. It'S going down, mimi at the club. It'S going down in it something something