Black Women Are Ashamed Of Their Hair!
- Posted on 04 November, 2022
- Hair Care
- By Anonymous
Black Hair, Black Women Hair, Natural Hair, Kinky Curly Hair, Kinky Hair, Black Men, Black Culture, Natural Hair Care, Black Hair, Nappy Hair, Black Hair Care Routine
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Black women are ashamed of their own hair. Now I know I'm probably going to get pushback for this, but y'all know it's true, and for many of us it's actually cultural generational. I mean how many of us have mothers aunts, grandmothers, women in our life, who literally told us that we needed to straighten our hair or would you know make disparaging comments about it? You know being a a tame or you know something that needs to be tamed or controlled. Like we all heard stuff saw older women wearing wigs and weaves and always doing something to try to straighten always doing something to try to hide it, and so we grew up learning how to make our hair look like somebody else think about it. Think about it. If you, you are consistently putting the hair of somebody else on your head, literally, you are hiding the crown that God gave you and you're putting the crown of another woman's hair on your head. Think about that spiritually like what is that doing to you psychologically, if you can't even rock your own hair consistently, I'm not saying every something to have fun, but you are consistently having a need to hide what God gave you. What is that doing to you psychologically? What does that do into your self-esteem? I'Ve had a lot of women just over the last couple of weeks, like DM me, email me and just kind of open up and be like you know, honestly, I don't know how to do my own hair, like I literally, was taught how to keep it straight. I literally was taught how to make it look a certain way, but I don't know my own texture like I don't know how to help my own hair grow. I don't know what it needs and you know I hear a lot of pushback. Oh well, your legs weaves are easier, oh we're just being creative or whatever, but the reality is wigs and leaves are probably easier is because we spent the last couple of decades figuring out how to hide her hair figuring out how to make her hair. Look like a white woman, but a lot of us didn't learn the regimen. We didn't learn what we needed to to maintain our own hair and so now you're, maybe 20s 30s, for whatever they're older. It'S like you, don't even know, because you weren't hot, but again think about this. If you spent so much time trying to hide your hair literally put in the crown of somebody else's hair on your head time and time again, what is that telling you about yourself? What message are you giving yourself and that's what I'm saying it's like, ladies, like God, Gave You Beautiful Hair, whatever texture, it is, it's like you, don't have to hide it, and I just wish there was more of an honest conversation about how some of us struggle With this, some of us struggle to not know how to do our own hair to not feel comfortable with it to feel ashamed for it, and it's like what God gave you is fine, it's good, I think. As long as you find a regimen, you find a texture. You find you know the products that work for you, there's something empowering about honoring and respecting what God gave you. But I think many of us have to first accept that we don't really like our own hair and that's feeding into her own self-interest.
Comments
Drega001: When I was a little kid I tried to fight my auntie multiple times because she was hurting my cousins while doing their hair. I think I was still a toddler, it still doesn't sit right with me.
Kiam Kweli: Spot on great video. When the men mention this, it falls on deaf ears. The vast majority of us prefer our women to have natural hair. For any skeptics, consider this. Both free and enslaved BW had no problems getting men and having husbands with their natural hair.
LuCasley20: Also, some of that hair on wigs has been taken from women in developing countries many times, under duress (ie: cutting and selling their hair in exchange for money to feed their families) and that negative energy is transferred to the new user.
ms Gates: I must say as a black woman with natural hair it is not easy to manage when you have a coarse, thick, hard to comb texture and the longer it gets the more difficult to manage. It's easy to judge when you have 3b texture hair.On the other hand I agree that some of us have hatred for our hair or simply were not taught or care to learn how to manage it. It can either be laziness or the feeling of being overwhelmed or not feeling pretty with shrunken nappy hair I know I experienced it and I'm okay now I love my natural 4c hair and wouldn't trade it for anything else, but It took me decades to get here.
Nyshyn: Truthfully, I've never heard a non-black person say the word nappy. Seems most of the hair hate in our community feels like it comes from people bashing themselves and being convinced that the world is doing
The Lies-This is who I am in real life: I agree with this. I hear more BW who say they hate their hair than I hear BM saying they hate our hair. Smh
𝓙𝓾🤍𝓳𝓾: I think we need to give 2022 it’s flowers, there’s many black women now wearing their natural hair and taking very good care of it. I get this message if it was years but more and more women are wearing natural even if they throw a wig on here and there underneath that wig their taking care of their hair. Back then didn’t have the products they have now to maintain it better and a lot of us aren’t listening to our old school grandma and started educating ourselves on our hair.
S1lverspike: I got done trying to convince sisters of the exact words you said.
SeanD44: This video was on time. Just saw a thumbnail of Joy Reid with blonde short hair, looking like a "Karen". Looks like she has contacts on as well. But, cultural appropriation though...
Open-Minded Skeptic: A black woman ashamed of her own hair doesn't love The Most High who gave her that hair to begin with. Vanity is just one of the black woman's sins she needs to correct within herself. Weave and wig addiction be having sistas out here looking real crazy.
Anubis88: Short answer yes and somehow its bm fault not there mothers for using relaxers on them at 3 years old...or madam cj walker for setting their hair on fire with a comb.
John Nwabufor Udemezue: I love women with their natural hair, Chez you should be a comedienne
Malcolm Huey King: I just had a friendship end because I told a black woman I didn’t want a black woman who dyed her hair blonde.
Gary Kane: Facts.
Larue Brown: Black women are spiritually not well and are in need of professional help! Truth is a healer!
John Nwabufor Udemezue: Your so funny chez
BELLA RINGS: THIS WAS ME!!!!!!
Yung Romeo: Then wonder why it fall out later.
linsel mitchell: I like your hair
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