My 4C Natural Hair Is Dry, Brittle, And Falling Out So I Had To Do This.....

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Yes, you guys I've been natural for 9 years, a big chop, my hair, a number of times. If you don't know G, you know the story again, questions all the time and if you're new here I have chunder a lot because they write scissor happy and I like to cut my hair anyways. So that's this. I came from nine years natural like whoa time. Just went by so fast but anyways, so I know y'all gripped by the titles like what is going on, so y'all got to keep y'all updated on. What'S going on with my natural hair and everything. So if you've been here for a long time, you guys have seen the ups and downs of my natural hair journey. You guys have see if I'm here when it was super fine and yeah. I'Ve seen it now where it's a lot thicker and it has changed. A lot of my hair is completely changed. Over the whole 5 years, I've been on YouTube it'll, be six years in June July when I've been how long and on YouTube, but you guys have seen my hair change a lot in as of lately. My hair is really changing. You guys really different. I thought notice a big difference in my hair. My hair has changed with my age, I believe I've know. I'Ve talked to you guys about that in the past, because a lot of times we hear stuff like they can be hereditary, and I mentioned a past that mom has LeBron, hear things like though she was younger and as she got older, it changed. I'M definitely starting to notice that, in my hair my hair is growing a lot faster these days and I've just been noticing a lot of like changes in my hair. That thickness has changed. It'S still fine, but it's a lot thicker than it used to be. Also you guys know about four months ago I did my one-year update for my fourth big chop, I'm showing you guys my hair and everything and how my hair was thriving and improving. For my hair, I will link the video in the description box your as of lately. I noticed that my ends or snap crackling and popping - and I did not like that and I felt really rough and dry and I would think about my innocence. I still had some bleach on my hair. Actually you guys remember when my hair was short and I brought my hair well, I didn't cut all the color off my hair. What I did I'll link that video down below what I did was out: rinse my hair and gradually over time I planned on just you know: snipping the color out. Well, when I did the trim four months ago, I didn't cut all the color out and I don't know I'm pretty sure it's from the color but my hands or it's not crackling and popping whenever I comb my hair, and that was an indication to let me Know your ends are dry, as I don't know what and they're brittle. So you need to cut them in when I just recently did that video that braid out video my hands felt terrible and they were giving me a hard time when I was twisting my hair. They didn't want to say twist it at the bottom, so I was like okay. That is letting me know like. It is definitely time for me to trim out here. You definitely have to listen to your hair, because your hair will talk to you and my it was like a girl. You do not get these kinds of out of here. You are going to damage and ruin your hair, because you know when your hair is drying up drying this so today that can cause a breakage, and I didn't want that to happen. So I was like today. Enough is enough. I wash my hair blew it out and I cut off all of the ends and you guys will see that now. I could've did that while my hair was twisted, but I need to really get in there and see my hair, because I've also been having a lot of single strand knots on the ends of my hair and I'm pretty sure it's due to my hands being dry And brittle, like I said there was still a lot of color on the ends of my hair. You guys may not have been able to see because it's really saying it doesn't really pick up on camera much, but it was definitely there because I could see it. I was like, let me get this up out of here, because I am NOT going out there like this, so I know my hair has grown since the last time. I trim my hair, but I'm pretty sure I probably have cut off the limp that I obtained, but I don't even care because I know my model limp doesn't mean anything if your hair is damaged, you'll not be holding onto damaged and sweet because you won't tear Your hair up, okay, don't hold onto a limp, does not matter health of your hair meadow. So I was like. Oh no, no, I took those scissors and I went to town. I was only going to do a dusting, but I ended up doing full launch from you like. I just did a whole trim on my hair, because my hair was so like this grain me like the single strand knots were driving me nuts, like I mean literally driving me nuts, and I did get them out of it up like this. Why? I don't even care about the one. I don't care less about the one I just need to make sure my hair is healthy and y'all can see. I have a pretty did a really good job on this clip in my fam. I thought it's really even. I feel like there is still a little bit of color left on some parts of my hair, so I may have to go in and another for four months and probably cut the rest off now. I do have a video about when you should or shouldn't trim your hair um. I will link it in the description. Michael. I need a lot of questions about that. There is no right or wrong time to trim your hair. You have to listen to your hair. Everyone'S here, it's different. Some people may require trim a little bit more often because of Sheila's try not being dry because they may have colored a hair. You know there's a lot of reasons as to why you may need to trim your hair or that's your hair, but you can't really technically for the time stamp on it. But I talk about all that in that video. So if you are interested in that video make sure you watch that video, you guys cuz, I go really in depth in that video about trimming and things like that. But my hair was definitely talking to me Arius to help the overall. It'S just that those ends were just not getting it and I knew something was going on because the last time I slipped my hair down, I felt like a lot of pieces of my hair were like curling and, like kind of like that, my hands were doing This, like they were just all over the place like they weren't coming together. So that's how I also knew that I needed to go ahead and you know get my hair together. This is something new. I'Ve never really had to do this in the past, like I said before, I even got on YouTube. When I grew my hair out, I had pictures in a video check it out um. I went years without getting a trim and I never had experience and anything like this when my aunt is doing this social, especially I just trimmed four months at all so yeah, but I'm pretty sure with the color, I'm almost certain because back then I didn't have Come on my hair, so yeah, I went ahead and got my hair together because I was not playing with it, but overall my hair is doing really great. You guys I do have a boss by I don't even think you guys can see it. I do have a boss spot right here. This is the boss spot. It'S growing back and y'all can see the little peach fuzz I'll, put some pictures. It'S growing back my you're always falling out and that's why I'm starting to think that it maybe is a soft sweater. So I'm like that, I have like Ella, peisha, areata and next slide. If phones out gon na see your no kidding you guys it falls out once here. I'Ve talked about this before my shell falls out once a year and he girls back, and I don't even do anything to it. I got flipped black jamaican, castor oil on it, but it just grows back it so weirdest thing ever it always happens right through in the front, so can be the middle part right now, though, that's pretty much it, I just split black Jamaican, castor oil or now I'M not I've been getting a lot of questions on what I've been doing to grow. My here you guys, I have a really simple routine, I'm very simple when I, when it comes to my hair, because you got to keep it simple, that's what makes your hair grow. I do the life I do, while shampoo condition and under the loc method for the most part - and this is what I do you guys and I all myself look like to make a castor oil. That is really all I've been doing. I believe, back in February I started taking these I'm inconsistent um. I would typically only take these to thicken up my hair. These aren't really. I don't really see a big difference in the growth of money in my hair. These over here are skin and nails. Uh means by against refining. I don't really see a difference in the length of my hair with these um. My nails are pretty naturally grow long, but these make my nails go even longer and um yeah. I don't think it really works for my skin either. I just like to stay home to help with the thickness of my hair, but I haven't even been taking on Kristen's only so I can't really say if this has really contribute is y'all know when I did the update four months ago back in December, my one Year for a big chocolate day, my hair was already thickening up on this on. I was just trying to see if these are gon na like make it even thicker. I mean I don't know they could be working, I'm not hundred percent up. Then I'm not even since just someone taking on social knows well, um, I'm not gon na say take these for growth because I don't see any growth with these but yeah I'm in the past. I'Ve taken them a little bit in to thicken them up, but that's literally all I've been doing you guys, but you know it's up with your doctor before you start taking stuff, but I did not take those to grow. My hair - I just want to let you guys know, God, did not take those about my hair. As far as my edges, I've always had fun and just the situation back in the day that happened, which caused me to lose. My hair, I mean I haven't, never talked about the situation on my channel. I don't know if I will, because it's such a negative story. You know I got into oxidation long story short someone pulled my hair. Doesn'T that situation I'm kind of like damage, my hair follicle, I'm sure, but I don't know if I ever tell that story, it's just such a negative, negative story and yeah it was. It was just definitely as traumatizing I experienced. This is my current state of mind here I feel like it has grown, but I definitely probably chopped the most of the growth off, but I already care because my stands were so bad, like they were giving me literally the blues. These are my ends. I said the color is really faint, but you can see that all the coloring - and this feels horrible - it is so so straggly and it just it's dry and just I'm gon na keep an eye on my hair and listen to my mare, see you guys. That is what you guys should be doing is listening to your hair for hair talks to us. I'M gon na tell you've been eating, my oyster, I'm not sure. If he'll drive it needs to be trimmed. If it needs this, if it means that if it needs this means that, because it talks to you, so you just got to be able to list that there was no secret to growing out for me. I don't have a secret. I'Ve always say you guys when it comes to your hair, it's not always the outside. You have to also work in the inside, so you have to make sure you drink on water, taking care of yourself taking your vitamins. Your hair may not be growing because you may lack some vitamins. You may have a deficiency so make sure you guys consult with your physician, your primary care doctor, even if you, if you suffer from Ella, pichia or LP, she areata, and you feel like it's getting worse or things like that. Please consult with a physician. I am NOT a physician, but please consult with a doctor, your doctor or dermatologist, or somebody, because it's not always the outer aspect as to why our here is, like you know, doing things that are crazy, like I have here that sheds a lot. My hair sheds a lot and I find that in his window it's lucious but he's been doing a lot better because I, the vitamins vitamin D deficiency, so I started taking vitamin B to help with the shedding also have little iron or iron. Some closure here it'd be brittle, so you know you got to kind of know your body. You have to know everything about yourself, your body chemistry, because it tells a lot about your hair. Don'T just always run out to the store and think you going by hair growth miracle product, and it's just going to help you. That'S not always the case, because you have to make sure you're taking care of yourself and turn the leak up on your regimens. Make sure you are taking care of your hair, make sure you're, moisturizing you're not overwhelming surprising and making your hair brittle and dry, and all this probability sure you are taking care of your strands is really and for and nobody's watch machine or hair routine is one-size-fits-all. All of our routines are going to be different. I just want to put that out there. I feel like people look for the perfect routine and you really just got ta. Do what works for you, but I probably don't do half of this of them. You know the natural hair community rectum is but that's okay, because what I do for my hair has worked for my hair time and time again, so I just continue to do what I do. I remember I got a comment from a girl. I blocked her. She was like well it's time for you to change your regimen, because I've been growing my hair, the same, I'm telling you and my hair as much longer than yours, well more power to your sister girl, but everybody's here. It'S different. I do have here that grows on the slower and it has now sped up over the year, so it is growing a little bit faster for me. You remember for me because everybody here goes differently. My mom cut my hair before my mom, like I started, run my hair back out. I will not be surprising. My mom here surpasses my hair by the summer. Her shots fast growing hair, and I bent my ear back out longer than she is, and I'm almost turning her hair gon na be longer than mine. Everybody'S journey is different who's. Not comparing your hair journey to anyone else. Got ta. Stop comparing yourself to people, it's okay! You can work on it. It'Ll grow, embrace your Charice. Your shrinkage, I embrace mine, y'all, know how I am. I don't care cuz. That'S the end of the day, healthy hair is all that matters. Okay, so yeah, I'm hoping I won't - have to trim my hair again for a while, because I think I only have a little bit left. So I might have to do another show in a couple of months, but I hope not hopefully or maybe a dusty, maybe because that's what I thought I was one of the day, but I just went ahead and did all a trim. It is what it is. I'M gon na go ahead and get out of here because I'm about to start rambling hope you guys enjoyed this video thanks for watching, and I will see you all in my next one. Bye,