Superficiality: The New Standard Of Beauty (Toxic Make-Up/Weave Culture)

Hey y'all, it's your girl critique again, so i'm like 98 sure that what i'm about to say is going to ruffle, but i don't trust people who wear full face like makeup or people who are just a little bit obsessed with their physical appearance. There'S one thing to be confident and keep yourself up because hey i stay fly my damn self, but it's another thing to like completely transform your appearance. Now, before i move forward with what i'm saying it depends on this person's occupation, my level of trust with that type of individual engaging in those shape-shifting activities. I can't i'm not about to trust no spiritual, coach, advisor or guru, who always has a full, beat [ __ ] face or she's wearing another woman's hair. All the [ __ ] time or you know, she's just so self-conscious about her appearance that she's willing to sell her integrity for the sake of it. No, you can't teach me anything like the only thing you can teach me spiritualize. Is you be in a mirror and i'd be a mirror to you and what you know? What you're reflecting to me is all the things that i need not to do. Basically, all the behaviors i need not to engage in regarding self-love. You cannot teach me about love when you don't even love your natural self. This has been my logic for ever in a day now and it's you know, put me in a place where you know so: people don't [ __ ] with me because of that, and i'm i'm completely fine with that, because once again, if you're engaging in deceptive Behaviors, where you're having to deceive individuals from their actual perception of you, physically wise good, get mad about what i'm saying and decide not to [ __ ] with me, cut me off: oh, she mad cuz, she's, just jealous whatever. You need to tell yourself it's okay, because i don't need that fa energy around me, where i'm going that fake energy can't come with me. The legacy that i'm building for my daughters that fake [ __ ], cannot can definitely not come with me. My children, my daughters, are not going to be encouraged to cover their [ __ ] selves, though my children aren't going to be obsessed with filters for the sake of self-worth. I like filters, who don't like filters in in good angles and [ __ ], but there's just you know: people have been taking this [ __ ] extremely too [ __ ] far all y'all, looking like by the way, all y'all look alike. Y'All, that's doing like the whole [ __ ]. Nine, like you, draw your eyebrows you're wearing these exaggerated ass eyelashes. I wouldn't. I cannot wrap my mind around that [ __ ] besides delusion delusional delusional. No, i'm not saying everyone who who wears eyelashes or whatever kind of makeup is delusional. I'M not saying that this is not what this is: people who are just totally dependent on it, that they don't feel attractive or their most beautiful self unless, unless they acquire these things - or you know, add these things to their appearance. That'S who i'm talking to and another thing, not even just not even them specifically who i'm talking to is people who want to take on a role as spiritual, gurus, um teachers, advisors, therapists. You know i'm talking to them. No, you cannot help assist, heal, no [. __ ] body, because you got ta heal your damn self. You got ta heal how you feel about yourself. You need to love yourself, you i i just. I just feel like a lot of [ __ ], it's like leading by example, type of thing. I cannot take you serious if you're trying to tell me about self-love - and you know, and this and that and being you know healthy and mental health, and you know transmuting trauma when you're not even transmuting your [ __ ] trauma. That is just right here, front and center for us to see. I got a problem with that. I got a problem with that. You know everyone has gifts. Anybody can read tarot. Do that, do that, but don't get beside yourself. That'S all i'm saying if you're one of those people - and you know you need to work on your self-worth, don't get massage yourself, okay, okay, don't get beside yourself! Read your cards read the cards. If you want to talk about drama, dm dfs and soul, mates twin flames, do that do that, but i just feel like uh, even if you're okay, this too, even if you are going to talk about self-improvement and self-love and stuff like that and your take on It it's like an interactive thing, it's all of us at the same time, it's like a collective. You know considering yourself, you know where you're able to admit you know you're able to stand in your integrity. Even when you are, you know, in the midst of um battling with with that, when that type of insecurity or or limitation spiritual limitation within yourself. Now, that's that's different if you're putting yourself out there as well like okay, i know i need to work on this or you know, or i'm going to limit. You know how much i wear or you know this is why i do this. You know if you can just be very real and authentic when you talk about the stuff and actually like put forth the effort to improve that for yourself as well. That'S different, but if you're just you know you you're, very arrogant and defending you know something. That'S literally taking over our young girls and that's my thing like people try to make it. People try to deflect from the actual principality, like from the actual, like matter like the matter at hand, the real issue, the real problem, people love to deflect and like to throw these accusations. Oh she's, just jealous oh her teeth, [ __ ] up. Oh oh, she did oh, she that i really don't give a [ __ ] pay attention to the damn win: oh my god, passive to the girls paying attention to the girls. That'S coming up after us. Even sooner it's like it's just it's! It'S moving quicker! Even sooner 13 year olds, 12 year olds, 11 year olds, insecure as [ __, ] little girls, little black girls insecure. They only feel pretty with these [ __ ] lace fronts with somebody else's hair. They don't even feel confident with their own hair. They don't feel confident in their own skin, their own [ __ ], eyelashes eyelashes. You have managed, you literally have managed. You know this really makes me emotional. You have literally managed to make a black a little girl feel insecure about her [ __ ] eyelashes. If that's not a reality check, i don't know what the [ __ ] will be. It used to be oh girls getting picked out because their eyebrows, so goddamn thick and bushy, now [ __ ] doing everything in their power to have these big ass, thick ass eyebrows. You see you see how you see, how the devil just played the [ __ ] out of people. You saw the devil just play the [ __ ] out of people faithfully faithfully playing the [ __ ] out of people against themselves against their own insecurities. Putting insecurities against insecurities and just watching watching the [ __ ] show go down watching you spread this poison generation from generation from generation. I got a problem with that. I'M an aries, taurus cus aries mars, i'm very passionate, but a lot of my passion has come. Has been misinterpreted as me being a mean person, and it's not that i'm mean i'm very passionate and i'm i'm just very like to the point: i'm not oblivious to what the [ __ ] is happening around me and it's sad. It'S [ __, ], sad that people will resort to these 3d ass gangs, mental mind [, __, ] and [ __ ], just because they don't want to be accountable of dealing with their own unhealed [ __ ] trauma. They don't want to be accountable of how they're subconsciously passing this [ __ ] down to their daughters, putting [ __ ] filters on your damn babies filters on your babies, you're, not even confident in how the [ __ ] your baby. Look when your baby's just a [, __, ] baby, let the baby be a [, __, ] baby, don't subconsciously, pass down your [ __ ], insecurities to your [ __, ] children, oh well, i'm grown up they this age, they even they even wearing this stuff. I don't let them that, no, you let them you give them access! Why? Because you're bringing that access through you through yourself by you, engaging in those behaviors, that's how they got [ __ ] access to the [ __ ] insecurity! That'S what i'm talking about access to insecurity because of your behaviors that stem from your insecurities now you're wondering why your daughters, they you know they just keep comparing themselves to other girls and stuff at school, and that's another thing too y'all, just at complete y'all, be Completely oblivious to what's going on in pure town when they with their [ __ ] peers. When we, we got our daughters, so [ __, ], insecure, that you know they feel like they need to wear this hair, this makeup or whatever, whatever whatever, and then they go to school, trying to compare each other trying to compare themselves to one another or you Know they they assign rank to one another based on how fake the [ __ ], you can be, how exaggerated the [ __ ] you can be and that's defined as that's the new definition of beauty. Now now it's one thing for us to be wrapped up in the european western culture of what beauty is which that still has you know that still has a play on it. But now superficiality is the new definition of [ __ ] beauty and that's [ __ ], sick, it's sick! It'S sad and regardless of the many excuses or borrow regurgitating excuses, [ __, ], half of that [ __ ], trying to defend that [ __ ] and keep it alive pay attention to what it's doing to your legacy pay attention to what it's doing to the Kids to children and teens around you pay attention pay attention. Please let that child look like a five-year-old. Stop dressing, your child, like she, your homegirl cause. She not she your child. Yes y'all! You could be a friend to her, but be a [ __ ] role model be a guide, a responsible guide, invest in that child becoming the best version of who they are of the gifts and talents that they already cultivated with. You know the things that you know they're already showing you you know who they are investing at, not just in their [ __, ], physical appearance and keeping over the joneses and how the [ __ ] they look. Oh my god. Let that child be a child. Let that team be a [, __ ] teenager, that's all the [ __ ], i'm saying oh, but we can't avoid you know what what they're exposed to when they go to school and you know other family and uh. Oh, you know you can't control that. But what you can do is control your damn self. You can control your damn self and how you serve as an example in the home that that first prominent example in that child's life. Yes, you can control that you can't control um, misbeliefs misinformation that that child may be receiving and may more likely may bring to you to consult and discuss with you about. Yes, you can correct that you can just because it's challenging on me. It'S not doable, and then you know you just allow it to be so and then, when your child's suicidal is just so you know, you know they got these jezebel spirits, so they're, just so obsessed with how the [ __ ] somebody see them or with social Media, these social media, addictions and disorders, now you're wondering now [ __ ] in despair. Looking for answers, no, no, that's not how it's supposed to be prevention is how the [ __ ] is supposed to be. Prevention prevent those behaviors within yourself, heal yourself, because the sins of the father are the end. The unhealed traumas of the father is passed down to the [ __ ] children. Please do not. I love y'all, and i say this like. I really say this out of love and my guys, my my ancestors, you know because this is a real [, __ ] problem. It'S a real [, __, ] problem, and instead of trying to encourage makeup culture, shape-shift culture blend a beat, you know, modify your physical appearance to who you want to be or imitate culture, lack of self-esteem, low, self-esteem, these toxic-ass cultures to women, women, especially it's a Problem, it's a problem by any means a little goes a long way. If there's something you know you you just you just want to. You know clean it up or whatever do your thing. If you want to just do eyeliner - or let's say you do like to wear lashes, you know, but less is more. Less is more, don't be so obsessed with it. That'S not that's not healthy. It'S very unhealthy. If no one has told you if no one has brought it to your attention, it's unhealthy. What'S going on inside, what's going on mentally, what's going on emotionally, that will convince you that you have to. You have to constantly modify your appearance to the point that you know you're dependent on all of these things. You know these external things that that's not that's, not good, it's time to go within and heal yes, so i just wanted to put that out there, i'm so sorry, you know well, it's like i'm sorry, i'm not sorry um, because truth is truth and truth is Going to always be there so until next time you guys leave feedback. Please, and let me know what you think: