This Pixie Curly Bob Is Me! Grwm Storytime Ft. #Unicehair

I was actually the other woman in a relationship. He might love the idea of being with you, but he's not that into you. If one was respected, hello, honeys, it's yours and welcome back to my channel, i am super excited for today's video because we are talking about relationships. Please take it with a pinch of salt and of course, why were you talking relationships and me giving you a bit of a story time about that? One time when i was stupid we'll get into it in this video. While we do all of that we're also doing this hair, it is a pixie cut bob from your niece. I can't wait to show you how i styled this baby and get into the deep dives of relationships. Okay, if you do enjoy this video, you know what i do, give it a massive thumbs up comment down below and let me know what you would do in these two situations and, of course, if you relate to my story time have you ever been that other Woman, let me know in the comment section and of course, do not forget to subscribe. If you haven't already hey there, it's y'all's channel, then i look like i'm a kid from the 80s. While we are talking about relationships for the very first time in my life, i'm going to be trying a pixie on my hair. This hair is from eunice hair. This is what it's looking like. I'Ve just opened it here. I'Ve been wearing a lot of wigs lately. This is the wig cap: silk joke lashes, as per usual they've, also seen through some clips got to be glued for our wig. I am hungry, but i do want to talk about this topic and i want to look good at the end of this video. So, that's why i will try this wig in terms of this hair. This is a 13x1 lace, part pixi cut bob. It is literally made for me. The quality of this hair is amazing. It is curly. Hair doesn't shade at all. It is brazilian hair which i'm obsessed with right now and in terms of the lace. It'S a transparent, invisible lace. The lace is 13 inches from ear to ear, and then it also has got three combs inside two combs on the sides and of course, the back one. It also has got adjustable straps. So the most common question i get all the time. While i actually try and see how this is gon na look, i hope i don't look like someone's grandma most common question i get is. Is he that into me - and i think this is most common, because a lot of us never know where the guy's head is my rule of thumb is, if you already doubting that he's not that into you, it's most likely the case. So let me explain myself. Okay, i'm gon na spritz, my conditioner here the one thing about me: they're, either into something their interest they put in the old. They give it everything that they have or they let go. This whole thing of like in between, i am standing on the fence. Tough thing: listen, if he's undecided he's probably decided already, so you might not be first choice. You might just be an option for a lot of men. That'S also fine, that's something that they can live with. So if you are somebody who he checks in on the weekend only or some days, um girl, those are the signs, but he's not that into you. He might love the idea of being with you, but he's not that into you. I feel so heartless saying this, but this is coming from somebody that uh updated in my life believe it or not. Conservatives. I am okay um, before my husband and after we broke up and then got back together. So being the option doesn't mean he doesn't fully like you, he does but you're, not the main meal. You are not the person that he's most interested in or he has a lot of other options and he's sort of weighing things up luna. I never want to be a second option. I don't want to be weighed up against other people. I don't want to be somebody buying time with me. You know, oh, while i'm with her. Let me seek around and see if there's other options, you know, i don't want to be that girl. So that's why i say: is he really that into you, then? If that's the case, we don't finish her. Okay, let's cut this baby. So while i cut my lace, which is amazing, if he's only really present, when he's with you, those two are signs that he's not that into you guys, love to benefit. They love to have their bread butted on both sides. They absolutely love the idea of having me back up. They love the idea of you know not necessarily being sold to one person but having the benefits of being loved by multiple people, as if they're, the only people in their lives. Yeah again, i'm generalizing and i'm saying guys at least for my husband's side, he's told me, but this is the way men are okay and the one thing i'm glad he's also told me is that there comes a time where a man changes his mind. He decides, but am i going to live this life or i'm not going to live this life and when he does, you will see it, you will feel it. You will know it when you are doubting trust. The fact that it will be people with respect and don't be thinking. Ah it's just my mind. It'S just what people are saying is just what people heard your instinct, your gut feeling your intuition trusted honey. Don'T let it don't let that guard down just because he's whispering empty sweet nothings to you, i'm telling you from experience. Okay me, i have been the other woman. I'Ve never forgotten about this before this is gon na turn into a story time. Let'S finish, this wake up, lay it nicely and then we'll get into the story time before we get into the other relationship advice, i'm even laughing at myself, yeah, i'm gon na add a bit of foundation to this lace. This brazilian hair feels amazing, yes, honey, boo boo. Basically, i was in grade 10 uh when i got my first kiss and the guy who gave me my first kiss i'm going to talk part of this to you guys. I think my virginity story, where our first kiss he wanted more than that. That'S when i learned for the first time in my life that people do more than just kissing when dating sounds weird and then i went back to school, and i found out that oh, why my friends have been at this thing. We just didn't talk about it at school, this guy, while he wanted what he wanted. He actually had been dating somebody for years. Okay, somebody that i was getting into the same bus with who were both school going. Kids, you know i like scholar, that's why my name is bookmasters, because my mom knows nothing about this. Okay, oh cool guy, i always say for a while yeah. I almost said i said there was honestly nothing there. Intellectually, we didn't connect um. We just looked good as a couple. I would i suppose, um, but two weeks later after my first kiss, i found out that this guy has been dating and when i confront him, he very partly says. Oh, you know about matanda, oh my heart and then the worst part is grey tenna. As i was 16 years old, i still wanted the guy back and i tried to prove to him that you know like i'm better than his current girlfriend, the girl. He said he called very proudly and technically in that state i was the other woman and i was actually almost willing to get back with him with the situation as it was how crazy my glue is dry. Let'S put this baby on and see how we can style her. I can't believe i'm doing this on camera. If i'm embarrassed, i'm embarrassed if this doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. That was my most yeah. I don't even think i think i only told my husband about this yeah and a few friends. I was young and not very smart about things and i probably if he gave me a chance another chance which he tried like he would come and still visit. Hey i've made some stupid stupid mistakes and i think one of them would have been me taking this guy back. Had he actually, you know being serious and adamant about those visits. Something cute is happening here and i like where it's going um, it's making me look. Chic, in fact, it's gon na make my whole makeup. Ah, i love this. Oh, my gosh, this hair is making me so happy now gorgeous. I cut this side. Oh my goodness, this hair is making me so happy when skies are grown so yeah. That was my moomish moment in life. Everyone has them it's completely normal and you grow from it. Hopefully, you'll grow from that situation, and then there is the side of you know. When do you actually know when it's done, because after giving yourself to somebody for five ten twenty years of dating this person is still not really committed to you? This person is still is doing things on the side or they just not aligned with you. Whenever you are going in life, just not being aligned you're, not fighting about big things, you can live with it and the family already knows him, you're really comfortable, it's been years and you feel like you've invested. So much of your time. You want to keep this thing it's time to let go. That is literally always my answer. You know this, you know this and the longer you wait. The more years will go by with you asking the same question of um. Well, should i leave him? Should i not leave him? It'S been 10 years now. You know, and i had this feeling when it was only four years into this relationship, but now i'm knee-deep, you know there might be children involved. Doesn'T we can literally get ourselves into? I don't speak like that. Oh, my gosh, probably gon na, beat that out but yeah, but because i have a really good word it is. It is actually crap that we end up taking on and we inherit these thoughts that are created by society, which you shouldn't, because they're not your thoughts and we've taken those beliefs over and over to a point that we're allowing them to govern our lives. But in reality, are you happy? Is the real question make sure you tuck in the back? Let'S add my basic earrings um? Yes, i look like shaniqua shaniqua in the his day, this is giving me um shameless my vibes. If you guys remember sharing this, am i actually still on here? I think so. I say this to say that while you are concerned about other people's thoughts, um and opinions about your relationship or about what you should be doing with your life right now, their lives are moving on. They are dreaming they're, breaking up they're moving on they're living their lives. You are holding yourself back from what could be a really really beautiful future for yourself and a better one without this person who also might be living his life napa having families outside of your your relationship, men move on very quickly. They move on while they are still in the relationship um they're not holding on. You are again it's another very, very hard pull to swallow, but it's true, i'm a girl, it's not worth it. You are trying to convince yourself of what other people may or may not already know. Your relationship is not gon na want to. It sounds so harsh, but it's not gon na amount to anything substantial for you and your life and what's meant for you, if you keep holding on to past memories and not the present, if you keep holding on to what used to be and not what is Now look at what is now and ask yourself: if that's what's meant for you, because what is now could be a really significant uh picture or glimpse of the future of what would be, and if that's not what you want. Why are you sticking around because you know, like i'm, saying, he's living his best life for brothers, most likely just let go you know, god has his permissible role where he allows us to make those decisions and and do what we want to do and he allows That to to happen, regardless of the consequence at times you know i say at times, because hey i'm going to intervene this way. He says, let me intervene, don't wait for god to do something drastic for you to get out of that situation. Get out regardless of my makeup, going wonkas right now, because i'm concentrating on the situation at hand helping a sister out there who may need this advice. That'S the most pending situation, not only having a whole conversation with you, while the windows are open. Yes, i'm gon na contour again just to give myself that chiseled look. I literally had to fix everything offline. So that's why my eyes have got a bit of a red now um the sun is changing. I just hope i don't look hella washed out. What lippy are we wearing? Only life is too short, that's really it, and if you are in a relationship, you left sort of questioning your own value and the next person doesn't recognize it like. I said whether it's a new relationship and you're not sure if it's that into you, whether it's a relationship that's been going on for years and you just don't feel like whatever it is, that you too were building or currently building is just not worth it. Your worth is being compromised. That is your sign. If you are looking for a sign which, at times i don't always encourage people to look for signs, i say pray for discernment. Ask to hear the lord. The word of god ask to hear the voice of god, and how do we hear god's voice? How do we hear god? It may not be an audible thing. We have to read the word. You know spending time with him to really hear what he wants to say in our different situations. Yes, i just lined my lip with my eyeshadow palette. I used a matte shade because i really like this shade and i'm going in with my mac taupe uh-huh. I think it works. I'M gon na put a lot of blush. I love i love this, i'm i'm actually obsessed like. I can't believe this wig turned out like this honeys. Thank you so so much for joining me. I ended up changing my top because i wanted to wear something that goes with this hair. This hair is absolutely beautiful. Thank you so much eunice for sending it to me. I'M now a pixie girl, okay, it's official pixie cut bobs are for me. They were made for me. I absolutely love it and i can't wait to style it further and explore the other sides. I'M just covering up here. You know having a five head. It'S a thing. It'S a thing: y'all! Okay! I like that. Yes, i'm gon na go ahead and take pictures. Follow me on ig. If you want to see how i style this baby and, of course, if you did enjoy this video, definitely take the advice, don't take it. It'S really up to you. Take it with a pinch of salt is honestly what i would do and apply it into my life situation. The way i see fit and most importantly, pray about every situation in everything literally bring it to god in pray. I hope you guys did enjoy this video. Give it a massive thumbs up if you did and comment down below. Let me know what you think about everything we discussed here and, of course, all the details of this hair. Everything about this hair will be down in the description box. I love you guys so much don't forget to subscribe. If you haven't already