Let'S Chat: How Often Should You Relax / Perm Your Hair | Relaxer Routine

Hey everybody. I see it's Richard Harrison how you guys doing actually did this earlier, so um, it's sunday, sunday, sunday, sunday, sunday, ain't, no Sunday, Funday I've been working today didn't work. So let me I need to go to this bar cuz. I only think I have to hold my palm the one I like right. Even I lost indigo, so I don't know where? Is he anyways? Let'S get this so it's Sunday Funday and um. I did a video last week the other day, one of days, and it was just a lot of talk in that video. It was talking about relaxers, and you know I was talking about how to properly rinse the relaxer first time. I'M sorry, my name is Bridget. Harrison aka Pritchett H, make sure you subscribe. Stop pause the video if it's lied, wait till we finish and subscribe turn on notifications and to keep up with. What'S going on on this YouTube channel virginity TV takes glimpse, adding GL am a tik to three one: nine, nine, six! Yes, now! Okay, so I did this video it's Sunday, Sunday Funday, like I told you guys, someone's trying to get on her more to check and talk with you, especially the Salas Estefan watch that video and when I had it relaxed. I was always telling yeah so we're gon na talk about that Julia um. You know, let me give a disclaimer first, let me give a disclaimer. This is just me in my opinion and how I conduct business with me and my clients. Um I've been doing hair for twenty twenty some years and honestly, like the relaxer, you know we just all know the creamy crack, the relaxer or whatever, and everything like there go with it and yes, the relaxer, the relaxers change. Everything has changed like if keeping 20 years ago and you think ma'am the food has changed, chemicals are changing, our bodies are changing and I feel, like you know, there's a lot of questions about how to shampoo the relaxed AI, which I'm gon na do another video On that as well - but I was just like you know where maybe we need to sit and have a conversation, because when I get new clients they come in and so aren't relaxing their hair as much. But then there's a lot. Never relaxing their hair like, like a whole whole lot like and I'm not knocking, and no one are professional who's. Like you know, relaxing here for weeks, every six weeks or whatever the case might be, everybody does what works for them. But what I found out - and it took my friend - she ripped this book because she's reader, she was a reader. I wasn't, she read the book and she gave me the quick notes and pretty much. She has started, stop relaxing over relaxing her clients and she was just like Bridget. I think it was very Fletcher's book. I still had a book somewhere. She read the book and pretty much I skimmed through it, and she was just saying like how he was talking about relaxing hair and all this other stuff. And she just I watched her - do it and this was like years ago and it's just slowly with no sense a key, and I just sent a difference in my clients hearing. So I went from my six weeks to like 10 weeks to 12 weeks now. My clients, again, some of my clients, get relaxers like every four months. Some five and it just depends so you, like Bridget, my hair, is course they're, my short hair clients. They get these spots now, don't get it twisting them on short hair people they getting the hair relaxed, but even with that, I'm not even relaxing here every two weeks, because if you have enough, you hit new growth you're, just over relaxing the scalp and hair Anthony's Chemicals on top of the scalp just unnecessarily now, when we're cutting - and I don't shave here and cut hair low like I use so so we not need no relaxer. So for me, I want to relax the hair like when it's needed. I don't put no timestamp on when it relax the hair and when not to I relax there when it's needed. So this is how conversation goes with my client. They come in all bridge this time for Alexa. I'M a look at my pain when less ain't gots relaxing - I already know it ain't been long enough, but I'm looking at the hair just because you get this much wave in your hair or flying because this much white, that's like not even a half inch and New growth - and I'm explain to you guys what I explained to my clients like look um. This is what happens when you over relaxed to here, so I'm 40 43 about be funny. Fo, okay and my hair grows. Nowhere like it used to when I was younger when I was younger, my hair grew and grew and grew. My hair don't grow like that. No more, and especially us older women as we like my hair grow. Like I heard on ground like a you soon and it's just like: what's your relaxing, you relaxing the same thing, some get y'all this demonstration, I'm use this. Oh, I forgot what this is. Carl, I'm trippin the spatula. So this is a hair strand, and this is how I say I relaxed to hear when the hair is needed. This is a hair strand, a long hair strand. This is your scalp. If you have this much new growth, if you have this much new growth right right - oh my hair nappy know you're Harris 9nb, it's growing. If you have this much new growth, okay and you relax the hair. Now the average person include myself. They puts relax our own we're gon na put relaxing here and you'll put relaxed into here with just a little over, but by time you go through work that relaxer. Then he relaxed us right here are some people, the relaxes down here. Okay, think about it. If you put the relaxer it's supposed to just be relaxing this part of the hair, and it's relaxing this and your hair is only growing this much like every six weeks. What you're doing or what you're allowing to do hey miss Vail is you're allowing that relaxer to overlap every six weeks every eight weeks, if your hair, not growing so you win this relax on and it's steady overlapping any like my hair, not growing or just breaking. When I got to get my ends, trim your over and you're drying, your hair out so you're over relaxing this hair. Look at it remember this is a hair strand, but if you're just putting in your hair just and grew this much, you are relaxing their hair. The hair spread over relax and I'm not being funny stop. We don't learn in the box, a relaxed hair every six weeks, oh yeah, I did - and I know for some of us our big-ticket item is a relaxer. What we got to do hairstylist is: we got to find other ways to build a ticket built the ticket instead of giving a person a relaxer when they really don't need it. It'S the first, no cyst, it's not the first. She only in a relaxer what's happening is we all were processing this look. We make this hair's already flimsy cuz. We don't over relaxed this. The hair is not growing good enough and you putting this relaxer on this hair and hair not growing, and it's not gon na grow. It didn't say I don't know why. My hair day, I don't know what. Why is break it because we're over relaxing now? This is me, well, my clients come in over. Is it it's time for relaxing those night Brigitte it's time for relaxing those night Brigitte it's time for relax? Hmm, let me see we'll say let me do it one more time. No, my long hair clients we go because I do natural hair when you have another shared we're gon na do a deep conditioning treatment in between. We have no issues, but my short hair people. We don't you know. I had a client like between the Nairobi and they foamy pomade. Her hair was starting to way she hit the waves okay, it's time for you to get a relaxer, I'm natural now for use, but I agree my hair was quite fine. In my opinion, I used to once wait to 12 weeks, but I was started getting some uh-oh then my other dress was my friend would call me nappy hold on. Oh Lord, let me see what karma nappy about me so bad for not coming she's she's. Not you know - and you know what she wasn't trying to be mean like this - is the thing you guys. We know. I say we ain't no out. You know, I don't know some to use right. My friend she was like a nerd like heard like cheese's free. I just been readin, I wanted she read the book and she told me. I bought the book I skimmed through it, but once she told me what was going on and I seen her doing with her clients and then I applied it like, I don't even relax. If you burn, if you're wearing extensions - and I'm doing your extensions even for this leave around your edges, I don't relax to hear you guys like we're unnecessarily over relaxing here and what's going on. Is people hair shedding people here? It'S breaking! It'S thinning we're since edges. Scalp we're getting alopecia, it's just a like going out and what you got ta also think about is when these companies change to relaxer the chemicals and their chemistry and what they're doing with these relaxing. So we don't know they're, not not Roby's, not sending out a thing saying: oh bridging. We just change to chemicals up in this relaxer or Bronner brothers being be new expressions up erm, none of them they're, not letting us know influence they're, not saying hey. We changed these chemicals and then you got ta. Take the consideration age. You got to take a consideration, this food we're eating and all that and you put all that together it could be a bum, but if you're not over relaxed on the hair and salads. If we're building a ticket, so my clients get like my clients to get a Dimi more demons. Then there again relaxers we're conditioning the hair we're doing protein treatments with no moisturizers treatments, we're doing hair mask. I'M steaming we're doing everything we can because it gets what some people here do braids when it's time for relax, don't get it twisted. Some people heard you'd be like okay, see we're gon na, be, like sure, hair cut your hair, no hair. If we keep waiting, it happens, but it's not for everybody. We have to learn and clients just because you get some new growth. Ladies quit saying you need a relaxer quit arguing with your hairstylist yeah. Look: the hair, you ain't, relaxing nothing, but this much of your hair, you ain't relaxing up, and this is not a a hair. This is not a lot of hair to relax. You'Re not relaxing, like ya'll quit, stressing your hairstylist out well, how are ya good to go to the hair salon a little bit more now people are every week understand. You know you got every other week. You know you got to just figure it out. You know you just got to figure out, get your. We do something, but we got ta quit over relaxed in here, because when we get older, when I'm saying that people lose their hearing that right in with some weeds - and they just put these let's stop, then, two weeks later, you gon na braid your hair, get You a week of sewing now you got traction alopecia because you relax, the hair was bone, strength, bone bone bone straight. You know, braided this hair up. It'S really tight - and you know put this so in you got this needle and it's thread going through the head. Making it even tighter - and you want - I don't know my head itches and then my tracks loose and you got a bald spot and you wondering why you got a bad spot. Yeah I got a come on. Y'All got a quick like trust, your hair stylist. It'S a lot of professionals and people. Are they don't be it's people that do it? What happens is some of us beyond our budget? I respect the budget, but you know when it comes to your hair. You know health, you guys. Who'S just got to do better. Relax it don't. I don't do six to eight weeks. I do when you need a relaxer. If the hair grows me, I got ta climb higher grows, but she next was she sure natural, but her hair grows higher. I really be grooming. Her hair grows even with her hair when she was wearing a relaxed on the back of her hair. We went over relaxed on her hair. You know cuz the worst thing. The thing that happens is what I'm saying. Excuse me with a lot of um. Ladies, come in it's the hair, it's really dry, it's really brittle, it's really bad and then it's like okay, what we're gon na do and then you know it's like you know you put these weeds in and these braids and you know the hair is damaged. The Braves does not help in you know, perms your hair and you put this wavy and that's not helping. We just got to really take a step back here, stylist clients. Ladies, we got to take a step back and just start revalue. What we're doing I'm stylist, like, I don't think I can tell you - is build your ticket retail conditioners. I like hard services, you know, look at what you're doing. Look at your pricing. Look at how long you look at your choice, you're worth you know what I don't work over. There, people pay for what they want when they want some louie-louie, they go get movie. They want they hair right. They gon na pay for it, but you got ta. Also make sure you offer them a good service yah, my nose is cute, but I think I'm sorry, you got ta also make sure you offer any good service. You got ta make sure you're offering a customer service. You got ta make sure your back bar is clean. Back bar shampoo bottle area is clean, make sure your station is clean, make sure you're sleeping up the hair when you finish with the clients in you know, have if you ain't got no alcohol, you ain't got no champagne. When I had them some water. You know my smile waters, Peppa soda, some and you know just make sure you giving them a good atmosphere and ambience, and then you know they like. Oh, my, you know you go up a little bit, but you know I let just over relax and hearing the hand your shin and then I had people then quit coming going to me cuz. I won't really over relax a hair. That'S just not what I'm gon na do cuz you know. What'S gon na happen I'll bridge, you brought my hair out bridge around my hair and let me tell you stylist when you do somebody's hair and you do the hair and if even if, let's not even say you were like somebody come in and hair shedding real Bad about spots and all this stuff, you ain't had them. Sign no paperwork! You into no consultation. You ain't figured out what's going on and that girl say you brought the hair because you did that person hurt your nail liable for their hair. We just got to do better and like this, we got ta do better to what I hear we got ta do better when I keep over here. I just feel like it was in my spirit. I just need to talk about them because I feel like a lot of times um. You know we just really get so caught up and I hear being bone straight and hair being super bone straight. It'S not good. It'S not! You know. You want the hair to be relaxed, I'm not into texturizing the hair, so I could see that but um you know you want the hair I walked in here straight. I want the hair tomorrow once the lander with, but I'm just not being told for relaxing. Here. That'S just me, like I said, I'm gon na give a disclaimer, that's just how I feel, but my clients, 90 percent, of their home. The hairs on the hand it's thick, especially those that come to me. They'Re not know playing beauty shop at home and even my classic, when you do shop at home, they use my products that I retail them they, I retail them they're not going to Sally one, and I go to the big beauty supply they're, not binding at the Neighborhood so cuz, you know these selling old products, they have diversion clients to be where I know your local beauty supply. My head sniper will be found, but it may not be Nairobi. Fun might be this much Nairobi found and whatever else they start to put in such as be careful, that's um, pretty much it. I just want to talk about. You know hop knees should relax you're here you should relax your hair once it becomes um a decent amount. I like, like, I, don't know it's just like two inches to two and a half inches. I, like the new growth when it's short hair is different but longer hair. I, like the new girls to be really because, if you're taking this much even this much like, even if I cuz, if I stop and put the relaxing here, it's gon na bleed down today and pretty much you're, not overlapping, and the goal is just not to Overlap: the hair, that's it! You know the girl with 20/20. We keeping here on here. That'S how we don't wan na keep hair on the head. You know butts in the seats hair on the head. We won't butts in our chairs and hair on the head. See y'all got any questions for me. Why I'm here ain't doing no hair. I got time today. Well some hair questions. Makeup questions Weber's you got going on bridge ain't got nothing going on tikis. Well, I really, if not my work tomorrow, I'm back to D pop some stuff, some glitters and organize my kid ain't had time to do and that's it, but I just want to get on here and share with you guys. I appreciate all the love. I appreciate you guys support me. Oh oh, I appreciate you guys supporting me. I appreciate everything you guys do sharing my videos. You know telling people about the channel me whatever the case might be you guys. You know if you have any questions. Email me questions, qu est, IO NS at Bridget, Bridget, H, calm or you can also you can deal me on Instagram with just Bridget. Bridget Harrison underscore the bridge Harris something just go here, I'm just going anyway, yeah all that his in the bio in the description and if you hadn't had a chance make sure you visit my Amazon store the stammer check on my similar videos. If you haven't questioned about shampoo and relaxing your hair and rested and relaxed up here, check out that video, just shampoo and steam conditioners, and what I use at the back bar check that video out check out on my video so watch, I'm sure tell everybody about Them thank you guys and enjoy your evening. It'S Sunday Funday I'm about to do a couple things and relax and I don't know, make a video something I need to don't make a video for y'all mmm-hmm, my god go Ballantine's day. Video, Oh No, but enjoy your day enjoy your blessings and thank you guys for tuning in I see we don't have no more questions. I don't know what I'll be doing. Holla good! Oh thank you, yeah, be some um, miss I'm not chose II. Don'T know if I said that right these are some Tim. You shouldn't live stream. Looking like this, oh thank you Miss dog, but she cute. I she love myself. She cute regardless. Thank you, though I loved it. Um these are team. What is it empty? There was some sunglasses, but they're prescribed, because I really think I look, he can see again age and uh yeah I supposed to wear them and when things smile, things start to get blurry, I put them on. You know I see but um yes, Carla's insane. This negative energy in 2020 talk about that people just stay back on the keyboards. Without that misery, misery, loves company. You know you people to sit back. You know, I said on Instagram and Facebook and just look at people be so negative towards other people. You know if you don't love yourself, leave that hate with yourself. Don'T bring that negative energy anywhere else. Keep that to yourself cuz. You know in person, got ta be like you. Can ain't gon na bus agree anyway shop about the end, my string? Thank you guys for tuning in those little heights and those who didn't it's cool, I'm Bridget Harrison aka, Pritchett H. I will talk to you guys soon, see you guys sooner you later. Thank you guys.