Valentine’S Day Glo-Up Transformation + Relationship Advice Ft. Wiggins Hair

Okay, giving me very much america's next top model: let's do the hair, let's get our hair ready and then i'll talk to y'all. Let me shut up i'm hot both ways. I'M not sticking my hair back! That'S too much work. This is ghetto just me using the mini brush for me, so whoo, i'm dumb. I left my keys in the house. What'S fuzzy brand new whip just hockey? What is up my jay bae? Yes, y'all, i'm back with another video and i decided to start it off new started off in kim kim is my car by the way i don't know if y'all caught on by now, every time when i mention kim i'm talking about my car okay, just so You know just so you know, i know y'all, probably like jay, what's been going on with the last two videos like we didn't hear your voice, we missed your voice girl, i know so i'm here and i'm better and i'm ready to talk to y'all. So i'm starting a video off in my car because, like why not, i feel like we need something new. We need something fresh for february and speaking of february today, we're not today before this video we're going to be glowing up for valentine's day now today it is where my phone at today is february 5th and right now, it's 6 14 p.m. Now i have another appointment at 6 30, but she did push it back to seven o'clock. I'M about to just sit down and chit chat with y'all for a little bit and then i'm gon na head to the nail salon so yeah, i'm basically going to be doing my hair. My nails y'all know how the whole glow up process goes on my channel. I have done plenty of these, but i'm very excited for this one, because it's the month of love like how many of y'all got a valentine, do y'all got a valentine. I don't know about y'all, but ever since i was like a freshman in high school, i always wanted a valentine. I was like. I cannot wait till i get a valentine and they spoil me this down the third, but it just feels great because i'm actually someone's valentine this year so kudos to me, i'm proud of myself, but i ain't gon na flex too much because i know some of Y'All single and it's okay to be single per i'm gon na go ahead and show you all the nails that i actually want, or what i'm aiming for. I'M gon na be doing like a whole valentine's day. Theme nails like i'm, not doing basic this time. I'M going all out for v-day, you know what i'm saying i kind of want something like this with a mixture of this in it now i don't know how that's going to work out. I'M really going to let my nail tech kind of like freestyle and put some creativity on it, but i'm definitely going to be getting them long. These nails have been on for so long y'all like y'all, can tell. I need a feeling, instead of a filling i'ma. Just go ahead and get a whole brand new full set and i'm very excited hopefully like she could come through and make sure that my nose are popping on point make sure i go ahead and like this video, because you already know it's going to be good, You already know i got the natural hair out today, but you know tomorrow, the day after the day after i'm not going to be rocking the natural hair, i'm going to be doing a wig and i'm just excited. I feel, like i'm rambling, a little too much and i need to get to driving to the nail salon, but i'm not going to go now because it's too early, it's 6 17 right now. So i'm going to come back with you guys when i'm actually about to leave out so without further ado, j baby gang, let's go ahead and get into the video say that i've been acting different. Yet who is what you talking about? That guy was about to hit me he's crazy. He is crazy. Oh my goodness he's crazy. He was about to hit me real real. I know i swear people can't drive, though i swear, because you can't have me sitting in the middle of the street like this. Are you a clown what's wrong with people? This is illegal. This should be illegal. I'M gon na park right here, y'all hope i don't hit. No one. We turn it down because i got ta focus on parking right. Don'T forget to come. She probably like what, though this guy's gon na hit me. No, i'm not gon na hit you i'm gon na just right here. Baby girl, don't even got ta worry about me hitting you, because i'm a parker right here. Oh that parking was terrible. Let'S redo, that! Okay, you backing up a little too fast, jay, calm it down. Let'S get into the parking space the right way. Oh, i'm so terrible at parking, i'm a terrible parker, because i did nothing that literally did nothing sis. Oh these people are looking at me. I don't think they're used to people talking to themselves living 21st century babes get used to it all right. So let's go ahead and double mask up because we're about to go into a nail salon. 657. I'M right on time. You got a double mask because it's real it's getting real serious out here. Y'All. Let me unscrew you guys. I promise you that you'll never meet another person as mentally tough as you in your entire life. Oh yes, okay, all right y'all! So it is the next day when i tell you yesterday was a lot. It was just a lot. I was a no salon for hours, but i mean it was worth it. It actually took a bit longer than usual to get these nails done. Simply because my nail tech had to hand draw this as y'all can see, it's just a lot of details that went into these nails. These are by far my favorite set of nails that i ever freaking got, but that's the story. For another day i got home around 10 30 ish. My nail point was at 6 30, but then it got pushed back to seven, but i ended up getting into her chair at like 7 30.. So it was a delay. It was worth it, i'm not complaining. So curve, another reason why i took it so long for my nails to get done was because my nails i had on the white acrylic nails before this, and they were so freaking stubborn y'all, like they would not come off. We had to soak them. We tried to just take them off, but it was just a longer process than usual. Usually they just come off like that, like they, don't really take that long. At the end of the day, my nails look bomb. I love them, go ahead and tell me what y'all think of them in the comments. I love. Love, love them, but the next step into the valentine's day, glow up is the hair. Yes, it's the hair and i'm so excited for this hair. I'M not going to tell y'all just yet what it is. Y'All got to wait a little bit a little bit bit bit, but just know that i'm excited, but right now my hair is like it's not freshly clean or anything either. So if you see dandruff or anything, i know i wash it sis, but i have to cornrow my hair now. My last wig tutorial, you guys told me to make the braids smaller, so i'm going to try to make the braids a little bit smaller this time, but right now it is 3 16 p.m, and it is saturday february 6. So i have a long time to valentine's day, but i didn't want to go up a little early, so i could just get in the mood. You know what i'm saying: i'm going to try to cornrow my hair, really, you know slick and i'm going to try to get it small and stuff like that, but not too small, because i have these long nails and it's actually pretty hard to grip. And these are actually the longest nails that i ever got so i'm gon na try to work with what i got. Today'S wig we're gon na be working with wiggins hair, and one thing i love about wigan's hair is that they always come through, like always, but i'm gon na get a little bit more into the hair a little later, so we're gon na get to the cornrows Y'All i'ma speed it up for y'all cause. I know y'all don't want to watch me cornrow, my hair. I know i want to see the wig already so we're going to go ahead and corner our hair. Then i'm going to come back with the details of the wig, all right y'all, so your girl is back i'm a little too close, let's back it up a little bit. So your girl is back and remember how i said i was gon na break my hair, small and neat and cute yeah. I lied because baby boo, these braids are not cute at all, but it really doesn't matter because they're actually flat enough, they are pretty flat. There'S no humps really, so you won't see it in the wig, especially when i put the wig cap on so let's go ahead and get into the hair. Finally, finally, y'all, like i stated earlier, the hair in this video will be from wigan's, hair and wigan's. Hair has never felt me guys and when i tell you never i mean never, and this package came a lot whenever wiggins hair company sends me hair, they always come through. They never fail on the packaging y'all. First and foremost, they sent me some 3d mink, lashes, baby and they're very big, like it's giving 3d mink lashes. I don't know if i'm bold enough to wear them, but someone out there is bold enough to wear them so go shop. They also came through with the head scarves. They always send me at least two head scarves. Every time which i love, i got a head wrap thingy, it's just a little head wrap to wrap around the edges whenever you lay them, and i honestly love love love. This little bright, pink color this package also came with some more lashes. Y'All also came with an elastic band, and i don't know if i'll tell y'all this, but i love when wig companies send everything you need to apply the wig. This elastic band comes in handy, so i like, when wig companies send me this. So that's plus 10 points for wiggins hair for sending me this. They also sent me two wig caps and last but not least, i have this little hair bag. It'S a bag and it's really just convenient. You can even put the wig in this after you finish using it so huge, huge huge thank you to wigan's hair and i know y'all waiting to see the wig. So i'm gon na go ahead and show y'all the wig. This is the wig, so we have a burgundy. Yes, we have a burgundy, color body, wave wig, so it came like this and i love it and i'm very excited. This is the plucking that i did. It actually did not come pre-plucked we're gon na get into it. But while i do this um i'm gon na just be talking to y'all. I think i might talk to you all about relationship advice, but i'm gon na go ahead and install this wig before i install it. I have to do the bald cap method, so i'm gon na go ahead and do the bald cap method and i'm going to come back with you guys when i'm installing this beautiful, beautiful wig from wiggins hair. Again, all the information will be in the description box below if you are interested in this unit. So let's get straight into the hair. She also wears on a monday night. You should have seen her clean up. I'M pick it up. Can you play that again? All right y'all, so the wig cap, the ball, kept the you know what is on and i'm ready to install this beautiful wig from wigan's hair. So let's go ahead and get into it all right. So let me go ahead and put it on. I haven't seen my work process like 20 000 times, so i don't really have to so. I don't really have to describe it. I know the last two videos i wasn't talking. That'S because sometimes your girl don't really feel like talking like, but y'all love to hear the girl's voice. So i'm gon na give you all the girl's voice today got in a bad romance caught in a bad romance. I need my voice like that, but i made my voice id so what we're going to talk about today today, i want to talk about relationship advice. While i install this wig first off, i'm going to go in with some ghost bonds so that i can apply this wig. I actually like bold, hold a lot better than this, because bo hold actually keeps my wigs intact for days. This does too, but i noticed that when i was using ghost bond, it held a lot better but anyway, so let's go ahead and talk about relationship, advice, y'all. I feel like a lot of us a lot of us girls, boys. It doesn't really matter at some point in your life you're going to start, you know getting into relationships or getting into liking. Someone'S feelings, emotional. You know all that with that you have to make sure that you don't lose yourself in the process. Throughout my whole, entire life i've only been in two real relationships, so wait hold on before i get into that. I need to blend this y'all hold on before i get into that. Let me focus on my hair right, quick, i'm just about to blend this together. So that it can dry evenly and there's no white patches but yeah, so throughout my whole life, i've been in two real relationships. I guess you can say, including the one i am in now, so i feel like i have a little bit of experience in the love topic, the relationship topic. So there are a couple of points that i wrote down that i wanted to touch on in this video, so i feel like the first thing, to any relationship, whether it's a relationship with your significant other relationship with your mother, your brother, your sister, your friend, anything. It'S communication i'm about to go ahead and do my second coat y'all, so yeah communication is actually key. Communicating your feelings and your emotions to your significant other will help the relationship tremendously, meaning that you shouldn't hide your emotions or spare your emotions or feelings for their feelings like if they ask you, are you okay and you say no, i'm fine. That'S what i mean. I don't want you to do that. I want you to express your feelings to them or just communicate the issues that you feel that they need to work on and some issues that you feel like you need to work on. You know what i'm saying. That'S number one is communication, that's just the bare minimum you should be doing is communicating, don't be going on social media and doing little slurs and little tweets posting tweets on your story and stuff like that, that's just pretty childish. Don'T do that because we don't want that. We want healthy relationships over here and, let's not normalize toxic relationships, because that's just not cute okay, we should be normalizing healthy relationships being with someone that genuinely makes you happy not being with somebody for the toxicity, because it's fun and it's different, like i used to Be like that too, but we got ta leave that in 2020 communication simple. I don't really have to dwell on that. Just communicate. One conversation can fix a lot of things in relationship because it's like well, i didn't know you felt like that or now i feel free, because i let you know everything, i'm feeling everything that's on my heart and i'm hoping you could receive that. You know what i'm saying so number two i would say this is more in the talking stage, if you guys still do that it can apply to relationships too, but i want to say to all my ladies all my fellas do not ignore the red flags that A person gives to you if somebody's showing you their ass like two seconds two weeks one week a month into the relationship, i'm telling you that's them, don't ignore the red flags. I used to ignore the red flags in my past relationship and it got nowhere. So i want to tell y'all not to ignore the red flag if you ignore the red flags, you're, basically accepting things that you know aren't right, don't ignore the red flags, because you're literally just setting yourself up for failure, number three think before you speak. Okay, i feel like that's a huge one, because, if you're having an altercation or an argument with your significant other - and you say hurtful things to them - you can't expect them when you guys make up and stuff to forget the hurtful things you said to them. That'S why i say think before you speak and you have to think before you speak in any aspect in life, whether you're talking to a teacher, a friend, a boyfriend or girlfriend anything. You have to think before you speak. That'S just a piece of advice. I would give to anyone, because you can't take back the word. You say after you say it, you can't say: oh i'll, take it back. Oh, i didn't mean it. What you say in the midst of anger can ruin your whole relationship. It can so i think that you should think before you speak, okay, another piece of advice. I would give this isn't dry. I need this to dry a little bit more, so i can apply the wig. So another thing i would tell you guys to do is to don't expect your significant other to be perfect. Now i know that us girl be wanting like to build a guy. Now you go to build a bear and you build a bear like that. We wanted to build a god and yeah, there's nothing wrong with that, but don't expect them to be perfect because, yes, they make mistakes. You know we make mistakes too. So i'm telling you not to expect them to be perfect. Yeah they're gon na make mistakes and yeah you can call them out on it, but don't call them out with every single thing that they do because then it'll make them feel like you're complaining in relationships. You'Re supposed to learn with your significant other learn together, grow together, so i feel, like you have to walk with them. You have to work with them and they also have to work with you. So don't expect each other to be perfect, because when you expect too much out of somebody you're just going to get let down and disappointed, that's a gym for you to take on for the rest of your life like don't expect nothing from nobody. Okay, so i think that this is pretty dry. This is white, but you know i think this is the best we're gon na get. Let me go ahead and lay it down before i get into the next one, all right y'all. So i don't even know i just attempted to pluck, because i really don't know how to pluck that's why i prefer for my wigs to actually come pre-pluck, because i don't really know how to plug this. Hair is very thick and i'm loving it back to the relationship advice. So the second to last thing i would tell you guys to do - is not to rely on that person to make you happy number one. You shouldn't rely on anybody to do anything for you. That'S just me because i'm a boss chick, so i don't rely on people, so you shouldn't rely on anyone to make you happy. Yes, that person can make you happy, but you shouldn't rely on them to make you happy meaning if you guys were to break up or if they were to leave you, you will be good. You know what i'm saying like of course, you're gon na be sad and stuff, but you shouldn't fall into a deep depression because they left you. You should find other things in your life that genuinely make you happy and it doesn't necessarily always have to be them. Like they can make you happy, but don't make it to the point where without them you're not going to be happy without them you're, sad or depressed or without them. You can't live your life. You know what i'm saying you just can't rely on them to make. You happy because that's not their job at the end of the day. This side over here is not even like on my head at all. Hold on y'all got ta fix this. I don't know what's going on over here. We need that to dry very quickly. No, i won't take that no more! You cannot hit that around for my life, okay, so let's go ahead and apply this to this side, never actually laid. So we're going to do that. The last piece of advice i will give you guys is that before you get into relationship, you want to make sure that that is the person you want for sure. Like commitment is key, you don't want to get into a relationship just to make someone jealous or get into a relationship to flex or just because you want to be in a relationship. You have to make sure that person you're getting yourself into a relationship with is the person you want to spend your life with. I don't date today. I date two berries, so you want to make sure that you're getting yourself involved with the right person when you want to get into relationship you got to make that decision. Do i really see myself with this person forever or like what and y'all got to be on the same terms if y'all just want to be friends with benefits, if y'all just want to be friends, buddy buddies, i don't really know or if y'all want to be Girlfriend and boyfriend, like you, know what i'm saying a real relationship: y'all got ta, establish those boundaries and stuff like that before you get into relationship or get into a situationship. Anything like that, but that's all i got ta say those are just like little tips. I would give you when we're talking about relationships, yeah um, it's nothing too much to that. I just want to you know, drop a couple of gems now, i'm about to get into this wig and get into the slayage of this wig, because y'all already know i'm the princess of it, not the queen. The princess, because i do got some work to do so - let's go ahead and finish our hair and then i'm gon na give you guys like a review, because the lace laid perfectly so far. But i can, you know see if the lace really matched my skin. Once i raise her and cut it off, but so far so good, the hair is thick and i love me some thick hair, that's one of my biggest pet peeves when wig companies send me thin hair. I don't like that. So the fact that wigan's hair is thick and long 10 out of 10., it's very hard to find a wig company that gives you long and thick hair. So that's just the plus plus putts no minuses yet so let's go ahead and get this wig done. When the beast me me a baby, all right, all right y'all. So basically it is like a couple of days later um, your girl got some really bad cramps and i was like i can't get cute like i just don't have the spirits to get cute, so i've just been in my bed suffering from cramps, but i'm all Good now so today's the day where i get cute and the final transformation will be revealed so right now, i'm waiting on my hair to like you know, lay the lace to lay. So while i wait on that, i'm going to be doing my face doing my makeup and i'm going to show you how that whole process - and the last thing i'm going to do is my hair, because i don't want the curls to drop. When i do these big lumpiest curls, so let's go ahead and get into the face. I'M excited give this video a thumbs up so that i don't look like a ghost. Let'S get into it team. 619 - i i i i got my. I me me: um, hmm um me pick me up, don't know if it's what i need, but it's what i want color got for me. Look at that little uh. That uh is all right y'all, so your girl is all glammed up and i'm done with my whole valentine's day glow up. You know what i'm saying this is actually my first time doing these curls y'all, like i have been trying to learn how to do these type of curls for forever. I never knew how to do it, so i finally kind of know how to do it. So i'm kind of pressed, you know what i'm saying and i love this color on me. I love the wig. The lace laid perfectly like i said before this hair is actually really good, and this wig came this color. So that's a plus, i didn't have to dye it or do anything to it. It already came this color and i honestly love love, love it so yeah y'all. This is how the makeup is looking up close and personal, i'm getting better at it. So kudos to me, i just love how i'm looking y'all like i look so purty i love y'all, so so so so much make sure you like comment and subscribe and make sure you share this video with someone that you think will like it. I love you guys so so so much and toodles no seriously like subscribe, come on.