When A Man Wants To Please You

Good afternoon, it's noon actually right on the dot good afternoon. You guys welcome to the channel um click the like button. As you come in, appreciate you sprinkle sprinkle, and we're going to be discussing today. A man wants you a lot of women. Don'T know how to read the signs of when a man really wants them or wants to be with them. They don't know how to read the signs or to read between the lines. They don't know how to do it and they sometimes they miss the opportunity or they don't pick up on. If a man is um, you know showing them interest or they don't know if they're, just you know, playing around or whatever whatever some men are shy. Some men are very straightforward, but how do you know if they really want you and not just walk for the night, not just want for a week or two but forever or for as long as they can keep you? You got ta read the signs. Okay, a lot of a lot of men fear that you're gon na reject them and when so, when a man wants you so much, they kind of hold off a long time, not too long before they let you know, they are afraid that you may think that They'Re desperate or they may think, or you may think, that you know they're rushing and they only want you for a short amount of time. So you have to be able to read between the lines whatever they're saying to you. If they value your opinion, that's number one write this down if they value your opinion truly, if they listen to you number two, they listen to you and remember what you say it they really like you um, and they may not always remember what you say, especially If you're in a relationship and you've been in there for a long time, but in the beginning, you're going to pay close attention to what you say, they're going to value your opinion and they're, not always they're trying to test out. If you're going to work out right for the for the long haul, they're not going to always agree with you, they're not going to always agree with you, because that also makes them seem as if they're desperate, so you're not going to have everything be smooth sailing. You'Re going to have the disagreements in the beginning more than you will have during or towards the end, because you all need to get all of that out of the way before you can really focus on being together in a relationship you got to get all the Kinks out before so a lot of times, one of the signs will be um bickering, but not too bad just a little bit because you are going to have your differences and you need to learn how to work through them. So a lot of men will um. Disagree with you, but not in a harsh way, they'll just voice their opinion. Keep their mind open. Want you to keep your mind open so that there is room to know that there can be a compromise. But if you're good at what you do. Ladies, you get them to do whatever you want afterwards, but they're they're gon na put up a little fight. Um, yes, to disagree with certain things in whatever another sign is that they keep you on their mind all the time they're always constantly thinking about you and in some sort of way they let you know whether it's a text i'll send you a picture. Give you a phone call or tell you that they were thinking about you um, but they're, not afraid to let you know that they were thinking about you. Yeah y'all, hit that like button sprinkle sprinkle appreciate y'all another another sign. Is they bring you things or they give you things or they tell you things? You know like it's hard to give people stuff when you don't know where they live or y'all never met or whatever whatever, but you know they got amazon now people can send you stuff. People can like send you information links. So if they're constantly trying to give to you something, i don't know what whatever but they're constantly trying to give you something or trying to give you knowledge about something or trying to um. You know, because a lot of people do things valuable um, that they don't just tell everybody so they're, giving you privileged information. That is also a way to know that they, like you and they will. You know they really watch um. You can start to feel a little bit and that you know is very privileged um, like i said, gifts, of course, that always works, but other than that um other than physical gifts, because anybody can give a gift. It has to be privileged knowledge, um. So another way is to like: are they introducing you to uh people that matter to them important people in their lives, people that they have respect for um? Are they showing you to those people and the and um not like some people think? Oh, he introduced me to his family. Does that mean we're getting close if he introduces every girl to his family? The best way to find out is talking to one of the family members you know like if they treat you like your it's, not a big deal that he brought you home or if they treat you like they're, tired of meeting these women that this dude is Bringing home um you'll you'll pick up on that, but if they're treating you very special, she never introduces it. This is the first time i've met anybody. You know you'll you'll talk to a lot of them. If you're introduced to a lot of them - and it will come out - you will know if you the first or if you're one of many or if you're one a few, you will not by talking to them about how they look at you uh. If they don't want to get too attached to you and they kind of brush you off very easily, it means they probably bring a lot of girls around there that they will probably never see again. So they don't waste time getting to know you, so they don't waste their time. Getting to know you or seem super interested in you like asking you a bunch of questions then most likely he brings home girls all the time. But if they're really into you and asking you all these questions, how did y'all meet? What do you plan on doing that? If they ask you a million questions, it's rare that he works without right, um, so make sure you pay close attention um, especially if it's family members, but if it's just friends you know it may be the same thing so make sure you pay close attention to You know what type of questions the friends are: asking um yeah y'all if y'all already know, i'm not gon na answer, but no comment to certain questions today, because i never comment on them anyway. I'M staying focused on what i'm trying to do and that's how it's always going to be on this channel um so make sure you know you're paying close attention another way to know. If someone really wants. You is um if they pay attention to the things that you like, and they present them to you in a way when you're not really expecting it like they. They pay attention to your favorite flavors or things you like to eat or music. You, like you know when they play the music. It'S gon na, be something you like when they bring you something to eat. It'S gon na be something they know. You like they're, not gon na just guess or assume or always constantly have to ask you, because they're gon na pay close attention and get to know you that way. So the less you have to talk and the more they pay attention to things that you like. Um, the more they're into you: okay, if they don't pay close attention, if they don't care what you like, if they're, constantly asking you because they're forgetting you're, not a priority, so i wouldn't really uh. You know start to get your feelings uh involved in anything where you're not the priority. Okay, uh so make sure you, you feel like the priority. That'S number two or number two before whatever number we own six step now, but do you feel like the priority? Do you feel like the priority, not the only priority, but do you feel like a priority? If you don't, then you're not, i got ta feel it. I got ta feel like i'm the priority or a priority like a good and the top two or three or something like that. I need to feel a high priority if i don't feel it, i'm not feeling it period. Should you help your provider, man improve. His looks now sprint sprinkle hip hop and he popped it now. Why would you help that? Let him stay looking like he looked, that's why he provided spring all right. Y'All y'all want to give them a makeover and set them up on the dating website, too. Girl. Yeah go ahead long as you get your fee, yeah see. This is why y'all got ta. Y'All got ta use common sense. You said married and still married three months and still no joint accounts. What to do go grocery shopping darling with his card cash out, transfer cash get cash out. Did he not give you his atm number get cash. Tell him! You need cash for stuff start stacking. Yours like, if he's not going to give you a joint bank account. Then um make your own uh bank account. Hopefully you have your own bank account and just find ways to get money from him and stack there's ways. Just you guys, sitting around and think yeah look. He gon na he'll suggest it before you will, because if you don't get tired of you coming here and asking him for money all the time ask him for money every day every day tell him what you need money for get annoying with it, so he finally Either gives you get you the account or just give you a direct deposit out of his account every month, but you need to bother him on a daily basis: okay, spread the sprinkle and then stop giving him sex. Until you get your money, i mean y'all. Just married, but you got to start in the beginning to get what you want: no sex until i got what i want or we, because if you start a joint making cap with him he's, you can easily go start another one on the side and just put A little bit of that into that you need direct deposit every month or you need to continuously get cash from him. If he want anything from you, i i wouldn't be cooking cleaning and nothing if i ain't got no access to no money period and i wouldn't want to join account unless you know it was just for show. I want my own account, but i need you to pay for everything. You know what i'm saying so i would definitely start switching it up baby um but honestly uh another way. Okay, let's get back to the topic, it happened, darling so another way to get what you want or to know that a man really wants you is he gives you what you want. You end up getting your way anyway, because he doesn't like to see you sad. So you end up getting what you want. He gives them to you. That'S another way. You end up getting what you want. You say you're in a relationship but he's cold for four days. Should you leave him girl you're in a relationship he's cold for four days? Should you leave you ain't, no relationship? If that's your question, she let him stay cold. What what are you doing? What are you, what are you doing to improve yourself while he's staying cold, if he can control you by staying cold, then he's controlling you? Who cares if he's cold, throw him a blanket and move on and do you know, go read a book? Go you know, do something that whatever hobby, you have ignore him. Who cares if he's cold, throw him a blanket, stop cooking. Stop bothering him don't ask him: why he's acting that way? Who cares when he tired of acting cold he'll, be coming around looking for you? Let him be, would you pay your mother to look after your grandchildren if i got to pay my mama honestly, here's my thing if it's on a regular basis and it looks like a job and she doesn't like doing it for free? Yes, but if she likes to watch the children and it's not on a regular basis, then probably not okay, because if you, if your grandma becomes the nursery okay, perhaps if not, then no every once in a while, it's okay, the grandma's not supposed to charge unless It'S they become a nursery sprinkle sprinkle. I said no cooking, no cooking, no cleaning, no sex. Okay. How can i deal with religion and get what i want, because not all men want to wait until marriage to have sex money baby? If you act like your religion is a major thing and you can't give it up until you marry unless it's with someone very special that you love and who will do anything for you like pay, all all your bills, buy you your dream. Car set you up in a nice house when a man invests that much into you just to get some people. The next step is probably gon na. Be marriage. Try, but if not, you still got house car money. Okay, make a compromise. If you're. If you see what he's willing to do for you, just to get some sex make sure your name on that title of the car and that house the deed to that house. If you see, if he's willing to do all that, then he's probably gon na marry you anyway, if he's not willing to do any of that, then perhaps just string him along pretend like you, are for a long long time and then never do and then, when He gets tired of you at least you'll have had time to replace him. But honestly, if you don't want to do it, then don't do it um. But if you are curious and you you think okay well, maybe i can do it, but only for this. This is that that's how a lot of women got their money. Nobody has to know all right, sprinkle sprinkle, nobody got ta know i mean what were people doing before marriage was invented. Looking at each other waiting on mirrors to be invented, or you better get your money, sprinkle sprinkle she or does his ego become non-existent, and you see what you want to see. You pay attention to what you want attention to remember that you always have the control. Ladies um, your husband is a slob and we are 50 girls. Don'T tell me no mother sound like a nightmare. Sprinkle sprinkle! Oh, i wasn't ready for no horror story today. Are you still climbing him girl? You mean your roommate darling all right. Well, when you still claiming your roommate and you married him, then you know, i don't know what to tell you do something about it like start giving him more and more of the bills and working less until he's forced to pay more girl hannah every every two Months, give him one of your bills until you don't have the mobiles. Okay, sprinkle, sparkle and cut them off in a bedroom until bills is fake. He'S gon na have to find a second job or get a raise or figure it out. Okay, is it weird for him to travel four hours to spend weekend with fat, frat brother girl? You asked it either all right: sprinkle sprinkle, i'm not driving four hours for nobody unless let alone anybody that i'm not related to oh drive for myself and i'm going somewhere for a visit for four hours somewhere, i'm going away, katie, i'm not getting ready to travel Somewhere for so for no sororities, i'm not even in a sorority, and if i was, i still wouldn't drop um, you said cut off in the bedroom. Yes, that's what i said. We share accounts and he does work over 60 hours a week. No sex doesn't bother him either because he's tired, no food, then find what what he likes and take it away, and if you work in 60 hours and can't pay both your bills, what you don't? I don't know i better get you another one on the side who can alright y'all know, i can't fix the problem, i'm not going to tell you. Oh you just need to suck it up and pitch it. Now, i'm not ever going to tell you that i'm going to tell you to go, i tell you, go get another one on the side and give you some money before i tell you that sprinkle, okay um, you said you could live with no sex. Just i. If he can live with no sex, then he can live what you got, but not you in the room either and you can have your own life. You know what i'm saying you think we're naturally dominant as women mentally sprinkle sprinkle. I inspired you to buy a tea set with the tiered mini cake tray. It looks so good together. Yes, yes, yeah! I have a little teapot here. Yeah i like to drink tea, it's healthy for you, it's cute! It'S feminine! You get a little tea pots and things like that and cute little tea cups and saucers and little spoons um. Your date was mad and left with an attitude after he didn't get sex. We just met girl. You ain't know who clay you thought he was calling. The hook a hotline or something let him stay mad then did you get any money? You should be mad too. Then y'all didn't get what y'all wanted. You wanted money. He wanted sex. Nobody got what they wanted. Move on, like it's free people out here, like it's free, how do i cut off the negative energy coming from his mama, miss wanda? He thinks i'm using him for his money. Oh she thinks then then tell us you're right. I am using him for his money. What am i supposed to be using him for your money? Do you have money he using me for my sex, so i think we're even darling. She ain't gon na want to hear that you get if you, if you know how to talk like honestly, like and he's using me for sex, we're good, don't be afraid. To be honest, you used to be afraid to take money from guys or to ask money, but not again good, for you so make sure you're you're, you know who you are okay, um, another way to know a man really wants you in his life and uh Is taking you seriously is if he asks about your family and he wants to meet your friends and your family um and he's curious about your family. More than your friends, you know what i'm saying, um and not curious in a nosy way, but just wants to meet them. You know not afraid to meet the parents, not afraid to meet the the family. Okay, um, it's not against. It doesn't like um get afraid when you start talking about a future, not together, but just future in general. Um doesn't doesn't try to like um stare away from questions about um whatever it is that you find important like when, when you ask him he's going to be more honest, um, even if it's bad a man that really wants you to be in his life, will Find a way to make whatever his bad news is sound, less bad, but he's still going to tell you okay, and that way he knows. Y'All aren't wasting time because there's something with hell he's going to tell you. Okay, so make sure you pay attention um. Another way is uh. If he thinks about you on holidays and invites you over invites you to do stuff. We'Ll include you in all the festivities. If there's holidays get you appropriate gifts for the holidays, make sure that you're taken care of and know that you're thought about. If he makes you feel special and know that you're thought about, and yes, that is what that's what it takes now. A lot of women take these things for granted, but sometimes you have to just wait and pay close attention and not to just those small details, but also how they act when things don't go their way when big things happen, that are not, you know good and To see how they react, because if you're going to be in the long run with someone um you're going to need to see how they react to certain situations before you can commit or before you would like to commit um and that man may do the same Thing with you, how are you going to be in this situation? How are you going to react to this situation? If this thing happens, uh, do you easily forgive, do you easily forget, do you lash out, do you do this? Do you do that and it gives them a better perspective of how the relationship would be with you and if you want to know like, if you want to know someone you have to get to know them, you can't just rush into anything and say: okay, let's Get married in three months because, whatever whatever now you have to make sure you know how these people will react to what situations occur, you said what, if they shut down, then you got ta, learn how to deal with the shutdown. You know um, a lot of people react in different ways based on the situation or who did what you know what i'm saying if you are in a relationship, and you felt like you, trusted someone and then all of a sudden, you felt like you couldn't trust Them a lot of times that may feel like okay, well shut everything down, because the relationship was totally based on mistrust, right, um and so another one you know is to take them out of the equation and move on. Because if you don't like a lot of a lot of, women, do not give second chances or benefits of the doubt anymore, because they have seen how much of a waste of time it is. And since men tend to value women on their their youth, beauty and looks time is of the essence. So a lot of times women choose not to give second chances, because one time is a lot of time. You know what i'm saying and men have more time to play around, so they think than women do and they've put that stigma in a lot of women's heads that oh, you don't have time to do this and you don't have time to do that. So you better hurry up so when, when we feel like our time has been wasted, we don't tend to waste more time on the same thing. So sometimes that's what happens and that's why you need to get to know people in relationships if you're going to waste people's time and then um prepare for them to realize that their time was wasted and make sure that you know if, if a lot of people Know that people have wasted their time and if you want more time wasted, go back and have more time waste if you got time to spare, but now you know, women know that they have all the time in the world. We have technology, we have whatever you know. Whatever we have at our fingertips. Um women are taking better care of themselves, they're, looking better. Their health is good. They'Re leveling up their looks they're dressing better. You know they're maintaining their appearance for as long as possible and they're getting exactly what they want in life. So um, you know between now and then, where we feel like you know we're not able to get as much as we want. We don't want to spend time or waste time on doing the same thing over when it should have been done correctly. The first time you know what i'm saying, and if someone really really wants you, they will find a way they would find a way to make sure that you knew that and that you would definitely um consider giving them. You know your time again, but if not move on the situation is done, um and sometimes you can't fix it, but if you can fix it, then you're gon na have to accept how someone treats you if it should happen again, because now you know okay, a Lot of men will see how you react to certain news, like women like to try to test you, but they don't like how you don't or do pass the test. Then they feel some sort of way say a lot of women don't take tests. We take what we want. You know what i'm saying. Um and i know a lot of women are like well. I think he's testing me should i do this, but if you feel someone is testing, you then test them. Okay, that's my best way. If you feel like, is this a test all right? Well, i guess y'all ready for my test today. You know how you gon na react to the results. You don't watch, you say it could be. A trap could be for both on both ways. But if you know how to get out of a trap, then never trap okay, they don't like when they don't like the results of your test, because you ended up switching it up. Then that's not my problem. Men shouldn't be testing women, like that, don't they know not to test women all right can't test women, because they'll end up testing you and you won't like the results. Alright, are you part of the level up, don't be flued out cheap? What cheap is correct, didn't bring what i wanted brought over beer just meeting me: girl, beer, where's, your champagne or where's your drink. If you gon na bring beer, that's for him, where's your specialty drink! If somebody bring beer to my house a little bit what they finna work on, where your paint? Okay, you ain't, you uh! Okay, let me test to see if you'll know how to come correct exactly we drink wine over here. Okay, what do you think of women who wear a short haircut? I think they cut their hair off. I think wigs are options. You know, i don't think anything if you like your hair short, you like it short, doesn't mean you always have to wear it short. You can throw a wig on when you feel like wearing it long. If you like it short, then like it short for me, i don't care like i like wigs, i, like short, hair long hair, but i use different, looks to get different things. I'M not going to wear no short hair somewhere to get get this money, but i will throw on a wheel, but i will wear short hair when i go outside in my garden and be sweating and doing all the kind of stuff not feeling like doing my Hair throwing it up in the bun and be done. I will do that, but i also have options and that's the beauty of being a woman. You have so many options, so it doesn't matter if your hair is short or long. They make wigs now they've been making wigs, but wigs are more accessible now to women and they look more natural, okay. So another way to tell is they give you the space that you need when you need it and they don't ask a mute like they're, not desperate, they don't ask a million questions because they're afraid of of um scaring you away with you know feeling like you're Being possessed or whatever so they they allow you more freedom and they give you more trust: okay, they're, not insecure. That'S another thing: um insecurity in a man or a woman is a turn off to many many many, many many people. So when they're serious about you, they tend not to be so insecure around you. You know what i'm saying and sometimes then it may come off as a little bit of arrogance, but at the same time that they're hiding their insecurity in order not to scare you away, and you can tell - and some people are doing that too. If you pay very close attention, what do you think of wealthy men busy preparing breakfast taking shopping but no cash? Well, a lot of people want to see how how you respond to them before they give you cash. I don't know how long it's been since you've been with that person, but if have you asked for cash, you know you got ta ask for stuff, you want it. How do you deal with a man that wants to come to your place? You have been seeing this guy for five months and he's never been into your place, but you have been to his place and know he thinks i stay with another man huh and now i think you stay with another man. Well, i'll tell him you don't invite me into your apartment unless he's paying one of the bills or your house or whatever i don't. I don't invite men over my house unless they're contributing to my household period get your money girl turn everything around. If he thinks that you got another man, then he'll pay to find out some bills. Okay, do i believe in keeping all my eggs in one bite, i don't eat eggs baby. I am, i am plant-based, i have just egg and it comes in a bottle. Honestly. There'S a lot of chickens out here: that's laying eggs and keeping all your eggs in one basket. You know as long as you got more chickens, it's good you! Don'T it doesn't matter um, but it's not wise in the in the the metaphor of it. So, like maybe get two three four baskets, you got a haul about three full baskets. You like just a girl. You stop good ain't, it all right um. Can you get a spare tire? Um you'll get you an extra basket girl, uh you've been making you've been talking to a man over a year. He hasn't sent me anything. How do i get my girl a year? You better send him your amazon, wishlist and see what happens doesn't come if nothing comes of. It then stop communicating. Okay, all right! Otherwise, you're wasting your breath time text typing there. You go um sprinkle sprinkle. If he asked to come to your home, it is not a red flag, it's actual problem um. Why are you gon na come over my house, you paying any of these bills? Can you do an updated video on how to ask for a gift or some from someone you are actively dating if he wants to take things to any other level? I i already keep telling you guys this you'll know, if he's going to say yes or no before you even ask that means in preparation to asking for anything you are. You got ta. Have him like right in the palm of your hand, so that you know he's gon na say? Yes, you got ta, prepare you got ta, be looking cute stuff got ta be pumped up, you got ta, be smelling good. You got ta, be rubbing up against them. You got ta be breathing hard using whatever voice to turn on you. Then you tell him what you need before any of that occurred and if he's when he says no, then he just said no to all of that and then you exit, okay, you have to know he's going to say. Yes, you got to be all up on him, smelling good, looking good until he can't resist anything anything. You ask yes, yes, okay, but at the same time you know make sure you get what you get. What you want. Should i not make it a deal breaker for a man to bring me flowers, i'm getting bad feedback. I feel like when you demand something it seems like a red flag to men. So if you simply say i like flowers um, it doesn't mean that if they're going to be um given it just, you know it's an indication that you like them, then, if it's up to them to pay attention. This is how you know that they, like you. If they're listening, if they do what you want, they bring flowers, you don't demand that you did you bring flowers on a date, you said you know what i love getting flowers um. It just makes me feel this way in this way and um then they're going to ask you what your favorite flower is and then you're going to be like oh it's. This is this: isn't that and then they're going to show up on the date with the flowers if they really like you and they was listening to paying attention and care and if they don't, then they didn't care and they don't care what you like? Okay, you! Never demand something unless that's your husband, you know you got ta, do it else, but on a date, especially on a first date, you never demand anything. Oh i love flowers. Oh really! Yes, i love getting flowers they're, just so beautiful they're, not um, and they just make my whole room like smell good, oh well, what's your favorite flower? Oh you sure you want to know my favorite flower is or flowers are da da da da. Why are you going to bring me some bam? That'S how you get flowers! You know you better, bring me some flowers, i need so i'm going to partner what i ain't, bringing nobody. I didn't bring flowers to now. You better, you better, be extra inventive on how you demand your thing, not even how you demand them. It'S how you present that you want something you can demand after you get married, but you need to present it while you're dating, because when you try to present it when you're married - and they know you so long - they already know what you're doing they may. Let you do it just because it makes them feel special, but at the end of the day, you need something to tell them mm-hmm what if he changes his mind after after what? What is your? What is your friend, why is your friend not giving you money anymore? He did for 15 years now he's being greedy girl. I don't know, maybe he's going through issues. No right. You have to bring the subject up to him. Don'T just imagine exactly okay, another way to tell if a man really wants you in his life is that he shares his hopes and dreams with you and his future plans with you and not in a way that he's bragging, but in a way that he's like Allowing you into what he wants, if he's, never shared his future plans with you or painted a picture of what the future would look like in a vulnerable not even vulnerable way, but in an honest way, then he's not probably um. You know really really feeling your liking, but if someone gives you their plans or you know what they want to move into like, if somebody tells you things and you didn't ask but there's just sharing like i said, information privileged information, it means that they kind of Care all right and they want to see you there and that's why they're telling you, because they want you to be a part of it or at least want to be a part of it. A lot of men who don't see that you're going to be in their life long term, they don't really look to the future. They don't really talk about anything in the future and they don't really mention it or they try to avoid the subject. So pay attention to that too um. You said you start to think the relationship between shure and you is one side. It'S no side any relationships, frank sprinkle, uh. What? If he makes empty promises um he can make all the empty promises he wants. If you believe them, that's up, that's your fault, um! I don't care about promises, i care about actions and results so um. If people are making empty promises, i would definitely be like well just let's talk about it when we're there. Let'S talk about it. When that happens or surprise me, i'm not listening to no promises. No, unless it's coming with a promise ring, that's worth something: intangible, okay or some promised cash. Okay, you can promise all you want if you're promising me with cash and rings and and things like that, but don't promise me with no empty words: sprinkle sprinkle, walk away or shut down the convo after the first false advertisement see a lot of people are um. A lot of people are quick to shut people down, and you know you can do that, but also be sure that you're sure, if you're, if you know, if you know that there's other people and you don't care or if you're sure that you're sure then fine But if you're unsure don't do that because you may be like well, maybe i rushed into that but make that decision when you're, not when you're, you know what you're thinking more about it or at least take a day or two think about it. That was your biggest mistake, believing empty words. Okay, uh and people learn from those those things and they never repeat that and that's why a lot of men get frustrated when um they mess up and the woman doesn't give them another chance, because so many people are out here making empty promises and not keeping Their word that it seems like it starts to become like the norm, so they don't really believe anybody after that. So um, that's why you have to go above and beyond to prove that your words aren't empty. Even if you don't feel like you should it's it's so um, it's so important to make sure that someone knows that when you say something, if that's what it is um these men just talking about nothing. Do men like women more the less women seem impressed or caught up over them? I'M not sure, but i would feel like. Okay being who i am, i would feel like um. Maybe if everybody's like - oh oh you're, this you're - that over them, then it's normal to them. So it's not anything special know what i'm saying that's the norm. So it's not seen as special. You know what i mean. So when someone is not acting the norm, they tend to get the interest. You know because they're not the norm, you're mad at your pick, miesha mom for not teaching you the game. Well, she didn't know the game to teach girls park sprinkle. Now you can go. Teach her okay, so another way to tell is um when you're out on a date. They make sure that you're comfortable, like they make sure you like the place they make sure everything is up to you. You know standards, and they also make sure that you are having a good time like if they see that you're drifting or bored they quickly, try to you know fix whatever the problem is and they're not just going to be like well hurry up. I hope this date's over soon or you know they're gon na try to fix whatever it is that they feel is wrong with the date they're gon na they're gon na do extra they're gon na be like you know, maybe try to talk about something that interests You if they see you're drifting off they're gon na try to get your attention back. They really like you, you know otherwise they'll just be like okay. This is a waste of time. They can't wait for this to be over okay, see when i see you, but if not, if they're really trying to get you um, you know to have a good time on the date and not try to rush to the end of it or worse. To you know whatever, then it's that's what you need to pay attention to they're, making sure that you're having a good time um, you say you live in a racist town. These tips don't apply to you. Unfortunately, well, why are you dating in a racist town? That'S your choice: sprinkle sprinkles, all right, my mom didn't talk to me other things, just mostly she repeated to me. Boys and parties will always be around like this girl. What hurry i'll take all of my dates to taco bell you're welcome. Ladies all, right that's cause! I i know how you tip market. That'S all you got taco bell all right. Well, send me some taco bell money. Since you bragging over there, sprinkle sprinkle um y'all, better hit that, like button, i see more people in here than life y'all better hit. It click. Click click like like, like okay, what is my favorite perfume to seduce the one that they buy me spooks, one um. Yes, you wanted to go get my book. She was seven, the wisdom of shira7, it's on amazon, sprinkle sprinkle and also allow you to get my elixirs start on phase one. It will totally change your mindset and get you on track level up your best life promise. You there's a link to the etsy store to get your elixirs and the instructions come with it so make sure y'all read the instructions um and your read the reviews too you're going to see a lot of reviews and it'll tell you more on how it works. Okay, this is too much to explain here and it's better from other people, because you know that they've actually taken it and you can believe what they say. You can't make up fake reviews on etsy, okay, spring sprinkle, um y'all. Have it better than you getting a van that provides? I live in the caribbean, it's so much more harder. Yeah uh, oh ashley, sprinkle spoilers, oh sprinkle, sprinkle appreciate you. Girl got the cash app for y'all need my cash out. I know y'all are finished, feeling generous. Today, um, you said i was reading somebody's question, yeah yeah, maybe you got ta date, someone that not from there and then you know i have a little money. Okay, do i still use tom, for i got a bunch of perfumes john. I got whatever one. I got and feel like spraying on that's the one i'm spraying on um. Okay, whichever one speaks to you, wear that one like the way that i select perfumes. If i smell it, does this smell like seduction? Does it smell like mystery? Does it smell, like you will never forget this, then i'm gon na wear it um. This is going to turn on somebody here. They don't wear it. You know go in there and find that perfume. That smells like that to you, if that's the perfume you're looking for, i have perfumes to you, know to not be even noticed that i have perfume for myself that i just like to spray on to smell fresh and clean. I have perfume for different reasons, so you're going to have a perfume for a different reason, just like anything else like lip colors, what job you're trying to get done, and you wear that specific perfume. What can you do to make a man stay with you if he doesn't want wow? I owe some more cash app. I can't get mad sprinkle sprinkle. Somebody sent me one dollar. I appreciate that. I hope that was not your last dollar sprinkles. I still appreciate it shoot i'm gon na i'm not gon na just one dollar. That'S all you got. That'S all you guys from support. Appreciate it. Okay, um right there you go all right anyway, y'all i'm y'all already know i'm not talking about everything that y'all are talking about in the comments. I don't make comments on stuff like that, so y'all don't have to ask me y'all already know i don't care um. So i'm i'm here! This is my channel and we're going to talk about what i want to talk about so uh, oh sprinkle, sprinkle. They go olivia, sprinkle sprinkle! You just brought phase one. Oh sprinkle, sprinkle girl. We should have got phase one you gon na, be tell me how you like it when you review it. Okay, give yourself at least a week before you put the review out of taking it and take it like the instructions on the daily basis, and just let me know, okay, you said the perfume lotion from avon actually gives you attention and y'all. The funny thing is: that's probably true, because i used to wear this um lotion from avon back in the old days into my twenties, and people always used to ask me what i'm wearing and i'm like. What'S my mama's lotion from her bathtub, it's april, i don't know it's in the dark blue bottle at the dark in the little dark blue. Can i don't know what that means? I was ashy and i need this lotion, so i don't know it's in the dark. Blue bottle, i don't know the name of it i'll look tomorrow, people were asking, but some of their stuff smells good um. You treat your boyfriend like the first time we met it's like we're still on dates. I think that's a tactic to keep you on me. Catching your attention: okay, oh that's! Sweet um! Do how do you handle a spirit of spiteful x? I don't sprinkle sprinkles um if they're in my past they're in my past, you know um. If they're, spiteful and they're still thinking about me. You know maybe i'll try to help them get over me or you know maybe help them find someone else. You know yeah suggest places for them to visit, to meet other people, because a lot of times, if they're being spiteful like that, it's because they haven't found another one um and a lot of times. People need to hurry up and find out, because a lot of a lot of guys feel like they don't have a woman that something is wrong with them, especially if they're used to having women. So they need to hurry to find another one. Why would you deal with anyone who is special? Exactly that's what happens when you act like you cannot have faith and ambition get used to get used as testimony what an eerie last set of oh y'all, talking about something else, how you deal with step, kids that come around teenage kid, i'm friends with everybody like! I don't want to say friends, but i think i get along with most people or i could find a way to get along with most people. So i can pretty much deal with anybody uh if i have to and hopefully make the best out of it, and maybe, if they're going to be step, kids uh then form a relationship with them. You know, but at the same time i'm not i'm not looking down upon step. Kids, mm-hmm i've been a stepchild many times my mom hadn't played um. Do you think plus-sized women have harder time dating? I never did when i, when i was plus size or, if you consider me, plus size now, i never had a hard time child. I think it depends on your mental and it also depends on your confidence, um and also your size like if plus size. Do you mean obese or just plus size, or do you like how what are you expecting? What are your standards? You know what i'm saying, because it's a combination of things it's almost like. Okay, are you well taken care of? Are you leveled up? Does your size um? Do you look like you're? Okay with yourself? Do you love you? You know uh because there's skinny people out here with dusty's and broke just the same as there's plus size women out here get in the bag, so it just depends on you, but i would say majority of men looking for someone that is not police unless that's Their fetish, you know what i'm saying um. Well, you got a little extra. If you look thick that little extra meat somewhere, you know, i think, you're fine mm-hmm. You said she was never sides. She was just juicy y'all feel silly. How do you make a rich guy break up with pygmiesha girl tips? Please um! You have to let that run its course. You know what i'm saying you can't make anyone break up with anyone. You just have to continuously be who you are and let that relationship run its course, because if you don't you're, always they're always going to wonder what could have should have would have been. If you try to break up people or if it feels prematurely. Someone broke up with someone you're always going to keep wandering you might as well. Let that relationship run its course, because, if she's a pink misha, it's not gon na last that long anyway. Okay, how do how to keep him obsessed with you? Um stay obsessed with yourself stay obsessed with yourself. Remember it's! It'S your world you're obsessed with yourself when you obsess with yourself, that's what you put out and then stay obsessed with yourself. I do i still obsess myself. I don't even know who obsessed with me, but i know it's me as well. Um, i'm also obsessed with myself. You could be obsessed together. Okay, men love to date me they cancel dates with you to go out with dates with me for real. Thank you. That would be funny if you knew that they cancelled a date to go out with you huh. You have to cancel a date, ninja um. Sometimes i just stare at my photo. Thank you for your time. People on that channel, oh you're, welcome y'all, so silly. I can imagine you because i'd be doing the same thing. Look at me. I know that's terrible to admit at least i'm honest anyway. There are men's, saying stuff like this to how they play games with us, too. Okay, how do men feel about tall women? It depends on a man like some men. They don't like it because they want to be the tall one and some men like it, because it seems like dang. You know this tall woman is with me because i'm so much of a man you know it just depends on how short they are and how tall they are. Like i think, like super tall women um, you know they unless it's a fetish, like i said a lot of men, don't want you to be towering over them. You know unless you're like the supermodel and you're a status symbol, but if y'all look close to the same height and a inch or two, i don't think it really matters um you're working on your finances, so the level up is hard. You can't buy stuff, you need. What shall i do to get asked on dates? Shall i pause days now girl, there's broke people out here dating thrift stores, borrow clothes from people um, you know, use what you have go on pinterest and make up outfits with stuff. In your closet, already figure it out, anybody can level up with what they already have. All you have is gym clothes and leggings. Then um hang out where those clothes are appropriate. Okay, like don't try to like, if you don't have the money, look what you have and then use that and hang out or whatever you have is appropriate but be strategic with it. Oh gianna, sprinkle sprinkle. How do i appear a lot lost or aloof around men? Um how to not appear lost or roof around anybody girl. Perhaps that's your opinion of yourself and that's a question you need to answer for yourself: um, because if you're lost and aloof around men, chances are you're like that around everybody. So perhaps maybe start by having male friends, if, if it's just a man that triggers that aloofness start off by having male friends get used to talking to men, you know, then maybe that'll be less and less okay. Where do you find male friends the same place? You'Ve got every meal in them. Dms sparkle, sprinkles girl, just go through your dms, there's gon na be a bunch of them waiting to be putting friends on okay. You just got your elixir: okay, sprinkle sprinkle. Let me know how you like to put the review out in about a week after you've been using it consistently. Okay, great what the heck. Where are you, do you have instagram or facebook, or something they're in they're in those inboxes they're on sprinkles waiting on a chance, sprinkle sprinkles? How can how can you use child support, support to invest he's giving you start your business, sprinkle sprinkle y'all know that's what i'm saying start your own business flowers are cute, but too many and you're gon na be sneezing. Okay, do they be waiting to put in the friend zone? They do be waiting to be put in the friend zone. Okay, should i leave him alone? I asked him as a test for capital for your clothing business and he suggested i take a business on. He does not want to invest, he do not care about you. He sent you to the bank girl mm-hmm. Next, you were the business, long fool. You didn't see that and there's not wasn't even gon na be no long, because i wasn't gon na pay. You back yeah. Next, i'm not getting ready to deal with somebody who just turned me down, so you say even around gay men, you act extra feminine and they react more masculine. It is funny funny funny uh yeah. He i used to have a gay, a friend and he was like i'm about to turn straight for you. It'S like you got me wandering you got me thinking. Would it be like like? Please don't wander and please don't think um. I think that's what's funny. No name about turn straight okay, anyway, not sure about to turn him out. You know they just be joking, though it's compliment, that's all it's supposed to be it does that it's funny marketing jealous compliment um. So no, you know a lot of times. That'S just a compliment: y'all not to be taken seriously so yeah. That is true, the more feminine you act around a guy they're, more masculine they're, gon na also, okay, more more tips, more tips; okay, um. If you are like, if they ask you questions and you sincerely answer - and they remember those answers like oh, where do you like to where would you like to go vacation a lot of people, ask you where would you like to go vacation uh? What'S the you know, what's your favorite this? What'S your favorite that you know, um bring it back up in a conversation later to see if they're paying attention? Oh, i would love to go. Get my favorite such and such or i would love to go to my favorite place or you know it's in my favorite color or it's my favorite flower and don't give specifics and see if they were paying attention see what they come back with see. What see? What they respond as well, i don't remember what your favorite thing was. Oh or if they do, you know that means they were paying attention and that they were taking notes in their head to impress you make sure that they know what you were saying and it's also a good way to remind them. So they don't forget. Okay, you said gay men are still very attracted to women. Don'T let them fool you, oh okay! Well, let them be attracted. I don't know if that's gon na go anywhere. Men make better friends to each his own. Yes, what can you do besides? Being on your phone, while out freestyling at restaurant, what they did before, they were phones, drink, look around people watch looks like you're actually there to enjoy yourself and relax and absorb the ambiance look mysterious and poised at the same time, look like eye candy for anyone Who should look your way, okay act like you're being filmed, and you were extra you're at the bar until the man walks over to you, who's the main character, and then you become the main character. Okay, that's how you got ta. Do it you're sitting at the end of the bars right off in the distance some guy walks in and all he can see? Is you because you ain't like this for everybody else like this, but you're like this you're going all his attitude's gon na go straight to you, especially if you look good, walk straight over try to get a spot next to you at the bar, be looking good! That'S all you got ta, that's how i learned a lot by people watching as well. Try to try people watching. Okay, you always make contact eye contact and smile. I don't know if i would smile, though i'd give a grip, so they know to be warned. I i don't do a full smile, because that's too much for me to do all that you gon na come over to figure out an air of mystery unless i'm, unless i'm already tipsy. I don't even know why i'm smiling good margarita martini is feeling good i'll.