Wedding Plans?! Marrying Into A Different Tribe | Effortless Bob Wig Install Ft Hairvivi | Q&A

Hi guys welcome back to my channel. I know i look weird starting a video like this. Let me tell you why this video is a get ready with me, video or hair edition, because i already have my makeup done as you guys can see. So just my hair that i'm going to be laying guys i'm kind of nervous, because this is going to be like my first time, laying um a wii on camera. Whenever i want to lay my wig, it's never on camera. So i'm doing this. For the first time, hopefully i don't mess this up. Of course, while i answer your questions, the chit chats get ready with me. Let'S just talk, let's have a good time just so you know this. Video is sponsored by hey vivi, i'm so excited guys. This is literally my first time working with this brand. I'Ve heard so many good things about heavy like whenever i go on the internet, and people are talking about where they got this hair from that hair from i always hear heavy, be heavy, be heavy and i'm so happy that they decided to walk with me. So this video is sponsored by hair vivi. So before i get into this video properly before we start talking - and i start answering your questions because guys the questions that you guys asked - you know what we'll get there we get it before i get there. Let me just talk about this hair, real quick, you guys can see the packaging. This is how it came and it is very, very nice. I love the box, the velvety box. It came in like a dark blue box, but yeah and it says heavy in front. So, let's unbox it together, this is so cute when you open up the box. This is the first thing that you see okay, this and this, and we have like two bags, and this is the main bag this bag contains the wig inside. Let me see what is actually inside this tiny one: okay, so we have edge control brush here and the comb, and we also have hair clips guys. They give me hair clips. How cute are these? I'Ve been wanting this for the longest time, guys down to the hair itself. Just so you know guys this brand. They are known for their hd list. Okay, they always say that their wigs are free plugged and privileged, and i actually opened it before. I opened it now, for you guys to actually check if it's true, if i actually need to do any work on the way i have to customize it and guys. I didn't have to customize anything, because let me tell you something everything they said is exactly how it looks like it has been privileged pre-plugged and the list is 100 hd, invisible guys. I don't know if you guys can see this see how thing delicious. What time? I install it, you guys will see it's better, but this is how thin the laces i love it. You can see the comb by this side and it also has a comb under it. Okay, let me tell you what i love about this leaf. I love the band okay because it is a glueless wig, so i could decide to rock it as a glue last week or i could decide to actually use glue on it. I don't yet know what i want to do, yet i'm going to figure it out. Why can't i put it on my head all right now. Look at this bun guys the band is so adjustable, so it fits your hair like no matter your head size, small, medium or big. This is definitely going to fit. I think i see this. You ever seen a wig that has a fixed cup before this is my first time i won't lie. It has a fixed cup, so i really don't need to do a whole lot of work with this week like on my head, like i really don't need to do too much because it basically has everything that i need. You know like everything it came customized. It came pre-plucked privileged, the fixed cup, like is just 100 amazing, like i like it, okay, so let me just try this wig now so that i know what i want to do like i said before, i don't even want to put glue, or i don't know If i don't want to put glue, so let me just try it now, do you know what i want to do? Okay, this is literally the true definition of what lace like i haven't, even like cut seeds or done anything, and it's looking this way like how cool is this like? It is, let me come closer, you guys can see like and the hair is so soft when i mean so so like it is so soft, like. Let me just finish installing this guys like i. I literally can't wait to see the final look and i'm going to look so good and all but anyways. Let me start answering your questions. Let'S start talking, i feel, like you guys, have watched me grow on this channel from my first video from my first welcome to my channel video to me doing vlogs, to me doing my makeup now, i'm installing hair, i also like you guys, have actually seen me Evolved like you've seen me you've seen me. Do nonsense. You'Ve actually seen me. Do the good things on this channel and i'm super excited for the goods guys, i'm so happy for my growth, because you know me would never do something like this, because i've never actually had that kind of confidence to just come in front of the camera and Say i want to install my wig or to say i want to do my makeup just so. You know i gel down my hair just to show you that my hair is growing all right if you've seen my formal video and i said that i shaved my hair bowed. I did that about february and now guys i actually did gel it down. Okay. So i gelled it down i'm happy that the hair actually responded like it actually responded. Will you be giving us wedding planning, content? Okay? That was the first question i got, and the only question i followed was the whole wedding wedding talk. So i feel like. Let me just clear the whole wedding talk right now. I think i'm going to go. Take the glueless route, because this wig is so firm guys like super firm, like the band behind, is holding it so well that i don't even need to use glue. This front side is extremely firm, but i know the problem i'm gon na have the problem. I'M going to have is with the sides here. I know that, no matter how firm this front side is, the sides would always be loose. So i think when i get to the side, i will use glue for the sides, but for the front i don't think i'm going to use any glue for it because, honestly guys it is sitting perfectly on my hair sure when this person says wedding planning. Contents content person is obviously talking about um everything that leads up to the wedding, so the main day, um, probably um, what they call it. Dress hunting, dress, shopping, bridesmaids, picking my bryce made. You know trust me when it comes to wedding contest. I know wedding content because i watch so many people's vlogs i've been watching youtube for a very very long time. So i see these content and i'm sure that's what the person is talking about and honestly, why not like it's me, it's something i would love to do. Okay, it's something i would definitely love to do you know it's a once in a lifetime thing. I would love to experience the process and i love to vlog everything, so i think the answer is going to be most likely. Yes, we're going to get wedding content. That is when it's actually time. Okay, because right now, i don't even know the thought of having a wedding hasn't even come to my head, yet guys so right now. I don't even know that one yet, but as for the contents, what she asked for definitely yes, the next question is: when is the wedding see this question? I feel like there's some things that are just so extremely private. I mean people are so bold. Honestly speaking, i feel like these are questions that i don't think i even asked somebody he's like asking somebody. Maybe you give bits, i don't know that's the way i see char. Some people might actually not see this way. That'S why they can't even ask like they. Don'T even care, but for me or if somebody should just um get proposed to, i don't think i'm the first thing that is going to come to my head. The first question i'll cause when i ask the person is: when is the wedding? I just feel like. It'S personal to the person and you know it would reduce the pressure. Okay. Like i mean, why puts so much pressure on the person that just got engaged, i mean you guys get that's the way. I feel some people might actually not see that way. You know some people might not see that way. This is crazy. Like look at this, let me come close like are we having the wedding in dubai or are we having it in lagos? You guys, i don't know. I mean like most of my. I feel like my answer to most of these wedding questions will just be. I don't know because literally i just go, engage like last week, so i really don't know. I haven't really asked myself these questions. Yes, you mean. The question is: where would you love to have your wedding, okay now? That is something i can answer unless, for me, i'll also have my own wedding destination. Where do you know i mean i live in this i've lived in this dubai. I don't want to do it but like if you leave me paris or spain or somewhere in europe, that i would love to have my own like. If you leave me, that's left for me, but when you start putting things into people into consideration, you know your whole family, your guests, your bridesmaids, the groomsmen. When you start you know putting all those things into consideration. Obviously, you can go somewhere that far all right, because not everybody will be able to attend it guys. This is like the easiest week i have ever installed like no cap, i'm not even lying. I just removed the list and i'm like you guys. There is no glue at all, should i show you should i say this: can i see this because you feel like being a fiance and honestly it feels i don't know it just feels um one step closer to spending the rest of your life with somebody. You say you love, that's just the way i feel right now. I still feel the same way. Of course, i just feel like normal girl, no, my human being doing her team. Like am i supposed to feel a different way, but all i can say is that i just feel like it has gotten me one step closer to starting a family having kids, you know, being a wife being a mom one step closer all right, so that feeling Of being one step closer to um, being a mom to being a wife is just the best feeling ever for me for me, so that's how i feel right now, like boy you're talking about like normal human being feeling, i still feel normal. I still feel i still feel normal. I don't know how i'm supposed to feel. So i think i want to glue the sides because in as much as the front is stable, the front is beautiful and stable. I feel like the sides are still like still loose, and i don't want that, so i'm gon na touch on the sides. That'S what i'm gon na do now tips on how to grow my youtube channel. If i do not have a luxury lifestyle honestly guys. This is the first time i'm hearing a question like this and honestly guys. I'M not even surprised because of the way our society is now, but you just expect that you must have like a luxury lifestyle. That'S this weekend guys. I have actually seen youtube channels that are doing so well, like they have good subscribers, they have views and they don't even have like lovely lifestyle or all those things. I don't want to mention the name of the channels, because i don't want people to like misunderstand me or i don't want people to say. Oh, oh so, she's actually saying that this channel does not have luxury or something. No. You know i love your channel. So i'm not gon na mention the name of the youtube channels, but i watch them. I'M even subscribed to few love their content and they don't even like have all the whole flashy things like and they're, not even living they're still living with their parents they're. Not even living alone um, they don't have like cars. Fancy bags fancy shoes fancy all those things like do you know that people just like genuine content like people just like contents, that are like 100 real and genuine like if you you, people can actually tell if you're fake or, if you're, living a fake lifestyle like People can tell so when people see like the real deal and we'll see somebody who is in oh, let me use like maybe abby estates. Now, for example, somebody who is in ambient state or somebody who is living in the village and the person is still doing youtube. People get interested people, wow yeah he's supposed to even able to do this kind of thing. So i feel like that. Some people just enjoy contents like that, so, like you literally don't have to wait. So you have a large luxury lifestyle to start your youtube channel. I imagine if i give you this advice, i'm like all right wait. Do you have a luxury lifestyle like don't do anything at all just keep waiting like what kind of a person will i be. If i give that kind of advice, all i can say is start slow, start small, build up. Your channel see the point whereby you start making enough money for you to um, leave or afford this luxury lifestyle that you're calling okay, don't compare your channel with any other person's channel. Everybody has their own race that they're running just focus on your own race. Steer your own lane and learn and improve emphasis on improving, i feel like you, should try to improve every day with your channel so improve, and you know gradually you see growth, it's totally weak after you've done your makeup. It'S just so annoying like guys, like i've forgotten how annoying it is. Now i'm getting this mushiness here with the makeup. It'S just getting attached to my makeup, but don't worry. I can fix that. The next question is i'm at the stage of not wanting marriage. Like you said in your video - and i don't know what to do - everybody keeps forcing me to get married. I'M just telling you something this thing, my age or anything not like i'm an s factor. I really don't know anything guys so, like i really don't know anything, but all i know is that take your time like, if you're not ready to settle down like you're, not ready for all those things. Just do what you know: you're ready for, if you're ready to start work, start work, you're, ready to start a business type business you're ready to start you to start youtube. Just do what you know! Okay, like you know, you want to do this like you're, ready for don't even listen to anybody, just block all the noise, because at the end of the day, it's your life like it's just between you and you, you guys get like at the end of the Day, it's your life at the end of the day, it's just between you and you so like don't even let anybody put unnecessary pressure on yourself at all, like don't even accept pressure guys if you're not ready, and you want to like push your other things, pushing All that thing for sure your dreams and all of that guys when it's time it's time god's time is the best and if you feel like you, haven't gotten there yet then still take your time and do what everything you want to do. The next question is, i am an evil girl. Just like you, how are you able to convince your parents to let you marry a you bad man? I knew a discussion was going to. I don't even know why i haven't been asked this question at all, like literally like i feel like this is like the major problem. You know. I know that some families don't do it. Some families, don't like um, um, inter-tribal marriage. You know it has to be from your tribe, it has to be your people, it has to be somebody that speaks the same language with you and all and honestly, i will lie for a moment. It was like that with me. Okay, growing up that was literally the only thing i had from my family before i actually grew up, yearing and all, but guys. I won't even lie to you when you get older and you have gotten a point where you can make certain decisions for yourself. You'Ve gotten more mature, i feel, like you, can easily talk to anybody and tell them listen. This is my life. This is my decision. This is what i want at the end of the day: you're, not the one who is going to be in the marriage with me. Okay, at the end of the day, it's not you who's going to be in the marriage with me. Okay, at the end of the day, it's just myself and the man that i'm going to get married to. So if i say i want to marry this person and he's not, he is not from my tribe. I don't know why it should be a problem to you, because at the end of the day it is me who is entering the relationship. Do you guys get? The thing is when we were younger yeah, our parents, they were actually able to detect certain things that we must do. You know certain rules that we must follow and all that's when we were younger part of those rules. For me, i don't know about you guys, but one of those rules. For me my family was um. You can't marry outside of the tribe yeah. I had that problem too. I'M an evil girl. I mean this is where you found love like what do they want? You to do again like at the end of the day, it is your decision at the end of the day. It is you with entering the marriage, not them, so you literally just have to have that talk with them. That'S if you are dating someone that is not um from your tribe just have that conversation with them. Let them know that this is what is going on at all. Yes, they will be angry. Yes, you'll be sad, yes to vex and all of that, but at the end of the day you have to make them see reasons why this person is the one for you. So they shouldn't look at tribes. They should look at the person and not the tribe. It'S about the individual. What are the characters of this individual is a good person is a bad person. Is he loyal? Does he cheat? You know other stuff, like it's more about the person than the tribe. That'S what me. I feel, though i don't know if tribe plays a role on how the person is. I feel what even plays a role to me. I will feel what plays a role to how a person turns out is even the family like if you grow up, seeing your dad always between your mom there's every tendency that you could actually think it's the right thing to do and when you you get married, You start meeting your own wife, okay, so it's more about um the family. The person grew up in not even the tribe okay. So if i grew up in a house whereby i know i see my mom sleeping with with different guys, she's, always bringing different guys to the house and my dad didn't know that never happened, i'm just giving an example. If that was the kind of home. I grew up in there's every tendency that i could be that kind of person, because i saw my mom doing it like it's not a big deal, because my mom does not care. I mean right now. You are mature enough to have this kind of talks with your parents. While you were a teenager, you weren't mature enough, even if you told your mom that kind of thing when you were eating, she would tell you to go and sit down. She might even beat you up, but she might even slap you and or you didn't have a say that, because you were so small but you're, no longer small, again you're now an adult. So this is a conversation. This is like an adult conversation. You have with your mum, i let her know that luco, let's you know this is the man i want to marry. I don't care if he's edu, yoba or anything at the end of the day, he's a good person, and i see myself spending the rest of my life with him, and i know that he's also going to be a good father. Very simple: would they be happy? They may not be happy, but at the end of the day they would actually come true for you because they are your parents. Person is asking hi, i've been wondering. Do you still run your beauty store? You no longer talk about it. That'S because i don't do it anymore, okay, i don't do it anymore, guys, like i, don't all right. What i do now is the girl. Okay. There was a time i did that and it helped me in university. While i was in school, i was doing the beauty store and i was able to save up money. That was like its phase. That was its work. I don't sell makeup anymore online, not because the business is not good or it's not bringing money. Now it's because i just knew it wasn't like it wasn't a long, um term thing for me selling makeup for me, wasn't a long-term thing for me. Okay, it was more like a starting business for me, something that i would just use to um something i just used to get money for the main business. That'S what it was like. It was more like transit for me, wasn't like the main main thing, so it was really really a good thing for me. Okay, but i didn't have plans on you, know, making it bigger or anything. I just wanted to use it to get money so that i can use it to do the main thing. I'Ve always wanted to do and that's exactly what happened and that's exactly what i did so right now, i'm no longer doing that. You won't even find the page anymore instagram. How would you say the fragrance industry is going in nigeria? For you honestly, i didn't know that nigerians actually do lost perfume, so you really do it's going really well and i'm really grateful to god. Okay, like i'm extremely extremely, extremely grateful to god, so this person is saying congratulations. How was your season of awakening this? This question reminds me of bridgetting like season of waiting. That'S a very funny question season of waiting guys, i don't even know i didn't - really see it as waiting waiting, because i was busy i mean i was really busy with other things. So i'll just say. I know right now, you're waiting because she said she's waiting. So just occupy your mind with other things get busy with yourself like get so distracted that you won't even know that you're waiting like, of course the thoughts will come once in a while, but get distracted with making money doing other things. Just just distract yourself. Just distract yourself: okay, do something get work don't be. I do start a business. Just do something: okay, then you really see it as we think this person is asking. Can you suggest a curse or a video for learning final cut pro honestly when i started using final cut pro, i think it was self-taught for me, but there are so many courses online there's. So many free videos online actually on youtube, just go on youtube and just search how to edit using final cut pro and you see tones like tones like you - can just pick one and just learn no one's cut eye, but look at this one list show me The lace i finally come to the end of this video. I hope this video was super interesting. I really don't know unless you don't know, because it was so difficult um installing this wig and also talking at the same time like it, was legit difficult. It'S my first time doing this and i hope i did well. I hope i killed it because i feel like i killed it for a first timer installing wig, while filming and talking at the same time, if you think it's easy, try it. This is really not easy at all. I hope you guys enjoyed this video and i was able to answer most of your questions. Okay, thank you guys for watching, don't forget to like subscribe. I know that we have like new subscribers here. Thank you guys for subscribing. Thank you guys for joining the family and to my og's, the ones that have been with me since they won. Thank you guys so much. I love you guys. So much and i'll see you guys in my next video