These New Hairstylist Are Losing Their Mind

Hey, what's up what's up what's up what's up good morning good morning or good evening whenever you are watching this, but we are going to get into this because it is a mess as it pertains to these new hair stylists. Now the decorum, the unprofessionalism, the rules, regulations and fees that they are charging is ridiculous on top of their behavior surrounding customer service. Now I understand that there are rules and policies that one you know would like their customers to follow, but there are certain times where you, as a business owner, are able to use your discretion to go around the rules, because sometimes it calls for that. Sometimes you know there's something that you feel empathy towards the other person and you're willing to for forfeit a rule, because it's just common human decency. You know, but these stylists, these nail techs these lash uh, ladies, they are losing their mind and I'm gon na go over a few videos with you guys of examples of them losing their Everlasting mind. Now. This woman right here is a lash Tech and she took to tick tock to basically talk about a client who she claims is not her client, but talk about a client who recently was dealing with the death of her boyfriend. The client was not able to do her appointment because she was mourning the loss of her boyfriend and this hair stylist wanted to. Let y'all know how it is on their side and why the policy and the rule is the rule and why she has no remorse. For it so we're gon na look at it. Okay, hey, let's go straight in hey, I'm sorry! I missed my appointment. My boyfriend died and I haven't been able to think straight period. Please. I really need help with the funeral, since I need my money back no period. Okay, first things. First, sorry for your loss. This is not any of my clients, someone, I know and we're about to get in it. So, at the end of the day, y'all be on a for you page caring about stylist myself a day myself today, so I'm professional with ghetto. But let me tell you something: you got: ta have a certain kind of personality, a certain kind of characteristics to do with some of these clients because number one: why did you go on the booking site? Pay, a deposit, no show or nothing anything. You could just send a message and get your money big, and it's like what do your situation do with me? Why did something happen to you? So it happened to me. Why do you feel, like you, get a pass to bypass all of my policies and procedures? What about the time it took for me to get to work? What about the gas it took? What about the day that I had to set up, because I thought I had a certain kind of appointments like y'all, don't ever think about it, but she's supposed to get her money back. No, no! You got ta, be kidding me and a gag. Is it wasn't? Even her boyfriend, it was her SD and it's like girl, now, okay, and if you guys are wondering what SD is that's sugar daddy, so the girl is basically saying hey, I'm sorry, I missed my appointment. My boyfriend died and I haven't been able to think straight. Please I really need help with funeral expenses and need my money back all right. So this woman who says that this isn't her client. She obviously knows the person because she says that it wasn't even her boyfriend. It was her sugar, daddy and what happened to you? Ain'T got nothing to do with me. It'S like girl, you don't have no compassion for certain situations and it's giving broke at this point, because I'm I'm feeling like this to have that type of behavior means that you probably already done spent the girl money and you broke, and you can't give it back Because if somebody is literally dealing with a death, you didn't use no products you didn't use like. I would. I would gladly be like you know what sorry for your loss, sending my condolences. You know. Hopefully you you get better soon. You know um. The girl basically had to defend herself and she posted this. She said um, her boyfriend died and she said that he was a great man and he is not her sugar daddy. She said the girl was lying about him being her sugar, daddy, and she showed videos of her and him together. Okay, so she showed all of her videos of her and her man together, and you know she said that she was hurting behind it. So one person on uh Twitter, she said I hate this entire culture around providing a service has changed so much F the money we used to build relationships with our beauticians. This would have never been a conversation until the past two to three years. That lady would have got her money, condolences, flour and food, okay, um, and so this girl right here she got a lot of flack for what she said and how she did not have any empathy or anything, and she decided to turn her comments off. Then she decided to make another video, okay, explaining herself all right, so first off y'all really got ta cut it out, because what y'all doing is called harassment and bullying I'm entitled to have an opinion. That'S the first thing I stated in the video. These are my opinions. This is not. My client did y'all not hear that part. This is not my client. I never had and never will post a situation that I've experienced with a client literally never had never will. But I will speak on something that I feel like. I would like to speak on in regards to someone else and there's nothing that anyone can say on this app to tell me that I cannot. Second of all, just because I said that I wouldn't give the lady her money back, because she was obviously lying and when I say Obviously lying it went over a lot of people head at the end of the video. I said whole time. It was her SD, because clients tell us their business, so she told this particular stylist her business about so you decided to discuss other people business, but she won't discuss your client's business but because it's somebody else's business. What'S the difference so um the girl had to prove that it was actually her boyfriend and had to show the um obituary. You know she submitted the obituary and she said it's my boyfriend. It is not my SD, like the nerve of people, but my whole thing is like, even if it was her sugar daddy, like that's somebody that obviously was giving her some sugar and some funds, if that was a sugar daddy situation, so you think somebody ain't gon Na be hurt because it's a sugar daddy any less, like that's somebody who was supposedly financially taking care of the person, so that's gon na hurt, even more like, is with her SD. So in I don't give a damn if it's the Milkman. If I got a relationship with that person, if I feel sad about it, I feel sad about it period so um that was her. So I've seen several other videos of stylists who clearly have lost their mind. So this girl went viral. I want to say um. I think like last month, or so when she showed her stylist, did a very, very, very poor job. I guess she said that the girls work on her page was good work and so she booked her and then she ended up getting her hair done and when she was done getting her hair done. She wanted her money back so in her requesting her money back. The girl did not want to give her her money back, even though the BR, the the faux Locs looked it a hot damn mess: okay, a hot mess. What is it that you don't like right? Seeing my words yeah like this, do not look like the work. I'Ve seen here, you've got orange hair on top of black hair. I'Ve had like color hair on top of black hair, a lot in my like it's, never this puffy. I know I've had lots before so it might and I've had colored on it, but it's never. This puffy, it's okay, so what you want me to do, can I can? I have my deposit back because this this, like you, can like honestly, you can like cut. You can like cut the bottoms and stuff. You hear me, you know. Okay, like I said you can take these out, I don't have a problem with paying you. I don't like this. Okay, like I'm, recording this now, so we can take these out. You can cut them when you get a service and then you don't pay for it. So everything you have not paid for it, so I paid half for it. I don't like the service and you can take the service out. Like I said of the install fee, you got the install I just called Fulton County, and so when I seen this, I'm like clearly they're trolling. Clearly, this is not real and then the police came and the girl was serious, like she really called the police. Like I'm, the type of person like I know how to do: hair. Okay, I know how to braid my own hair. I know how to you know, do individuals. I know how to do weaves wigs, all of that, but sometimes um, and sometimes people ask me to do their hair like if I do somebody hair and I look at it and I because I've done back in the day like back back back in the day. I remember I did my cousin's hair and the hair that she chose was very bad hair and I tried to like cut her some bangs and it looked a mess like. I can't I wouldn't even charge for this like. If you see your work and you see it look a mess like I wouldn't even like as a person, I wouldn't even feel comfortable charging for that, but she was dead, serious and she ended up calling the police broadcast it. This woman here has put this hot mess in my head and is now calling the cops on me because I don't want to practice for an individual. However, I had probably issues that my friend this woman - let's put this in my head and wants me to pay for it, so I advise heard that stuff by taking does not want to pay. Take the service down. I told her that I could, but that's still a feat, however, she's not willing to pay anything, don't lie to the police babe. I asked her to give me my money back, because this is a hot mess and she can take this out. I'M not trying to leave and they can watch the videos okay. Well, they can watch my video yeah you're lying to the police right now. So I'm just you you're, lying today that you're lying to the police right now on your own video, so okay, you're lying to the police right now, no, no weapon, no ciao, so the police ended up coming child. Where is the video of the police coming because there was a whole video child, the police ended up coming and the police told her that she had to pay. Where is the phone put it online? Okay, that's fine! I'M gon na put you online, but this is the finished product and she's asking for 100 more dollars. So here's here's. What I can tell you, okay finished product is already it's already finished already done. Okay, pay her for that service. Okay! Now it's handy because you can get a copy of that report. It takes foot to civil court, okay, because the service wasn't up here. You can try to see it for the best and try to get that back. Okay, okay, as of today, you have to pay that okay, because don't set the services I feel like she knew that she messed up and that's why she called the police, because she can get her money and that's so ridiculous. Does that make sense if you want to pay the hundred dollars yeah, because I'm not trying to go to jail, but this is ridiculous, like I can't make determination on whether it's ridiculous or not, I can't say, is I'm sorry y'all gon na have to put me: That'S a day in jail that I'm gon na sit okay, cause you're gon na have to get it back in blood period. You got to get it back in blood because no ma'am, no ham and no turkey - I would not be paying for that. I'M sorry! I don't care, I feel, like the girl was trying to be funny at this point like I feel like you trying to be funny. If you really just sit here and put this in my hair and think that I'm supposed to pay for it, and you think that it's okay and I know a lot of people in the comments are saying you know well, why would she sit there and let Her put that in there the girl probably did not have a mirror, so she could see I'm guessing. I don't know like when I'm getting my hair done. I do a progress check. You know like, as is going on. I'D be, like you know, I'd be bringing my hair to the front and trying to see like you know, but that's just me, but maybe she didn't see a mirror to see that she was doing that. You know because I mean I'm not gon na lie. I have had a time where I got my hair done before and I kind of was like in my phone and looking at my phone, but I still don't care I with dots. I would not pay for that, like you got to get it back in blood like you got to get it back in blood. Take me to court whatever whatever, but I'm not paying you I'm not, I'm, not, I'm not paying you period. So this is another video of a girl who basically got her hair done and the hair was already like lifting and stuff, and so basically she asked for a refund because she was not pleased with her hair either. So let me play it. My hair done - and this happened when I told her I didn't like it - she slammed the door on my face and locked. It shut the [ __ ] up about it all right and then she text her and she said little ugly, a girl. It took everything in me not to try to unalive you, you better, be thankful, I'm changing my ways and God is working on me daily. That'S all. I must say, after all, that you're still ugly and a little broke a little girl and still nobody even knows you lame a b foreign. I got my hair done and this happened when I told if y'all saying wow to that ciao, let's share the next one. So this next person got their hair braided and when they got their hair braided their scalp was bleeding. So she contacted the hair stylist and told her hey ma'am. When I got home, I looked in the mirror and my scalp is literally bleeding and the hair stylist told her. Well, let me read it so, as you can see the braids, the parts are not even there's big Parts: big braids little braids, the hair. Don'T even look tight to the scalp, so I don't even understand because it don't even look braided tight. So I don't even understand how her scalp got like that, but I do know like there's like this tool that people put on their hand that helps part. So I don't know if she used a comb that was digging in her or or that parting tool, but it looks a mess. So the girl texts, The Stylist and she said I didn't pull my hair up or anything. That'S how it looked once I got home. So the lady text her and says no ma'am. I asked you while I was doing your hair, was I stabbing you and you said no before you left, your hair was fine. Why didn't you say anything before you left? If I was braiding too tight, I would have fixed it. I can offer you ten percent off your next appointment. I apologize, but I do not provide refunds. Okay. So if you asked her, were you stabbing her, then you knew you were stabbing her in your work. Ain'T even neatly parted. You got big braids small braids, and then this looked like three braids in one. What do you mean? You could give her 10 off the next appointment ain't? No next appointment, [ __ ]! What are you talking about? What next appointment like? I would never go to you ever again. What are you talking about the next appointment? You knew you were stabbing her. You said if I, if, while I was doing your hair, I asked you was I stabbing you, you knew you were stabbing her. That'S why you asked: what are you talking about 10 off the next appointment? What next appointment, what what these new hair stylists have lost their mind? So then, a hair stylist decided a different hair stylist decided to make a policy that you cannot come if your hair is not straight so miss Ari styles says: if your hair is extra long and thick like this, come braided or pay me extra period to braid. It because this setting me back an hour, it's gon na, take almost an hour to braid this flat if your hair is extra long and thick. First of all, these new stylists really grind my gears because number one half of you heifers don't even be licensed for one half. You heifers need to get a damn fine and to be closed. The hell down, because you ain't supposed to be doing it anyways to have these type of attitudes number two. If you are licensed, you're taught how to manage all hair types, and if you can't work with all hair types, then you don't need to be doing hair. If you can't handle thick hair, thin, hair, long, hair, short hair, then you need to be out of the business of doing hair. That'S why the people going to you in the first place an extra fee cause your hair is thick y'all, don't even be having hair. Maintaining skills like y'all, don't even like the purpose back in the day when people went to hair stylist was so that they can take care of their hair. You know you guys, don't even do hair care, you got ta clip the ends, wash the hair. A lot of styles won't even flat iron right or go right if the hair is not washed correctly. So why, as a stylist, wouldn't you want to do the process from beginning to end? That'S why you're charging these ridiculous amounts. The amounts that you're charging be ridiculous. Already and then you attack attach these tacky fees on the top of it and the fee, the original price that y'all charging be a ridiculous anyways a mess. So then there was an example okay, so there was an example of what's acceptable and what's not acceptable. Okay, so in case you didn't know now, you know straight acceptable, not straight not acceptable, and another stylist also wanted y'all to know that um. These are the rules. So let me show y'all this other stylist child, hey guys, sharing a few changes on my site, one! Your natural hair must already be braided down before your appointment for now on number. First of all, if you do hair see me again, I know how to do hair. I know how to do weaves, wigs braids, all of it. The way that I install my weight. My weaves or wigs, the braid pattern has to be a certain type of way. So how are you even ensuring that you're giving your clients the flattest hairstyle, if you didn't braid it yourself like for me, I have to braid, depending on the style, depending on where the part is gon na sit depending on. If you have a middle part parting, whether you have hair out or not or a side parting, whether you have hair out or not, the braids have to be braided a certain type of way for it to lay flat like. If I wear my hair to a side, part there's a certain way that I braid my hair, even if I'm wearing a full wig, so that the part where it's supposed to be a natural part, it lays flat like how are y'all even ensuring that you're, like There'S no way that don't that don't even make sense to me um! That'S that already tells me that you're doing crappy work. Your natural hair must already be braided down before your appointment for now on 10 cornrows going back or must be flat. Otherwise, a fifteen dollar fee is a perlide to braid down. Your lace must be dropped off ahead of time prior to appointment same day. Plucking bleaching is a twenty dollar fee. No extra guess new location location will be given day of appointment unless you're dropping off lace. So, after all these Dusty stylist, there was a woman on Tick Tock who who was like? Listen, I'm a stylist and I understand why women are fed up with these new stylists because they are ridiculous and let me share with y'all what she had to say because it was facts. These new stylists are really damn ridiculous understands. Why, as someone who is a licensed, cosmetologist and two separate safes, I completely understand why clients are over these new age hair stylists and why they are fed up with you guys, [ __, ] y'all are full of [ __ ], like these new age. Girls really be smoking. Dick first off y'all be having rules that sound like a crackhead themselves throughout the [ __ ]. So many rules and requirements and I'm like you're charging upwards of 250, 300 plus dollars and you don't even wash or blow dry your client's hair. They got ta come wash and blow dry, so they don't have to service their self and you learn in school, which I know a lot of Bishops didn't go, but you learn in cosmetology school that is so important to wash your clients hair yourself, because a lot Of people either physically cannot properly wash their hair or they just generally don't know how to properly wash their hair. So you're doing these services on dirty, ass, hair and then to top it off the attitude, be [ __ ], the customer service be [, __ ]. The whole experience be [, __ ], then you're doing it out of your crib, which there's nothing wrong with doing out of your crib. I know a lot of girls do hair out of their crib and they are fire. The issue is you're charging prices that you would be. That would make a lot more sense. If you had boot front to pay, you don't have no good friend to pay. You don't work in the salon, sis. Why are you charging these prices and you don't wash your hair and you don't blow dry their [ __ ]? You couldn't even cut their [ __ ] if they needed their real hair cut. Their ends just broke all the way. Half up they hold the whole shaft, just [, __ ] up, don't know [ __ ] about their real hair or anything. These modern hair, stylists have gotten hair stylists, have gotten lazy as [ __ ], but also expensive, as [ __ ]. How you charge them more, you lazy as [ __ ]. Like you, [ __ ] are lazy. You cannot be mad at clients for calling you out and then when people call it out, it's like, oh, if y'all just need to go to somebody y'all can afford it's, not the price, it's the principal. What are what what are the girl he's paying for? What are they paying for period? What are they paying for the hair, not included? They don't have to work, and they got your crib mind you at your crib babies, Holland, uh, baby, daddy's, coming all the all the things of the things ciao bam, smoking, dick got. Ta be got ta, be drugs all right, and I agree with her. It'S totally facts like it's totally facts like it's a it is re, damn ridiculous, the the um rules and policies. It'S a ten dollar uh late fee. If you don't come to the appointment on time, but then, if you come to the appointment on time, you got ta, wait two hours for the [ __ ] to be done with a client. That'S ahead of you, like you, can't even schedule properly for the allotted amount of time that you need to do this hairstyle. But you want me to sit here and wait, but if I'm late 10 minutes - God forbid, I got ta pay this fee. But if I get on time - and I got ta wait for your previous client - you don't knock off no money off my service how'd that work how'd. I work it's a mess. I feel like these new age. Stylists need to get it together because it makes people start to not want to um support. You know entrepreneurs and things like that, and it's so unfortunate because you want to support your people. You want to support your kind, but when you get certain services and I'm not gon na say that is through all black businesses, I'm not one of those type of people like. Oh, I had a bad experience with one black person, so I'm not supporting black people. No never be me period, I'm still going to support black period. However, it makes people easily have an excuse on why they don't want to support black, and I feel like just it's. I I deal on things on an individual level like I'm just not gon na support that stylist. You know what I'm saying, but I'm not going to deter myself from supporting black period, but you know it is what it is um you guys uh. Let me know what you guys think: do you guys want to come up and talk about this or or y'all want to catch um? Another video, another topic. Let me know if anybody wants to come up and speak press one. Um Nick you'd be a lovely partner in an interracial relationship, interesting um press one. If y'all want to come up press two, if y'all cool with the video ending - and we talk about something else - let me know, let me know lucky what you got to say hold on. Let me put the stream yard Link in the chat chat. Let me put the stream yard link in the chat, how long, how long, how long all right, let me put the stream yard Link in the chat. It'S ones. It'S twos all right! Well, we're gon na talk to the ones and then we'll be uh, we'll be back for another topic, but the stream yard link is in the chat. Let me Pin It To The Top so that y'all can um. Yes, nails are ridiculous. It'S the nail techs! It'S the Lash text, it's the hair, stylist, it's the all of it all of it is a mess lucky hello, all right, good morning, uh good morning good morning. What'S your thoughts, girl, you up early early, I sure am I thought it is. I don't understand how the girl who's getting the braids installed in her head, and it took like three or four hours to do that like. Why? Is she not checking her work while it's going on like? I would think that, after like the first four or five braids I'd say, let me look at them and I would look through and see if they're in the same pattern and same style, that I would want it to look for the entire head. That stuff looks so raggedy like she just basically took it and tied a knot around one piece of hair. She couldn't even see as a style. She shouldn't even have said. This is my work like I've. I'Ve performed this in this service for you, and this is what I do, that [ __ ] look horrible, it looks a mess, it looked horrible, but I don't understand why the girl did it noticed that before she got so long into it, you can't sit up There, no three or four hours getting your hair, braided and you're not checking to see if the hair is smooth if they the same size. You know I don't understand that so a lot of that is her fault and then another thing too, when the officer tried to tell her that she had to pay her for that um, that's a civil suit, so he couldn't uh. The officer can't tell you that you got to pay for that, the officer all he can tell you is like he said it. First, it's a civil suit and then her as The Stylist would have to go and file at the small claims court. We know what that is style at the small claims court to get her money for the work that she did right. He couldn't have me tell he tell he was telling, but he no, but he was telling her that she had to pay her like uh-uh. I'M not paying her, I would have gave her no money, I didn't they didn't say how much she said she wanted a hundred dollars yeah she. I guess she had to pay another hundred another hundred on top of the deposit or whatever she already gave her right. [ __ ] ain't, nothing! I she wouldn't got nothing else for me and we they just had we've been on high speed trades down the highway because I would have gave them nothing for that hair dude. But I guess that would make it worse than what it was, but she was, I don't know, I don't think I would have paid her and they would have just had to take me to jail. I know that's petty over a hundred dollars, but I could have did that one where the girl scalp was bleeding. That'S weird, because it seems like I would feel lacerations in my head before I left like. I would feel some blood or something would feel wet or something before I left and then again, even with the girl, with this bleeding y'all spending, 200 300 dollars and ain't, nobody got a mirror, nobody got a mirror throughout the process and your head bleeding and before You left up out of that that girl's house, you didn't look at your head like even if she went to go, look at it in the mirror. She probably looking at it from like frontwards like she probably not seeing like looking at from the top like once. She got home, she probably felt like hold on like what the heck is going on and then probably investigated a little bit longer or whatever but hold on. Let me add: a L, boogie, L, boogie, hey, what's up hey, do great sting, though it seems like if your hair, if your skin is cut or whatever well, I feel like uh braids are painful period, so some people might not be able to distinguish the two. Like sometimes people braid really tight to where it hurts, so you might not be able to distinguish it to go, get go, get dressed for school. Now, I'm on live back up back up, go get dressed for school. Um yeah go ahead! L boogie foreign, I'm doing well. What'S your thoughts um, I feel like I've been getting my hair done. Like my whole life, my mom used to take me my auntie's take me to get my hair done and professional settings. Then I started going to like you're not trying to support your friends, your cousins and whoever whatever. Then we started going into this Instagram stuff and it just seems like after covet everybody feeling like a boss and for me you're not doing ball stuff you're, not doing it in the sequential order. You'Re, not you're, not doing nothing like you sitting up here. You capped up, but then you want to charge people outrageous stuff, you mad rude, and then you posting stuff online and my whole deal is why not hire a technician? If you saw bossed up like what's the point of sitting up here online and talking all this and talking all that and making it seem like you're putting people down or whatever you still a stylist you're supposed to be offering a service, I come here to get You know be relaxed to some extent when you getting your hair washed. You know you're going through this. You coming to kind of Reform yourself from like all the stuff you went through now, all of a sudden. It'S it's I'm more stressed out than how I came so it's at this point. It'S like people, learning and doing it on them. You know by themselves on YouTube or whatever nobody got time for y'all and y'all really feel to go out of business. To be honest, all right, uh, Kiki, hello, okay, okay, hello, yeah, go ahead; yes, I mean okay for me personally, I you I used to go. Get my hair braided from the African shops. I used to go get my hair braided, even just the chop shops at home, I'll say it that way. Now, for me personally, I stopped going to both getting my hair done and going to get my nails done when the pandemic, just you know, happened, and it's like what what the other person just said. It just seems as if everybody want to be the boss, but everybody's, not I I'm and there's no pun intended, but everybody is not the boss, like me, everybody's, not on that level, in order to carry yourself on a level of being a boss, you have to You could cover yourself case in point. I live in Atlanta, it's been so many stories when it comes down to just nails like one lady. Here she got caught a bad infection and it's just it's it's to the point where we we as people, I hate to say it black people, us black people. We we try to help our people. We try to get these deals, but then, on the back end, we end up getting slapped in the face. Now me personally, it's one girl here in Atlanta that I would still go to, but since I've been teaching myself how to do nails and even how to break my own hair, I'm not going to do it, but with her she goes to Clark Atlanta. She comes from California, but when you go to her, I I've never met a girl like her who's, not even, I repeat, she's, not even 23 years old. This girl she has more professionalism than anybody that I've ever crossed past. Why? You can't? You can't say that it's just all people you just got ta bring it on an individual level. It'S plenty stylists who are um good as well as the bad. It'S just the bad apples kind of deter a lot of people but hold on one. Second, Kiki uh go ahead black queen good morning. I just want to say shout out to my stylist. I love my stylist, I'm so glad that I can get my hair taken down washed braided and done and curled all in one 150 wig install um and two. I just wanted to say that when you had the girl on there and because I don't want to say anything to your audience, I just want to say in general that I don't feel like. I don't like how I'm not going to speak about no other race, because I'm only going to speak for black people, but I just noticed black people in the comments talking trash about her parents talking about her lips and saying all this and stuff, and I just Think that is so wiggity whack like if people don't want anybody to talk about them, but they'll be the first to be in the comment section typing some BS towards the moment. That is so ridiculous. We got people dragging us to talk about us all day. Talking about the the hair, the comments made on the the hair stylist that was calling out the black hair stylist. Yes, yes, when I was reading the comments and it was, it was somebody named Jay talking about her lips and stuff and I'm like you know, that's ridiculous. I actually follow her and and I'm not biased, though I'm a black woman, I support black women and black men, and I just I don't like that, but that's all I want to say I have been watching the show forever for years. I wake up. I go to sleep watching a show. I love unique. Oh thank you. I appreciate that, of course, I'm gon na go back and back to watching, because I'm getting ready for my work today. Okay, all right: okay, Courtney. Thank you. Courtney. Courtney going once Courtney going twice all right: uh Superstar, Graham my name. How are you good morning good morning? I just want to chime in real, quick um. As far as the stylists are concerned, I think that we as consumers, you know first off. We have to also be mindful and respectful when we approach them um, because I know a lot of times. Consumers can be rude as well, but at the end of the day, when you are uh being respectful and you know being nice to The Stylist, they should return that same energy as well, because we are the consumers and we are supporting your business and we are Keeping food on your table and you're providing a service for us, so I think it's fair that a lot of these stylists need to also take into account some of the things that they're doing, which is why a lot of us should just start doing our own Hair and our own Nails, because it seems like it's it's becoming worse and worse. Okay, all right! Thank you! Um one. Second, uh w Wait, WTF with the something with the family, tapers hi Nick. How are you hey, I'm doing good? How about yourself? I'M just fine! I'M here at work, but I I'm new to your channel, but I watch you all the time now you are really doing your thing over there. So thank you. I appreciate that. Okay, now I am big on um supporting black on small black owned businesses, and one thing that I have noticed about our people and I can talk about our people because I am an African-American woman and sometimes we make it hard for people to support us in General, not everybody, but just especially the hair stylist that do hair from home and I'm all about building Brands and things like that. But if you know you are overbooked, you you can't get all of the money. Sometimes you have to turn it down. That'S right. You know and and just be respective of other people's time, because if you set my appointment for 10, I'm early and you don't get to me to 12 or 1 and you taking breaks in between time, you feeding, kids, you stopping to fix lunch. You got to run to the store and all of this and you don't knock anything off my price. That'S not fair to me until I sit there and endure all of you know all of the craziness you know, and then you got kids running around back and forth and, and I say again, I support small black owned businesses, but sometimes I mean you just have To call a spade a spade, we make it hard sometimes for people to support us and, like a previous caller said you charging these prices and you're at home. You don't even have what are you doing? You don't have Booth prices to pay. What are you doing? You know I just thinking: yes, they still got rent to pay, though that's true, that's true, but as far as like um, you know we got to wash our own hair and do things that you should be doing. I just think that that's um it's too much. We'Re doing too much, and sometimes you lose people who really want to support you with the the craziness you know, so I just think as an entrepreneur, you have to be more Mindful and respectful of other people's time, and people wanted to support you all right. Well, thank you so much uh we're gon na go to uh Courtney. Okay good morning. Can you hear me yes go ahead good morning good morning, I just wanted to say, like speaking from a brightest perspective and a customer perspective like sometimes it's not always the the stylists who are at fault because I have had clients come super duper late, clients change Their mind all the time or whatever the case may be, but I will say, as a customer going to get my hair done and experiencing unprofessionalism. It has definitely taught me how to be professional and how to treat people. So I think somebody else was talking about this topic like not too long ago and a lot of the stylists. Nowadays they don't charge like per you, know the service they're, providing they're charging for this lifestyle that they're trying to maintain. So I think that's a that's. An issue too, but I just want to say, like if people do their research like look into the people that you all are hiring or um. You know trying to get a service from looking to their background. What they provide like. That'S how you, I guess, figure out who to spend your money with, but a lot of these people they're just charging, because they're trying to maintain these lavish lifestyle or these Instagram lifestyle, this Instagram fame and that sort of thing but yeah yeah. That'S very true! Thank you. Courtney, you're. Welcome. So last caller is Brittany. Brittany, hello, hey me. Can you hear me? Yes, go ahead, it's a little Muffler. I don't know if you you got a headphone on. No, I don't you know what go ahead. Just don't move around or something it was like static. Okay, can you hear me now man yeah go ahead: okay, yeah, okay, yeah cause I've been doing hair for a long time. Ever since I was probably like 17, I'm 35 now - and I was like you know when it comes down to washing hair and maintenance and everything, I'm really really big - on hair care, because I've had a client come to me and was like. Oh, I washed my hair already and just like the lady was saying before, like sometimes you're running late. You know you just want to like okay. Well, I could just go ahead and braid it. I went ahead and tried to braid her hair split it down the middle and the Palm model of this liquid hit me in the face like I'm like what and it was so brittle, I'm like what did you wash your hair with she like? Oh, I just use some um dish, soap and I knew it like when she said it. I smelled it. You know the Palmolive like she like, she didn't get it out of her hair good, I'm like wow, I'm like. So this is what you I'm okay. This is why I wash hair, because this is your hair, just like breaking off it's brittle, it's terrible, so I washed her hair and I conditioned it and she was just telling me like you know, every time I get my hair done, you know they always tell Me to come washed and, and I'm just like that's terrible. Her hair just broke off so bad, and I was like this is why? Because you're using dish liquid and not even telling you how to use the proper things like why? Why are you even using dish that you should be using shampoo um for one and then on top of that um? I'Ve showed her how to do our hair growth and like Health, serums and and growth serums, and I was getting her hair growing back and that's just what is really big on like I've. Never known like this. I'Ve had like the like the deposits like I've. Never even charged deposit one day in my life and I never yeah hold on hold on one. Second, somebody in the comments said uh dishwashing wait. Wait. I think it's feedback. When I talk so hold on. Let me let me mute you real, quick um. Somebody said dishwashing soap, question mark, So I was always taught that you can use like Dawn dish liquid in your hair as long as you follow it up with like washing it with the shampoo and conditioner. So some people use dish liquid to get the grease out. Like if your hair is really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really greasy um right, then sometimes people might use dish soap because it gets the grease out, but you should definitely wash it with regular shampoo after that and um Condition it really really good, but go ahead, Brittany! Yes, you definitely should because it takes strips all the moisture out of your hair and then you come and you try to get it. Braided, that's painful, just Braiding on top of just dry hair, and I just didn't understand and that's why a lot of my clients they come to me and they're like well. I like how you just care about my hair, because I just love doing hair like I do hair like I sit up and I make wigs on my on my spare time. I sit up and make wigs and just do braids and just different things. I just love to do so when it comes down to hair care, I'm just really big on it. I'M just like. Why do you a lot of people to do this to your hair? Then they charge so much. People in the comments say use clarifying shampoo, never dish liquid. I'Ve been using dish liquid um, you know forever and my hair is thick as hell, but as long as hell, but that's my hair. So you know um. You have to use a definite conditioner afterwards because it's so it'll dry out so bad and I just like wow, that's terrible and follow the hair stylist in the chat. They say: don't use dish liquid, don't listen to me child, but whenever my hair is really really really really greasy, I'm gon na wash it with some dish liquid and then wash it with some shampoo, some conditioner in it. But that's just no but go ahead. Brittany! Yes, no, I was just saying I was just saying: that's how it is it's like, and then I see these salad, they charge so much money and then they don't even have the they. Their work is trash. Like you said it just doesn't. It doesn't be good at all, like I only come to me already braided, just like I said, the foundation has to be right and everything has to be right. The braid pattern has to go the right way like how I want to go. Do your hair and if I wanted to style, going a certain way you got cornrows going to the back, we're not require them to go down to the side and then it's going to look crazy. Like you have these gaps in between and I didn't see, people just really mess up and they charge so much money. It'S like. I don't even charge a lot for my a lot of the Styles and I do everything from washing conditioning trimming the ends. Um, deep conditioning treatments, um, hot or treat just anything to keep the hair growth run everything, and I don't even try to have as much of these child styles that charge you got to come braid it um like. Basically, you got to come wash braid it cap already on your hair, the um concealer already down. You guys already have to look bald. You already have to have the pre-glue across your forehead, like it's good. It'S going to get to the point where, because I've seen people where they charge a hundred dollars just to oh well, actually 150 hours just to sit the wig on your head and just glue the front of it down, that's ridiculous to me like. Why would I pay 150 for you to sit there and just glue the front like from ear to ear down, and I say 150 and then you just you know, do the little style, and I understand that but 150. That'S too much! That'S a complete style. To me, 150 right right, somebody said people still using grease, there's other things that can make your hair greasy other than actual using grease. You use oils, you can use coconut oils. You have natural oils in your hair, um there's several things that can make your hair greasy other than actual just putting grease in it. But oh yeah, exactly the products that you use. It can definitely make it a lot of things, make it greasy and just like they use that got to be glue spray. A lot of that takes your hair out and it's so hard and you look up and all your edges gone. I see a lot of girls now they don't even lift they don't even like moisten the edges anymore. With the lace front, they just rip them off now and they just they don't even take the time to just moisten the front. Even though you only have this little front, you don't even have the rest of you just have this wig and you just rip the front of it off it's just this. The maintenance is just so terrible with the people now when it's coming down to hair care. It'S just terrible, yes! Well all righty! Well! Thank you, Brittany yeah, but I just still wanted to hear what you had to say. Well, all right! Well, all right, y'all um! That'S all for this video um! I just wanted to bring that to y'all, because I felt like a lot of those stylist requests are ridiculous. Now I'm no hair stylist so again follow the hairstyle. I'M not I'm no licensed hair stylist. I don't do hair as a profession. That'S not my profession! I'M a YouTuber, okay and um. Before that I was a so you know I was sewing, you know and doing clothes design. Okay stuff, like that. So that's my! You know level of expertise there. So the people in the comments say don't use dish liquid. I don't know so, don't don't don't don't don't do it use clearance Claire what they said. Clarifying shampoo, okay, use that okay, because what works for me might not work for you when my hair gets too greasy. That'S what I do. Okay and I do a deep conditioner and my hair is thick as hell, but that's me: okay, don't don't don't listen to me! Listen to the professionals, use clarifying, um, shampoo and use discernment when you're booking with these people, and I think that also stop going to people - that's not um licensed when they got these crazy requests. Okay, when you see these people because ain't nothing wrong with getting. You know a hood hookup from somebody. But if you see that these people have all of these crazy rules and requests - and all of that require them to show you that they're licensed okay, because if you are made to follow all these crazy rules, then show me your license. Okay period. But that's all for this video I'll talk to y'all on the next one. I got to assist my child in getting dressed because I told her to get dressed 20 minutes ago with talking to y'all and she is not dressed. So you got a closet full of clothes, stop all right y'all! I have to go