Life Update: I Got Surgery, Dating, & Other Life Changes.. + Grwm Ft Alipearl Hair

For I know the plans I have for you says the Lord plans to prosper you and not to harm you plans to give you hope and the future Jeremiah 29. 11.. Hey guys welcome back to my channel, so today's video is sponsored by Ali Pro Hair. Thank you guys for sponsoring my video. I cannot wait to get my hands on their ash blonde wig and see what is giving on the fine babe. So today, I'm actually having help with my install from my girl, Boosie styles. Thank you so much friend. For being there, when I needed you, oh you guys will notice I'm on the phone a lot during this video, like phone calls, are coming in a lot today. Um. I am six days post-op, seven days, post-op uh yeah. I had surgery guys yeah um, I'm speaking backwards, so, let's, let's restart as you can see by the title of the video. This is a life update. So I'll be updating you. I know things sound crazy right now, but usually when I do my life updates uh. It'S been a while, since I did one I'm always in a couch, you know what I mean, I'm always chatting to y'all from the couch, but you know, obviously I'm not gon na wait for things to be a certain way before I do them. Um imma just go for things. The best way that I can especially now that I have so so so so so much going on so much changing and things are just moving so fast, so um as you can see, my mouth is moving I'm on the phone and I hope you guys don't Mind what happens when you, when you as a family that want to check on you and today was just the best day that I knew I could really get back to them, and you know what am I I was thinking. It'S a little ghetto for this video, but I'm not mad, I'm not mad. At this. It'S giving very much like hair salon chat like picture Us in the salon. Just you know getting our hair done, getting all cute and just having a chat right now. We'Re talking about like how I'm gon na style, the hair and she suggested that I do a side part and I was like I don't - really have no preference. It'S my first day back and then I saw it, and I was like. Oh, my God that looks so good. I was just really really happy that I'm gon na look cute because, after having surgery like girl, I was not feeling that cute yeah, I'm about to be back to being a fine babe, and this tone of blonde is so pretty like what a way to return Back to earth like yes, ma'am, I know what you guys are thinking like Sophia. You can definitely, you know, get some rest um, but I'm ready to work like I missed you guys, um, I'm looking out for myself. Don'T worry, I'm doing really really good. As you can see, I'm delegating I have Lucy helping me with my hair. I have my friend watching my dog. I have you know my family checking on me, my friends, helping me wherever they can and it's been nice. I'Ve been okay, of course it's painful. You know coming out out of surgery and getting better, but I've been recovering so well. So so! Well - and you know what like I'll be back to 100 in a few - I'm not quite 100, but I'm doing the best with what I can and I'm not overextending myself, I'm not pressing myself. I don't want you guys to worry at all. I'M happy happy that you know I can get my hair done and look pretty. I can put out a video, I can, you know, get back to a regular life very soon and I cannot wait to see the results of this surgery. So basically, I had my fibroids taken out like praise card. The fact that I hesitated for so long doesn't make any sense to me now, like people have been telling me to have the surgery, but after posting that video and reading the comments um, I literally scheduled the surgery like the next the next week. Like seriously. I think I was just scared of going on on the table. Like you know, going under the knife. I was scared of, I don't know, I don't know exactly what else would scaring me, but you know a lot of people struggle with this and if everybody had the means everybody will get them taken out. So you know I was just like yeah um, I'm gon na get them taken out and I did and uh. Oh my God. I look so serious on the phone right now. I was definitely talking to a brand or a company or something girl. You know I'll be handling business, but that's the thing about me guys like as I'm getting older. I'M learning a lot about myself, I'm a hard worker and I take my money seriously. I take my business seriously. I take my brand seriously. I love what I do and unfortunately dealing with PCOS and fibroids for so long, especially in silence. It made me so depressed and inconsistent. I was in pain a lot. I was visiting the hospital a lot I didn't like going out. It made me very isolated from my friends and it even affected my last relationship. So much like just me being able to have fun, you know what I mean and I I it was just the pain would come out of nowhere. You could never predict it and it was just like derail all my plans just make things so miserable for me all the trips I was going on the vacations, the inconsistent periods, all of that stuff and by the grace of God. I cannot even imagine what my life is about to be like, without that, obviously I still have PCOS um, but that was something I have been working on, managing like with my diet with my lifestyle, whatever I can always be better blah blah blah, but that's kind Of why I hate sharing about you know any personal stuff like this, because everyone feels like they have a solution. Everyone watches you closely like ha, you shouldn't be drinking champagne or you shouldn't be doing this or that. But honestly, like guys, Life Is For Living and um. You know, like you, nobody knows the type of sacrifices or changes you're making behind the scenes, everyone's just so quick to judge and be a problem solver everybody should just focus on their own live shot. But regardless of my disdain and not wanting to, you know, be an influencer for this type of content. It'S partly even why I haven't even made a whole separate video about you know, fibroids and PCOS, and I'm keeping this very intimate like if you actually care about my channel. My life updates. That'S the only way you'll watch. This is because, like sorry guys, I know it's distracting watching me talking. That'S not what I'm saying I'm on the phone, but um wow same time. That'S so cool anyway! Sorry um! It'S just like. I know the people that need to hear will hear. I know who God wants it to reach will reach and that's what my platform is for um, I'm still on this journey like this is real time. I'M still, I still have a ways to go. Whoever I was on the phone with at this time was definitely hearing me loud and clear, but yeah. I know guys the gist and the love was so real, like it felt so good to finally be able to talk to some friends and there's still so many more. I have to go and speak to and call, and all of that I'm so organized like. I literally schedule when I'm going to like call my friends, I'm literally a very very busy person in real life, like my intimate friends, will tell you Sophia is always so busy like before Nigeria after Nigeria, but guys a lot of that business. Wasn'T even the productivity that I wanted, it was mainly being sick all the time bro, and you know what oh now, that Joy is really really hitting me, because life is really about to be amazing without that big obstacle and burden now like now, lift it off Of me, you know like now. My days will actually be used. Of course, I'm still have like my cycles, and you know the natural timeout that women take, but at least not the unnecessary. Like you know, like you guys, I've been promising you consistency and content, but when you really see it now, it will be proof that I wasn't capping about not me yelling on the phone yeah. I wasn't camping about what was going on, but yeah cheers to a bright future and cheers to me going through the surgery and being strong and coming out safe and sound. Thank you, God, going successfully and just all the possibilities I'm gon na be experiencing and all the joy I get to share with you guys so yeah like I'm definitely gon na, have like a celebratory dinner. That'S a Matic a little bit I'll! Think about it. I don't know but anyways I'm about to turn up okay. Well once I'm 100, but knowing me I'm never gon na wait till I'm 100, I'm always always on the move, and I'm just excited to not be in that kind of pain. Again God. Whoever told me to have the surgery. Thank you. Thank you. God bless you. I must say guys. I I won't know how you guys feel until you comment - and I read it, but I really like the vibe of this type of Chit Chat like it's really giving we're in a salon and we're just like literally catching up as girls or having some good good Conversation, you know what I mean, but you know I can always do the live chatting as well on the couch. Obviously, because I am low-key in pain - and you know just doing a lot like as you can see, handling phone calls getting my hair done so much going on. It was just easier to do it this way, this time, but hey this could have introduced the new two type of Stylo. Let me know down below what you think about this style of video like is it relaxing to have the voice over and to watch me? Get my hair done or would you rather me like sit down on a couch and talk to you or do my makeup? While I talk to you or do my hair, while I talk to you like live just comment down below and let me know that's enough, fibroid talk, though, and I don't know, I don't think I'll ever talk about it like this in depth on my channel ever Like again, I'm being so for real um, you know I'm ready to move on with my life like real life, you get what I mean and um. I did show more on Instagram, I'm sharing a reel that shows more about my journey and surgery and in the hospital and stuff. So if you want to see that just check out my Instagram, I also got on live last night and asked you guys for questions that you that I should touch upon in this video. So I can make sure I'm done in my eyes and crossing my T's and updating y'all but yeah as far as that's concerned. That is enough fibroid talking. Thank you. Thank you in advance, so much for your prayers and well wishes. God is good and so is Boosie on this style. Girl like this looks so good and we're twinning that is so cute. She really did what she had to do on this hair. Like I was talking so much, I didn't even notice how beautiful she was doing and shout out to her because golly my head was just moving moving and she did what she was supposed to do come on like a first wig out and it's giving everything it's Supposed to give it's gorgeous alley Pearl seriously. This hair is gorgeous very, very nice and lovely. If you guys would like this hair for yourself, the links are down below in the description box. Um I've left all the details there. I know I have a coupon code, so if you would like to save money off who doesn't like to save money, save money off and use that code and yeah. Thank me later, when you're looking beautiful in this way again tag me. So I can see you, but that's beautiful. Thank you boosie. I know she's done when she starts like just playing with the hair, because I was like oh we're done distracted on the phone like I didn't realize she was she was leaving. I was just checking the hair out here and it was beautiful she left by now. I even went to go and take a shower just attend to myself. Real quick take a little break between recording you see, I'm taking care of myself and I'm still on the phone girl. No, no! No! No! No! No! No! No! At this point guys trust me, I got my. I got myself together, like I'm like okay, whoever needs to talk to me next time will talk to me. I'M actually working my my fine babes need my full attention right now. So, let's get into it. I am all yours now the hair is complete and it's time to do some makeup. Okay, so, let's get into some gist. I love this song. It'S literally been on, repeat, like it just makes me want to jump around and like Whip My Hair and just have fun with my girlfriends speaking of girlfriends. I couldn't do galentine's Day this year, because obviously I just had surgery - I can't drink or eat like a lot of things right now, so just focusing on getting better. Oh I'm taking these lashes guys, I'm finally getting my lashes done tomorrow. These strips, can you imagine this used to be full to me like now, compared to my lashes that I get done. These are like a little natural looking, but anyway we're going for a nice little beat or whatever. While I do my makeup just allow me to just do I can't do tutorials and be explaining teams all the products will be down below in the description box, but yeah. I didn't get to go out to dinner for Valentine's Day or do galentines or any of that mind you. Let'S talk about the posting for Valentine's Day, so I didn't post a damn thing on my story on Valentine's Day and I got so many DMs like hmm Sophie. Are you okay? I hope everything is good, though let me tell y'all something about being single okay. I am not posting no man, whether it's a date or it's gifts, flowers like even with Penthouse. That was a bit much like. I know I would definitely be gisting y'all, because last time I was single, I didn't carry you guys along, and I really want to do that because it's something that's very prominent with you know my demographic, my fine babes, it's a big deal get married one day And we need to know how to date efficiently and nobody has like women that in their lives that you know talk to them about these things. So I'm cool with that. But you know first of all, if I'm talking to guys and they do something for Valentine's Day. I'M not posting that! That'S personally me: that's personally me um, I don't care for internet validation and if I had a like boyfriend or like a public relationship that would be um different because, obviously it's like you know, sharing love or whatever, but no like what I'm doing right now, girl. I'M in these streets uh, I am not anybody's girlfriend or wife, or none of that. Obviously I'm not married, but you know like I'm just enjoying my private, my privacy. Obviously my last relationship was very, very public. You know I was really young when that one started and it carried on for so long, and you know I learned a lot a lot a lot. A lot from that - and I don't think anything is wrong with showing your man, like I'm, not embarrassed for doing that or anything I just think like even with dating Penthouse, especially this time around, I really enjoyed like us having our private Dynamic, like of course, we Went on a date I did the b-rolls and stuff it was cute. The date was giving Aesthetics luxury. All that you know vloggy Vlog stuff, but y'all, don't know him. Y'All didn't see him, you know, y'all, don't know how he talked or how we walk, or none of that you know, and I just I just really liked you know not doing that. You guys saw my last. You know relationship well well and uh. I don't regret that you know. I don't regret that, but I do prefer having my dating life to myself, because I enjoy it so much more, there's less pressure, I'm able to move the way I want to move speaking of moving the way I want to move me and Penthouse are no more. No more, I know you guys asked about it on live yesterday. So, yes um, we are no more um he's, not really significant in the sense of like dating, because it's just that I was in Nigeria. I wanted to show that you know, even though I'm dealing with fibroids and all that your girl is still going on a date with the house: mad cool guy, great Vibes, the boys Alia, but um no just kidding um, I'm so silly, but it didn't work out. Like it was a day, you date don't work, you work, you don't date, girl, it's normal um, but one thing I don't like is like when you guys act like oh. Why or where is he at my thing? Is I don't mind asking it's like I? You won't expect me to tell you, because, when I'm on Tick Tock, for example, and women talk about terrible dates, they've been on or what happened with a guy, they dated even showing the guy's face in The Tick Tock, I'm so humiliated. For that man, that's bullying! Now, like it's not necessary to like be publicly saying why you don't like someone or why something didn't you know, work out, it's okay, it's okay, dating is fun, and that is the highlight of that situation. I love a nice dating experience. You know it was. It was great, I'm obviously maturing and growing every day and working on things, and I just want to be careful with the way I talk like. Even if I mean well, I've learned that - and I didn't speak badly of my ex ever, but I learned that it's not cool just say anything. You know I will show the experiences. I will show certain things, but I just want to keep things that I care about very intimate. I can share the enjoyment. I can share my point of view on things but uh. No realistically, you may not be seeing a guy on my channel again, maybe similar to the panel situation, to where it's like a date you know or, like you know, you'll see a little shum, but not directly, like you know, someone speaking with me on camera or Anything like that, like that's, not happening, I really do enjoy loving my man and being with my man in private. You get what I mean solid experience, but yeah Valentine's day was great, to say the least. Even though I couldn't eat or have chocolate or alcohol, or any of that, I still had a really really good time. Definitely friend zoned a couple of guys, because what like Valentine's Day is the best day to know who you should friend zone, so that happened. It'S also a really good opportunity to see you know who's, putting words behind or actions behind their words. Excuse me, you know and put them forward, so it was productive next topic, so um about my dog about my lovely lovely dog, so I've been seeing all the comments. Obviously even you guys have been commenting that she's not answering she doesn't want to answer got it. I I will ask her when I want to answer and um anything I share is things that I'm ready and wanting to share with you guys. I hope you guys have seen that pattern with me now. If I never talk, I never talk, but when I do talk it's because I want to, and I do want to update you all because I promised I would so with Cartier. She was a relationship dog. Her emphasis on was because, obviously you know after the relationship was over. I do not have have her anymore. I gave her to my friend. I know some people struggle to like move on from relationships, but I really was Zero contact and I did not lie in my video when I said I never spoke um to my ex again, since the breakup obviously stuff happens guys. I don't want to go too deep into it, but um Cartier is happy, she's happy. I know where she's at um, I see she's living good and it's good that she's happy. I'M happy everybody's happy and to me that's what matters above everything else. If I can end a relationship with a man guys, I can definitely part ways with a puppy dog um but yeah. It was hard and I wasn't happy for a while, but I knew she wasn't getting the love and attention that she deserved and now she gets so much of it and she's happy in her new home. But when I was ready I did go and get me a nice baby boy and um. His name is lucky. I named him after you know my city in Nigeria, and I've had him for a while now and I did not share it because I just want to enjoy my baby he's the sweetest thing ever and he's all mine, which is what matters the most too and He'S such a good boy, guys he's so cute whenever I am ready to share, I will, but I already wasn't posting cardio all the time and I didn't want to become no dog influencer. I'Ve learned that that video after it blew up people were now following me for dogs, so I was like. Oh, this is like a beauty Channel. This is like a fashion girls, Channel, Vlog Channel, but um. I don't know I don't know uh since the breakup guys and that's another update. Somebody did say that on Instagram. I should touch on that since the breakup I've just been figuring myself out, I've been getting to know myself my preferences. The way I want to live my life, my boundaries, my strengths, my weaknesses, all that stuff and I'm really so so close like 95 to a life. That makes me totally totally happy and that's mine, you kind of lose your identity in a relationship and now I feel like I found my back that beat yes ma'am so yeah I love my dog. I love my lucky baby. I love my lucky Daddy and um. That'S that I don't know what I was saying there, but anyway, I'm setting my face and the makeup is done wow. I love that spray, and that is the look guys. Thank you guys for getting ready with me, and you know listening to my current update on. What'S going on now, this isn't in depth, like my couch videos, to where I'm like, taking a lot a lot a lot about what's going on, but trust me it's because in the next couple of months, especially when turning 25 there's about to be a lot going On this hair is gorgeous. Thank you again, Ellie Pearl for sponsoring this video. It is coming to an end. I cannot, I hate, leaving you guys, but you know, what's crazy, you're about to see me a lot more because it grows fibroid free but yeah, I'm just taking my thumbnails right here. I think, but yeah I'm just struggling to end the video, because I love you make sure you like comment and subscribe and I'll see you guys in my next video. This wasn't a full-on update. It was more of a recent update, but you know whenever I'm good, to go and sit back on my couch and do me I will see you guys for a real update, but trust me that one will be later after my 25th birthday after I move. I'M not leaving my apartment, you guys will still get a tour I'll still have it, but I'm just I'm just saying that I'm just saying that for another video I'll see you guys later bye. Thank you.