Wig Install + Girl Talk, Vegas, And Tea!!

You know, what's in my head non-stop snatched: oh um, i'm doing that real next, that's a wild way to start the video. I love that i love that word. Okay, hello, lovely people, you caught our little inner conversation, my homie g slice, home girl, everything, hair, dresser, hey y'all, sherry she's, going to be busting it on the wigs i'm about to get slayed. Today. Sorry today i'm going to get her she's doing my install, but we don't have a little discussion too. A little girl talk little chatty chat. I haven't chatted with you guys in a while and um. You know i don't know if you've seen, but i've been living. A little bit a little bit living getting out there, not just being mom trying to live my own life. Now that my kids are growing up - and i had always committed to saying that when my child is four - i will get back more into me, which is i don't know why i put that in my mind, but that's what i said when the girls were born. I said when they're four, then i will start going out again. I'Ll start, you know keeping my friendships up, because i was bad with that. You know when you have young kids, it's like impossible. You just you're constantly busy thinking about what they doing then when they turned four. I had jersey. So then i said up another four years and doing more time. So i said when jersey turns four, i'm gon na start getting my life again. He is four about to be five, and i have held that commitment to myself. I have kept that promise and i'm making sure to put myself out there build my friendships, keep my friendships. Checking on people hang out with people and just be be myself, be who i am, and i've been loving it. I like the joke, i like to have fun like to be just real: real fun. Vibe, that's it so when there's somebody who's more, like the drama, am i the drama? I don't think i'm a drama - maybe i am i mean drama like literally, will find a way to cause trouble. Those are the people, you don't want around your life, so i've been finding myself just finding my way and seeing you know like who's all about living life out loud and who wants to just be stirring it up, stir it up, stirring, stir and stir in the Pot, i have decided that i'm definitely getting a hair transplant. I want a turkey, it's maybe like what monthly i think september, i'm going to turkey and i'm going to get my hair transplant. I'M excited about that because you can see these edges are still playing. My whole life - they just they don't care about me. They don't care about my feelings. They don't care at all they're, just like screw. You i'ma go ahead and get that fixed up so that when i want to wear my little twa, which i learned means teeny, weeny afro and that's my plan. I really don't want long hair. Really i don't have the time or patience. I don't want to deal with it. I have two little girls with hair short hair, long wigs, that's it! That'S all i'm asking for in life. Is that a lot? I don't think. That'S a lot, not a lot to ask for you guys. If you didn't watch my last vlog, it was in vegas my girl, nina to las vegas to the lovers and friends festival. I was exhausted between the time difference and the staying up late going going going. I was like wow this life's, not for me. I need sleep, it's good to be out, but i am not an all-nighter. No mama needs to go home. I need to lay my head on a pillow, so many uh funny things happen crazy things, but it was fun and we were in the melee. You know when that when the festival they said it was shooting, but it wasn't shooting we went to watch luda perform in the evening. We were with a doxie and she was like you're not going to see anything from backstage. It'S better. If you, you know stay in the audience like you can see more than performance, we're like cool. Let'S do that, we don't have to be backstage so we're standing in the audience next thing you know i turn around and all i hear is screaming and i see a group of people running towards us girl. My heart fell to the floor. What did you do leo and i ran behind the speakers and ducked we're not about to be trampled some other dude was standing he's like just stay down just stay down, i'm like: where are they shooting like? Would you be staying out? We were so was it showing it was a fight. No somebody got into a fight, so people just like. Oh, i don't know how this fight's gon na end. Let'S just take off so when we went behind the speaker, their adoptees bodyguard, grabbed them and ran off with them, so we got separated from them and then so. Her bodyguard the whole time was like counting the girls. Every time we went somewhere he's like okay make sure i got everybody one, two, three four, so he saw him. I guess he realized. He didn't have anybody that was like okay they're over there and we spent the rest of time backstage like yeah we're not gon na go in the crowd mom. Can you pick me up? I'M scared, so that was scary. Girl, that's cool and the crazy thing is they delayed. The show by like 45 minutes like that, but they still went on and performed. Luda was supposed to go perform at a club too me and lena looked at each other were like yeah we're not going. We gon na go back to the hotel. We'Ve had enough excitement for the night yeah you know, nina don't play lena was like no, i could just go out to eat or something yup we took our our granny is right. Back to our hotel was like yeah. That was because he wasn't set to perform until 2 a.m. 2 a.m, and that's when i knew i had stuff that's when i knew i was like i don't care who it is or with i am not. I just can't. Hang like that, i was like i know as big as atlanta everything's gon na be closed by 2 a.m, but it's vegas vegas 6 a.m, they're going to still be open, yep, oh nice and i'm laughing, because when she went to say bye right, he was like Y'All leaving we're like we're going to see he was like. I was like we're not like y'all man, the grandma's got ta, go. Oh, the grandma's got ta. Go. We ain't gon na, be like that um no barnabas! It starts at 7 30 at that. So it's not even like a late night, crazy thing, yep and you don't have your own seat like it's. Not you have your own space. At least you know, but i'm excited about that. Yes, we're going to do berna when is it again july? Oh it's a while away july 31st. I mean, i think i told you it's like it's done. It'S sold out or i just remembered that i am bald lashed to let my eyelashes rest before i go. Get my lash extensions back and sometimes you, like you, do a full look, but you don't got the lashes on. You know. That'S gon na look like an egg, a potato, a my potato. You know i live for uh. Some good lashes changes. Your whole face to me like some good lashes. Oh i only wear stripes. I don't know how you do it because i can't put them all right. That'S my problem! Every day, i'm struggling every day, i'm struggling sherry, the amazing amazing, hair artist. That'S what i'm gon na call you i'll call you the hair artist, the hair artist, the amazing hair artist that she is i'm gon na put up here too, the video that you did with the girl with alopecia. Oh, my god, just flawless, you guys don't understand that was amazing mm-hmm so far. So what does she do and me does she just uh do wigs period, um yeah she does with period okay, yeah cause she can just put those on. That'S what i'm saying something you just put on: it's like, okay, cool! I could do that for now, but i do the five by five. So it's like big when that wind blow, you won't be too explosive. All right remember to take about a half inch off. My forehead i'm getting my hairline pulled down when i get this hair transplant. No, they don't have to give me a good inch extra, not the size, really just right here mm-hmm. I remember saying she got to pluck her, but i'd rather have that problem than to be like. Oh, it's not enough. No because it'd be looking crazy, you think so yeah. It looks like because it'd be like yeah. No, i told them. Yes, they said they can draw out and you can literally decide if you're happy with how thick they have it or not and the shape of it, because i don't want no jagged straight. You know no meow, no ma'am, no ma'am but yeah. I think hair transplanting, like so black technology and it has come along the way it has because girl, so many women suffer with alopecia, not even just black women and women in general. I don't know if it's in the food. I know mine is ridiculous for sure, because my mother is exactly that and like what is it, it seems much more prevalent than it used to be, or maybe people just um are more so vocal about it. Maybe that's what it is. People are more vocal about it and coming yeah because for me, like i've, i've never tried high the fact that you know i'm struggling with hair loss. I wear my wigs, but i'm also not like okay i'll snatch, this wig right off too, and you won't see that uh yeah there's some things going on here, something i always thought was important for other women to be comfortable with you know when they see somebody Like who's so-called in the public eye being comfortable with showing that part, i think it makes other women more confident. It'S not even close to done yet, but i'm already feeling like a bad, i'm already feeling a little spicy i transform like. I got my hair done and i'm just like don't talk to me because i'm not here for it, you see this wig. I just got laid. That'S how i do it, so i want to know from y'all out there. How like do y'all, treat your friendships. These days, like, let's say, you've had a friend for like 20 years, but you're not meshing, and you just don't like the way they're moving and they just haven't grown like do you keep that friendship like? Are you, okay, with letting go of friendships? No matter how long the friendship has been, sometimes people get stuck because of the. I know you have no it's been. This is the strength of the relationship, not the life. Yes, oh my gosh. That was recently. It was for me or something around thanksgiving with a friend like she was like my sister. She did something that was like insane it like kind of blew my mind, but it's a behavior that she's always had. I made excuses for that like knowing something but still going forward with something and trying to play the victim and it's like. Well, how long are we going to let you do that yep like we're, not doing that and i'm okay with letting certain things and certain people go as i grow, and it is what it is like we just got. Normally let go. I don't want to. Let go now like i like yeah, you don't have no integrity, i'm not gon na yes, but integrity. Part is major and that's one thing you you said is the strength of the friendship, not the length of the friendship yeah. It'S definitely okay to have outgrown people. Just like you outgrow your your teenage boyfriend, let me not say that some of y'all might still be with them. It'S okay, but if you just simply outgrew that person like, why are you gon na try and hold on to it? And sometimes people are just not good friends to you. Yes, like i've had a friend, yes and we was walking. We was like family right when i think about our friendship and i think about what we had heard. Things show up and the time of need. You get what i'm saying well that lets. You know that lets you know right there. No, you were not around and you have to pay attention to that. You get what i'm saying that stuff matters overlook it so when it starts happening again, you're like oh nah now, let me tell you guys something you can have a conversation. It'S called venting and i had a conversation with somebody that she knew so when i had this conversation with this person, this person had experienced the same thing that i experienced, but that person went back and told her. The most amazing part of that was the things that she told her. I said she really said the tea is exceptionally good today hold on hmm. At the end of the day like, oh, i see it yeah, you know, those type of friendships is catty and it's something you go out. It'S unnecessary as a normal woman. The thing that kills me is some people think like what, because i didn't come to this or come to that, i'm like no, that's not what it's about the point. Is you don't support? That'S really what it is. It'S not about you coming not coming! You don't support and you're just showing it in this way, and i had to learn that you know we just had a salmon. I got beans, greens, potatoes, tomatoes, lamb, rams, hogs dogs, chicken, turkeys, rabbits. This is my day. This is my debut on the channel. Not with that thing you put on your head all right in my hair, but look i have something to give her and look we're just gon na show my face. Is that my black? Oh, my gosh, okay, wait. Wait. Wait. Did you order it is that what happened? I ordered it. I had 100k subscribers a year and a half ago. Okay, you guys it's here. I don't know why. I didn't order it sooner or got it sooner, but i got my plaque for passing. A hundred thousand subscribers on youtube. Thank you to you, guys, really, that's so exciting! I appreciate you guys. I got ta put this in my closet or something right. You like it, jersey, don't drop it. You can look at it. Let'S get me to a million guys. Oh, that was cute. I'M going i'm going pro right, i'm going from 100k thing. Let'S get me to a million, it's the part, my clients ain't. They think i'm gon na burn them. Yeah. You see, i stopped breathing. I literally held my breath y'all. I was like you literally stopped breathing on those parts you're like okay. If i don't breathe, then i'm not moving at all, not on my forehead, because you know the crazy thing: a burn. Don'T look bad until two days later, when it turns black when you're, like. Oh, what i'm waiting around to show you guys? The final look, the final look, the final slag we are done now. I got ta, go act up! Oh i love it. I love now you see a difference when you get a professional to do it versus when you do it so anyway, guys hope you guys enjoyed the chit chat, girl, talk, ted talk and i'll catch. You guys next time, bye.