Easy Wand Curls For Beginners Ft Kinky Straight Upart Wig | Rebuild Yourself After A Breakup Talk

See hi youtube. Welcome back to my channel. Let me fix my my collar here um. I am actually just uh curling, my hair today, one curling it so i have this. You part this. You part is from nappy hair. If you watched my last vlog, you saw like the before and after type thing um, and then i posted a picture with it and my friend's little sister, hey nae. She was like you should wand curl it. It would look so pretty. Well here's the thing! I am a lazy natural and i don't really know much. I'Ve been natural for a very long time. Y'All, like i've, probably been natural for about eight years yeah, and the only thing i really know how to do to my hair, like is rod, set. That'S the only thing i know how to wash condition it all that wrought it up and wear my afro. I know that because when i had a relaxer, that's the only hairstyle i ever wore that i did myself either. I did a roller wrap, which is just rolling the hair same process, just a different roller or a rod set. That was it. That'S all. I wore my entire life unless my mom like flat, earned it, which was only for special occasions, but that was it every week, once a week, thursday or friday, i had a roll wrap or a rot set my entire life. So all this stuff new um - i actually because i started cutting my hair so much with my natural hair, because my hair grows really really fast and it's super thick and i would get so overwhelmed with it um. So, every year since i've been natural, i would cut my hair every single year. I would cut it color it something. So i finally, like last year, decided like i'm not going to cut my hair anymore and i started going to the salon to get it done. I actually got to cut last month, just even doesn't matter. Everything is healthy, it's actually very beautiful, but um. I decided i wanted to do a u-part wig um for the next couple of months, just because i miss like the soft look of my hair, but i don't want to do my hair and i don't want braids so here we are anyway, so i'm curling, my Hair today i haven't, i don't really like no technique like in the video you'll, see me like voice message, my friend like okay. What do i do for this because, usually when i watch youtube videos or like hopeless romantic, you know that's my best friend. She is a um like a hair blogger and i try to follow her stuff or whatever she does and i always end up crying. I always end up facetiming her like it didn't work. I don't know what i did wrong the twist out. I have never been able to do a great twist out braid out any of that. I don't know so i'm wanting this today. The main thing is, i was trying to make sure i blended my hair. This is my hair um up here, all this um with it and i think it did great um. I think i did great good job ashley, but anyways. I don't want to talk too much. This is a voice over video, i'm not sure like. I didn't have anything to talk about while i was doing it um i'll, probably talk about. I don't know a subject or something or just chitchat, with y'all like we're on facetime, while i'm curling my hair, but i'm actually pretty proud of myself. I think i did a good job, so go me um. I know what i maybe want to do next time like i feel like the back. I probably should have showed more love to it, but it still wandered. I think i need to take smaller sections in the back, but anyways just watch the video. Let me know what you think if you are a new natural or if you have been natural for a long time and uh, you still don't really know how to do. Your hair, hey, we're friends; oh we're the same so um. I don't want to chat too much. Thank you guys for watching my video um go through the rest of my channel, see my old videos and everything um. I have like makeup and all this other. I don't know just random stuff, i like youtube, because i don't really have to have a plan. I could just post what i want. So that's what i love if you haven't already subscribe, and thank you to everyone that got me to. I think i'm at 500 subbies now so that's cool, um, okay and that's it and i'll see y'all. In my next video i will post the name of this wig um in the description box down there: okay, bye, okay, so first off, i just start with sectioning. My hair, i want to start by saying that i really really love this um, this. U part wig, i think the size of the cap. I'Ve got a medium cap. I think, next time i need to get actually a small cap. I'M asking imani like uh. What steps should i use so you're gon na see? Actually, okay, so right now, i'm just going right in cold turkey curling the hair all right, but when she uh texted me back, she tells me that she uses all this other stuff. When she does her hair, so she said she uses like a holding spray and um something else. I can't remember right now, but i was like oh crap and i had already like started curling the bottom half of my hair before she wrote back so um yeah. So that's why i have to always consult with people before i do things like this, but look at that. Look at that wand. You know. So there are two ways you can do a wand. Actually, you can just coil it around like a spiral, curl type look or you can twist the hair while you're going around the wand and it'll give more of like a coil look, and i have decided that i, like the coil, look better in this video. I'M doing both because this took so long so long i would have just preferred to uh. You know put my hair in the ponytail like it usually do, but i'm really trying to grow up and really trying to get. I used to enjoy doing my hair and my makeup and everything like that um, you know what we can talk about that okay, so i'm a mom, you know and uh. Now, i'm not in a relationship anymore. I'M not married anymore. So for maybe like the past. Maybe a year and a half, i really haven't put much effort into my look like not that i've been like dirty or bummy, or anything like that. You know i'm still clean and fresh, but you know like at the beginning of the year. I realized that i hadn't purchased my favorite perfume in so long like i had gone so long was just like. Oh, i need to get more. Oh, i need to get more. Oh, i need to get more and i would just use like little simple, perfumes or whatever, but it had been so long. Oh, my gosh, it's to the point y'all i don't even own foundation anymore. I use this is tinted the color popped into moisturizer that i wear every day. It'S just like yo ashley. What have you been doing, and i think, as women, it's so easy for us to get caught up in our roles, the roles that we have, whether it be our career, being a wife being a mom and we put all of the energy all of the effort. All of the brain power into making those things grow and successful, and at the end of the night, at the end of the day, at the end of the year, uh two years later, you're looking at yourself, you haven't even bought any new diagonal fall boots. I went to go look in my closet for my fall boots and i'm like oh my gosh. These are the same problems for like two years and i think um like that was like a big thing for me. I'M like yo, i haven't like shopped for i haven't done, fall shopping for myself. For my kids, of course, i was like okay ash, so that was one of my goals for this year was to get back to me. Like okay cool. You know you're not married anymore, great, okay, you're still a mom and you're doing pretty good about that great. So now get back to what you like. What do you love? You know, so i was like okay, i'm gon na keep my nails done. I'M gon na get back to like my simple little face that i like get your hair to like what do you get your perfume girl buy your perfumes that you like like little stuff like that, i i didn't realize how much i was almost in just like Survival mode or like okay, check in boxes, you know you have this list of these are what you need to do to get from a to b, and you just get into autopilot me. I'M saying you, but i i get into autopilot, to where i'm just checking lists and the most emotion that i give or like you know, is to my children, and so i literally had to start telling myself actually take care of yourself. The way you take care of your kids like - and i go above and beyond for my children, but i wasn't doing that for myself and even just giving myself grace and being kind to myself speaking to myself, better, allowing myself to make mistakes um not like harboring. On the small things like yo you're, doing great ash like like you did bro you're doing great um and i used to be able to it was so much easier for me to speak to myself. That way, but you know just life happens things happen. You know you kind of disappoint. You get disappointed things like that whatever, but so the fact that i could not remember, i haven't won curled, my hair, that one girl actually is my sister's one girl. I mean one curler. However, you say you know what i'm talking about anyways, it's hers that i got uh probably like before i had children so we're looking at about six years ago. I found it in my my whatchamacallit and yeah. It still works. I don't know the brand of it because it's all off and if i ask her she's gon na be like i know you took my wander, my wand curly. I don't have to worry about her seeing this video because my sisters don't watch my youtube videos anyway. So that's fine, but then i will be telling on myself. If i ask her the name of it so so anyways here we are using um hair wax. Sorry i skip around. This is how my brain goes, but uh yeah, so um. One of my friends told me that i'm supposed to use this to blend my hair, so that's what i'm doing. I don't think i was supposed to do it on my whole. Like all of my hair, i think maybe it was just supposed to go with the top now. I know that, and i don't think i'm supposed to put the holding spray on there too, because you're probably frying your hair, so don't copy that but use the wax and it did hold. And i went outside and took pictures and when i woke up the next day, you know it was fine too so i mean it worked, but if you're natural and you want to keep your afro and have some type of girl, i think i would do either Or either do the wax or the spray yeah, but um, okay, i'm gon na be quiet now and like do like some do do do do do do do do do do do do music because me personally, i don't like people talking in all the videos, especially If it's something like this that i'm trying to follow, i want to be able to just like mute it and listen to music. I'M watching youtube videos in this video um, i'm watching music videos, while i'm filming this video. That'S why i keep looking to the left. All right but yeah and uh, it actually turned out pretty good um. If i think of some last minute tips, uh yeah i'll, come back in but uh. Oh my gosh. The way i'm chewing this gum is driving me crazy. I know i was probably hungry or like fasting or something wild but spit out the gum next time ashley, but yeah. My hair actually turned out great um. The best thing if i were to give like a one, two three is to section your hair, small sections. Comb it out spray, some um like holding spray and then one curl it at the top um choose between wax or wanting spray. I mean or holding spray, but uh. Thank you for watching my video and uh. If you want to chat hit me in the comments and uh or follow me on instagram actuallycamillo.xo, and i have tic tac too at the same name and yeah i'll see you on my next video bye,