I Relaxed My 4C Natural Hair For The First Time Ever | Relaxing My Hair By Myself
- Posted on 27 January, 2021
- Hair Care
- By Anonymous
heyyy sooo pretty much ive been absolutely sick and tired of my natural hair and i just couldn't manage it anymore, so i decided to relax my natural hair. tbh i had no idea what i was doing but then again when do i ever lol. it actually turned out good except for the fact that i burned the back of my head lmao anyways.... enjoy :)
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Hi, so this is what i'm doing today, i'm relaxing my hair. Let me just tell you i am so sick and tired of this. You don't even understand everyone's like oh, my gosh, my it's so cute. You know what i honestly don't care in the morning when i look in the mirror - and i see this - i cry - i don't hate it like it's nice like i get it i feel like. I can't even do anything with my hair. It needs to go. I am absolutely sick and tired of it. Another thing is technically you're not supposed to relax your hair after you have already bleached it. I did it in june and now it's january. So if my hair falls out, it falls out. I'Ve never done this before. Let'S just get into this because i am terrified wow there's a lot of things in here, i haven't, read the instructions or anything so unboxing, so the instructions. What'S this replenishing conditioner aloe vera, shampoo, activator extra strength, i'm also going through my taylor swift, face again right now i used to be obsessed with her. Her concert was the very first one that i ever went to in my entire life. It'S been a hard year not going to one i'm watching the reputation, stadium, tour on netflix i'll, be singing and dancing okay, so i'm gon na just figure this out and i'll be right back. I don't know why i choose to smell everything. I mix this until there's no like lumps in it. It says supposed to put the gloves on for this part, but it's like it's not even touching my hand and i'm so sorry. I heard that if you put like vaseline on your the front of your hair, but just put it on all the edges or parts that expose your forehead, i feel this is going to be so hard to get out. This is actually kind of disgusting. You have you guys ever touched like a lot of vaseline at once. I got the vaseline all over my hair, and now i'm gon na put the gloves on i'm just gon na listen to them, because what, if i don't, and what, if my hands just get all weird this reputation stadium live, is so so good. It doesn't smell bad anymore, like it used to and then apply that there interesting. Maybe i should get section by section. Oh, my gosh, some person was like really good at hair. It'S going to want just to be like what is she doing because, like i'm, not even a professional okay, now it's really starting to smell the back is definitely the hardest part. I look like a man. This is it i have put it all in. I don't think i put enough vastly in the back of my head, because i can literally start feeling it like burning my literal scalp, but it's fine. I thought that was literally blood that i realized just my makeup. Obviously, it's not gon na look like this. When it's done, i feel it's gon na look different, but honestly, as long as it is cute and straight like i want it watch me model for like a second like hire me, i need some more taylor. Swift. Let me facetime him, i think he's gon na answer. Wait is he at home? Let me check 40 minutes ago. He was at home 40 minutes ago. Is he gon na answer? He'S? Probably not am i gon na face on him anyway? Yes, it's ignoring me for me. Oh my gosh. I was literally just getting mad at you for not answering many answers so now i'm gon na go watch it. I really hope it stays like this. I kind of like it but we'll see it's the first time for everything, i'm honestly, like kind of in shock at how good it actually looks. I'M pretty sure i left it in for longer than you're supposed to, but hopefully it just means it's more straight with it shampooing it and it makes the smell so much worse, like it's actually so gross it's supposed to be in for like two minutes. But honestly i was like it just i wanted to like. You know, get everything out, i'm gon na wash it again and then this is where i fully dry it or dry it like. So i just decided to michael's on facebook right now, but you can't hear anything i'm saying so i just wash my whole entire head. It'S so loud like what's the reason replenishing conditioner in my hair, i'm just going to do that and it says to leave it in for about 10 to 15 minutes. So that's what i'm going to do without excuse me without trying to make a mess, he's really playing music right. Now, i'm just going to continue this. I hate men. I basically put everything in my hair. It'S all done now. My makeup is off because i wash it off in the shower my boyfriend's pulling 2k so ignore that. Let me just do this: it's not even blogging now you're, actually dumb. It'S not drying very well, but i feel like over time, it'll dry because there's a lot of product in it and it's just gon na take some time to do its thing i feel like. I should do a reveal tomorrow, how i style it and everything hey guys. So it's about two days later and i just wanted to show you guys how i've been selling my hair for the past day, because i only have this for like a day or two yeah. These are all the products that i use. I actually got this yesterday because i ran out it's just the olive oil hair lotion. It'S really good, i love it. It makes my hair really really soft for my edges and just the top here. I use the cantu shea butter maximum hold styling gel and i actually just picked this up yesterday. It'S the mousse, coconut oil. I'Ve never tried this before, but i've seen it and it just looks so good. So that's what i'm gon na show you first. I just grab some of this. Oh my gosh. I can't even okay. I can't open this. I usually wet my hand too, just because it applies a bit easier, not like super wet. But then i have it in my hand, and i usually start with the back first, because that's the most frizziest and then i just go through it with my hands and you can just tell the difference. It'S super shiny and it's way soft and i just absolutely love it and i like to brush it to like, lay it and see how i want it so like this and then with the gel. Since i have my nails on, i can't really scoop it up. Like this, so i have to go like this guys: life hacks. If you have nails, i go like this and i just like to put it on the top. Lay it down the thing with this hair and gel is that it literally works wonders like it'll stay down forever and i'm not gon na ever have to worry about having to apply a lot or even more than once during the day, which is absolutely amazing. Okay, so i just put it here because that's the parts that i care about the most - i don't really care about the back of my head. It'S not bad! I really just don't have time for that and then maybe i put some in the back. If i have leftovers and then with my brush, i just brush it down just the way that i want it. I just get my purple silk scarf and then i just wrap my hair up, so the edges can lay and then just like this, it looks kind of ratchet it's. Okay. Beauty is pink, so i usually go like this and wait for it for like 25 minutes 20 minutes, and then i start my day so yeah, that's just how i do it right now. I actually got an ponytail extension yesterday, which i'm going to try out. I'M not going to make a video about it yet because i haven't perfected it so once i really know how to do that. I perfect the style, but i'll definitely make a video about it and if you guys want any more hair videos about how i wash my hair, how i style my hair anything like that. Let me know down below and thank you guys so much for watching this. Video, i love you guys um to the end of the video. The next two seconds are just gon na be photos what it looks like at the end, but i love you guys so much and i'll see you guys in my next video next wednesday bye. I'M feeling just like a tesla too much street smoke is making my chest hurt girl on me. I'M thinking i should arrest her hey, i'm thinking i shoulda rest all night long. She putting me to the test got a lot on i'm trying to take out the rest.
Comments
StephanoGabanna: I can just hear all the naturals coming to judge! it came out super nice! relaxed hair is also a vibe. Glad you did what YOU wanted!
Annie Jay: The first 2 minutes of your video is EXACTLY how I feel . I am fully over the natural hair journey.. 6 years in.. Im over it, its no longer for me! I stand in solidarity with you girl all the way from the UK
Taylor Simoné: you’re so pretty u literally look like a barbie
Lady Godiva: I get my hair relaxed every 3 months by a professional... my hair is super long and thick , all my edges are intact! I’ve been doing this since age 19 now I’m 37 and my hair is super healthy... no breakage , no split ends ( I trim every 6 months)
Jo 7296: Girl do you!! I had natural hair and it was just too much for me. I couldn’t keep it healthy. So I went back to relaxed and its doing good. Just do what you can maintain!
Sierra Loghan: A lot of these comments are really negative which I don’t get because shouldn’t it the people who have our hair understand that it’s very difficult to manage?! Anyways, if you take care of relaxed hair, it can look good and suit your lifestyle. Natural hair isn’t for everyone and that’s fine, it’s just hair.
Keyllah Aloo: I feel the same, I wanted to relax my hair last year but kept on postponing because I felt so guilty, I felt like I was betraying someone I do not know who? hahaha. Anyway it is one of my resolutions this year, plaiting next week then after that I am relaxing it...lovely video...
Danie ツ: SOME people's hair actually thrive more when it's relaxed than natural so people with opinions of "don't do it. It's bad for your hair" are speaking for themselves and shouldn't be watching a video about something they don't stand behind. That's what they should be questioning.
Themba Gasa: I did this today, i cried after. I'm really mad at myself but proud at the same time cause my hair was literally starting to depress me.
Nisa Gitty: I was natural for 11 years. Relaxed last October and I'm GOOD. Natural hair was becoming way too time consuming (at waist length). Do you! I totally get it
Dee Wortham: I’ve been natural since 2014 and I wholeheartedly regret it I’m glad you did what you needed to do for yourself despite what others have to say about it.
APoet Smile: Sis, before you apply the relaxer, please protect your Whole scalp and the hair line. Avoid over processing when you are ready to re-touch by only applying relaxer to your new growth. I saturate my previously relaxed hair with coconut oil and separate sections and twist the night before I re-touch. I wash, protein treatment, and deep condition the week before. Trim hair every 3-6 months as needed. Happy hair journey!
Kelsey M.: Oh girl everything you said in the beginning is how I feel right now. I'm tired of my 4C as well and will be perming my hair again soon.
Julia Diaby: I hope you don’t listen to the people judging your decision, cause first of all you are gorgeous either way and second of all, if it makes you happy, you do you !!
Vanessa Thomas: Depending how long your hair is and its thickness(volume), you may have to buy 2 boxes of home relaxers. Many of those have small containers of product; or you can buy a 'Double Pack'.
Chyna x: Relaxer twice in one day on bleached hair? Your lucky your hair didn't fall out girl please don't do that in future and please read the instructions xx you look great xx
blue: Me and my sister thinking about relaxing our hair. I was relaxed until my 9th grade year in hs and I should’ve stayed relaxed. It’s so much work and we get super stressed. It looks beautiful, and thanks for giving us the extra push!!
Stevie Ann: Let's just all handle our OWN hair how ever we choose and not worry about the next persons hair. Natural, relaxed, textured or whatever, let's just leave each other alone about the hair.
F K: Been natural for 7years now. No dye nothing. And girl I'm relaxing it. I'm tired! I love my hair sooo freaking much but I'm tired of the pain while braiding or styling. Aaaaargh
Donesha George: I’m going to relax my hair!!! Like she said I am sick and tired looking at my hair they way she had her hair is the way I wake up every morning there’s nothing wrong with 4c hair but I’m just tired of it .. I literally cry sometimes bc I just wish I had different ways to wear my hair but I think imma go head and get it relaxed
Passion She'nay: “If my hair falls out, it falls out” periona !!!
Jasmyn Tailor: my mouth dropped when you restarted! you're a real trooper for doing it twice. it looked good in the end!
latlats 1985: You know, I just recently went back to relaxing my hair. I tried going back natural and it didn't work out. I think there is this stigma that if we relax our hair, we aren't "real" black women... and it's not fair because not everyone has time and money to maintain that well neat natural look. Not everyone can handle the natural look. And I felt guilty at first because it's like I said I felt like I was acting like a "real" black woman. But I realize is that having my hair relaxed it suits me and I can keep my hair healthy and maintained. I have a very good hairstylist who's been doing my hair 15 years. And she educates me in how to maintain healthy hair. I am happy like this, I feel like myself again. I also realize that there is no REAL black woman. You simply are who you are. Nerdy, weird, open to a higher calling, whatever...I am who am I and you are who you are. May the LORD bless you all, and may you be who you need to be.
Giana Jimmy: This is the same exact thing I went through 4 years ago. I was so tired of maintaining my natural hair. It's only so many times you can dye, flatiron, twist out, braid out, etc. your hair and be satisfied with it, we are women and our hair is our crown and glory and sometimes you can be just unhappy with your crown and glory and you need a change. Sometimes you just got to try shit out. I FULLY support this decision cause guess what, you can get a fresh start once you're tired of that relaxer. Believe me Sis, I done did it all, shaved my head, bleached, dreaded it up, rocked an afro. Right now I'm relaxed and transitioning it back out, I relaxed it about a year ago, now I want to change it up again. It's your hair, experiment. Worse casinario , like you said, it fall out. Oh well, it's hair it'll grow back. ❤❤❤❤
Why Ask: Not applying a relaxer correctly can damage your hair, putting another relaxer in can overprocess your hair. You have to be careful and you have color in your hair. In the long run it can weaken your strands and cause breakage. Not judging just stating facts.
ItsTorrie: yess i’ve been natural since i was 15, and now i’m about to be 23 and i just cannot deal with my thick, tight 4c hair anymore. styling it literally gives me migraines. i’m ready for a relaxer so it can be more manageable for me to keep up with.
Naya Dianna: I wanna get a relaxer again ... when I had my relaxer my hair was so long and thick . Now that I’m pretty much natural it’s so much work and my hair is shorter and breaking more
Mariah Reed: Literally how I am feeling! I resonated with EVERY word you said. You’re gorgeous no matter what babe ✨
Lone Wolf: Even though I'm natural I still be watching perming and straightening videos they're just so satisfying to watch especially the ones with big chop or straight back to curly. Off topic but ya chill out if someone perm their hair than that's their decision honestly I sometimes stress over my hair a lot of people just don't got the time or patience and that's fine.
Amora Isonguyo: love this. u literally just explained my every reason for relaxing my hair.
Shonta Duncan: It's okay to straighten your hair after being an active part of the natural hair movement. I am feeling like I want to do it too, and I have a whole NATURAL HAIR CHANNEL (not really active though....haven't had much time to devote to it). That's to say I REALLY embrace being natural ,it is more than about the hair to me - I went natural as a part of a wholistic, being the best me kind of thing...meaning what you see is exactly WHO I am, you know? Anyway, I do understand the pressure some persons may feel, as if they are being hypcrite and no longer supporting black beauty, but don't feel that way. The only thing I don't like about straightened hair is that it is chemicals going into my scalp and I really don't like that :(. But I think I want a change and so I might do it. If anything, I'll just cut it all off and go natural again. :)
AuthorHollingsworth: Im relaxed, and waist length. Your hair is beautiful regardless, if natural/ relaxed.
Sammy-Gay Jackson: When she said “I am so sick and tired of this “ I felt it because that’s how I feel right now
CoMuff1: So I’ve been natural since 2014 & my hair has recently fallen out tremendously. I think I’m going to go ahead and relax it too. How did you build up the courage
playgrlonika . ن: Your hair is sucha vibe. It remind me so much of my aunts in the Caribbean that would have relaxed hair. Thank you for giving me a wave of nostalgia lol.
vania Petlane: Girlllll. I completely understand you. I bleached my hair and it's always dry at the ends. I'm doing this soon as it's been a year after the bleaching
TheAnonyy: I could tell straight away she didn't do it properly the first time. Hope she understands what she is doing from now on, don't want her burning her scalp or hair falling out.
Vera Jean: I have been natural for about 4 years. I’ve done the big chop a year or 2 ago. I have put heat to it a handful of times since going natural, and have gotten braids a handful of times too, but mostly I’ve been wearing headband wigs and regular wigs. Ive NEVER been fully natural before, ever since i could remember my hair has been relaxed. I don’t recall ever seeing my real natural hair before it first got relaxed. Thats how young I was when it first got done. And so now i have NO IDEA how to do it/manage it. I have 4c, MAJOR SHRINKAGE hair. Ive watched countless youtube videos, spent fuckin tons on hair product to follow these youtube videos and it just never works. But before going natural I would go to the salon to get it relaxed and honestly it grew better and faster when i was going to the shop getting it relaxed. The minute I would stop going it would stop growing, fall out. So now im like, i spend tons on trying to be natural, why not spend on relaxing it myself and maintaining that, at least then i’d be able to wear my real hair more often. But ppl are so negative about everything and so i just dont fuckin know what to do RANT OVER
Mva Kelly: I big choped a month ago, but I am here watching people relax their hair!I do not regret cutting off my relaxed ends, and i am not here to tell her that what she is doing is wrong, far away from that.. just do what makes you happy, people gonna judge anyway so do it if you want to!❤
It's Mecah: No big deal if we want to relax our hair. As black women, we'll always be natural . Our DNA isn't going anywhere lol.
Mamuzo13: My hair was relaxed up until I was 15, I loved my relaxed hair and I still do like relaxed hair, I went natural, big chopped and everything because I wanted to try it and I was really into the whole curly thing. I still have natural hair and I still love straight relaxed hair.
Feline _star: Now that you are relaxed, I recommend watching relaxed hair gurus like breana reshay, Seun, hairlicious. So you know how to take care of it well, so your hair stays healthy. Good luck
Absolute Drey: Sleeping relaxed hair is so easy definitely relaxing my hair
paulalopex: I find these videos so relaxing, pun intended lol
Adreanna Smith: So glad I’m not alone I have this same problem with my 4c hair and I think on Christmas I decided I can’t do this anymore so I’m relaxing my hair next week☺️but u look good
Chocolatier: “If my hair falls out, it falls out” very matter of fact and I love it
Princess Onkar: Your hair is so beautiful. I decided to texlax my own hair so that I can still have my volume but not so tight kinks. Video on my page.
Donatella Butt: Omg I’m obsessed! It is so cute before and after!!
Sevanna Dunbar: I have thick curly hair, (not what’s in my profile pic lol that’s a fake pony extension) and even though I go natural and love it, it is still hard to manage at times. If relaxing it is what makes you happy and confident, then you go girl! It looks stunning curly or straight, keep on shining.
Amor Moreno: The video started and I was so blown away by your beauty, it literally took my breath away. I had to click like straight away. Wow.
Barbie: Living through you right now because I want to do this too ❤️
BEAUTY BY NOVA: Your skin is so flawless!
Radical Acceptance: I thought my hair was 4c, but then I realized it was 4b in the front and 4a in the back. I put a relaxer on my hair to straighten it, and it was beautiful. However, 2 weeks later my hair was literally falling out. I would rub my fingers through it, and it would be all in my hands. I cut it off, because there were bald spots in three different places. It eventually grew back, and it's healthy. However, I still experience thinning in the areas that had bald spots. I learned that relaxers are great for some and not for others. To each their own. If it works for you it works.
Error Report: Relaxed hair was easier for me to manage, but I believe it gave me some serious health problems. Personally, I wouldn’t suggest anyone relax their hair anymore. But if it’s your choice, then All the best to you.❤️ ETA: my best results on relaxed hair came after using rollers for volume on wet hair.
ThatsMyNamja: I've always been told that when you have color treated hair you can't get a relaxer. You also should definitely never ever again relax your hair twice in one shot. You're super lucky your hair didn't just tap out the 2nd time around lol. For the touch up I think you should let a professional do it. Despite tbe many comments here imho there's nothing wrong with relaxers. If you have the right people doing them for you and you are good at maintaining your hair then your hair won't suffer. My hair looked amazing when I had it relaxed and the only reason i decided to go natural was because I legit didn't know what my natural hair looked like being that I had been relaxed since I was 5 or 6. Honestly feel like going back relaxed because of the convenience.
Sorena L: My hair is a little past bra strap length, I perm once maybe twice a year. My hair in the front is the most manageable the middle gets nappy and the back is nappiest lol. My point is do whats best for your hair and don't let people make you think otherwise I'm actually preparing to perm today! It's been 10 months but I'm ready, I shed more hair "natural" anyway...Shout out to ALL hair types
SunsetStylinson🌅 (Darcy): girl omg i’m about to relax my hair soon it’s similar as yours and you don’t understand how EXCITED i am. i mean yolo am i right
August Virgo: Felt that rant in the beginning lmfao. I cut all of my hair off last year in August so I could do finger waves and that didn’t work, so I tried relaxing it and I did that wrong. So, now I currently have a TWA and hopefully I can take care of it better now lmao, if I don’t get lazy
Tyra Renae: ♀️By the way, you're very pretty, and your hair came out just fine! All the negativity- I dont understand where its coming from♀️
Sonia Yancy: If this ain't the MOST RELATABLE VIDEO...from the blonde dye to being OVER IT! I purchased a relaxer an got all setup but bc it'd been yearsss since relaxing, I decided to look for videos relaxing CURLY HAIR...and your video w/ same HAIR and DYE came up!!! "Relaxing my hair in 2021 bc I'm over it" not exact but I felt that! I'm tired of WAKING UP WITH DREDS, or when I do my hair... I sweat and gel fades, hair poof up, etc... WISH ME LUCK AND THANKS 4 THE PUSH!!!- Sorry for the novel xoxo ❤
Nele Mazwide: It’s you re-relaxing for me! I’m afraid I’d have to do it too! But ey hoping for the best!! I’m definitely joking you soon! Jho I’m Taaaayaaad
Zsavoir Hodnett: I tried going natural for 3 years. I tried I really did but my curl pattern is just not compatible with my lifestyle smh, I don’t wanna go back to being fully relaxed so I’m putting a texture softener in mines today! Great video, Subscribing!
Amber Nicole: Hi, a tip for next time, comb the perm through section by section and then smooth it down. It will allow the perm to work better and come out alot smoother. But great job for your first time.
AndroidWith SickCoinTricks: I bleach mine in June too I was welp lemme go ahead and do this. I kept bleaching mine but I didn't relax it, I chopped the bleach parts off and now I'm still struggling. I wish I just left it bleached. I love your vibe and you're just winging it. SAAAAAME ♀️
DaPoohBear: I subscribed within seconds of the video starting. You got me laughing and feeling the same struggle with mine
Niko: Lol im living for ur confidence girl!! ❤
Smooth Flight: Hey baby girl. Great video. You're so sweet, fun and just so entertaining to watch. When you relax your hair after you blow dry it, you can flat iron it. Regardless of what you do, you are a awesome young lady and you always look great!
All In: OK I feel the same way She feels. Natural hair is cute and everything that I am done here and I don’t want it anymore. I did not think she was gonna be so funny.
Ka'Lon Montgomery: I'm a free years natural. I'd cut it off and it would grow back again. I have three children now, and I think I'm over the natural look myself. Thank you for sharing. I think I'll relax it.
Beloved One: I’m like, literally dying inside (my white girl voice). Sis! I’m proud of you for doing your thing on your own. But girl!!! lol you had me cringing the whole time. PS you’re so beautiful though with and without makeup ✊
agape, like the love: Ah! Look this this video to! You making me want to relax mine too, I’m gonna first do the whole dyeing thing then relax! Also don’t mind the comments, people have this weird obsession with trying to govern other people’s hair
Mae Meraki: I love her lmao!!! She is the definition of YOLO!!!
Enn Vee: Girl get rid of that ORS hair mousse, it has rubbing alcohol in it. That stuff broke off my hair so bad. The mousse from LottaBody is a lot better for your hair and it is quite cheap too.
Isatu Conteh: I use the same to relax my hair it so amazing
Firefoxbhd Bhd: just relaxed my hair today after being natural for more than 8 years, I have mix feelings about it but I will rock it until I don't like it lol.
VesselofMercy: This was all I needed to push me over the edge, I’m done with this natural mess.
Nosipho V: I love the end result and your vibe ❤
K Lee Da Santos: You look and sound like a Barbie Doll!! And your hair came out beautiful!!
Yanna Ytigafwygsamid: I just like that fact that she acknowledged that fact that she could have consequences Her: If my hair falls out my hair falls out
The Flower Child: You're really pretty ignore the comments and do what you want it's hair❤
Nyapouch Makuach: I’m gonna get a relaxer soon too, I’m so sick of dealing with the curls lol
Cheong-San The Baddest: i have been natural for 6 months and seriously considering relaxing it again. i thought i was doing the right thing by going natural. but i just feel so sad when i look in the mirror and see this mess on my head. i can't do nothing with it lol. idk what to do anymore
Ell: You’re beautyyyyyyy. Thank you for helping me make my decision ❤️
Brittany Blabber: This is like a 8th grade flash back for me lol, a relaxer and hair lotion
Ciara J: Lol I really like her. She’s so entertaining.
Just_ Ash_: Girl I’m thinking about relaxing my hair too...every time I try doing my hair it hurts and on top of that I always get a headache, I’m lowkey scared lol but oh well.
Ambitious Missy: I lowkey be wanting to relax my hair, but baybayyyyyy, when I do my wash and go, and then curls be popping, I can’t, I just can’t
Africia Wright: ‘If my hair falls out it falls out’ is a mood that I feel with my entire being.
Vernita Arty: How long was your hair bleached before relaxing it? I have 4a natural bleached hair and I want to get a relaxer for the first time in 3 years because I am tired but I'm scared of loosing my hair
Hazel Kazmo: You've made my day . That is is me. Natural is just not for everyone
Shanika Stephenson: My hair was actually tailbone length when it was relaxed I was natural for almost 10 years and my hair is still short im still natural but I like watching these videos
Michael Cartier: LOVE IT!
Oreoluwa: Oh goodness when you said your hair was bleached and you want to relax it I was like “ooo let’s see how this goes”
Latriva Johnson: The black parts of your hair got super straight I think it was the bleach that didn’t take very well, honestly I like both relaxed and natural hair and you look good either way
WannabeJenlisa: I’ve had relaxed hair for forever and natural black girls always judge me but honestly I like my hair better straight, I think it’s prettier on me and easier to manage. I tried natural for a couple years in highschool but I hated how much I had to take care of it and how long it would take to comb.
Sunshine B: I’m ready to relax my hair! I can’t do this nature stuff! Definitely not for me!
Nay Boo: I was natural for 4 yrs and I relaxed my hair 2mons ago ,because I got tired of my natural hair . I love my natural hair no doubt, but I just wanted to be able to put my hair in a bun easily will I be going back to my natural hair yes . I’m just having fun right now. My hair is still healthy. I’m taking care of it 10 time more then when I was natural because now it has chemical in it so I’m not playing no games .
Brittany C: I hate I have to look for videos like this. No one supports me relaxing my hair. I get tired of having to spend hours prepping my hair the night before and the next day after for a hairstyle . I wasn’t born with gifted hands and I get tired of going to the salon. 7 years natural here and I’m over it. So glad I found this video and you are absolutely beautiful
brttnyt: I've been natural for 5 year and I'm still not committed. I fondly remember my relaxed days.
Kberly Beauty: I think I’m gonna relax my 4c hair. I’ve never done it before.