Relaxing My Natural Hair After 2 Years: I Almost Lost It All
- Posted on 25 August, 2020
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- By Anonymous
yah! I'm finally relaxing my hair after 2 years, not gonna lie, i almost lost it all but we move!
who i'm i kidding? i was almost cried but in the end it all came out well...i guess.
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You guys, i am tired. Okay, i cannot do anymore. I can't look at me, i mean i'm sure you're wondering why is which auntie looking like? Why am i looking like a mad woman? Why do i look like someone slapped me straight to hell? You guys i'm tired this. This cannot be my life. Okay, i understand that people think natural hair is cute, and i understand that people appreciate it, especially when it's not on their head, like i've observed that the people who usually have the most opinion about what you should do with your hair are people who do not Have hair, who do not have that same hair texture as you you guys, i'm extremely tired when it comes to my hair, i suck at managing it, and it's been a while cut my hair like three years ago and um. I have not relaxed it since then, and it's becoming a nice meal. Anyway, you guys today i'm going to relax my hair. It'S been a long time. I'Ve been planning to do this for a while, but i was just like you know what it's still cute: let's, let's keep it. Why should you? No? It'S not cute anymore. Look at me! Looking like a madman. You guys it took yesterday for me to understand that i cannot do this. People say that natural hair is cute. People say that it's fun to have natural, hair, okay, and there was a time i thought it was fun to you, but i cannot do it anymore. Can'T okay, do you know how hard it is to wake up and be in a hurry? Okay, like you're, in a hurry to go somewhere in your head. Like this doing this, we've come out and mind you i'm pulling okay hats, but this hair does not do anything. It doesn't move, it doesn't speak. Let me give you a quick story, time. Okay, so yesterday i had to go out and um. I had already like removed my my cornrows from the previous day and i was like okay, you know what i'm gon na wear awake. So i was like. Let me just go to salon and get i got the money, not sure my hairdresser. She did not shrug because i don't have a hairdresser, she did not show them. Why you're not sure and the next one like. I would rather die than give him my money because she's tea to the word terrible, you guys so i came back home, had no class. I was like you know what i'm bougie, i'm classy. Okay, let me just salvage the situation pony. You know who hold you guys, it's all in there look. Do you see that look at me try to hold a pony? Okay, do you see it? Does it work? No, how now mind you when i take out my hair, usually i can actually hold a pony and um like there'll be excess, but as soon as i sleep on your leg as soon as water passes through it, that's it, it starts acting like it's mad. It'S not acting like it's crazy, so you guys should come with me to go relax my hair, so i can look like a lady. If my hair starts looking like a potato or like a pineapple or like anything, okay, don't laugh and disclaimer. I'M not trying to say that. But this i don't look like a lady, i'm not trying to see that whatever no do not relax your hair, i'm relaxing my hair because i feel like it's more suitable. This is what's suitable, for me, doesn't mean it's suitable for you, but that doesn't also mean that it should come insult to me or say things like. Let'S be respectful, let's be responsible. That being said, i'm gon na head out. Okay, i'm leaving i'm gon na come here. Oh sorry, all right, i didn't say goodbye. You guys i'd even take my bath this morning. Okay, this was see i dreamt about this. I woke up thinking about this. I have to come in. I had to do this video i didn't take mine. I'Ve been taking my bath, yet that's how bad it is so i'm gon na take a bath and then other uber, and then let's see how it goes. I know you guys see my wig today, it's waiting for me. I don't know why my camera keeps going on and off. I think i have to watch some youtube settings for it, but i'm on my way to the salon to relax my hair, like i said i did not even become airport, i'm not gon na die. I did. I didn't feel like dressing up and all those things. So this is how i look i'll show you these things, but basically we're on our way so we'll see. So this is usually where i come and do my hair, but i think i don't know what's happening. They'Re no longer here, okay, okay, cheese, sauce blood, jay, jesus jesus, like i bleached it like a long time yeah. Why are you running not this place? I'M listening is it funny love is is, is cheers. It was at this moment that he knew he [ __ ] up it. Is it literally cuts right like rubber, yeah um? I look like a rat's feeling. What'S that touch me stand back and the scent is from the streets. You know the word. The saints everything is there i don't know, i didn't think it was bad, i'm just asking that since it's already breaking, i just i'm just asking that one to make it worse - oh my god. Ah, ah, okay, so this is the final product, so it ended in series right guys. So i'm back home, my hair still breaks when i comb it out, but apparently with treatment, it might be okay, it would be okay, now, first things. First, the first thing i think i should tell you guys - is that always listen to your honest things. I feel like i keep saying this, but i don't listen to mine. So when we got to the police, we realized that the place i usually do, my hair, which is where i actually went and um dyed my hair, a while back and stuff like that they were not open. I think they've moved or something, and there was no sign to see that they moved or anything of that, so the place was just closed and then out of nowhere. I started like there was another salon right next to it. In the beginning, i thought it was just them that had moved to a different place because, like a different store on the same building, because we're probably trying to renovate or something but we walked in and then everyone looked different. So i asked and apparently they are new there now that being said first, they said my hair was. They said it was going to cost 45 cities 45. So this was just like nine dollars. I think i said it was going to cost 45 cities and then i was like okay cool, like that's nice and then once we were doing it once we started. I think there's a footage. I'Ll show you guys, but once we started and everything you guys, they suddenly said: oh they'll be taking 35 and they were taking 48. It was like in 55, they were taking 55 sellers instead of the 45. They told me originally like. Why do ghanaians always do this? You saw my hair, i came with the natural hair, you saw it and i told you i was about to relax for the first time, and you said yes, this is how we take. So it was with the changing of figures. All of a sudden anyway, i did not complain. So i was like okay, fine, no problem, and then i accidentally had like something for sensitive skin, because my hair is like my scalp is sensitive and i'm doing it for the first time and then they said they only had one relaxer, which is an olive oil. Relaxer, but they said it's very good, even for sensitive skin and for non-sensitive skin, at least that's what she told me. So it was now time for us to go into the d. It was time for us to relax it right as much as the convenient house. She realized that, like things were coming out of it, i didn't. I did see that the first one she did i felt like she was hiding. It was like she just like quickly kept it there and then did again. You know like that kind of thing, and she asked did you bleach your hair recently because, like it keeps coming off anyway? I did it like about a year where i have to check the video, but like almost a year ago i dyed my hair and um. That was what i told i was like. It'S been a while, like i reset and apparently by now, my hair is good to go. That'S why i'm relaxing it so, okay, yeah anyway. This is not what i was going for at all right now. I just look like. Maybe there should be the chamber, though i relaxed my hair, and this happened, those of you that i was saying that you should mind your business. Please don't mind your business like i actually rewrite my action like. I really regret it right now. A part of me is asking me why i did this like. Couldn'T you have just been patient? That'S why i keep telling myself i'm really upset right now, partly because i lost the hair and um. I don't like how i look right now either. So that's something um if this is the first time welcome, and i'm sorry that i look like this normally i look better okay. Let'S pretend that i look better. Usually, i look better okay, so if this is your first time, i'm sorry that i look like this feel free to watch. Other videos and um do not subscribe to hit. The subscribe button is absolutely free and um i'll see you in my next video. Okay, you guys um. These vlogs are not my thing i feel like whenever i try to vlog something like this happens and um yeah until next time, bye, bye, god, damn it what the [ __ ]. What was i thinking?
Comments
Samira Rufai: It's been over a year since i almost lost all my hair. here is an update https://youtu.be/FonjMnIJUDs
Alexandria L.: Everything that could be done wrong, SHE DID WRONG
Truly Yours: What hurts the most is that nonchalant, shameless attitude they have about completely destroying a woman's hair. She looks so unaware of how she ruined everything. Disgusting!!
Melissa Ruffin: After being natural for 5 years, I decided to relax my hair because I was frustrated dealing with the tightly tangled coils. 5 minutes after the relaxer, I instantly regretted it, my hair is already thin so when I relaxed it, it was so flat and lifeless compared to my previous big textured hair. I would've been better off getting a silk press or something. Well I never put another chemical in my hair after that day and started over again. Now I'm 10 years natural. Some hair types just don't do well with relaxers and mine is one of them.
Radiant Shay: Damn. She came out looking like the girl in school who's always trying to fight everybody
Cintia Mendes: Most hairdressers in Africa don’t even go to cosmetology school ,they think that just because they know how to braid that it makes them a professional automatically
PIXIE Mmako: Okay, I'm convinced. I'm never relaxing my hair. When I'm tired, I'll braid. Wow thanks
Sue: I loved your sense of humor throughout all of this, I would've been crying. Regardless, you are beautiful and so is your natural hair!!!
T. J.: Seeing this makes me appreciate being natural all the more!
Idowu Ajayi: My hair's natural now, but this is literally what my hair used to look like whenever I relaxed it back then. Now I realize that my hair's not thin, the stylists were just doing a horrible job on me.
Ashley Hanna: That “stylist” has me furious at the utter lack of professionalism and care that she destroyed your hair. As someone who is a licensed cosmetologist, I don’t do relaxers because honestly it scares me to potentially ruin someone’s hair but even though I don’t do them even I knew this was not a professional
Jo-Ann Mahaka: The majority of African hairdressers are like this. Not even going to pretend, I’d rather ruin my own hair than pay for someone who is probably less educated about hair than I am to make me live in regret. Nah fam!!!! Not I!
Amanda Onunze: Am I the only one who didn't think she looked crazy in the intro? That looked pretty normal to me
Gwen Peterson: I know it's been a while since this was posted but my heart goes out to you. As naturals, we have this moment where we are completely done especially us tightly coiled girls. I remember the days when I had a nice wrap and sometimes long for it. I believe experiences like yours, are the reason why most of us went natural; not because it was so much healthier or freedom, but we were tired of paying stylists our hard-earned coins to tear up our hair. I'm not saying this stylist is money hungry, however, she could benefit from some retraining. You had virgin hair and she didn't bother to section it at all. She didn't apply the relaxer properly leading to your hair overprocessing and causing breakage. The minute she saw it breaking she should not have used any more direct heat. A nice roller set and wrap would've been much better. I hope your hair has since recovered and if all else fails, a nice wig or a hat will always do the trick :-)
Amara Simmons: You better learn how to love an take care of your natural hair. I’ve been natural since 2013... I went through the awkward length phase an everything... in 2021 my hair is literally down my back! Long, thick an natural
AYANA HARPER: Girlll! Let me just say, I FEEL YOU! And the SAME thing happened to me last week! I regret it ! I lost 40% my hair! Fell out in clumps in my hands in the shower!! The relaxer was on for only 5 minutes because I was scared and it fell out! I grew it for 3 years and I truest REGRET it! I wish I wld have just went to a salon for curly hair because my hair looks awful now - my hair was matted like yours and didn’t move so I relaxed it— worst decision ever! Idk what to do I’m trying to figure out this hair now… what’s left of it really !
QUINNITTA LINDSAY: As a cosmetologist, she should have first did a strand test. Second she should have NEVER combed your hair root to tip while it’s processing and she should have Detangled it before she started. Then she put all that heat to it!!! Horrible job smh
HappyMomma412: Ohmygosh!! I can't right now! Like, I can barely get through your video because you are so lovely and hilarious!! Also, I am going through this same thing. Peace and love to you and your loved ones! I will now go and watch the rest of this video, no matter the emotions that come through.
netashawnmarr: I feel you on so many levels! I have two daughters that have your hair type. I think about relaxing it every time I comb their hair. You last comment before you cut off the camera was said by your soul. Love you girl. Keep blogging
Alessa Dolan: I had the same problem, my mom really wanted me to relax my hair in a salon for once it it completely got bad in a dime. I had to cut my hair in a few weeks cause my hair was to damaged. I’m growing my hair back now to 4c and no more relaxing no more, it grew alot but 4c hair is so hard lol. Wish me luck on this
Willow Starr: This is why I do my own hair. Relaxers can be safely applied without damaging your hair.
Original Lakeisha: My hair was little longer when I relax it never regretted the decision. But when relaxer is properly applied u really enjoy the new texture. Sorry for your bad experience
Rainbow Cotton: Natural hair shrinks about 75% of its actual size, it's a sign of how healthy it is. Our hair is very very coily so it shrinks down, which is why if I want to do a high puff or a pony tail, I'll sleep in bantu knots after carefully detangling with some leave in conditioner and a comb so I wake up with my hair stretched to its maximum. xoxo Hope this helps you in future
2ndActCic: OMG, the first 5 minutes, pure comedy. I've never seen a hairdresser do EVERYTHING wrong. I would have got up as soon as she started applying the relaxer with fingers and just bought some neutralizing shampoo and rinsed out myself.
Cortney Lassiter: Keep it up in a style that’s Retention friendly next time for a year and I promise you’ll love it! You got it girl
SIMONE CAULKER: Girls!!! Be confident to speak up! YOU are the paying customer. Speak out on every step the hairdresser does if you are watching and thinking what you doing?! Girl, thank you for sharing this as this takes some hits to share. About she change the fee half way doing hair!! KMT! Sending you love and I look forward to seeing how your hair is doing now Xx
Rynne Carnivora: This woman actually did the right thing and got her first relaxer done professional But those ladies utterly failed her Im so mad at them for you sis
Charvi Kennedy: I did not know I was going to laugh this hard at your pain. I am sooooo sorry that this has happened to to you though but IT WILL GROW BACK QUEEN!!!! Our best hair is from our past mistakes
S. P.: I had this happen to me two years ago. I finally got my hair back I vow to never let anyone in my head ever again
Ashley Marie Coleman: Girl it’s been real watching you get your hair done and I truly understand that’s why I put braids in and throw on a wig!
Nomfundo Molefe: Never make a decision during your awkward lenght crisis (similar to midlife crisis)
stellan read: I've never seen someone that has my struggle before like ever I seriously get this woman She's on point When I takeout a protective style and my hair is stretched,as soon as a drop of water touches it or I sleep till the next day, it won't be able to do what It could do the previous day for nothing!
Jessica B.: Girl how did you find this lady?! Literally EVERYTHING she did was so wrong! EVERYTHING!
S D: I was this stressed out yesterday about my hair and just wanted to relax it but I didn't. I flat ironed it and I'm loving the look.
Aura Luxury hair: i havent relaxed my hair since grade school, ive cut my hair numerous times from bleach to heat damage & i knew that comb was death! the stylist did so many things wrong. & sometimes its hard for the client to speak up, you want to trust the stylist knows what they are doing. im so sorry that happened to you!!
Lia Medeiros: Está muito linda amei seu cabelo❤
Kim Martinez: I could stop laughing with the editing of the video. I understand the struggle but I will be staying natural. Love you video.
Stephany Feliciano: I relax my own hair no breakage at all looks amazing feels amazing :)
Shay-Shay: I feel this way every time I get my hair relaxed. The only reason I still have is my texture. You can tell your hair is of a softer nature.
Kee B: Four passes of the straightener on freshly over processed relaxed hair. FOUR PASSES
Tanya Davis: Because of more bad than good experiences with Africans when it came to individuals, or Jamaicans when it came to braids, or Dominicans when it came to straightening, I decided to go natural and just do it myself no matter what. It took a while to learn my hair and know what it responds too but I did and now it's longer now than it's ever been. I am also not at the mercy of a stylist when I can't get to one or don't have the money. I feel you and went through what you're goin through and "this too shall pass" and you start over. That's the great thing about hair. You're beautiful.
Little Boots: Oh wow. I can relate, especially that nervous laughter, you can almost hear the hysteria its masking. I had my hair broken off after a disastrous bleaching. I remember feeling intense heat and touching the plastic cap I realised it was melting. Yes. Melting! My hair was like yours, stretchy like bubblegum when wet. When it dried it went like straw and I lost about half of it. She should never have agreed to touch it. It was died black and I asked to go blonde and she wasnt even a colour technician, couldnt even cut well tbh. My mother was FURIOUS and had to pay £200 to get it fixed because it was so awful. On the plus side, it is just hair, nothing is forever and you are a very pretty girl. We live and learn!
rurounishein: Lmao that's why I relaxed my own hair. It took the whole day but girrrrrl this is why it was worth it
Tiende Elaine: You're so strong. To stay posed through it all.... I gotta chill ! I admire how posed you are. Your voice and mannerisms. I hope rhe hair is happy by now. It's just hair.. it grows back. ❤
Imani Annissa: Another lesson, never do a serious transition with a new stylist unless you know their work 100% or know someone who got their hair done. That goes for bleaching, perm, straightening all of that stuff
NiCole Sky: Customers need to Speak ALL the way up or literally get up & WALK AWAY when they feel like a Stylist isn’t doing their hair right. Don’t let them finish and hope & pray it’ll turn out okay. You know your hair better than they do.
Faiza Nganso: I just fell on this video because, I’m STRUGGLING with my natural hair too. I have never relaxed my hair, but I have a had time keeping a routine. The avocado mask and aloe Vera really works fit me and hydrate my hair, but it takes time, wish I don’t have. But, trust me girl, we have the same hair. When ever I shampoo my hair, at the end after conditioning, I put apple cider vinegar in a ball with water and I message my hair! It soften your hair, the I put oil and leave in conditioner and I twist it, then I’m good to go. Then... I just don’t know wgat to do on it next... I get lazy to do nice braids .
Adrianna Antonette: Your natural hair was gorgeous.
destiny oveto: My mom relaxed her natural hair and it was falling out so she had to cut it all off, but now she has her natural hair back, and im happy for her.
Anne Kiarie: Your patience and attitude towards this whole situation proves that you are a really good person
La_dweng: This happed to me for 4years now this is my third big chop I'm still learning about my natural hair but down the line I give in and same story I found out that protective style for 3months is actually good for me unlike other ppl cz honestly I hate doing my hair too relaxed or not my hair was much stronger cz my mom protected it buy doing African threading I put a lot of moisture for months then take it out after 1-3months wash stay a week to give my hair a break go back to protect styling
tummy kaneli: Giiirrrrl I've had the same kind of days with my hair but I never went through with relaxing...on a side note you have made my day
M J: I’ve personally been through this about 4 times in my lifetime. I’m 27 my hair grows fast thankfully but I’ve been to claimed “Professionals” in America who left me looking like a middle school bum. I wish I never paid them a single scent. That damage could’ve been achieved at home. With some styling and Pinterest motivation you will get through this ❤️
Flying Black Bird: You definitely turned a terrible experience into a hilarious video. I'm so sorry about your hair. I've had several dreams of waking up and perming my hair so I understand how frustrating it can be to manage natural hair.
Christa Nom: African hairdressers always blame the client when something goes wrong, ALWAYS
mae64: Girl your natural hair is beautiful ❤️ It does take time to learn how to manage it
Musclecore Y: This pisses me off cause she doesn’t even seem to care! Like hello, her hair is coming out the more you comb it!! You should be apologizing profusely right now!!!
Whitney Brown: I feel you. I permed my after 2 years. I got congestive heart failure after I had a heart attack. I would get tired after a bath and wash my hair. It’s easier for me to keep up now.
Rachel's video channel📽️: Awww sorry this happened to you. I did the same thing to myself in my own bathroom! I wanted to take out my own natural curls and I used a relaxer that I bought at Walgreens. The relaxer thinned my hair out so bad it fell out. To this day I fried my scalp so bad that my hair wont grow! My hair has been the same length for 2 years now.
Jessica Williams: Omg she did like 6 passes on fresh relaxed hair!!!!!! Who gave her a professional license?? She only damaged it more smh
Ilopablot: Im sorry for you girl! When I was a teenager I also had the same experience it still hauntsmr till this day btw your editing was so funny
Lola A: She just slapped the perm on with her hands omgggg she detangles it AFTER she put the perm in and then leaves it in for too long. Sis you could've done this yourself for free
Pixie Anne Marie: You are a beautiful soul inside & out. Bless you for sharing a terrible experience & being so brave throughout the whole process. I’ve experienced hair loss & a bad hair cut in the past. Thank you for sharing love to you
SimpleeKomplex: The fact that she found humor in an otherwise traumatic situation is commendable. I'm truly sorry this happened to you. Not to worry, hair isn't a limb. It'll grow back with patience and nurturing.
zelly smith: Your narration of the experience was really funny lol but putting that aside your hair will grow back and you can make better decisions moving forward. This was definitely a learning experience for you. Don't give up on your hair and I am sure you will eventually find what works for you ❤
Sha Amilli: You must choose a cosmetologist who went to school and qualified to handle chemicals in your hair and asks about your hair history beforehand. I had a couple terrible relaxer moments myself but from unqualified stylists who just do what they think is right. Cosmetologists and stylists are not the same at all! You can still have relaxed hair that is healthy as long as it’s not used improperly and destructively.
Annellyse Mathison: Been natural for 3 yrs and ive been saying that i need to blow out and trim my ends but i dont want anyone touching my hair♀️ or me losing my curls or my curl pattern changing. Right now when im tired of combing my hair i get faux locs in for 6 weeks but i wash my hair every 2 weeks for that period. Absolutely love my hair and would hate to be in a position where im gonna be really upset after all these years of growth and gotta restart.
Fafali Quashigah: this happened to me too, i bleached my hair and dyed it black but a year later i relaxed my hair. My hair also fell out but they also said it was because of the dye
Kee B: I haven’t had my hair done professionally in years and my hair has never been healthier. This is a reminder as to why I do my own hair. It’s been ten years since my last relaxer and 6 years since i put heat on my hair. I have no regrets.
S•Y•M•O•N•E: I’ve been relaxed free seem like for ever I can admit it’s been times where I wanted to get a relaxer but I realize how thick my hair is without it but at the shop you were so humble I would of lost it
Boo Chi: I'm two years natural and considering relaxing, but this cracked me up so much. I've never actually had growth issues when I was relaxed. I just like to cut my hair every once in awhile, stay natural for a bit and then relax it. I always use kiddie perm for my hair and none of that tiny comb through nonsense. That lady put your poor hair through a mortal combat fight and finished it.
Lauren Kirby: Honestly I love the fro look on you, your natural hair was beautiful!
Lisa Dejon: Thank you lord for letting me find your channel! You are so funny and I am obsessed. I got the creamy crack under the sink and I am so tempted.... 5 years natural and I soooooo tired
Joseph Harris: Honestly it's not even your fault, your stylist was so horrible. I can't believe how many crucial steps she missed. The fact that she didn't even think twice to be more cautious while she's on camera really speaks to her level of experience.
empresstina876: 1. You MUST comb out your before applying relaxer 2. Do not use a fine tooth comb to comb your hair while the relaxer is in. 3. I personally would never use a flat iron right after a relaxer ( when I use to perm it)
MsAchampion: I like it. There is nothing wrong with having a perm so long as you know how to care for your hair after that. Im also a cosmetologist. Now the stylist did the perm all wrong, however the end result was about the same.
Leopardmami: This happened to me today, I relaxed my hair myself and the ends kept coming off like paper but the roots were strong and yes, I have bleached hair.....I guess I blame it on my bleached hair
Marwa Regab: you were not looking like a mad woman you never have to alter your natural hair to feel more put together. i know this may sound like im just talking without knowing sh*t, but i know how difficult it is to manage natural coily hair and i empathise. i still hope you find the strength to keep it natural and healthy either via protective styles or wigs
Melissa: Def over processed smh that’s why I’d rather take the chance on doing it myself, and majority of the time it comes out great and I’m in love!!! Been coloring, bleaching, relaxing, cutting, and even shaving it for years!!! It’s short now by choice but I’m going to start letting it grow back out to a pixie cute and will continue to dye, bleach, trim my hair myself sorry not sorry
Fallon: This a damn shame, I wanted to cry for you. I’ve been natural for almost 10 years, my hair grows so fast and is down my back! I will never go back to relaxers or texturizers!
bunni bunni: Girl I just wanted to say your natural hair was beauuuuutiful x But hope you're happy whatever style you choose x
Natina Powell: Exactly why I relax my own hair!!
Tonya Garcia: I cringed when the "stylist" first sprayed olive oil sheen on your hairline instead of petroluem jelly. There were so many things your stylist did wrong. You could have done a better job on your own. Next time you are that unhappy with your hair, mist it with water, put a leave in conditioner on it, corn row it, put a wig on it, and wait for the crisis to pass. The sun will come up in the morning .
M P: Seriously, my short natural hair stress me the F.... out!!!! I feel you girl.
Lonnie: Just for next time. Remember you should always disclose what you've done to your hair. You've figured out what happens when you relax color processed hair. Henna will cause the bleach to hit exponentially and burn and smoke. People have had their hair completely smoke and melt off. It also turns hair green. It is important to tell so they can advise you properly. Bleaching a year ago is no different than a few days ago. You compromised the structure if the hair. It will never go back. Relaxer cannot be overlapped on bleached hair. You have to bleach relaxed hair. That's why you were left with about 6 inches of hair. That's 1 year of virgin untreated hair. The rest sloughed off because of the chemical reaction.
Angel Hearon: I’ve always told myself that no one really has bad or unmanageable hair you just have to do trial and errors with your hair and what works best with it
I'm Angelina You Jennifer: The pain girl i feel you
Lady Sydoni: I will say this, have relaxed hair isn't bad, u just gotta know how to take care of it. Having braids in can irritate the scalp for some people, so she'll be fine once she treats it. 4c hair can be hard to manage
olhar de lince: Amei o vídeo! Toda vez que me der vontade de fazer merda no cabelo eu vou assistir esse video antes ! Ja salvei ele , inclusive. Obrigada !
Girl Boss: So sorry you had to go through this horrible experience Regular treatment could help but I’m also in Ghana and whenever you need to do this again, let me know and I can hook you up with my stylist who’s very good!
Bettye Opoku: I remember once I went to the salon to get a relaxer and after the relaxer I told the hairdresser to put the hooded dryer on low heat. She started grumbling but she put it on low heat. I sat under the dryer for sometime and had to visit the washroom. When I came back and sat under the dryer, it felt hotter. Unknowingly, the hairdresser had switched the setting from low to high without telling me anything and because I was freshly relaxed, the heat irritated my scalp. After that incident I have never set a foot inside that salon. Most Ghanaian hairdressers don't know what they are doing. They think that once you know how to braid, that's it. Sorry though sis. I feel you
Latara Siradze: The natural hair is a journey you have to mentally be ready for, you don’t have to rush it, go at your own pace. Self discovery takes time, especially within the rational world we live in. It took me 8 years after my last perm to start loving myself. I’m now 21.
Latisha Nope: Your natural hair is actually really beautiful. It looks nourished. I think you should have just gotten braids or twists. That way your hair would be protected while it grows and you wouldn't be so stressed out. Be safe.
Harlow Blackadder: This happened to me when I was going blonde (from virgin hair)...it started burning my scalp, and the hair started breaking off in the comb...and in the sink...and during blow dry. I SHOULD HAVE RAN SCREAMING TO THE SINK AND WASHED IT OFF MYSELF!!! It started breaking off at the scalp for months after. It took 2 years for me to grow it back into a little bob (from mid back length) I SYMPATHIZE AND FEEL FOR YOU!!!!
Maryg Angelina: She’s funny asf . I’m going through the same thing oh my sister !
Oretha Dambaza: This video introduced me to your channel and ive been binging on your videos since and here i am watching it again and I'm still laughing haha it ended it tears...
c c: Never comb while relaxing. First sign of breakage it should have been rinsed and neutralized and deep conditioned. Suggested style should have been a wet set to reduce manipulation and heat. Protein treatments, deep conditioning low/no heat and trimming ends should help your hair over time.
Kamilla Tagliaferri: OMG why didn’t she neutralize it or do a treatment? She went straight to putting heat on the hair. ♀️ When I relaxe my hair I wait about 3 days to put heat on it.
Keisha Thompson: Never make serious decisions about your hair when you’re emotional, more than likely it will end up disastrous.
Brillancefasho: You are a very pretty girl . Your hair looked good despite losing some of it. I just put a perm in my natural hair. I did it myself. I used smart perm regular ,no lye relaxer. It was very drying to my hair. Barely came out straight. I had to flat iron it using LOTS of heat protectant. My natural hair was medium length and when I straightened my hair it came out almost shoulder length. In the end I grew to love it. Your hair came out way straighter than mine though. I enjoyed your video . Have a great day.