Ww Put In Her Place After Saying This To A Bw | Jenny O
- Posted on 30 July, 2022
- Pixie
- By Anonymous
WW Put In Her Place After Saying This To A BW | Jenny O
Hello Beautiful People, hope you are doing well.
In today’s video, we are going to be talking about this white Girl that is getting lots of backlash for saying This to a BW and Her Daughter .
These reactions are both funny and educational.
I hope you enjoy watching this video as I enjoyed making it.
*Credit to the Tiktokers In this video ❤️
Hey guys, check out my new channel for more fun behind the scenes.
Please do your girl a solid by watching. And please don’t forget to like • share and subscribe I’ll highly appreciated it.
JENNY O... FRESH AND NATURAL MAKEUP LOOK... FLAWLESS EVERYDAY MAKEUP ROUTINE and it’s really really detailed. I hope you enjoy watching as I enjoys Filming it.
https://youtube.com/channel/UCd7Ea4Vk8...
_____________________________________________
#Tiktok #JennyO
_____________________________________________
Like • Share and subscribe if you like this video...
And leave your comments down below
DIY Nails Design: https://youtu.be/6rtFikdwLM0
❤️FOR BUSINESS INFO ❤️
OR VIDEO IDEA
⤵️⤵️⤵️⤵️⤵️
Instagram: The Jenny O
Email: [email protected]
Thank you so much for watching
XOXO
What'S up beautiful people, it's your girl, jenny! Oh! How are you all doing? I hope you all are doing amazingly well, so guys in today's video. We are going to be talking about this white girl that got pretty upset like pretty angry, that a black mom is praising uplifting, acknowledging her daughter's beauty through a song. I still cannot wrap my head around it y'all. I still cannot wrap my head around it, so i thought i'd bring it to you guys, big as well, why not so don't forget to like share subscribe? If you haven't already turn on your notification bell, so you'll be notified anytime. I upload a new video and with that being said, let's get into it my beautiful little brown girls. Please know that you are strong like telling our girls that they're, beautiful and um, you know affirmations for them and um. You know making sure they know their worth and everything, but at the same time, can you imagine if we had a song that we were making videos to? That said, beautiful little white girls - and i'm am i the only one i might i should i might be the only one i don't know, but i'm just saying it just seems a little hypocritical, very questionable and it's teaching our kids wrong. No matter what color, you are little girl, you're beautiful yeah, that is it for the video y'all that, like i, have a question because she said she is all for you know: mothers uplifting their kids and you know telling them their worth, and then she went ahead To say that we should imagine if they had a song that says to all my beautiful white girls, honey y'all, don't need a song, you y'all, don't need a song. You want to know why? Because you are already everywhere. Whiteness is already the standard. What song? What song are you talking about, plus? Why are you so pained that a mom is uplifting, her daughter? Why are you so pained, but yeah after she posted that video to tick tock, someone commented saying how unfair you know. It is for her to think that way, because black girls get bullied all the time for their skin tone and their hair, and this is what she had to say. I had to make a reply to this comment: real quick because um her making that video isn't necessarily what upset me. What kind of upset me well caught me off guard was that it's so okay to knowing that there are little white girls scrolling on this app to sit here and and post a video of of of that song to all my beautiful little black girls like like. I said before all of our girls are beautiful, so it's really not it's not necessary and she can. She can uplift her her black daughter in in private, like i'm not go, even if i'm in private, i'm not going to sit here and tell my daughter. Oh, your skin color is beautiful. Her skin color has nothing to do with who the hell she is, and your kids shouldn't either just saying i i am speechless what what what did i just hear? I, oh my god, i ca i told y'all from the beginning. I cannot wrap my head around this because she said that the part that kind of got her upset that she didn't expected is the fact that the mom posted that video to tick tock, knowing fully well that you know little white girls are scrolling through the app And they will see it what they should see it already. They should, as a matter of fact, this should be streamed by the media, not just tick-tock. The whole world should see it because i don't understand how you can sit there and be mad, that a mom is uplifting, her black daughter, her. What and as if that was not enough. You had to say that she should praise her daughter in private. No, no, the audacity d or audacity like what you want her to hide. Her daughter praise her in secret in private. Just so you can be comfortable girl, bye, good bye. No, i cannot wrap my head around this y'all. I can't hmm hey guys so listen! I just want to make this video because i did make a video the other day, um, there's a mom doing her little girl's hair, a black mom, doing her little girl's, hair, um mixed little girl and um. The song that was playing in the background says to all my beautiful little brown girls. Please know that you are strong enough to take on the world or something like that. Um i made a video a stitch to it, saying you know, i'm all for giving our girls compliments and affirmations and making sure they know their worth and things like that. But at the same time, could you imagine if we had a song saying to all my beautiful little white girls like really honestly, could you imagine, could you imagine and we're always told that we don't have culture? Well, guess what i'm not even white. I look white, but i'm not i'm spanish, because i'm portuguese, but that's besides the matter. You never know what race somebody nope yep. She said that you heard it loud and clear: she's spanish, because she's portuguese who's going to tell her who is going to tell her that race and ethnicity are two different things: who's gon na tell her but yeah. Let'S see what other people have to say, y'all, let's see what other people have to say. Black girls like, like i said before, all of our girls are beautiful. I am so sick and tired of this all [ __ ]. We said black lives matter and then y'all had to come and say all lives matter. We go out and say that 4c hair is beautiful. You go out of your way to be like all. Hair is beautiful, and now that we're complimenting and uplifting our black little girls and saying that they're beautiful you have to come in and say all again shut up. Why do you all have to keep opening your mouth every time, a black person's having a good time? Every time a black person is having a good time and having their moment there has to be some random white woman that looks like she hasn't washed her hair and four days saying something about it. You need to take down this video. You are embarrassing yourself. Stop you imagine if we had a song sing to all my beautiful little white girls see. This is one of those instances where you listen to your recording back and you go bad. Take don't post that because, yes, all women are beautiful, we are far superior and we need more representation in politics and in leadership and in movies everywhere. But out of all women, which group has been oppressed, the least which group has used the oppression of other women for their benefit for centuries. You miss me with this all [ __ ], because we don't have to talk about everyone to represent and talk about. The inconsistencies for some a song talking to a little black girl has nothing to [. __ ] do with you and it doesn't mean [ __ ] for little white girls. They have plenty of songs for them and, if anything, it teaches them love and respect and empathy for all women grow up. Could you imagine if we had a song sing to my beautiful little white girl, so that would be every song every doll. Every tv character has been appreciating white girls. So i'm not understanding your question. You act like the appreciation of white people or the glorifying of white people have not been the consistent story for the past decades and decades and decades. The problem with your video is that you should be asking: why aren't there more songs like this, so black and brown children feel that they're seen and this invisible? That should be a real question. You know the fact that a lot of people are always saying things like black people are holding on to the past. Not everything is about race. Y'All should let it go. It happened ages ago. Already, it's not that serious. It pisses me off. You want to know why, because not everything is about race, not everything is about race, but here you are making a mother and daughter moment. You know where they are expressing empowering celebrating loving each other. You are making it about race, y'all make it about race. All the time, but when when, when black people try to talk about race, you say: oh, you are making it about race all the time it already happened in the past. You should let it go. It'S not that serious, it's not always about race. But what are you doing? What are you doing because um her making that video isn't necessarily what upset me? No, what bothered you is the fact that you didn't mind the business that pays you. You took a moment where a black mother was bonded with her black daughter, using a song celebrating the beauty of little black girls and made it about you. Do you understand that this is called a scroll? You don't like something you scroll, but no. You had to put yourself center yourself in the middle of that some shitty. You ain't got nothing to do with when you could have walked your ass on and found something to do, instead of antagonizing, a black mother and her black daughter. Again, it wasn't about you. Becky, let's unpack this for a moment, shall we a black mother, telling her black child to be proud of her skin is absolutely none of your business. Absolutely none of your business. However, you teaching your child that all skin is beautiful. Is your business but just know there is no singular culture attached to white skin outside of white supremacy, because a long time ago, when this continent was colonized, the white people that are around today banded together and abandoned their cultures for the sake of whiteness. So if you're telling your child to be proud of her white skin, you are telling her to be proud of white supremacy, because that is the only thing tied to white skin itself. The reason you're feeling so victimized in the face of a black mother telling her black child to be proud of her skin is because you think attention is like a pie, and if a black mother is praising her black child and that attention isn't on you anymore, Then she must be taking something from you. That'S what that feeling is rooted in, but i'm here to tell you that. The only thing that was taken from you is what your ancestors abandoned and i think it is absolutely necessary to reclaim those cultures, and i think that going forward any criticism you have of someone who is not in your culture, you keep it to yourself, because the Things you say are harmful: they are harmful to marginalized people, especially because it's coming from your mouth because of your skin color. I hope that helps she can uplift her her black daughter in in private. So you say it should be done in private and reason being is to not make white people feel uncomfortable. That'S the only reason why you're saying that, but imagine how we have felt for hundreds of years where whiteness has been the beauty standard set and we have been made fun of picked on for our our hair texture, our hair color, our eye color, our skin color. The way we wear our hair, everything has been scrutinized from the time that we're little girls um. This is a very color society. Anti-Blackness is worldwide. This is generational trauma that we're trying to heal by ingraining into small children as of a very young age, that black is beautiful. This is us healing generations that told us that we weren't, so this is not to knock down any other demographic. This is just basically showing that white isn't the standard yo, if only i can play the video here for you guys, if only because i i don't know i might get a copyright strike because of the song, but really, if only i could play the video here. You need to see the smile that was on this little girl's face when her mom was dancing to this song to her and then this out of nowhere, nobody, nobody, you had to come and make it about you you how? How does a mom and a daughter's bonding moment? How does it concern you? How does it concern you, you couldn't leave it alone. You could not leave it alone. Could you imagine if we had a song saying to my beautiful little white girl, hey girl, bestie little white girls and i'm a mother of a little white girl and a little white boy? The thing is they don't need a song to uplift them and feel represented? Have you seen the world that we live in? Have you seen society in north america, white people have enough representation. We don't need songs specifically for us, because everything historically has been for us. Have you ever seen a white child cry because they're watching a movie and see someone that looks like them in the movie, because they've never seen that before and it's such a huge deal to them that even as a child, they cry because they recognize that representation. Don'T get me wrong when i say we i'm referring to myself and other white people. I won't speak on. If you are a white person or not that's not my place, you said you're, not that's fine. We won't get into privileges and things, but if these are your views and you're going to be so wrong, but so loud, you still need to educate yourself on white fragility, history, how to be a better ally to people that need allies if you're gon na be Loud at least make an attempt to be right: listen to the people who you're speaking about because, regardless of your race, that is not your place. You don't get to tell people that it's not okay for little black girls to have their own song, because as much as you think that your opinion is valid because it's loud, it's not and it's harmful, it's very harmful. Otherwise i wouldn't be making this video right. Now so educate yourself, please and thank you or be quiet. Could you imagine if we had a song sing to my beautiful little white girl? Okay, you saw a video about blackness catered to blackness with blackness, and you inserted yourself. Then, when you got backlash, we are the ones that have to stop talking about white people. Hmm, they are pushing skin bleaching in what communities fair and lovely right. Okay, makeup companies are catering to who all right then she goes on to say i'm not even white, but you said if we had a song about white girls at this point, i think it is physically impossible for y'all to mind your business. It has to be it has to be. There has to be some reason why y'all can't mind your business and drink water. I don't get it. This commenter just made a valid point and i can confirm it. She just. I am a makeup lover if, if y'all know me, please go check my vlog channel, you know so you can get to know me better, but that's not that's not the case. I am a makeup lover and finding my shade in foundation. Concealer, it's not an easy task. I can. I can bring my oh my. Oh my god. This is not a makeup tutorial video, but i am feeling the need to you know, bring my makeup here and show you guys how many foundation i have to buy before i could find something that doesn't completely match, but it's a bit close to my skin tone. So, yes, i can confirm what this commenter just said. So, let's move on, could you imagine if we had a song sing to my beautiful little white girl, i honestly could imagine it and i honestly think that white people should start making music to uplift white people. You know what i'm saying: black people ain't, the only ones that should have music to uplift, one another, we're not the only ones that should have it. Yes, you should. You should definitely make music to uplift little white girls on tick tock, especially since you seem to have a problem with black people uplifting little black girls on tick tock. I definitely think y'all should get y'all on music and make your own music to uplift. Your race of people, instead of downgrading us when we do it or trying to take our music when we want to uplift our people. Yes, please please, please, please, please, please make that song to uplift little white girls do it. She can uplift her her black daughter in in private. No, i will not uplift my daughter in private for your comfort. I will not do that because i don't know if you've realized, but racism is a rampant problem. It has not gone away, contrary to white belief. It has not gone away. White women have always been the beauty standard we get picked on for our hair, it being too poofy our skin being too dark or whatever, but you want me to uplift my daughter in private. What is wrong with you? What is wrong with you you're telling me that i need to walk out my front door every day and deal with the racism that's publicly out there in the world, but i'm supposed to take my daughter and uplift, her in the privacy of our home, never beautiful Her skin color has nothing to do with who the hell she is, and your kids shouldn't either you're right. It shouldn't matter, but that awkward moment when we live in a society where it does, and i really really want you and other people like you to stop using your children as weapons against black people, because, while you're so concerned about how they're going to feel about This song, have you stopped to think about how black children feel that they have to have a song in the first place, because racism and discrimination against black people are the reason these songs exist. We have to counteract the negative with positive and there's a lot of negative that our children face. So if you are that dog gone concerned about kids and how they're going to internalize things, why aren't you making a video about how you mad that we have to do things like this in the first place, because grown-ups don't know how to not discriminate against kids Grown-Ups can't see past skin complexion. Why are you not saying that say what it really is you don't like having conversations about race because it makes you uncomfortable, but we're not going to stop uplifting our children just because it makes you uncomfortable i'm going to need you to build a bridge and get Over a busy okay, like i can what y'all i looked at that video several times. I looked at that video several times and i don't see any reason why anybody would be mad except they're, racist, i'm just saying so i i don't know. Let me know what you think at the comment section below. Let me know what you think, because this is crazy, like what you had to make it all about you, you had to make it all about race. You had to little black girls are not represented enough. They should be everywhere everywhere. What and you talk about um. Oh, can you imagine if there is a there is already a song, even though y'all don't need it, because you're already represented and seen everywhere in in in movies and tv shows even kids movies, even kids shows you're already everywhere. Let'S not forget about what happened recently at sesame place that that was just recently. So what are you talking about white girls? Like really honestly, could you imagine girl that video is embarrassing? We need to take like several [ __ ] seats. There has never been a shortage of representation for little white girls in this country and not just this country. A lot of countries like we are just now, starting to see representation in kids, movies and tv shows, and things like that for little black and brown boys and girls. It not everything has to be about us, not everything, and i know your portuguese, you know i. I mean i get what you're saying we are just now raising a generation of children who are going to see themselves represented in toys on the shelves, and you know in makeup - and you know in movies and music and tv shows and that's okay, it's beautiful and It'S way: [ __, ] long overdue. Everything has been about white people for [, __, ] centuries, calm down to knowing that there are little white girls scrolling on this app now i know you did not get your amy winehouse wish edition behind on this beyonce's internet and say the little white girls have To scroll through this and hear beautiful brown girl, well, you know what they also have to scroll through to get there. Why power? What power, what power your little white girls are not in danger of feeling any type of way. I promise y'all have pretty much solidified that, but this also solidifies why y'all are dead weight anyway, you guys that is it for the video. Let me know what you think at the comment section below don't forget to like share subscribe. If you haven't already turn on your notification bell, so you'll be notified anytime. I upload a new video and with that being said, i will see y'all in my next one stay blessed and much love.
Comments
Caramel Delight: All these centuries yt women have been propped up as the “beauty standard” and you never hear them complaining then. Now all of sudden it’s not about them it’s an issue.
Samo : You don’t need a song telling white girls they are beautiful, they already have a world doing that.
Kayla D: Their egos can't be boosted if we're loving ourselves. How dare we?
KA: Boy there is just a SURPLUS of audacity oozing from this woman♀️
Jubilee: White women when Black women are called ugly: White women when Black women are called beautiful:
✨M Magic✨: The irony that she is talking about a song for little white girls but then tries to separate herself from being white while she addresses an imagined plight is beyond asinine!! ♀️
mvitvi 🌻: She really wanted to say: It annoys me seeing Black women and little Black girls on this app…appreciating their beauty. She wants to see us broken and downtrodden....She hates to see us happy ♀
Ayasha Yisra’el: The “we” is the problem, she included herself in something that wasn’t for her! It clearly says who it’s for… Beautiful little Brown girls!
Vee Bee: It’s the masked racism/CAUCASITY for me! When a house/ establishment is on fire you address that house before you address the rest of the block… smh and they call us ignorant ape’s
Nunook 55: Get in their feelings when they are not included in everything.
Corey Adonis: Some people can't take not being included especially when they are the ones who's making all the rules and the standards so when they see they're not included they get a little bit upset
Natalie McDonald: For 400 hundred years, we've been called the opposite everyday all day. That wasn't done in private. Little white girls need to see it and see these Black Princesses being loved, and treasured.
BKS: She's literally saying that based on her privilege you don't have permission to do that!
The Lilly: I keep telling y'all these people are obsessed with us and not even in a good way smh
Digimon Alvatrax2: Not their fault of her mom doesn't love her the way this mom loves her daughter ♀️♀️♀️
Leash C: I always tell my daughter she's beautiful everyday. Nothing wrong with uplifting your child. Edit:I don't want to hear her sing again. She's full of jealousy
Milk Kills: There's a bunch of songs made about white women and girls and their beauty. I googled songs about blue eyes and in 2 seconds I found an ARTICLE of the top 20 songs about blue eyes. That was just the top of the list. I didn't even google blonde hair or brown hair. They love to make it about themselves.
meika79: They don't understand how we can still have confidence and still instill confidence in our girls, because we are not the beauty standard. Black women in particular have a confidence that either inspires or enrages other women. We don't fit their beauty standard so we make our own and it truly bothers some of them.
Joanne Kempinski: It's really simple: if you don't like it, don't listen to it. I'm tired of "offended people." I'm only 1/4 AA and if there was a song like this when I was growing up, I would have loved myself more and avoided a lot of things I went through. We are told, when we are young, that we don't meet beauty standards...again, only a quarter and I still experienced that. Babies deserve love and should see videos of mamas singing love into them. Not her fault you're lacking. People sing about blonde hair and blue eyes all the time. There is no need to sing about white skin because it's already the "accepted standard."
Deborah Scott: Poor thing, she’s racist. Someone help to understand that she has issues with Black females because we’re beautiful. We have gone through so much but we’re still beautiful and strong. This mother has the right to tell her daughter that she’s beautiful, give me a break.
The RogueWriter: I’m not shocked because I understand the nature of who we are dealing with. #TheHandThatRockstheCradle
Angela Newman: I'm old enough to remember when there were only very few places black women could go to get cosmetics in our tones.
adell turner: Her: can you imagine having a song “to all my little white girls” Me: CMT got you covered
Brianna Richie: It's sad how we can never have anything nice. This women just wanted people to hear her terrible singing. She sat there and knew that if she did this it will get her exposure. Black women continue to live rent free in these fools mind and it's ridiculous.
Felicia Jenkins: They're always starting shit then whining about being bullied. She probably gets mad when it's someone else's birthday too.
edith Art: O so now we have to spare their feelings and not mention our color? I like how they are exposing themselves. I love it
Katherine Cattrell: She really thought she had a point she’s also Spanish because she’s Portuguese!!! makes no sense. Girl get a map
beautiful blacksoul: As an empath, I sense that this white girl just really wanted to sing this song and was mad that she'd have to say beautiful brown girl.
Chrisly Figaro: Wow are they really that scared of us black women loving themselves, I swear she just afraid since we’re training our little girls to love themselves at such a young age.
Ilaisaane Moala: If ignorance was a person smh
Vanessa Callahan: Main character syndrome. Not about you! When losing privilege feels like oppression. I think most little girls would understand the video even though you don’t. Girl stay in your lane. Why be racist when you can just be quiet? The dude-
Irene S: Mother singing about her daughter’s skin and how beautiful she is is not a bad thing. But what the lady in the video failed to realize is there a lots of singers that sing about blonde hair and blue eyes all the time which implies that the person that they’re saying about is white which is also saying wait is beautiful.
Zay s: Jealousy envy and hate be real out here they don't like seeing us uplift these blessings we call our kids
Black Girl Villain: This girl done went from mocking the song to holding a full tune and singing the whole line
HoneyBun-ni: They don't even need a song. Literally, they are the beauty standard, especially and MOSTLY from the male's POV. Blk women and girls are the ones who have to fight for their beauty and confidence while dealing with ppl's judgment even by their OWN RACE of men. This woman needs to realize that when she's feeling sad about herself, she's always reminded. LIKE, AIN'T THE STATUE OF LIBERTY A WHITE WOMAN, or am I wrong?!
Oh Really: They praise blonde hair, blue eyes and Snow White's milky skin that's as "white as snow....." ......ALL DAY LONG !! Why is she so triggered ?!?!
LeTTy: That’s why i rock dreadlocks and natural skin… and so does my 25 year old daughter. I’m going to represent our beautiful selves everyday. And I’ve taught my daughter the same. I’m not wearing your hair. I’m not bleaching my skin. I will and always love who i am and how incredibly beautiful we are
real_abiola: She’s too old to not know the difference between race and nationality. Also someone should have reminded her that the Portuguese she’s claiming were neck deep in the colonization and slave trade that resulted in all of this.
Chiinx_ Xo: *"Black TRUTH over yt FEELINGS" -make this your goal to avenge our ancestors&teach our children the true reality of this world...we have to stop caring how they feel when all we are saying over and over and over and over again is simple nothing but the TRUTH....Tell the TRUTH for one day it shall set your FREE ! never stop my Queens&Kings our time is coming <3*
F.A.H.: Little white girls haven't been told they're not beautiful but little black girls have been. And our children's mere existence is taught to be a negative. So yes, we do whatever it takes to let our children know that they are beautiful.
STOHandmade Craft Spot: I have been dealing with issues like for years. I had to put a ww in her place because she inserted herself into my conversation with another black woman. Long story short, I told her to mind her business. I had enough of their meddling then and now. They do entirely too much. Real talk!
Sena: There’s nothing wrong with that mother reminding her daughter she’s beautiful because she is This girl is just insecure and wanted attention they hate when the attention isn’t on them for 3 seconds
Fayedra: The bleaching creams and relaxers pushed onto black women tell us all we need to know about who is the "standard" of beauty. Then they wonder why WE uplift each other. These yt women need to stop playing in our face .
T. Rene: There’s enough beauty promotion and PROPAGANDA for white little girls and white women. Yet all over society throughout centuries our women and babies have been taught that we’re not the standard of beauty. So we created our own lanes as black women to promote our beauty and teach our babies that BLACK GIRLS ARE BEAUTIFUL
animes399: The fact she repeated the same message 3 times in separate videos gives me the impression the black community were ignoring her and minding their own business. Desperate to get attention, provoke and obtain views for monetization she increased emphasis on what she considers inappropriate. Provoke a community long enough she was waiting for responses because she knows Black community always deliver with heat hence proving to herself we are 'Angry' and bitter. I wish the community will not answer her at all. Proving to them they mean nothing to us and make even more songs on the very thing they detest. (You never hear them bash songs and praises created by Native Americans, the Chinese community, or Indian songs from Bollywood do you? Nope just us. Because they know we get ticked off easily by the simplest of things that have meaning and are sentimental value to us. Small things that they will never understand.)
Willa DoesArt : Is is definitely the type of person that would say “All lives matter”.
kalisace: Gold looks phenomenal on you. Anyway YT ppl sticking their noses into our lives is a hourly headache.
Harmonymusiq the original one: As I sat here listening to the comments I could not believe how upset I was listening to pure ignorance on why Black people are constantly harassed on taking pride on loving yourself. I could have jumped through this phone and choked the Shyte out of it. #SayitloudIAmBlackandProud
kmac10027: this was an excellent video to listen too. lots of gems dropped in this one. thanks for sharing Jenny O ❤️
Lee cosey: We say black lives matter. They say all lives matter. We say little black girls are beautiful. They say all girls are beautiful. I think Casper the Friendly Ghost need to go to a tanning booth instead of worrying about what black people are saying
Mira M: If it wasn't for them⚪️ creating the concept of race and racism, this mother wouldn't feel the need to openly and publicly uplift her black daughters. But because of racism and colorism she needs to make it clear to her children that they are gorgeous regardless of what others have to say. In other word, blame your ancestors/decendants. This mother is doing the right thing. Why is it that you are minding her(black) business, I have yet to understand... somebody needs to tell Becky that she is not a victim.
Angela Williams: I LOVE THE BM WITH TGE BLACK NAILS! HE'S ALWAYS ON POINT! I JUST LOVE HIM!
S. Bedford: I’m curious on why these yt women that don’t understand our culture, never want to be educated on why a song like this even exist and why it was necessary for that mom to make that video.
Chaos Swa-ee-ty: My thing with them is, why they don't go where they are celebrated? We do. Everyone else does.
Jamedra A: As an adult, shopping in the toy aisle for a gift I was so excited and overwhelmed to see a variety of Black (barbie) dolls. I lined them up took a picture, & sent it to my mom with the message "remember when we couldn't even find ONE"
Sanchi San: Ok...so what about all the songs talking about blonde hair and blue eyes, SNOW WHITE skin, little white girls being told they're so beautiful they look like a little porcelain dolls and everyone knows when the term "raven haired beauty" is used they aren't talking about any kind of woman except a pale white woman with jet black hair. She needs to get over herself, like the rest of the world has. BTW, these are all examples I thought of in about 2 minutes. I cannot believe her own reality escapes her so thoroughly. ♀️ Probably because I've never been affored that option. ♀️
Got to get away: She’s angry a mother is telling her brown skin daughter she is beautiful. Instead she should be more worried about that fact that a mother has to do that in the first place. BW have always been told we are not beautiful and not desirable. I’ve heard so so many songs praising pale alabaster skin in all different types of music. Now she’s angry that there’s another standard of beauty ♀️
Shawn's Day*Off: J.O. u are cranking out the videos and I love it! All of your videos are teaching moments and have so much substance! Keep them coming Queen!
Pretty Wings: The fact that this woman doubled down on this bs is baffling to me ♀️
Make it make sense: I am Oprah in the color purple tired of everybody trying to tell us not to uplift ourselves bc it makes them hella uncomfortable. I am so glad she got read like a book, story, recipe and an equation. she should have kept this in her head .
debora floyd: WOW! The envy and shade!!!!!! Not to mention ignorance. She’s angry that no one believes the lies anymore! BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL, SOMETHING TO BE ENVIED!✊✊✊✊
Callie: The people that exclude the most want to be included the most. I'm sick of them.
edith Art: Her mother failed her, blame the blk men who uplift these women to the point where they can't take it if they are not the ones at the centre of attention. The fear of being replaced scares them
Tiffany Blaho: She knew exactly what she was doing. That's why she laughed when she started "singing" the song. She knows that saying stuff like this will get her views/make her go viral/get her fame for a few minutes. We have to stop acknowledging this bs. They want our attention, they want us to say something, we really need to start paying them dust.
Crisha Garcia: White people have been praised there whole damn lives to this day! Black women have been put down for everything. From the color of there skin to the texture of there hair. White girls are plastered EVERYWHERE! This why me and my mother argue about so many things. This is one of the reasons of many why we don't get along and why my father kept me with him. This is why my dad bought me black dolls to play with. From my Tiffany Taylor dolls to every other doll. Because my dad wanted me to know that my other sides were just as beautiful as the white side. I have 5 children and they all have different skin tones and different grades of hair. My oldest use to get teased about her hair because my baby had a mane of hair on her head. Nothing but tight curls and waves and I loved it. Yet my black grandma would talk about my daughter's hair left and right. As well as many others. Then when she would go to school kids would talk about her hair. I use to tell my daughter all the time how beautiful she was. This society makes it so hard even to this day. I swear people need to stop.
CurlyChemist: Truth is she was probably one of those yt girls all through school picking on little African American girls because of the very thing that is making her uncomfortable, and now as an adult she doesn't want to see herself in that mirror. But you know how that yt fragility is...
Tangel Myers: We need to tackle colorism next because we have people in our community doing the same thing white people do. Look at how some Black men treat their communities more needs to be done.
Lena M.: Ww have had, and still have, entire industries to tell them that they are “beautiful”. BW need laws passed to avoid discrimination for growing, and wearing, our hair as it naturally grows from our scalp.
Kathy Sanders: Once again.. she wants us to be silent so we will not take the spotlight. We have a voice and we are going to use it.. Either by reading it, or singing it. We are teaching our children to love themselves and to be strong. If she can't deal with that, go sit in the corner somewhere.
Michelle B2.: Interesting that her conversation isn’t about finding the beauty on a broader continuum within “her race”,/community since beauty is mainly exalted to women with blonde hair and blue eyes. And less frequently for brunettes and redheads who are usually depicted as less desirable, the side kick and 2nd choice. So, it’s clear that her knowledge of history is skewed if she or others are not familiar with centuries of people of color being told and marketed as not beautiful because of hair, features, body typing and skin, etc. Let people praise their children so they are confident and be their own judge of self when looking into a mirror & not needing someone else warped validation….
Didintle Mokale: "I'm not white, I'm Spanish because I'm Portuguese" bruh ♂️♂️♂️
Nita Rhodes: When "this is a topic I have no business commenting on" totally goes over one's head. The caucasity...
Shana Fondon: Lady at 24:07 told the truth ...she made me smile. She basically told it the way I'm seeing how black children are treated like and that ish needs to change. I want to uplift our black babies. Period.
Mai: They can’t stand not being the center of attention for 1 second
toni miller smith: This is a perfect example of GASLIGHTING....bless her heart. She is looking for something, and black women dont have it. Therapy is a thing. Poor baby.
getting up is everything: They never tell anyone else they can’t be proud of their culture or their skin color only Black people I’ve seen plenty of other cultures have pride within themselves no one ever says anything but when Black people do it it’s a problem
Ann Witter: They want everything to be about them. Stay in your lane and leave black people alone.
sjc04d: Can you imagine if a little white girl had her hair cut off in school because it was "distracting" or fired from a job because her hair is "innapropriate?" Our natural beauty has been disrespected on a level that she will never understand so we need this type of affirmation in our lives. If we don't tell our daughters who will? They need to hear it early and hear it often.
Carol Allain: They are so ridiculous! Ignore her, she is looking for clout, clicks and a recording contract! We need to stop giving trash our energy, attention and clicks
AARPMiss Me aka MissMe: My MEd thesis: Promoting Positive Self-Concept and High Self-Esteem in Children of African Descent Through the Teaching of the ABCs. If you all only knew the research out here. The Clark study has been replicated time and again with the SAME RESULTS. From the 50s to today, SAME results.
R*chelle: 🦋 YAH's daughter: I just want them to please tell us, why do they believe that we care about what they think about us? We DO NOT CARE!!! And wait, she definitely needs to check that CAUCASITY and WHYTE PRIVILEGE, thinking she can tell us how to uplift our children. And, exactly...they ALL need to see us uplifting and praising our children IN PUBLIC.
Chocolate Diva: She's probably one of those that ask "What about white history month?"
Connie Pinkston: I'm trying to understand why is she inserting herself about a mom uplifting her daughter like what is the problem nothing should be upsetting it's not even for you it was for her daughter who's brown skin and for her to have a rebuttal about what upset her is just unnecessary and it comes off jealous and unhappy and miserable
Angela Williams: I love what the Whyte girl who said she ( BLACK MOM) should praise her her beautiful Black daughters. Girl, you said it!
Her Scepter: She strikes me as one of those ww that date bm. She will be one of those who say nothing when bm bash bw on social media. Bw are missing out of the majority of ads and TV shows. This is not about the song, this is about ww getting knocked off their pedestal.
Starr Seun: "I'm Spanish because I'm Portuguese" tells me all I need to know about this woman. Spain and Portugal are two different countries, smh
Jude Dude: When she said “am I the only one?” I said out loud “yup you are”
grantu9: Ms. Jenny I love your giggles and laughs it's very contagious. ❤️
EN KEN: I used to think, when I read English poetry back in the day, IF I READ ANOTHER POEM ABOUT YET ANOTHER FLAXEN HAIRED BLUE EYED PERSON, I WILL SCREAM!. As we know, you ARE the standard! I wish I had a song like that sung to me when I was that age, I might have much better self image. I am so happy that our daughters can benefit from the beauty and uplifting feeling from this song made specifically for them. LADY, THIS ISN'T ABOUT YOU TODAY!
MOMA KOOLAID: JUST LEAVE US ALONE DAMMMM I don't understand why they can't just mind their business we need to start blocking them out thank queen stay up
Doris Johns: She's being ignorant asking a question like that
Chiinx_ Xo: *i really enjoyed this video and lass, yellow looks SOO good on you !!..."brown skin girl skin shine just like pearls" <3*
JH: Didn't her mom up lift her when she was a child? Maybe not coming from someone who doesn't want to see color
Halos and Horns Tarot: It's amazing how we get put down for our features. Our skin is "too dark" our hair is too this and our noses are too that. But when we uplift and love on the things other tell us are not beautiful ALLLLLL OFFF A SUDDDEEENNNNN it's a race thing a we shouldn't be saying that cause imagine if white people said it. BITCH WE AINT GOTTA IMAGINE SHIT, YALL LITERALLY ARE UPLIFTED AND CONSIDERED THE STANDARD OF BEAUTY. well not you cause you ain't all that but we ain't gotta imagine shit.
AnointedSong: As a child watching television in the 60's, it was rare to see Black people on TV unless it was the stereotypical buffoon they portrayed us as. The first Black person in a "normal" role I remember seeing was on the Dick Van Dyke show. It was Greg Morris, he was only on briefly for that 1 episode but it did my heart good. I can still remember how it felt. Then there was Capt. Uhura on Star Trek, she was beautiful. Then in 1968, Julia came on. She was a nurse with a son. An actual show where the lead was a Black woman and her child. That was one of my favorite shows. My Roger's actually had a Black man that played a police officer join him in putting his feet in the pool to cool off...something unheard of at that time. When my mother came home one day with that brown doll that you had to hold her hand and she would walk, I was over the moon! It was a doll that looked like me and i couldn't believe it. She's worried about little white girls not being represented?! My first stockings were "flesh-tone" and the flesh they were the tone of definitely didn't match the legs they were on. Fast forward to my oldest grandson being born and he was so handsomely dark.. Hershy chocolate special dark kinda dark. I knew that people would judge him on his color alone and I told him from birth how handsome he is, how beautiful his skin is. I had to plant that seed because i knew what awaited him in this society. His confidence never wavered. And I make sure all my grandkids know how special they are. She really needs a True American history lesson. But they will never understand or try too. Sorry for the long post, but this video just brought up sooo much.
Saphire: Wow she’s really trying to “All Lives Matter” the issue of beauty standards. Can’t make this ish up. ♀️
Janet Pollard: It took me 30 seconds to find one Lyrics Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene I'm begging of you please don't take my man Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene Please don't take him just because you can Your beauty is beyond compare With flaming locks of auburn hair With ivory skin and eyes of emerald green Your smile is like a breath of spring Your voice is soft like summer rain And I cannot compete with you Jolene
Weezy Jefferson: There's skinny WW wearing dental floss thongs all over TikTok doing literally nothing or maybe shaking their behind and their comments stay flooded from men and women of all ages and backgrounds telling them how beautiful they are. Also TikTok doesn't delete their videos when they're clearly near n.aked. In contrast, a BM can have on leggings and her video will get deleted if they're too tight. They are so annoyed by us yet they are constantly lurking our content. To even see that in her algorithm, she's in our business.
Tela James: It’s ironic that this is on tik tok a app where the most famous and well known people are mostly ww,a app where two bw made some of the most popular dances and got no recognition until people basically had to force it,a app where a bunch of wp took over the black history program to pretty much make it about themselves. I can go on and on little wgs can turn on the tv any day of the week or go on tik tok and see models that look like them,cheerleaders,superheroes/villains. Literally the most beautiful women in history according to most people was Marilyn Monroe and now apparently Kim k yet they feel like songs like this or literally anything that centers around bw is problematic if they can’t be included. The root of the problem is y songs like this and brown skin girls or even movements for bw or bp in gender have to be created until they can answer that they should have no problem with us finally putting ourselves in positive positions.
ᴺᵉʳᵈʸᴮˡᵃᶜᵏᴳᶦʳˡ: White girls be talked about all the time in songs. Bm rap about em. Their faces everywhere. They the preference. They are the definition of innocence and beautiful….im tired of their me too behinds. EVERYONE literally loves you. We have to know our skin is beautiful because we are told our skin is not. NOT you.