Girls Be Crazy.

That was it that was, that was the time i fought on the side of the highway. More of the story that i won't allow do not tolerate anybody taking you there don't give people that power over you, okay, what it do babies. My name is azayla shani, better known as millionaire nani on instagram and to die hey. We are just going to be doing a story time about the time that i was fighting on a highway. It'S a mess! If you check on my channel from like three years ago, i actually posted this story time before. So i am a lot more comfortable and i know how to articulate myself a little bit better than what i did a couple years ago. So i thought i would re-record it it'd make for a funny story, and i actually was just talking with an old friend about this whole party or whatever, and it was like you remember that i was like how could i forget. I posted a poll on my on my instagram. This is what the poll results look like. So, if you aren't following me on instagram, go ahead and make sure you're doing that. I love to connect with my subscribers there. So you guys can tell me the content. You want to see where you don't put our video: let's get the character straight now, i'm not going to name any name, because i'm not that type of person, especially because i got so many stories. People may or may not be in future stories, so we aren't going to even you know. I went to north carolina with this girl who, at the time, was my bestie and we are going to call bestie uh fiona we're going to call bestie fiona. Okay and the girl who i'm gon na insert the clip of her talking on the phone with fiona we're gon na call her ashley. Okay, if you happen to watch my old video, you can go ahead and do that here. I may not tell the story exactly the same, but in my old video fiona i was calling her bestie, but i was calling ashley ashley, so those people will line up. That'S really all you need to know backstory, so you can understand how we even got to this point. I'Ve been an entrepreneur working for myself pretty much since i graduated high school, i'm only just now, realizing everybody doesn't have the the courage to to follow their own path, so that alone has always brought me a lot of problems in my life. Okay. So at the time i was selling hair extensions and i had bought myself paid in cash, a nissan altima. It was red tinted windows, fully loaded. That was my baby. Okay, that car was my baby. I was 19 at the time i had a best friend fiona. Fiona was 23. now that should have been a red flag alone. Why is this 23 year old hanging out with me and i'm 19 years old, like? Where are your friends, but i've always thought? I was a lot more mature for my age, so you know i was like yes, sis i'm grown, she grown, we grown together was 23 and my friend ashley. She was having a nasty 19 lingerie party. Okay, i used to live in north carolina back years ago. In like high school, so i was like okay. This is great. We'Re gon na drive down for ashley's nasty 19 it'll, be a nice little road trip i'll, get to see my girls and i'm going to bring my current best friend we're going to bring fiona down there to meet her. It'S going to be a good! You know night weekend it shouldn't be no issues. I wouldn't even understand why it would be any issues whatever so um. I remember leading up to our trip like before we even had to leave. I was trying to do a lot of. I was trying to do a lot of stuff, despite the fact that i had just bought it and it was a new car and it was very reliable. I didn't want to take my older car to north carolina driving so yeah, so my so fiona had just got a brand new car. She was driving for lyft at the time and y'all remember like when this first came out when uber and lyft and all them was like letting people get cars like they were like renting people, cars in exchange to drive, lift whatever she did that. So she had offered to drive, she had offered her car. She was like yeah, we can take my car, so i'm like great now i don't have to worry about my car, we're like running around and i'm trying to remember the details, but the back story before we actually was on the way to north carolina. It wasn't too important. It was just a little petty stuff. Like i remember, i wanted to take the plane, but then she told me she didn't have any money to buy or she didn't want to buy a plane ticket. So i was thinking like all right. Well, whatever, if a girl, i am, i always find a way like so somebody's like. Oh, i don't got. I don't got plane ticket money, but i still want to go i'ma just pick all right. I'M i'm working around that person now that i'm thinking back on a story, though this might have been her way of trying to like get out of the trip without i don't know, but my whole thing is you're a grown woman and i'm a very straightforward person. So like, unless you speak on it, i'm going to pretend like i don't even know what's going on, like you say you don't got the money to fly, but you still want to come so, okay, i'm going to figure out how we can drive. I end up taking my car to the mechanic, so i can get my car tuned up and everything because i'm like all right, if i'm gon na drive my car all the way down eight hours away, at least let me get a tune-up and make sure everything's Good to pick my car up, it ended up being like 400 out of my pocket, long story short after all the petty stuff. If you want to really, if you want to hear the in-depth backstory go ahead and click the video it will be in the description box and yeah, i told all the details because it was fresh when it happened and think of every little detail off the top Of my head, you get me, you feel me, okay, moving on so she um. So i ended up getting my car, my car together, and it was time for us to um to go hey that we left to go to north carolina. It was a normal funny thing about. It was though we had. We had discussed on going half on some mary jane and she was gon na. Give me half of the money for gas because, like i'm a grown woman, you're a grown woman, if you don't have the means to come, you shouldn't have faked whatever i don't know where her pocket situation was like, but i feel like a simple conversation again. I was young and done back then, and i'm telling a story now. So that way, all my young girls who are not as dumb as me can make sure they don't make the same mistakes as me: okay, okay, so she we're driving and the whole eight hour. She gives me like twenty dollars in gas, now twenty dollars in gas, and we stopped a couple times like don't add up to anything, i planned on getting a room for the first night that we had got there. So she agreed to give me half of the room um. She never gave me the money for the half of the room. My aunt even bought us lunch like i was like sis i already you already rubbing me the wrong way, but back then i was so non-confrontational because i was insecure about what i was feeling i always used to feel like. It'S probably me who's the problem and that that stemmed from other stuff, i used to always just like yo shut up, because you don't want to lose this friend. You know just to really really really care about losing my friends back then fast forward. We get the hotel room, we had a great time at the hotel. We i was introducing her my peoples, the dude ended up buying us like dinner, or something from the moment we got to north carolina. It was a lot going on. My car had got a flat tire on the way there, so that has set us back on our schedule. Like two hours, we were on the side of the highway dancing and whatever, and then um we had to do a lot of running around. I remember we went to go, get our nails done because i have broke my nail: go to the nail salon and, like i paid for my nails, we're walking out and the lady is like chasing us because she didn't pay so like now that i'm grown and I'M like reflecting back on the story. She was trying to just fake fake the funk and try to keep up with me because, like i said, i'm an entrepreneur, i always have cash flows, so her at 23 was probably looking at me. Who was only 19 like sid? I can't tell y'all what she was thinking, but what it seemed like now that i'm looking back on the story, she probably didn't have the money that she was pretending like she had. It was all very weird. She wasn't really trying to cooperate right so fast forward. We finally get to charlotte for the party, so the night that we're partying now keep in mind. I said it was ashley's nasty 19. It was all the lingerie and we're getting tonight progressed on. I'M on facebook live, i'm recording the night, then my live views. I used to get like thousands of people on my live, so i'm more live and people are like. Oh, your friend is tripping like they keep commenting, but me being the person that i am. These are the two things i was thinking. First of all i was like yo, i'm probably drunk, and i probably like they're, probably tripping or i was just like: no, they don't know they don't really understand the situation. You know what i mean always trying to give people the benefit of the doubt so everybody's commenting on my life, like yo, watch out for her she's, acting crazy, whatever whatever and i'm brushing it all um. I remember we're all drinking one. Guy he's like trying to talk to me and i'm like i'm entertaining him a little bit because, like whatever all the girls had went to the back room for whatever reason pulled me aside and she's, like you got money, all you got, ta do is go in The room and they gon na, give you 500 and i'm on. I was like no i'm not. The type of girl rushed it off, kept, pushing the night ends and the guys are leaving so we're all standing outside, and here fiona go again tripping she's like yeah they're, trying to shoot us and i'm like nobody trying to shoot us like. What are you talking about like so she just she kept going off the wall now keep in mind. This is the first time i was ever drinking with this girl, and i know that wine and spirits can get into people's spirits and make them why alcohol can really change people for the worse and again that ain't, my business. But this is the first time i got drunk. I was seeing a whole different side of this girl that i had never ever ever seen. I didn't like it. I didn't like it at all. It was like 10 million red flags all at once. It was overwhelming me so bad the girls ended up going out to eat. It was like three four o'clock in the morning. By the time everything settled down. Everybody went to waffle house and i was like yo. I'M gon na go to sleep, so i go in the back room and i'm like okay cool i'm gon na relax and fiona was out in the in like the living room area where the party was going on. She was hanging out with ashley's, uncles and stuff. She out there acting like she's acting totally different and i'm hearing her hair. Like yeah. I wasn't gon na drive my car because i was about to put all my mouse on it and i forgot to mention this, but fiona had tried to tell me that her mom told her. She wasn't allowed to take the car because the car wasn't her mom's name. She gave me this elaborate story, i'm overhearing this and i'm like, so i had just simply texted her. Like hey sis, you know, i'm not asleep. I don't think she's seen my message. So he's still blabbing and annoying, so i'm just listening like huh and she like yeah, i got stuff to do on monday and i got ta make sure i'm gon na be home and what it's pretty much like sunday morning, i'm hearing her talking all this sugar Honey ice station got ta be somewhere. No, no! No! I listened to the whole conversation. She didn't hyped herself up so much that she felt bold enough to come in the room she busted in the room and she like yesterday, we got ta leave because i was like i'm not going anywhere like we need to sleep like we're not about to drive. Eight hours, and neither one of us has slept yeah. That'S not that's, not smart, that's not safe, i'm not doing it. I have brought an air mattress and all these different comfort comforters, because the the whole plan was we were going to stay the night. You knew about these plans at least a month in advance, so if you have something to do on monday, you shouldn't have came like because i'm on my own time, you're on my time so she's snapping and me being an anxious person and when i was younger There was no there's, no talking nothing out like sis who are you talking to. Oh, we got ta fight, so she's talking and i was like yo, i'm not gon na fight her because we still got ta get back to philly like i was trying to just successfully get back home because i already knew after how the weekend went. I already knew sis was getting cut off. I was done. She was done a little bit more of us arguing it goes on and on and i'm finally just like whatever come on you're driving now like so we stopped. She stopped at the guest and she's like yeah. We need gas and she's just like waiting for me to pay. All of this is rubbing me the wrong way. I'M i'm tired, i'm irritated so i'm just like i'm not even talking i'm just like in the car. Like rolling up cause, i was about to smoke at that point, because sis was, she was two seconds away from right on the spot, but you know what whatever it's not even light outside it. Yet we finally get on the highway and we're going, and i like i said i had just smoked, eating off and trying to just get some sleep, because i already knew i was gon na have to drive in a couple hours like we're, passing a hotel and She'S, like hey, let's get a room and i'm like no at this point so like heck. No, we are not getting a room, especially because you just made me leave my friends and i don't even get to say bye to my friends. You buy that's dead, so so we're driving. She said it and i was like half asleep, so i don't even pay no attendant, but then i just remember her hands was in my pants like yes, this [ __ ] [ __ ] molested me yo. I was like no like don't touch me like so now, i'm literally furious like not only did you ruin my weekend. You just violated me like on top of already trying to get me to like prostitute or something like you know what i mean in my brain. All i'm thinking of is isaiah get home just get home like because i got a pass of being just down. I didn't want to have to i didn't have to. I didn't have to do it. I did not want to do it. I didn't trust me. I did it a couple more hours goes by. I was sleep in my car, you know - and i just was woken up just like that, like this, it's not funny but watching this story back like this is really my life like. I can't make this [ __ ] up, so i remember when i woke up, i'm like what the heck happened. She'S like nothing, we're fine and, as i'm waking up waking up, the guy was like. Are you guys? Okay and she was like yeah and he was pulling off like she was finishing up talking to him or something so i was like whatever i'm like what happened, and i don't remember what she told me, but she told me whatever she told me, i was like: Okay, we're driving, and you hear that, like you can hear the car like, i don't know how to explain it, but you could tell there was something on the wheel. So this had the car and she's like. Oh, nothing, it's just a little dent. So i'm like. Okay, whatever still trying to brush it off because, like i said in my brain cis, your time has expired. You are working on thin ice, we drive a little bit and then we stop again and she gets out and she's like. Oh nothing. It'S just a little dead and when she said that, that's the time that i got out so when i got out of the car - and i got let me go to the video and so i got out the car - and i see the front of my car And it looks like this so then i see the back of my car and it looks like this. Do you all know how pissed off i was like literally pissed off was an understatement, so i called my mom, i'm like you. I was seeing black at that point. I wasn't there ain't no talking, it wasn't as bad as i i blew it up, but it was definitely bad because you definitely my car. So i'm calling my mom i'm telling her my mom's kind of just trying to tell me to get home, but i'm like mom. We can't drive eight hours with the car. Looking like this, you can hear the wheel hitting something like if we would have drove home. I would have [ __ ] around my bumper would have been falling off by the time i got home, so we called my keyshia um, i'm just sitting there like thinking of everything i could have done different, i'm sitting in a car like, and i think she In the car i was outside of the car or one of the two, but we neither we weren't sitting next to each other. By this point, and i'm just thinking, oh, i could have did differently because i'm like yo this girl, she got me yo. She got me tore up later working full time at 18. I have fully supported myself. I think that when people see that for themselves that i really don't like i'm not getting money from my parents, i'm not doing some secretive business like yo. I think she was like looking hating or something right when my aunt was about to pull up. She got real, bold and here she go out of the car she get out. The car on the phone saw something yeah she's overreacting. I was just thinking she's crazy. So my iphone gets there and i'm telling my i'm just talking about an awesome off and off and off and off how she touched me and how she's on the phone she's talking all this crap. I think she said something she was gaslighting. She i was telling my aunt what happened like yeah. She was touching on me and then she crashed my car and she's like no, that's not how it happened. Ah yo, i don't remember what the last thing she said, but all i remember was jumping over my eye. Torelli yo, i'm by the beach some nails i didn't um. You know i didn't kind of drove her a little bit. We fighting. She didn't pull my hair. She didn't rip my shirt on the side of the highway. She couldn't calm me down, she's like breaking it up and keisha is very strong, but, like you know what i mean he's like saying chilled out you still whatever whatever, because i got in trouble north carolina before it's like that was like it's not right there, like. Okay, whatever, like the tow truck finally pulls up, the cop is standing with the tow truck. Both of us is all looking like. I got this guy with my. My shirt is all ripped. I'M all shook enough. You could clearly tell that she just got like her ass beat, and the cop is like is everything: okay, i'm like yeah everything's cool, like my eyes, like yeah, everything's, fine officer, we're all sitting here and i'm just like home [, __ ], i'm about to be Dressed again, wait till the cop leave i'm about to beat it again. They finally told my car and i'm like sitting here looking at my car like yo. This is probably the last time i see you baby like i was pissed off, but i knew in the back of my head that this wasn't it wasn't about to happen. How i wanted to go. I'M telling keisha like yeah she's, not getting in the car like she's gon na, have to stay here all the while she's, like still talking like you, were overreacting and i could have paid for it. I'M hearing all this, but it's like sis. How could you pay for my car and you couldn't even buy your own food? Since, how do you pick my car? You couldn't even pay for your nails to get done. This is how can you pay for my car and you didn't even have gas money? It'S not making sense, it's not adding up to me. We get in the car and i'm like sitting in the front seat quiche like yeah. We can't leave her there before we got in the car taking out all her purse because i'm, like i ain't, going to see no money from you like you, ain't got no money to get dropped. Then then wear her stuff over. I was so mad. I wanted to kill her like i'm doing, goosebumps telling the story, i'm such a changed person. People, don't even understand, finally drives me to my other aunt's house doing this coming at the time my aunt was like yeah, i'm gon na take her to bus station and i was screaming direction better, not buy her no bus ticket. She can find her way home. That'S my audition. She drove her to the bus station now before they were about to leave. I had realized. I couldn't find my wallet. I was like. Oh, this got my wallet and she knows that i'd be having money like tears ran outside i'm like yo check. Her purse right now, so i i um, i opened the door because i was really about to drag her again like the car and she's like she's, not allowing me to get her out the car, both my aunts just trying to pull me off, and i was So angry, i don't know where this strength came from, but i'm like getting them off me like get over me and i'm like trying to get her. So you know how like the back seat of a car, i open this door. She ends up getting out the other side, so she left her purse get her purse and she didn't have my wallet, but i seen she had stole all of my makeup now. Like i said my makeup is my livelihood. That'S that's my work. That was my hustle at the time of all, i seen was black against [ __ ]. I i think i emptied her bag out and i'm like ripping her purse apart and whatever in my eyes. I say it's not worth it and i'm like. I don't care. I don't care that it is worth it because she had so much time to not do this later. That day, ashley had told me she was like yeah fiona hit me up and said: y'all got a car accident or something and whatever and i'm like yo. What did she say and she was like she said: she's gon na call me, so i'm gon na record it when she calls me - and i want you guys to keep in mind that this phone call happened after like me and her fault and everything else like We'Re not we're not talking so she's, not going to talk a lot of [ __ ] like this. Are you still in north carolina? Yes, i am, and then my mother had to go, get my car to drive down here to pick me up because her car's like really messed up right, it's not really messed up. She blew everything out of proportion. Listen to it again. She said. I guess i blunt too hard. I don't know i hit the rail like the railing. You hit the railing side, were you like? Did you fall asleep or like? Were you tired, a little drunk um, i'm i'm gon na get tired, yeah yeah. I mean i wouldn't remind you guys, spending that night, you guys gon na spend the night, because i'm straight up tell y'all when i asked fiona how my car got crashed and stuff like that. She had no words for me. She didn't know how it happened, but to ashley she was trying to make it seem like she was innocent, but all i know was she was lying lying um. She never got my car fixed um and i also i had her location share each other's location. So she had forgot to turn it off, so she literally stayed in north carolina at the bus station, no lie for like a day and a half like not my proudest moment, but this is don't [ __ ] me, okay, that is the end of my storytime. If you were in this situation, what would you have done? Would you have done differently? Would you have not fought her? What would you have done? Let me know in the comments down below if you did enjoy watching this video and you do want to see more story times, make sure you get my channel big thumbs up, because it does help boost my channel, and let me know that you are liking. The content that i'm putting out um subscribe, so you see more of me and then go ahead and click that bell so that way, you're notified every single time i upload and until next time. More of the story, though, don't let nobody don't let don't allow do not tolerate anybody taking you there, don't don't let don't give people that power over you, okay, something that i've learned with since having my son and certain things still trigger me, but i do a Very good job of staying away from my triggers and the things that i cannot avoid that trigger me. I don't allow them to take me there, so i will walk away from things. I'Ll hang up the phone. If i need to i'll cry if i need to, but i don't allow people to take me to those those heights of of feeling which is usually anger because yeah i don't want to be angry woman and i sure, as hell, don't want to be no got. Darned angry black woman in america, sup i've been doing my job to develop myself and you know just do things that make me and keep me happy and feeling like it's. Okay, i'm worth it you're worth it. If things make you feel some type of way, then it makes you feel some type of way. Don'T let nobody convince you. Otherwise, if you feeling some type of way about it, go ahead and feel that way. If you feel some type of way about it tell them to mind a business okay, but that's that don't ever compromise your feelings. Best thing last thing: i said it ain't my proudest moment it's a moment that i'm sharing with you, i think that's everything, peace, love and blessings. Everything is love on this channel. You already know, don't know the vibe. So without further ado isaiah, the shiny is signing off. Thank you so much for watching. Oh, my mom had to come pick me up. That was it. That was. That was the time i fought on the side of the highway.