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Norte Soares: I used to feel self conscious about talking too much as a kid as well, and now I have a partner who looks at me with love in his eyes every time I start monologuing about something. The people who like who we are always find their way to us

Winter Lilli: this is exactly how i’ve felt my entire life. since elementary school i’d have “talks too much” on my teachers reports. i understand i shouldn’t be disruptive but they crushed my spirits so much by generally just being mean about it. my 3rd grade teacher used to find excuses to yell at me and i’d cry in her class almost every day. i don’t think people understand that this can affect a kid. a better solution could be to say “hey right now we are doing something important, can we please discuss this another time” and that would be so much nicer to hear as a kid. but constantly being told i talked too much made me become a bit antisocial. instead of suppressing a kids personality, encourage them to do these behaviors at a different time.

Cameron Fairchild: I admire so many things about you- most of all, your honesty and kindness, towards yourself and others. I had a greatly similar experience in my youth, even as far as the way you felt about how others were perceiving you. I am still working on the way I address myself (verbally, or internally)-to be kinder to me, so that I can then extend that compassion to others. However, I’m proud to say that I have come a long way since I began my healing process. ❤Keep these vibes coming

Christine E: I relate so hard, even down to the losing my voice when I'm not sick.

Christie Godfrey: I always talked a lot as a kid, I even got the nickname chatterbox… I still talk a lot, that’s why I loved my job as a secretary I got to talk all day! Then I lost my voice for 4 months, I felt fine but could hardly make a sound. After many doctors and specialists I was told I had nodules on my vocal cords from over using and abusing my voice. 8 weeks of speech therapy, vocal exercises my voice came back and has been fine ever since.

Shonia of the Dead: Fun fact: There are people that love listening to you talk. ^_^

Tiny Wolf: shes literally speaking my entire life... im still in that habit where I try not to talk because I know no one cares... my mom still tells me to shut up because I talk too much... im 22...

blaH blah blah: A lottt of people love to hear you talk! I get so happy seeing you pop up in my shorts bc I know I’m gonna get a burst of positive energy and probably positive advice from an interesting person! Thank you for sharing your voice with us (even if it’s almost gone lmao)

Muichirō Tokitō: I've felt this my entire life, and now I barely talk. Whenever I lose my voice I get so glad that I don't have to talk anymore, but I also get sad. I usually only talk to my friends and they like hearing my voice, but I still rarely talk. Also, off topic, but I finally got a transmasc haircut and your videos really helped me get that confidence boost to ask my mum for it. After months of trying I finally got it, and I'm glad that I found your channel!!

Chloe Draws: My goal in life is to be an amazing parent like you are when I am older ❤

CameronCatGamer 23: The talking thing is still happening to me

Kermit😍: Those colors look amazing on you! Love the pastels ❤

Chris: i love that i came to the same realization so recently and knowing that im not alone in it is sooo comforting. coming from a family of a single working mom with bipolar rage i learned quick at home and school that people would find me annoying for the amount i like to talk after being alone all the time

The longest comment: I think ppl who talk a lot are awesome. I'm more of a listener and don't talk much but I love ppl who don't mind that bc the like to talk. That looks too talk and I like to listen so it's just a good duo usually

Bella Hernandez: i can relate entirely. it both makes me happy and sad to hear other people go through what i have. and i love your haircut!

Rachael Hill: I certainly can't speak for others but, as for me, I enjoy listening to you talk and it sucks you lost your voice. Hopefully it returns soon.

mystic wolf: i hated when i’d do my eyebrows and they they’d get partially wiped off from a hoodie or something. i started using this waterproof eyebrow makeup during the summer for swimming but i just never stopped using it. it works so well, doesn’t smudge at all, lasts so long, and it enhances the hair that is already there while also filling in missing spots which makes it look more natural

Autumn Hunley: Tori I just think you're absolutely amazing, I'm not a mom (an awesome very very hands on aunt) nor am i married or have the balls to do my hair in all the styles and colors I want like you do, my point we may seem to have very little in common on the surface but I love LOVE your views thoughts beliefs in raising kids. And like I said I don't even have kids. Like THATS HOW AWESOME you are. NO all your content is not about parenting or you're beliefs and all that, those are the first videos that pulled me in and then I kept watching and I enjoy and learn and like watching her videos on a lesson learned thru parenting or her way of parenting and teaching and raising her children. I dunno I think I'm jus blabbering on now so whatever let me rein it in TORI YOU ARE AWESOME AND AMAZING AND THE ABSOLUTE "SHIZZ" I CAN LISTEN TO YOU NON STOP NEVER ANNOYING. AND DO U HAVE A PODCAST TOO??

Caryn: I, for one, absolutely LOVE hearing you talk! Hope you get your voice back soon

Clara Berg: I'm the exact same way when it comes to talking. I lost my voice during Thanksgiving and I was dying. It's SO hard to not talk!!! I literally talk put loud to myself on a regular basis hahah

cssruth: This was so validating. Thank you. I talk so much that when I was a kid the lunch lady had a nick name for me. She called me "Chatterbox" for the entirety of my elementary school years.

unrealistic business: I still feel this way.. almost everyone I meet calls me a "chatty cathy". But I've had alot of life experiences and I'm a very thoughtful person. I have lots of stories and opinions and advice.. I'm still (at 27-halfway to 28) questioning every thing I say and what people thought of it

It’s Your Daddy!: You are actually the most beautiful and amazing person on TikTok and YouTube shorts (inside and out). I can’t explain to you how much I admire your way of parenting. Sometimes I have my moments where I wish I had a parent growing up like you. Everyone isn’t perfect I know but it’s just so refreshing to see someone be so understanding and caring towards their kids. Also, I love that you talk a lot. I do too! I always have the best conversations with people and sometimes I don’t. You have a lot to say but every word that comes out is just… real! (idk how to explain that last part haha)

TransformativeGreenSpaces TGS: I love your self hair cut videos. And I always am amazed that beliefs I formed when I was younger...I can choose to believe something else ( my therapist helps) now. Thanks for talking about that, and thanks for sharing=)

Amalya: Dude I am the same way! I had bronchitis a few months back and physically could not talk (no sound was coming out), but I still tried a lot. I never shut up and I don’t care ☺️

Elm Rune: I lost my voice too! I’ve had to whisper for the whole day, I hate losing my voice because I love sing, this made me feel less alone thank you❤️

Shannon Brumley: I've heard it my whole life too. Heck, my own mom as long as I can remember has said I started talking at 8 months old and haven't shut up since . I can laugh about it now bc Ive learned to love that about myself bc it's just part of who I am and what makes me unique. I'm blessed with a spouse who thinks it's adorable and just lets me ramble on about anything and everything. I don't really ever remember him telling me I talk too much . I'm also diagnosed schizoaffective and have an issue with volume control . At 42 years old I have accepted my quirks and try not to take offense when I get around people who don't understand or accept me, and I remind myself that I don't have to be liked or understood by everyone, just like I don't have to like or be around everyone. I can politely excuse myself from any situation that makes me uncomfortable or threatens to trigger any episodes. And even if I can't, those who love and understand me CAN. (That's including literally the best boss on the planet). It's taken me DECADES to get to this point and I'm proud of myself for not letting years of teachers and adults in authority and coworkers and bosses and other idiots opinions and snide comments permanently affect my attitude towards myself or stop me from doing something I feel I can do. And I have taught my now adult children (two out of three share my mental health issues) throughout their lives to love themselves and their uniqueness and don't let it get to them when people try to make them feel like they should be ashamed or change something they literally can't. We can't change or control other's actions, but we CAN control our response and where our ass sits! Lol. Btw .. you are seriously the most absolutely adorable individual, full of wisdom and humor, and I love watching your videos. So keep it up!

Victoria Thompson: I love how much you talk! And I think so far everything you’ve said is interesting, or maybe I just like listening to people. Either way it’s why your videos are amongst my favorite <3

Villian_Deku: I feel this so much. Alot of my family just dosent want me to talk. It's the hole "child should be seen not heard" mindset but now that I'm a teen I'm trying to to be more out and open and talkative. It's hard when they give off the key body languages I can pick up on ware they don't want me to talk. (It's hard for me to pick up on most so when I do notice those I feel really bad and either let them talk or shut up)

Kilsoph: Honestly as an introvert, i am more comfortable around people who talk a ton than those who are more quiet because i feel more open to talking and it feels like there is a lot more that we can ramble about together- and not only that, when im feeling non-verbal, its nice to be able to just listen to them talk about things they have on their mind or are passionate about because i really enjoy the energy, and i feel like people also enjoy those who are willing to listen to them ramble lol

Amber Duran: I personally love to hear you talk, and I look forward to your videos, and podcasts ❤️ Thank you. You have opened my eyes on so many topics.

Breann Hill: Girl you do parenting stuff…I’m not a parent nor am going to be one ANY time soon and I still LOVE your videos because I like the way you talk and articulate yourself so yeah maybe some people don’t wanna hear what you have to say but I bet y’a a lot more do

☆Įbûkï Mîøđã☆: I have that same problem, I also have ADHD. I have the "you're just being lazy" and the "can you stop talking/repeating yourself?" And I'm really self conscious about it. Thank you!

Maggie Case: I love that you're so confident in cutting your hair, I think I'm gonna try. And mines super long so I have some room for errors

Marina Joy: I love how all the colors in your hair look! It’s a nice pastel rainbow :D

SeaJelly: Happy for you that you are no longer needing to mask, and that we get to benefit too!

insertnamehere: I'm the exact opposite, I almost never talk. Unless I'm with someone I trust very much. I actually prefer to be around people who love to talk and I add something semi frequently. I think we would get along great. People have weird preferences like goldilocks not too much and not too little.

DeadlyHuggles: That soft pink looks so good on you! I love the cotton candy but the pink is amazing on it's own too

tommie grooms: I also was self-conscious about talking to much and also being to loud. Growing up my dad was always really loud when he spoke so I had trouble gauging when I was talking too loud. When I got scolded or bullied for talking too much or too loud I would write lists on how to keep myself from talking too much. Only speak when spoken to, don't laugh at people's jokes (my laugh was apparently obnoxious too) etc. I don't really remember how I got over it ig I just naturally stopped caring as I got older ‍♀️

Blurrimoon: I like youre Voice. I have The same thing, i talk a lot and Even My mother sayed that i was The Clown of The kindergarden. I felt Bad about that i like to talk and not Be alone on The corner.

NicoAlexander: I've grown up the same way. The crashing embarrassment and guilt I feel for talking is something I still deal with every day.

Jakivara: Talking is how I express my emotions, I talk about nothing and everything and "Hey wanna hear a weird fact of the day?" Its like i like my voice and I enjoy talking, but i never say anything that is harmful to others. Sometimes I definitely do talk too much and make things awkward by accident cause I do not know how to end conversations, but you just have to find the people that will listen and are excited to hear you talk. My topics may not be interesting, but damnit I'm excited to talk about it

Tearah Jones: Honestly I can't imagine not listening to you you really are amazing you have a lot to say irrelevant or relevant you are amazing stay that way

Laure_lei: Mama, I love to hear you talk. I shared one of your videos with my daughter and she said omg I follow her! And a week later my former son in law called me drunk and really down on himself, really really down on himself and I shared your channel...I said she is a great gentle parent who is learning how to gentle parent herself which is what he needs... he's also a great gentle parent but so hard on himself... and he said omg I love her, I follow her! Never stop talking (except if you need to, your poor voice!)!!! Also your hair is perfect no matter what. #cuteasabutton

Gelareh Mohebbi: My sister and nieces all lost their voices too but none feel sick. Apparently my sister's friends and all their kids did too... but none of them did do anything to make them lose their voices so I wonder if something is going around. Anyway hope your voice comes back soon cause I thoroughly enjoy listening to you!! Also haircut looks fantastic❣️

Emily Decker: I relate to this a lot! I wish people wouldn’t tell kids that they talk too much of that they talk too loud all the time, I’m still insecure about that stuff as an adult

Lifewithkym: Oh my goodness. My family hardcore used to make fun of me when I was little and they’d sing this song “you talk too much” about me and fuck they made me so incredibly insecure, so I literally stopped talking in group settings and I only talked when I felt comfortable, or when I truly felt like someone cared about what I was saying. - kids at school literally called me a mute, because I was terrified of talking and being made fun of… I’m 31 now and I’m still so freaking insecure, especially around my family… my husband has really helped me work through things but yeah… people suck.

Butter raccoon: I love how talkative you are I don't get too talk much, but I really like people who do They show so much personality and I'm someone who listens to everything and show that I do So people who talk loves it

Alelee: Love, if you are worried about your brows, maybe try getting them micro or nano bladed! I’m sure you could find a salon to collaborate with! I was so hesitant to get mine, and now I do it every other year. And it doesn’t really hurt much!

Slothy_fox: I also lost my voice! But the unfortunate part is I have an important concert this Friday (January 6th) and I currently can’t sing. So hoping I get better. Hope you get your voice back too Tori!

Ashlee Rae: I remember people telling me to be quiet all the time and saying I talk to much. I still can be insecure, but I really try to approach things way differently with my kids.

Ellie Owens: I'm Really shy of introverted so I love it when other people talk a lot cuz that means that I don't have to steer the conversation at all and I can just hop in

Higgins_Forever: I’m glad you like to talk cause I love to listen and observe and understand others. It also helps me get out of my head. So thank you for talking all the time.

Mick Efy: I love how you now have thousands of people deliberately seeking you out to hear what you have to say.

Tatiana Granger: Wow! That’s exactly as I feel. I just got called out for it again by my aunt-but I’m 45! Why do I let it get to me? U thought I’d be better by now!!

Panda Pies: Im so happy to see someone else feel that way about talking

Tahtahme's Diary: Us blabbermouths uniting in this comment section and I love it! I got insecure too, I blame it on my ADHD but I don’t care anymore if others don’t like it…can’t be everyone’s cup of tea!

Bird: I still feel self conscious about talking, my sister's would regularly tell me I needed to have a 100 word a day limit and they'd threaten to punch me or tell on me to mum if I went over it, mum didn't care they where just ass holes But that shit doesn't go away easily

Andidoesart: As someone who also loves too talk and lost my voice for 6 weeks before You got this

Kimberli Cornell: first, do the back with two mirrors, sit between them and tilt them until you can see what you are doing. Second I have ALWAYS gotten grief for talking to much..AND or asking too many questions...55 years old, still getting it. I think you are adorable and would have made a good friend :)

SammieLand: Dude nah, i could listen to you all day, id love to have a convo with you. Not only that but youre an amazing person who i think is lovely but try not to strain your voice i know how hard itd be not being able to talk

Raquel Prieto: Funny, when I was younger I was told I talked too much and even bullied for how I talked due to me not being able to properly pronounce my Rs, now I'm 14 and don't talk enough and when I do talk, people are genuinely surprised. Some people even go as far as to say "Wait, you talk?" Whereas my friends are surprised when I don't talk and always ask what's going on because most of the time I talk too much, especially when I get excited or anxious.

Gabii Reyes: i felt this 100% so much that i started having major panic attacks in high school cause i just could not stop talking and i felt like no one wanted to hear me.

Flame Epidemic 🐷👑: I feel you on the talking. So i stopped talking unless spoken to first till i was 13. (Which you can imagine as someone with adhd that was hard) it caused me to develop social anxiety because i didnt know how to talk but 6 years later and im good at it. I tell too much but everyone liked it unless im extra hyper or had alcohol which makes me talk more and tslk faster then they get mad at me which hurts my feelings so i just dont talk yo people unless its a 1 on 1.

ShoreLineGamrZ1: Omg I've not met anyone who feels the same about talking. Xx it's made me feel a lot better and less self conscious about it. Xx

AmyndonSingsSunshine: This is the energy i aspire to have

SnakeladyGreta: Oh wow!!! I wish my dad was still alive, partially so I could send this to him. ❤

Bob Ross: This…. This made me really happy and validated. Thank you. Instant subscribe.

Sage: Same! I still try to make myself stfu and don't always realize I'm doing it till ppl ask why I'm so quiet lol

alicia majo: I grew up getting yelled at for talking too much or too loudly. I still feel scared of talking too much or too loud. But I make it a point to absolutely listen yo people, especially children. Don't tell this shit to your kid. It's going to fuck them up forever.

Heartwork By Kitty: I relate to the talking to much thing and it’s effect on my childhood so deeply

Barbara Inman: You're rocking the cotton candy, love it! Oh, & talk away! Love that as well also

LaCroix: I relate completely with the childhood insecurity of talking too much

Neka Trammell: You are amazing! I love hearing you talk! Please keep going!!

AbnormalIySwaggy: What you said about talking as a kid. Oh my goodness I don't believe I've related more. My whole family loves to talk. But I feel exactly the way you used to. I would always accidentally blurt out something stupid, or I couldn't shut up. I WANT to but I can't no matter how hard I try. And I'm so insecure because people think it's annoying.

ami :P: im the complete opposite! as a child, i rarely talk. now i do talk a little more but its bc i feel pressured to talk. everyone around me expects me to talk and say something which then leads to my habit of oversharing. its not like i hate talking, i just prefer being the listener in a conversation and talk if necessary

Chloe S: I felt the same exact way my dad mom and sister always made me feel so bad for ever opening my mouth and my aunt as well it made me never wanna talk now everyone just says how quiet I am.

Ayeeeee: I like talking when I have someone to talk to. My brothers don't like listening to me talk. Idk if my friends actually care to listen to me because I'm the shy friend. So it's probably weird but I talk to myself or just outloud to no one or my doggo. But idk anymore.

Nicole Y: I want you to be my hair dresser. Not because you’re good at hair (you are) but I am not always amazing at conversation, so I wouldn’t mind an overly chatty hair dresser!

Cat Mom: Omg you're awesome!! Love your shorts..!! Happy new year

Carly Trahan: keep being YOU keep talking...people love you

Jennifer Goins: I love hearing you talk!!!

Panda Pies: Im legit crying over the talking like... Youre a good mom and im planning our first child with my husband. To have another mom say thatt..... Girl. You AINT ANNOYING YOURE AWESOME

kikoizme: My son loves to talk. I try not to tell him he talks to much. My spin is that he's a talker and sometimes I need a break

Xy lo: This is sweet I relate I've been shut down so many times I've tried hard to be quiet too I want to learn to not care that people think im annoying

Mami Carter: LOVEEEEE your makeup and shirt

Ladyzeebs: I talk to much, always have, when I was in the 7th grade the teacher called my mom to complain about it ,all my mom did was say "she comes by it honestly" and hung up

Empress Ventress 👑: Hey, I like your talking because I find you interesting, entertaining and informative. Thanks for talking and get well soon.

bubbles3109: While I guess we’re twins because I also lost my voice and I sound like a grandma hope you get your voice back soon ❤

Addie C: I love hearing you talk!

ANNA: You are simply too cute and fun. You talk so fast I have to really concentrate...

Liz: I love listening to you talk!

I’m allergic to Tomatoes: I’m so easily excited by the littlest things and always talk to you loud and too much.

Snow The Wolfskypup🥳BDAYBOI🎊: Gahhh you're such an awesome parent and a person

Rae H.: I get told I talk a lot too LOL. Let’s bake cookies and talk a lot

TriceEraTops: While this won't be true for everyone, it's worth mentioning: it you're AFAB and have this problem, there's a chance you have ADHD. Instead of bouncing off the walls, we talk, and typically very fast. If you have the gift of gab, but do not have ADHD, I highly recommend finding friends who do. My friends and I talk over each other, get louder when we're excited, and spend hours talking about the most random things. You aren't the problem. You deserve friends who love and accept you.

draí: i’m the same way people still tell me i’m too loud and i talk too much ☹️

Sammie H: People told me the same thing as a kid and it made me feel the same way about it

Angrygayturtle: Around my family or new people I always feel so awkward about talking to much cuz they always tell me I need to calm down and let other people talk, so now anytime I'm talking a lot(even around people I know I can talk a lot around)I stop myself and ask if I'm talking to much and being annoying which I realize is more annoying than talking to much but its such a habit now I can't help it I also do it typing, I don't have to be talking to talk to much...

Jester_the_Skully: I was talking with my grandma one time and it was a while sense I got to see her so I kept talking and she yelled at me to shut up because I talk to much. I am also pretty loud sometimes so I feel bad about that. So I am normally pretty quiet around most adults and people I don’t know